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48. The world is full of distractions and it's time to go all in on your Soul's Purpose: here is exactly how you can answer the call
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Hi babes!
Okay, things just keep getting more and more wild in the media, in the US, on the world stage and instead of giving our attention, focus, energy, life force away to distractions, it's time to tune back into ourselves.
Now more than ever it's important that you tune all of your energy back into yourself so that you can be strong and healthy (physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally) to be stable in who you are at the soul level and ultimately be of service to others.
It's time to be creating the things that you know you want to create, expressing the things you want to express, stepping into the version of yourself you know you want to be.
Purpose can be ambiguous so in this episode I teach you the 4 components of Purpose and exactly how you can start living a Purposeful life today.
Ready to feel empowered, fired up, in tune with your intuition and discernment, fulfilled, impactful, intentional, and driven? You want to miss this one!
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Introduction to the Podcast
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Hello, my friend. Welcome to the It's Happening For Me podcast. If you are obsessed with all things spirituality, personal growth and development, and living as your highest self, you are in the right place. I am your host, Alyssa, and I spent the majority of my teenage years and young 20s living totally out of climate. As I started to question my patterns and behaviors and actually got to know myself at the soul level, I realized that everything was happening for me. Now, as a spiritual life coach and human design guide, I am here to share my voice, personal stories, human design wisdom, and learn from incredible individuals living their purpose. Join me each week as we walk the spiral path of purpose together. I cannot wait to dive in.
Navigating Political Chaos
00:00:58
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Hello, my friend. Oh, my goodness. I am so happy you're here. Welcome back to the It's Happening for Me podcast. I'm your host, Alyssa. And if you are a regular, hey, girl. And if you're new here, welcome, welcome. So happy Sunday, happy Monday, happy Tuesday, whatever day you're listening to this Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday. I hope you're having like a really great day and I hope this podcast finds you exactly when you need it, exactly when you need a little fire under your booty to really commit to yourself to go all in on your purpose and living your life's work because
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We need you to. Okay, we need you to, girl. like there is if If you live in America or if you're even watching anything that's happening in America, things are pretty wild. It honestly feels like a joke. It feels like we're living in a movie and it's super embarrassing. um We have our like primary elections coming up. and I 100% am not going to vote for either of the two primary candidates. um But I think what's really important right now is that honestly, it doesn't matter what's going on in the media. It doesn't matter what's going on in the news. It doesn't matter how things are spinning themselves to make people feel even more divided, even more helpless, even more
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scared, fearful, outraged, all of these just emotions that are trying to become like stirred up and really guide the collective into more
Importance of Self-Healing
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suffering. That doesn't matter, right? Like, okay, cool. Like we've seen this before. This is nothing new. So what really matters, I think, is getting very clear on our purpose and doing the individual healing work to embody our fullest expression to be our fullest selves to realize that now is the time like there is no more hiding out there's no more reason to be scared to to step into the things that you really want to do and to go out after your actual real passions and to stop
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living a mediocre shit life. like If you are not happy in your job, if you're not happy in your relationship, if you don't feel like your life is being fulfilled or you're living up to your highest potential, The best thing that you can do for yourself right now is shut out everything else that is going on outside of us because it can feel like what is the point if we don't have control over all of these things, right? And we're not going to have control over them. But instead, we have control over where our energy goes and where our attention goes. And so the most important thing that you can do for yourself right now is put all of your freaking attention, energy, life force,
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into yourself, into your healing, into your growth, and into actually taking action and living your freaking purpose.
A Spiritual Awakening
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And I feel so lit up, you guys. I had this really wild, really wild spiritual experience last night when I was driving home. And I want to share that with you. So I put on something like something like triggered my memory yesterday. And I was like, oh, Coldplay, I haven't listened to Coldplay in many, many years. And so um I like put on this playlist to listen to and then I just like never listened to it. But then last night when I was driving home, um I was feeling a little overwhelmed, just so
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wherever you are in the world, if you're in America or out of America, you probably saw that. um So our primary election is Donald Trump and Joe Biden, which I'm absolutely not voting for either of them. But politics, it doesn't really matter. But last night, someone attempted to shoot Donald Trump at a um rally. And so me and my boyfriend just like kind of talking about it. And then I was like driving home and I just felt like overwhelmed with a sense of like, like a kind of like did the veil being lifted like completely and just being like what the fuck is going on like when I was younger I 100% was like super ah basically indoctrinated we can use that word into like believing that the government has our best interest in mind and believing that um
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they want the best for us and that our president would be the most intelligent, um the most reasonable, the most honest, the most um just like high value person, right? Like, I mean, I think it's pretty, I think we think that the person who's gonna be in charge of running a country should be one of the most just like intelligent centered good people. but obviously I know that that was that's not the truth and it's just so funny with like the freaking candidates that we have now just like seeing how everything is going it's just honestly like wow it's like it's just crazy it's just crazy and I had this weird um I had this feeling and like this knowing come over me from spirit that like okay we cannot outsource our
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Like we cannot outsource our trust into anything outside of ourselves. Like if anything, this is the biggest lesson to teach us that like we have to go all in on our intuition. We have to know ourselves so well and have so much discernment that we can see like a circus of what's going on in the media and completely ignore it and be like, this is just complete bullshit for whatever narrative either side is trying to do to separate everybody. It doesn't really matter. What matters is not getting lost in it and coming back to ourselves and holding our energetic life force in our own bodies and
00:07:00
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channeling that into our purpose. Because anytime that we are super distracted by what's going on outside of ourselves, especially in the government, in the media, it is siphoning our energy, right? It's an energy leak. And it creates us it it creates a feeling of like tired, of lethargy, of confusion, of fear, of uncertainty for the future. And it really takes our power away from thinking that we are capable of creating what we want, because it's like, okay, what's the point if the whole world is going to shit? And it's like, so embarrassing. It's like, what is the point of everything? We're really it's like, no, like the point is, if it's not stronger than ever, is that the point is right now, you guys, that we have to be so convicted on our purpose and on our life's work. And like, just
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Honestly, like the time for excuses are over. like I honestly see this right now as a turning point of us playing small and just being like, you know what? There are a lot of people that need help. There are a lot of people that need healing. There are um so many systems that need to be changed, and it's only going to work if the individual is working at the individual level to change their selves too. um understand their emotions, to regulate their nervous system, to um be able to master their mind, right? like We need to do all of those things for ourselves to master our physical bodies, to take care of ourselves, to take our health back in our own hands. like This is the time more than ever that we trust ourselves and we go all in on ourselves.
Trusting Inner Guidance
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And so if there's something that you've been wanting to create, if there's something you've been wanting to put into the world, if there's some
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something that is coming from your heart that you want to express, now is the time to trust yourself. like we When things like this happen, we look outside of ourselves to see like, okay, like what are they saying? And like what is this side saying? And like reading the comments to see like what does the average American think and what are people's opinions at? And it's like, it doesn't fucking matter where everyone's opinions at, right? The only opinion that matters is yours and you using your own discernment to see that what is going on is just like, again, a circus that we don't need to put our attention into. And so I was driving and I just like was overwhelmed by these emotions because I felt like just like, wow, like,
00:09:27
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It is all on me. and then i had this really So I put on this the Coldplay song and I just started crying because it brought me back to this exact memory, you guys, where I was driving in seventh grade. I was in the backseat of my best friend, Sarah Levine's sister's car, Rachel. She was driving and I think she her boyfriend was in the passenger seat. And like it was so fun because she always had the best music. like That's where I learned like my taste in music was like from them. And I remember it was at night. We were driving. It was dark outside. The windows were down. And so it was like cold, but then she would have the heater on, which was like, I don't know why, but i just that was like a core memory that I love so much. So um we we would drive with the windows down, like the freezing air coming in, but then the heater on keeping us warm, just like blasting music.
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And I remember listening to this Coldplay song. It brought me back to that seventh grade memory. And I was just looking outside my window, feeling so happy, so content in my life. This was before I ever experienced heartache. This was before I ever experienced loss of friends. This was before I ever experienced a friendship wound. This was before I ever experienced um any challenge or heartbreak or um trauma in my life, right? I was so pure, so innocent, so happy. Time stood still. And I remember I was brought back to that exact moment looking out the window and it was like I was there and I was transported back to that time. And then there, I remember that time so distinctly not even realizing that I would listen to the same exact song. How many years later was that? That had to be like, that had to be like 2002.
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So how many years is that? That's like 20 to 22 years later. Let's just say I'm really bad at math, you guys. Let's just say 22 years later for the heck of it. So who would have known that 22 years later I would be driving, listening to The same exact song, I had the windows down, I turned on the heater because it unlocked that core memory for me. And I was just crying because I started seeing every single challenge that's ever came up in my life. All of the heartbreak, all of the betrayal, all of the loss of friends, the friendship wound, moving cross country from Colorado to California and losing all of my friends, having to start over, being bullied, being bullied for being underweight, being bullied for being so pale and white.
00:11:57
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being bullied for having a long neck, being bullied for um just so many reasons. And then seeing my life like deteriorate from alcohol and um all of the people that I hurt and so just every failure, every mistake, every challenge, every heartbreak, every loss. And I was like, Oh my God, like I have experienced a lot, a lot that I could have never imagined that that little girl would ever have to experience.
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and I was crying because it was sad, but then I was also super grateful because then I also started thinking about how much I've grown as a person and the things that I've actually achieved and accomplished and how I've learned how to like use my voice and you know be on this alcohol-free journey and not have alcohol have a hold of me to get over anxiety, to heal depression, to
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have a healthy, thriving relationship, like all of these things. And I realized that through every challenge, there is a breakthrough. And then we unlock a new part of ourselves, right? Which is like straight up Gene Key's teachings. It's like We need these challenges to happen so that we can have the breakthrough and unlock this new part of ourselves that's even more compassionate, more understanding, more loving, um and really learn how to keep our heart open during all of
Empowerment Over External Chaos
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this. And so, um of course, my immediate reaction was like when I saw the Trump thing was to be like, Oh my God, like this is so stupid. This looks so staged. Like this is
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like fuck like I think he might fucking win now because everybody is like supporting him. And again, I don't want either candidate to win. Like I'm not for either of them. But then I allowed myself to open my heart instead of close off. And I also saw this is not about forgiving this man or for feeling like feeling bad for him or um like it's it's It's not like a spiritual bypassing thing, but I truly did like open my heart and have compassion for like, okay.
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why Why is this happening? like If this was real and if it is real or not, it doesn't matter. like Why is this happening? What is going on at the collective level that this sort of thing is happening? And why is this happening to me? And why is this also my fault? right Because um it's so crazy, you guys. that That morning, I drew an Oracle card and it was all about um I want to see if I can find it right now. ah It was all about that um really beautiful Hawaiian tradition of like forgiving others and like forgiving yourself. um I always don't know how to pronounce it, but hopono-pono technique, um where it's a forgiveness technique right and a self-healing practice, but part of it is like you have to put yourself in someone else's shoes and basically like forgive them and take responsibility
00:15:10
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for like you being responsible for whatever happened. um I don't know if that's the exact tradition, but that's just what I got from the the card, um which is from a really beautiful deck. so So I was like, okay, how can I put myself in his position and then take responsibility for saying like, I'm sorry, this is my fault. And I put myself in his shoes and I thought about all the ways that I could have created this or that like are for why our collective consciousness is here. And then I forgave myself. I said, i I'm sorry, I forgive you. So I was like forgiving him, but really I was like forgiving myself as if I was him. And it was pretty like powerful. And um it just made me like go back to this idea that like all of us are wounded from all of the things that we have gone through as children. And for all of the
00:16:09
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There really are reasons why people act certain ways. And it is only through healing at the individual level that we can actually, like I said, change systems. Like it would take Donald Trump to heal at the individual level. for there to be any change in the field of him going on and doing whatever he's going to do in the world. like Nothing that we can do, as much as we want to try to hate him or and hate um Joe Biden, nothing that we do can control them moving through life on their path and their field. The only people that would be able to heal them is themselves.
00:16:49
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And so it's like, okay, that's actually very empowering because it's like, well, we can focus on ourselves and we can focus on if we're healers, if we're coaches, helping others heal at the individual level. And the more that we all do that and have compassion and love and understanding for each other, the more that things are going to change. And again, it doesn't mean forgiving him or um forgiving the like injustices that are being done. it's it's like they need to be held accountable. There has to be justice, there has to be balance. like things have to um I really do believe that like people need to take accountability for things that they do um and there has to be justice for that. But again, we're as like civilians are kind of like out of control and it can feel very overwhelming. And so I think us learning
00:17:38
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Instead of harboring so much hate in our hearts and so much um ill will and so much like resentment, so much embarrassment, so much just dissatisfaction with the way that things are going, that's only hurting ourselves. That isn't hurting them. That's not hurting the amount of people that are going to go vote for them, either one of them, to go into office. right That's not affecting anybody else. It's only affecting us. And so we need to heal our hearts. We need to keep our hearts open and we need to put all of our fucking attention into our purpose and our life's work because that is the only thing that is going to keep us happy and sane. Okay. That is the only thing. And so I, yeah, so I was just driving home, had that experience where I saw myself in that seventh grade car, everything was beautiful. And then I was like going in between the two and being like, Oh my God, like, wow, like little girl, you're going to experience a lot of shit.
00:18:30
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And then um I kind of like had gratefulness, gratitude for all the things that I've experienced. And I just realized that, dude, like we are the only ones in power.
Lessons from Relationships
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And I saw all the ways and all the people flash before my eyes of people that I've given power away to, whether that was like codependent relationships, ex-boyfriends, ex-bosses, ex-friends, where I just like wanted so badly to have like friendships with people who just were not we're Reciprocating that, right? Like it is so painful. The most painful thing to me that I've experienced in my life is like unrequited love. I think that's the word I can say it. Like, especially like as a young girl, you know, when you would like love really feel like it probably wasn't love, but you really felt like you loved loved a boy. And it's like, why isn't he choosing me? And like, he just wasn't choosing you back. That was always like one of the biggest ah struggles I've gone through when I was younger.
00:19:26
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And same thing with friendships. It's like I would like really be so excited to be friends with somebody and be pouring everything into the friendship. And then just being like them just like not reciprocating it or just, yeah, like they're just over it or something happens. And then it's just like, okay. And so um really learning how to in the moments where I feel unsafe, learn how to regulate my own nervous system so that I know that no matter what I still got me and then
00:19:57
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most likely it was just me and my own patterns that were thinking things were going a certain way, whether it was true or not. It's like, I can only control myself. I cannot control other people. And so that has helped me so much, like really looking at all of the people that I've ever been hurt by and seeing how I'm actually grateful for them because it's made me become the person that I am today and have more of a trusting um and like self fulfilling relationship with myself, right? And that's not to say that I don't need people in relationships, especially in my design, in my jean keys as a line four, I thrive with harmonious connections and relationships. Like that's really important for me. And so it's actually taught me that if it's not being reciprocated from my tribe, then I need to find a new tribe, a tribe who also really adores me, who wants to pour time and energy into me. And um yeah, and that's the way that I can stay balanced and healthy.
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And yes, it was a pretty crazy experience, but afterwards I just was crying so much and then I felt like such an emotional release afterwards and I felt really on fire
The Four Components of Purpose
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for my purpose. And so now I really want to talk about what are the four components of your purpose and how can you really live them? um How can you really embody this in a way that feels like present and feels in the now. So you're not ah reaching out towards something. You're not trying to discover your purpose. You're not trying to figure something out. It's not a job. It's not like, Oh, once I get that certain title, then I'll be living my purpose. Oh, once I have served this many clients or made this much money or impacted this many people, then I'll be living my purpose. It's like, no, like literally we're living our purpose right now.
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you being you is living your purpose. So how can you be even more yourself? How can you be even more fully expressed? So I really like to look at it through the activation sequence of the gene keys. So there are four components to really like unlocking our purpose. The first one is life's work. I love this distinction so much of distincting life life's work from purpose because purpose isn't what we're here to do. Purpose is what we're here to, who we're here to be where life's work is what we're here to do. So this is the astral imprint of the conscious son. And this makes up 70% of our personality. So this is masculine energy. This is like the father archetype. Like this is like the doing like girl, this is what you'd be doing. Okay. All of the time. And if you look at your Jean Q's profile, if you look at the gift right there, the gift is what you're here to do. So mine is like the gift of aspiration. So every part of my life,
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is going to be through the lens of aspiration and of like trying to climb to the top and trying to be the best and trying to um yeah like aspire to my highest potential in spirituality and in the physical plane in my job, right? Like creating a career that I love, climbing the ladder at work. i've I've noticed this play out in every single part of my life. And it's the thing that I'm most passionate about. It's the thing that I talk about all of the time. I'm a line two, I'm the dancer. It's supposed to be what comes natural to me. and it absolutely resonates. And so it's like instead of trying to figure out, okay, what should, quote unquote, I aspire to be or do, that doesn't really matter. like I can aspire to be and do so many different things. like I can aspire to climb the ladder at my corporate job, which I've done and had so much success. You guys, I like okay i was like polling like looking at my pay stubs this week to check something, and I went back and like looked at like the compensation and how many raises I've had with
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within my time of being with the company. So since 2016 to now, within eight years, I've had 20 raises. 20 in eight years. To me, that's pretty freaking good. That's more than twice two raises a year. and I think that's why I really stay so committed and loyal to this company because sometimes there's a part of me that's like, oh my God, like I should be exploring other things. I've been with this company for eight years. That's kind of like a little too stuck. That's a little too loyalty, like too loyal. like I should be expanding my horizons. But it's like, oh my God, i not only have I had 20 raises, I've also had, I don't even know how many promotions into new, the next position, the next position, the next position. right
00:24:18
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like I just promoted so much and it is so aligned with my design, with my gene keys. My life's work is aspiration. I want to aspire to the new thing. I'm going to constantly be growing and evolving. and It makes sense because it's like, oh my God, if I wasn't having so many growth opportunities here and so many opportunities for and wage increase, I probably would have left a long time ago. so It's not that I'm playing small or being stuck or settling. I'm experiencing what I fucking love, his life which is like growth and upward mobility. right And so I can do that and and have that. And then I can also be growing my business and be super excited to create a podcast and to um learn how to grow the podcast and aspire to be a great podcast host. And I can also learn how to
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like create a conscious business and like grow a business and aspire to do well in that. And I can aspire to learn how to master my physical body and learn how to really have a beautiful, um like ah intuitive relationship to food, right? Where food is no longer mastering a master over me. It's not a master over my thoughts. I have such a great relationship to food to where Okay, I don't even think about it. I just know exactly intuitively what I want to eat, right? And that's what I've been on the most recent journey. And oh my god, you guys. Okay. This is so crazy. I just have to share this really fast. So
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um you know, I told you that I've been listening to the, if you've listened to previous episodes, I've been on my fitness journey and I have been, um, I created a hypnosis, like fitness slash weight loss hypnosis for myself to listen to every single night. And you guys, I have been losing weight. Like I am at the lowest that I've been in probably nine months and it has been the easiest the easiest to get here because I fucking love working out now. like I am so excited to do my workout. That's one of the things I programmed into myself. like I suggested to be so excited to get up and exercise. and so I've been doing my at home with weights exercises that I freaking love following a coach that I'm absolutely so obsessed with.
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and I have been intuitively eating and doing all of the things that I know I've needed to do that are just obvious, right? That you would do to literally burn fat and gain muscle. There's an actual very, it's very simple yet very difficult to do, right? As a human, but it's became so simple and effortless because I have been reprogramming my subconscious mind. So I've been mastering learning how to master my body, my physical body. I've been doing my breath work, um which is so important to me.
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my purpose, I'm a line um four here.
00:27:15
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Sorry, I just so got so thrown off because I was thinking about my radiance. But yeah, I'm a line four in my purpose, which is the breath and rhythms. and so I've been leaning into breath work and just feeling so calm and I've been, um, actually like putting myself out there and creating master classes. Like ah today is going to be my first Jean Keys masterclass. I'm so excited going all through the purpose. Um, really discovering your purpose through the Jean Keys. And so the replay will be available. You guys, I will be selling the replay. So if you're excited, if you weren't able to make it live, you can always purchase that later. I'll put the link in the show notes. Um, it's so fricking juicy.
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It's going to be more like two hours and it's going to have a really juicy meditation at the end. But anyways, so can wherever your gift is in your life's work, okay, energy and your gene keys, that is what you're going to do 70% of the time. Focus on that. Okay. You don't need to try to figure out. Like, oh my God, like if you don't really like the job that you have right now, find something that lights you up that you really enjoy doing. And that satisfies that gift in your life's work. Like, cause that really is the energy that you're here to do, to do in this lifetime. The second component that I like to look at is our evolution. And so our evolution in our gene keys is the conscious earth. And so this is really like the mother archetype. This is really the grounding force.
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in pulling us back to earth and kind of grounding us from our life's work. And this is going to be like the first challenge that we continue to experience over and over and over again. So it really is asking us like, what lesson am I here to learn in this lifetime? Like this is the biggest lesson we're here to learn. And mine, the the shadow of it is immaturity. And so I'm really here to to learn how to um take my time and like start things that I really have a sacral response to instead of just like starting at anything because I just want to like start something new, right? It's really like having that um really like that grounding force of the feminine mother archetype of trusting myself, trusting to not be immature and just like go crazy and start things that I ultimately know I won't be able to finish.
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And so yeah, it's really understanding like, okay, what is the biggest lesson you're here to learn? Once you know what the biggest lesson that you're here to learn is, you're already living your purpose every day because you're going to see this lesson continue to show up. This challenge will continue to show up over and over again. And you'll have the exact way of how to move through that um from knowing um the gift of it, right? So the Jenkins is so beautiful because it gives us an actual pathway to transmute from the um shadow into the gift. And mine is expansion. So once I really learn how to step into expansion, um it can help me get out of like that immaturity.
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And then the third component that we can look at is
Holistic Health for Purposeful Living
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our radiance. And so you guys, we don't have anything if we don't have our health. And so focusing on our physical, emotional, spiritual health is literally going to help us be living a purposeful life every single day. So like what are the things that you're doing for your body? What are the things that you're doing for your mind? What are the things that you're doing for your spirit? If you're putting them on the back burner, like I used to do for so many years, then you're not going to be in alignment and you're not going to feel stable in your body to live your purpose daily. Because again, our purpose isn't something outside of ourselves. It's not something we need to get to or attain. It's right here in the moment. Let's live it now. And so,
00:30:56
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what is your radiance? What keeps you healthy? When you look at your gene key there, the gift is what is going to keep you healthy. And the shadow is going to be what continues to undermine your health, leaving you feeling not stable in your body, right? And so for me, the gift is intuition. And so it really is like listening to myself, finding Knowing, intuitively knowing that you guys at this moment in my life, I need accountability. So I'm going to hire a coach to help me, right? So like having the the coach, having the plan um and then intuitively from there, eating, do it like intuitively picking her, right, to work with because I completely follow, I completely like back up all of the ways that she teaches. She teaches intuitiveness. And so it's like, I'm not picking somebody to train me who is just going to tell me like what they do.
00:31:45
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It's someone who teaches you to tune into yourself to learn what you need to do, which is my intuition. I'm like, Oh my God, this makes so much sense. So just listening to my intuition of like, okay, today I need to do breath work today. I need to do this, even though I don't want to do this, because this is ultimately going to make me feel better mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. like For example, keeping the house clean. right like um I'm the type of person that can like start to like leave clothes here. like If I don't sit down and actually fold it right away, which I'm doing a great job of, but it can be like, oh, my clothes start piling up here. Or, oh, if I don't do the dishes tonight, then are they going to start piling up? That's going to leave me.
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in a mental state of clutter, of low energy, of feeling stuck, of feeling yucky. So it's actually in my best radiant self to take care of my house and to take care of things and to keep things clean, to pick up on a daily basis, to keep things organized, right? Like that's what makes me feel really good. So it's like, what makes you feel good? What helps your mental health, right? Sometimes we can get so lost in the spiritual sauce that we're like way up here in the upper chakras. In this lifetime, I'm really meant to come down into the body. My North note is in, um, in the sixth house. So it's like,
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daily habits, daily activities, daily work, like the body physically, what can I do to make sure that I am grounded in my daily stuff? So me focusing on my physical health, my fitness my fitness and weight loss journey, um really prioritizing, like I said, my breath work, red light, stretching, working out, all of those things has made me feel so fulfilled. And then it makes me super excited to show up for my workshop, to show up for my business, to do a really great job in my nine to five. Anytime that any of those things are out of alignment, it doesn't feel good and it doesn't feel like I'm living my purpose, right?
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So really think and and look at your own radiance and see like, okay, like what keeps me healthy and and how can I step more into that? The fourth component of living our purpose is purpose itself, girl. So this is all about who we be, right? Like what is your energetic signature? What deeply fulfills you in this lifetime? And for me, the gift is initiative. And so what deeply fulfills me, you guys, is I'm also a line four here, so it's being the breath of initiative. So I am the breath of initiative is an I am statement that I can say. And you can say whatever your line is, you would say, I am the blank. It's going to be a physical lines one through six. It's going to be a physical thing. I am the blank of, and then whatever your gene key gift is. So I am the line, line four. I am the breath of initiative, the gift of my gene key 51.
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So I'm here, you guys, to initiate people into awakening. So that means that I need to be my fully expressed self. I need to live my daily routines and do the things that make me feel radiant and safe and live in intuition so that I feel safe and do the tools and practices to regulate my nervous system so that I can initiate people into awakening by talking about purpose, by informing about things that I'm obsessed with, like teaching people how to go through the gene keys, how to understand them, how to read it, how to start contemplating for themselves.
Exploring New Techniques
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like teaching people, um, yeah, about just anything that I want to freaking create. And so I've been so excited lately on this, um, on this like hypnosis train, because, um, if you listened to previous episodes, I enrolled in Yes Supply. So I'm going to be a certified Yes Supply coach, um, at the end of the year.
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And so I'm learning all about subconscious mind reprogramming and so many different tips and um tools that we can use to reprogram the the subconscious mind. And it has been the most fascinating, like, learnings that I've ever learned. Like I am so fascinated by the changes that I'm seeing effortlessly and easily by just changing the programs in my subconscious mind. So I'm going to be so excited to bring that to the market. I'm going to be so excited to teach you how to do anything you want and achieve anything you want in life by literally getting your subconscious mind on board.
Foundations of Success
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So a lot of my time right now has been spent creating hypnosis meditations
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doing readings, Gene Key's readings, master classes. like I'm going to continue doing master classes each month. like This is something that really lights me up. And so although I'm not going to see immediate, super high success where like all the business coaches are like, Oh my God, like 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, $100,000 a month. like I am don't give a fuck about that. like This is my purpose. This is my sole purpose. Of course, I want to be financially compensated. Of course, I want to be able to one day leave my nine to five and do this work that I absolutely love to do full time, but I'm not putting any pressure on myself. like I am building this baby from the foundations, a strong foundation from the ground up. I genuinely love this work. There's nothing that you could do. The fact that I'm not getting paid to do these things doesn't mean that I'm going to stop doing it. like I'm not getting paid to do the podcast.
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But I'm going to continue to put the podcasts out there. I'm not getting paid to do anything on social media, but I'm still going to do it. I'm not getting paid to like. do this work every day, but it's what I love to do so much that you can't stop me. I feel so fulfilled you guys that money does not matter and I know that the money is coming and I know that the abundance is coming and the wealth is coming and it's going to be my time when it's my time. But in the meantime, I'm so confident that I don't give a shit about that. So if you really are down to live your sole purpose and live your life's work, stop worrying about the money. If the money isn't there yet, do whatever you need to do to make income to
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live your life and to pay your bills. Stop trying to put so much pressure if you're building a business on your business, if you're just starting your business. Like I have been blown away by and really, um, grounded by the fact that like this shit is does not happen overnight. i been like It takes years and years and years. and Some people might make a success overnight, but how long are they really around? right it's like We're doing this for the long haul. so Ultimately, it doesn't matter. I'm more here to change lives and really help people and make a super big difference and impact, and I know you are too.
Consistency in Content Creation
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so If that is you, don't give up on your dreams, you guys. If you've been in wanting to launch a business, if you've been one foot in, one foot out, just go all in. Like who cares? Even if you're still on your nine to five, it doesn't make you any less of a coach or a healer or a tarot reader or whatever it is that you want to share with the world. But the world needs you to show up and to put yourself out there. So find some sort of medium that you really love to do consistently. Like I love the podcast consistently because I can just talk forever and ever. So this feels really good for me. and So I'll do this weekly. I am going to do a better job of posting this to socials and telling people about the podcast. That's one same thing that I could do way better is like marketing it and getting more people to come and listen because I love it over here. and I love all of you guys that listen every week and there's still room for me to like share this with other people right because I want it to grow. like I love it so much. It's it's so fun being in my fully expressed self. and So I feel so fulfilled is what I'm trying to get at that
00:39:05
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There, I have so much, so many goals and very high potential for myself that I'm so far away from reaching, but you know what? I'm not going to stop. I'm going to keep going and I'm going to keep learning and I'm going to keep serving and I'm going to keep putting myself out there. I'm going to keep teaching. I'm going to keep doing the things that I want to do. And so I implore you to do the same thing. Pour all of your freaking life force energy but into yourself. Pour it, hold onto it. Like move your body. move your body, do what you need to do to feel good, regulate your nervous system, tap into your radiance, find out what is keeping, what shadow is your radiance, what's keeping you unbalanced and in disease or, you know, leading towards disease, what's going to keep you very healthy and in your gift, do all of the things that you can do to take care of
Mindfulness and Intuition
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your physical body because we need our health, and then find ways that you can passionately
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or whatever line you have to express your life's work, do your life's work. Just do it. Just start putting yourself out there. Create. You are highly creative. You are a creative being. There's so much that wants to be birthed from you. You have so many ideas. so like Start putting the fucking ideas out there, girl. like Start putting them out there. Just focus on one. Pick one, put it out there, and keep putting it out there. I know that like you're there's probably going to be times where people don't want it, or people just don't want to get, or the right people just don't see it yet. It's going to take time. It takes time to be consistent and for people to trust you and for you to like really put the same message out there over and over and over again. So just start now wherever you are. Just start now. Lean into your life's work. Learn what your biggest lesson is that you're here to learn, which is your evolution. Learn what your radiance is. Prioritize your physical, mental, emotional, spiritual health. Take care of yourself. Meditate. Okay. Like
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All of those things that are like super um like buzzy and like popular, it's like the the basics of it really do help. like Really, like meditating really does help to separate your energy and and know your own energy and know what's yours, know what's your own thought forms. Take social media detoxes, take detoxes from listening to other people's stuff. Get to know what your ideas are. Get to know what you believe. Get to know what your intuition wants. right like Tuning into our intuition, strengthening our discernment is going to bring all the power back to ourselves. so that
Focusing on Values Over Metrics
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we can create. We don't want to be consumers anymore. We don't want to be scrollers. We want to be creators. We want to be conscious creators, and we want to share ourselves with the world. Who gives a fuck any anymore if certain people don't like you? like Every single day, I lose more and more followers on Instagram. I'm like, what the fuck is going on? But you know what? I'm like, okay, I don't give a fuck. I don't care. I'm not going to blame it on the algorithm. I'm not going to blame it on me, not consistently showing up. It's just that every day I lose more and more followers, and so I'm like,
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spirit, whatever you're doing, you are getting rid of the people who don't align with me anymore so I can pop off. And when I do, I'm going to have this long body of work that I have been working on so that people can find me and they can start binging all of my stuff, all of my content, all of my podcasts so that they can trust me and they can, and you know, invest in my master classes, get to see what it's like to get and a cautious meditation for me and then start to want to work with me. Because you guys, the other reason I was crying so much on my way home last night is because I was like, I just want to help. I just want to serve. I'm like, God, I want to serve. I want to help. Like, where are the people?
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And it makes me even so sad right now. I feel like I'm getting like emotional interior eyeed because it's like, I just want to help. And I know you do too, especially as like a spiritual person, as someone who has already overcame so many things in your life. Like, I know you just want to help other people. It's like all you want to do. And you're like so frustrated because you're like, where are the people? Like, where are the people that
Commitment to Long-Term Goals
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I want to help? Because I know that they're out there. And you guys, we just have to break through this, this initial challenge, right? Immaturity. Mine is giving up too soon. Okay, good. I need to stop giving up too soon. And when I do, I'm going to break through to expansiveness. And then, you know what the city of mine is? Superabundance. Okay, wow, that's so powerful. I just came through. So yeah, i'm I'm done being immaturely giving up on things. I'm here for the long run. I hope you are too. If you want to know the exact codes of your life's work, your radiance, your
00:43:28
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um evolution and your purpose, definitely catch the replay of my masterclass. It is so fire. um It really helps you. You don't have to have any background of the gene keys. You don't have to understand it at all. You can already understand it. This is going to help you understand my process for going through it. um You get to like journal together and embody your soul codes so you can go on to contemplate those later on. And then there's going to be a really juicy Akashic Records meditation at the end for like deep, deep relaxation to connect to your higher self and get a message from her all around your purpose. So it's so good, you guys. That's all I have for you today. So I hope this lit you up. I hope this like initiated you a little bit and lit some fire under your booty to just trust in yourself, dude, like trust in yourself and know that people want what you have, but they just don't see what you have because you're not showing them what you have.
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And the sooner that you can just be yourself and ah be like, fuck it, I'm just going to, I'm just going to put myself out there because I don't even have any more time to waste.
Leading with the Heart
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Then the sooner that like you're going to pull back all that energy onto yourself and you're going to realize that like it doesn't even matter what's going on in the news, in the media and the freaking government, like who gives a fuck? We, you know, like whatever we can control ourselves and we can control our own emotional state. We can have discernment, we can stay calm. We're not gonna get swept up in any stories, in any narratives. We can see through all the shit. We see through the, the veil has been lifted for us, okay? Like we see the circus. We don't give a fuck. We're gonna continue on our purpose journey. We're gonna continue healing ourselves so that we can heal others and heal the world and create a world that we really love and help people activate their gifts so that they can go change systems and do shit that they wanna do or be activists or whatever it is. Like there's a, there is a puzzle piece for everybody and this like new,
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or I guess it's not really a new earth, but in the beautiful earth that we want to see, right? And so you are a heart centered person, lead from your heart and that is going to take away a lot of the fear. Anytime you get
Emotional Self-Control and Gratitude
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really scared to take the next step, tune into your heart and say, self, Alyssa, I would say Alyssa, heart, what do I want to do? What is in the highest good for others right now? Please show me and then take the step. Okay. Okay. I hope you have a beautiful day and I will see you next time. Bye-bye. Thank you so much for being here and listening beauty. If you enjoyed this episode, please be sure to leave a review and share the episode with a friend who you know will love it. We can connect further on Instagram at I am Alyssa Mae. So come say hello, leave a comment of your favorite takeaway on my most recent post and I cannot wait to connect. Thank you so much and I will see you next time.