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BONUS EP #2: You're not actually stuck in "perfectionism", listen to this for a massive SHIFT
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Hi babes!
Have you been holding yourself back on the purpose path and spiritual business journey because you feel like you're stuck in "perfectionism" and just need everything to be PERFECT so you never actually take action and move forward?
This is a short and SWEET episode breaking down GENE KEY 18 and why you're actually stuck in JUDGEMENT of yourself and others.
Perfectionism is a HIGH VIBE FREQUENCY, it's a siddhi , completely free of the shadow of judgment.
Tune it to learn exactly what the shadow of judgement is and how to alchemize it into Integrity and then into pure Perfection to get you going on your Purpose path!
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Transcript
Understanding Perfectionism vs. Judgment
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if you have been holding yourself back on the sole purpose path because you think that you're stuck in perfectionism and you really identify yourself as a perfectionist, I am here to tell you girl that that is not true. You are not experiencing what you think is perfectionism. Perfection is actually a very high frequency energy on the spectrum. It's very high frequency. What you're actually experiencing is the shadow of judgment.
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Now there are two ways that the shadow of judgment can show up and being in the shadow of judgment is really being a victim of the mind. It is having all of these um like it's it's really wearing yourself with small details and having judgments towards yourself and others and over identifying with the stories and believing them because we all are going to have judgments that's human nature but when you over identify with the story and you actually believe it like oh I I'm not good at writing or I could never use my voice or create a podcast or oh that person there's so many people um that are already like doing what I want to do. There's no way that I could fit in the industry or oh I'm too old it's too late for me to find my passion and start doing what I love to do. When you over identify with those stories those judgments you are being a victim of the mind.
Roots of Inferiority and Superiority Complexes
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There are two ways that this shows up okay the repressive nature is when you're being a um when you are judging yourself.
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So this is called inferiority and inferiority is when you feel inferior to others. You are pedestalizing others. You are putting others above you. You are stuck in comparison mode and feel like there's no way for you to really shine or be yourself because everybody else is doing it so much better than you and this really is imprinted in us in our young years between zero and seven when we're very impressionable and our subconscious mind is getting programmed from our parents. If you had a parent that was overly critical or um didn't really hold strong to their boundaries, instead they
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when you tested them instead if they didn't hold so high their own high self-esteem and they're overly critical to you and overly judgmental then you may be someone who really identifies with this type of inferiority. The the reactive nature of judgment is superiority and so this is where you might pet pedestalize yourself. This is where you might have not that much respect for authority and you don't think that anybody else could help you. You feel superior to others And this would would have been imprinted in your younger years if when you as a child were testing your boundaries with your parents or caretakers which is totally normal and instead of them holding firm to their self-esteem and to their boundaries if they just kind of gave in and i'll let you walk all over them sexually.
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you would have at that point lost respect for authority and you saw that there are no rules you can do anything and and it and that is what creates this feeling of judgment of being superior to others when you're an adult.
Moving Towards Integrity and Growth
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Now I'm going to teach you exactly how to move through this this so that you can get on your way to your goals girl and to creating the life that you really want to have into living the purpose path. So the way to move out of judgment is to first of all accept that we're all going to have judgments is totally normal, but I'm no longer going to identify with the stories and I can separate myself and see that. Oh, I'm thinking this thought but that's a negative thought actually choose to not believe that you're going to move into the gift of um,
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Oh my god, why would I blink you right now? You're gonna move into the gift of integrity, okay? so So the shadow and the gift are the same frequency, just a different side, okay? So the shadow of being a victim of your judgments to yourself and others is actually just the other side frequency of integrity.
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now not integrity in terms of like being honest or telling the truth but really integrity and like the structure like a strong foundation right these people when you're when you're in the gift you still have judgments but you're really looking at what needs to be fixed what can be in like the highest most excellence love most beauty And so you're able to hold these standards to have a very strong foundation and really help evolve yourself in all areas of your life and also help others.
Exploring Gene Keys and Higher Frequency States
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And depending on where this shows up in your Jane Keys profile is going to give you a little more insight into like how this energy really shows up in your life. And if you're not someone that has this in your hologenetic profile, don't worry.
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um you can still experience this gene key and learn learn from it because we have all of the 64 gene keys inside of us genetically speaking as well. so Once you're really able to move into the gift frequency and realize like oh I'm really here to pay attention to details and have high standards, high very strong boundaries and help myself and help others move forward and really move the world into a more excellent and beautiful place like wow like this was such a beautiful gift. Then you move into
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the highest frequency which is perfection. Perfection happens, it's a very mystical energy okay. but This happens when you no longer identify as like separation or differentiation from yourself and another. It's where you merge into one consciousness and you realize that everything is perfect and nothing actually needs to be fixed. Like there's no work to do, nothing needs to be fixed, everything is beautiful, everything is pure, we've merged into one love like one one truth and It's just perfection.
Clarifying Misconceptions About Judgment
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It's just a very enlightened state, okay? And so next time that you catch yourself holding yourself back on your dreams, holding yourself back on your on your goals, on your purpose path, not moving forward because you you think you're paralyzed by perfectionism, like you just you need to make sure that you're getting everything right and oh my gosh I'm like such a perfectionist, like I guess I'm just not gonna make any moves.
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No, you're not being a perfectionist you you're not in perfection. You're in judgment. You're judging yourself You're comparing yourself to others and you are being inferior or you're feeling superior and you're not asking for the help that you need and you're not recognizing where you can move into this beautiful and Tigris place and Create excellence and create growth and create movement and that all comes with action and taking steps to move forward So I hope this was helpful.
Introduction to Alyssa's Expertise
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If you would love to learn more or if you would love to learn what your specific jean keys are, what your specific shadows are, gifts, and en enlightened states, cities, I am Alyssa. I am a jean keys and human design expert. I'm a spiritual life coach. I'm really here to help you on the sole purpose path. um I really specialize in helping light workers and just healers, coaches, or just anyone curious about what their purpose is.
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really get to know themselves at the soul level so that you can remove all of these blogs and all of these limitations that are holding you back that are just not who you are at the true like true pureness of your soul so that you can live a life that you freaking love and have so much fun and so much joy and make impacts and help others and yourself so thank you so much if you'd love to learn more you can follow me on instagram at I am Alyssa May and if you'd like to book a reading all of my readings are in my bio by Bye bye.