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45. Cracking the Code: why you know what to do but you aren't doing it to get what you want
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Hi babes!
You know that thing you've been wanting to create? Or that goal or big yes that you've been procrastinating on.
You know the thing on your heart that you keep putting off or try and force to make happen only to give up?
Or keep hiring more coaches or mentors or taking more courses on but don't actually move forward?
You don't need more information or strategy; you know what to do!
In this episode I dive into:
- my explanation of consciousnesses from birth to adulthood
- how the subconscious mind is programmed
- why you believe certain beliefs that aren't your own
- how Human Design energetics can help catapult you into alignment and take action on your big YES that actually feels good energetically
- how your Gene Keys illuminate your 4 prime gifts that you can leverage in creating your big why
- how Akashic Records can be used to help dig into the subconscious mind and find the old, outdated beliefs and limiting beliefs
- how subconscious reprogramming tools can get your body, mind, and spirit on board to stop forcing and to start creating in flow
- some BTS signing my mom as a client and helping her with her weight loss journey
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Transcript
Introduction to the Podcast
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Hello, my friend. Welcome to the It's Happening For Me podcast. If you are obsessed with all things spirituality, personal growth and development, and living as your highest self, you are in the right place.
Alyssa's Journey to Alignment
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I am your host, Alyssa, and I spent the majority of my teenage years and young 20s living totally out of climate. As I started to question my patterns and behaviors and actually got to know myself at the soul level, I realized that everything was happening for me. Now, as a spiritual life coach and human design guide, I am here to share my voice, personal stories, human design wisdom, and learn from incredible individuals living their purpose. Join me each week as we walk the spiral path of purpose together. I cannot wait to dive in.
Technical Difficulties and Solutions
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been a week and this episode is two days behind. So I just want to do a really quick catch up with you, fill you in on what's going on. And then we're going to jump into today's episode, which is going to be super juicy. so I went to record the podcast this Sunday and I noticed that the audio was off again. And the past two episodes I've done, I felt like the audio has been weird, but there are also two episodes that I have been doing um with video. So one was a video interview and one was a video solo cast. And I thought that the audio was just like off because it was video. So I was like, okay girl, I'm not going to do video anymore because if it's, you know, the integrity of the sound isn't as good of quality, then I definitely like,
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Don't want to do video, you know and just like um What's the word like You know like and not get the best quality essentially of sound but I was testing my microphone and I realized it was actually my microphone that is just like old and broken. So I was like, what the hell? So I ordered a new one. I let you guys know on the pod or on Instagram that this was gonna be out a couple of days later. So here we are, girl. um But I have been living my literal best life.
Understanding Purpose and Willpower
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um As you guys know, I talk about this in every episode, but some of my main shadows in my gene keys is gonna be like this feeling of like purposeless or like,
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almost a sort of depression when I feel like things aren't moving fast enough. It's really just like inpatients things aren't moving fast enough. And so I get really like hard on myself and I'm and I really start to question my purpose and like what am I even doing here and like this isn't working and I can really get in my head. And that's something that I always go through but luckily I know from knowing my jean keys that that's just a part of my shadow that I'm going to be kind of traversing my whole life and so what has really helped me in the past couple of weeks is like really get back into my body, get back into like what are my strengths and like what am I here to do and so for me one of my channels is the channel of perfected form and so it's really like
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how can I perfect my life and how can I perfect my body and not coming from a way of like body image like surface level body image stuff but really like how can I be a master of my life and create routines and like perfect my health and like that that's how it's been really showing up for me this week is like how can I get back into perfecting my health and the things that make me feel really good because when I do that it's like this energy that I have and then everything just like bubbles out from there so that's what I've been focusing on like really back on like my step goal and it's been feeling really good and honestly that's where I get the most inspiration is like when I'm moving my body and like stretching doing red light meditation like all of those things like bring me back into like my purpose and like my why and so yeah it's just been feeling so good so I just also want to say like if you've been struggling or feeling disconnected from your purpose or feeling like things aren't moving fast enough
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just remember it's like all part of the season I know so many people who are going through that moving through that and it's just it's just part of it but it's like just not giving up so that leads me to today's episode which I am so excited to share ooh 333 on the clock girl okay so I want to talk to you today about why is it that we have these goals or we have this like big dream this big yes and for some reason we just don't accomplish it. It's like every like it's like we're forcing like we're trying so hard and nothing's happening and that's because oftentimes we are relying on willpower instead of relying on our own energetics on devotion on
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really understanding there's so much going on on deeper layers than us just like not being able to accomplish the goal. So my hopes for this episode is that you walk out of here knowing that you're not lazy, you're not broken, nothing's wrong with you. It's super common as a human being to not be able to achieve certain goals that like otherwise everyone would be thriving and everyone would be living their best life. But if we look around, we see the majority of the world is suffering. The majority of the world is stuck in victim consciousness. The majority of the world is on autopilot, running on old habits and behaviors. And like so many people aren't even aware of it. So many people don't even have a dream or a goal. Like they're just literally surviving. But if you're tuning in, I know that you are here to survive, not to thrive, to thrive, not to survive. um Bless you. If you can hear Peanut, he's having a little snooze attack. I'm so sorry, buddy. He got into something.
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I think when George took him on a walk this afternoon and he's just been sneezing, so I need to give him a bath. Anyways, if you hear a dog sneeze, that's the sound you're hearing. Bless you. Love you. Okay, so yeah, but if you're listening to this, I know that you're here to thrive, not to survive. and it's all it's crazy you guys like everything that I continue to learn because I'm a lifelong learner girl I know you are too and everything that I continue to learn it's like building on top of the things that I've been working on learning embodying teaching and it just like makes my um whole like
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I don't know. It's like making my whole like life's work and life's purpose make so much sense. And it just keeps building on top of each other and like things keep changing and I keep seeing like better, deeper ways that I can help people and work with people and like broaden things or expand them or like make them more um like specific. And so anyways, I'm just super excited. As you guys know, if you've listened to previous episodes, I enrolled in um my yes supply my Yes Supply Coach certification.
The Subconscious Mind and Goal Achievement
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So I'm really learning everything about the subconscious mind, you guys, and all of the tools for how to actually change our minds at the subconscious level, which is literally so important. And this was the missing key that I found that is the reason why I haven't been able to achieve certain things in the past or the missing key for
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the way that I want to be able to help people so much deeper. So when I teach human design, when I teach jean keys, it's so fun. It's so rewarding. But if we're only doing a reading, it's like I've been wanting to find a way to offer like deeper support to actually help people achieve their goals, their big yeses, like actually give them like longer term support to go after what they actually want. And so it's like we learn who we are through We learn how our our energetic body works through human design, the mechanics behind it. We learn our life's themes and life challenges and life life's breakthroughs through the Gene Keys. We get guidance and heal past lives and look into future potentials and look into the present day and see like what's going on in the Akashic Records. And we get um guidance and messages from our higher self.
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something else was still missing. And I was like, Oh, obviously, duh, it's the mindset work. But the actual like, knowing how to work with the subconscious mind to get the body and the mind and the spirit all on the same path, so that we can actually change our lives and achieve our goals. So what I want to talk about in this episode is I want to really paint a very basic picture for you. And I want to get as like, detail-oriented slash basic as possible to show you how I view life through the lens of human design, gene keys, acoustic records, subconscious reprogramming, and so through a spiritual lens of why we're not achieving the goals that we want to achieve and how we can
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actually start achieving them. Okay, so I'm going to be combining all of those things, take whatever excites you, interests you, sounds true, resonates with you, take it, anything that does it, leave it with a grain of salt and just say like, okay, yeah girl, like, that's not for me. Because I'm yeah like, I'm not here to convince you of anything or like, make you believe anything. but You know, like you can believe literally whatever you want. But I just want to share with you the way that I view the world and how this has helped me so much. So let's get into it. So what I want to first talk about is let's let's just back it up and talk about being born, okay? And we're going to talk about mindset and why we have certain beliefs and why we can't achieve certain goals or why it's just really hard to achieve certain things. so
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And whether you believe this or not, but if you're listening to this, you probably resonate with a lot of this, but let's just say that. And of course, I don't know the ultimate truth. Nobody does, but this is just what I believe up until now. So we're all souls. We are experiencing a human experience.
Spiritual Beliefs and Human Design
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We chose as souls to incarnate into this lifetime for a very specific reason. There are so many souls that are in other dimensions that would love to come onto earth to experience earth to experience the challenges the heartbreak the good the bad all of the range of emotions because on earth is where we're able to actually change evolve um heal karmic lessons and actually move on and
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and grow as a soul right like we need to have a human experience to be able to actually do that so it's actually a huge gift that you are here right now that your soul chose to incarnate into this lifetime right now you're alive listening to this wherever you are oh my god it is like a huge miracle so when we are born right when we're in our mother's womb okay 88 days before we're born we are imprinted with our unconscious human design. So 88 days before we're born, we are imprinted with our unconscious human design. And so and not to get too into the details of it, because I'm not a science person, like I'm just not, but I'm going to explain to it as basic as I can. um There are tiny subatomic particles
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called neutrinos. And these neutrinos are the smallest form of mass, okay? So it's like smaller than an atom. And it is so small that it's able to move through us, like it's able to like penetrate our bodies. And Each celestial body, so like the planets, like the sun, Mars, Mercury, the moon, they each carry a certain frequency. And at the exact moment, 88 days before you were born, wherever all of the planets were in the sky at that time, you are imprinted with their neutrinos. Their neutrinos are kind of like coming down from the atmosphere, penetrating your mom, penetrating the womb, going into you. And that information is
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programming you to have certain gifts, to have certain skills, just to have certain challenges. And those are the gates in human design. Okay, each gate is related to a planet. And all of that carries information about archetypes, kind of, if you think about it like it's archetypes, about the kind of person you're going to be, right? And then The moment that you're born, so 88 days later when you're actually born on your actual birthday, wherever the sun, the moon, all of the planets are in the sky at that time, their neutrinos are falling down and they are imprinting you again from the moment you're born with that information. And that is your conscious human design. So that is the conscious traits that you have. So that's going to be everything in black, unconscious 88 days before birth, everything in red, if you're looking at your body graph. Okay.
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Now, you are born as a perfect, pure, innocent being, right? That has amnesia. Like you don't remember, you don't remember that your soul came here to like live out a life's mission. You don't remember anything. You are just here all of a sudden you come out of your mother and now it's like, oh my God, you're in this like scary world that's cold, you're crying and you just want to be loved and taken care of, right? So you're already born with these beautiful gifts, these beautiful traits, these beautiful energetic imprints in you. so Your aura type is already chosen. Like everything is already chosen for the moment you're born. And this is who you are energetically in the world. Now from ages zero to seven, okay, from ages zero to seven,
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Our brains are in the alpha and theta brainwave states, okay? And our prefrontal cortex has not been developed yet. So we are in a state of super learning. You are observing everyone around you and you are learning from what is being modeled to you, right? So you learn how to eat. You learn how to cry. and ask for help when you need your diaper to be changed. do You learn how to connect and make eye contact with people. You learn how to do basic functions. You learn how to tie your shoes. You learn how to interact with people at school and preschool and kindergarten. like You learn all of these things from modeling the behavior that is modeled to you.
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This is when your beliefs are imprinted and programmed into your subconscious. Okay? So from zero to seven, you are in the state of super learning. Everything is coming in. The sounds you hear, the things you see, the smells you smell, the things you touch. This includes everything that our parents are doing that we can see, okay? And we're picking up on energetically as well. So any beliefs, any stories, any actions around money, around relationships, around worthiness, self-love, self-worth, our bodies, how we eat, what we eat, okay? What is work? What is our parents' relationship to work?
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All of that is being modeled to us and that is our form of reality. So this is now our reality is what we have seen from our caretakers, from our teachers, from our peers, from our friends, from television, from movies, from media, everything that we're watching, boom, this is now our reality. at eight years old is where we start to question things. This is where we start to have critical faculty and we can start kind of thinking on our own. And so depending on your parent's response to you or your caretaker's response to the way that you question things and the way that you start to kind of like want to be an individual and show up in the world, the way that they respond to you, whether they are accepting and loving and like open or maybe very restrictive and like straight and like,
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Don't allow you to push back. Don't allow you to ask questions. Teach you that it's not okay to um question authority. Teach you that you kids are to be quiet and to just listen, you know, depending on the way that they raise you and the way that they respond to you is going to it's going to impact the way that you express your shadows, which we can find in the jean keys when you're older and when you're an adult. So if your parents, so you can either start to express your shadows as a repressive nature, which is more like onto yourself. It's more like hiding. It's more like, um, depending on the shadow, it's more like falling into yourself or a reactive nature where you're going to,
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react out to others and live out your shadows in that way, which will make a lot more sense when we look at specific jean keys, you know, if you want to dive into your jean keys. So anyways, moving along. Now say we're adults, right? Most adults go on to believe the beliefs without questioning things. Okay, so most adults in our society are just going through life on autopilot on all of those programs that they learned from zero to seven years old without even noticing it without even
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knowing why they believe the beliefs they believe without even wondering why um they're stuck in the same patterns like same boss over and over again maybe they quit jobs often but they keep attracting the same boss maybe they keep attracting the same relationship and maybe they keep um just attracting all of these things that keep happening to them that feels like shit and they just are like blaming and everyone outside of themselves like oh this is happening to me This is when people are really stuck in the line of thinking of like, oh, everything is happening to me. I am a victim of my circumstances. There's nothing I can do to change things. The world is just like this. um The world is unfair. Everyone else has a ah better advantage than me. My parents didn't teach me how to do this. My parents didn't teach me how to do that. um Everyone else is so far ahead of me. Very stuck in comparison mode, right? And that is what happens when we don't
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know how to question our beliefs like we truly just believe they are what they are and so this is like most people living in what they call like the matrix is like they don't even question anything like they're so unhappy in their job but they don't even realize that they could leave tomorrow or they're so unhappy in their relationship but they don't realize that they can literally walk out the door and leave that person and yes it's much easier said than done because there's so many factors that come into play but if we're just looking at the ability to be able to have to have sovereignty over our lives. Most people don't realize that they do. Okay, so this is where people stuck are like stuck. They're very, they're probably pretty unhappy with their life and they're probably using maybe substances to feel better. Maybe they're drinking a lot or partying a lot or maybe they're smoking a lot of weed or maybe they're vaping or maybe they're, um,
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have other addictions, like sex addictions, maybe they're gambling, maybe they spend a lot of money, maybe they have shopping addictions. like There's so many different addictions because they're just trying to kind of like numb the uncomfortable feelings, but they don't realize that they have power over their lives and that they have power over
Spiritual Awakenings and Responsibility
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their minds. right and so That's kind of what it's like to live in the matrix. Then something happens, where and you've probably had like many experiences like this, where like you experience some sort of loss. So maybe some sort of heartache, maybe you lose a job, maybe you lose a loved one, maybe you um have an accident. Something happens where you wake up. And this is like a a spontaneous spiritual awakening. Like I truly believe that our spiritual awakenings are this like a waking up to things, this like illusion, this veil being lifted. I believe that it's spontaneous.
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And we can't force it to happen, right? It just happens. You can't like give somebody in your life who's like, you know, really struggling. You can't just give them a personal help or like development book or like spiritual book, tell them to read it and think that they're going to have like an awakening and like everything's going to be solved. It's like, it has to happen spontaneously person to person. We can't force an awakening. We can't make anyone do it faster. It has to be on their own timeline and not everyone is even going to wake up in this lifetime. Like maybe their soul needs to play out whatever lessons it is in this lifetime because they're just not learning, right? So we have some sort of awakening, okay? And and then we begin to question things and we begin to see like, oh my God, I'm actually the observer of my life. I'm actually the witness. Like I'm not,
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I'm different than this person. It's like I have this body, but then there's also this other part of me that is seeing what my body and person is doing. And I actually have power over myself and I can actually differentiate between the two, right? And so a lot of times people start to get into personal growth and development or spirituality. Maybe they start meditating. Maybe this happened during yoga. I know for me, like this happened when I did yoga. I had like really crazy experiences where I was like, Oh my God, I finally felt for once like so in my body and out of my mind that I
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was able to see myself as the observer and not just Alyssa going through the motions. It was pretty crazy. And so I know so many people have different experiences like that. And I've had many different spiritual awakenings where I'm like, Oh my God, like you start to question everything and you start to realize that the beliefs you have aren't necessarily your beliefs. Like maybe you want to start exploring them. Like I know that happened to me. in college, like with one of my professors, I was learning um the afterlife. I needed a religion ah religion course and so I took the afterlife with Stafford Betty and he was like my favorite professor and he literally taught me everything about the afterlife and that's where I had another awakening of like, oh my god, like
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life isn't, it doesn't just have to be this indoctrination of like Christianity, right, which is how I grew up in the Lutheran Church, Christian. And that was really hard for me to be like, wait, can I say like, I truly, truly believe to my core that if somebody did not believe in Jesus Christ, and you know, claim him as their Lord and Savior that they would not be saved or go to heaven. Like, I really thought that. And then that caused me a lot of stress because I'm like, okay, like, but how does that make sense? Because what about other cultures that don't have access to Christianity and they have access to their own religions? Like, how would that make sense that they're not going to heaven, right? So then everything, like the wheels start turning and everything you start questioning. And I'm like, oh my God, like I was just indoctrinated, indoctrinated into this belief when I was younger.
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And it can be, it's scary. It's not easy to like start questioning your beliefs. It's really scary and it's very confronting. um But I'm sure you can like relate to some of these experiences, right? So that's when we wake up and now we realize like, oh, I'm actually this and empowered sovereign person, and I can actually see that things are happening to me. And then our consciousness shifts, and we start to realize that things are happening for us. I'm sorry, instead of to us, things are happening for us. And then everything kind of opens up, like you start to kind of see like, oh my God, like everything's opens up, yet it also gets more
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scary because then you realize like oh I'm the common denominator in all of my problems like everything that hasn't like everything that's been a shit show in my life I'm the reason why and it takes a lot of personal responsibility so it's not easy and that's why I think a lot of people don't do it like I think that's why a lot of people would rather truly rather stay asleep and stay a victim to their shadows because they don't want to take responsibility, radical responsibility, that they're the ones creating this in their life. like They are the ones that are perpetuating these cycles and they're the ones that will have to be the ones that break it. So from there, what I like liked to do is i so I had many different awakenings and many different major changes. so
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i was a huge partier, um ah social drinker. I loved to party. I had so many years of like a lot of fun, but I also had a lot of destructive years. like I was not a normal drinker. I was somebody who purposely drank to black out every single time um because I had a lot of unresolved emotions, like and which we're going to get into in a second as like a conscious, awake adult, the things that we're here to really work on. but um I was using alcohol to numb the feelings of not feeling like I belonged, a feeling like an outsider all the time, a feeling like I just needed some sort of like confidence, um not being confident in how I spoke or how I looked. um And then also suffering from like a cycle of like from that anxiety, panic attacks, depression, truly feeling like everybody hated me and then like not remembering
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what I would do and then being embarrassed and creating these like shame and guilt cycles of like, Oh my God, I don't know what I did last night. Like, did I embarrass someone? Did I hurt somebody's feelings? And it was always just like way worse in my head than what actually happened, but it creates a very toxic cycle. And so
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So one of the major awakenings that I had was realizing that, oh, alcohol isn't actually giving me more confidence. It's not actually making me cooler. It's not actually helping with my depression or anxiety. It's actually making all of that a lot worse. And so I stopped drinking. And one of my catalysts for that was being around and being in the presence of my current partner, George, who he never drank. He grew up with an alcoholic father. And so for him, he kind of only saw the negative side of alcohol and just like never partook, partook, partake, it partake, partook. He never, he never
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he would go out with his friends and go to parties of course like and he was on the basketball team and like he in college he had a lot of friends but he didn't drink right he didn't use substances and so that was completely new to me and i was really searching for a friend or someone cool who i can meet that didn't drink because at this time it was became very destructive um i had multiple duis i From younger years, like I stopped drinking when I was 26. I had a DUI at 17, 18, and 22. So from 22 to 26, I wasn't drinking and driving. like I definitely learned my lesson. But it was destructive. like I didn't like who I was. I didn't like the person that I was when I drank. And it just led to a lot more um unworthiness, self-destruction, depression, anxiety.
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so At 26, I stopped drinking when I got into the relationship with George. We've been together for eight years now. I'm now 35. I have drank twice in those now eight years. so I've been alcohol free for eight years. I drank twice during those eight years and had another huge awakening each of those times, which I get into in ah ah and a previous episode about my journey, if you're ever interested in that kind of thing. um but Yeah, so it's like, there's all of these different ways where we can continue to have new awakenings. So it's like I already had a major awakening from living alcohol free, but I wasn't doing any of the internal work. It was more of what they call like a dry drunk of just like not partaking, but not actually doing any inner work until
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I had two major life changing situations and nineteen in and 2020 at two work conferences that I went to um where I did drink and then and ended up losing the relationship with George. And those were ah huge huge life changing initiations, I guess, that I had to grow through on my journey. And so you're going to find that there's, even if you overcome something, it might come up again in a different layer. And you're not going five steps back, you're actually going like 50 million steps forward. Because me and George healed that relationship. After a year, we mentioned our relationship got back together, healthier than ever. And I actually did the internal work to realize and investigate why
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did I need alcohol? Like what was missing from me that I felt like I got from alcohol? Like what did alcohol gave me? And that's when I did the introspective work. In hindsight, now I can say that it gave me confidence and it made me um it took away the social anxiety and it made me feel um like I knew how to carry myself and like I knew how to speak properly and like I could interact with high up VPs and you know I was just so nervous and so much social anxiety at those work conferences that I relied on that crutch once again to help me get through that situation which I think is
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I think is very normal, right? Like I don't judge myself or condemn myself for that. That is a normal reaction is to go back to the thing that had made us feel safe for so long until we start to do more of the internal work and really understand like, why, why are we doing these things? Like, what are the patterns? Where is it coming from? Right? So that was one of my major ones. Another major awakening is that it took me 10 years to graduate college. because I didn't know who I was. I didn't know what I want to do. I changed my major often. I ended up sticking with business management. And so I graduated with my bachelor's in man in business. um And at the same time, I was growing in my career, but it was an unaligned career. So I ended up um
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I ended up promoting and climbing the ladder very quickly in the automotive industry which was never an industry that I was actually interested in like it wasn't so aligned based on my interest it was more of just like oh the first opportunity that came that's the first interview I went to in college got the job and then just grew with the company from there because that's just part of my design is like a very like um very growth oriented I have 54 aspiration as my life's work and so I'm going to climb the ladder and I'm going to be noticed by other people for my talents and I'm going to be given positions um of leadership and you know climbing the ladder that's both materially and spiritually so I found myself in a role
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in a leadership role in the pandemic, that was extremely draining. It was not ah in alignment with my human design. Again, which is the vehicle, the mechanics of our energetic body, which is what I love to teach. So on paper, it looks like I was very successful. I graduated college. I got a really dream job. um I felt so accomplished. There was career growth opportunities. like The sky was the limit. The pay was great. but zero work-life balance, extreme stress. um I again at that time didn't know a lot about myself. um I was on the spiritual path but I didn't do a lot of personal growth and development yet and I of course didn't know about human design so I didn't know how my energy body worked and I was just following this American dream of like
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graduate from college, get the job, get the highest job you can get, right? Like the keep growing, keep ascending the ladder.
Balancing Career and Passion
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Who cares if you're unhappy? If it makes a lot of money, great. So I was on that journey and it did not feel good. And that's when I had my next awakening. I was like, I can't do this. My body started to react in adverse ways. I started getting extreme eczema breakouts on my hands. um This was during the pandemic. I was managing a quick lube. So we do oil changes, drive-through oil changes, and this was in Bakersfield, California, summer pandemic. We're talking 106, 107 degrees outside, underneath the hood, it's like 200 degrees. We have to be fully in PPE, so masks, gloves,
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for like 12 hour shifts, outdoors, in the sun, in the heat. We were constantly, like my clothes were constantly soaking wet. um I had yeast infections. I had, from being wet all the time, I had migraines almost every single day. I would go home and cry. I would take a shower, cry about how much I hated my job and I didn't wanna do it again, pass out, wake up, do it again. I was extremely underweight. I wasn't taking my my meal breaks. We had to furlough a lot of people because we weren't really sure it was going to go on with the pandemic. So we became understaffed very quickly, but the business was in was increasing. So we were getting more and more cars that needed their oil changes because everyone else was closed down and we had less staff on board. So that meant we had to
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suck it up and we had to be the ones to work harder. And so my body was like rejecting this life, right? Like I was so unhappy. It was expressing itself in health issues. And that's when I made the major decision. I had this ah like breakthrough, right? Because we're going to be experienced challenges in this life and then we're going to breakthroughs. And instead of staying there, which everyone else was doing, I decided with George that we were going to move back to San Diego and I was going to manifest a different job. So we left that, we left Bakersfield, which was like basically where we had grown our life for the past like five years. And we moved back to live with my mom. And so that was another initiation, another growth opportunity. It's very hard to live with your in-laws, you know? And um so she was so nice to let us live with her.
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I think we were with her for two years and we were still paying rent. We got two rooms. So that was really cool. George had his own office. I had my own room, but again, I was so unhappy and then I ended up saying, I don't want to do this anymore because I transferred to a management role. I said, I don't want to do this anymore. I'm going to quit my job and I'm going to look for a office job. For some reason, I don't know why. I was just like, I want to be an office admin. Like that was a divine download that came to me. I have no idea why. So I was searching for an office admin job on the computer and I was like, okay, I'm going to have to take a major pay cut, but you know what? I'm just going to do it. And so I already set my, my sights on that. The next day I come into work and what do you know?
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My company posted that there was an office admin position for the VP of operations for San Diego. So I immediately applied. I got the position from there. The rest is history. I now work for the VP of operations, but as a recruiter. So I've been in this position for two years. And I have a dream job, you guys. This is a dream matrix job because first of all, I love my company. I've been with it for eight years. The growth opportunities have never like ceased to amaze me. I didn't need to leave the company. I needed to leave the role that I was in. okay I am not aligned to be a business ah an operations service center manager at a quick loop.
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facility. That is not what my energetic body aligns to. That's not what my soul aligns to. Instead, what I'm doing now is as recruiting is it fits with my energetic body. Like I am a single definition. I work very well alone. I'm very fast to work alone. I have my own office, my own space. I'm a 2-4 profile in human design. So it's like that It's like the hermit slash opportunities. So like I get to be alone and hermit by myself. Like no one bothers me in my office. I'm literally alone like all day, but then I also am social because I'm constantly calling and speaking to people and interviewing people. I go on site and I host job fairs like often during the month and I set that up and I interact with people. So it's like the both, both of best worlds. And there's so many other ways I can describe it, but we'll just move on from there. So now.
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I get to build my business on the side, feel safe and secure because I still have my corporate job that's supporting me while I build this business. Another huge breakthrough that I had is this podcast. So some would say that they would create, some people, their objective to create a podcast is as a lead magnet, right? Like they want to lead people to their paid offerings to support their business. Which great, of course that works. My objective of starting a podcast is like, I want to share my soul expression. I want to share with you. I love talking. I love sharing the experiences that I've been through. I want to share experiences of other people living their purpose. I want to educate you. I want to help you understand yourself and understand your consciousness so that you can live a life that you fricking love. Podcasts have been the biggest
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Teachers, the biggest like honestly, honestly podcasts have been everything to me the past probably like five years. Like I commute every day to work at least 45 minutes to an hour and a half. Podcasts are like my shit. I listen to podcasts every single day. I have different podcasts for different things that I like and I love it. And so I knew that I was here to share my voice and to like get to know you on this side of things. This is very one sided. There's not any, okay, let me just tell you right now, if you're curious about starting a podcast, there is no, okay, no, zero, zero, zero, instant gratification from having a podcast, right? Like I put the episode out there.
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I trust, I believe in God, the divine that is going to give it to the people that need to hear it at the exact time that they need to hear it. That's all I can do. It is like talking into a black hole because there's no way for you to respond to me. There's no way for you to to talk to me, to chime in. Of course, I get messages every now and then from people who listen to the pod and they tell me like, oh my God, like this one. resonated so much and blah blah blah and those messages you guys make me feel so happy because I'm like, oh my god, like you're listening like because truly as podcasters, we don't know. All we know is based off of reviews and based off comments and like you reaching out to us through like different mediums like email list, social media, Instagram, TikTok, it's like that's the only way that I know. And so I'm not doing this for
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any other reason than to express myself, than to work on sharing my voice, to work on being in my leadership, to work on creating my thought form, to work on my creativity and to put my spin on things and to share what I believe in out into the world, to share my convictions, to share the way that I see the world. And so that is another like beautiful
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that's That's another beautiful way that I have been able to change my life. And I had to break through the fear that was holding me back. from starting a podcast. This podcast is something that I wanted to do for a couple years, but I honestly didn't have the courage to do it. There were so many times that I wanted to start it. I had a microphone for literally like two years that I just like never used. You know, I would talk in my voice notes and like pretend talking to myself. I would pretend like having a podcast um episode that I just never did it. And I'm telling you guys the whole point of this episode is that I want to
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share this information with you. Because if you have something on your heart that is dying to be started, dying to be initiated, like you want to start something, you want to create a goal, you want to get to a certain point, you want to achieve something, you have a big yes on your heart, and you try everything, but it just doesn't happen. i That is why I'm doing this episode, okay? Because it is so worth it. Once you do the thing and there is you're going to see too that there is no end goal like starting the podcast. Okay, like where's the end goal? There is no end goal. It's just that I'm so happy on the journey of podcasting. That's why I show up every single week because it's so fulfilling to me. I have so much fun. It brings me so much joy. It's like the one thing I really look forward to. I
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Never have notes. I never have scripts. Sometimes I have notes like today. I had a few notes of what I want to talk about I'll have like a rough outline sometimes but most of the time I'm just pressing start and I'm just talking. I'm just speaking And it's going to be different for everybody. And if I was to listen to somebody who told me, oh, you need to have like an outline of every single episode and plan it or batch it like six months ahead of time or whatever the thing is, I wouldn't have been successful because I would have been trying to follow somebody else's model of success. And my whole point behind this is that like your human design, your gene keys,
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show you your model of success. Whatever you want to create, whatever you want to do, your big yes, it's going to be very hard to achieve it. If you're following a coach, a leader, a mentor, who is teaching you their way, their specific way, and they're like very um rigid on their way. And even you know this. like I'm sure you've taken many courses. I'm sure you've tried many times to do this thing that you want to do, but it just never works because you're like, ew, that doesn't feel good. like I don't want to do it that way. And guess what? You don't have to do it that way. Some people
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When it comes to podcasting, some people are going to thrive from having very structured notes, okay? Some people are going to thrive from planning their content out six months ahead of time and like batch contenting it. Some people are going to thrive from being on the fly like me. Some people are going to thrive from getting an idea and be like, oh my God, I want to talk about that. We're all so different. so The missing piece when you're trying to achieve this goal is not more information.
Aligning Actions with Energetic Codes
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It's not more strategy, okay? Like you don't need more strategy. What you need is to tune into your unique design, into your unique energetic codes from your jane keys, into
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looking at your blocks, your limiting beliefs, your shadows, and then using mindset tools to overcome them. Like that's really all you need to do. It's so easy. It really is. It's so easy. It's, it really is. It's really as easy as we want to make it be as easy. Okay. And I really believe that certain things are just either for us or they're not meant for us. If you're having so much resistance trying to complete this, yes, or trying to do this goal, first of all, I want you to ask yourself, do you actually want it and why? Do you want it? Why do you want it? Is it because you took a life coaching certification, right? And now you think you're obligated to become a coach.
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What if you don't really want to be a coach? Maybe that's why you have so much resistance because your soul doesn't want to be a fucking coach, but you feel like you invested so much money into the certification. You took so much training. Everyone else is doing it. You're comparing yourself to everyone else's journey. So you feel like you must find some way that you can be a coach, but girl, if you don't want to coach, then you don't want to coach. So there's something else that your soul desires to do. And where I would start to look at is two places. Okay. This also brings me. to my big announcement that I am hosting my Jane Keys Masterclass for July. Okay, July 13th or 14th, let me see you. Doo doo doo. July 14th, Sunday, July 14th, 3 p.m. PST, mark your calendars. It's gonna be so much more fun if you're there in person because I call it a masterclass because I'm teaching you a lot of shit, but it's also gonna be like a workshop, okay? Like you're gonna bring your
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Let me just tell you about it really quick, and then we'll continue with this conversation. So July 14th, 2024 at 3 p.m. PST, the recording will also be sent out if you can't make it live, but I am hosting a Jean Keys workshop, and I want to give you the exact name, girl, so that it can be official for you. um I just always, I forgot what I named it, like undefined Ashna, I can't remember a little details. Okay, so it is piecing together your sole purpose, Jean Keys Masterclass. so your sole purpose blueprint piecing together the activation sequence gene keys masterclass. What is this? Well, let me tell you girl, we, you're going to pull up your whole genetic profile on geneticmatrix dot.com. Okay. You're going to specifically toggle the toggle button on to activation sequence so that you just are looking at the activation sequence, which is the life's work, evolution, radiance, and purpose spheres, those four spheres. This is the first pathway to enlightenment, which is,
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the individual path, okay? but What I love about the jinkies is it teaches us that that there's three paths to enlightenment and there is a specific way to go through it. Not everybody knows that, not everybody does that. The way I teach it is very structured so that it gives you more room to be in your feminine. So the first path is the activation sequence, which is learning all about how to
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understand and unlock your four prime gifts by understanding your four prime shadows, basically. And so we're going to be going through what your life's work is, your evolution, which is like the biggest, the biggest soul lesson that you're here to learn. We're going to be going over your radiance, which is like how you're here to be healthy and thrive. And we're going to go over your purpose sphere, which is like your purpose. Like what is your purpose in this lifetime? And I'm going to be going over the six lines of each sphere. So I'm not going to be, this is also like a little caveat or like a little claimer disclaimer. I am not going to be doing interpretations of your personal gene keys. So for example, if I was a student in my master class, Alyssa, I have life's work 54 and I was like, Hey Alyssa,
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What is Life's Work 54 mean? Like what is Gene Key 54 all about? I'm not going to do that. So if you want to know about what your personal Gene Keys mean in the context of your activation sequence, then I would love for you to book a Gene Keys reading. So I'll put that in the show notes. That is where I go with you for 90 minutes, one-on-one. And we go literally through just one sequence activation, which is about the self. We go or we can go through Venus sequences about love and relationships or we can do the pearl sequence which is about how to find financial prosperity through sharing your gifts with the world. We'll go through one of those for 90 minutes just you and me going into each one, each jinky like end the line. So that is very in depth what this master class is okay guys is
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um I'm walking you through the activation sequence so you can understand like, how do we traverse this path? What is life's work? What does evolution mean? What does radiance mean? What does purpose mean? And I'm going to give you the six lines so that you don't, you're not only going to know like what your line is, but you're going to see the difference between everybody else in the world. So you can kind of understand like where your gifts lie. Okay. Um, I'm also going to give you a little background about like, the founder and like what the gene keys even are so that you can go on and like learn to contemplate this, okay? And this is just a first of three. I'm also going to be doing in the future a VEDA sequence one and a Pearl sequence one, but this is specifically to understand your frame four prime gifts. You're going to walk away understanding your purpose, your life's work, how to navigate it. And then if you'd like to learn more about your specific gene keys, you can book a gene keys reading, okay? but
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Okay, so I completely forgot where I was going with this. So yes, okay, so anytime that you want to achieve a goal, your big yes, and you're trying to follow somebody else's plan or somebody else's structure for how they did it, like how I followed a business coach for a year. who wasn't spiritual and she didn't understand any energetics and she only taught like what she did to be successful and she's highly successful. It did not work for me. And from what I can see, it did not work for the other students um in that program, which is not her fault of her own. It's just that like we can't expect other people to follow our exact process or strategies and it's going to work for everybody because everybody is so uniquely different.
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so Again, how I like to see consciousness in the world to solve your guess is to understand, first of all, first step, understand your gene keys. So go to my masterclass. um The link is going to be in the description below so you can learn how to traverse your four prime gifts. Once you know what your four prime gifts are. it is going to put blinders on you. Like it is gonna put tunnel vision on you so that you stop comparing yourself to others. You stop wondering like, oh my God, like this person is so far ahead of me on her journey or like, oh my God, like she's doing this. Like no, I think I need to change this and like add this into here. That's why you're getting so confused because you're trying to be like everybody else. All you need to do is focus on yourself and focus on your four prime gifts to start off with, okay? That's like the first step.
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The next step is to understand your human design. What is your aura type, right? Like what are your innate gifts in your human design? What channels do you have? What gates do you have? How is energy moving in and out of your energy centers? How are you conditioned and possibly negative negatively conditioned by all your open centers? All of our open centers are going to show us what our limiting beliefs are because that is where we're conditioned to not be ourselves. We're conditioned to be like everybody else to follow that American dream where that's not how we were designed and so once you can understand that about yourself you can start tweaking the action steps of your goal of your big yes to be in alignment with the way that your energy works. For example say if your big yes is you want to
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Let's see. Say if your big yes is you want to launch a podcast, right? And you are a projector and you want to launch a podcast and you have tried so hard to batch content to force yourself to sit down when you already have a nine to five you force yourself to come home sit down try to like come up with ideas or try to like record it and it just doesn't work like you're too tired or maybe the inspiration isn't coming through and you're really comparing yourself to everybody else maybe you're like hey I want to do like a seasonal podcast this is which like I really recommend this for projectors which is like a great tip it's like have seasons
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so that you don't feel tied to doing like an episode every single week. like You do not need to do an episode every single week if you don't want to. If it doesn't fit into your energetic type. And that's not to say that projectors can't do one every single week. I'm just saying, like where are you trying to go against your energy to fit in with everybody else? So say you have been like, yeah, like really trying to force it and like nothing's coming through. It might be because of that. Like you're trying to compare yourself to other people and you're not realizing like, Oh, I can like take my time with this. I can do it in a way that feels really good to me. Um, or say, for example, if you are.
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ah manifesting generator and you really want to start a podcast, but the advice to you is like, you need to narrow it down. Like you need to have such a specific niche. You can only talk about one thing and that thing is going to drive all of that audience to your business and you feel really stuck and you feel like, Oh my God, but I have so many things that I want to talk about and I don't want to only talk about one thing. And so it's making you like not start it or it's just like really confusing you more. It's like, How are you taking advice from other people and going against your own energy to try to achieve the thing or the guess, right? um Let's look at another example of like, let's look at an example of weight loss. So my mom
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I don't know if I should have shared that as my mom. I don't think she'll care. So my mom is on a weight loss journey and she hired me as her coach. And so I am her like energetic mindset accountability coach. She's working with me one on one to achieve her goal. She has like triple split definition in her design. And so it's hard for her to, that this is just one part of her design that that we've worked on, that we figured out. It is easier for her to be connecting with somebody to achieve her goals and to get things done. So like check-ins, we do daily check-ins, like accountability, daily accountability. She sends me her progress daily. And then we also have weekly check-ins that are like more in depth with like a biofeedback form.
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She tried to do it on her own for so many years and just like nothing is working. And again, this is just one very like basic tip of the iceberg example talking about definition where like there's so much more in her design where it's like very helpful the relationship that we have and the the container that we created. And that is what I love so much about energetics and working with somebody who understands energetics is like everything is so specific and individualized. Like there's not just one way that I work with my clients. It's very based on their needs. so For her, she has specific things that she sends in and checks with checks in with me every single day, and that feels so supportive for her, right? That feels like, wow, like I feel supported, and I'm also getting this energy off of this other person, and like it's really helping her.
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The next thing that we can look at besides energetics and making sure that like our energy is right when we want to achieve that goal is also looking at our beliefs and like negative beliefs that come up. So when I set the stage at the beginning and I told you that like all of our beliefs are really programmed from zero to seven unless we have like some sort of awakening and we decide to like look at them and change them. So from zero to seven our beliefs are there. So we have got had to go in and look at her beliefs around her body, around food, around all of the things that you would that you would think of that you might not even think of that would impact somebody's weight loss journey. So like self esteem, everything. And what we've used is
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This is very new. I'm just giving you her as an example, but what we've used so far is we have used a hypnosis session to this just started on Sunday. That's why it's so fresh. I'm excited. talk I hope she doesn't get mad that I'm sharing this, but on Sunday we did a hypnosis session and I was able to go in to her subconscious, speak directly to her subconscious. and give it commands that I want it to do for us and to get it on board for us. And then I did a beautiful guided meditation for her to connect with her higher self and to actually like see her reflection of who she is becoming so that we can really connect her with her higher self and like
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We did other tools that we are able to bypass the conscious mind and get to the subconscious mind, okay? It also looks like Akashic record readings and seeing like, what is the pattern maybe in a past life that is leading you to carry out in this life? What happened in this lifetime as a child that is affecting your ability to lose weight, that is affecting the way that you see yourself, that is affecting the way that you see yourself and prioritize yourself? that you prioritize your time, time management, that you devote to yourself to do the things that are going to help you feel good on your weight loss journey, like meal prepping, like getting the steps in, like going to work out, like de-stressing, making sure you're spending time on meditating, which is what she chose, right? Of finding something, a way to de-stress. So that is where the subconscious mind comes, work comes in, is we're able to bypass and look at
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the beliefs. I really like Akashic Records, honestly, to find the beliefs because sometimes we're not conscious of what the beliefs are. Akashic Records and um jean keys are like, boom, like if, if you're listening to this, and you want to do this work for yourself, or you do ah help other people with their work on themselves, look at the shadows and their jean keys, like that is going to give you major clues as to like, why they're operating the way that they're operating. And then it gives you a direct path for how to get them into the gift, right? And then use Akashic Records. So I use Akashic Records to
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go in and like find other maybe experiences that have happened that have shaped the the way that they see the world and we can see where like the distorted reality is and then we can use subconscious tools to go in and put take out that program and put in the new program that we want to be in there. So that's just kind of like an idea of like what I do specifically with her because we just started this um we just started Saturday and so far it's going so good. and And so far, she hasn't had any resistance. um It is only Tuesday, you guys. So we will see how it goes. I'm actually excited to kind of like give you guys updates. I'm going to ask her if that's OK. If I give you guys like weekly updates, I think it would be like really beneficial for you to see how this work actually improves people's lives. And it's kind of like a case study that I'm doing um with all of the new things that I'm learning and my new certification and that I'm so um'm just so obsessed with.
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so Yeah, so that's kind of like a vision. That's kind of like how consciousness works. So it's like I said, we're born into this lifetime. We're imprinted with these beautiful gifts, with these challenges, shadows that we know are there in our design. We're born with this like energetic blueprint, this energetic aura, a way that we're here to show up in the world and be ourselves. Then from zero to seven, we get imprinted with this programming that can give us positive conditioning and negative conditioning. It can make us feel really good about ourselves in certain aspects and then make us feel bad about ourselves in certain aspects. No one's to blame, it's just what happens. um We're subconsciously modeling everything that we see. So if you're a parent, just know that your child is listening, they're feeling, they're sensing, they're watching everything that you do, and you are creating their beliefs about the world from zero to seven.
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Um, and then, you know, we start kind of questioning things at eight years old, depending on how our parents respond to our questioning is kind of, again, how our shadow states are going to show up later in life. And then we have an option. Like we have all of these options in life of like, and chances to either randomly, like sometimes it really is randomly awaken, or we have these like, dark nights of the souls where we're losing someone, we're having heartbreak, we're losing a job, we are suffering from addictions, we get sick, we get ill, accidents happen, and we wake up. And we can either choose to go back to our old patterns, or we can wake the fuck up and look at the patterns that have been running our life and start to change them. And do the inner work, do the personal development work, do the spiritual work. And then any time that we have
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a goal or a big yes, a big dream that we want to do. Like if you've been experiencing that where you're just like, Oh my God, like I've been on the weight loss journey and like, I'm just, it's not working or Oh my God, I've wanted to launch my business. It's just not working. Or like, I've wanted to ask for the raise or I've wanted to apply for that new position. I wanted to call in that partner, whatever it is. And it's just like, you're just, you know what to do. You don't need more strategy. You just don't know why it's not working. It's for all of those things that I said, either the energetics is out of alignment.
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you're unaware of these patterns that are always playing out until we learn how to heal them, which is jean keys, or you're running off of old programs, which is subconscious, subconscious work that Like, no matter how much you try to force something, no matter how much guidance you get from a coach, a mentor, um from yourself, yeah how much you try to force it, do self will, willpower, will force through it, it is not going to come to pass if your subconscious mind is not on board. like
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It's truly like our body is not gonna do it. As much as you beat yourself up about it, as much effort as you put into it, your body is just, it's not gonna do it, girl. It's just not. And I've learned that the hard way for so many things that I've tried to manifest that I've taken so long in my life. um So yeah, I hope that was helpful. So i every time that I like finish an episode, I'm like, okay, I don't even know if that went where I meant for it to go. I don't even know if you see the through line. I hope you do. I hope that it's helpful. And I hope you know that like you have the power to literally create anything that you want. You can create any version of yourself that you want. I want to give you a tip also like that you can take away right now to start doing. So if you have your big yes, right? There's something that you really want to do.
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I want you to write down on a list on the left hand side of a piece of paper all the reasons why like you're scared or like why fear is showing up. like Why are you not taking action? like What is holding you back? What negative thoughts are you thinking about yourself? What is so scary? um For example, let's say if you want to launch a business. But for some reason, like you just like never go home to work on it. Like you have a nine to five. and You're like, oh, I'm going to work on it one day, but I never want to. And you're like, I want to get on my soul sucking job, but and like start my business. But like, I'm just like not doing it. OK, let's get really clear right now. What are the reasons why you're not taking action? So on the left hand side, write down like maybe one.
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I don't feel good enough. I don't feel worthy. No one wants to buy what I have. I'm not smart enough. I don't have enough education. I need another program. um My voice sounds stupid. um I don't know how to clearly communicate. Oh, I can never show up as a leader. My family and friends will judge me. Everyone from high school will make fun of me. I live in a really small town and people will think I'm crazy. um My baby's daddy will not approve and will make my life a living hell or My current partner right now is just like so unsupportive or I'm tired. I don't have enough time. I don't have enough energy.
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ah
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I'm scared. I've already been doing this for so long. I'm so new. I'm too old. I'm too young. I'm too dumb. I don't have enough money. I don't have enough followers. No one's going to listen to me. No one cares what I have to say.
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I'm not pretty enough. I'm not skinny enough. I'm not relevant enough. I'm not trendy enough. whatever Whatever it is, right? Like write the list of all of the shit that is holding you back from doing that freaking yes. And then on the other side of the paper, I want you to go through and think of a time of like how that's not true. Like I want you to think of a time where like you prove yourself wrong. So for example, um,
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I hate the way I sound, like I sound stupid. I want you to think ah of a time where you shared advice with like a friend or a coworker and they were like, Oh my God, thank you for saying that. Like that really just made me feel a lot better. Or a time where you stood up in a meeting and you shared an idea you had and your boss was like, Oh my God, like that's a great idea. Yeah. Like let's let's do something like that. You know, look for the opposite ways of actual proof in your life of where you can prove yourself wrong. and If you can't think of anything presently, go back to your childhood. like There's going to be times in your childhood.
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And if you still can't, I want you to make up something. I want you to imagine that you're your highest self and you're talking to yourself as a five year old and you're giving her a compliment because when we're speaking to ourselves from our higher selves and we're speaking to the inner child, like the little girl version of ourselves, there's no way we can be mean to her. There's no way we can hurt her feelings. We can only lift her up and say nice things. So make up something as your higher self speaking to like the five year old you. Okay. And then I want you to know that that is going to start giving your subconscious these ideas of like, oh my God, like, wait, there is proof. There is proof that I can do this. And that's something free. That's something that easy that you can just do for yourself right now. You can do that anytime that you're feeling lost or confused about anything.
01:05:51
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And then your subconscious mind is going to start looking for other places in your reality where that's true. And then you're going to start to see, you're going to start to reach frame your mind to look for the positives and to look where like, Oh, I actually am cut out for this. right? So yay! Okay, I hope that was helpful. Again, if you want to come to my masterclass slash workshop, I'm going to be guiding you through the activation sequence, teaching you my method on how to actually go through the gene keys, what the gene keys are, how we can use them to help us with our growth and involvement. You're going to see your, um you're going to come with your free copy so that you can follow along. There's going to be some like following along um
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like little, not journal prompts, but I'm going to be guiding you through some like code activations. They're going to be writing down. And then at the end, girl, I'm going to guide you through a guided meditation and Akashic records, meditation to tune into your higher self, to really explore a secret message that your higher self has for you from one of these gifts and civic states. Okay. So it's going to be super juicy, super incredible. If you. want a jean keys reading to where we sit down one-to-one 90 minutes and actually go through your specific jean keys and I interpret it for you and make it make sense in your life um then book a jean keys reading the link is below and if you're ever interested in working one-on-one um I do have three spots available that I'm going to be doing for July so I'll have three spots available to do a more like one-to-one long form
01:07:23
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um really more like long form way to work together. It's going to be three months and we're going to be working on like an actual, an actual process of you attaining your yes, of you achieving your goal. So if there's something you've been wanting to work on. If there's some, some goal you've been wanting to do, but no matter what you do, you just can't like find the energy to do it. I'm your girl girl, because we are going to be incorporating your human design, your gene keys, Akashic Records, subconscious reprogramming to create an actionable step that is aligned with your energy so you can actually live a life that you love and like do the thing that you said you've been wanting to do that you just haven't been doing because again, nothing's wrong with you. You're not lazy. You're not crazy. You're just working against your programming, right? And we're going to ship that. So amazing. I hope you have the most beautiful week and I will see you next week. by Bye bye.
01:08:20
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Thank you so much for being here and listening Beauty. If you enjoyed this episode, please be sure to leave a review and share the episode with a friend who you know will love it. We can connect further on Instagram at I am Alyssa Mae. So come say hello, leave a comment of your favorite takeaway on my most recent post and I cannot wait to connect. Thank you so much and I will see you next time.