Discover the secret to aligning your professional life with your soul's purpose through a Gene Keys reading. Learn how this spiritual approach can reveal your core talent, vocation, and the brand of your business. Simplify your social media strategy and connect deeper with your mission. Explore the Money and Business Gene Keys reading today!

Unlock Your Business Potential with Gene Keys!

Ever feel trapped in a loop of negativity and self-doubt? Explore how flipping the script and brainwashing yourself with your inherent gifts and genius can be your ticket to internal validation and confidence. Whether you're a seasoned pro or changing gears, learn how to foster self-empowerment over external approval.

Ditch Self-Doubt: Brainwash Yourself with Genius!

Discover the secret Ellisa uncovered—one pivotal realization that propelled her through nine promotions in nine years and helped her transform her life. Tune in for a powerful dose of motivation and find out how you can achieve your dreams effortlessly.

Unlock the 'One Thing' Behind My Nine Promotions in Nine Years!

Do you have an undefined or open throat center? Do you feel the pressure to fill every silence with words? 🚫 I dive into the 'Not-Self Theme' of the throat center and reveal how the pressure to speak can lead to social anxiety. I used to feel like I needed to say the right thing, to sound smart, to contribute to the conversation, to add something just to be worthy of being in spaces. 

When really girl, we're worthy just by existing. I don't have to say a word unless I WANT TO. I don't have to make something up just to speak and fill the space, and neither do you.

 Discover the hidden lessons in embracing the silence. Don't miss out - find your peace in the quiet! ☮️

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Is the pressure to speak contributing to your social anxiety?

In my experience a HUGE part of the reason I was experiencing social anxiety in my teens and young twenties is because I didn't know myself. I didn't realize this until years later experimenting with my Human Design. 

I was living out of alignment and expressing myself mostly through my shadows and not self themes, this looked like hanging out with people who I actually didn't have anything in common with, going to places I actually didn't want to be at, forcing myself to say yes to every opportunity because I didn't want to be alone.  The uneasy feeling in my body was a signal that I was in the wrong environment. 

Ever felt like you're chasing approval from the wrong crowd? 🤔I break down the magic of soul resonance and why not everyone's meant to 'get' you. Discover the beauty of connecting deeply with those who truly vibe with your unique energy. 

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Finding Your Vibe Tribe: Energy Matching Explained!

Ever feel like all eyes are on you in social settings? You're not alone. Ellisa dives into the reality behind social anxiety and how to shift your perspective. Discover that moment when you realize maybe, just maybe, everyone isn't actually staring at you. Let's get real, and a little bit cozy, as we break down the truth together. Tune in now!

Are They Really Watching You? What Social Anxiety Doesn't Want You to Know

i genuinely NEVER thought i would be the person to stop drinking coffee 😂

i love coffee. like LOVE coffee. it was part of my morning, my workday, my little walks, recording podcasts, doing readings, long drives… everything lol.

but i’ve also dealt with headaches + migraines for most of my life, and recently they had gotten to the point where i was getting them constantly. and somewhere along the way i got into this cycle of drinking a ton of caffeine, getting a headache, taking Excedrin (which ALSO has caffeine lol), feeling better and then doing the whole thing over again.

so a few weeks ago i finally decided to see what would happen if i stopped.

and you guys… i feel SO different.

i talk about the first few days of caffeine withdrawal, the brain fog, being absolutely exhausted at my desk 😂, my relationship with addiction + dopamine, sobriety, potentially getting tested for ADHD, and a story about me having an absolutely ridiculous meltdown because Jorge wouldn't stop at Starbucks lol.

but the part that has been the most interesting to me is realizing that i didn't actually know what my natural energy felt like.

i thought i was someone who needed naps all the time. i thought i was naturally super go-go-go, impatient, always needing to be doing something. i thought coffee helped me have energy.

and now i’m realizing my actual baseline is SO much more chill than i thought it was.

i still have energy. i still get shit done. i’m still ambitious and excited and very much ME. 😂 but i don’t feel like i’m constantly spiking and crashing anymore.

and that realization turned this into something way bigger for me than just quitting coffee.

how many things do we do over and over again for YEARS and eventually just decide “this is who i am”?

i’m not anti-coffee and i’m definitely not telling you to stop drinking it lol. this has just been one big experiment for me, and i wanted to share what i’ve noticed after 20+ days because i genuinely did not expect to feel this fucking good.

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88. i QUIT coffee for 21  days & realized I had no idea what my NATURAL energy felt like

hi beauty!

what does success mean to YOU? 

i own a business. i love entrepreneurship. AND… i also love my 9–5. 😂  somewhere along the way, especially in the online business world, quitting your job became this weird milestone that proves you’ve “made it.”  but what if you don’t f*cking want to?  

maybe your version of success is a $20M company with employees.  maybe it’s a tiny business you run from your house.  maybe it’s a corporate career AND a creative business.  maybe you want to work 50 hours because you’re fucking obsessed with your work. maybe you want to work 15.  maybe you want a huge audience. maybe you want 30 incredible clients.  

the point isn’t the 9–5. the point is: DID YOU CHOOSE THE LIFE YOU’RE BUILDING?  i think we’ve gotten so busy chasing what success is supposed to look like that we forgot to ask ourselves what we actually fucking want. 😂  that’s what this video is really about. 

✨  🧬 want to understand what’s distinctly YOU? Decode Your Genius with my Activation Gene Keys Reading!  https://stan.store/byellisamccoy/p/soul-purpose-gene-keys-recorded-reading

follow along for for Gene Keys, Human Design, purpose, business + figuring out how to build a life that actually feels like yours. 🤍

87. are you chasing the wrong version of success? LOVING my 9-5 AND ALSO being a business owner

GUYSSS this conversation was SO freaking good 😭

i sat down with my friend Jair Griffin — artist, musician, poet, 3/6 mental projector Astromancer + genuinely one of my favorite people to listen to talk because his mind just WORKS differently.

i’ve experienced Jair’s work myself + every time i talk to him he gives me some completely new way of looking at something i thought i already understood.

we talk about his experience growing up Christian + questioning religion from a really young age, how that eventually led him into astrology, Human Design, Gene Keys + metaphysics, and his belief that we are all literally God pretending to be human for a little while.

ANDDDD he explains GENE KEY 0 !!! which is his concept of the void — the nothingness that everything came from — and why remembering that underneath all of our charts, identities + stories we are also NOTHING can actually be so freeing.

because as much as i freaking love Gene Keys + Human Design, i never want my chart to become another box i put myself in.

we also get into something Jair taught me forever ago that i am OBSESSED with: eating your Gene Keys lol.

like actually taking all of this information OFF the page + finding ways to experience it through your food, body, movement, rituals + everyday life.

and that really became such a big part of this conversation because you can know your entire astrology chart, Human Design + every Gene Key in your profile…

but what are you actually DOING with it???

we talk about embodiment, intuition, psychedelics, spirit guides, time travel + Jair’s experiences connecting with past versions of himself, making decisions that change the trajectory of your life, preparing for the opportunities you say you want + why sometimes you have to trust yourself enough to make the audacious decision just because YOU freaking said so.

we also get into creativity + one of my FAVORITE things he said:

the best art is the stuff you make for YOU.

not starting with “what will people like?”
not creating for an imaginary audience.
making something because YOU love it so freaking much that other people get to experience your love for it too.

work with Jair: https://linktr.ee/jairgriffin?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=761142c2-4d0b-467e-a00d-847d440908bf

www.instagram.com/jair.the.dragon

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86. you are God pretending to be human: Gene Key 0, time travel + embodiment with Jair Griffin

okayyyy this episode is a JUICY one. i sat down with my friend Audrey Rainwater — dark feminine astrologer, mentor + pro dominatrix — for a conversation about what it actually looks like to stop dimming the parts of yourself you've been taught are too much.

we talk dark feminine energy, SLUT frequency (sexy, lucrative, unstoppable + trailblazer), desire, magnetism, sex work, shame, relationships + what Audrey has learned from having a literal front row seat to the taboo side of human experience.

Audrey also shares how motherhood became one of the catalysts for reclaiming her power, how astrology helped her realize that the parts of herself she had been ashamed of were actually connected to her life's work, and why sometimes having a map for WHO YOU ARE is the thing that finally gives you permission to trust yourself.

we get into:

dark feminine energy + feminine dominance
why sexy + magnetic doesn't actually LOOK one specific way
desire + pleasure as a pathway back to yourself
sex work, shame + owning an unconventional life
what Audrey has learned about men, women + relationships through her work
astrology, Lilith + finding confirmation of your life's work
and what happens when you finally stop giving a fuck about people's projections and give yourself permission to LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE.

this conversation is spicy, honest, fascinating + SO Audrey. 🌶️

work with Audrey: Audreydanae.com

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85. SLUT frequency: dark feminine energy, desire + becoming unapologetically YOU with Audrey Rainwater

okayyyy this episode is a JUICY one. i sat down with my friend Audrey Rainwater — dark feminine astrologer, mentor + pro dominatrix — for a conversation about what it actually looks like to stop dimming the parts of yourself you've been taught are too much.

we talk dark feminine energy, SLUT frequency (sexy, lucrative, unstoppable + trailblazer), desire, magnetism, sex work, shame, relationships + what Audrey has learned from having a literal front row seat to the taboo side of human experience.

Audrey also shares how motherhood became one of the catalysts for reclaiming her power, how astrology helped her realize that the parts of herself she had been ashamed of were actually connected to her life's work, and why sometimes having a map for WHO YOU ARE is the thing that finally gives you permission to trust yourself.

we get into:

dark feminine energy + feminine dominance
why sexy + magnetic doesn't actually LOOK one specific way
desire + pleasure as a pathway back to yourself
sex work, shame + owning an unconventional life
what Audrey has learned about men, women + relationships through her work
astrology, Lilith + finding confirmation of your life's work
and what happens when you finally stop giving a fuck about people's projections and give yourself permission to LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE.

this conversation is spicy, honest, fascinating + SO Audrey🌶️:)

work with Audrey: Audreydanae.com

work with Ellisa, book your Gene Keys Reading or join the Healing Bubble: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy



hiii babe!

this Virgo season we're being asked to evaluate our mission + business. are we FULLY AUTHETNIC and aligned to our genius OR are we lacking boundaries and giving our energy and power away? the true question is how do you feel the MAJORITY of the time? if you've been feeling EXHAUSTED like you're forcing things UPHILL, you may be operating from limiting beliefs. Truly, a simple PERSEPCTIVE shift of aligning back to your mission can unlock the life force energy you need to SHOW UP and FLOWWW! aligning back to the DIVINE WILL is the best way to reconnect with your life's work. :)

If you have Gene Key 40 or gate 40 in your human design, this is a special episode because i dive deep into the shadow, gift, and siddhi! and share personal examples of how this shows up in my life.

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xx!



84. are you tired… or are you FORCING a life that isn’t meant for you? | Gene Key 40 

Welcome friend! This week I had the pleasure of interviewing the beautiful Karolin Velliste and we got to talk all things spirituality, relationships, self-love, channeling + what it actually looks like to deeply accept ALL parts of yourself.

Karolin Velliste | Intuitive Healer + Channel

Karolin is an intuitive healer and channel who specializes in relationship + self-love work. Her work is deeply intuitive AND practical, helping women connect deeper to themselves, move through their emotions + triggers, and receive guidance directly from Spirit through her one-to-one intuitive healing sessions.

I've personally had a session with Karolin and her ability to channel is SO powerful, so I was very excited to have her on and ask her all the things! Karolin is also a Portal of You OG, and it was an honor to support her and peel back the layers of her genius. :)

In this episode we talk about:

 * Karolin's journey from being an atheist to developing a deep relationship with God + spirituality
 * how she discovered her ability to channel + developed her intuitive gifts
 * learning to TRUST what comes through instead of questioning if you're making it all up
 * how we both have Gene Key 48 in our Vocation + the shadow of inadequacy that can come up when sharing our gifts
 * why relationships can bring up some of our deepest wounds, insecurities + triggers
 * the difference between wanting to know "does this person love me?" and doing the deeper self-love + relationship work
 * why seeking external validation can become a bandaid for the deeper part of you that doesn't feel worthy or loved
 * learning how to regulate your own emotions instead of making someone else responsible for making you feel okay
 * why you DON'T have to be perfectly healed to receive healthy love
 * whether your partner actually needs to be "spiritual" + why having aligned values can matter so much more
 * how relationships can be one of our biggest spiritual training grounds — bringing up the parts of ourselves we might never meet when we're alone
 * learning to love and accept even the messy, uncomfortable + "unlovable" parts of yourself
 * riding the waves of our emotions instead of trying to push them away or immediately fix them
 * Karolin's intuitive sessions, love readings + the different ways you can currently work with her

Connect with Karolin:
www.instagram.com/karolinvelliste

Work with Karolin:
karolinvelliste.podia.com

book your Divine Love Reading: https://karolinvelliste.podia.com/soulmate-alignment-reading

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83. what relationships reveal about you that being single CAN’T with karolin velliste

okay this episode is with one of my favorite human beings, amazing friend + literally the QUEEN OF CONFIDENCE, madi maple ♡

and we went EVERYWHERE lol.

madi shares what confidence actually looked like before she became the person we see today — growing up feeling like there was something inherently wrong with her, constantly filtering herself, dimming herself + feeling guilty for the things she genuinely liked.

we talk about how confidence is NOT something that just naturally came to her. it’s something she had to build. and how the same work that helped her stop hating herself is the work that eventually helped her build a 7 figure business.

we get into how she started her business before she even really knew what the coaching industry was, recording her first podcast like 15 TIMES, listening back while she was doing DoorDash + absolutely ripping herself apart 😭 until she finally said fuck it and PUT IT OUT.

and instead of obsessing over funnels, positioning + trying to look like an authority… she started helping people.

“how can i serve people?”

free coaching. free masterclasses. free ebooks. talking to people. actually CARING about people.

which turns into a whole conversation about something i think the online business world desperately needs to hear: sometimes you actually have to put in the fucking WORK and build something brick by brick.

we also talk about why being fully yourself is one of the best things you can do for your brand — even the weird, silly, spiritual, partying, festival-going parts of you.

because how are you supposed to attract SOULMATE CLIENTS if the version of you they’re meeting online isn’t even really you???

and then somehow we end up in one of my favorite stories of the entire episode LOL — madi breaking off her engagement, selling everything she owned, packing a suitcase + booking a ONE-WAY FLIGHT TO COSTA RICA because she knew she needed to go experience a completely different life.

we talk about relationships where nothing is technically “wrong” but you still can’t ignore the pull inside of you… her digital nomad era, finding her way back to herself + eventually finding her way back to henry.

ANDDD we get into the side of entrepreneurship nobody really shows you.

yes, madi has built an incredible life. retreats. travel. freedom. friends. her soulmate. a 7 figure business.

and she also works her fucking ass off 😂

we talk about focus management, balancing feminine intuition with actual STRUCTURE, doing the needle-moving things in your business + why “$50k in 7 days while barely working” marketing can completely distort what building a business actually looks like.

finally, we get into the deeper work of confidence — comparison, overthinking, people pleasing, perfectionism, boundaries, nervous system regulation, identity + becoming the version of yourself who actually believes she is worthy of the BIG SHIT she wants.

this conversation is honestly business, relationships, confidence, identity, sisterhood, authenticity + becoming MORE of who you actually are all rolled into one.

i love madi so much and i am so excited for you guys to hear this one ♡

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find Madi:
Instagram — @madimaple
podcast — breaking butterfly

work with Madi- https://www.madimaple.com

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82. from struggling with confidence to building a $1.3M business teaching it w/ madi maple

this episode is JUICY.

i sat down with Cyn, spiritual guide + creator of cycle breakers, for a conversation about what it actually looks like to BREAK the cycles you were raised in + have the courage to choose yourself.

cynthia shares her story of being with someone for almost half of her life, building an entire life together, having children, moving across the country + eventually realizing that even though everything looked “good” from the outside… she wasn't happy.

we talk about those tiny intuitive hits that tell you something isn't right, what happens when you keep ignoring them, and how fucking HARD it can be to leave something you still have love for.

we also get into motherhood + trying to parent differently than you were parented, family wounds, anger + the shame we can carry around our shadowy reactions, and why healing doesn't mean you suddenly become a perfect person who never gets triggered again.

PLUS we get into cynthia's spiritual gifts + her ability to pick up on when something in someone's life needs to END — whether that's a relationship, a job or an entire chapter.

we talk about:

♡ leaving relationships + choosing yourself
♡ learning to actually TRUST your intuition
♡ breaking generational cycles as a mother
♡ why healing doesn't mean never getting triggered again
♡ spiritual gifts + recognizing endings
♡ using your voice + throat chakra work
♡ turning the shit you've actually lived through into the work you're here to do
♡ why sometimes the thing you're most equipped to help someone through is the exact thing you've had to overcome yourself
♡ cynthia's new cycle breakers membership + creating a space for REAL, vulnerable conversations

this conversation is raw, funny, vulnerable + VERY real.

because sometimes cycle breaking isn't about fixing what already exists.

sometimes it's finally admitting...

this chapter is DONE.

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CONNECT WITH CYN: Instagram & tiktok @healwithcynthia 

Podcast: RandomSpirit 

website: www.randomspirithealing.com

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xx, love you!

81. the courage to END the cycle w/ Cyn

there are people out there RIGHT NOW that have had their lives CHANGED by you just being you... and you have NO IDEA!!!! even outside of your paid offers people are inspired by you just you BEING YOU. 

i experienced a really synchronistic moment when I went to get my oil changed today and it's something that happens all the time... and we don't even know. 

YOUR PURPOSE is so much bigger than just your business, and WHO YOU ARE inspires change in everyone around you.

want to listen to my private podcast on Gene Key 29??? join the Healing Bubble membership where i drop the weekly cosmic forecasts! 

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book your Gene Keys reading or apply to Portal of You, my 6 month private initiation into the study of YOU!

https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

xx, love youuu!

80. you have NO IDEA who you’ve already inspired... leaders, listen to this.

Join Ellisa, your Spiritual Life Coach and Gene Keys Expert as she inspires and guides Purpose Seekers and Spiritual Leaders to live their soul's purpose with confidence! Each week we dive into spirit

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It's Happening For Me 

Join Ellisa, your Spiritual Life Coach and Gene Keys Expert as she inspires and guides Purpose Seekers and Spiritual Leaders to live their soul's purpose with confidence! Each week we dive into spirituality, personal growth and development, Gene Keys, Akashic Records, and explore the subconscious mind. Through personal stories and experiences learning life's biggest lesson that it is all HAPPENING FOR US. Relatable, warm, and approachable, you belong here! 

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