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s2e13: we had to re-evaluate things for the new year…
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Transcript
Introduction and Podcast Setup
00:00:00
Speaker
Hey Chris. Hi Eames, what's up? I have to tell you something. Oh my god, okay. Should I three-way paint in? Yeah, call me. Okay. Hello? Hey, Eames needs to tell us something. I'm three-waying you in. Okay, immediately. Okay, so... I got my ticket for the long way round. To follow whiskey for the way. And I throw one bite some sweet company.
00:00:27
Speaker
That's my face yeah tomorrow what to say. The second the singing started, I was like, I know where this is going. It's going to be going for 15 minutes. And I knew my girl was going to back me up. And thank you. Always. Welcome to Three Way. This is hosted by your girl, Iman, and we're going to get right into it. So Kristen and Payne are also here.
00:00:52
Speaker
Yes, but right. So first things first, we're going to start with a couple of things. Right now, today, when this is coming out, this is Peyton's birthday. So everyone go comment, actually. Let's see, what would she say? Go comment, go Peyton, go Peyton, go. On all of our photos. Go, go, go.
Peyton's Engagement Story
00:01:12
Speaker
And also, she's got a little announcement. Our girl has since gotten hit, shoulder ring.
00:01:18
Speaker
Well, I haven't gotten hitched, but I got engaged. She got engaged. My hands are as big as my, I mean, I guess everyone's hand is as big as their face. Is that the, is everyone? Just and show us the ring like this.
00:01:36
Speaker
Gorgeous. how did it happen? Tell us all the deeds as if we never heard them. So I am going to talk about it on a note to self in detail. So, but basically it was the most calm me situation ever. We just did it at our house and I told you all like first, but I will say like I was involved in the making of the ring and all that stuff. So like I knew what the fuck was going on.
00:02:02
Speaker
We've been doing this is going on for months, a lot of back. Can we post some of the screenshots of you being involved in your engagement in the post round? Yeah, it's also patent. It's like the most patent engagement of all time. Yeah, here's the thing. I think that and I want to talk about this some more on my episode, just because it's going to be about like, almost like the anti engagement where it's like,
00:02:26
Speaker
We have been dating for a while. We have now had two homes together, like built two homes together slash renovated. We've moved to so many places, like no shit. We were going to get married at this point. Like we broke up, we got back together. I'm like, obviously this was already decided. It was just like, I wanted to be together for like a year before we like day to day before we like decided to get married, like brush off of, uh, I guess i this is so crazy. Just you even saying that I know we broke up and then we like, I didn't want all that shit as y'all saw anyway. So I was like, we got back together knowing we're going to get married. So like I
Reflections on Engagement and Relationships
00:03:02
Speaker
was excited, but I was so involved in every single part of it that now when I tell people I'm engaged, like everyone else is like more excited than me. Cause like we already did, I already did this in my head. Yeah. Yeah. You know, that makes sense, but it is nice to have the ring. The ring is really beautiful. I will say though, like,
00:03:18
Speaker
It's quite obvious. Like if you look at my hand, like you're going to look at it and it feels weird to be like someone's fiance. Like I don't think I ever imagined myself being that. And like, it makes me like a little, like I get a little lump in my throat, not cause I don't want to be married, but I'm like, I feel like this is like a false advertising for who I am.
00:03:38
Speaker
Yeah, like I don't don't feel like you fit into the category necessarily. Yeah. So we have to like define, we have to like carve out room for people like me and like us obviously, but like, yeah, like how we'll all be I'm sure. Yeah. Like the day after I, I went to Pilates and then, and I like was scared to take the ring off and put it down. So I'm like doing Pilates with the ring on and I'm like, this just like feels like it's the Pilates princess of it all, plus the ring, plus the night. get I mean i wouldn't got like a latte and I'm just like, no. It's like, sorry. Yeah. I have like, okay. Like it's like almost like I'm grabbing my coffee, but like, I know that this is annoying. Like, I don't know. Like, I don't want everyone to know that like, this is like, I get it. I'm in on it. Yeah. No one needs to like, look at me like this is like, I have it together. Like I'm still just little old me.
00:04:29
Speaker
i got so like Do you sleep with the ring? Like, are you supposed to sleep with a ring? Are you, are you supposed to work out with the ring on? Like, are they want to take it off as little as possible because you want 0% chance of losing it. Yeah. and that' talk Talk into the portal right now that you're not going to lose it.
00:04:47
Speaker
Oh, I would never, I'm never losing this
Wedding Planning Details
00:04:50
Speaker
ring. I, so I didn't think about that going to Pilates. It was literally, I had it for eight hours or like nine hours or whatever. So I like went to Pilates, which is rare in the first, like I woke up and went to Pilates and Joe was like, wow. He's like, oh, you're different. He was like, you should have like made muffins that morning.
00:05:13
Speaker
Well, I had made, I made myself muffins a couple of mornings prior. So I've been having muffins actually. So thanks for reminding me of that, um, to add to my list. But Joe was actually so quick with the calling me fiance because he's been talking to like teams now on the, on the phone a lot. So like a manager will call him or like a coaching coach will call him because he's probably going to decide soon. Like if not, by the time this comes out, he might've already, might've already said where he's playing.
00:05:37
Speaker
Um, but anyway, he's been talking about it and I'm sitting in here just like deep tap, tap, tap, tapping. Cause of course I got engaged and then like we watched a show and then I came in here and started editing a video. Like that's what I was doing. the and time So he was on the phone and I heard him be like, yeah, my fiance and I are just going to do this. And I literally was like, Oh,
00:05:59
Speaker
yeah I don't know. I didn't know we were like doing that like right off the bat. And also like, how did you remember to say that? from Yeah. Like when does it start after you get engaged? Like how soon do I have? Cause it's also kind of like, I already have all the intention of attention on me getting engaged. Like now to be like, yeah, my fiance, it's like, I can't. It's all very picky. It's all very tall. That's what it feels like. Yes. And you can't wait, Iman. No, it's already so expected of me that I can't do it. like The thought of it paralyzed me to have to wear that around after everyone knows I'm like dying to get engaged, and then I like have to wear it. And everyone's like, oh my God. I'm like, fuck. like please just like Well, that's why like after it happened, I didn't tell anyone. I told you guys because I knew you were going to be normal about it. um But I put it on my close friend's story today, so a couple days after. I screenshotted that just to have for some paper. Yeah. Well, I literally was like, I don't want to text all these people and then I'm going to go back and forth via text and like, they're going to be so excited. And I feel like when someone's excited for me, I'm just like, yeah, so cool. So fun. Like i I am excited, but I don't think like I'm excited to be married and I love the ring, but it's not like I'm not a very, obvious you don't want the obvious combos around it. You want to be able to tell us like.
00:07:19
Speaker
all the like nuance, weirdness around it, I feel like. but also like like It's kind of like it my engagement was a symbol of just like how I want people to act. Joe was not so serious. He did not do a big declaration of love because he knew if he did that, I was already nervous. and i like i knew Knowing it was coming, I was still nervous. and Are you going to make him do that at some point though? Because I think if i I would want to hear that.
00:07:42
Speaker
Oh, he does that all the time. I ask him his name. he like about me all the time Yeah. sorry yeah to be loved far from it i I ask him like if we're at dinner or something, I'm like, okay, what about today? We used to like, we used to go to sleep every night. we We should read state and state this, but every night before we went to sleep, we would have to say something. One thing that we loved about that person that day.
00:08:09
Speaker
That's really cute. So I definitely like get enough of that and obviously we're gonna get married and we're gonna do like private vows and stuff. Are you guys gonna do vows in front of everyone? No. There's no way in hell. No. I'm doing that secret. No one can know.
Post-Engagement Reflections
00:08:26
Speaker
I don't know. I just hate anything performative feeling, so I've been trying to do like- You're not doing bridesmaids, right? Didn't you say you- No bridesmaids. You already asked me. She didn't ask you? No, she did, but then she said she wasn't doing it after, so that's why I just said that because she already asked me a long time ago. It was like literally before she knew you. Okay, hold on. No, it was like, I don't know. I think it was like 10 years ago almost that she asked me. I don't remember the date, but anyway, more recent.
00:08:52
Speaker
I feel like this whole engagement I'm trying to remind myself like you can do it how you want to do it. You don't need to like yeah play and do it if you're not getting there's no rules. You can do however you want um and like I am excited so I don't have to like cosplay excited because I just like that's not how high my voice goes and I can't I'm just like not a giddy person unless I've been given a ton of tequila. So like I don't know. I'm just not. It's just kind of a weird thing. I'm very, I am very excited. I'm excited to get married. I'm excited to see all of our friends in one room. Um, I'm excited to do something in my hometown. The ring is stunning. Um, but otherwise, like even just getting my nails done today, like she was like asking me about the color and all this stuff. And I was like, well, I'm taking photos. Well, basically all saw that what happened to my nails yesterday. And they i was going got them redone today.
00:09:45
Speaker
I got the gel taken off. So basically I got a French manicure, which is what I wanted for photos. Cause I was going to take pictures this week and compile them. And then like, we're going to post it on Instagram before my birthday. So I got French, but the girl did like a Russian manicure. She did a great job on the manicure, but the color she chose is like. No, it was bad. It was literally like I made Joe put his fingernail up to me and like my like the natural part of my nail quote unquote is supposed to be like pink because I'm literally translucent pale. and They were darker than Joe's and Joe kept calling him my melanated French tips.
00:10:20
Speaker
Because he was like, this is not your skin color. I'm like, yeah. I know. He was like, gosh, what is this? So I went and just got a different color today, but but I got like a milky white. And I could tell the girl was judging me for like coming to get my nail color fixed because I didn't like it. And she like was talking about that for a second, how particular I might be. And I was like, honestly,
00:10:43
Speaker
I can either eat this or I can tell her why I'm being particular. So like, what do I want less? Do I want to be embarrassed for being like, particular? Do you want to know that this is the one time that you really like? Yeah. So it was like, well, I just got engaged. So I'm going to be like, my hands are going to be a lot of photos. Like otherwise I would just keep this on and like whatever deal with it, but like my hands are going to be in pictures. So then she tells the woman sitting next to us and then she starts asking me questions and I'm like, I'm, she kept calling me the bride and I'm like, no, i'm go help no, no.
00:11:12
Speaker
Oh my god. No, no. What if the second Peyton gets like engaged to a black guy, she starts like doing stuff like that, like getting like... right jim got her know think about that Like she starts getting cornrows. Like what if she just started to like slowly start going that way? That would be funny.
00:11:34
Speaker
I mean, we went to the farmer's market here in Florida, and I saw a lot of white women with cornrows, honestly. So maybe it's the trends. That's concerning to me. Very, very concerning. But
Public Reactions and Social Roles
00:11:44
Speaker
yeah, Joe kept calling my melanated French tips, and into he was just like saying how like funny they looked. And I'm like, if Joe's saying it, like that means it's like pretty bad. um like Very mismatched. It's like, OK, my worst nightmare.
00:11:56
Speaker
Yeah, the guy notices that's bad. I had to wear press-on nails over the weekend to meet my boyfriend's parents because I didn't have time to get my nails done. He was like, your nails look gorgeous. They look amazing. They were literally coming off like the glue was coming out underneath my things. I was like, right. How did that go? Do we want to talk about it? Do we want to talk about the twist? No, not right after the engagement. Oh, yeah. Sorry.
00:12:20
Speaker
Well, that's all I have to say about that, but I'm going to talk about it on a note to self a little bit more and all the things that I'm trying to cope with. Okay, yes. No listen on note to self. Later, next month. Wait-o. Wait-o. Okay, well... Stink on, big things coming. Big things poppin' and little things poppin'. Big shit poppin' and little things don't. What's the other word?
00:12:43
Speaker
Big shit poppin'. I don't know. I actually don't know either. What song are you singing? The same song I was singing? Yeah, but it's big shit poppin'. And little things stoppin'. And little things stoppin'. Big shit poppin'. And little shit stoppin'. Little things stoppin'. I like mine better. Okay, you're doing a remix? Yeah.
00:13:09
Speaker
They think I've been in 2025, am I right? and Like that diamond on her finger. Payton has never hated anything more than this. No, I gotta go. I'm gonna start like turning it around when I go places like just doing this. No one worried about this. Do you want to talk about your second ring or no? My travel ring? We probably should. Yeah.
00:13:35
Speaker
Well, I'm not going to go into detail about that because Joe doesn't want me to go in detail about that, but I think travel rings are like normal to have so. I mean, we shouldn't tell people you have a travel ring because then they're not going to rob you. If you're traveling, they're going to wait till you get back home. well I'm okay with people knowing I have a travel ring, but we did a travel ring. And i'll this is another thing I feel like there's conversation about. Our travel ring is a lab grown diamond, but it's different than mine. Like it's the same cut, but it's like a compass setting.
00:14:10
Speaker
And we actually like the travel ring came in first. And I saw it like we're getting this one made but from a jeweler in Houston that came in first when I saw the compass setting. I really liked it because that was my original idea. But um I didn't think it was going to be my forever situation. So we had to reset this one and i't grab both at the same time, like a little like crooked. So it looks like you have like
Financial Discussions and Mindset
00:14:33
Speaker
two massive rocks. So it looks like i've that's what I feel.
00:14:38
Speaker
This, I, someone would chop my hand off. Can I borrow the other for some paper? i probably live for for so that I'll tell you about it after. yeah i'll tell you later I will say I tried on the travel ring, but like when we got it in, cause that one came in so fast, but this one we were like waiting in her travel ring. but Don't say that. Don't say that.
00:15:00
Speaker
cut that so eat that anyway What's this episode about? I forgot. I literally forgot. I'm not even drunk. Things we're breaking up with. Wait, did I ever tell you guys about the time I got so blackout one episode I didn't remember recording it?
00:15:17
Speaker
Which episode? No. I don't remember which episode it was. Was it my truth or drink that you did, that everyone said you were black? i No, that was a different one. No, it was an episode of Three Way. I can remember by the outfit I was wearing, probably. but No, I feel like I was like over the next day, and I remember you saying, like, I was blacked out. Yeah, I fully blacked out. But the next time I heard it was like for the first time, and it was funny. Yeah, that's happened to me before. Anyways. Anywho.
00:15:46
Speaker
um Um, this is this episode is what we're breaking up with. Oh yeah. Okay. Um, so who's going to go first? do do do Let's go. Kristen. No, <unk> go for first. I think I need to break up with blocking out.
00:16:05
Speaker
Oh wait, I didn't explain what this is. These are things that we're breaking up with before the new year ah to get our new year fresh, ready to go here. You make your own list, you send it in to us um and that's it. Okay. so So here's the thing. I didn't really think about like that. I thought a bit more like I'm going to break up with this in 2025. Like I'm going to work to break up with this. It might be like a little bit of a situation ship. We might rekindle a little bit. We might, you know, o wow no contact. Like I might not do no contact.
00:16:34
Speaker
sometimes. Okay. Um, but yeah, I feel like blacking out, not just for my, cause I feel like when I black out, I don't do that many things that are like genuinely, extremely embarrassing. Like I do think I'm just like giggling and whatever. And like, you can't really tell sometimes, but I am getting so sick, like actually physically ill. So I have to stop doing that. I relate to that 1000%. I am that was a forehead kiss.
00:17:04
Speaker
I am breaking up with not being filthy fucking rich. Am I right, girls? Why did I like know you were going to say that? Are you being serious? Because I literally knew you were going to say that. Yeah.
00:17:21
Speaker
I'm sick of it. I've been living for so long. I've been keeping it easy on myself and you know keeping my life. No, I'm ready to be filthy, fucking rich. I'm ready for people to be talking behind my back about how I shouldn't be making as much money as I'm making. Oh my God. Yeah. Like she doesn't even do anything. And she doesn't even deserve it because like, yeah. And I'm going to be like, God, you guys, I'm sorry that I have a portal to success and $10 million. dollars Um, so yeah, honestly, that's the biggest thing. It's like, you know, it's been great. It's been fun, like being responsible and like, you know,
00:18:09
Speaker
all of that, but I want to be dripping in cash. No, literally. Well, what's going to happen? Really, people talking behind our back like, that podcast is so fucking boring. How did it work? And we're like, we don't know. We don't know. We don't know, fuckers. Yeah.
00:18:25
Speaker
I'm just ready to blow up. I'm not even looking for fame. I'm just looking for fortune. I'm looking for fortune and no fame. That's exactly what I want. No fame at all. That's the goal. I want to be known by a select group of people that are cool and that I like and that I want to just have a lot of money somehow. Yeah, they just individually pay us to be ourselves.
00:18:47
Speaker
I love that. um Yeah, so it's spoken in the portal now, and we'll come back to this. We'll have to we'll have to clip all these clips, and then when it happens, then we'll be like, oh, the portal. Yeah. um We should start a Patreon, but like the the entry pay is like to like see our videos is like 50K.
00:19:07
Speaker
And then we make them, and then we get no subscribers. Wait, that would be like kind of art. Like if it's kind of like the banana on the thing. It's kind of like meta. yeah Yeah, exactly. They don't know why. And then it's like, we found out anyone was like taking that content and posting it elsewhere for those that weren't paying, we like hunt them the fuck down. Mm hmm. Because we have money to do it. ah Yeah. And that's why it's so expensive. Yeah. For that capital. But like no one really knows what they're getting from it. Everyone's like,
00:19:37
Speaker
Yeah, we like don't admit anything. Everything was actually raunchier when it was that alive and like and just on the internet floating. Well, that actually
Lifestyle and Self-Care Changes
00:19:46
Speaker
brings me to my first one of these. Oh crap. Fuck, fuck, fuck. I forgot I made dinner plans tonight. What time? Now.
00:19:55
Speaker
oh Well, no, I canceled one dinner, but I forgot I invited and a third friend to the whatever anyways. um gro Rolling right off the back of what Kristen just said, one of my things that I'm bringing up with is like saving money, which sounds a little counterintuitive at a first listen, but really it's like.
00:20:21
Speaker
I feel like I make the most money when I'm spending the most money because I feel like I'm just like in the mindset of like abundance. So I feel like when I'm stopping myself from doing things, that's like in my brain, like, oh, this is going to go away soon. So like, I shouldn't spend this. I'm not talking about, oh, I'm going to get drunk. I'm going to get a fight to Bali and spend a month. I'm not talking about like irresponsibly, like spending so much money that I have none left. I'm talking about like.
00:20:49
Speaker
I'm just doing it. I'm doing everything that I want to. I'm going to go to Iran. Even the stupidest, I'm going to get so many fucking Hailey Bieber smoothies in 2025 and I don't give a fuck. like I'm getting it because it's good to me and I like it. Oh my God, it's $20. I don't give a fuck about that. Right. You make good money. You deserve it. You have you need to have an abundant mindset.
00:21:13
Speaker
I need to have an abundance of those smoothies. I can't get enough, and you know I don't like her, but I cannot get enough of those fucking smoothies. They're so good. They're really good. That's my favorite one, for sure. I hate that I love it. Oh, it's so good. I want one right now. and I miss that. I don't even know if I tried that one. We'll go get one next week. So bright red, and I have tomato. No. I'm seeing a tomato. I don't see what you're seeing. Oh my god, thank god, because I look like red. Are you lying, Peyton?
00:21:42
Speaker
pain No, Joe just was doing something outside of the store, because I'm sure he got here. Oh, you're flirting. Oh, he's doing more stuff now. Is he dancing? What are you doing? Fiancé's in action. Two Fiancé's. Two Fiancé's Fiancéing.
00:22:04
Speaker
Okay. He's gone now. I guess I'm breaking up like kind of with my face. Um, and I guess sort further that I'm breaking up with not caring and putting effort into myself and what I look like.
00:22:19
Speaker
I feel like once I hit 30, my whole face changed, my whole life changed. I'm like, what the fuck is going on with my face? So I'm getting my under eye surgery and I'm not gonna talk about it a bunch. Like for example, my mom always is complaining about other things she doesn't like about herself. I'm not gonna complain about them. I'm just gonna fix them and we're gonna keep it moving. So like, I'm gonna get my under eye surgery. I think I'm gonna get CO2 on my neck, like tech neck, like while that's recovering.
00:22:47
Speaker
And I'm like, I like when I just like put stuff in the calendar and I'm like, no, we're just fucking doing this. Okay. Like I'm not looking at it every one more second. I don't care. And I think once you're 30 plus people don't bother you about it as much because you're just like, listen. yeah I'm aging. Yeah. I think I'm breaking up with being ugly this year. So I think I'm on the same thing. Yeah. I just want to feel, I don't want to feel ugly anymore. I felt like gross for the past year and I'm just not into it anymore. So not only do I need to do all that stuff, I need to figure out how to do my fucking makeup and get my skin in check and also not go to the shittiest hair provider in Jupiter, Florida to get a haircut like I did last week.
00:23:29
Speaker
So um that's what I'm broking. Having a bad haircut is like so, so, so sad. I never get the saddest thing that could happen. My hair's always so long and all one length. So it's typically pretty easy to work with, but I made the mistake of being like, okay, you can chop off like two inches and then like just make the layers more obvious. Cause I want volume thinking that I was in fucking Los Angeles, California. And this is like a celebrity hairstylist.
00:23:52
Speaker
Like she did her best. She was so nice. She like did what needed to be done for the situation. I guess I just thought I could like, I used to go to my colorist and be like, just like buttery, just like buttery blonde, right? And like, but healthy. And he'd be like, yeah they don't have and then like, he would do the most majestic perfect situation. So yeah, I probably need to be more aware as of late.
00:24:18
Speaker
Yeah, feel. I should probably put more towards more effort towards my parents. That's like honestly always my goal because I feel like my life would be easier and I would make more money, but I just get in the like workout like healthy hair mindset to where I'm like, oh, but if I don't shower and do my hair then I can get in another workout tomorrow morning and then I can steam and blah, blah, blah. And I just need to be a normal human and just like not do that. Be hot, you need to just be hot.
00:24:54
Speaker
Yeah, it's like I've been working up, I've been marinating into like the getting the being hot, but I need to actively now be hot because I've been now so ugly because I've been marinating trying to get hot. Oh, I get what you mean. Like you've been in the like, type phase exactly with the hair and the, you know, like going out my hair and going natural and blah, blah, blah. and Now it's like,
00:25:20
Speaker
It's time to just try and ramp it up. It's like just trying to be hot. That's what I'm saying. Like
Confidence and Self-Acceptance
00:25:24
Speaker
I'm, I've been waiting to be hot for like this, this whole year. I've just been like, maybe it'll change. Maybe this is like a fluke. Maybe you just do this. I'm like, no, you just need to get some self tan and actually learn how to put it on and stop. Cause you're just going to like yourself a little bit more. I don't know. I've never had this feeling, but also I love this again, here to do a baby girl. Well, I literally have to know I have to start fucking working out. I like don't have it in me to like,
00:25:50
Speaker
do makeup, do anything, but then I do feel ugly and worse about myself. But like, I don't know when it's gonna be like my wit's end. Like right now, I'm like gonna cut these clips and be like, why didn't I put on makeup? Why didn't I like try? But I don't, there's nothing in me that wants to, but then I do feel bad about myself. That's how that's how I feel. Like the desire is not there. I'm just like okay with not being like,
00:26:18
Speaker
the hottest pretties Well, that's what I have always thought. And now that I do so much stuff on camera for the past three fucking years, I have not looked at one video, especially on podcast. I've been like, wow, you look good here. Literally not one singular one. So I like don't even post them sometimes. And then I, it's like not that serious. Like I obviously think I'm okay, but like,
00:26:39
Speaker
No, we're getting negative. But I'm saying. We love ourselves and we are beautiful. We ah just. Yeah, but it's just like if there's things you can change, then fucking change them. That's what I think. so's like Yeah. But I think overall I got like now it's too exhausting to do all the things, but now I'm too exhausted to not do all the things. Yeah, because yeah. That's the ebb and flow of it all. I don't know. Maybe I'll try to wear makeup for like in the new year on recordings that I don't feel hideous every time I watch it back.
00:27:08
Speaker
Yeah, well, you when you do your makeup, it's like good, Iman. So I feel like you should. It makes me feel more matured. You know and what I think it is. You know what some people do, though? I realize this. Some people do find joy in like that process and like the makeup process or like they feel like it's like self care. And I wish I was a person who did. And then and like this year, I'm like, well, what if you just became a person who did like finding a way to do that, like to setting aside time? like y'all know how I've done my makeup in the car like to go out or go to events I've literally done my makeup in the car while I'm driving most of the time because I don't set aside time for that like people set aside like an hour or an hour and a half or maybe two hours to like get fucking ready like I need to do that you know
00:27:50
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I have a friend that she she won't leave the house and she'll beat her whole fucking face and like I wouldn't even do to go to a fucking red tide event. I want to be one of those girls. Because I feel like that girl has so many other things like aligned. Like they take everything else. yeah Like the girl that does that also does other things that I want to embody. Yeah, she's rich and fucking famous.
00:28:12
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Maybe that's what we need to unlock. Okay. We need to put more effort in how we're going to unlock the next level. I remember also when I styled Rocky Barnes for the Skatey thing, she, which like, she's kind of like one of the OG influencers and just like, is out and about and always killing it. She said she's done a cat eye every single day since she was 12. And I was like, I know for a fact that you're more successful because of that. I know for a fact, not to diminish your craft, but that's dedication. It's time to ramp it up, girls. We're going to be hot. It's time to look the fucking part.
00:28:53
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hu We're going to be like an edit coming into the next episode of our like hair flowing with our makeup on. like I'm going to blow out my hair or something. I'm going to learn. We only have filters. I have tits up to my chin. You can't see my weights. So you're going to laugh. I don't even know when's the last time I even wore a fucking tank top. I'm up to here because I have an ass implant. So it looks like I'm sitting on like a little bootster chair. Stupid. Yeah. okay
00:29:23
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I know.
Personal Growth and Goals
00:29:24
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it like it that it I will last comment on that. That is the downside to just like being confident and like loving yourself no matter what is that you just like kind of let yourself get by looking like shit. like why do Why am I still confident? And like why do I still have a personality? Why am I bringing attention to myself? I think that's why you have like a good personality, I feel like. I know. But then but that's then that's the downside. I need to have both.
00:29:52
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I mean, I do the same, like when I'm like, Oh, I don't look great today. Then I'm like, all right. Well, I have to like bring something else to the table. Right. I don't do that. I just look bad and i don't do that bad vibes. Oh, then maybe that's not what it is. for Yeah. I'm more like, I'm more likely to fit in a workout and a steam if I don't have makeup on and less likely to like go out for a drink.
00:30:16
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Yeah, I'm less likely to post like a freaking video on social media so that I'm like i'm not making enough money that i need I should be making more money or the podcast could grow or whatever if I want to post this. like I'll post it. It's not that big of a deal. So justin just an overarching thing. I love myself. I think I'm great. But usually if there's like a problem to fix, it's just an easy, quick fix. It's not something I'm like looking at and being like, oh oh my god, you don't deserve to live because of these eye bags. But I'm more just like, are you you could fucking fix this and then it would be over. And then we'll be good.
00:30:45
Speaker
And it's like permanent. That's another thing that I like about the surgery. It's like a permanent thing. Yeah. And don't forget, we have to like look at our faces a lot. So, oh gosh, anyway, it's hard, girls. It's hard. Like we love ourselves, but it's hard. You know, there's lines I don't want. Anyway, am I next? Who's next? Oh, I am breaking up with co-dependent friendships and relationships.
00:31:16
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Hold for applause. I know, I know. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Working on it this year a lot, and it's just something I gotta keep up because it really just... It sneaks in there. really just It sneaks in there, fucks me up. um And to add on to that also,
00:31:42
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just like kind of related, I should also probably break up with being single um because this actually is my last year of not being geriatric according to like, I don't know, my age.
00:31:57
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um who So we're going into relationships, but we're not being codependent. And how do you plan to achieve that differently than you've done in the past?
00:32:09
Speaker
I'm going to focus on me. It's going to all be all about me. It's going to be me saying what I want and what I need. Are you still dating someone right now? um I don't know. I like really don't.
00:32:26
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you know
00:32:29
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Maybe. I can't tell if you're being ominous because it's the podcast or if like something happened and you don't want to talk about it right now. Um, it's kind of both. It's like, he's been sick and working so fucking much. And it's like, I feel like just kind of like, uh, dwindling and I'm just kind of over it. Okay. Yeah. Um, but also not jumping to conclusions. Cause like, I know things happen, and but it's like, yeah, I don't know. you know when'm Putting your eggs in the basket.
00:33:00
Speaker
Oh, I'm putting no eggs in that basket. You know, when people are sick and it's just like fucking annoying because you can't really tell if they're lying or not. And so you're kind of out on them until they're better. Mm hmm. Like that's kind of what's happening right now, I guess. And then it's like the time of year. I don't know, whatever. So, yeah, it's like. Are you actually sick? We'll see. OK, I'm going to find a husband this year and we're going to send the help send a selfie in the hospital or else I don't know if you're sick.
00:33:30
Speaker
Yeah, that's actually exactly. um But yeah, anyway, this year, I'm meeting a really nice, tall, wealthy man, we're gonna live in a mansion with us on a steam room cold plunge.
00:33:46
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um room for the dogs and no animals to attack. And I am gonna get a new car. And I'm gonna stop being a bad driver. Wow. Those
Podcast Transitions and Future Plans
00:34:03
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are really good goals. Yeah. so I'm hoping for you that this is going to happen for you this year. you know Wow. I love that. I'm really happy. I can't wait to meet him. Okay. Should we do one more like just rapid fire ones so we don't have to explain ourselves that much? Or should Eames do a rapid fire? Cause that was kind of, I did a rapid fire.
00:34:23
Speaker
Oh, go ahead, Eames. Oh, I'm waking up with pretending like I'm trying to be hot still to keep the romance alive in my relationship. Like, the pooping, the farting, the like all the things. I'm like not doing it anymore. Like, I don't care.
00:34:38
Speaker
really that goes against what we just talked about with being hot but like ever since i got the stomach flu on an airplane sitting next to my boyfriend it's like there's no and it it's on like yes but he feels closer to me when i do those things and so but you're just letting it happen yeah i will say there has been relationships where i've regretted doing that like I don't think I'm gonna go thing full out but I think like I don't need to like societally do what people say like oh you shouldn't do this in funny way you should like I feel like I have a pulse on like things that he genuinely be grossed out by like I'm not going to like fart on him like I would on my friends yeah like I'm not going to like and you shouldn't do that i my brain what hands are you guys whatever you guys I
00:35:31
Speaker
Well, you and the farting, it's just like a whole other thing that it's her and her friend. It's her and her friends. It's not the fart. Whatever. Like I'm not going to like poop with the door open, but if I have to go to the bathroom, I'm just going to like go to the bathroom. Like I just I've been holding it all in for two. It's just I didn't realize that what you meant. I thought I thought you meant you're going to be pooping with him in the bathroom.
00:35:54
Speaker
That's what I thought too. I thought you were saying like, nothing's off limits anymore. yeah like And I was like, I've had a boyfriend that I've done that with. And I said, I never would again. Cause I wish I could have taken it back when I was at my house or, and I won't fight. Like I won't do anything or yeah if I have to go, I'll like wait for him to leave and I'll like die. But now I'll just say like, I have to use the restroom.
00:36:19
Speaker
We have a poop lounge. We have a dedicated poop lounge in our house. Everywhere we live, that's the poop lounge. And you have to tell the other person if you're entering the poop lounge. And the other person shouldn't be waiting outside the door. But if you just happen to be by the door, sorry. But you do. Yeah, it'll be something like, you guys were so scared for me. You were like, Iman, wait, wait, wait. I don't think this is a good idea. No, I really was. I was like, you're getting too comfortable. Please don't. No, no, I'm not. Not until you're married.
00:36:48
Speaker
No, I just mean I might tell him, hey, I have to go use the restroom and then I'm going to go to the bathroom. Oh, I didn't realize you were like covering so much. Yeah. I've been like, no, you guys, are you proud of me? I've been like. Well, I can't keep your legs, but you won't shit when you're in your apartment. Well, I can't lose our hair removal, so I'm hairless everywhere else.
00:37:10
Speaker
Yeah, but you have hair on your legs. I only have hair on my calves. I don't have hair like from my knees up. Okay, mom. Because it's like I don't get laser my knees below, so like yeah, if I wear Capri pants, but he's not feeling my shins. Interesting. She thought about this. I'm all about the shins. Well, my shins aren't shaken.
00:37:36
Speaker
then it's not a good sesh anyways yeah my shins are most likely hairy but everything else is fine i know it sounds a little odd when you imagine what that actually looks like but it's not as weird yeah I get it. I have that. Sure. Whatever. Whatever you think. Whatever. Now you guys are making me embarrassed. Do you guys have any more that you can Spitfire? I'm already embarrassed. I'm not sharing anymore. I am breaking up with my car. Oh my God. You guys are bullying me. What'd you say? I'm going to break up with my car this year. No. Both of you guys? Yeah. We got to go. We got to get out of here. We're getting rich this year. Yeah. That's why. We're getting rich this year.
00:38:25
Speaker
So pain is, and I'm almost there. his ho You know what it is? but I don't pay, I don't pay rent. That's what's really saving me money to yeah get a car. What car are you going to get?
00:38:41
Speaker
So this is hard because I was looking at safety crash rating things, which I mean like fucking five years ago, I never would have looked that up, but the Volvo, like the Volvos are the best obviously. And the second best crash test ratings for like death per crash is the Audi Q5, which is what I have. So I might just get a newer version of the Audi because Joe also has an Audi. So we might just be an Audi family.
00:39:01
Speaker
or get a Porsche Macan because I really like those and that's kind of what I wanted before or Austin has one and it's always in the shop. It's in the shop like every other week. Well, there's a ah Mercedes that I like a lot that has like a lot of good ratings too. So I might get a Mercedes SUV. My issue right now is where we're going to go for Joe's like to play. He's going to, we're going to need our cars there. But then we have this house. So like when I come home to here, I feel like I need a car here.
00:39:28
Speaker
So I don't really say you don't know what you want. yeah So I might not sell my car. I might just like leave the car here and get a new one elsewhere. But we'll see. Sick. It's break with my car um like a big year for us. Also,
Closing and Listener Engagement
00:39:43
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three way is breaking up with um our cover photo. Some other things. We're breaking up with not having merch this year. We're breaking up with Not making money from this. Um, right yeah, when pain says she doesn't pay rent, it literally just sent me like into a spiral. Like my rent is so high. Yeah. I took the discount off. i pay twenty twenty five I pay a bunch of employees now that cost way more than my fucking rent. So you can feel better about that. You know what I'm saying?
00:40:19
Speaker
Anytime we got money, it's going to be spent. It's getting spent somewhere. I'm losing more money now. than but i think i I think I'm going to move. Really? Oh, yeah. We talked about this. You're breaking up with the apartment? I just like without the like I'm i with utility, they feel like 37 and it's not worth it to have no sunlight. Yeah, I agree. And I don't use my second bedroom. I just throw my clothes in there. Yeah.
00:40:46
Speaker
And you'll have to fully furnish it too, if you really want to use it. Yeah. And that's going to cost even more money. Like I just think I should move to a one bedroom. No, I stopped, but I was seeing really nice one bedrooms for like 35. I don't need to. Do you go to his more or yours more? I've been to house like twice. He is like, Oh, I was going to say you're like never over here. He doesn't like his house. He likes mine better. And he lives alone. Yeah.
00:41:15
Speaker
Interesting. Well, it's like I have the groceries. I'm probably gonna make the dinner. I have two bathrooms. So like he has a bathroom. I have a bathroom. That's so nice. I feel like the last two relationships I've had, I've always been at their place. I want... No, well, I don't know. We would probably live in together at the year mark and it's been six months, so I might just wait it out. Anyway, tell us what you grow up with.
00:41:43
Speaker
Yeah, I was going to say, let us know what you're bringing up with. Oh, and don't forget to rate us five stars, please. Please, guys. Or your firstborn child is going to have to be adopted by Peyton. Please, you guys, it just really helps us. And look, it's embarrassing asking. We don't want to ask. It's so embarrassing. We're not going to beg, but we are just going to tell you it's important to us. Please. And we've actually kept up with this a lot.
00:42:10
Speaker
And we are almost broken up before we keep going for you guys. Yeah, we keep going for you fuckers. And so it's like the kind of the least you could do because it's like we're paying to entertain you guys for free. So it's like the tables have to kind of turn at some point or like we're going to give up.
00:42:29
Speaker
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00:43:20
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