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s3e4: this episode idea came to kristen in jail when she realized she should write a book about her life, so today we present to u: stories that we could write a book about.
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Introduction and Podcast Setup
00:00:00
Speaker
Hey, Chris. Hi, Eames. What's up? I have to tell you something. Oh, my God. Okay. Should i three-way Peyton Yeah, call P. Okay. Hello? Hey, Eames needs to tell us something. I'm three-waying you in. Okay, immediately.
00:00:13
Speaker
Okay, so... Hey, Silly Rabbits. What's up? It's me. It's Kristen and the girls. um We're coming back at you for a new episode of Choo-choo-choo-choo! Three-way.
00:00:30
Speaker
the podcast. Hello, everyone. And what are we talking about today, Kristen? We're going to be talking about scenarios that ah we have felt like we could write a book.
Technical Issues and Recording Challenges
00:00:40
Speaker
um And this whole idea came to me for the first time in jail, ah reading Chelsea Handler's book.
00:00:49
Speaker
So I'm excited to to get into it. um And here your girls is. um That was that was correct. In grammar.
00:01:01
Speaker
Yeah. In English. I can't wait to hear your girls is. ah Wait, Kristen, unless you're going to hold your mic there the entire time. that I knew were going to say something about this.
00:01:13
Speaker
Only because if you're not going to say it's going to throw off the volumes that you're talking. Well, I am. I'm going to. Okay. Then that's all. No matter what, there's going to be an issue. You're going to have an issue with my volume, my video, my like, like where, and where I'm standing. If I'm hiding my face, like, you know, this is just like something I'm going to have to do if I want to sit in bed. Cause my apartment is terrifying. And I, that's just like my vibe today. I it's.
00:01:46
Speaker
You holding the microphone with the stand.
00:01:51
Speaker
was named that Okay, you know what? Okay, you want to go? I'm gonna get one. I'm gonna get a Britney mic. Like, oh, my God, incredible.
00:02:01
Speaker
Yeah, I think that's like the solution. even move. Because I am over the logistics. Okay,
Personal Updates and Dating Dynamics
00:02:10
Speaker
well. It's me, Mom. We have a lot technical issues um on podcast. It's just like there's so many logistics. Oh, my God. Don't even give me a lot money.
00:02:20
Speaker
Can y'all give me a life update, though? Because I haven't seen you guys, and I feel like y'all hang out, and I'm just here in Philly. I feel like I've hardly been hanging out with anyone. I feel like I've been in another, like... Same heavy work vibe because it's like I'm either on set or I'm like, I don't know, getting like a last minute job where I'm like having to scroll for hours and like every moment counts. So like I'm hardly even like um answering phone calls. feel like you're editing this podcast.
00:02:54
Speaker
Yeah. And then in my it's like I have like four jobs in full swing right now. So I am. Yeah. Well, doing a ah little bit of like flirting and like light petting, but nothing heavy.
00:03:08
Speaker
Wait, I don't think you ever told us about your. Wait, actually, do you tell us about your date? What? but I don't think so. Your date with Tim. I might have blacked out that episode. I don't know if I remember. Did you talk about your date?
00:03:23
Speaker
I don't think so. I can't remember. I don't vaguely remember you saying... Was it with long dick Tim? Big dick Tim. Oh, big dick Tim. Okay, how did your date go with him? I feel like we've been you've been saying you wanted to wait and update me on the pod.
00:03:37
Speaker
Yeah, and I don't know why because it wasn't really anything like big. It's mainly just...
00:03:45
Speaker
Um, you know, when like a guy, so in between us dating, like he was in an intense relationship and then they like broke up and they were living together and everything.
00:03:57
Speaker
And so it's one of those things where I feel like he, is so ready to be back in that. And I'm still not really sure. This was mike my same issue first time around with him. Like, I never really fully liked him enough to want to date him. And then all of a sudden, yet we were like practically dating.
00:04:17
Speaker
Um... And I don't know, I just, I feel like he's like so heavy into it that I have to like be so slow, like, or he'll never fucking leave my house. Like I have to literally be like, okay, leave. Like I'm getting in bed.
00:04:32
Speaker
like so you're the fuck boy in this situation. Yes, yes. And always have been with him, which I'm like, oh, this would be nice. And he's like, you know, a little Calabasas boy that just like,
00:04:45
Speaker
you know, cooks in his spare time. And she I don't know, great but he's, yeah, he's also just like in this same area that I find a lot of men I date to where they have a really good job. Like he worked for, i shouldn't say I'm here, who um worked for this like ah music group,
00:05:07
Speaker
company for like nine years and it's like, you know, we always went to like his holiday parties and everything anyway. um And then of course he wanted to fuck off and like not have a job for a few months. And I literally have gone through this with like three or four men.
00:05:22
Speaker
and so he is now like in the looking for another job thing and whatever. He'll get a good one, but it's like, i don't really want to be there. and don't really want to be around until you get that job. I didn't need to see you like not – ah I don't need to see how you all vulnerable, you know? You know don't want to be dating someone like in their grind era. You want ah to be dating them when like it's already paid off so you don't have to see like they're like working really hard and like not succeeding. No, not even. I want him to like, I want to see him working hard. I don't want to see him fucking begging for a job over here.
00:05:57
Speaker
I'm like, it's the egg. You know what I mean? It's like, yeah, he did it, had a good job and then fucked off for however fucking long, probably a year. and then now he's like looking for a job. and I'm like, well, yeah, that's what happens
Toxic Relationships and Personal Growth
00:06:10
Speaker
when you go fuck off. Like, I'm not judging him.
00:06:13
Speaker
i feel like if I had an office job for nine years, I definitely would. I couldn't even handle it for like more than three anyway. So that's you're going to say this in front of Iman, who is the first woman to ever go into an office and work on a computer.
00:06:27
Speaker
No, she's remote. find that offensive. This girl is remote now. So Iman tried to have an office job for about eight months. You know what's actually really funny about like that topic in general is that one time I was on the phone my friend who doesn't listen to our podcast, I don't think, but like I'm just going to go for it.
00:06:47
Speaker
And she was talking about how her parents had just met her new boyfriend And i was like, oh my God, how did that go? And she was like, well, you know, like they obviously didn't love how like He doesn't come from like the greatest family.
00:07:05
Speaker
She was like, well, he doesn't really like know his dad. And then her, her, his dad came into his life like later around when he was like 18. And like, and like if she's like describing her entire situation to a t and like how her parents were judging And she was like, and it's like, I was telling them like, it's not his fault. Like he didn't ask for it.
00:07:26
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And it was to the point where I didn't even want her to like think hard enough into it to then register that she was actually describing my entire life scenario. So I just like moved on. And then she was like, and then the other thing was like,
00:07:38
Speaker
He works in a corporate job, but he just like doesn't really have a degree. like He left college. And like I'm not knocking people who like didn't finish college, but like obviously to like be successful in the corporate world, like you just kind of have to have it. So like I don't know.
00:07:52
Speaker
Obviously, again, describing me to a T, I did not finish college. The whole situation was so out of touch that actually haven't talked to her since, not because I'm mad at her at all. I was just like, I think we're on much different pages.
00:08:05
Speaker
Right. Like if you're going to judge someone off of those things, like here's the thing is like she wasn't even actively judging him. She was like almost advocating from his side, but she was so unaware of like real life problems. And I was like, I don't even know how to like interact. It wasn't.
00:08:23
Speaker
Right. Like, I love her. She's one of my really good friends and has been for a while, but like she's had zero trauma in her life ever. it me? was a perfect family. i and so Definitely not.
00:08:38
Speaker
But it was just like, yeah, I just don't. I don't know. just like, okay. Yeah. Those are just like nasty things to judge a person on.
00:08:51
Speaker
Yeah, it really just didn't feel malicious. It's like we're on different pages. I feel like you're parroting back what Kristen is doing right now to this guy And Kristen's like, don't. That's horrible. No one should ever do that.
00:09:03
Speaker
I'm not talking about him and not going to college or all of those things. I ok i know, but it's like it's your version of that. Okay. That's what I'm saying. that Yes, exactly. To where like, I don't like to see a guy squirm and like, he's obviously reevaluating his life every fucking day because he like is looking for a ah job and he's really set on this one that's, you know, making him apply or do ah a million rounds of interviews, blah, blah, blah.
00:09:32
Speaker
And I'm just like, you know what? Like I'm busy. i don't really need to be around for this. this like little mini roller coaster. mean, here's the thing. If you really, really were in love with him or liked him, you would.
00:09:43
Speaker
Right. Exactly. Because if she wanted to, she would. And I am And you just don't like him. It's like, fine, fine. Please, for the love of God, someone find me that I like. Yeah. I feel like you're able to kind of like ditch him and kind of be the guy in the relationship because you just don't like him.
00:09:58
Speaker
Right. But I am just like, oh, it is nice to be so... It's nice to adored. So that's what I'm saying. like That's the fuckboy portion of all of this. Right.
00:10:09
Speaker
you know No, I get it. So Kristen's in her fuckboy era. I'm not going to even say fuckgirl because I feel like women don't do this as much. So I'm just going attribute it to being a fuckboy. i think women do this a lot.
00:10:24
Speaker
Sure. i don't need to debate on topic. Not all of us are... Not all of us are, you know, on a direct path in life. I already did this, but I would consider myself a fuck boy.
00:10:37
Speaker
that wasn't like a direct at you. That was just like, I'm saying i talking to the thing is like, yeah, I've done that too. Like women do it. Yeah. But I'm saying it doesn't seem like at the same rate or with like malintent, you know?
00:10:51
Speaker
Yeah. I mean, I will say sometimes I, I do have to check myself and be like, you know you're doing exactly what you complain about. And I say, yeah, Kristen, I do. But sometimes you have to get fuck and fucked and sometimes you have to like be adored and like remind like yourself who the fuck you are, you know? That's important. have someone else, have a man remind you who you are.
00:11:14
Speaker
Well, yeah that's yeah yeah, remind myself enough. Sometimes I do need outside sources and so make sure that like it's still valid from the outside. You know what I mean?
00:11:27
Speaker
Yeah. are you Have you been talking to to your therapist lately? or No. Stopped going into the therapy. Okay. I'm busy with work. That's good. work is too like. It's too crazy and all over the place. I was canceling on her too much and or like rescheduling and I just I don't know.
00:11:48
Speaker
I also feel like i was I was completely healed. I'm completely healed. yeah You know what? It sounds like it. I was just thinking of hearing you talk. No need for further investigation. Yeah. I feel like I don't need it.
00:12:03
Speaker
Like that's what everyone's been telling me. They're like, oh my God, i actually can't believe you ever were in therapy. Like you're so like open-minded, even keeled. like And like who needs a therapist when like people are offering to read your palm and like,
00:12:16
Speaker
People are like people to into things like that. Right. It's like I'm just kind of like in touch with like everyone around me. Right. So I just don't really need like one person on their high horse telling me what to do. i Totally. I totally get that. um My whole entire life update really is just like the back and forth that I've been having with
00:12:44
Speaker
um the person that you guys – No. At all? No. Oh. Okay. So my ex-best friend recently um has tried to, you know, come back into my life. Did you send her an earnest text?
00:13:03
Speaker
thats and No. It honestly feels very reminiscent, though, of like a toxic... actual relationship like my boyfriend keeps saying like I feel like I'm watching you be in a toxic relationship like in front of me and it's also like embarrassing and humiliating in that way because it's like every time she texts me like my entire mood will change and then like If we're having a good day and then she'll text me and they'll like be really quiet. And he's like, God, like why?
00:13:28
Speaker
You know, when you're with a friend and you guys are out and having a good time, like, you know, she's texting her ex because like her mood is just changing. think that keeps happening with my boyfriend and he's just like, Jesus fucking Christ. Like, why do you keep that? I didn't know it was affecting you this much. meet Me neither. I literally thought I was completely over it.
00:13:45
Speaker
But I feel like the new angle that she's coming from is like honestly making it worse than the first time. I feel like it's just frustrating because I don't know that you're not. It's not that you're not over it. I feel like you are over I feel like you're so over it to the point where she's pulling out stuff that like are logistically incorrect or you're seeing like attempts at manipulation and you're literally just like...
00:14:08
Speaker
It's just frustrating because you're like, you're going out from this new angle and try to manipulate me this new way. And like, do you think I'm stupid? Yeah, think honestly, the first time we had a friendship breakup, wasn't that upset with her. And I also felt like she was very misunderstood by my friends. So when my friends would talk to you about her, be like, well, you guys just like don't get it.
00:14:26
Speaker
And I feel like this time around, since I've had so much space and I am over it, I'm not I'm like not saying with the rose colored glasses anymore. So it is making me more mad than I was the first time around.
00:14:37
Speaker
And then also, like, I feel like because she was like, and I do not use this word loosely, like, gaslighting me so much. And then now she's coming back around. She's, like, validating all of the things that I always believed, but she, like, would deny so long. And then now she's, like, coming back around being like, oh, well, you were actually right when this happened. And, like, I was wrong. when And I was just like, wait, so I actually...
00:15:01
Speaker
wasn't in the wrong and like I actually was fucked over just as much as I thought I was and actually can't gaslight myself that I was and it was making it even worse where I'm just like oh my god and then she like won't leave me alone and I already told her don't want to talk to you anymore that's worst part and then she like sent me a long text yesterday and then I'll be like I just won't wish why and then she'll tell send me a long text again like we still haven't had more conversations past that conversation just been like long text messages and it's just like
00:15:31
Speaker
It's just been insane. Oh, my God. I feel like because her manipulation tactics aren't working, she's keeping like she's coming back around like try a new angle. That's like it's just like you used to care and now you don't. It's really like an ex. We're like, yeah, back around. You're like, I literally couldn't care less about literally anything. Like you could tell me anything and I don't give a fuck.
00:15:51
Speaker
So I don't know what to tell you. This honestly reminds me kind of of my dad. Why? In what way? My
Intriguing Family Histories
00:16:00
Speaker
dad's very much like this. Like, he's kind of manipulative.
00:16:03
Speaker
um He's not like a narcissist, but like it's bordering on such. But he'll just like say stuff sometimes. Like one time he broke down to me in a Jason's deli and said all this stuff that he did wrong in my childhood because I was the first one. He was young.
00:16:17
Speaker
You know, my mom was young. he was at war half my life. Like it just takes like a certain mental capacity to like do stuff that you have to do when you're at war. Um, so I see where he's coming from, though. it just made him like very a specific type of person. Yeah. So when he comes back around, he's like, I'm so sorry for being these ways.
00:16:35
Speaker
And he kind of like tries to make you feel sorry for him in a way and you do. And then he just continues to act exactly like he has always acted. And you're like, what about all the sorries that you just said? and you just acknowledge all the stuff after you told me that I wasn't that I was crazy and I was being weird about this.
00:16:50
Speaker
And now you're doing this continuously for the next 10 years. Yes. The same as you always have. And it's like, well, I don't feel bad for you because you're coming back around on things that I had to validate myself over the course of years to get over. And then now you're like, well, actually, can kind of see your side. And it's like, thank you. What do you want me to say to that?
00:17:11
Speaker
And then, but here's the thing, people like that don't change moving forward. So they're going to do the same exact things that they were always doing. They're just going to have this one moment of reconciliation to feel good about it and be like, well, I came clean. And I'm like, what kind of manipulative freak do you have to be to do this kind of stuff? right That's why I think this bothered me with your sister situation so much because I'm just like...
00:17:31
Speaker
This is something that they need to debunk in their own therapy, to be honest. You know what i mean? Oh, no. She's going to therapy like ah once or twice a week, but it's just not. She's never going to change. It's a different version of the same shit. Like now she's like, well, I'm telling you, this is what my dad does. This is so TMI, but I'm like, he's been to therapy forever now. And I'm like, are you telling them like, no, that's the thing. Therapy is not it.
00:17:55
Speaker
It's not like. always ah beneficial. Well, you can like over, you can over-therapize and also if they're lying to their therapist or omitting things, like unless you're participating fully, it's not going to be helpful.
00:18:08
Speaker
Yeah. No, like narcissists can't do therapy because they're just painting a whole fucking picture to their therapist and then they just go in and it's a gossip fucking session about how everyone, you know, sucks and blah, blah, blah.
00:18:23
Speaker
Even like we've talked about that Eames, how i I feel like talk therapy sometimes, like, I was either ruminating on the same thing or, like, she was, like, too hard on my side sometimes.
00:18:36
Speaker
Yeah. It was, like, adamant about me, like, kicking people out of my life or – and I'm just, like, no, you can't – you can't do that. Like,
00:18:47
Speaker
but You have to know that like even though I'm trying to tell you both sides, I'm still only telling you one side. like you can't just – Yeah. Yeah. i don't know. Yeah. Yeah.
00:18:58
Speaker
Well, it's just been very interesting. The friendship thing is I honestly, ima when I was reading those texts, I was in New York in the shower and I was like, I was mad. You could tell i I was texting, but I was like, so pissed.
00:19:09
Speaker
It makes me so mad. But I'm sorry that it's affecting you that much. I feel like um this is when like you can maybe block someone for a little Yeah, it's just delayed anger. I think I've never actually been that angry at her. Like I never understood why the people were so angry. I just like it's just a bunch of delayed anger that's coming out. But I still feel over it. I'm not like tempted to text her or anything. It's just I also am still semi curious and like the things that she says in these texts. So I'm not necessarily ready to block. But with each one, it like affects me less for a less amount of time.
00:19:41
Speaker
I've also now had to create boundaries around friends that are like still friends with her and also still want hang out with me. Because like she would bring up in her conversation with me sometimes like, well, I've already talked to like XYZ about this. And I'm like, oh, so like this person's my op too. So I've already had to like, yeah, um but it's already been a huge thing, but we're almost through it.
00:20:04
Speaker
We're almost done. and other than that, um yeah, I've just been working, hanging out, um having some drinks and just like really catching a vibe.
00:20:15
Speaker
I am so happy to hear that. I am not happy to hear about, you know, the friendship breakup thing. Everything else. Yeah. Universal experience, I feel like dealing with a thousand percent.
00:20:31
Speaker
Dealing with this show. Well, I'm going on a big work trip to Tampa this week. Everyone watch out. That's my life update. For what? going for 48 hours to Tampa, Florida.
00:20:44
Speaker
um So I applied for this. I didn't really understand what it was when I applied, but it's like, you know that company, Four? Yeah. Yeah. They sent an email about like applying for the Dick's Sporting Goods like varsity squad.
00:21:00
Speaker
So to like be like first in line for some partnerships and stuff that they would have going through. And I know like a lot of people who have done partnerships with like Nike and Adidas through Dick's. So I applied.
00:21:12
Speaker
i didn't really know what it was, but then it's like I got accepted and there's 50 of us total. And allegedly, like, a ton people applied to this. Again, didn't know what it was. So I hopped on, like, a um welcome call with, like, the varsity team.
00:21:26
Speaker
And I get on this Zoom that I think is about to be myself, my management, maybe some people from Four Card, maybe some people from Dick's Sporting Goods. There are 75 people on this call. Oh, my God. Jeez.
00:21:38
Speaker
So, and if someone makes me,
Social Media Influencing Journey
00:21:40
Speaker
like, on this freaking group trip, makes me go on a run... I'm going to lose my mind. I haven't seen what happens on the trip, but I'm like, I swear to God, if it's 7 a.m. run, because I was looking at all these people's content, I'm like, it would be.
00:21:53
Speaker
be like, so what do do the space? I'm going to be like... I bet they're going to get, like, fucked up. Well, they're going to do what you do in space. And I'm going to be like. I don't know. I feel like runners can like, like do that. They can like get fucked up. No, I went on a girl date with this girl.
00:22:09
Speaker
Run it off. I went on a girl date with this girl in Milwaukee and she had one drink of course of like three hours. And then went home. Like we I was like thinking like, oh, my god we're gonna have a girl date.
00:22:19
Speaker
We're gonna get drunk. We're gonna go out and like hang out. because It's like a Saturday. She's like normal. She like invited me to play pickleball with her family. And I was just like, oh, it's just not the vibes. You know what I mean Like, i wish I could be that wholesome and fit.
00:22:35
Speaker
I can't do I don't want to hang out with your fucking family if I barely know you. What the fuck? Well, she was being nice. I was new to Milwaukee. I'm not mad at it. She's like a cool lake house. yes But I'm not into pickleball.
00:22:47
Speaker
you rub So, ah yeah, not my thing. I'm not going to play pickleball. yeah yeah So, I'm a little afraid about what this is going to entail, but big Tampa energy. Let's go to Tampa Tuesday to Thursday. That's what I'll be doing. mean, Florida just loves you. um you know i also have to fly back soon to my My actual home.
00:23:10
Speaker
um But otherwise, Joe's doing really well right now. They're in a game right now. And I'll be home tonight at three in the morning. And that's my update. Nice.
00:23:21
Speaker
I'm going to Beyonce tomorrow. i have a fitting with Lizzo later. and Okay. and ok Are you going to Beyonce with Lizzo?
00:23:32
Speaker
No. No. I'm not friends with clients. Oh, you could never Right. All right. So what's all right your story for?
00:23:47
Speaker
um Can I go first? Because this actually ties into my. Yes. Almost like sports thing. So it's not really about me. Let me sit. So I'm not like straddling the screen.
00:23:57
Speaker
Um, this isn't really about me, but I've, I have found out like two things about my grandpa and my grandpa's dad this week. And I've always thought like they were both kind of giving me could have a movie written about them vibes.
00:24:11
Speaker
You know what i mean? Yeah. In my life, it's my life goal now to not have a movie ever written about me. Um, I just want to be normal. So I just want to act normal and I want everything to be okay. yeah.
00:24:23
Speaker
So anyway, but their lives are like mysterious and like everything I learned about these men, I'm like, what the fuck did I just learn about these people? Okay. First of all, this all, this happened in the same day, like two days ago.
00:24:37
Speaker
I was ordering a Phillies jersey for the year because they just like give us free jerseys sometimes. So was ordering myself like a Joe jersey. i was like, well, actually, I kind of want to make one for my mom, too, because my mom's grandpa, so my great grandpa, played for the Phillies for a little bit.
00:24:54
Speaker
who And I don't really know much about my great grandpa because he was like within our family. We're kind of just like he was crazy. I think he just had like the same mental health problems that myself and my grandpa in an and a way my mom has.
00:25:07
Speaker
But like they didn't have medication or therapy. So he just like just medicated with alcohol. So he was like crazy. You know what i mean? So my grandpa like kind hates him, hates his dad, which seems to be a theme in my family.
00:25:22
Speaker
So we don't talk about it much anyway. My mom, though, still talks about him. So i was like, maybe I'll get her made a Stevenson jersey, which is his last name. My mom's maiden name. But i had i don't have this I don't know what number he was. So was texting our wives liaison and I'm like, hey, really random. I haven't told anyone this, but my great grandpa played for the Phillies and I would love to get his jersey made. Like, do y'all have his number in the archives? Like, I can tell you what year he played.
00:25:45
Speaker
And she was like, yeah, for sure. Like, that's so cool. Let me like find the number. And I didn't tell her anything about him. Like I was trying to pretend like we're normal. We're just normal people. So she's like, she comes back, like she has the archives person, like check it, like look it up.
00:26:00
Speaker
And then she's like, oh, we found his number. He only played with us for like the end of one season for a bit because they like got him from the Cubs. He was a catcher, but he was number 47. So it was like, cool, whatever. So then she comes back like 10 minutes later was like, we couldn't find a photo of him, but we found this press clipping.
00:26:16
Speaker
Please listen to this fucking press clipping, okay? The Phillies yesterday announced the signing of Walter Stevenson. That's my grandpa. They used to call him Tarzan. Young catcher who was the backstop of the Chicago Cubs the last time they won the National League pennant.
00:26:30
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Stevenson, a fiery young man who did not hesitate to tell coaches what he thought of them when the occasion demanded, was released by Chicago this spring. At that time, the Phillies tried to locate him, but he disappeared.
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Patsy O'Rourke finally discovered him in South Carolina and signed him to a contract he reported yesterday. The newcomer is right-handed both in hitting and throwing and once stood at home plate in the Phillies park and threw the ball into the left field bleachers.
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I mean, he was definitely an alcoholic, so that's like adrenaline, alcoholism strength. But the fact that he literally like played for, he got kicked off a team because he was such a dickhead basically.
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They go to find him because he's so good. they No one can find him. Major League Baseball is searching for him because the Phillies want to him. And then he finally gets found.
00:27:21
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So like when she said that to me, she was like, oh, lol. And I was like, yeah, I didn't tell you. He was like freaking maniac crazy. So anyways, I send that to my grandpa. At the same time, my grandpa and my grandma and my whole family is going to Louisiana Tech where my grandparents went to college because Brooks, his team was playing against Louisiana Tech, his baseball team, Dallas Baptist.
00:27:41
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Anyway, my mom's sitting at a game. My dad's talking to the guy behind him at the Louisiana Tech game. And this guy's like, I went to school here from like whatever years to whatever years. And my son went to school here. And my dad was like, oh, well, my wife's father went to school here at Louisiana Tech.
00:27:57
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And she was she was saying something about him and he was like, well, who's your dad? And she was she said his name is John Stevenson. And the guy looked at her but like, she had six heads and he goes, John Pat Stevenson. And like, that's what they used to call him growing up.
00:28:12
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So my mom was like, yeah. And he was like, I played ball. And I remember he was my idol. Like he, I was like three years ears behind him. I used to love to watch him play. Like, God, he was such a amazing player. Oh my God. Like he's just going on and on. And he ends this with, I almost named my son after him. What?
00:28:29
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And we were like, What the fuck are you talking about? So my mom has not heard this about her dad ever. She's this clipping from my grandpa, my great grandpa. She's never heard about this. She said that he never brought up playing in Major League Baseball ever one time in his entire life.
00:28:44
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My grandpa's never brought it up. This guy was like fanboying. My grandpa ends up walking and they talked for a little while. My grandpa's like, yeah I don't know who that is, but okay. Big baseball girl over here. Big baseball I'm like, what the fuck? These people. And like, sometimes ah my parents will just tell me something about my grandpa. My grandpa be like, yeah, I used to have to like escape my home on horseback and like go meet my friends down by the river. And we'd all bring our horses and just like fuck around.
00:29:08
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I'm like, and by the way, all of those friends end up
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00:29:10
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being either billionaires or like in the CIA or in the NFL. It's so insane that, like, there can be this whole story around this person who's, like, close enough in your family the where you should know the most information and you actually know the least information. Like, this random guy that you just hopped and sit next to knew ton about your- That's crazy. Great grandpa.
00:29:30
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Yeah, that is mean. I'm like, my- I feel like I just get to know my grandpa over time even more than I already do. And him and I are very similar personality wise, but he's just like actually deserves a movie. But I don't even know. not even scratching the surface.
00:29:43
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You know what i mean? Yeah. I don't know. Like I'm pretty sure he pulled it to know my grandma more. I only have one ah grandparent left. And like every time we talk, I'm like, hey. And she's like, hey. And I'm like, I think you need to ask her like some for real questions. You know? um yeah It's like I just don't even know.
00:30:03
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Where it is. What's allowed. Yeah. It does. It's like though. Because I feel like i did I do learn the most interesting things about my grandma now that she died. And it's like, fuck, I totally would asked her. Like she had a hit on her once.
00:30:14
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but my Yeah. Your grandma's are really interesting. And it's just like. Yeah. The way that I would have asked her a million questions about this. Like my grandpa put a hit on her for insurance money. Because he was like. What the fuck? In the or whatever. she had a friend who was also in mob who was in the mob who was a nun.
00:30:33
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And she, her nun friend was like, hey, like someone put a hit on. Not now to cover. i don't know. i don't have all the information. She was, and her name's like Sister Sarah. It's like an insane story. And basically my grandma had him jumped in an alleyway by the Russian mafia.
00:30:49
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And then. There was a. Thing on her? Yeah, she found out because her friend told her and she had him jumped in an alleyway and then the problem was just like solved. And I'm like, what does that mean though? Like, how does no one, you all knew this except for me and no one asked her more questions. There's no context.
00:31:05
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Right. Yeah. But here's the thing, that's what I'm saying. I feel like when you look at your old grandma, like who's just like an old woman who like looks like she's... Yes. yes i feel like lowki grandmas can handle like the most intense questions because they are all like have lived a full life that's why when i think about this whole like what part of my life would be a story knowing this information about like my grand my grandpa pulled all of us out of poverty he was severely impoverished and he did every possible thing in his power plus yeah was incredibly smart as he plus was naturally yeah enough about your grandpa
00:31:39
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Well, I'm saying that's like, that is what I want to write a movie about. Right. Maybe I would have like a movie about my life where I'm retroactively learning about I'm going to Shreveport, Louisiana, and I'm going to find out more. But you're also learning about your.
00:31:54
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no you're think That's not interesting to me for a movie. so like I know what you mean, though. In this movie, yeah but you're like by investigating your grandpa and you're like finding out all these like that would be sick. Yeah, like that's actually cool what he did. I feel like um and whoever directs ah um murders in the building would be great at that.
00:32:16
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I don't I didn't really watch that show. don't know what that But what's your story? Kristen. Yeah. um For when I should write a book. Yeah. and i Yeah. You have a million though.
00:32:27
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hmm. Um, so like I said, initial time was when I was in jail. Second time was I was going to a gas station in Tulsa with my friend. i was smoking weed in the car. She went in to get the cigarettes. No one was coming to check her out.
00:32:46
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So she was like, it's so weird. Like no one's, uh, whatever. And it was like our usual place. So i was like, okay, I'm fine. I was all high and I was like, okay, that's weird. I'll go look. So I go and I look over the um the table or like the counter and there's like this dead woman and there was like blood splattered everywhere and she had just been shot.
00:33:09
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um so that every time you saw that story it's so terrifying yeah a couple other things being best friends of the pop star oh oh sex clubs sex there's that one yeah yeah sex secret sex clubs yeah There's, I mean, there's a lot, but that's like, that's another like, you know, good story. I feel like, you know what I think it actually in retrospect be a movie later, like not right now I would write this, like my kids would talk about this is the beginnings of like social media. I was talking to someone literally the other day, the beginnings of social media and like us both moving to Los Angeles to like write on a fashion blog. And somehow we actually both made that work and have to like make not a shit ton of money, but like enough money
00:33:58
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Right. And like kind of the ride from like what fashion blogging used to be 10 years ago to like figuring out how to make money. And then like we were just always researching. We were so excited to be there. It was like such a fun time in Los Angeles. That's so And now it's obviously a completely different scene.
00:34:14
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But like. we were there in like a hot spot for it at the very very very beginning and i think when influencers aren't really a thing anymore which I think like basically everyone's going to be an influencer so like no one's an influencer I think by the time like our kids are grown up but it'll just have a different look to it I think I think they're going to talk about how this marketing version like this version of marketing started and we were really there like yeah it was so fun and just kind of stupid and even and you kind of interesting yeah It's so interesting to hear people's stories regardless because they're never the same. Like, I feel like our strategy for a while was like we were prioritizing travel. So we would like pitch a trip to and like try to get like the hotel paid for, like create our own like little brand trip.
00:35:00
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And we would have brands. get like like pay us to do sponsored content yeah and that's like how we kept the cycle going like we kept pitching things based off of these trips was talking to someone yesterday on the bus back from New York last week and she was like so have you been on a brand trip and I was like um Yes.
00:35:24
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But I was also telling her, like, we used to do it ourselves. And then, like, brands would bring us, like, Dermalogica when they brought us to, like, miamis Miami. We, like, did trips like that all the time. And, like, the beginning of those, like, revolve trips and stuff.
00:35:36
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However, at the beginning, like, I was saying how much I don't like my job, just, like, candidly. i like, don't really love it that much anymore. And I've mentioned that a number of times. I like podcasting. But otherwise, I just don't... I don't like it. And it's not because...
00:35:51
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I feel like it's it's because I didn't know what this was going to become when I started it. Like, people now, when they get on TikTok, they want to go viral, they want to go on a brand trip, they want to get merch or, like, PR or whatever.
00:36:02
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They know what it looks like because so many influencers have been doing it and sharing it for so long that, like... Everyone knows what that means. Everyone knows what that looks like. It feels different when you're there, I would say. Like i know people who have been on TikTok for a couple of years and gone mega viral are like actually famous now.
00:36:17
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who And they don't, they didn't really know what would it feel like, but they knew what they were getting themselves into in terms of that was the goal. When we started this, I was just trying to avoid going to law school and I liked writing on my blog and I saw people getting paid.
00:36:29
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So i was just like, fuck it, let's do this. I didn't know what the end result, what we didn't even know if it was gonna work or not. Like we didn't know how influencer marketing was gonna pan out. And obviously it's a huge deal now, but like we didn't have like that vision of what it was supposed to be. We were just kind of fucking doing it.
00:36:45
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but Exactly, yeah. and Every day. So people know now what it is and there's such a different like perspective on it. And when I complain about it, it's not that I'm not grateful or all these things. It's just like I've been doing it for so long and i was there like kind of when it started in the place, one of the places it started from.
00:37:02
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And like we just didn't know. we had no idea how this was going to pan out. It's also just really hard to work for yourself ah but and everything is about yourself and blah, blah, blah. Like the fact that you've been doing that on a straight hustle for like a decade is crazy. Like I had to...
00:37:20
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fully pivot. I also obviously had like have less followers and all of that. So therefore less income from it. But I was like, I feel like I was going crazy and being so uninspired. Like, I don't know, whatever. It's just like, it's like isolating mentally. It's really hard podcast, the podcast. You can like connect with people. That's why I started dinner party. I was actually going to say this to you guys yesterday, which is funny that it got brought up today, but like,
00:37:48
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I feel like it's kind of hard to explain. It's the same thing where like,
00:37:57
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You were saying how at the beginning how you were having like so much fun. You didn't know what was going to come out of it. It's like that moment is like the good old days that they don't tell you about. But they feel so stressful. Because it's like the same thing with like we're not really strangers. When like me and Karina were working on it in her living room. And sending out shipping out orders like you don't know what will come of it. It's like the times you look back on and us the most fun part.
00:38:19
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i was going to send this to you guys yesterday. It's like this is technically like the most fun part. of three-way right now and not because obviously it's annoying and like we argue and like we don't know how to like upload an episode without like at least one thing going but it's like that's the thing that you like look back on you're like oh god remember it was so fun when and then it's like and it starts monetizing then you're more precious about information and then like have to have a certain you know thing like if we all go out and then someone recognizes like peyton it's like okay well now maybe we're not going to be talking about this so loud because then that person's gonna know that and it just like just spirals out from there but i think that's also going back to your point like why it becomes less and less more fun is because like the more visibility that you have when you have before like this authentic like want for things and fun and which is also why it's so fun to like
00:39:17
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work for brands more so than yourself. Because like I can have a million ideas about a brand to do this and it's how you're interested about this. And you could like keep that passion going for song so long. But when it's about yourself and like the content that you know you have to make isn't really aligning like with the new version of yourself, I feel like that's when it really does become – exhausting and like you're phasing out of it but then you don't know what else it's like all of these well you're also always performing like I was so deathly ill like two days ago and I was just getting yelled at about getting a fucking reel in on time right multiple reels in on time I have so much to do I'm like it's not fucking
00:39:52
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I'm not a nurse. You know what i mean? Like, i'm it's fine if the real isn't in you need to be in. Okay. Just like a approve it faster. I don't know what to tell you. That's the other thing about influencing. I feel like I always thought I was like um letting people down because you are kind of getting so much money. And so you want to...
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have a creative idea, but you also want something that performs, but you also need something to hit all the the marks and like you don't want your content to be too obvious. It's like it's honestly like the least rewarding job in terms of like, I don't know, jobs I've had because I'm constantly like, well I hope that was good and I hope you're not mad you hired me. like and Literally same.
00:40:38
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Yeah, it sucks. Well, I just that's something I think that at some point will be cool to talk about because and it started like, you know, 10 years now when telling, you know, some of the girls on the team were asking because I had to explain the other day that like i have been doing this. The reason I met Joe is because I did this job. Like I was like visible on the Internet, you know.
00:40:59
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Wait, that that's how we think about actually via the Internet. Do you know the photo or video that Joe like saw like the initial one that was like, that's my girl? Well, we met on Raya, technically, but I was on Raya because I had a following. Oh. Right. yeah. know what I'm saying?
00:41:15
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Yeah, yeah. was really hard, actually, to on Raya, I feel like, back in the day. Well, I got on it because of your ex-best friend, Demon. I know, me too. Because she was on it when I was, like, 20. Is that how I got on? Because don't feel like I had trouble.
00:41:29
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ah Yeah, she was like on the sho said like when the test was in like beta. There was like a board of people where if someone popped up that you knew you could just approve them. And this was like, I don't know, maybe almost 10 years ago. But it was like this was I was at A&M.
00:41:44
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I remember like the one I got accepted. I remember I was in my senior year at A&M and I was like, like swiping through people who were like genuinely famous people. oh yeah. matching was Probably then why everyone that was in 2016.
00:41:57
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Yeah, back then it was actually cool who was on the I know. Now it's like I see Elliot Page. I see like fucking. Who was Elliot Page?
00:42:12
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Why would you even talk about that right now? We should just move on. Like, what do you mean you're seeing Elliot Page? You knew like we just need to move on. but but a It's like you said that. as Whatever. Anyways.
00:42:27
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That's really the only famous person I could think of that I've matched with recently. But also people's stories were like, oh, yeah. i you I'm sorry. I didn't match with.
00:42:38
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okay but people are saying now i like i like jojo siwa i matched with this i matched with that back then he's like joe jonas nick jonas like everyone was like who was like cool that's the other thing we can talk about like um the early 2010s west hollywood because baby is it dead i just talking about this last i mean yesterday too It was a time. You guys, me and Well, I didn't get there until 2015. But i feel like even in 2015, I'm like, I'm at Laurel Hardware. I'm at all those places that everyone goes.
00:43:13
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So like one of the first nights that me and my roommate, ah I moved here 10 years ago with this girl that I like knew through my bestie, Jessie.
00:43:24
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And she... um And I went out one night and we were like asking our friend. We were like, we don't know where to go. And she like gave us this guy Dan's number. And so ah we went out with him not knowing he was a fucking promoter. Like literally all night we didn't know he was promoter. Yes, exactly. Doesn't he have that? I think he has that cool thing that I actually like now. That's the dire. Yeah. Yeah.
00:43:48
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Yeah, I like that. Saddi whatever. Yeah. No, I fucking love Dan. Yeah, he's the plug. He ended up being like a promoter who's a good person. Yeah. No, he is actually a genuine soul. i He hooked me up with like, he is how I met that girl that I was styling when she was going to church with Dustin Bieber.
00:44:06
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Did you guys know that? I was styling. put the Justin Bieber's church date. She looks just like Selena Gomez. And he was like doing it clearly to get to her.
00:44:19
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And wait, was she Brazilian? ah Yes. Okay. I just saw for some reason on my TikTok, it came up that there was like a photo of them in the back of this like Range Rover and it looked like they were both fucked Oh I could definitely tell that he was like he was like making her be in a photo like the paparazzi photo was like taking photo as they're like leaving and then like the head of the church was like in the front seat you could tell that he's like clearly like Justin's clearly fucked up obviously. Yeah. And when I saw the photo it took me about 0.6 seconds to be like he's trying to fuck with Selena Gomez and this is not.
00:44:53
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And Kristen styled that. And you styled her. Yeah. Hashtag Kristen styled that. Kristen styled that. She was stunning.
00:45:04
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Yeah. I also remember one time she was at my house. She was FaceTiming him. was like, hey, and you just hung up immediately. feel like I would have hung up too.
00:45:19
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But you know what also will I do. You're at my house. Don't FaceTime him at my house if I can't just get in it. Like, the I feel like the rise of TikTok ruined Hollywood nightlife because none of the celebrities are like going outside like inviting you back to their houses and like not that I want to do any of those things anymore but like I remember it was that it was a time. It's what you want. It's what you want at the time. I feel like I went to Drake's house at random with me and my friend at the time, Brittany.
00:45:56
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We got in this car. We saw him. It was a hooray Henry's. And he was there. Wait, were we together? or now I don't think you came to this. I think it was. You guys used to go to Drake's dad house a lot.
00:46:08
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I'd never know a lot that happened one time me and Kelsey, but it was this was like way before when like I we were at Hurray Henry's. i don't know if that's still a thing anymore. i think it henry it wasn't Hurray Henry's. It was Peppermint Club at the time.
00:46:22
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her But anyway, Wale and Drake were on either side of this like tiny little club and they were like rapping back and forth. So like he was there and it was like a small place. You know what i mean? Like so we knew he was there.
00:46:33
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someone walks over from his table when everyone's leaving and they're like hey girl do you girls want to go to calabasas i mean britney we're like yeah so we get in
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00:46:40
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this guy's car we don't fucking know yeah i want to go yeah we been so go to calabasas for those y'all don't know that's like an hour drive that we're in this like forerunner with this guy that we don't know that we're hoping he's going to calabasas like if we were in a car right now for an hour or somewhere that we didn't know we'd be like looking at our maps like wait where are we going i guarantee payton and our friend were not like but know we they were probably fucking vibing the entire time taking shots out of whatever bottles in the car I'm DJing we get to the gate at Calabasas and they're like he's not gonna let you in or whatever and he's like call this guys calling people finally we get in we go into the house
00:47:17
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This is still the point where I'm like, yeah, we're going to Drake's house. Like, okay, whatever. I was still along for the ride, even though I didn't think we were going there. I walk in the first person we see, everything's dark. There's some light music playing. It's like that house that looks like like Wonderland. Like it's like, yeah, it looks like a little elk castle. Why does it look like that?
00:47:34
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But we I walk in Drake opens the door and is like, hey, what's up? Come on in. And me and my friend just walk directly to the next room. We turn around. We're like, the fuck, this is actually Drake's house.
00:47:44
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So then we felt awkward because we were definitely standing out. So then we went to like play basketball and I still have pictures on the basketball court. But I'm like, what the fuck was I doing? and then we I don't know how we got home. Yeah, I feel like the reason why stories like that even for me are so embarrassing because is because it, to me, sounds like I'm trying to be one of those girls who are trying to be there.
00:48:03
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But I feel like the way that even just told that story is like, I'm sticking out because this is so embarrassing that it looks like I'm trying to be here. And I always have an issue with that. If someone's like, do you want to go to Drake's house? We're like, yeah, but I'm not trying to go to Drake's house so I can go up to Drake and be like, hey, what's up?
00:48:20
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In an ironic way. Right, exactly. It was hardless so fun. But I think I saw the difference between that, like when I was in college and then like later on we some of my girlfriends who you both know were really good friends with Post Malone's best friend.
00:48:36
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And we went to go like we'd be around them quite a bit and like small scenarios. But even then, like that was like the phone taking era. Like he would take everyone's phone and put it one of those bags. Yeah, that was so annoying. Mechanically unlock.
00:48:50
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No, but the worst when you're at someone's house who's like not even that famous and they take your phone. It's like, oh, you think I going to party? That happened to us, Yvonne. Like, okay, Tana Mongo.
00:49:01
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Like, what? With the but those football players? remember when he was like, i'm going to smoke a joint. Everyone has to put their phones away. And and we were like. Yeah, we're just like, actually, we'll go home. Like, what do you mean? Also, we don't know who you are.
00:49:14
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I'm not trying to take a photo of you smoking weed, you freak. What are you talking about? Like, I understand Post Malone. I get that one. Like, I understand. The only time it's, um I think, okay to take your phone is like a sex party.
00:49:30
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Agree. You know? I don't know. Because I think some of these parties, the guys were doing, like, people that I was seeing around were doing drugs of some sorts. And I can imagine, like, you just don't want photos of that out, you know? Yeah.
00:49:44
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When he has something to I understand why they do it because girls weak. Girls can be weird, but I just feel like it's offensive when people think I'm a part of that group. And I think that's why I get so offended and defensive. Right. Yeah. How would they know? I It's so true. They wouldn't It's like you have to. I hate being grouped in I'm like, I'm not going to fucking. y'all see this? This is her all day.
00:50:05
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No, I know. She like wants a kiss on the cheek ah at all times. feel like her and Barb are similar in that way. Like no spatial awareness. No, she just like wants to be attached. and Must be in space.
00:50:16
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Peyton, you don't have any, like, um ah you can't, like, tell the story without telling the, it's a. Well, I just don't think it's, like, that movie-like, you know what i mean?
00:50:30
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But I can tell it real quick. I can tell it. Just don't clip it for social media because I don't want like Joe's family to see. I will. Yeah. um So one time we were in Las Vegas. Me and Kristen went for New Year's, and which just like happens to be my birthday or like the day before New Year's. I think there was like some kind of club opening and our friend was like in PR.
00:50:49
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So they paid us. Not a ton, but like we were excited to get paid to go do something like this. So we write to we went to Vegas from LA. It was like a really quick little jaunt. We went with our our two selves. We sharing a room and then our friend and say quick little jaunt?
00:51:03
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A quick little jaunt? Yeah. Okay. We can move on. You can get in here. I just had to make sure. we to Los That's what I heard. Put a pin in that. And then our friend Mina and her boyfriend were there.
00:51:14
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and um we ended up having to do like a certain number of deliverables for the hotel and like the club or whatever. So the first day we went out, we basically just got like so drunk and Kristen got really sick.
00:51:27
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So the next day, that was having December 28th. And then the next day was December 29th. So at midnight, it was my birthday that that evening. And we were supposed to go to this club again.
00:51:38
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And Kristen just was like so, so ill. So we just basically stayed until we like literally had to stay. and like they were going to get mad yeah we had to be there at the club for like an hour or two or something to get paid. It was actually a weird ah amount of time. I was like not having the best time anyway. But anyway, my friend, of my...
00:51:56
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friends was there and he's like part of this like group of guy friends that we used to hang out with and they all lived in Manhattan Beach and I met them through my friend Sophie um who I've literally met I feel like everyone through basically not you guys but like a ton of people yeah so it's like a big group of guys and there's some like well-known guys through like sports kind of and then there's this like one guy who lives in the house who's like I would say like a list famous for a very long time I would say like a Bieber-esque type of character.
00:52:28
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Wouldn't y'all say? Yeah. Yeah. But not, not in music. Bieber-esque type shit. So anyway, I had met him before because we go to these, their house, like we do like Manhattan Beach, like weekends pretty normally.
00:52:42
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it's been like the whole day there. I'd always been a little bit more like, I would almost say standoffish, but like when a person's like that level of same, I don't want to be like in their own house, like in their business. You know mean? Like already in your house. all Yeah.
00:52:55
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You know? So I just always like kind of just, I met him before, but like nothing big. I just, we know it wasn't dealing. So My friend, my guy friend, who I was like probably the closest with of the whole group was like, hey, like texting me. Like I was telling him i was going in and he was like, it's literally your birthday at midnight. You have to come meet up with us. Like that's honestly rude of you to not.
00:53:14
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And they had gotten this. One of the guys in the group was dating a Victoria's Secret model who got this table from like a big alcohol company that was at the Lil Wayne concert um this night in Vegas.
00:53:25
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It's like the the table was so big that it went like behind the stage and then like around the stage to the front. After party of our club thing, you went to Lil Wayne and that's where. Why? Yeah. Why don't we all collectively been to so many Lil Wayne after parties? Like remember when we all went to that other one?
00:53:40
Speaker
No. I don't think I did that. Prada, the Prada event. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. but Okay. Continue. Well, anyway, this was just like an actual concert and it was great. We're like vibing whatever.
00:53:52
Speaker
All the guys are there and like some other guys had kind of trickled in. And so I see this person and I was drunk. It's my birthday. I'm like, yeah, there might be a vibe here. So I kind of just like played it to my advantage. I kind of was like did my own.
00:54:05
Speaker
I don't know what came the confidence that came over me in this moment, probably because I didn't like like him, but like it would be a great story. So anyways, I kind of was just like.
00:54:15
Speaker
flirting in my own little way all night. Which this is kind of like staring at me. This was crazy for Peyton to go out by herself at this point, especially because like, well, it was my 25th birthday, by the way. So this is like, this was like the start of my 25th birthday. I was 24 turning 25.
00:54:34
Speaker
So we go out, whatever. Everyone knows it's my birthday. Lil Wayne is like at our table because they these people like know him well, I guess. The girlfriend wasn't there who got the table. She's like perfect. Amazing. I don't think they're they're not dating anymore. But anyway, um so we're just having a good time.
00:54:50
Speaker
and My guy friend who I was like kind of closest with once we were leaving, we were kind of going out of the back and then like going through the casino to these cars. And this guy, the famous one, was getting stopped like every five seconds because even though he was like wearing all the stuff, people could tell who he was.
00:55:08
Speaker
And I like this is like one of the ways that I was trying to kind of manipulate the situation I was walking purposely fast and pretending like I wasn't noticing because then he had to catch up with me and he was like nervously but chasing behind me. And there's like a manipulation tactic there and there. Yeah.
00:55:23
Speaker
So I knew we were ex going to the exit and he was like kind of like walking quickly. That's so good. I do. That's my level of flirting. It's like psychological like warfare. like were very who Were you getting noticed? I didn't notice.
00:55:35
Speaker
He's like, Peyton, come on, Peyton. When I first got to the table, I was going around. They were all sitting kind of in a line. So was going around shaking everyone's hand, the guys that I didn't know. And I could see him on the on that outside, like of the on the end of the line. And people, when someone's like really famous in a group, I feel like they default to like maybe that person always gets introduced to first.
00:55:54
Speaker
So they all kind of were standing back waiting for me to talk to him first. And I went to the very other side of the line and was like meeting everyone face to face, shaking hands, shaking hands, shaking hands to the point where he, by the time I got them, he was like,
00:56:05
Speaker
trying to give me his hands like six times and I'm like perfect this is the best way to make someone nervous so was just doing stuff like that the whole time and when I finally shook his hand I was like I'm Peyton and he was like yeah know I'm so and so we've met we've met before at my house and I was like Got him. This is great. Got him.
00:56:22
Speaker
So then anyways, I go out with them um to out of the casino and the guy who's like kind of closest to him comes up to me and goes, hey, so-and-so wants you to come to the strip club with us, but we're not all going. So get in my car.
00:56:33
Speaker
So I go with them in their car. I go to this like secret undergrad strip club that I've never heard of. I don't know the name of it. There is no name. I've looked at my location. I took a photo of like the drink I was drinking.
00:56:46
Speaker
There's no name on it. What? But when we walk in this like private area and he just, this guy comes in with like multi stacks of money and just hands them all to me.
00:56:58
Speaker
And we're in like a big group. There's also like a bunch of other celebrities like him there. Imagine me hearing about this after I was um in bed sick for allergies.
00:57:10
Speaker
So I haven't told Chris, I haven't told anyone where I am, by the way. I'm like, I'm gonna go with my friend PJ. You were so attached at the hip at that point that I was like, oh, she'll probably like go out for like an hour whatever.
00:57:21
Speaker
Well, I am out for hours and hours and then I end up not going home because I'm in like the massive suite at the Cosmo. I just like black back in. I'm like in a hot tub in this suite with this man and listening to him tell me like stuff about his life.
00:57:37
Speaker
And I just like i all I remember is feeling so genuinely so bad for him. Like. I feel like his life has been very visible for a very long time. Yeah. So anyways, I just remember feeling bad for him. And then I just like woke up the next morning and he was like, call my or let me call your phone. So you have my number. i was trying to find my phone. I couldn't find it. It was a whole ordeal.
00:57:55
Speaker
I'm like, at this point, my friends, Kristen and our our friend and her boyfriend, we were all agreeing to leave at a certain time. So when I wake up, I'm like, oh, fuck, I got to make it back to my hotel. I'm like scrambling, scrambling, whatever. I'm like nervous and anxious. So I get out of the apartment ah or out of the Cosmo and I like run out and he's like yelling behind me like I have your number now and I'm like okay I don't know what to say to that because we're obviously I'm not
Episode Conclusion and Listener Engagement
00:58:20
Speaker
dating imagine if I was dating this man like no fucking way dude yeah anyway the next so that morning we're going I get finally get to the the car and all the stuff and I feel like I've chilled out
00:58:34
Speaker
Well, we're going to like, i we literally get in the car. We go to Starbucks. We go to Einstein's. We're like making our way back to l a And Kristen goes, oh, wait, I forgot to ask you what you did last night. Yeah.
00:58:44
Speaker
She had been in the car for like a good 30 minutes. And it literally now like flooded back to me started didn I didn't even think to say anything because i was just stressed. And then I wanted to eat. And I was so hungover that I'm just like, can we just fucking get back to L.A.? I'm so stressed. And then she starts telling the story And then. So then I go, oh, well, the only line. does it say who it is?
00:59:03
Speaker
No, I said my first thing I said was, oh, i fucked so and so last night and everyone in the car. no I don't. Yes, you did. I think you were like, yeah.
00:59:14
Speaker
So there's this guy and I've met him before. Like you were. I said it. I know I said this because I remember Mina's boyfriend is driving and he literally goes. Everyone just, her and him and her both like turn around to me and go, what?
00:59:30
Speaker
Like, what are you talking about right now? And I had to like then fill in the context if it wasn't like that random. But um it was random. i I trust your memory more than
00:59:40
Speaker
But yeah, that's, here's the thing. That is movie-esque, but like, is it really, how many people just like have sex with random movie stars? No, but it's like your definition of movie-esque is like, your grandpa like like know but you know like fucking playing baseball like that's so that is so neat like that was a great story but also we want to hear the uh the other end of it we want to hear the rom-com yeah well that was more like a that's the beginning of the rom-com and i never spoke to him again basically
01:00:12
Speaker
um I feel like there's been other things like that was probably the the most well-known person, I would say, that was like one of those moments where you're just like, what the fuck am I doing right now? Right. And just kind of how organic the whole thing was other than you fully manipulating him. Well, that was kind of fun because I've never done that to anybody and I don't know what came over me that evening.
01:00:32
Speaker
It's like you can't help but do it with... ah with famous people honestly it's like you can't help but just kind of not to that level of fame i wouldn't say though i will say my friend was one time dating john mayer for a while and i do remember like that he's also extremely famous i would say um and i remember being remember how i think he's my soulmate maybe I fucking could not stand him. i I remember this is right when I moved to L.A. I'm fresh from Texas. I don't know what the fuck's going on.
01:00:59
Speaker
I'm not like a person that's like used to the Hollywood scene. And I remember the night I had to beg her for us not to go to John Mayer's house. And I remember just being like, who have I become? Like never in my life, me from Fort Worth, Texas, would I think like I had to beg my friend, like, please, can we not go to John's house? Because like cannot stand him.
01:01:17
Speaker
I also one time we went in the in the hot tub at his house and I had this is just me being stupid. Sometimes my brain can't conceive. Like I can't I don't know what's going on I can't put things into perspective.
01:01:28
Speaker
So like one time we were at his house for a while and end up getting in the hot tub. So like I put on his tighty whities and his T-shirt. And then, like, they were wet, so I put them in a bag or whatever, and, like, i I just had them at my house. And it took me a while. Like, I was cleaning out one of my apartments, and I was like, oh, these are from that night at John Mayer's house. And it didn't even occur to me to be like, these are John Mayer's clothes.
01:01:51
Speaker
I have John Mayer's underwear. Right. i threw I threw them away. But, like, yeah anyway, just shit like that. My brain can't, like, was like, oh, God. you shouldn't. Because are just... people but yeah well i couldn't stand him i didn't want any of it didn't want to talk him ever again i'm like not gonna bring this like i would look to see if they were skid marks i could tell all my friends that they were skid marks in his underwear there were skid marks but the shirt a life is good shirt with like a little golfer guy in the front i think his i like his niche sense of humor so but he wasn't fun like i think he's also been too famous for too long i know
01:02:29
Speaker
I can't help it. But he was kind of a dickhead, to be honest. Like, yeah, I don't know. Not in a way that I blame him. He has a granny ass. OK, you guys, we do have to wrap it up. I'm so sorry, but we not that part.
01:02:40
Speaker
Yeah, we do. I actually i think it was like right now. There was other stuff about him that I just didn't like. But anyway, I don't. Here's the thing. Sometimes I feel like when people are that famous, I don't even mind if they're assholes because how the fuck, how are they supposed to have perspective on anything? Right.
01:02:54
Speaker
Other than the fact that they're so famous. Yeah, they're not touching brass. That's fair. they're not. It's not their fault. But anyways, yeah. Okay, well, that's our fun little stories. That was a little off-brand for us, but all right. I know. I feel like we never drop kind of lore, and I'm sorry if that was cringy, but I feel like that's something to reference later, know? talking about celebrities, and we never talk about celebrities.
01:03:15
Speaker
Honestly, tea. I liked this episode. um But hope you guys did too. Like and comment and subscribe and send to whole group talks.
01:03:26
Speaker
Okay. Thanks, guys. We'll talk to you all next week. Bye. Okay. Bye.