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ep8: the girls would like you to hear them out on some things!!! including but not limited to: seth rogan, sully from monsters inc & hooking up with your friends after a fun night out... also, drink every time kristen says any form of the word “swag”.
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Eames' News and Energy Talk
00:00:00
Speaker
Hey Chris. Hi Eames, what's up? I have to tell you something. Oh my god, okay. Should I three-way Peyton in? Yeah, call Peyton. Okay. Hello? Hey, Eames needs to tell us something. I'm three-waying you in. Okay, immediately. Okay, so... Awwww. Um, hey Iman, if you could turn your, uh, ringer off, we're about to record. Just did. I just did. Okay, hold on. So you don't have to worry about it, because I already did.
00:00:26
Speaker
Am I the host to this one? Do it. Hey guys, Peyton toasting. Hey guys, Peyton's hosting. Didn't know Peyton's hosting. So listen, I'm hosting. I feel like I'm consistently the one with the least like amount of energy. So I'm trying to just like get it out of me. At some point though, like you just have to be who you are.
Middle School Dance Memories
00:00:45
Speaker
Like maybe.
00:00:46
Speaker
ah doy no like if someone said like i'll give you some dollarsers that Could you Dougie yes or no, no No,
00:01:00
Speaker
no I can't I can't Do any of those dances like growing up at um like at middle school dances where you like roll in my homies roll out You can't stop like what dances did you do? First of all, I don't know that song at all. Oh, well um to i I blocked that out of my like memory. I feel like all I remember from middle school dances was being terrified that a guy was going to ask me to dance. And like you know how like everyone like conspires for certain people to dance together? Yeah. When I found that out, I would run to the bathroom, which is just like so me. And I would just hide for the entire song. And then I would come back. And then like especially that last song that everyone does, the long as fuck song, Stairway to Heaven, yeah it took seven minutes.
00:01:46
Speaker
Do people know I was hiding in the bathrooms like I was heading the bathroom like two songs before just like sitting in there being like, whoever has a good time out there. so I was like teeing up my next big teaming up or dance victim because I could feel the the.
00:02:04
Speaker
um slow songs coming and I just wanted to sway back and forth like no one was watching. Nope. Also, if I ever do get married, that is how my husband and I will dance for our first dance. We will sway
Substance Issues in School
00:02:19
Speaker
back and forth. Three feet away from each other? Yeah, we will go like this. Just back, like right foot, left foot, right foot, but we're not learning any other dances. Did anyone kiss at y'all's middle school dances? I feel like it never happened for us. Yes, yes.
00:02:35
Speaker
but we couldn't agree on really make alcohol tested. So we were like sober as shit at all of these things, like even in high school. You're like 12, so. Yeah, Chris is like a fucking loser, it'd be sober. yeah Yeah, my high school breathalyzed in and out as well. So it's like prom too, like prom you got breathalyzed in and out. Yeah, and I got hair follicle tested, fuckers too. That's crazy. That's crazy. I had no rights.
00:03:04
Speaker
Damn, I'm so sorry for you guys. That's like really not chill. I didn't turn out well, so now we know what to probably avoid. Well, like at my school, people would just do drugs. So I'm like, is that really was that helpful to you guys? Because this seems worse. yeah That doesn't make sense. We had a lot of kids like dying from Oxy and like getting addicted to Oxy. So ours was kind of necessary, unfortunately. like I had a few friends already in rehab by a sophomore year.
00:03:34
Speaker
That is nuts.
Unconventional Attractions
00:03:36
Speaker
Perfect. So what a good segue into today's show episode going to be about Peyton. I'm dying to know. So today's episode is a hear me out episode and I'm just going to pass the mic to Kristen to explain, you know, what's going on here. Well, so hear me out.
00:03:55
Speaker
Um, we're going to do our little hear me out and we're going to do people, but we're also going to like do like things and situations and whatever. But if you don't know, this is kind of like a, you know, like when you talk about like a low key hot person that you're like, okay. Or actually, honestly, anyone I've ever dated was a hear me out. I'm going to be honest. I think my type is hear me out. Honestly, overall. So this will be really awesome. It's it's some someone that needs that you have to convince your friend that this person is attractive in some possible way. It's just more to them. You got to hear me out, you know, there's, there takes some explanation.
00:04:39
Speaker
Okay, so do you want to start with yours, your list? Wait, after each one, let's decide if we're hearing the other person out or not. Oh, like that. Okay, so let's hear it, Chrissy. Okay, I'm going to start with um every Ninja Turtle ever, but specifically Mikey.
00:04:59
Speaker
Um, he is absolutely my type. Um, and I'm obsessed with him. He's a little goofy, but like he's just an all around like good guy, like real swaggy. Um, so do you guys hear me out on the Ninja Turtles? Um, I don't know which one you're talking about. Well, I'll have to send you guys photos. Well, obviously, right which one, which one specifically I'm looking up. mikey Oh, he's a cartoon.
00:05:30
Speaker
i hear you out on this what the fuck I don't know why I thought it was like maybe the real life reenactment or something. um No, i don't I specifically don't hear you out on this. Interesting. They've always been my go-to hear me out. like Even before I knew that was the thing, I was always like, Have you guys like also the Ninja Turtle movies are fucking good. No, the one that's like newer and a little more live action. Like I would I would like fuck. Anyway, this one. Yes. Oh my God.
00:06:12
Speaker
hi <unk>m i'm not I'm not hearing her out. I'm not hearing you out on that one. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. Okay. Next one. Do you guys watch Impractical Jokers ever? Yes. So Sal from Impractical Jokers. I'm fully hearing you out. I'm fully hearing you out. Yes. ah Yeah. You'll be my baby's daddy. Yeah. I'm fully hearing you out on that. I fucking love him. Also could be a show in the world. but
00:06:45
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Damn. it's No, like he is really funny. I'm fully hearing you out on that one. Yeah. Um, okay. Anyone with a gap between their two front teeth? I think it's like low key, the cutest little like swaggy. I don't know. Like I can't, I don't even know who could have ever made those like, you know, completely agree. It's the cutest little thing in the whole world.
00:07:09
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Yes. Jack Black. I'm just joking. Yeah. No, I was going to, you know, I was about to say yes. I know you were. You guys. I don't hear you out on that. He fucks. He fucks. You know he does. No, that's literally only you. um oh Oh, the Autobots from Transformers. Y'all hear me out on that or what?
00:07:35
Speaker
Let me go look them up again. What do you mean you're gonna go look them up? They're cars. They're like robots. nothing there' nothing No, I'm not hearing you out on that. and There's a million other hot people in that movie.
00:07:54
Speaker
Pain's like, what wait, let me look this one up. like What do you mean? It's a flying car. I need to know what the cars look like. Oh, you'll get it. Oh, and speaking of cars. No, no. No, don't say Lightning McQueen. Don't say Lightning McQueen because I can't do it. No, you know that Lightning McQueen is not my fucking type. I'm in a dock.
00:08:18
Speaker
he seen shit I'm more of a Lightning McQueen girl. is So a Lightning McQueen girl. but I know. like Here's my here's my thing. I kept trying to think of a hear me out and like all of mine.
00:08:31
Speaker
It's like you don't have to hear it out that much. It's like this. Yeah, it's really hard to come up with something scenarios like, you know, what you like that no one else does or like that what you think is appropriate than no one else does. You should say being able to leave a dinner in the middle if you're not enjoying yourself. you
Relationships and Annoyances
00:08:51
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repeat and Hear me out because she did that. She did that to me in New York.
00:08:57
Speaker
When we were eating our food, at one moment when I was kind of in the middle of a sentence, she just announced, okay, I'm leaving. And she And she just went. When we went to go to that um one restaurant, like the very last day, you just said, okay, I'm leaving. And then he turned around and you left. And you walked off into the distance.
00:09:21
Speaker
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Kind of fight to catch. Yeah, I did do that. Oh God. ah you might hear me a hug Hudson girl, Kristen. Yeah, obviously. I like a man that that's seen some stuff. Anyway, um, anyways, another one short term memory loss, um, being a good thing because I can like rewatch all my favorite shows and movies with like, um just no memory of the scenario.
00:09:58
Speaker
See, I'm thinking it's a good thing. Well, that's more like when I get drunk. I was actually thinking about this the other day. Like every time you send me a video of myself that I was black out in, I genuinely like don't watch it. Like a nail part of me is like, I want to see that or I want to know. I literally am like, okay, I shouldn't know this information and I move on. Same with like when I was single, like sending texts and stuff. I would never go look at the text that I sent to any man ever. I just like was like, I'm just going to let that die, whatever it was. I don't need to know any of that information. So memory loss, memory loss, I guess, in some sense is great. Yeah, like for content. Mm hmm. Mm hmm. Watch the show for the first time again. Yeah. And then I could just spout off a few more. Max from Goofy Movie, Gerald from Hey Arnold, um Michael Sarah,
00:10:55
Speaker
Yeah. Dragon from the track. No. Ursula.
00:11:04
Speaker
Okay, so I explained the Ursula thing. like You want her to eat out or you want to be her friend? I don't know. I just was thinking, I was like, she's kind of hot. I feel like she's hideous.
00:11:23
Speaker
Right? That's fat filming.
00:11:29
Speaker
So like you want Ursula to eat you out? If Ursula came out of the sea and tried to eat you out, you would let her? That's what you're saying. Yeah, she is. and She can't answer. because She like would.
00:11:45
Speaker
I'm not going to lie, I do feel like she'd be good at it. I don't want her to, but I do feel like she'd be good at it. Yeah. Yeah, same. I guess maybe I'm just like, hear me out. She fucks, not like, hear me out. I want to fuck. You get that? it It was confusing because you like threw it in with a bunch of people you do want to fuck. Yeah. I would agree that Ursula probably does fuck. ah Yeah. Protozoa. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Sully from Monsters, Inc.
00:12:14
Speaker
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Prince's out of the ocean from a bug's life? No. Oh. So you're straight.
00:12:28
Speaker
um Yeah, that's what everyone's been telling. Everyone's said that to me when I walk past them on the street. and so Yeah. I've heard people say that. Yeah. Amongst other things below their breath. yeahrow About me, yeah. And then also ah Martha Stewart is
Therapy and Personal Growth
00:12:47
Speaker
on here. Yes. um Have you guys watched the new documentary?
00:12:51
Speaker
I've seen clips, but I like that. It is the most iconic shit that I have ever seen. I made Jo watch it. She kind of reminds me of you in a way, Peyton, when she talks about herself. She's just so matter of fact. She is kind of complimenting herself, but she's not shy about it. She's just very much like, yeah.
00:13:17
Speaker
i Here are the facts. Well, she's Martha Stewart. It's pretty easy to do that when you're Martha Stewart. Yeah. Because you could just say like anything about yourself and you pretty much killed it at everything. True. I didn't like the part about her going to like prison, obviously. I think that was unfair for sure. But I feel like there was a lot of like sympathy to be garnered that part where I'm like, I kind of believe you were doing some insider trading a little bit. Yeah. But I just didn't think you were going to get caught. And they also like shouldn't have put you in prison like that. Like that sucks. But.
00:13:46
Speaker
Yeah. um The slay to me was that she like admitted that she like had a little a couple little just like makeouts and flings like while I know what front you're talking about. Yeah, and her husband like had affairs. And so she was like talking about like, you know how their relationship went downhill because he cheated. And the producer was like, well, like, didn't you cheat? And he was like,
00:14:14
Speaker
Well, I just had like, you know, just a like, I just had like, a little tiny. I had a had a couple teeny affairs. It didn't really matter. And he didn't even know about it anyways. Yeah. And they're like, but yeah, he didn't. She's like, Oh,
00:14:28
Speaker
He's like, oh, she's like, oh, he did. Like she just like, she was talking about him cheating as if she didn't. And I was just like, slay girl. Like it was ever like so sided. Well, here's the thing. I like it made me see her and like respect her in a way, because again, like this type of person, this type of personality is so celebrated. If you're a man in business, like to be like, yeah, I did that. Yeah, I did that. Yeah, I did that. And fuck him for doing that. Like they're so.
00:14:59
Speaker
There's like a level of like ambition that could only be tackled if you are narcissistic. Exactly. Like you're only going to get that high if you expect that much of yourself and you're going to have to be narcissistic to do so. So I feel she like she like just fucking killed it. I also love that she worked on Wall Street and then like became a homemaker and then made that a business. I'm like, she didn't give a fuck. No. I kept saying that to Jo. I'm like, Martha Stewart like doesn't give a fuck. She doesn't. pick one fuck She wasn't trying. She wasn't even necessarily trying to make herself look
00:15:32
Speaker
great or amazing. She just was being extremely honest. It was just like, yeah, anyway, fucking love her. I already loved her, but now I'm obsessed. So Iman, would you like to? um um Okay, hear me out. um Drinking at around like 8 30 a.m. on the weekends, like just waking up and just grabbing a beer out of the fridge to like start your day.
00:15:56
Speaker
Literally I had on here, um, you're on an empty stomach. Yeah. Like it just like helps kickstart your day. It helps you make better decisions, like more fun decisions. to your friends Okay. Come out and you're sober. You're like, no, but if you're like already on your second beer, you're like, I should probably go like use this energy somewhere. Right. Okay. But where are you going at 9am? So it's usually at around like 11am, but I like like cleaning my apartment at 9am. All right. Hear me out.
00:16:25
Speaker
It's hooking up with your friends after a fun night out. like Just hooking up with your girlfriends. if This is such a you one. What? like After you have like a fun night out and you have a tipsy just like having a sleep with your friends but like hooking up. okay yeah I like can't hear you out because like
00:16:53
Speaker
oh Even like the friends that I've had sexual chemistry with, I'm like, we can't do this. Yeah, so it's not every friend. So not every friend can you do this with and just wake up and like it'd be fine. But the ones that you can, it's like,
00:17:10
Speaker
to You can kind of just normalize it. I feel like there's a little tip the world that I don't live in. like There's a world that I'm like, that has never one time crossed my path. You guys are coming home from the bars and eating each other out. No, I'll barely sleep in the same bed. I hate sleeping in the same bed as people. I'm sure we always had like pillows between us.
00:17:35
Speaker
Yeah. Or I'm like, I'll just sleep, like what what I did in New York, or I'm like, I will sleep on the couch. Y'all take the bed. I don't want to be in the bed. Yeah. So it's definitely not every friend, but like sometimes it's just kind of the movie you guys are hearing me out on this one. I want to so bad and I love that you do, but like. Kristen supports this, but. Personal like experience. you just i not but I have not been able to like, I don't know if I'm the friend. I think I might be like two in my head and I would think that like,
00:18:04
Speaker
You know, if we like didn't talk one or two days, out I would be like very be made out. She's in love with me. Be like emotionally. Yeah, for sure. and What you already are. It's your friends. But like, yeah, I think I don't have that whatever that is in your brain that like, yeah.
00:18:21
Speaker
I love that one though. I think that's the best one so far. Yeah, it's a great one. It really stopped me. It really took me by surprise. Right. Because I have slept in your bed a number of times. So you don't want to make out with Peyton or I? No, no. I'm sorry you guys. It's just not really, it's really not really my vibe.
00:18:40
Speaker
yeah Um, next one. Oh, it's Benny Blanco, because people are always like, oh my god, Seneca, my boyfriend is like so ugly, like he's so terrible, blah, blah, blah. I feel like people that really know Benny Blanco know he's like,
00:18:56
Speaker
the actual coolest, swaggiest, funniest, most charming man in any room I've ever been in. like He's the guy where when you walk into like his house, you want attention from him. And I'm not saying I want to hook up with him, but I'm saying like in a scenario where Selena Gomez is dating him, I think she lucked out by dating him rather than he lucked out. like I think she's the lucky one. Yeah.
00:19:20
Speaker
He has like really fun, like intimate game nights. And sometimes me and Kareem would go and like bring Renate Lee strangers and stuff. And he just always has like the funnest group of people around him. And he's very like introspective and funny. I don't know. He just like has the best sense of humor. Like he's the wittiest person I've ever met. He just like, I don't know. I just fully get it. And I feel like no one else gets it. I hear you out. Yeah.
00:19:44
Speaker
Okay. Next is your boyfriend doing something that's only slightly annoying. So you get to like be mad at him and have the upper hand, but it's not actually something that you have to be worried about. Like it's not like, Oh, he cheats on you. So then he has to be so sorry. Cause like you have to be worried about that, but something that's like only slightly annoying. Like innocent, like couldn't make a family dinner. Exactly. you know Out of town. And something where he's so sorry and you like get to rub it in, but then it's like so amazing for you. I think there's like a term for that. It's called um weaponizing. Yes. Iman loves weaponizing. He's also like here at my house and I don't know how that happened. LOL.
00:20:29
Speaker
i like hello for instance but
00:20:36
Speaker
Hello, are you listening? Seriously, don't listen or else we're going to be mad. I'm going to be so mad. You're going to be sorry. The other day he he told him on the grow up because she blocked him. She hasn't blocked on the podcast and like all of this. And the poor guy, of course, it's like anytime we're hanging out or like talking about the podcast, this poor man is just fully in the dark blocked from everything.
00:21:01
Speaker
When people are like like from the podcast Instagram, is that what it is? Yes. And people will be like, oh my God, if you're on the podcast and I'll be like, I'm not allowed. like the At the Halloween party, when everyone's just talking up the podcast and he's just like, he's like, I'm not allowed to listen. I'll get in trouble. He's like, I can't. He did tell me to grow up. yeah
00:21:30
Speaker
I love that. um Okay, my next you me out is everyone in your life being like slightly afraid of you. So I think everyone your life should think you're a little insane. Otherwise, yes.
00:21:48
Speaker
You're never truly respected by your environment. i was I was thinking about this today because I was listening to a podcast on like, should leaders be feared? And it was like a guy saying that like actually people work better not under stress of like being like physically hurt. I was like this one like hard ass like guy who was a professor who like in the UK and has been for a long time.
00:22:13
Speaker
when it was like there was no laws in classrooms he like threw a chair at a student once when they didn't turn their essay in at time and he was like I don't have to I threw one chair and for 10 years no one ever turned an essay in like late again so he was like people needed to fear me for that leadership and the other guy was like well I'm a professor and I like foster it i like an air of respect and support. so like And the guy was being like, well, why should I respect them if they're doing something wrong? And he's like, well, there's it like respect that you earn that like is through like your works. And then there's respect because you're a person. right You just give them dignity. right But i um they're going back and forth on that. And I'm like, how do you lead and be respected, but not like because people are scared of you? I don't think it's good to be. I think his point that he was making was like people need to know that you can go there.
00:23:02
Speaker
Exactly. but you don't say oh what You don't really ever go there, but you can be pushed and you will go. Yes, that's what it, I said, everyone really needs to be slightly afraid. Like, oh, I feel like if Iman was mad, she would be fucking crazy, but I don't know if she is. I just know that if she, like I know that she might, like I need everyone to think I might go crazy. Yeah. And which I know that you would.
00:23:26
Speaker
Thank you. Yeah. And I mean, Joe is terrified of me. Yeah. Terrified. OK, here's the next on my list. Seth Rogan, we all know that, obviously. Mm hmm. Newly imagined dragons. We all know that. Um.
00:23:50
Speaker
running into an ex. I don't know why we all hated it. It's just like, thank you. It just like gets me. Depends on the scenario. The scenario is that you're at a party. You look so hot. You weren't even expecting and you're like unintentionally having the best time. I went into your ex. I feel like that's when girls are like, oh my God. But really, I'm like, hes that's like the best scenario. I don't even care if it's at CVS. It's anywhere. It's just like, thank God. like like being perceived by them. Yes.
Musicals and Self-Reflections
00:24:21
Speaker
exactly one night A year after Jay and I broke up. Um,
00:24:27
Speaker
It was like maybe even a year and a half. I was in Larchmont randomly for a fitting and then went to go get a Noah's bagel and was walking out and saw him walking out of Chipotle. So it was like an area that neither of us lived on like a random middle of the day weekday. It was like the weirdest timing and I didn't look great, but I didn't look horrible. um But it was just so exciting. It just gets the blood going and it's just like, honestly, thank God this happened to me.
00:24:57
Speaker
Like, oh my God, there's no way. Yeah, it just kind of like feels good. Yeah. Um, next is musical theater soundtracks, which like, this is me coming forward as a theater kid. Oh,
00:25:17
Speaker
I love musicals. Which one's your favorite? Wicked's my favorite. I saw it in middle school with like the original cast and I've just been really obsessed with it ever since. I like Grease right under that. I know like every word. I also know like every line to these musicals. I love Hairspray. yeah yeah I saw that before the movie came out and I feel like it was even better seeing it like you know, before the movie because the movie was like a little print. I didn't like John Tabolta as the girl. um Yeah. also where do you Where do you see a musical like besides New York? Where do you go? There's a lot of places in l LA. We're all in New York and London whenever I've seen shows. I saw Wicked in LA. I don't know where I was. I want to see Wicked and I want to see Hamilton. I want to see Wicked. I'm not a Hamilton girly though.
00:26:13
Speaker
and I don't feel like I would be a Hamilton girl. Totally or with my Catholic family. And in one point they there is a song called Fuck God. And I thought they were going to explode. I think that'd be a book of Mormon girl for fucking sure. It's really good. I mean, it's the same writers as like um that cartoon with like Kenny. South Park. Oh, nice. Yeah.
00:26:41
Speaker
um Okay, well I support you being a theater girl. i I don't know if I hear you out on like listening to like the soundtracks. Like that's like actually like you're like top of the top tier theater geek.
00:27:02
Speaker
Yeah, there's like, there's a subset of people that love this. And so I hope you guys feel seen by Mon right now, because honestly, sometimes people do come out of the woodwork in my life. And they admit this to me. And I'm just like, Well, I've never really admitted some things I admit on this podcast for the first time, like I'm not really telling my friends, like I've never told you guys this before? And then I just like say it. It's like, why am I choosing right now? I don't know. But like, yeah, I do musicals in my car. No, what's that meme that was like, ah there's the meme that's like sharing your life because ah there's like a lull in conversation. We just keep coming on here sharing fucking everything feeling like we need to. Like, can you guys please listen? Yeah, so we'll tell you everything. We'll tell you when we everything.
00:27:51
Speaker
Um, do you have any more? I like randomly think that the main character of that show English teacher, like I'm like really attracted to him even though he's gay. Same. Like because he keeps doing that TikTok and I just like it. And it's so good. It's getting to my, it's getting in my head. Right? I'm like, wait, I like like him. No, so same. I like really like him. I'm obsessed with the like,
00:28:23
Speaker
straight passing gays. Anyway, um yeah, I just kind of like love that subculture. Right? Can I say that? yeah Is this thing on?
00:28:36
Speaker
see yeah Okay, this one is pretty controversial. Sometimes I think that like,
00:28:50
Speaker
at a certain point therapy is just like ruminating on the same things over and over and like keeping you stuck in your trauma because you just like want to talk about it again and again and again and like every week you're like showing up and then sometimes you just like are like oh I just paid for this like I have to think of something to talk about so you like think about something and talk about it from every angle like sometimes I just like think bad things can happen to you and they just really suck and it's just like not this really terrible trip like maybe it's traumatic but it's just like yeah this happened to me and it's just like That's what happened. But sometimes I think when I'm like in therapy talking about it again and again, it's like and then you're like feelings are being so validated and you're like, oh, wait, maybe I should think about this. more Like sometimes I just think.
00:29:33
Speaker
Yeah, no, I get that. Absolutely. I feel the same way. There was also certain cases where like I feel like I was trying to move on from a situation, at least for the time being. And she would be like, no, you need to process this. like You're really pushing it to the side. And I'm like, well, I kind of have to because the other person isn't really like confronting this issue with me. So why are you having me? like feel this so intensely when I can't really do that. Well, i just ah I disagree with that part, Kristin. I feel like I think what I got from what Iman said was like you shouldn't have to drum up things to talk about. Like if something's not bothering you or something bad happened, whatever it is, I think it's like if something's not bothering you yeah genuinely and you're not pushing it to the side, then like it's not something you need to necessarily discuss over and over and over again. Maybe we talk about it once and then we like kind of let it go.
00:30:27
Speaker
But I feel like in that situation, Kristin, if you're going through something difficult that you're trying to wait for someone else to sort out with you, I think it's right for her to be like, they're not here, they're not sorting it out. this is It's you and your brain and your life so they can't... I mean, it's not like a relationship repair. It was just like one of those things where like there was no solution at the time kind of thing. I don't know. And I just sometimes feel like...
00:30:53
Speaker
Like i I just still take everything with such a grain of salt because I know how one sided it is. And so when I do get deep in therapy, sometimes I'm like, God, if you are in this and you're not self aware enough to know that they're like kind of feeding you,
00:31:11
Speaker
um, information and ah and it's one sided. And sometimes they like, I feel like she's pretty harsh when it comes to like other people in my life. And it's like, I feel like I'm always, it's also her, their effect on you though. So like if someone's like those people could be correct, but if they're affecting you negatively, it's your therapist's job to be like,
00:31:33
Speaker
If this is making you feel bad, let's look at it. If they continue to make you feel bad, it doesn't matter who's right or wrong. It's just not right for you. Right. But I think that's correct. It's just hard to give her all the context to be that outspoken about things I feel like.
00:31:50
Speaker
Yeah, I've experienced that before where I talk shit about my mom for like 10 sessions and then she's like, your mom just is so selfish and I'm like, okay, hold the fuck up. Exactly. You know her. So I understand having that moment for sure.
00:32:06
Speaker
But that's also like the truth you have to hear sometimes. no yes like If you talk about someone that's being selfish for in so many instances, it's just hard to hear because like I feel similarly about my mom and like something like that will happen and I'll be like, you don't even want me to choose? And it's like if it it threatens my identity. yeah like I'm like, no, but she's right.
00:32:26
Speaker
Yeah, no, exactly. like i But I want to be the one saying it. like You don't say that. You can't talk to your mom. Yeah, you don't even know like how she grew up and stuff. Yeah, you don't even know her. No, but like for this is a good example of this. I feel like Eames, whenever I was not wanting to go home for the wedding a few weeks ago, um because I'm going for Thanksgiving and Christmas, and like the flight is just a lot from LA to Tulsa, so I was trying not to go.
00:32:52
Speaker
to the wedding. And of course, you know, I got guilted into it. And um I was like had therapy the night before my flight. And I had told her she like misunderstood me whenever I was telling her the story. And I was like, yeah, I like created a try to create a boundary with my dad and like tell him I wasn't coming home for the wedding. But he just like was, you know, upset and blah, blah, blah.
00:33:17
Speaker
And she was like, great, I'm so proud of you. That's such a good step. I'm so glad you're not going. That's so unnecessary to go three times in three months. I was like, oh, no, I'm going. And it that she was like, oh. And she was like, well, it's not too late to cancel. She said, it's not too late to cancel. The night before my 11 AM flight, I was like, you have to get out of my head. I made this decision. yeah I, at this point, like I was bold. Yeah, it was very bold. She gets bold with me sometimes, which is why I love her. yeah so everyone And I, yes, we still do have the same therapist. Thanks for asking. Yes. Me and crazy are the same therapist. We love her. I'm, I'm down to, um, once I'm down to once every two weeks now. Yeah. Cause I was finding myself doing the same, just like brain, like talking more about like.
00:34:12
Speaker
Like the same thing over, yeah. Exactly. Yeah. Um, not to say that therapy doesn't work or anything. I'm just talking about when you specifically like think, like talk about the same thing from different angles over and over and over again. and I think that's important to talk about because so many people weaponized therapy these days that it's like you, you do have to be reminded to like check yourself in scenarios and not be like too enabled by them. Yeah. Like you don't want things to be so one-sided always.
Humor and Lifestyle Choices
00:34:42
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Yeah. Well, I've come up with one hear me out after I've kind of thought about it for a while and I went the character route. But do you remember the cartoon Danny Phantom? Yes. Where he like turned into half boy half ghost. Yeah. Yeah. He's hot. You would like Danny Phantom.
00:35:01
Speaker
ah Yeah, I think, but here's the thing. Here's what I find with all my hear me outs. I can't help that I am your average person. You know what I mean? Like, I don't like the niche, like weird guy that we have to hear it out. I don't want to hear it out. yeah I like a hot guy. Gotta catch your mocks, he's danny phantom, gotta catch your mocks, he's danny phantom, gotta catch Let's see. You're going to love it, Peyton. Oh my God. What?
00:35:41
Speaker
It's so good. I watched it like honestly 10 times in a row. What is her name? Allie Belairs. Me and teams are on lesbian TikTok, so we know everything.
00:35:56
Speaker
Everything. Oh, yes, I know her. I know her. I didn't know she did her hair different. Yeah, I like it. Yes, she used to be Jinji Winji. Got to catch democracy and them Got to catch them all because he's Danny Phantom fan fan. He's yang also Simba's hot. Mm hmm. It was hot. Shrek's hot. No, Woody Harrelson.
00:36:22
Speaker
Shrek. Shrek. Yeah. In what scene?
00:36:30
Speaker
Whenever he's like brushing his teeth with mud. I'm like, yeah, that's my man. He's scratching his teeth. No, I'm just joking. It's like I like his little accent and I like his like his swagger and his um I'm looking at people's hear me out cakes on TikTok right now and like none of them are hear me out. Like I just saw Chad Michael Murray on hear me out cake. I'm like, that's not a hear me out. That's a you. That's a you hear me out cake.
00:37:00
Speaker
You're like, what is that? That's what I'm saying. None of these apply. I will say Legolas, Lord of the Rings was one of my first crushes. Along with Tiger Woods was one of my first crushes. Not to hear me out. He's a very obvious though. Tiger Woods? I don't think it was that hot. Cal Drogo from Game of Thrones, i.e. Jason Momoa. But you named your dog someone that you want to fuck?
00:37:30
Speaker
I named my dog. and That's disgusting. Khal Drogo, because I love Khal Drogo, but it's really a Jason Momoa. I feel I didn't know who that was. Jason Momoa is like too scary masculine for me. like I don't think I can handle that. I think I'm like... I'm into him for sure. For sure. He scares me. I feel like he would... like like His sperm count would bloat me.
00:37:58
Speaker
like There would be so much if he came in me that I would be like bloated. Like he's just so He's so big. I would be bloated. Ew. Like he would give me a little belly. And I'm not talking with a baby in it. Do you guys kiss on the lips in front of your parents? With boyfriends? and Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. At the ripe age of 30, I do. You do? Yeah.
00:38:28
Speaker
I would never. I wouldn't. Yeah, my parents didn't know that I like liked touching other humans until I had ah my first boyfriend and then I like couldn't stop touching him. Like we would have to like no on the couch together. I am the penis motherfucker in the world. It's so gross.
00:38:47
Speaker
yeah I brought Joe home when I was 27 and my parents, my whole family was stunned and they still talk about it to this day like, it's been three years, so they know what's going on. But they were shocked and awed, they were mortified. They were literally like, they weren't like mortified that it was happening. They were like, who are you? Like what, why are you touching this man? And I'm like, because this is what happens when I like someone. And you're like, I like to be affectionate to them.
00:39:16
Speaker
yeah Kind of rare. I would say my half cooked ramen recipe is a hear me out. Yeah, for sure. I need to make it for you like with the correct brand. Eames brought the non-GMO one whenever we did that. On So fucking annoying. On accident. I will say a lot of comments on that post were like, I would say the majority of the comments.
Wrapping Up and Feedback
00:39:44
Speaker
I would say half or more, the majority, where the people eat it like that too. Yeah. Did you see that? Yeah. and I think this is a great example of why you always have to be yourself because you never know.
00:39:59
Speaker
other people out there um going through the same shit that they can relate to. um I've always been really scared to talk about how I like my ramen. um And I am really opened up. Yeah. And I'm so thankful for this platform that gave me a safe place. And I found my people and I'm never gonna forget it.
00:40:20
Speaker
We actually all have a group text and we're just constantly sending memes and TikToks and laughing. All right, so I'm going to redirect back to this episode. um We do, unfortunately, have to wrap it up. Also, lead girls, let us know who you relate to. If you guys are coming out from the club, eating your friends out a little bit, going to sleep, waking up, going to go. breakfast burritos just like living your best lives like not talking about it really after just like living in the moment you let or like if you're the person who like when they say someone say hear me out explain a situation or a person they need to be heard out for and you don't know what to say because you're Just normal. You're just a normal girl. You really don't have that many um hear me out moments. Just like, let me know. Yeah. And if you just heard him coughing, it's because she's smoking weed in the background um of the episode. I'm smoking a lot. I'm smoking. I'm smoking. I'm smoking. Ew. I know. Also, it's so crazy that y'all are three hours behind me. It is eleven ten right now. Damn. Like, it's so late.
00:41:31
Speaker
with the things I do. My new favorite bit is like reacting like really intensely to like really minute information. um ah Like when we went around and say at what age we lost our virginity the other day. What? Yeah, yesterday we went around and we're talking about how we lost our virginity. Who was we? on spread It's for Kristen's ah birthday. We went to Barney's. There's like six of us.
00:41:58
Speaker
And Iman was like, I was 22. And Megan goes, damn. You guys, I was just a late bloomer. I'm never meeting the fucking lesbian allegations ever. Never, never. I'm just like, I never really liked boys.
00:42:25
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Click that.
00:42:28
Speaker
ah And that's the episode. And that's the episode. I just never really liked boys. I just never really liked boys. So you guys let me know. OK, we love you girls so much. Don't forget to rate us. Please. Yeah, please give us five stars and come follow the three-way podcast. Please, you guys, please. like We don't want to keep asking like it's embarrassing. What? I just want you guys girls to have fun. You do whatever you want.
00:42:54
Speaker
OK. OK. Thanks, Kristin. All right. I'm the cool one. All right.
00:43:10
Speaker
right I have to go. OK. Bye. Bye, guys. No, you don't. Guys, I have to go. No, you don't. Got to run, guys. You stop. the Did you stop it?
00:43:22
Speaker
We're on the run because he's Danny Phantom.
00:43:28
Speaker
but Press end, Kristen. I forgot I had it. Sorry.