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episode 3: the gals share some overrated and underrated opinions. srry if they offend you (they don't care.)
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Introduction and Theme
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Hey Chris. Hi Eames, what's up? I have to tell you something. Oh my god, okay. Should I three-way Peyton in? Yeah, call P. Okay. Hello. Hey, Eames needs to tell us something. I'm three-waying you in. Okay, immediately. Okay, so... Hello everyone. This is Iman, and this is the three-way podcast. With my friends Peyton and Chris, and today we're gonna do overrated and underrated lists. I'm really excited about this one. I have a lot of shit I need to get off my chest, and let's fucking go. Let's fucking go. I am getting like, actually, I'm going to be drunk by the end of this. And this is another thing I love about podcasting with other people, because if I'm just drunk on my own podcast by myself, or like, that's actually, it's like sad. It's not boring. It's sad. But I also, that's how not to sell started. I literally was just like drinking wine in my own room. And I was just like sharing too much about my life, but now I'm being prompted. You know what I mean? It's just different. Yeah. If you guys are listening at home or driving a car or anything, drink every time.
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i come though
Overrated: Big Dicks and Crushes
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her her podcast the I'll do the same amount of promo on the podcast as I do. I know exactly what you're doing. Hey, don't get classy. It's just a fun game. If my lazy eye is showing on camera, you have to tell me. Because I keep looking. I know what it looks like. When I'm looking, it doesn't happen. It's when I'm not focusing. Oh, yeah. When I'm too busy having a good time. I'm not trying. I thought you got surgery for your lazy eye. I did. they It's every 15 years. I have to get it every 15 years and guess who I am. Is time taken? twenty It's been 15 years. She definitely has to. yes to i should help me If I look like an ugly gremlin, oh wait, you didn't. So you guys know. Stupid. Okay. Overrated, underrated. This is one of my favorite games because again, it tells you a lot about someone, what they value, what they like, what they dislike. Why are you whispering? I'm not. Am I? Yeah.
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Well, whenever you get like serious and you're like, okay, I have a thumb something to say, then you say it like so calm and like perfectly, but how about now? Yeah. innovated es Okay. Okay guys, let's start our list. I'll start. Something that I think is really overrated is having a really big dick. We hear it all the time. We hear, Oh my God. I want to have a big dick. No, I'm so okay with a medium average, like boyfriend. dick Let's fucking rock. Yeah, if you want me to get creative in the bedroom, I'm gonna have you're gonna have to have a medium to large, no large to excels. I think here's the thing. It's not medium. It's not average. I don't like that. I think boyfriend dick, for example, is a term. And I think it's bigger than average. But it's not too big to where it's uncomfortable. I think men sometimes have this idea of like, sometimes I think some of them have an idea of hurting a woman when they're banging. It shouldn't hurt. Like they have that weird math, like that weird toxic
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Yeah, painful situation happening. That's horrible. I think boyfriend dick is like slightly above average or above average. I'm okay with below average. You're okay with below average. Like I just want something very like let's keep it cool. Like I'm really okay. I'm really but also you're an experimenter. Yeah, it's so the smaller. It is easier to experiment and the harder they try. Yeah. Okay, so overrated is having a big dick.
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I do. I'll agree.
Cringe Social Media and Erewhon Hot Bar
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I'll agree to a certain extent. I can't do medium sized dicks to be honest, y'all, because I had not really dated anyone before Joe. And like, the I feel like the guys that I ever hooked up with, I was drunk. I don't know what a dick is supposed to look like and what's average and what's not. You know what I mean? ah Yeah. But I know what's not doing it for me. Yeah. And there's that. So it's whatever fits with me personally, a little oversized for what fits with me. Yeah, well, I had the opposite problem where like, I didn't realize everyone was really big. And then I dated someone who wasn't. And I was like, Oh, why does this feel so much better?
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But here's the other thing though. I have dated guys or I've been with guys that I thought it was big. I dated a guy who thought it was big, but I wasn't attracted to him. And there's a whole thing that happens when you are really turned on by someone where you like loosen kind of, and like, I don't want to say it gets like your banana gets bigger, but right know like for lack of a better terms, it gets bigger. And if you aren't turned on, then it can make other penises feel like it's bigger, even though it's not. Yes. So like you're super turned on that penis is going to feel less big. I mean, there's obviously some that are more relaxed. And yeah, you're more relaxed. So that's, I think that's the whole thing. Poppers do. Wait, what are poppers? Poppers are you like sniff them. The gay community loves them because it makes anal easier. I did them like once on my first sanctum and hooked up with a guy that was six nine. So
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um i would say as they were They're also just like a fun party drug. I did them one time and I got so dizzy. I had to go home immediately. i never done You always have to go home. I got so dizzy. I was falling over. I don't think it did the what everyone else was doing. Well, you also took one hit of weed last night and like We're hungover. Oh my god, y'all are hanging out without me. Hey, literally last time when we were all together, I was like, I missed you guys. And you're like, why do you guys miss each other? Why aren't you guys hanging out in LA? It's just weird. Yes, we hung out last night. I didn't want you to find out this way. But I took one
Relationship Dynamics and Friendships
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hit of weed, and I woke up this morning, and I was like, have you seen the Katy Perry music video to last Friday night? That's how I felt. I took one hit of weed at 5 PM, and I woke up like, whoa.
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and Oh yeah. It doesn't affect me well. Let me tell you, actually I did a little edible today. I had a one milligram, a singular milligram. I split it in half at like nine AM and then I shoot the other at like nine 45. So 0.5 milligrams. And I was so sleepy all day. I didn't get anything done. I thought I was like going to really thrive, but it wasn't thriving. Well, you know what? Sometimes that's important. Kristen, what's overrated in your opinion? Okay, everyone talks about like how ah amazing like having a crush is and like you're giddy and like all of that. I fucking think that, I fucking think that crushes are overrated because I personally don't know peace when I have a crush. I think I suffer from limerence. Me too. for Me too. I'm coming forward. No one else exists. Nothing else exists.
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there's a pit in my stomach all the time kristen kristen you know me with a crush you have seen this eba to limerence queen. I can't shut the fuck up about it. and oh god i mean yeah Recently, I was like, Oh, I thought a crush was just obsessing over a person. I didn't know. either oh It is fun, though. It's sexy and fun. It's projection. You're projecting something out of someone you don't know. If I have a crush, I can't also have a job. Oh, I know. Right. I remember like going through a breakup when I had an office job and it was not easy. No.
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Not even work for like fucking multiple multiple weeks when Joe and I broke up. Yeah, so I would just like to say like as fun as having a crush is it's overrated and I'm just ready for them to to know that they want to like spend their entire rest of their life with me no matter what and want me to have their children and like provide for me and like never leave me would never even think of it. But yeah, you guys have fun with your crushes. but i was also argue that i think when you're in a relationship having a crush on each other is like the magic that keeps it alive i agree i think it's a way where i feel like i haven't had a crush in a while wait do you have a crush right now on new york boy i think i did in new york but like i think but you talk yourself out of your crushes it's easy to when they're so cringe on social media
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I know. You really don't give a fuck, huh? Wait, explain why he's cringe on social media. A, like, he's posting pictures of himself solo. And I'm sorry, I know I did that, but like, you're not allowed to as a man. It's for the girls. It's as a man. Well, social media is for the girls. Social media is for the girls. And like I don't know. i think like I just think about the logistics behind, like did you ask someone to take this? like Yeah. Well, we know the logistics. That's the problem. Are we you going to be asking me to take photos of you? No, no, no, no, no, no. I know. Exactly. Also, he like talks to the fucking like camera. And he sent me videos of himself talking to the camera.
00:08:58
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like, a little, like, vlog. I know, you guys, he's doing everything he can to ick me out, but then, like, his personality is great. Okay, well, I don't need to know more because I'm not sleeping with him and I need to get the flame, keep the flame alive with him. He's like, I have to, like, i have I have to respect you after this, so can you please? like I know. So shut your mouth. No, I still like him, but just, I need less of those details, I think. I know, I mean, I think I might just unfollow him. All right, should I go? My overrated, the first thing to think of, because I literally I like b blanked whenever I thought about this topic. But there's one i've I've held in my heart for a long time. And that is the Erewhon hot bar. Oh, that is ah that is actually overrated. That's actually shocking, because that's something that I would think you would live off of. I know. And there's a lot on this list you think I'd live off of. I fucking cannot stand the Erewhon hot bar. You'll know when I hate something, I hate it so much.
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Here's the thing, if it was priced like Whole Foods prices, I'd be like, fine, like makes sense. Whatever. The fact that it's priced airborne prices and it still
Overrated Youth and Personal Growth
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tastes like that. The only thing I ordered is the Buffalo cauliflower. And I will agree. It's pretty good because I don't like cauliflower. So if something's going to make me like cauliflower that I'm impressed. Right. Otherwise. What the fuck is going on there? It's also so expensive. I just like, I'm not, I have an Erewhon person, but I like their smoothies. Yeah. See, I like the beverages and my religion to spend $25 on a smoothie. It's, it's like, I, know I cannot that's been twenty i spend I'll spend $19. The Haley B. Burr smoothie is 19 bucks. Erewhon has a pretty good, like,
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member member club thing where you get a bunch of points and stuff. So like it's good for that. Have I gone grocery shopping there? Fuck no, I'd rather die. um But snacks and the smoothie bar is great. But I kept trying to like the hot bar. Sometimes I would get it delivered, which is like, obviously it's not going to be good. But if it's, if it's going to be that expensive, it should carry well. All right, next, let's do another overrated. Overrated, doing stuff just for fun. I don't get the concept of that. Wait, talk talk more about that because I need to.
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understand what you're saying. oh There are certain things where it's like, you guys, it's like not serious. It's just for fun. Like if we're like playing tennis, I won't play tennis because I'm not good at it. And I would never do something just for fun. and hey but I have a question for you here. Okay, what about your dating life? Because you're kind of doing it just to see what happens. I have an intention and like a serious answer. If you told me, Yvonne, why are you going to Thunderbird? If you said, Yvonne, why are you going to Thunderbird to have a pint of beer with pain tonight? I would say to connect with my friend, to have a drink and to unwind. I wouldn't say we're going just for fun. If I'm going on a date. Yeah. If I'm going on a date, let's say I might not love them, but like I'll get a good conversation out of it or I'll be better at first dates or I'll, if I see no point, like if I see no point in dating you, you like,
00:12:05
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have no job and you're ugly. I'm not going on a date just for fun with you. But here's the thing. That's how we, I think, relate because we both look at life that way. Like when I think yeah I'm going to Thunderbird with Iman, it's for a purpose. It's not to drink beer with my friend. There is an underlying purpose to everything that my brain just automatically understands. Yeah. I'm attaching meaning or something. And if I, that's why, okay, that's taking me to my like kind of sub but category of this is bowling. There's no benefit of, but there's no physical benefit. It's not fun. And there's no way to like get really good in case you're, unless you're doing it all the time. I think people who like bowling, it's the epitome of people who like stuff just for fun. And like, if you have one person who loves bowling, you know, they're, They're like a little weird, right? They're the first thing that loves bowling. They're weird. I don't know anyone who loves bowling. Exactly. I know. I don't know one person. Because you keep your circle small. weird things A weird thing to like and doing stuff just for fun is overrated. There's no fun. I don't get it. I don't get it. Here's the thing. I want to be a person who does things just for fun. That's my ultimate goal in life is to just be a person who enjoys things and does things for the experience.
00:13:19
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But there is always a means to an end for me. That's why I have two or three friends in my entire life. Because i had a hand I don't want to hang out with people because I think, well, usually it's not fun at that point. It's just not fun. It's not fun. My next overrated item. I feel like it's going to be really controversial, and it's toppings. I just don't really think they're necessary. Toppings, can you give us more like toppings on a burger? I don't really need tomato on any burgers. No, that's just crazy. It slides out. So you eat patty? she ah Cheeseburger plain is my order. And if I'm eating a sandwich, it's like
00:14:01
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you know, maybe like turkey, I don't really even need the cheese, like maybe like a little spread or something. Honestly, like maybe like I just I think it's complicated things like I don't need tools on my burger. I don't really eat any pickles. No, I just like I don't. Spicy banana peppers? No, no, no, not spicy banana peppers. No, I just I think I can absolutely. I don't like this. Yeah, I just I don't need them. One of my biggest fears is that I don't have a child who who likes things plain toppings. Yeah, I didn't like that one. That one was I hear that one.
00:14:42
Speaker
That one was bad. Here's the thing. I like that you stayed strong. You did. And you stood on it. I was thinking about this recently, but what all my favorite people in my life and my best friends through my life have had in common, the coolest people I know. And it's that everyone is who they are and they're not sad about it. They'll tell you consistently to your face. That's been me since I was so young. it's always been I know those exact people and I can draw them out of a crowd immediately. I know because I like and i like the people that like just put everything out there on the floor. We don't fold. We could shit on you for thousand a thousand years on topics and you are not going to fold. No.
00:15:23
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No, because I just like, I just know that like, I don't need them. That's just not what you like. My next one overrated to try to rapid fire and not like, yeah. stupid point Okay, I could do like three rapid fire one case. Oh, I don't get it. Shut the fuck up. Wrong view. Wrong two people. Golden goose. No one's talking about it. OK, obviously that sucks. Everyone's talking about how much they suck. It's just weird to get it. No, they're ugly. Overrated, being overly clean. I just feel like get over yourself. And you're like, oh, I have to take a shower. I feel so gross. I don't know. Oh my god, that bothers me too. Especially if you're a boy. I'm like. It feels so performative. Like, oh my god, no, I have to take a shower. Like, I don't care. Like, stop saying that. Yeah.
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um Being overly clean. Yvonne has so many, so she has to rapid fire. Having a roster and also having a lot of friends I think is overrated. Having a lot of friends makes me want to actually jump off a building. Why do you have so many friends? You can't possibly, and I'm realizing this because I feel like I have a lot of friends and you can't possibly be a good friend when you have too many friends. and taylorship has lyric A friend to all is a friend to none. yeah Yeah. Here's my thing about that. I actually, so since moving here, I feel like I've had a opportunities to be friends with people and I'm not forsaking them. Like I'm not like avoiding them, but I was telling Joe today, I'm like, I am 30 years old.
00:16:46
Speaker
The idea, if I meet a new friend, I'm going to know right when I meet them. Like I was telling him today, the second I've met any of my best friends in life, yeah I have known it wasn't a, let me try to work this person into my life. It's like, no, that's my friend. Like I already know that's my friend. We're connecting, whatever. I don't need to play the game. I don't need more friends and go right now. like Yeah, you would rather be alone than like go have awkward conversation at a bar with like a girl that yes you have to have to like worry about what you're going to say in front of. Well, I'm also like, I'm like lonely here. And Joe's been trying to like help me, you know, how like when you say things to men, like they try to like solve the problem. And I'm like,
00:17:25
Speaker
No, let me tell you, if I found a friend that's going to be my close friend, it's not to say that I haven't met anyone here that I don't like. I like people here. It's not my Iman and Kristin or my Kelsey or anyone of the city that I'm living in. You know what I mean? These aren't people I'm going to carry with me to my wedding day. And you're going to be there to meet my kids. It's just not happening. I know when those people are coming to my life and I don't ever avoid it. Because if they do, I'm like, oh, fuck. Right. This is where you'll be. But like i I feel like since I've been here, Jo's been trying to tell me to be friends with people and I'm like, I tried. That shocks me that you think rosters are overrated because I would think you would want a roster for the distraction because as girls with limerants,
00:18:12
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I feel like its rosters are pretty important. They take a lot of time though I think. It is great to have a roster because i'm i I feel like I'm not too focused on any one person and like if a guy doesn't text me I'm like honestly thank god I have like too much going on with all my other people yeah but I personally find it tiring and I don't like it. I do it but it's like not something I love. If I could just hang out with one person all the time I would love that Having a roster, I will do it, but I'm not not enjoying it. I don't think it's cool. I'm not trying to glamorize it.
00:18:43
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Okay, I see. Okay, my next one is um being young. I feel like people are always like, Oh God, I would just kill to be 23 again, blah, blah, blah. ah When I look at people younger than me, I feel bad for them. I feel sad. I feel anxiety for what they're going to have to go through and learn and the heartache and heartbreak. And I just feel like It makes me like kind of ah stressed out more where I'm just like, oh, like I've already gotten through so much and I know myself and I'm so much stronger than I'm just like, I could never be jealous of anyone younger. You give me vibes. You give me um the idea of you main character vibes and Hathaway and the idea of you. And I want to back up because I said and Hathaway doesn't fuck. And then the idea of you came out.
00:19:32
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And I was like, Oh, she was hot.
00:19:37
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your podcast And I came out with this special just to let your unreleased. Yeah. music And she bucks and it had to be a fox. Okay, so I'll fire off a few more. I think air conditioning is kind of overrated. I'm actually like always fucking cold and don't really need air conditioning. But you live you live in Los Angeles, Kristin. and that's You can't say that if you live in l LA. I know. This is my personal experience. I mean, like across the board. like I kind of like when there's like no draft. I'm like, oh, cool. I can just like wear my crop top and not be cold. like
00:20:15
Speaker
It's too strong for me. I'm just a tiny little girl with no body. I think salads are overrated. I can't eat anything without bread or a carb in it and croutons aren't enough. Don't count. and I will eat a Chinese chicken salad from Jones with the fried chicken. How about twin chin? I
Critique of Fitness Chains and WAG Life
00:20:35
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don't know that I've had it. Okay. What about salad with rice in it, like the bowl? Yeah. a Salad, is it? OK. No, just anything that's just like just lettuce, like that's just going to be a no. You know, you know, I like yeah hate that. You're you're really, really.
00:20:52
Speaker
I feel like you're pandering to me right now. Yeah. so And you know, I fucking love that shit. So whatever. you on love of aji I think games are overrated. I am the girl at a party that I want to talk. Agree. I hate games. I hate them. If the game involves that talking and getting to know each other, yes, I'm in. Otherwise, if it is just a distraction and we're merely in each other's presence, then what the fuck are we doing getting together? I could just be scrolling TikTok.
00:21:24
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I don't need to not even competitive like it's not a competition doesn't ignite me. You know what I mean? and Just for fun. It really inks me out. and like People being really competitive. It actually like shows me everyone's true colors when we do play a game. Because there's some people they're like, guys, stop like we we got to play. You know that like this is life or death. But also, like I think that sometimes it calls into question who's in charge of the group like, Whoever's trying to be the most notice is in charge of the game like they're the most intense about the game They want to bring everyone together for the game But I'm like, what if we just shut the fuck up everyone and we just like drink our drinks and we just talk like normal people Maybe that's why I don't like lies I'm always trying to get the group together and I'm definitely not getting the group together for a fucking game unless it's but No, I hate games too. I agree. I agree So I have some specific ones one
00:22:17
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I think that any nation, like national chain fitness studio is overrated. Solid core, SoulCycle, berries. Yeah, that's a good one. Those are giving me made as a person who has had PCOS and has PCOS allegedly right now. I don't know if it's still like really and intensely in my life. No doctor could tell me. but those all spike cortisol so much. So when I work out, I feel more stressed out. I don't want someone yelling at me about it kind of feels like I guess maybe a PTSD about like
00:22:51
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and non-denominational massive Christian church where they're just yelling at you things about your life, but it feels the same way. They play the same kind of music and then they, it's like a community aspect and then they're just yelling at you how about your life. Could be better. Should you invest, like whatever yeah they're trying to sell, you know, I cannot fucking stand it. And every time I've done like a lot of so solid core, a lot of soul cycle, a lot of berries, I look more inflamed a puffy than I ever did in my entire life. Like I look stressed because I am stressed. All right. My next one is I'll do a specific one. AirPods Maxes. Hate them. Hate them. Along with the Stanley Cup. Hate them. I don't like AirPods Max. I love my Stanley Cup. You know what it is. I love things that are cute. Yeah. But you can get the same cup on Amazon. But here's here's our difference in price point.
00:23:47
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You can get the same exact cup that works the same exact way, but it doesn't have the Stanley label on it. And that's a huge difference for me. I don't like the Stanley Cup because I'm like, I don't want everyone to think I spent however much money they are on a stupid cup. I couldn't tell you how much a Stanley Cup is. I don't know, but I love it. They're expensive for a fucking cup. I'm not against like the price or like anything like that. I think there's just the whole premise of like the fucking big ass fucking 32 ounce cup and then everyone gets all the little accessories and stuff. I think the coldness around that
00:24:23
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And like how people collect colors, that's what scares me more. I will say, even if it wasn't like a trend and I just happened to upon this cup, I would still love it. I've never drank more water. I just... But you could do that with any cup. Well, I will say no other cup has ever worked on me. I'm drinking water. Every day I go to, I bring it to work. I don't bring it like, just like in an event. Like with a Stanley cup is this sense that you have a reusable Stanley cup. Like that, it goes on par. Just like how you're going to go into berries at 6am. Are you? No, of course not. Okay. What else do I have? I have one more. I don't know how to choose the one that I want to talk about. Oh, you know what I'm talking about?
00:25:09
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being a wag overrated, oh over fucking rated. oh here Here's why. I also think that I have the worst kind of wag because baseball is the worst of all the sports in terms of like the glamorous aspects. It's not glamorous. I will say it's the only sport I think without a salary cap. Also, baseball has 165 games or something. Joe has gone all day, every fucking day of my entire life. And then he's gone. If he's in town, he's gone all day. But if he's out of town, he's gone for a week, like completely gone. So I feel like wag culture is more overrated than most people would think. I think people want to be wag. I see on TikTok all the time, girls wanting to like date an athlete. Yeah, they romanticize dating an athlete. And I don't think that it's necessarily
00:26:07
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And not for the reasons most people would say like the cheating and all that stuff that you hear all the time. Yeah, it's it's actually just like day to day. But anyway, it's just like not as glamorous as you would think, you know, like I'm living in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. I have no friends here. I'm sitting in Phil's right now, because I don't have the show to help me like take care of the house. And like, if I have something to do, like if I have Like, let's say when of you guys get, gets married or there's a work event or like something like that. I don't have a date ever. He's always playing. He can't leave. If I have a baby y'all, this is crazy at major league baseball. If Joe and I have a baby, he gets 72 hours off and then he has to come up to work. What? And I've thought like, it's not, it's not like, I think the money is glamorous. I think he does make a good amount of money.
00:27:01
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but he's gone all the time. right yeah like he's and he's He is controlled by someone else. He's not his own boss, let's say, at all, by any means. yeah So i think being a wag is I think baseball is really a lot harder than a lot of other sports, but I think being a wag is super overrated. yeah Super overrated. I think we have to do fire round because we're running out of time. Underrated um architects, they're both creative and geniuses and it's not talked about enough. They have to be genius level smart and also so their eye has to be so good on design. They're
Isolation and Creativity
00:27:41
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engineers and It's the only job that you have to be the best at every single like area. What made you realize this?
00:27:50
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I mean, I've just always realized I've always thought I've always wanted to be an architect. I've always thought it was the coolest job. And like, if I could draw and be you also have to be good at drawing. Like it combines like every know who best for the best at my dad's dad, it was an architect and he designed the eternal flame for JFK. That's literally the fucking coolest job ever and no one's, everyone's like, Oh, be a doctor, be this. You can't be an architect. Only like five people can because it takes so much fucking work. Anyways, underrated guys who asked you on a date in the first message on a dating app. I don't want to, Hey, how are you? What's up? No. Um, underrated the morning after I fucking love it. You're still a little drunk. You're what's so funny. I love that. Wait, I love being a little drunk.
00:28:37
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I have a very specific memory of a morning after when I was with Kelsey, actually, and one of our other friends. And we were at a house in the valley. This was like, years and years ago. i remember the joke And I woke up in a it's always that same vibe. It's very like you're in like a hangout because you're still drunk. Yes, I was still beer drunk. I woke up in and a music studio. And I was locked in, or no, I was, everything was locked out. Like you could lock it from the inside. And I fell asleep. And one of the guys there at the, ah who lived at the house was like, I wanted to make sure that you were safe. So I just made you lock the door. Cause I was like blackout or something. He put on country music. Cause he was like, and I hear from Texas. So if you wake up to this, you'll feel calmed. Cause him and the other guy were banging two of my friends. So anyways, I wake up, I open the door.
00:29:29
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I go to the fridge, I get some crispy cold Bud lights. And I'm like, this is Kelsey. I was like, Kelsey's gonna fucking love this. I like walk into the room that she's in. And I like open the Bud lights for all of us. And I lay in bed. It was me, Kelsey and the guy. There's nothing more fun. And we were also a little silly silly and drunk. And then we met up with our other friend and the guy she was talking to like, in their room. And then we all went to Krispy Kreme. Oh my god. It was amazing. Yeah, I love the lucid state in the morning when you're half drunk. Yes. Because I don't love drunk sex. I guess I could say that's kind of ah overrated, even though does that anyone love drunk sex? No. I really drunk sex. No, I don't. Tiffany's fun.
00:30:16
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Yeah. Okay. Yeah. I have a couple more. Okay. Underrated, obviously golfing. Being able- Golfing is not underrated. Everyone loves looking at golfing. For women, like- Yeah. For women. Yeah, you're right. That's what I mean. Like, obviously not in the world, but like for girls to rate. But to our audience, probably. Yeah. Being able to read is underrated, because if you really think about it, What do you mean being able to read? there are were There are letters that make words that make us understand each other. And we all do it just like, I don't know, I can't think about it too much. It trips me out. Oh, you mean like the fact that we are able to read and we can talk about that more. Okay, got it. Also underrated is this hairstyle with the all gray with the layers that these guys wear. Look at this. How good is this?
00:31:09
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underrated i want to talk about this as a concept of like okay isolation being reframed as like the opportunity to tap in and i'm going to go into this a little bit so for example a lot of my friends have moved away or they're in relationships i have a lot of free time even though i just complain about having only too many friends I feel like right now, I'm not really dating, which I'm dating. i have your day leading everyone and i A lot of my friends are moving away. They're not here. Okay. I'm using this. I could be like, Oh my God, everyone's doing stuff with their lives on them. And they're like by myself. Or I could say, I'm gonna fucking tap in. Okay. So I think underrated is like ah being by yourself to be the best version like of yourself and get better and using that time as that.
00:32:00
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Well, you know, I love isolation. Because when you have more friends, you don't really have free time because you're like, oh, I need to see her and her and him and him. Exactly. Well, also when you're the friends, you're the type, you're a good friend. you are thinking about your friends first. So you, you can't have free time. You know what I mean? So yeah. So like, okay, let's say you have no friends. Let's say you just graduated from college. You had to move back home. You, you were in your parents' house. All of these things would be reframed as I'm going to fucking tap in and I have the time to instead of, Oh my God, I have no friends. Well, you get creative. You get creative with your time. You have more power over your time. But it's also interesting for you to note that like your friends moved away. For example, let's say me case in point.
00:32:41
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I'm not doing anything. Right? So like, what are you like, oh my god, Peyton with the way she's doing so much and I feel like like what am I doing? Nothing. It's just like, You know what I mean? Being underrated I think is like isolation, especially in like a super busy time in life or like the reframing of it is yeah you don't have a bunch of eyes on you. You can do what you
Underrated: Fingering and Other Pleasures
00:33:04
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want. You can do something that might be embarrassing. You can try a new thing and you have all the time in the world and all the opportunities to like not have all the people in your ear. It's the free time. Yeah. Of it all. It's actually such a luxury. Exactly. Yeah. It's such a luxury. Honestly, why we started this too, if we really think about it, I was
00:33:22
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reevaluating life after tour, not knowing what I was going to do and like, and I basically, I would say like, ah the breakdown I would like call it a breakdown. um But I would say that like, not obviously, that wasn't the sole reason that that this like happened. But that was like, I would have been less motivated if I wasn't in a moment of like complete standstill. All right, so underrated. Okay, so underrated to start out, I'm going to say fingering. I think I completely agree. Yeah, I agree as well.
00:33:58
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don't focus on it as much. I know that it's obviously like still very important for like a niche community. um like I know the girls that get it get it, but I also think that like it could be focused on a lot more. so like For instance, if you're a straight male listening to this or like a gay woman, like I would maybe, like before you put your mouth like on their crotch, maybe start with the finger first. I feel like it's skipped a lot. Yeah. It's like after the make out, that should be the next thing. I feel like that's a, in my experience, that's the thing. Like, does no one? No, in all words, I think a lot of people go straight to eat out. Fuck. Yeah. And who are you having sex with? I also think, well, not your boyfriend. So we're obviously having sex with different people.
00:34:50
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ah No, but I feel like since high school I've been, or not high school I guess because I didn't even kiss a boy because I was like an 18. But like since that I feel like fingering was like the... No, that's not the natural... I can count on one hand how many times. It's gone, and no what I mean is what it's gone from making out to that. it It's obviously happened a bunch. Like I've definitely like obviously had sex before. I'm seriously you guys I have. But it's not usually the next thing.
00:35:21
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Yeah, it's just sometimes skipped because I think boys don't I think it's the equivalent to a hand job with a boy. Like, I would say but a lot of boys would say those are um underrated. And I think it's because girls are just like, well, like, you know how to do it the best. Like, there's no way I'm going to do it better than you. That's why I kind of deter from hand jobs. But it's not the same as like fingering. I feel like men are just hard. Like women, you have to get us like ready to go. I feel like fingering is the way you do it. We're agreeing with you, Peyton. We want more of it. People are doing it. Oh, with a tongue yeah versus the fingering. Okay. I was wondering where the turning on is coming from. It's with the tongue. Exactly. Okay, got it. got it scar But also to add to that,
00:36:09
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I would also argue like fuck the it being a step in like the sex capade. Let's make it the whole fucking we're watching a movie finger me to completion.
00:36:24
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I don't wait is there here's the reason I was just judging you guys. I thought you meant you were having sex. you're making out and then you were having sex. Oh, no. What are you talking about? Getting eaten out? That's what that's who I want. I need to know who you're happy. No, I want I want fingers and mouth. Okay. I want fingers first. Anyway, so yeah, fingering is really fun. I love it. Everyone should be doing it more. And it shouldn't only be a step. It should also be the whole plan. and yeah get blowjobs to completion. and You should get fingering or whatever you want to completion. I think guys, dead girls don't like it. When it's your birthday, you need to get it. It's your day. Another underrated thing, white wrap. I'm sick of white wrap getting a bad wrap.
00:37:15
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Are you getting Mac Miller vibes right now? It's not even only Mac Miller. It's like I was telling Yvonne like we were listening to this song and everyone was like talking shit on it because it like sounded like it was like white rap. i was Yeah, the guy was not white. So I'm like white rap doesn't mean that the rapper has to be white. It just is a genre. It's like dorky. It's like dorky, boppy, whatever. And I'm like, you know what, you guys like let's all admit like this is fun to listen to. And like, yeah, it's embarrassing. But like, so is so many other things. So like, I think everyone should just like, honestly go with like, okay, like Toby Lou, I would say like, he could come off like, I just went about I just went about
00:38:01
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Boop, boop, boop, boop. I don't know who that is. Okay, well, you should look them up. But like, the like, boppy, whatever, like, you guys think you guys say you hate it, but you don't. And we all know it. Okay, but also, can I tell you something? Yeah, I've never met a Baker Mac Miller fan than you. Yeah. Other than Joe. Oh, really? He plays Mac Miller every fucking day. He loves Matt Miller, like unplayed, unreleased. He's obsessed. I think of you every single time. Yeah. I just like, remember how I couldn't even listen to him for like two years straight because I would like go. well he So he passed away during fashion week, that one time we were there in New York and it was a traumatizing week. Right.
00:38:46
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Like I don't know that I actually fucking cried, but I will say I didn't speak the rest of the day. I didn't go to the didnt speak and but i and if y allll don knowristen she speaks a lot. I'm dancing, I'm singing. So that's the thing about me. If I'm not in a good mood or something's wrong, like I don't know how to hide it. Everyone fucking knows. That was probably the hardest part before. But yeah, so that whole rest of the day, everyone's trying to talk to me. I'm completely disassociated like in my head, just being like, I can't believe it. I was so upset. And I've never been like that towards like any like celebrity or like anyone.
00:39:27
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okay guys last time underrated i guess like for a quick one i have rewards programs like i kind of feel interrated but i i agree um like that's why i go to starbucks like if they're if i'm if i go somewhere regularly and they have an app. I'm probably going to download it because I know I'm going to get like a free fry or something. Yeah. Wait, can I say one thing about that really quick? You guys don't know this about me or Peyton might. I'm an extreme couponer specifically at CVS. Same. ah Same. Oh, when I get that email that says 35% off your entire. Oh my God. it's high run oh That is high.
00:40:08
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And before I check out, I go on my app and I add every single deal to my card. And when I check out, it's like always. So the last time I was there last week, so like so they they know to send me the email because I come the same day. And I think that's how I get emails more. So I got 35% off your entire purchase off full price items. I went to CVS. My total was $136. I did all my coupons down at $98. ninety eight big but I got so much stuff. I got so much stuff. I'm going to do my last underrated. Yeah, i go ahead. Which like, I don't know. This could also be a little controversial, but just for my preference, I'm going to say underrated is Hawkeyes.
00:40:50
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I have, I had that on mine. Oh, wait, no, I had that on my overrated. Nevermind. I have christened it's a hot guy one time. And now she says but afraid I okay, no, you know what it is. I've just been giving all my attention to ugly guys. And is it is satisfying to just like, have a hot guy on your arm. And then all i mean yeah ah Shut the fuck up. And then also just be like, Oh, whoa, you can be like hot and like maybe nice. And cool. And cool. That's real. So yeah, anyway, like everyone's been all about the ugly boys, including me. Boys need to have a moment again, I think we need to give them a chance. Okay. Okay, but you guys, we actually have to do the outro because me and Kristen have to go. Okay, well, I have to do my underrated real quick. Oh, yeah. Okay.
00:41:42
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I don't want you all to go to dinner without me. yeah and his door ah
00:41:51
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where and okay Underrated, minor specific, you know, because I can't be general. Anyway. Slow Horses, the show on Apple TV. I thought you were just going to say Slow Horses. And I would be like, oh, did you just want to bring up that you're from Texas? Because like I was going to say the exact same thing. Slow Horses, the show, it's a British comedy procedural that everyone should watch. It's on Apple TV. Anyway, it's hilarious. It's perfect. I don't know what procedural means.
00:42:23
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it's like It's like a ah crime show, okay but it's the CIA related, okay? Slow horses, drugstore mascara, never met a luxury mascara that I liked to I actually have to say something. Trish McAvoy changed my life. Their mascara is tubular. I can't use any other mascara. I actually got my makeup done a few days ago and have had dark circles under my eyes from it since. Is it waterproof? It's not even waterproof. It's that it comes off like gumpy and gooey. Yeah. And so it's like not just like all the little speckles. I think it's how my eyes are because they're so like buggy and like how they like your big eyes. Yeah. My issue is I have like sweat. I have long eyelashes, but I have like sweat. It's like my my whole like
00:43:18
Speaker
I don't know. That's what comes up under my eyes product. Okay. You know me and how we get so much free shit. And I'm, even if I have a foundation, I like, I'm like, well, I have three free ones. Like I'm going to use it, bitch. I give or throw away every single, every single brand of mascara. I buy $50 Trish McAvoy. Like that's how important and how much it's I'm sold. I'm sold. Like it's insane. I see everyone about it. So I'm actually really glad you brought that up. Oh, you know what? Let's do an
Renting Convenience and Episode Close
00:43:49
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episode on things we don't mind splurging on. Oh, that's a good one. All right. My next one is, this is Nizh again, clear stem skincare. Have you heard of clear stems? No, no. Is this sponsored? Okay. I had no idea we had. We already had a sponsor.
00:44:05
Speaker
No, I so I've been dealing with acne all around my chin area. It's actually been stressing me out so much because I'm fucking 30 years old and have acne. But they actually did came out come on the podcast for spot in a sponsored capacity. But it's because they were on the him and her podcast that's going to have an initial podcast. And I learned so much on the episode. So I bought some of the products. And they have this thing on their website. It's like a for clogging checkers. So you go in there, you put any piece of makeup you have on your face ever, or any like thing you put on your face at all, and you put the ingredients in and they'll tell you if it clogs your pores. And so many things I was using were clogging my pores. And when I stopped using them and got more minimal with my skin care, I stopped getting acne as much. Wait, tell me the Giorgio Armani Foundation. No, it's that's not clogging my pores. Two more real quick, physical vision board.
00:45:00
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I'm looking at my vision board right now. It's literally stuff I printed out on a quirk board, which I think is the best underrated. And then the last one is renting items, renting stuff. So like renting clothing on pickle, for example, renting furniture. o i so I don't know that I agree with that because I feel like I'm going to be stressed the whole time that I just rented it. Same. Here's the thing. I want to return on my investment always. I'm going to like renting. Well, y'all have been around y'all have been in your apartments for a long time. Like for myself or for Joe, for example, he has been renting furniture. We did this in DC. We've done it in Dallas. We're like if we had to get in somewhere for six months to a year and get out the rental people come they
00:45:52
Speaker
you put They deliver the furniture, whiteboard delivery, no extra fee. And then they remove it from your space. I feel like it makes sense in your scenario for your fucking shirt. It's the best. But but also pickle. Or you sold your furniture for only being in the your lab department for a little bit. Yeah. And that's annoying. But also, again, pickle. Have y'all heard of pickle? Okay, yes, but I haven't posted clothes on it, nor have I like used it, but you should use it. It's actually amazing. I will say I haven't rented anything myself. But I went on a podcast recently where my friends from they're from New York, and they're like, cool New York girls. And they were like, we usually rent our stuff out on pickle and use those credits to get other stuff on pickle. o So they like rent. Amazing. My friend Danielle, I'm like, dude, how do you always look so insane? Like
00:46:41
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She doesn't have a stylist, but she was like, no, I just like find what my stylist tells me to get on pickle sometimes versus like actually pulling it or whatever. I mean, maybe I'll try it. I'll try it. I'll try anything once. I feel like if you're out there and you want to make money on your closet and you don't want to like poshmark yourself away immediately, you should pickle it. Because I have a lot of C-dresses, F-A-N-C-I. not not I love that brand. doesn let see I have so all fucking many. And like, they're just like, yeah, I should i should put those on there. You should, it happens.
00:47:15
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All right, we're all going to dinner. Tell me where you're going to dinner if I can't come. We're going to Pre-Madonna, girl. It's called Pre-Madonna. Pre-Madonna. It's in Culver City. Is it new? And I didn't even know about it because I moved it away. It's new. It's new and it's sponsored. Oh, no. Oh, oh no. Well, I'm going to have to go just hang out with Joe in the next room, I guess. Oh, my god. You poor girl. You have to hang out with your boyfriend. Okay, well, how about this? I would trade someone that I love and care for for Prema Dasha. Okay, I have been thinking about that whenever we're like doing Scontact before he goes to the field, I always say I need you to come touch me and lay for like at least 30 minutes. But I'm like people want people want this. Yeah.
00:48:03
Speaker
People do. like But I want what you have. We all want what we don't what we don't have. I'm dying to go to prima donna. I'm dying to be drunk. Guys, I'm dying to be drunk for fun. Every time I get drunk here, everyone's scared of me. And y'all. or not. Those are underrated, overrated, me and Kristin. Go on a premium, Madonna. We don't, okay, we're not saying go there yet because we haven't been, but we'll let you guys know next week if it's good. Yeah. All right. We love you girls so much. We love you girls so much. Love you girls. And that was another great episode. Lila's. Another one in the book. Lila's. Lila's. Mwah. Mwah.