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episode 12: welcome to the season 1 finale award show! in this ep the girls look back on starting the pod and give out awards to each other and some special listeners for things like 'most likely to pick up the phone when kristens crying" and "best boss".
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Exciting Announcement Call
00:00:00
Speaker
Hey Chris. Hi Eames, what's up? I have to tell you something. Oh my god, okay. Should I 3-way painting? Yeah, call me. Okay. Hello? Hey, Eames needs to tell us something. I'm 3-waying you in. Okay, immediately. Okay, so... Hello and welcome to the 3-way finale. Dun dun dun.
00:00:21
Speaker
I know in your finale, you might be like, Oh my God, where are you guys going? When are you guys coming back? So here's the thing.
Podcast Finale and Future Plans
00:00:27
Speaker
We, this is our hobby. So we do have to do like our real jobs for a sec, reset, get, you know, a second Kristin needs to be able to smoke a couple of cigarettes in between. Like we just have to be able to do the whole thing. So we're going to come back refreshed. We're going to get our work done. Peyton's going to go to New York for a month. I'm.
00:00:47
Speaker
my company's entering their Series A. So I'm going to go have to work double the time. So we would love for this to be our full-time job. It is not yet, but we would love that. But like, comment, subscribe, tell all your friends. Tell all your friends. It will be baby girls. Trust us, it will be. OK? OK.
Kristin's Muskoka Getaway
00:01:08
Speaker
OK, so my momma will be out.
00:01:10
Speaker
Okay, so we're going to do, this is going to be an award ceremony. You guys can't see us right now, but we'll post a photo. We are all dressed up. ah We're dressed for a red carpet. um We're all kind of wearing sparkly stuff and we're going to give awards to each other. We're going to have some like a little bit of catch up and fun time. And then we're going to go into the award. So. as break and was a Oh God. Did you guys like that? You were so lucky.
00:01:39
Speaker
Oh my God. Can we get a little more in season four? Can we start with Kristin going to Canada? Because you just dropped that on me before we started recording. She was like, I'm leaving for Canada in two hours. I'm like, I got a red eye my out to Canada. And for what? My friend Ian has a lake house in Muskoka. If you know, you know.
00:01:58
Speaker
yeah so stupid Mr. Wonderful has a house out there. So what? That's all I'll say. Um, beautiful most beautiful water. Anyway, I'm going to meet my friend. We went last summer. um He has a lake house. They've been there for a while. They were there. They're there for like 11 days total. Mama doesn't deserve an 11 day vacation right now. And I had a job a styling job. yes Yeah, you do. Don't say that about yourself.
00:02:25
Speaker
Oh my God. Thank you. Whoa. I wasn't even fishing for that. Fuck yeah. e Um, yeah. So I, and I had a job yesterday and then I was wrapping it today and you know, finale wanted to be with my girls, the dogs. Um, and so yeah, I'm just going to go on a red eye tonight. I land at 5am and I'm going to, you know, live it up for four days. And she says, live it up.
00:02:50
Speaker
You know, I won't say more than that. Okay.
Awkward Date Story
00:02:55
Speaker
Don't let me get this teed up really quick. Let's go into the horrible date. I went into last week with the dude that I thought had a lot of potential that was making me giggle and texts.
00:03:08
Speaker
You got it. Oh, okay. I actually, you know, have been going into dates a little more seriously. Cause I'm like, all right, the winter's coming. I'm about to start, you know, really reanalyzing life. And then also editing these episodes and listening back. I'm like, wow, I'm crazy. Like thinking of myself perceived from other people, you know, you're, you know, you guys are also only hearing a little bit about that. You sound fun. You don't sound crazy. I think you, you think that you sound crazier than you do. I think most people are just entertained.
00:03:37
Speaker
Okay, good. Um, I'd love, I just want to be self-aware, you know, like, so the reason I bring it up is because he basically called me the black sheep of the family. And I was just explaining my dynamic and he was like, Oh, so are you the black sheep? And I was like, yeah. And he goes, Oh, you said that really fast. And I was like, um, I mean, yeah, like I just am a little bit on a like different wavelength than my family, I think. And I.
00:04:07
Speaker
You know, I just like feel a little different and he's like, well, normally there's like a really negative connotation to black sheep. He's like, it means that you're like fucked up and, um, you know, like just like started saying all these things. And I was like, um, well, first off, I've always taken it just really loosely, like that's that it's the outsider of the family.
00:04:26
Speaker
Well, usually think it's that they think it's the the weird people like, eight let's let's talk about me with my family. I consider them kind of weird. So they consider me the black sheep. So I call myself the black sheep, but you know as the black sheep that they're weird. Right. Exactly. So they, know exactly. And the black sheep of my family as well. Everyone talks shit about me. Yeah. It's all subjective. Like we're easy to talk shit about. They're jealous. Let's be real.
00:04:52
Speaker
Um, so that was fucking weird. And then I, he had gone to get us drinks. I got hot potties obviously. And, um, I was on my phone and he goes, Oh, do you like tell your friends where you're, where you're at on our first day? I was like, I mean, not necessarily, but my, some of my friends know where I am and like, they all have my location and he goes, Oh, do you like stock your friends, um, locations?
00:05:16
Speaker
Yeah. I hear it sometimes. No. I was like, I'm going to use it for logistics. And he was like, oh, okay. Like everything he was saying was so like sassy and aggressive. Yeah. And I was, it was completely different from like our text conversation then to fucking, wait, I actually like took notes because I didn't want to forget. Did he know you were an influencer from the beginning?
00:05:42
Speaker
I don't think so, because on my hinge, I don't have any, um, yeah. And I, and okay. So that's the thing I, you guys, he was so exhausting and like confrontational. Like he was definitely like me where he liked to make people feel uncomfortable, but he wasn't doing it in a funny way. He was doing it in like a bitchy way.
00:06:05
Speaker
And it was just throwing me fucking off. like i I wanted to leave after the first drink, but I obviously stayed. and Oh, I would have had a fucking field day with this man.
00:06:17
Speaker
Well, I, yeah one of those people, Peyton, if I would have started doing a bit, he would have looked at me and said, what are you doing? Like, like yeah here's the thing I think I would have been a huge dickhead. Like I wouldn't have been like, it's a slightly nice about it. I would have taken my brain. I would have stopped drinking so much and turned it on and really got into like, how can I win this man's life? I didn't even have enough energy. And the funny thing is, right after I finished my second drink, I was like, all right, my Uber's here. And I walk next door to buy cigarettes. And I just was like, honestly, kind of you know just after a bad date, you can't help but be like, god damn it. What the fuck? like you know After a bad date, it's the worst because you're like, I mean, this is just for
Living Together Before Engagement
00:07:02
Speaker
like the right after the bad dates. like
00:07:03
Speaker
and be alone forever. There's no one out there for me. That's at least what I think. I'm like, this is like the worst day of my life. Yeah, you feel sorry for yourself because you're like, that's so bad. Okay, but like, what are you describing as a bad date though? I feel like I've had Like obviously pre pre even ever meeting Joe, I went on like some dates from dating apps and stuff like that, mostly the league, because I feel like at the time it was the league. um I had never had like really any bad dates, but I had dates that were just like, like I just like didn't give a shit. Like I could never see that man again in my entire life and my life would probably be like yeah no more exciting. I would say that that's a bad date. that was bad This is defined as a bad date because like I was like pissed leaving. He was pissing me off.
00:07:46
Speaker
I was not even filling the white space. He would say something and I would give him answers and then just be like, look around. No, you guys. Wait, so why was he so sassy to you when he saw you? That was what I'm wondering is, did he start being sassy once he knew what you did for a living or what you don't do for a living? No, he was sassy from the fucking beginning. And once I read back the text, I'm like, okay, yeah, he was sassy. Also he called me out for, he was like, you randomly texted me. Like we had kind of like stopped talking. Like what made you like text me after a few months? Like that's, that's him. And I was like,
00:08:28
Speaker
knowing that it was for the podcast to meet up with Iman for a fucking double first date. I just was like, Oh, I don't know. I just like did like, wait, is this the guy you, you did this again? Y'all wanted another? No, but I, I had stopped texting this guy back and then I had hit him up for the double date and then he couldn't go. yes And we had started texting again and he then got COVID blah, blah, blah. Um,
00:08:52
Speaker
And yeah, it's like, also remember I was being really like sweet and sincere in text and he was like, oh, I was going to say Apple watch. So he is like sassy, but I just thought I was going to like it, but it was just bitchy, sassy.
00:09:07
Speaker
we ah He was just, he he wants to be a princess and this isn't a men's. Yeah. He wants to be the bad bitch of the relationship. He seems like he wants to be the bad bitch to wrap this up. You guys after the date, he said, nice meeting you tonight. Didn't seem like you were really feeling it. Dot, dot, dot. No worries. Good luck out there. I'm just like, that's the most Disney channel. Response. And right he's, he's giving male Debbie right now.
00:09:35
Speaker
you He also lowkey catfished me. I thought he was like swaggy as fuck and he was not. So anyway. So sorry that happened to you. It's okay. Oh, oh it's okay because when I was gone walking out after I bought my cigarettes and I had like one little tear streaming down my face, I look up and my friend Katie is standing there and I was like, Oh my God, Katie.
00:09:59
Speaker
And she and her friend were leaving a comedy show, so we smoked some cigs, we caught up, because she just got home from London, and then her friend tap danced for us. I saw that on your story. Okay, but here's the thing, what's worse, you're in are on a date with an absolute dickhead, where you have like a story to be like, this guy was a dickhead, or a date that's just like, I just like never married this guy or been all like this, are they all this boring?
00:10:21
Speaker
I don't know. I would rather that because it, well, you know, you're right. Since I have the podcast, I guess I'm going to say now the bad dates are good dates. Everything is copied. Yeah. Well, it's honestly, there's a horrible to a level where you're like, okay, not everyone is this horrible. So you're like, you you have some hope for the future that you won't, you'll find someone not horrible. I feel like when everything's so boring and you continue to go on dates because most dates are boring, I would say.
00:10:47
Speaker
It's like, it's soul crushing because they're like, oh, everyone just. Yeah. So actually when you have like their very lively, deep friendships, it's like, Oh, I'm not really like anyone more than my friends. Cool. What's like amazing. kind of Well, no one's funnier than my friends. No one's going to entertain me yeah with my friends. And then what they coupled with like men wanting to be princesses of our time. I'm like, what purpose are you literally you're not going to be entertaining? I know.
00:11:10
Speaker
yeah So you're not going to be going to bed and you're not paying for my stuff actively or you're complaining about it. That's crazy. Um, how old are you again? Cause like, uh, hinge was matching me with people way younger. So I just want to make sure you're not 22 and he's 40. So did you feel incredible about yourself? Yeah. but You were 22. Yeah.
00:11:35
Speaker
yeah i'm also Yeah. Well, I think that's, it's because we matched so long ago that like, I don't even know where the fuck his profile is. I would have to go find it again. Um, so I think it was one of those. Yvonne, do you have any life updates for us? Um, still going strong with my crush. Um, sleepovers often also her crush lives close to me. So I have gotten to see him a little more lately.
00:12:01
Speaker
Oh, yeah, I've been going to Kristen's as like, okay, before I go to his so I would say an update is like, he's gonna meet my friends tomorrow. We're going to a birthday party together. So we'll see how that whole thing goes in like a friend environment, because that's really going to make or break the situation. Um, no, it can make it so much. That's the thing. It's, it's, it can break it, but also it could be the most intense make of all time. Like there's nothing more attractive than a guy trying to get along with your friends. Like in a way where they like are actively trying to be a part of your life and also your friends liking. yeah Yes. And he's meeting Austin who's like the number one determiner of like, if I'm going to actually date him. So.
00:12:41
Speaker
That's gonna be good. um So I'll let you guys know how that goes with a friend thing. um We've been, you know, hanging out a lot, doing stuff. So that's all I can say right now. had Cut it, cut it, cut it up. Okay, so now we're gonna-
Podcasting Journey Insights
00:12:56
Speaker
Well, my life update, hold on. ah Oh, I'll just go fuck myself. My life doesn't matter. You know what? I'm so sorry. I do that all the time. After I stop talking, I'm like, all right, guys, so.
00:13:08
Speaker
You know what? My life doesn't matter. It's fine. hey No, it does. I'd love to hear pain what it is. Please don't say that about yourself. Okay. Well, fun, fun time alert. Joe bought a house. i alert Wait, I want that to be like a whole segment.
00:13:25
Speaker
and want to into one one time fun I had one and a half ah dirty martinis, so fun, fun, time alert. It's been fun, fun, time alert, completely stone faced. Yeah. So anyways, that can be a new segment in season two. Um, but fun, fun, time alert for me today. Joe bought a house for us to live in.
00:13:47
Speaker
um and you guys are renovating the entire thing. We're tearing down the stats.
00:13:55
Speaker
yeah but he's He's more on board with the paint now that I showed him videos of the house being like, do you see this light blue, Joseph? And he's like, yeah, I get what you're saying. He's being, I mean, he's just being less sassy in general, because I kind of was like, stopping so sassy. Anyway, um I've had some backlash on TikTok when I shared that Joe bought us a house. Oh, really?
00:14:18
Speaker
I would love to hear. That I'd like to address. Please address it. Well, everyone's like, not everyone. When I say everyone, I mean like three comments. I hate them already. Tell me what they said. Well, typically people when I say that I'm moving around for my boyfriend in general, they're like, oh, no ring. What's going on here? Moving around for note with no ring. I'm like, listen, we got back together in November. Who cares? Fuck off. Well, I'm saying like, we got back together in November. The only way I can see this man during the season is if we live together. That's the only way. And I'm not doing long distance again. It's not happening. I did it for a year and a half. We're done doing that.
00:14:53
Speaker
So anyway, I think people forget that for my job, I document my life. So if I continue to do the same damn thing every day, living in Los Angeles, my job is actually not made better. So like every time I move, engagement goes up. Every time I she's like on it i have it to get a dog guy or on whatever, my whole entire life is monetizable. So from a perspective of change is good for my job, moving around a lot is helpful.
00:15:20
Speaker
Also, second point, I totally understand like women need to have financial freedom. If my job, if I had to stay somewhere from my job, I wouldn't be moving in with Joe pre getting married, but I can financially benefit from my job from moving with him. You know what I mean? So I'm like, y'all are kind of missing the point of that. Like I'm making money off of this and this isn't a stupid job decision. This is actually making me more financially free.
00:15:48
Speaker
and She's just getting new storylines. She's getting new material and... Yeah. Well, there's new stuff going on. I'm less bored in my general day-to-day. I will say I love living in Los Angeles. Obviously, there's so many pluses, but I calculated y'all. I was spending $42,000 a year on rent that I am no longer spending. Yeah. Right. Yeah. you're just You just made me feel really bad about myself because I'm probably spending very similarly. yeah I'm like, how is that not good? Also, so then people have been like, well, you're moving into this house, it's not yours, it's his. I'm like, okay, he's not charging money. They're like, well, you're goingnna bren it you're gonna renovate the house. I'm like, again, this is my job. I can do a TikTok about the paint color and guess who's paying for it? Joe, guess who's not paying for it? Me and I'm getting some work benefit out of it. I'm like, this is a win-win. They're like, well, what's gonna happen if y'all break up? I'm like, I'll move. What are you talking about? But I'm also like, what is the worst, the worst case scenario in their head is that I have to move. I'm like, I can, I moved three times a year. I can get up and move tomorrow if I need to. So like, I'm kind of like having the best time. And I fear that people are understanding that it's financially beneficial for me. You're being a silly little girl. They don't know that you are.
00:17:06
Speaker
I mean, finding the silver lining in your situations and kind of just taking advantage of you know what the cards you've been drawn. I mean, I'll pose this question. If you met yeah the love of your life, would you move? And if it's no, that's fine. If it's yes, that's also fine. But that's just what it comes down to. No one's stupid. No one's stupid. It's like a preference thing. You don't have to move or you can't. But it makes no sense. It's arguably way less messy to not buy the house together.
00:17:34
Speaker
Like, yeah, we're not combining great bitch. Well, also people have been like, Oh my gosh, well you're moving in before engagement. I'm like, listen, bitch. I have a very specific way I'd like to get engaged. Okay. I want to get engaged in my own home on my own couch.
00:17:51
Speaker
not in Milwaukee. We're only living here for six months. Like I don't want to have this place is, it's been great for Joe's career. It's been a great season, but like, this isn't like a special place to us. Like I'd prefer to get engaged somewhere where we're going to like be for a couple of years. So when we moved to Milwaukee, I specifically said, I know we're looking towards engagement.
00:18:12
Speaker
Um, that's why I was so like, kind of like slow to go try on rings and be like specific about it because I don't, I asked him, do not do it in our Milwaukee apartment. Cause I want it to be like private anyway, but I'm like, please do not do it in our Milwaukee apartment. It says, I want it to be somewhere where like, this is like the start of our lives and we're here for five seconds.
00:18:33
Speaker
testing out a relationship in several different scenarios before you get married. Like we really need to stop with the whole old school checklist of items that have to happen before certain things because it's like, guys, that's not fucking working. Everyone's getting divorced. So shut the fuck up. I just want to say also my roommate's moving out. So I'm taking on my rent for myself.
00:18:58
Speaker
If anyone that I know invited me to come live with them, I would take it. Can I afford my rent? No. Am I going to do it? Yes. If you guys see me moved in with my boyfriend um and not being mysterious posting everywhere.
00:19:12
Speaker
Don't say anything to me. And I mean that. Well, here's the thing I do want to advocate, by the way, for female financial freedom. So like, I think I understand where they're coming from. Cause in their brains, they're like, Oh my God, if I was
Season Awards and Audience Appreciation
00:19:26
Speaker
going to move in with a guy who I'm not married to.
00:19:29
Speaker
I have a job where I live. Like I'd have to quit my job. I'm putting my financial freedom at jeopardy or in jeopardy, all this stuff. I totally understand that. But I think people fail to realize that my job in particular or a lot of people's jobs and like they have the way the job works is different. So like me staying in Los Angeles does benefit me financially. Yes.
00:19:51
Speaker
But me moving around also benefits me financially. It's just the nature of the job I've created. So like, I'm not saying everyone can move them with their boyfriend pre-marriage because for me, except for me, she's talking to me, but no one else. Whenever I decide to like, when me and Joe get married, we're going to be very specific about finances. That's a very important thing to me.
00:20:10
Speaker
But I'm at Capricorn through and through. Money and financial freedom are the most important thing to me. So when people are confused about what my choices are, I'm like, bitch, all I care about is my financial freedom. So obviously this is helping me. I care a lot as money in the city that I'm from. Don't worry about me. I'll get to love you later.
00:20:32
Speaker
Come on, you've been performing today. We needed some performers at the award show. I feel like you're feeling more comfortable lately. You guys, they did reach out to me to perform for the award show today. Oh, did they? Are you going to do it? I said no, but I was just giving a little bit.
00:20:46
Speaker
Oh, who's they? Is that what you guys were wondering? No. I knew who they was. Iman. You won't even share, you won't share the details of your love life so you have to do something to humble yourself.
00:20:59
Speaker
Anyways, you guys, we have to move on. you You know, I can't. Okay, that's my update though. We have a house. We're going to do fun things for fun, fun, whatever I said earlier, fun, fun, girly time, fun. Fun time. I have a guest room for you guys. I have a podcast studio.
00:21:12
Speaker
Thank God. Dying for a vacation. No, Kelsey. Kelsey already is like, okay, so I'm moving to Florida. Like genuinely moving, like picking up and moving. Okay, well, she moves to Florida, then I'm moving to Florida. Okay. And increasing this by the end of the year. Well, we're only there for four months out of the year, so. All right, well, I'll be there probably for, you know, a couple weeks or so, once I get on my feet. Wait, you know what we should do together? Art puzzle.
00:21:36
Speaker
Oh yeah. We should do Art Basel together. I'm going. Miami was a nice spot back in the day. It was our spot back in the day. And Iman, you can, you got to come do Miami with us. We'll do Art Basel. It'll be so fun. By the way, the girls are going to New York. Three would take New York. Oh my God. Yeah. You guys, we are going to New York and it's going to be so fun. I think we're going to do a happy hour together. We're going to record this season two opener with a vlog. You guys, like we're seeing everyone say, where's the video? Where's the video? Where's the video?
00:22:05
Speaker
Where's your video is what I have to say. yeah are It's hard. It's tough. It costs money. There's a bunch of things for video and we're going to do it for season two. But every time you ask this, where's the video? Where's your video?
00:22:18
Speaker
What's in the series? We'll see. We just are starting to get audio down. Like you did not want the last video. yeah literally You couldn't hear us five. Let's go. Listen to this. If you want a visual, we have a lot of visuals on our tiktok and Instagram app. Three way the pod. Honestly, our Instagram is kind of hilarious.
00:22:37
Speaker
I'm proud of our community. They're so funny. Yeah, you guys are funny. I know, they're really funny. They do get it. It is nice to curate a group of people that you're like, okay, you get the jokes. And that's why you have to be yourself because I feel like our audience, every time like, oh, are they going to... Nope, they get it every time. Yeah, I know they're getting it.
00:23:00
Speaker
Get it out of your head. Get out of your mind. Get into the clouds and get into the sky. All right. So let's reflect on this season one. I want to talk about, you know, things we learned from ourselves about having a podcast.
00:23:19
Speaker
And I think one of the things I've learned that is A, I've learned that. I think one of the things I've learned. Stop drinking, Kristin, please. We're begging, please. We love you. I'm an alcoholic who I can't get out of a bit. With the cigarette and the sunglasses on again.
00:23:37
Speaker
You have to, this is how you to record every time. in the and Is that a jewel? What is that green thing? No, she's been smoking these tiny cigarettes every time and then she gets her sunglasses and she does a drink every time, just so you guys know. Kristen, are you back in the cigarette game? Because I feel like you really came back to the cigarettes pretty hard. That's what I just was talking to her about on Sunday. yeah like where are you doing that I go through these crazy phases where I'll all like,
00:24:01
Speaker
really be into six, especially capris, because they're like so skinny and long and they're just like, walk for the aesthetic, like it's pretty. It's like not even the aesthetic. It's like, I wake up and ready to rip. All right. Well, that sounds disgusting, but let's go to that. Um, let's go to what we learned. Yeah. Okay. Y'all start. I learned that I hate hashtags. Um, I, uh, you do that already.
00:24:31
Speaker
Yeah. I already knew that I hated hashtags, but even when I was like, when they were like, okay, like come up with hashtags, I was like, do like, I have no idea. I'm like, I don't, I don't know how to hashtag. Also, I, I, my privileges of like commenting and, um, messaging were taken away at one month because everything I was being mean, it was so bizarre. I've never seen her being mean in her life, like on her own Instagram. Your privileges were taken away recently, again, because you commented on a campaign thing about that girl being like, LOL. I didn't. That was me. No, but then I asked Kristin, hey, i I misread this. Does this seem weird? and She said no. and she Because I take everything dry and sarcastic and fucking hilarious. And I just want people to get it. And like if I'm perceived incorrectly,
00:25:23
Speaker
i care sometimes, but I don't really care. No, but you guys would DM us like two pairs of something and be like, hey, I need to write on this, so I'll blog and be like, LMAO. I mean, yeah. And it's like, no, Kristin. You have to say, like, and then she'd be like, oh, god, I just, I can't do this. I'm just going to never comment again. I have to disassociate. It's like, no, just say, you would not even respond like that on your own Instagram or to me or to anyone. You are doing something weird right now, and you can't just correct it. You have to be like, I'm never going to. Every time we're like, hey, Kristin, you have to be a little nicer. It's fine. I'll just never comment it again. Like, really worry about it. That's called gaslighting. She's gaslighting the fucking of us. I guess I suck. I'm horrible.
00:26:04
Speaker
And also I guess like bullying isn't allowed. I was like bullying people that hadn't listened to the episode and you know. I feel like hey they don't listen to the episode yet. Kristen's like oh. I'm like oh no no it's not like that they like someone like didn't get the context of something and I was like well tell me you haven't listened to the episode and I thought it was funny and Iman was like that's bitchy. So anytime you've gotten a message or comment that was bitchy It's Kristin. It's Kristin. And maybe we can make that just like, maybe Kristin can respond to all the comments in season two and we just see where that gets us. I don't know if you guys have ever heard of the restaurant Dicks. It's where you go to a restaurant and they are purposely mean to you. Do you know what I'm talking about? They're all actors. Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about. And they're all assholes to you. And you're like, hey, can I get a Coke? And they'll be like, fuck you.
00:26:49
Speaker
People wear the hats. So maybe we'll do a bit where all of season two Kristen can respond to all the comments and DMs. And we'll just see where that goes. I think we just put her in there sporadically so people are like, when you're in on the joke, you know that was for sure. You just know. And then if you're like, oh my god, Kristen will be like, oh, well, you didn't listen to the episode. Yeah.
00:27:08
Speaker
So if someone's being bitchy, it's me and I mean it. you If someone's answering nicely, it's Iman. And if no one's answering, it's me. Yeah, exactly. yeah Just so you girls know. think
Challenges and Personal Growth
00:27:23
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If you go unanswered, that was my fault. What did you girls learn?
00:27:28
Speaker
this season What did I learn? I learned that podcasting is so much more work than just talking into a mic. Before this whole thing, I was like, I'll talk into a mic, I'll send it off to an editor to be edited, and then It'll be done. And it's actually a lot of work to be doing it news to me. I had literally no clue. And I learned that I'm very easily embarrassed. I find everything embarrassing every episode. I'm like, cut it, cut it, cut it. I want all my parts cut. I want it to be silenced. I don't want to be perceived. Um, anytime someone like comments anything, Oh, we want in this episode. I don't want it. Like I'm just so I'm, I was. Okay. My mysterious bit aside, I am a very private person. Like I don't even post on Instagram.
00:28:11
Speaker
So I've like literally never done a hard launch of a boyfriend. like I've been in a relationship for years before. I don't talk about anything about my personal life. So this was a huge jump for me. But you guys make it so worth it. I've been having a really great time. Yeah, seriously, you guys just want to make it worth it. Don't ever tell me that I said that. Don't i won and bring that up. Do you feel like you've really like opened your horizons? No, every at least once a day, I get anxiety that I have a podcast. i'm like I can't go back to being anonymous, like at least once a day, each day, sometimes in the middle of the day, sometimes it's in my sleep. I freak out that I am doing this, but it's fine. Yeah. That'll go away. Yeah. I'm waiting. It'll go away. Well, I've had a podcast prior to this, so I feel like- What'd you learn from working with us? Yeah, what do you want to say about working with us?
00:29:06
Speaker
It's so much easier to do a podcast with three people because I did my recording for Note to Self like right before this. And I feel like when you're doing a solo podcast, you have to set it up like you're writing a paper. Like it needs, you can't just like ramble. Like I can sometimes, but like typically I have to go in with like a topic. Like today, the episode I did was about the art of under analyzing versus like over analyzing or overthinking.
00:29:34
Speaker
So I had to like conceptualize this whole thing and then kind of lay out the episode where it. It is still conversational, but like there were certain points that I wanted to hit about what I've learned, what led me to this underanalyze and whatever. It's like a fairy. Like there's a formula going on. You have to organize your thoughts kind of beforehand. Yes, I organized my thoughts and then I just like, I run with the concept and then I do all the marketing stuff for it behind the scenes, which I could have done like way better in the last year. But anyway, I just have let the podcast like do its own thing on the marketing side. But that being said, I spend a lot of time conceptualizing and there's a lot of pressure on like me specifically because I'm the one that like makes it happen, obviously.
00:30:17
Speaker
Whereas this, I can like get on and be like, something good is going to come out of whatever content we have. Cause we're just going to talk. Yeah. It's so much easier to go off of someone else and to do so when you're not interviewing, like when I'm interviewing, you're still like in charge. You're still, you're watching the clock. You're making sure that the conversation is going somewhere that you know, the people who listen to your podcast specifically want to hear that specific information. Whereas this is more like it can go fucking wherever like.
00:30:46
Speaker
It's always going to be funny and it's going to be kind of easy. I can drink a martini and just like do the thing with the gals. Okay. So going into this next segment, I don't actually know what it is. Are we saying the awards now?
00:30:58
Speaker
Let's do the awards. Okay, so basically, Peyton initially was going to host this episode. um So she sent me and Kristen both awards for this season. um Now we're kind of all hosting it because she hosted the last episode. And so she doesn't have an award, but me and Chris are both giving her verbal awards. So Yeah. When they say that I don't have an award, I mean, I have like physical awards had already been sent to their home. We're each giving each other awards and then we're giving out some extra awards to the audience and to our fave girls and guys of the year. Okay. So I'll start. I'll start with Iman. Iman has been a national treasure. Uh, this year Iman has lended us her ah marketing expertise. If anyone didn't know that Iman is a genius marketer and she also.
00:31:46
Speaker
She just sees things in a different way that I could personally never see them ever. So she's been leading the charge in a lot of ways here um when it comes to final say. So for that reason, we're giving her a very special award today. Can you unbox your award? All right. I won. Oh my God. The world's best boss.
00:32:12
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ah Iman
Audience Engagement and Content Planning
00:32:13
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is the boss of the three-way podcast. She is our guiding light, and we would not be anywhere without her. Oh, this is so sweet. All on Michael Scott. You deserve it, Wayne. I started crying. You put that right next to your bed. Oh my god, I can't wait. You know I'm going to.
00:32:31
Speaker
Yeah. OK, for my next award that I have to give out this evening um or day whenever whenever you're listening to this, this is for a very special girl who has not a lot of boundaries. And it is really helpful to our content.
00:32:46
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um She's been doing this for a long time, though. We've noticed she's very true to herself. And it just seamlessly evolved into being the entertainment of three-way in a lot of ways.
00:32:57
Speaker
Uh, so for that reason, Kristen, will you unbox your award? I sure will. Wow. never are yeah Most viewed nipples. There's that laugh. Oh my God, you guys. That means so much to me. It's kind of a metaphor. oh You know, you're transparent. Yes. Yes. We can always view like your nipples of life. And I appreciate that about you. And I think the audience does as well.
00:33:26
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and your actual nipples at any time. Guys, I could not have done this without you. I could not have um really done this without you.
00:33:37
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Myself. And And honestly, my really strict family that probably made me just want to rebel against everything they told me to do. And look at you now. yeah you know The most field nipples award. Yeah. I want to thank everyone for letting me be fully in touch with my um sexuality and putting it on display at all times. And I also want to thank my nipples for what they have given me.
00:34:06
Speaker
um the joy they've brought me, the accessories they are in my outfits, and you know the attention, the head turns, everything like that. I literally don't know who I would be without that. So I am so honored ah to be recognized for this when I love you guys. Love. Love. All right. Moving on. Kristin, do you want to go now? Well, I feel like you have to go because Kristin didn't prep. Okay. So um this one says Kristin. This is my word for Kristin. Then I open that one below. Oh my God. yo um is it right Most likely to have diarrhea in a water burger.
00:34:53
Speaker
Interesting. Oh my God. That's so sweet. Those are two awards that suit you so well. It's like my community really gets me. My people are my people. I was my favorite quote of yours from last weekend. My people are my people no matter what. This is for Peyton. Perfect.
00:35:14
Speaker
world's best sport about living in milwaukee oh ated guy she just like really tries to find the the joy in every single day i' not saying milwaukee is bad or anything like that i'm just saying like No one's saying that. No one has ever said that. I'm just saying like, you know, she really moved to Milwaukee and she's really making the best of it. So, and it's just really different from LA. It's very different. i and theres It's like a little different. I'd like to go on record to tell you guys that the high August 21st today was 63 degrees. wow so we're into Everyone's been telling me that ah it's going to start plummeting and getting really cold. yeah So I'm in fact going to lose my mind, which is the world best sport. So.
00:35:56
Speaker
But I'm here and my mind will stay kind of... I'll look to the bright side. My favorite cherry pie place is here. And your favorite pizza place. You love that pizza place. And my pizza place and it's free. Here we in. Here we in.
00:36:10
Speaker
And my new favorite bar place, actually. What? My favorite, not bar, as in bar, my favorite. I like Pilates bar, guys. Oh, bar. As of the last two weeks. OK. Not my favorite bar, actually. Oh, cute. I did bar for like two years at Pure Bar, and I liked it. But I don't know why I fell off. Prove it. I'm loving it right now. It's been great. I'm very wholesome for my life. I love that. All right, Quissy. OK, girls. Yeah, you two make up. Get ready for your awards. She's definitely thinking of them on the spot.
00:36:40
Speaker
No, I'm not. You don't know that. OK. One moment. Because you're probably getting emotional. You probably need a second. I am. Yeah. This is like a great representation of our personalities. I have awards delivered to girls that are customized. Awards did the envelopes, and I am coming up with it on the spot. I would say.
00:37:10
Speaker
and So, the award for most chill with whatever the fuck we put in the episode, go with Pateen.
00:37:26
Speaker
Pateen does not give a fuck. Pateen doesn't even listen to them. She could care less. Pateen, do you like this episode? She responds with a thin point. One second. Yep. Love it.
00:37:38
Speaker
and um She does not give a fuck how she is perceived. She is living in her own little fucking world. It's the coolest thing. You guys should fucking try it. as know y are gonna do This is going to be you guys in about two months. I can't wait.
00:37:54
Speaker
You're going to be like, oh, I actually don't give a flying fuck unless you say something psychotic on the mic. Then I'll text
Season Reflection and Future Plans
00:38:00
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you and be like, I can't. i have I basically have one boundary and it's really not even my own boundary. It's just like, you know, for the good of, uh, the earth.
00:38:12
Speaker
Um, and then other than that, like the only reason I give a fuck about editing is because I want it to flow nicely and i want our, our jokes to hit. I want you to like hear everyone. I don't necessarily give a fuck about how I'm perceived. I think I probably used to be, but now I'm feeling, you know, a little bit more understood, I guess, or just like D gaff. Um, but yeah.
00:38:37
Speaker
yeah Okay, now it's time for me. Perfect award for me. oh so The award for person to a most likely pick up the phone when I'm bawling crying and need to be closed now. Why are you giving me such nice ones? um Is Iman. Because I'm a fucking sweet angel. Thank you so much. Good job with that. Thank you.
00:39:07
Speaker
Attention. You also get the most attention to detail award and i on all sides. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you. I appreciate that. guys i I really appreciate that. But in all seriousness,
00:39:21
Speaker
serious in all seriousness, this has been a joy, a great joy. I've had fun. I've loved it and I've loved getting to know you girls. It's been a pleasure. Can we do our favorite fights of the season? Yeah. yeah um Mine was when Kristen was yelling at me saying I was so fucking rude and then we talked on the news, screamed on the phone.
00:39:48
Speaker
Wait, I don't even remember this. We all three were in a fight and then we hung up and then Kristen called me. She was like, you're being really fucking rude. And I was like, oh, okay, I get into this. And for like an hour. And that's what and i no one of the day yeah then we went on the date after. And we literally, when I tell you I forgot that the whole thing happened, like we were literally just like the same as ever.
00:40:11
Speaker
That was probably my favorite fight. My favorite fight is me just being like, whatever happens, because again, I feel like I'm the most checked out. Like whatever happens, I'm like, whatever is happening, Iman's right. Yeah, exactly. I just trust whatever Iman's. That's like every fight is me just being like, I vote for Iman doing whatever Iman must do. I was like, you guys have to hear me out more.
00:40:35
Speaker
ah carrie What's your favorite fight, Kristen? My favorite fight was probably over hashtag. Oh, yeah. Kristen was like, it's bad for my brand. I can't do a hashtag. And we're like, whoa. It's not bad for my brand. It's just so. It's embarrassing to do hashtags, I understand. It is. But everything that we're doing, having a podcast is embarrassing. I think it is really embarrassing. Those are just hard. I'm just like, I don't know.
00:41:03
Speaker
Like I don't know. That's when you have to do some research. You have to like go look. Yeah, I know. But it's just like, it it's just like one of those things. Like my brain, my people are my people. And yeah. And my brain was not my brain when I was doing hashtags.
00:41:18
Speaker
Most of our, I like our arguments that are like, Hey, we need to be data-driven to understand like, I guess, seeing that we're entering into and what people are responding to. And Kristen's like, just the vibes though. The vibes are different in my head. We need to bring more, you guys aren't seeing the fucking vibes.
00:41:34
Speaker
It's so funny because yesterday on set, I just like had the best day. It was like the best group of people, like the hairstyles, the models, like everything. We just had the best deep talks. And um this, one of the girls was talking about this at my human design. And obviously i love it there's like um a lot of the human design things out there, but this one was really easy because it was literally just like your date and time of birth in place.
00:42:03
Speaker
And it tells you so much about yourself. And that's why I told you guys, I'm a projector apparently, which means. I was about to say, are you a projector? So I look outside at the bigger picture. So I'm zoomed out. And so like, well, you're a performer. That's what you are. Yeah. So like a ah projector is that is a performer. There's like so many different things, but like, I feel like at the same time, that's looking at things differently. So I get frustrated with that. Like people don't see my point of view because I'm like,
00:42:33
Speaker
what the fuck, but then I don't know, this thing just kind of like validated me and made me feel less crazy. Cause I've been kind of just feeling like disconnected maybe, or just like misunderstood or under, I don't know. and I don't know. I think you always think that you're being misunderstood because that's a big thing since I've known you since I was 22. You always are like, I'm being misunderstood, which by the way, my biggest fear is being misunderstood, which is why I communicate extremely clearly. Here's the thing with human design, and such a random niche topic of mine, because I love it. Every single human design category is misunderstood by the other human design categories. That's what it's like built on. right So it's not like projectors are more misunderstood. It's just like, if you're not a projector, you don't understand that. right Mine is a manifesting generator.
00:43:22
Speaker
which is actually a larger amount of the population than projectors i think we should like dive into that topic a little more i think we should because i was like learning a lot about myself and i was like oh this would just be so helpful just any like close friendships or working relationships or anything see Well, I do feel like our most recent fights, I feel like I understand you so much more now. I feel like we haven't had a fight in like weeks. Oh no. Anyways, we have some some more awards to give out to the audience. Yes. Correct. We sure do. We want to shout out, you know, really the girls that keep us going. The girls. Christmas people.
00:43:58
Speaker
comment as soon as they see something land on their IG feeds or anything. The girls, girls, if you will. The three-way girls, if you will. Yeah, our three-wayers. First off, Hailey Walter.
00:44:14
Speaker
Manviola? I don't think, no, I think it's I don't think she's like white with blonde hair. I don't think there's like a twist on her name, I'm assuming. Well, her real name is Dr. Hailey Walterman and we fucking love you, girl.
00:44:39
Speaker
She plays the violin. We see you. yeah
00:44:48
Speaker
how would you we do ah he Obviously, shout out to our girl. I love ladybugs. We love you. love And then Shelby. There's a a lot of L's. And we love Shelby because she commented on our post one time and said, I don't actually have anything to say, but I want to give you guys engagement because I love you guys so much. Oh my God, that's cute. We love be that one. And it was actually weeks ago. I hope you girls out there listening could all take a note from Shelby's book. See, this is what Kristin would comment. if she like you didn't You didn't give it this as much an emphasis as Shelby. Yeah. I'm like, hey, you didn't use five words.
00:45:30
Speaker
should both Hey. Well, those are our main bitches. Those are our three main bitches. Those are our standouts on season one. put through this without Thank you guys so much for listening and for engaging with our content. It's so helpful because here's the thing. Here's the thing, girlies. When this isn't our hobby anymore, we might not have to take as many breaks. You know what I'm saying? You can only need allow him more you want to spend one hot girl walks?
00:46:00
Speaker
ah Oh, with video? yeah my mom shovel them le Yeah. All right. I'll go next for my award of the season. So I want to give this award to a group that just, they inspire me with their dedication to engagement. They are so engaged in our content and I've never seen people be so responsive in this manner.
00:46:26
Speaker
um They're emotional. they it Our content brings out a side of them that I know that they're very proud of and that makes them feel the need to speak their mind and their voice. They're very intelligent voice, I must say. I also want to give them so much credit for living so inside their little brains that they don't understand the context, as our as our mother Kamala would say. They fell out of a coconut tree for sure. And they don't even know what that even means when I say that. um They think it's think it's a good thing, me, I think. um But I would like to give the Algorithm Booster Award to the angry men in our comments. There are yeah so many. i
00:47:11
Speaker
Yeah, here. I probably deleted 30 comments because like I just don't even want you guys as listeners to have to view people being mean to us. They're vibes. They're weird. um They're definitely single. They're definitely ugly. Well, you know what I hate? I actually, I delete comments on my own stuff a lot of the time. People who are the mean per people commenting will be like, well, you're just embarrassed that I called you out. And I'm like, no, I don't want someone to come view my content and then be like,
00:47:39
Speaker
They're just trying to have a fun time. And then they're like, this like negative energy is there. yeah And then also we have our main bitches who will respond to these people on our behalf and these people will be negative to them. I'm like, I will fucking kill you. You can say bad things about me, but like, I'm not going to have you going back and forth with like someone I give a shit about in the comments. That's crazy. Right. and Yeah, but you're just our production guys from that. And there's a lot of people being real crazy on there, so. Real crazy. But um it is a video of me. And so I have disassociated completely from taking them personally. But I am down for them to boost our algorithm. What video of you? It's the one arm date video. They all come on to that one. Yeah. Oh. Because that one went on. Yeah.
00:48:25
Speaker
You know, where we ain't what you do. I love you. Like, just get us to that that K. We just want that K really quick. That 10 K. um So I honestly don't give a fucking brad chat and Leroy run it. and talk about. It's literally Leroy. It's not even Brad and Chad. Brad and Chad are like on Instagram. This is Leroy from Facebook who's 56 years old, fresh off divorce. He's hot as fuck. Hot as fuck. Has a little bit. He's definitely drinking a lot of beers in his fridge. Yeah, he's just sent the gas station sunglasses on his Instagram icon photo and he's like, Yeah, Logan. Leroy. Talked about a sexy man. But New York Best Listener goes to you. Oh, and the other end. Most Supportive Friend goes to my friend Kelly because she comments on every single photo. We love you, Stellar Cal. We love Kelly. Here's the thing, it is rare for your in real life friends to support your online endeavors. It's so true. So rare. But you know what? All of my friends, not all of my friends. A lot of my friends are really invested in their listening, and they're loving genuinely. Send out Jessie and Hillary.
00:49:39
Speaker
Shout out Jessica Lee Lewis and Hillary Dunner. I love you girls so much. um I know that Megan and me Yeah, yeah like there's there's so many people I could shout out it means the world to me girls because I know this could come off as cringe But I'm really glad you're liking it. I'm really glad um That you turned us on All righty. um Those were our in real life friend ah honorable men who mentions. what about Do you think Kelsey listens to this podcast? No way. There's no way she's ever listened to one second of one episode she didn't throw up, which like is the right response.
00:50:17
Speaker
No, it's not. Support your friends. No, I think for our friendship, I think that that's that's the right response. That's the what that's a reason. yeah If Kelsey had a podcast, or if Iman had a podcast by herself, I don't think I would listen either. Yeah, I would hope that you wouldn't. But OK, you guys, that's the end of this episode. We'll see you in season two in a month.
00:50:40
Speaker
Or we'll see you in New York when we go there and we host happy hour if you live there. Um, okay. So y'all need to follow the Instagram specifically because that's going to be our way to contact you. We need to contact you during this time. thing there Please. We need to contact you during this time.
00:50:56
Speaker
If you want to hear from us, it's going to be on there. And it's going to be consistently. We're going to be doing bits. We're going to be doing lives. That's true. What if we do a live? Instagram live is crazy. A live is a live. No, y'all should be together on the three way account and then you can live me. Oh my God. Should we? That'd be so fun. I'm so scared of that. And stupid. OK, maybe when they look at blackout.
00:51:23
Speaker
Oh, I love the word stupid. Stupid. Go stupid. Go dumb. OK, well, we miss you guys already. Go listen back to all the episodes while we're gone. Follow the pod on TikkiTokki and Instagram. And we will see you soon. Chrissy, go ahead and give him a little wet forehead kiss into the mic. You know what to do.
00:51:48
Speaker
the moon before. Ew, I hated that. I'm stopping now.