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Sensuality and Sexuality
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Ty. Bria and Shelly talk about the art of sexuality and sensuality and the difference between the two.
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Transcript
Biblical Reference and Neighborhood Life
00:00:00
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God gave Noah the rainbow sign. No more water, but the busy next time.
00:00:23
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The block is hot today, why do you say that every time as if like anything like niggas are not shooting off my block? In the middle of nowhere
00:00:40
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whatever.
First Impressions and Patriotic Symbols
00:00:42
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So what I'm hearing is that Brea. Okay, you're coming for number one. Don't talk about my childhood as well because you call it a stranger. Here's the gag though. So Brea has been to, so Brea's first time in my mother's house, this nice new. It's giving.
00:01:06
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I feel like luxury. Right. It is. But what gets me is her first time here was a couple of weeks ago, I think. Like a month ago, maybe. I don't know. Right. And what gets me, too, is that while they up here talking shit, now they were all talking like, oh my god, it's so nice out here. I never said it wasn't nice. OK, bitch. Honestly, you talk about it being in the hood. When I'm also being clear. And you were talking from outside the club.
00:01:41
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It's not my home. This is not my home. I mean it could be if you you know
00:01:45
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if I went. What is it that you want to do? Please let me just know what you were doing to make it happen. This is real funny for me because I feel like it's also identified. I don't think that this is your dry area. Well, there was nothing here. It's just, you know, if you want to say it's environmentally, if you want to say it's environmentally problematic, let's argue. I can see that. Okay. But gentrified, it's a bit much. Karen and.
00:02:13
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Bill. Her police husband Bill. Yes, of course. That sits outside on the front lawn. Two people. Let's also talk about it.
00:02:25
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Let's talk about that because I remember we moved out here and I was like, I saw a Trump flag in my neighborhood and I said, I gotta go. Girl, my parents, my parents,
00:02:47
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There's a whole bunch of American flags out here. You know, black folk know we see an American flag. You just don't know what that means. White supremacy, racism is somewhere up in the air. And they were like, that's not true. You never know. And I was like, y'all. Have you ever seen an American flag at a black person's house? Ever. Even if you do, I feel like if you do, I'm like, oh, you were caught with your military. Exactly. I don't trust you either. Even people who, even people who are in the military, people who are in the Navy, all of them be like, I'm not doing that shit. Like, they don't give a fuck about me that much.
00:03:16
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I can say that I like a little Veterans Day. A bunch of them be like, I like it. It's cute, but calm down. I'm here for a discount.
Introduction and Unique Voices
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I'm here for benefits. I don't give a fuck. I'm here for the GI Bill to be quiet. I'm here for operations. That's what I'm here for. Y'all be here. We're going to get dragged. Y'all play too much.
00:03:40
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Oh my gosh, sorry. Did anybody introduce themselves because we already got to stop doing it? How many weeks has it been? You do that every time. Hey, y'all. My name is Shelly. My pronouns is she, they, I am a social meeting, stepping onto you. This is the voice that they were given during the open mic. It's definitely what I saw in her.
00:04:06
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You're giving nice to me too. Thanks for listening. Wow. This is very like, it's giving commercial, it's giving. It's giving the quiet storm. Y'all know that that man who has the quiet storm voice sounds like that at 9am, like all day long.
00:04:27
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Yeah, why wouldn't you? I don't know. I'd just be thinking that's their radio voice. And then I'd be like, why do you have that sensual ass voice at fucking 9am? Right, you know. Well, it's Tyrell, AKA the baddest bitch you ever did see. I'm out here in these streets. I'm Brielle. My pronouns are that nigga. What's up?
00:04:52
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Are we doing pronouns? They's them bitch all day every day. Just want to make sure that they know how to reference us when they listen to the episodes and then tell other people that they listen and talk about the people that they were listening. Wow. My pronouns are that nigga. If you can't say nigga, then don't speak to me. I hope I laughed and I fucked that up. So that's like one of the best soundbites.
00:05:21
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Next time you see me don't I
00:05:34
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I heard some stuff about the poetry situation. I'm not going to go into it because we on air. But when we get off Shelly, I got some questions. Because I heard they play somebody and some stuff happened. And I got some questions about the- I meant to bring it up to Shelly and mention it.
00:05:48
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Oh see how I'm gonna be how you gonna have a look at right you have this Very detailed conversation and I didn't know anything about it. So I would like to be I mean I also talked about things a little bit later on in that day But we're not going to talk about that part of the night because I've already played to the answers about it and it's been chopped up It's been done up. I know you The money went to the money went to my altar. I literally gave them the same amount I gave it to my altar and I said
00:06:18
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I forgot it. And it wasn't him. Anyway. You know what? Here's a question. Before we get to the topic,
Financial Struggles and Intimacy Rituals
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here's a question, Shelly. What do you do with the... So I don't know what you do. So after, when you take money off your altar, what do you do with it? I don't ever take money off my altar.
00:06:34
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I used to at one point because I used to feel like I was moving from a space of like financial desperation. And if I felt like there was money there, then I would pray about it and I would keep asking like, is this okay? And then sometimes I would feel like I would just get into this kind of like, I have no other options.
00:06:53
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I would go to take from it. And I remember I kept getting the message from them like, trust me, like you'll be okay. And what will happen was I would ask for permission. They would say, trust me, you'll be okay. I'll freak out and then I'll take some of it. And then like the next day I'll get an abundance of money and they'll be like, look at you. Look at you looking goofy. So ever since then, I don't take money that I put onto the altar. I used to, so I would put my altar and leave it there for a while.
00:07:21
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at the end of like the year, so I would take all that money and then go spend it on something for the altar. Oh yeah, that's what I used to do. I used to, I bought like jewelry for them. I bought like a crystal for them, like the books. I used to do stuff like that, like anything I wanted to give to them, then I would use that money. And then I also took all the money off the altar at one point, because I really did not like the feeling of the white men being next to all these black women, because it's an altar dedicated to black women and children that have transitioned in my family.
00:07:51
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Um, but I was like, I'll be all right. So I hit it. So the money is now hidden. I'll have to see the white rim, but yeah, the money is word. I love that. But I have, uh, two savings containers where one of them is not on the altar, but it's how I see it as spiritual money. So I get to I'm also, I remember one time I burned some money and I was like, Ooh, that did not go over well.
00:08:15
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I burned somebody by an accident. I did. I thought because I was like, OK, well, they can't use it here. So do I burn it to them and I can go to them that way? And I don't know what I was thinking. They would be like, what the hell am I supposed to do with this? I was like, that ain't just now. No, no. It was so bad. Yeah. I'd be thinking I'm going to do something. And then they'll be like, why would you do that? Like, just you're doing too much. So deviating from that conversation, what's the topic today, Hose?
00:08:44
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Conversation is sensuality and sexuality, a little bit of sexy talk. Y'all can't see it. Y'all also can't see the shoulder movement that went with it. Okay, a little bit of a shoulder, if you want the descriptive, is giving a black femme has their like shoulders moving in this really sensual way. One is willing to lower while the other one is
00:09:11
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a little arch back and then giving so much if folks needed to see some people don't know what I even look like just just gonna just get an OnlyFans and sit down you know I would like to experience with just a little bit okay so I'm not gonna start the competition this time because I always do one of you hoes can start
00:09:39
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um so let's um go over to my notes i had a few questions so i was gonna ask y'all oh so you actually had a whole theme plan let me go through the whole process and that's why you have to what process did you go through
00:09:54
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Wait, sorry. I don't know. You didn't tell me. You didn't communicate with you. I don't know. I just know that I was like, if the conversation flows in this direction, then I'm going to ask these questions. And now it's flowed in my direction. Hmm. Which one do I want to start with? I'll start with this one. What does intimacy look like for you right now? Oh, that's nice. Tyrell's reaction.
00:10:24
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Yeah, because I couldn't start it with the other one. Oh, I don't know. I thought it was better. OK, yeah. All right. I guess I don't know what that was. Yeah, you can start. Yeah, I feel like I'm trying to find words. I think holding intimacy with myself, for one thing,
00:10:55
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give myself space to like feel present in my body. Like, I feel like I just be wading through the water of the world. And I'm just, I don't know. Like I just feel like that's the best way to put it. And I'm just like, I don't know. Like I just be feeling very out of body experience. So yeah, I feel like anything that can bring me back to myself feels like intimacy with myself.
00:11:24
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With my partner, I feel like intimacy, I'm very much a person where I enjoy being and sharing space. Without having to talk, I'm very much like a good couple nap.
00:11:40
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Oh, we love collective mass. And yeah, in the past, I just feel like people aren't always like, ooh, we're together, we gotta be fucking talking and doing a thing all the time. But I just really like the intimacy of just being around a person you care about and just being able to vibe and chill and relax. You had time to think of your response.
00:12:11
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Drag me, leave me. Your face is giving like, bitch, I still don't know how to answer this call. Okay, I think intimacy, partnership wise, intimacy in any other space besides myself does not exist for me right now.
00:12:39
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I might answer with other people I'm not necessarily trying to be. And so it is really intimacy with myself. And I think that this is such an interesting question because I don't have an answer.
00:12:54
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Yeah, I don't have an answer. And I think all the things that I was going to say are, like, sexual things that I do with myself. And I was like, that's not intimacy. I mean, that could also be the point. But that's not intimacy. But that's not intimacy to me, right? Because when I think about intimacy, it's not always orgasms and sex, or like, it's not always masturbation and, like, coming. It's sometimes it's just like, oh, like, I gave my, I lotioned myself up very slowly, and they felt very intimate. Or like, I feel like a certain outfit makes me feel very, like, you know, ooh. Like, that's a form of intimacy, too, for myself. But I'm not doing any of that.
00:13:23
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So I, I, um, I'm not doing any of that. So I think that this is that's, yeah, I don't think I have an answer, which is also very telling. You know, it was a form of intimacy recently taking that. No, what you just did, just I came for myself and my food in a deep way. I was trying to finish it.
00:13:54
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That shower slash bath I took at your house, and you're like, that was a moment. Thank you for giving the five stars that the house was yours for the Airbnb experience. I was literally just gonna like run into the shower and run out, but like, you really like gave the space to be like, ooh, bitch, like, you want to slow down, you want to play something from the speaker, you want to light some incense, use the fucking like bath salts that are in here in the scrubs. I'm like, ooh, bitch, just like, ooh.
00:14:28
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Yeah, I appreciate the space to give, you know, giving myself that space recently. What about you, you know? Right, answer your own question. Well, Tyra, you look like you're about to say something else, are you?
00:14:42
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Absolutely not. Okay. So to answer my own question, LOL to the fact that I didn't prep an answer to any of the questions. But intimacy for me is looking more like staying consistent to a routine of how I'm sending love back to myself. So whether that is like
00:15:02
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just slowing down the day and just being able to like have some fruit and like just really loving myself in this really cute way. I take
00:15:13
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shower baths which are amazing and that's what so to explain a shower bath I was explaining it as so I grew up in the house with my grandma who would be like you have two minutes to take a shower like just cut it out like you have to chill so that my father's house he taught he told me he was like yeah you could stop up the tub and like start to run a bath but like let this shower be the thing that's like
00:15:42
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collecting the water instead of just running the damn bath water. So instead, you lay in the shower while the bath is filling up. And you would lay in it, and the shower is giving this massage feeling. And then you could cut it off and lay in the bath for longer if you want to. But I do those. I think in there, I have these really sensual moments with myself.
00:16:09
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I love me a good body rub with some Shea butter and some oils. The only thing is that massage for me, I realized I do not like massages from strangers. That is not my thing. And I felt it when I went for a massage recently. It was actually a pretty traumatizing. It was very uncomfortable. And I was like, I do not like this because
00:16:38
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There were certain ways that I was like, I don't even want my body to be touched like that. I don't know who you are. This is so weird. I don't want this. I also have a lot of body pain. So if somebody's not being actual gentle with the fact that my spine is not the healthiest, I'll be like, okay, good job.
Intimacy in Personal Relationships
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So yeah, a massage comes from a partnership or just in a very intimate, sensual kind of way. But yeah, intimacy is looking like really,
00:17:09
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Blanc and beautiful conversations as well. I really love the intimate dim light conversation. Why are you making this face? Why are you doing Tyrell? Oh, I don't know if you're making a face. I don't know. Okay. Okay. Sorry. Okay. I can't, I can't. You said something about your spine. My first thing was like, damn, I'm going to drink some milk. That's why I missed it. What did you say?
00:17:43
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I wish I could meet you. I don't have the option. Yeah, there is an option. Okay, what was said? They said when you said that you have like spinal pain, they were like, damn, bitch, drink some milk.
00:18:04
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not drink some damn milk. That's not even fair. Shelly was in a whole car accident. No, I don't. I don't care about the trauma part of my back. It could still be blown out when it needs to be. Ain't nothing wrong with it like that.
00:18:23
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I mean, I have to, I love a good profession. I've been to a chiropractor, not consistently, but I've been to a chiropractor and a masseuse, just like as extra treat. But I just feel like, I don't know. It's just something, I don't know what professional masseuses have to do, like what finger and hand strength exercises y'all gotta go through. Oh yeah. How your hands not cramping? Different. I can't, I don't know. But,
00:18:50
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That's what they did? When I've had those experience, I mean, we could ask your brother also, like, I don't know. Who brother? Who brother? My brother. My brother is like the health professional guru that does all the things and is going to school to be a massage therapist or has gone to school to be a massage therapist. I don't even know.
00:19:09
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professional. I don't know, but he'd be good if I just do. Um, but yeah, so I just, I just appreciate when like somebody who's a professional, like just be needed in the shit. Oh God. That is when I'd be ready to run. I mean, not like, but just like, I just don't know the tightness I have in my bag.
00:19:29
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Once I feel an elbow in my back, it's about to be an elbow to their face. No, that was literally an elbow. Like, it'd be like, mm, mm. I'm like, no, that's not it. That's not it. I want to come back to the Vitamin D buying comment. Uh-uh, no. No, not the loop back around. No. Let's revisit. It was shady. It was shady. Clearly. It was.
00:19:53
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Uh-uh. No, I don't want it. It's you doubling down. Double or nothing. That's what it's giving. And it's giving, it should be nothing. It should be giving that. Mm-hmm. Charlie, what's the next question? All right. The next question is, what is your favorite time of day to have class?
00:20:14
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We're going to skip over. No, we're not. We're not doing it. No, we're going to come back to this question, but I want to be clear. The vitamin D milk comment. I didn't know about the car accident until Britt did something, and that literally was joking. So for those of the girls who are going to be like, you inappropriate, you ableist? And also, I was about to say, I also acknowledge that I do not give a fuck about
00:20:39
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any jokes made about my spine. My spine is a regular joke. It's the fact that I compare notes with my grandmother about how her spine is feeling just to see if her and I are having the same experiences because we're on the same wavelength. We are on the same wavelength. Yeah, no. I didn't know about that though. So for the kids, and I'm sorry if that was offensive. I want to name that too because I definitely laughed for like five minutes.
00:21:18
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But I'm just like, why is this happening? Like, why does this happen? But also, the girls can really eat, because they'll eat people up on the dance floor, because they'll do what needs to be done, even though the spine is
00:21:31
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And I'd be in bed for two days afterwards. How do you realign after that? Ooh, it's giving a prayer, yoga, and water. We love a yoga moment. I love yoga. Yeah, yoga is what brings me back. I can do that more to help my own spine. Well, girl, you're our kind of stuff.
00:21:50
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Not you just saying that you. Oh my gosh. Shelly, what is the next question? Good. Wow. You keep dragging us every time. I didn't drag Shelly. I'm really trying to figure out which one. Here's the gag. No, here's the gag when I think about it too, y'all. Because me and Brie are wearing marching band together. And when it came to the body rolls. What are you trying to say?
00:22:26
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I did ask another question when I realized things don't have to be like
00:22:33
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Sexual they don't actually have to be like what is that sexual experience? Yeah, so this this is the question you're asking what turns you off I mean cuz the other question was really just because I was curious about how y'all feel about it cuz I know I have a favorite time I don't know if I have a favorite time I do and it's I've experienced that with what do you other people? Yeah, I can share it's the morning time like It's giving between like a solid if I go to sleep at night like
00:23:03
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at like 10 or something is giving a solid like five between 5 a.m. and like 8 a.m. It's getting very active. I wake up very activated. Like, and sometimes when I'm like sleeping next to a person, I don't know what happens in my subconscious, but I will really wake up and be like. You're waking up at 5 a.m. and ready to go? Mike! Send help! Send that person some help!
00:23:35
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It's sometimes they'll be like, wow, I love it. But it's not always 5am. It's just that when I did used to wake up early, then it would be like when I was waking up. But it's just giving when I wake up, whatever time I wake up. I can wake up at noon, but it's giving once I wake up. It's my favorite time. Oh. I'm going to tell you why it didn't work for me, but I'm going to let Bria go. I don't really have, I don't think I have a favorite time. It's just like. Inconvenient ones, because. Excuse me.
00:24:24
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Yeah. I don't have a favorite time of day, you know, just whatever, whenever the spirit moves me. I don't really, I don't understand what all of this energy in the studio is about.
00:24:27
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I'm tired of you. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired.
00:24:37
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But I'm just doing my job as a co-host. Here's the guy. Here's the thing. I'm laughing at shut up. I'm laughing at Bria. I'm laughing at Bria because Bria is a very private person. And so I think questions like that pushes her out of her comfort zone. And watching your reaction also being a very close friend of yours to be all of your business, I'd be like,
00:25:11
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But if I were to share something with you, you would be like, ooh, girl, why did I ever need to know? That's a personal trauma thing, but it sure dragged me. Yeah. It's a trauma thing, but yeah, it sure dragged me. I don't have, so I will say this.
00:25:34
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I don't fuck these niggas, I don't love these niggas. And I'm not fucking these niggas, but. It does. But I will say that like morning sex probably isn't the best thing for me because, okay. It's you letting me know that.
00:25:55
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I'm not, it was in response to something that someone else on the podcast said because Bria said she didn't have a thing a specific time. Y'all are wild today. I was going to say that I've always, I'm going to be judged. I've always had a fear that like I would be in the middle of, you know, doing a thing and I would have to pee.
00:26:21
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That is all that's there of mine. But I know that that's not how it works. But like, even still, I will literally stop everything to go pee first. Like, I absolutely. No, yes, absolutely. But I feel like I'd be in like a mid-stroke or a mid-something. Take care of yourself. And then be like, it's the elevated level. It's everyone listening.
Dynamics of Initiating Intimacy
00:26:44
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Is everybody listening? Yes.
00:26:47
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I was like, I feel like I have, yeah, I'm afraid I'll be like mid, you know, mid mid action. And like, I feel like it would go somewhere or like, I think, yeah, I don't think
00:27:00
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I mean, I know like you're not supposed to be able to feel like, you know, when you're really in it. Right. You don't. But I feel like when it's like four player or whatever, like I'm not really going to be in it because I have to pee. And some of the girls be like getting fucked and having to pee and then they'd be like peeing on accident because the person hit their bladder and I'm going to. Oh, wow.
00:27:22
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That's on the sheets. No, that person needs to find a way to entertain themselves while I go pee, wash my hands and come back. I mean, some people are into that, but that's not my moment. Yeah, I'm not a golden shower type of girl. I'm not either, but I have also, I've always wondered what it feels like to be fucked and then like having your butterhead and having to pee like during, I don't know why I'm just, what does that, what does that sensation feel like? I'm very curious.
00:27:47
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Um, probably very stimulating because there's a lot being active in the body. And maybe do it at once. Oh, do it at a shower? Definitely. Everything is being cleaned up. It's definitely happening. Just like, just making sure there's a mat on the shower floor. So, right. I'll rub it down a little after. Yeah, definitely giving sanitation is needed. Yeah. What's your question?
00:28:17
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Um, y'all, y'all, I don't, y'all can actually, I don't have to ask all of y'all. And then speaking of which, um, wow, that was one of the questions. Do you like to initiate? Do you like someone else to initiate or does it all just depend? First of all, if you have a bunch of these questions and you might as well just ask. Right. Cause it feels like you've already been together. We don't need to make something up. We don't. Yeah. Um, I don't.
00:28:47
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I don't know. I think it could be a both and thing. I've had, okay. So my last encounter with a person who I know would never probably, we ever hear this. I will use his name, but that's really messy.
00:29:02
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She is piping hot baby. Don't mess. How you going? How you going? How you going? Wow. No, like the last person I initiated because I don't something came over me. I don't know who was my ancestors. I don't know what was going on. Nothing.
00:29:29
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The ancestors are like go away when you're doing Okay, so the last apartment I had my alter that I was just starting up was in my bedroom because I didn't want it to be in a public space because I have roommates and I was just like
00:29:46
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I was like, no, baby, this is not it. Because I would want to put the covers over my head. I would feel like y'all need y'all own room. Y'all can drive. I literally, my author has always, I have my own apartment multiple times at this point and my author has always been in my room and I have never moved it for anything I've done. I would say hopefully y'all cover your eyes, you leave, you disperse, you have a snack. I don't know, you do something. Take a break. Go take a break.
00:30:12
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I gotta take a break. I have somebody else I could be watching over. I got cousins. I got cousins. I have cousins.
00:30:24
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Now they got to go to the danger tour and how many alters there were and where did it go? Girl, yeah, let's take a break. No, but the last person I was with, I initiated. Actually, come and think of it, Brea, we know who this person is because we laugh about it a lot because of some facts of that case.
00:30:43
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Not the case. Hold on, I'm about to put it in the trash. Oh, I'm like, I don't know what this one you're talking about. You have people that grow wet, what's happening?
00:30:57
Speaker
Oh, I feel like that's, I feel like I knew that. You did, but you made a joke about it a couple episodes ago and somebody was like, did you do that for real? And I was like, it's a long story. Wait, I made a joke about something? You said something about it in a podcast like a month and a half ago. It was like maybe January or something and it was- Not you putting the exact, wait, why are you saying things like this? Oh, well, I mean- I didn't say it, but I can be cute. Yeah, no, but I also want y'all for that. I don't know what this is. Just comment with me.
00:31:25
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I forgot what it was about. It came up though. But anyway, yeah, no, I initiated then because something came over me and I just really, I was like, please destroy me. And that is, that is what happened. And it was wonderful. Um, but usually I think I will say this again, because, and I have said this before my love life. So I'm so sad, empathetic and like being recorded, but
00:31:49
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I will say that because of people I have talked to, usually I don't initiate. They have to initiate first because of what they be called by themselves.
00:31:57
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I'm having a cough so like, yeah, I'm having a cough so lie with you. Then you say this straight girl. I knew that's what you were thinking. That's what I was like. Hmm. That's what I was saying at that real big moment. Like, um, yeah. I'm so, I'm tired of having my love life piece by her to cough so across the, uh, the podcast and the girls like, damn bitch, do anything. That's why I'm not talking to nobody now. Cause I was a trash bag, a pretty trash bag, but how was the trash bag?
00:32:29
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No, I was full with shit, I wasn't full with genuine. Full of cardboard boxes and trash shoes. Oh no, not trash, juicy. The juicy. Yeah, I was trying to remember the question. I don't feel like I do as much, you know?
00:32:58
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is giving pillow princess and I hate you. Oh, wow. It's giving cater to me and only cater to me. It's not even a little bit of cater to you. Anyway, maybe I'm just a guy, OK? How long y'all? OK. Every episode is for the same person.
00:33:25
Speaker
Every episode with the same person. Right. I mean, yes. But I'm saying, like, I could still be shy. Three, four years in, shy of way. Right. You're not shy of way. You're not shy of way. Shy of where? Girl, what are you talking about? Stop attacking me. Anyway. I've been pretending to put the fry. That's what I was thinking. I've been talking about it. Yeah. So yeah, I just like the feeling of putting machines, you know?
00:33:56
Speaker
Sometimes. What does he feel? What does he want? I mean, it's not like I don't. It's just a mixture. I feel like though he does more than I do. It's giving heteronormativity. Oh girl.
00:34:14
Speaker
Oh my gosh, I wish that we could insert videos into the podcast, that there could be a video that pops up and it would be Amber Abundance being like, I don't do none of that boring ass hetero sexual shit. I ain't no damn boring ass sexual shit. I can't wait till June 1st, but I put all my shit up on the site.
00:34:53
Speaker
it's giving b who you are for your pride yeah i didn't answer the question i did it i didn't wait it's giving what it's giving a mix for me oh that's what it is ding thing you have won a prize i'll tell you what the prize is later i don't know what it is just yet um but yes it's giving both because it's giving i'm fluid as fuck and how i feel in the moments i just
00:35:20
Speaker
I love the consistency, but I don't like the predictability of it all. I just feel like I wanted to feel like there is an energy that is there. And I also love reciprocation. So I love showing up for somebody else and just initiating what feels like they've communicated they would like. And I feel like, all right, cool. I could do that. And I also like
00:35:47
Speaker
for them to put in the work too, because my Venus sign is in Capricorn. And because of that, it means that how I love has to do with a lot of putting in the work. And- How much cap is in your chart? Damn, that whole chart. Five signs. Five? Four of mine are in cap. It's giving- My Venus was this close to being a Capricorn. My Venus isn't.
00:36:14
Speaker
It's not, though. Thank goodness. Yes. Bless everything else. Everything else is coming up, Cap. And I just don't. It's either in cancer or in Virgil. I actually don't do that. Oh, are you crying a lot? I mean, no. No. It's giving we've known you a lot. Good enough.
00:36:38
Speaker
And if it was in secrecy and in the showers, didn't even hear that. Didn't even hear it. It was very much like door closed. I got pussy poppin' music playing, but I'm really crying right now. Not playing more. Playing Megan Thee Stallion. Megan thee Stallion, right. Oh my god, that's pussy. Well, I feel like that is like a Virgo or something thing to do, to be like, these bitches is never going to say nothing.
00:37:04
Speaker
That's a very Virgo thing to experience. It's like baby. Arguably. It's a Capricorn thing. Wow. When I think about it, one of my friends was like, wow, girl, I think I've only seen you cry twice in my life. And I was just like, also, how many times do you feel like you need to see me cry? Right.
00:37:29
Speaker
Your friends cry. I mean, we do be going through it a lot, but I don't know that I was like, I didn't call Rhea and Shambles at least four times alone last year.
00:37:43
Speaker
Oh, last year was a year for my crying. I cried every day for almost two weeks. I've been trying to cry a lot less. Well, I don't know if I've been trying to cry, but I feel like I've just been crying less since 2018. I called right, going through it right there.
00:38:04
Speaker
Let's not go back. Let's not go back. We don't got to go back. Right, please. Bria, I called her four times like last year, like probably in the middle of like a mental breakdown. And then I called her earlier this year, like January, literally like I was going to throw myself. I was going to throw myself. I was going to jump off the. I'm very much like a, you know.
00:38:27
Speaker
I was gonna stop. There you go. And the cancer. I can't do it on myself, but I can probably stop with other people. I might rationalize for myself, but like actually fixing whatever my problems are, it's just like, girl.
00:38:41
Speaker
I mean, you also don't bring your problems to us until after they've already happened. So like we can't offer support. You know what it is? It's because I do a lot of like internalizing. Like I don't even like talking. I like pause therapy because I was like, girl, like I don't even, I can't even talk through my, it's just like a lot going on. I feel like I have to internalize some things before I like have a conversation about it. That makes sense. Yeah. I'm very in my head about whatever.
00:39:08
Speaker
This is not related to the topic, maybe. At all. Yeah, yeah. Five-foot-a-ten. Don't weigh that instrument. Give me a TV eight. Let's make sure there's one more question. Pick your favorite of whatever questions you have. You can lick it. You can taste it. You can taste it. I'm talking Abby, Trev, drop once you waste it. It's nothing in your cup.
00:39:35
Speaker
It's finger-licking good and I wish it would go down kind of slow. I literally was just like... The song and the words were filtered out, but the instrument was trying to come out and I'm like... The only reason I know so many, I even remember so many of the words, is because like, King Fury did like a snippet of it.
00:40:01
Speaker
I have never laughed harder. Y'all should look it up because somebody, I don't remember the name of the artist, but they did, they like animated it. And I feel like I shared it with her. Cause I'll be sprung. They will share it with the pink. I gotta say, that's like my favorite little animated short. Put it in your mouth. I wish they could be more. Well, this wasn't my question before, but let's show. You came up with it. Okay.
00:40:27
Speaker
Well, just now, because y'all are saying some nasty stuff. And I was going to say, what's your favorite? Ooh, what is our favorite? Freak nasty stuff. Freak nasty stuff. Don't be taking the words out of my mouth like this. I was just realizing what you were supposed to say. Yeah, what's your favorite? Freak nasty stuff. Damn, that's hard. I don't know. Put it on and make it want to marry me. Oh, my god. Put it on and make it want to marry me. I feel like that is bad. Oh, my god. Oh, no.
00:40:56
Speaker
I don't hear the gas. I'm upset. I don't know. The one that I have I'm mad because someone else gave it to me that I used to talk to date, whatever. And I just, it's my favorite. It's so disgusting. And I just love it. Oh, I just love it. Um, I feel like, I don't know. Like I feel like as a youth.
00:41:22
Speaker
I'm not with the beginning of the freakin' ass. I'm just trying to differentiate because I don't feel like I really have a favorite but it's just like you know when you're younger and you're like maybe singing something or rapping some shit like the girls were like
00:41:42
Speaker
in eighth grade, very much knowing all the ways to look back at it. Look back at it. Yep, as we should. It's so big like the sun. It's all the time. It's all the time. It's all the time. All the time. I couldn't make you put your smoke. Looking at yourself to that time, I'm like, bitch, what the fuck did you know about it? Here's the gag. All that shit, treat the talk. I ain't doing that. Yo. You ain't doing none of that. Ash is not big like that. This is fine.
00:42:10
Speaker
But yeah, I don't know if I- I did like to spin around with the dicks on the side, I did do that. Oh my god. Same, sorry. Talented, talented, talented. Talented. Talented. I'm just not thinking of all the songs I grew up with. I think- They didn't have no business. Right. I know that there's a song, so if we're doing, if we're breaking up into two sections, I have one for my youth and I have one as an adult. What is that? Not the deep side.
00:42:39
Speaker
The one, no, not that, this was like, you know, flashing back. The one from my youth was a song, I think about a Ying Yang twins called Look Back at Me. Oh. Ying Yang twins period was the beginning. It was all nasty. Yes. And my song as an adult is The Valley by Miguel. Okay, that's fair. Yeah, I will, I don't. So I said what my choice is as a youth.
00:43:09
Speaker
I don't know if I have one. Right now, like a favorite. I mean, I love a good Megan Thee Stow, you know? Cause she'd be given. She do. She's really in that, in that moment. Love a good wok, you know? I got a what?
00:43:34
Speaker
I feel like, it's not even like I super love that song. I just love, you know. So I just how it activates. I'm gonna tell you how I thought you meant like,
00:43:47
Speaker
the wop like the date like no i really i remember when wop first came out and i was like oh wow you know what the gag is i don't know right but i've been seeing the white white people or like go around like on tiktok Instagram whatever like doing that dance but you know what where's the video but where is the video of the original video that came out on youtube with those two black girls who were who were giving it to the girls and letting the girls have it i hope those girls are doing well i hope they're rich
Cultural Appropriation and Musical Influences
00:44:17
Speaker
The white kids on TikTok, they were doing this with Jersey Club recently too. Disgusting! Nobody-
00:44:27
Speaker
Nobody has ever acted. Finding an old dance that Black people made popular and then bringing it to TikTok after like 10, 15 years as if it's like the cool new thing. And acting like they won't get eaten up by the old heads who created it have been doing this. You know how many times I've looked on TikTok like I'm making a TikTok right now because they're not giving what needs to be given to the sexy wall.
00:44:52
Speaker
and you're not going to disrespect Jersey clubs like that. So turn it off. I want to report all of them. I want to report every single one of them and I need to figure out when they have those options of why you're reporting it, I need to figure out which one I'm going to do because it's giving violence against the Black community and I don't like it.
00:45:14
Speaker
But yeah, I feel like I don't super have a favorite. I feel like I've always just had like people, you know, like the D'Angelo's. I'm like I feel like it depends because like you could have your smooth sexy like sort of D'Angelo moment or you could just have like
00:45:37
Speaker
Fuck me, daddy. Yeah, that's fine. I mean, I do have a playlist of sexy of sexy whole songs. Oh, and I had to take and I had to take all of my take off because he pissed me off. That wasn't on Girl Like Us, but we completely forgot about that. Well, forget about him, too. So it's fine. Yeah, I forgot about him already. So it's fine. OK, well, I think my answer. Wait, yeah, I can get my answers and then we can go like I said.
00:46:06
Speaker
So mine as a throwback, it's a song, okay. So mine as a throwback was Rockets by Beyonce, because the second that you say, let me sit this ass on show you how I feel, let me say it, like it's,
00:46:34
Speaker
Oh period, you watch it. Fun fact, there is somebody who did it like maybe like seven years ago, they made a remix where it's actually D'Angelo Untitled and Rocket at the same time. Oh, the window mashup? And yes, and that mashup is the one that I was, I literally said like pregnancy will happen for me with that song. I know that it will. I'm very aware of that.
00:47:01
Speaker
What is that confession with hair behind it? What is that? I didn't realize that song was as nasty as it was until I think last year. I don't know what got me nuts enough. But my song now is Die.
00:47:34
Speaker
Very clear. I've heard it. It's very sexy. Delicious. Delicious. So yeah, I like me to do it sensual. Slurp me up. It's like the song. Slurp me up or slurp me out? Or do both? Do both. Oh, wait. I said slurp me up. Slurp me up. Wait, what did you say? You said slurp me up. Slurp me up? I said slurp me up. I did the whole thing. So I could say slurp me up, slurp me up, and slurp me out.
00:48:02
Speaker
All three. I like the full-course meal. That sounds like the caption for the meeting. What's really funny is one of the things I was hoping we were going to get to the sexuality piece was that about sex, but identification. Because I realized that I'm sweating. Who's not a big fan of penetration all the time? Neither am I. And I was like, OK. Because other people were like, that's so weird. I'm like, but it's not. I think a lot of people who are forced into the ideas of penetration were socially
00:48:32
Speaker
talk that like sex is penetrative, right? And I think that there are people now who are like girl, but that's the case. And I've never been a fan of like topping or bottoming. Like really, I have to really, really, really, really, really be in the mood. And that is so rare for me. So like, I don't consider myself to be a top or bottom. They have, they have, they have a term like now it's like, oh, like a size, like a person that like only likes like four player mutual masturbation, like those kinds of things. But like, yeah, I'm not a big penetrative person. Eat my ass and go home.
00:49:03
Speaker
And like, you know what's funny? People have always laughed when I've said that, but I've always been like, that's actually really what I like. That's the extent I'm willing to go. It's for you to eat my ass and then for you to go home afterwards. You're not putting your penis in your ear. No, also not saying anything. That's just like, all right, enough, enough, enough. Yeah, that's a part of me. Yeah. Right. A part of me being like, yeah, I'm going to come is when you walk out the door.
00:49:31
Speaker
Let me go. But yes, I also, yeah, there were so many things we could get to, and I was just like, well, I just had these questions. Not to say it was the only thing, but yeah. But I also am not always a penetrative girl because I also have to. We could do a part two. Yeah. We could always circle back to. Yeah, it's a circle back. It was a professional circle back. We could circle back to this, but we can't circle back to the conversation about the vitamin D comment earlier. Because you were being a rule. There would be for that, but not me for this.
00:50:02
Speaker
Anyway. Picture a face that the audience can't see. Anyway, we're gonna keep it going. Okay. So, several things for girl, I guess, Yana. Girl, I guess, Yana. It's that, like, heart attack.
00:50:20
Speaker
That's like a little musical, musical snippet. Okay, sure. So one thing I have not seen it yet, Bausberger's movie is coming out this week. Okay, the activity and also I really want some ice cream after hearing. I have ice cream.
00:50:42
Speaker
No, you have to go outside. The ice cream truck is out. No. I don't know. I'd like to step. Don't want to do that. Yikes. For ice cream cone, bitch, please. Absolutely not. You guys can go to the house. When I go to the owner store, when I already have something I need to go outside for. Well, the guy from here that sells ice cream raised a red durag, and he's a black man. And I'm so proud of him. Is he cute? Yes, he is. Is he single? I don't know. But I didn't see him since last year. So we'll see what's happening this year.
00:51:17
Speaker
go back to that too. Um, but yeah, the Bobsburgers movie is coming out this week or is out already. Um, so the girlies are planning to go see it. Um, I think I'm the hero. I'm planning to go see it this week. Um, if everyone has one, I was going to say just to celebrate that, that the girls could give their favorite Bobsburgers episode. I feel like maybe we might've said it before. Y'all did. Cause y'all saying 12.
00:51:51
Speaker
That was the sensual moment, the sensual fucking eco winner in that episode. She was giving it entirely too much. Like why is your coochie making everybody sick?
00:52:12
Speaker
But that's not my that's not my favorite episode. I have two that are tied for favorite episode. They're both
00:52:21
Speaker
holiday episodes right there? It's the Corky Turkey episode where- Why can't I be like the other Turkey? And it's really because the songs are bangers in both of these episodes. They slapped! So I love the Corky Turkey episode where Tina writes erotic holiday Thanksgiving friend fiction and Jean and Louise are trying to turn it into a play that gets them out of school early.
00:52:50
Speaker
Um, and then my second tide for that is work hard or die trying girl. You gotta work hard.
00:52:59
Speaker
Or did I try? Wait, I'm Agent Johnson and you're Agent Johnson and we're from the FBI. Agent Johnson and you're a Johnson Johnson. We're both both family guys.
Bob's Burgers and Viewing Habits
00:53:13
Speaker
It's really, it's really great. Jean and what's that girl's name? It's my fault that I can't sing like
00:53:22
Speaker
I don't know. I've actually come to like her a lot to be honest. I have to. Courtney. Courtney, yes. So Jean and Courtney turn.
00:53:38
Speaker
uh working girl and die hard into a combined musical basically but they're like fighting over like which musical to do love that for them but the songs definitely slap um so one of mine is the episode where and i did say this before the episode where um
00:54:03
Speaker
Words, words, words. It's the episode where Jean, where Louise has a substitute teacher about the elephant. Oh, yeah. Oh, the fucking- Electric girl. The Thomas Edison, the Thomas Edison elephant. Yes, the Thomas Edison, the guess, the episode of my favorite. Thomas Edison.
00:54:28
Speaker
Yo, we fucking girl and Mr. Fish owner together, bro. Girl, we're in love. We're a couple in love. Mind you, he played her as soon as the play was over. He was like, I ain't got to go. OK, so it's that episode. And the other one is the episode of, it was a holiday episode. It's a Christmas episode. And it's the one where they're trying to find, what do they call this shit?
00:54:58
Speaker
And so like it's the opposite of like Santa Claus and like he was supposed to like steal their presents. Oh, oh, I don't remember. It's a, it's a, um, it's a name for it. Um, but it's, it's, I want to fucking look it up. It's okay. The gag is I can say what season it is. That's the funny part. I can tell you what season, I can tell you what season and what episode it was. Um, Shelley, do you have a favorite?
00:55:25
Speaker
My favorite episode is all of the ones that I haven't seen yet, and I think they're all going to be my favorite. I love how you spun that. Yeah. Yeah. So how many episodes have you seen? None.
00:55:41
Speaker
um a few minutes of something but here's a few minutes i feel like i think the thing is i think everyone's so surprised with things i don't watch but then i also have to remind people my tv's not always but i don't watch shows really i only usually listen to music that's what i spend like all of the times that people would spend on shows
00:56:09
Speaker
Yes. That's the only two. No, throw it out. Loser.
00:56:22
Speaker
I think also because some people don't oh no girl do not oh I think I'm like don't put that grass full in my direction not right now but I also realize that like I think I need someone to be a salesperson on a show for me to watch it like like what was that show that um there was a show like Black Mirror
00:56:41
Speaker
When I didn't know anything about it, all my friends had already watched it, and they were like, you need to watch this show. So then I ended up watching it because they gave me a whole sales pitch, and they sat me down right in front of them. And I watched it. You watched anime when I gave you? That's what I'm saying. Somebody give it to me. Somebody gave me a recommendation. I will watch it. Without the recommendation, I don't freestyle. OK. I remember the bleak end. The episode is called the bleak end. OK.
00:57:09
Speaker
It's not even about the booking, but it's about Christmas, and it was a two-part episode. And yes, the one I'm talking about- Do you have to watch them all in order, or can you watch the individual? I don't know if you don't have to, no. You don't have to at all. You also, I don't feel like you have to watch the series before you watch the movie, so if you do, you want to watch the movie. I was begging that I really want to go to the movie, but I also know that I'm like, will I be absolutely confused? No. No, I don't think so.
00:57:38
Speaker
Okay, cool. But yes, my episodes are the Bleakin' episode, which took me the fuck out. And then, which is a Christmas episode, by the way. And then the other one is on a autopsy. It's Thomas Edison. So yeah, y'all go see the Boss Burgers movie and let us know what you're home on. Next, Candy says, well, first of all,
00:58:01
Speaker
Candy said, is this segment called Candy Says? It's not called Candy Says, but I was just reading from what I put in there. Sandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Brandy, Br
00:58:30
Speaker
yeah like in a um you know um so they can do what's the destiny show so now pretty much destiny show member of escape songwriter um you may know her from leg tips
00:58:55
Speaker
I'm trying to give information. My favorite has also been trending recently because of the snippet of a song that has not actually been professional.
00:59:09
Speaker
has not actually been like professionally produced or whatever but it's a snippet from a play which name I do not know but I don't even know I don't know what the context is for the play either I'm ever since I've heard that I've been like what the fuck is happening in the play that this is what's
00:59:27
Speaker
You heard legs and legs. I just don't understand. That's the thing. I googled the play and it was giving me all types of foolishness. And I'm like, this is not a good idea. The place called was like a mother's love. And I'm like, how am I supposed to find it? Just putting in a mother's love. So I could not. I don't know what it had to do with the mother's love. I don't know. I let she the mother offer her love to me.
00:59:54
Speaker
yes or maybe like the mom is i don't know i don't know how love was extended i don't know i'm not sure a lot of the girlies one have listened to that like snippet she posted she herself posted that snippet on tiktok with just like
01:00:12
Speaker
um it's like a video of her like on tour right now or something like dressed up or shit and the girls are having a field day um they are saying it's giving prehistoric teas like yeah
01:00:36
Speaker
But then recently she said that like escape could beat out Destiny's Child. Why would she do that? I don't know. Why would she say that? Necessarily in vocals or his. What? I'll send Michelle Williams to all of y'all.
01:01:15
Speaker
We were just recently
01:01:25
Speaker
This is a letter from Michelle.
01:01:32
Speaker
See that girl, I don't know about him. He's like really, she says he's doing his job. I know that I like, I'm causing some of the stress and I'm just like shut the hell up. He's really stressed with his job and I ain't making it easy. And I'm making these, I turned it off immediately. I was like no, but I like the show first. Yeah, we started like that one day for the. She got you going through hell.
01:02:04
Speaker
She used to give it to the end of the song. Mind you, they play every song. Every song. You know what? They play every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. And mind you, they play every song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. And mind you, they play every song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. And mind you, they play every song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. Every song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song. Every song. She used to give it to the end of the song.
01:02:33
Speaker
Here's the guy. We always have this conversation, like I've had this conversation with my friends. We're trying to drag Michelle, but like Michelle, other than Beyonce, the only person that's trying to go Grammy is Michelle. You said other than Beyonce, the only other person that got a Grammy? Beyonce, the only person, I mean, that may not be true. Cause I don't know if Victoria Lookit has a Grammy or something. Oh, that's been in Destiny's Child. Yes.
01:02:56
Speaker
Oh, and I mean, and I don't mean like Grammy for it. I probably. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes
01:03:15
Speaker
We don't count. No, we don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count. We don't count.
01:03:36
Speaker
It's not consistent. I do not have a Kelly album when I think about it. Kelly, like that's a gag, right? Kelly's second album was so good. And I just keep thinking like, why didn't you follow up to this with something else? Like you left us with nothing.
01:04:01
Speaker
Like, I do know that- Talk of the game was so good. I do know that. I don't know what candy is on, but- Why? Why? Talk of the game- She should have said it to herself. Who said that? Who said God? She should not have said that.
01:04:19
Speaker
I think someone asked who they thought had better hits or more hits or whatever between her. So you think Who Cannot Run 2 can eat up all of the songs? But I do feel like if you're in a group, then you should probably say your own group.
01:04:41
Speaker
It's not like your group is at its prime of when y'all started y'all are all vets in the game You don't have to say you said you could say anyone else if some if I was singing right now currently and I was like a vet like one of them and they were just like Who do you think like would could have been a part of like your girl group? I would have been like jazz and Sullivan like I would have picked other people about
01:05:06
Speaker
If they say like, oh, who's the best singer and I'm escape, or I'm like one of the, the O-heads, I'm not saying myself. You're not the best singer. Y'all breath work is not giving what needs to be given sometimes. So I would pick one of the younger. I was gonna say that Talking Good Games also kind of was like, I think it was her sixth video album and not her second. You said six? It was the second one that I knew about, but it was her sixth. Six? What? Yes. When did this happen?
01:05:35
Speaker
There's a couple up here. Here I am, Ms. Kelly. I feel like I know Ms. Kelly. Okay, it's her fourth. Sorry, there's two of these that are repeating. Well, what's the next one? Bria, go ahead to the next. Okay, the next thing is the tank. Oh God, I don't even know what's going on. Oh, tank Isha. So I didn't like watch the whole clip, but I know that he was calling the girls. Sissy. Sissy.
01:06:03
Speaker
I know that he was being asked sort of about like performing in queer spaces and you know he's just saying he could bop with the sissies you know so I'm sorry y'all this is how hard it is to find Tank and his foolishness I typed in Tank clip because I'm ridiculous and I want to see the clip of what it is and instead they are showing me clips of how to clip your tank top wow
Music Industry Controversies and Achievements
01:06:31
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Because how relevant do you think? That's what I feel like. How relevant do you feel? So this story pissed me off because I am of the volition. I am a part of the community who's like by other queer people for pride. Stop asking her about social safety words. You know, that's the real question. Because why are the girls inviting straight people? I mean, like, I don't like straight people. Well, that's the difference between
01:06:57
Speaker
You know, yeah, I feel like it's about like how much yeah who you say we like Beyonce like I would be okay because
01:07:16
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and we need it. Like I will cry. Yes. I will sing all the whole tales. Yes. Yes. Yes. I don't know why straight people are being. But here's my thing about themselves to shut the con to like every prize.
01:07:42
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Um, but, but I, but so Adrian, um, expression on YouTube and also like Instagram, whatever all the spaces, obviously. Um, he said something about it too. He was like, he was like, I really don't understand why we give straight people all this space. Cause like, so he called, he called, he called the girl since he's at a concert that he did.
01:08:03
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Oh, thanks. He did a performance. It was like, he was like, he was upset because like he, so he was performing at a, at a, I guess a concert or whatever. Um, the girls weren't hype. The girls weren't giving the energy. He would like, it was like,
01:08:20
Speaker
Oh, you turn up. You see the turn up. Y'all, you know, I love y'all. Y'all in my career. My career pop and the girls started screaming and yelling. And I want to be like, I want to be like, give me your head. I want to call for a nigga outside. Maybe the girls are not enthusiastic.
01:08:40
Speaker
And my thing for me too was like you because I've been too comfortable in our community. We had a part of the community, right? I just don't understand why your voice is being censored or elevated enough for you to even have a set to say words to be on a stage because I'm really confused as to why I can see a video performing at the black gay DC Christ
01:09:04
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in 2017. What did that mean for the moment? But here's also my conclusion too. Why do we also consistently...
01:09:13
Speaker
His other argument was like, oh yeah, he was like, I'm not going to hold y'all big hugs. When I go to I do pride events every prior year, I get a bag. It's only about the bag. It's only about the money. I don't care about who I identify as. I want the bag. So y'all are like, I don't care about others. You're allowed to just stick identities in their life and their livelihood for money. And I'm like, you could have, we could have given that coin a cake to killer. We could have given that coin a cake to killer. We love cake to killer.
01:09:38
Speaker
We could've given that coin to Mickey Blanco. We could've given that coin to Angel Hayes. We could've given that coin to, um, Bronze Avery. We could've given that coin to, uh, what's that new nigga Avery, whatever his name is. Oh my gosh, I saw this new, this new rapping, like...
01:09:57
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You could have chosen anybody else Like we gotta like stop inviting
01:10:13
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them to the for that thing is that you just have these people up like like a tank you will have him up here with no shirt on to do a body roll and then want them to scream and be like any of the people who are in the room so he's never even gonna want to be sexual like does it make any sense straight black men just because like
01:10:41
Speaker
Beautiful gay muscular men and non-binary folks who have muscles. Everyone has fucking muscles. You don't have to pick one of these straight niggas to do that. You don't. That's very true. Um, that's very cool. Bye, Tay. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie. It's a birdie.
01:11:08
Speaker
Rhianna does not have a Gemini, no. Also, it's been earlier this month. So I don't know. They're Taurus. But yeah, she gave birth allegedly to a boy. So yeah, so Rhianna is feeling great. Feeling good.
01:11:30
Speaker
All I have for that is congratulations to Rihanna and that baby. And that's it. Rihanna and that baby. Congratulations to Rihanna. Rihanna's family. Rihanna's mama. Rihanna's people. Rihanna's peoples. Rihanna herself, the cute adorable baby.
01:11:52
Speaker
Yes. And that is it. We're all connected to Rihanna and Barbados that are of the collective. Yeah, and Barbados is large. Congratulations, y'all. Y'all have a baby mascot. Y'all have a baby mascot. I know that there's supposedly this big blown up portrait of Rihanna in Barbados' airport or some shit.
01:12:13
Speaker
Wow. So I've heard that, but I've never been so I don't know for sure. I don't know. But if they investigate the picture, make sure it's only Rihanna and that baby. It better be that baby because it's giving nobody wants to see that. But yeah, that is it. But love that for that baby. Right. And that baby's mom.
01:12:39
Speaker
So Isaiah Rashad did an interview. First one I believe since coming out and where he has come out is sexually fluid. I question the choice of interviewer because he did this interview with Joe Budden.
01:13:07
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I again didn't watch all of this clip. I watched a little bit but in it you know Isaiah is explaining how he is sexually fluid and he's not really putting a label on you know his
01:13:24
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His sexuality and then like him and then like Joe Budden says some shit like Disgusting like implying about him being like promiscuous or whatever Or just like sort of framing it as like is this a way of like trying to be polygamous or some shit and
01:13:49
Speaker
Yeah. And I really, once again, the Joe Buddens of the world, the Charlene's of the world. I really don't know why we keep coming to these niggas to have the platform to do these things. Like these niggas cannot talk about things that are important. They don't need to talk about anything at all, but they do.
01:14:11
Speaker
The girlfriend's reunion, it's just shit like that. I'm just like, wow, these niggas. I never got me. And you asked any other nigga, like if you had to have somebody else. My question was why didn't Barbara Kekiel interview the cast of Girlfriends?
01:14:36
Speaker
Yeah, like what like the way they had the reunion episode the reunion episode on um blackish and I was like why didn't y'all just Call like why didn't somebody call? Right I couldn't understand why you didn't just bring her out to interview her old her own old cast after 17th 18th Well, we didn't get a fucking finale Bring people in and
01:15:04
Speaker
What happened? Also, I feel like it's interesting that Joe Button made these questionable comments about other than racial sexuality. When you, people are also very confused about whether or not you are bisexual. You know? So like the fact that you're also- So I should have been reversing the interview and going-
01:15:30
Speaker
So I watched your interview on the barbershop like everybody else so are you promiscuous because you might be bisexual? But yeah first of all are you bisexual and if you are are you then therefore also promiscuous? Because if you are, if I am, then what are you doing?
01:15:46
Speaker
I don't know. I'm gonna put myself in a very annoying place and actually watch it. I'm letting niggas with mics give interviews. They don't need to. They don't need to. This is retired. Next, so there are two other things that I'm wrapping it up. Uh, Brandy.
01:16:13
Speaker
about not knowing who she was, you know? Being Ray J's sister and all. And so what she chose to do was drag that little boy. Oh my gosh. In the form of a song, in the form of a real sex. I didn't know she did a song. Yeah, that's what I'm reporting right now. Oh no, she just took him out the tweet. Oh my gosh. No, Brandy chose to provide a rap remix of this man's
01:16:45
Speaker
If you are not aware, you're not on the TikTok, because this is the only real reason why I feel like you should know this song, is that Jack Harlow's song First Class is trending whatever popular otherwise, and really mostly off the strength of the Fergie sample.
01:17:04
Speaker
But Brandi, in response to the whole issue, chose to hop on the first class sample with her own rap remix. All right? With her own free sample. And I mean, hey, I have to say, it sounds better than everything that he has offered in rap.
01:17:28
Speaker
So yeah, y'all give it a listen and let us know. I just think it's hilarious. I hope that this is just the end of it all because I don't need that white man to say anything in response.
01:17:41
Speaker
And if he's smart, he won't. He definitely, if he was smart. That's the thing. If he's smart. He wouldn't take this as an L and shut up. Yeah. Yeah. It's also giving that Brandy is like personifying her character on Queens by being like, I'm that girl. She has a Queens line in the sample. I mean, in the freestyle. She says, that don't mean Jack in the streets, Jack of all trades. Now I'm here jacking for beats. Queens canceled, but you can never cancel a queen.
01:18:10
Speaker
Which is also interesting because Queen's is actionable. Why was Queen's cancelled? I didn't know that it was cancelled. Queen's is, what's the network? It's, uh, what's the- It's Fox. Okay. I thought it was, um, I don't know. Where's NBC? I don't know their numbers. I don't know for whatever reason. No, ABC. No.
01:18:31
Speaker
Was it ABC? It says it's available to watch now on ABC. I thought it was on Fox. I don't know. ABC it is. So yeah, I know that that happened recently, like within the past week or so. But yeah, that in line with that freestyle, maybe Brandi is giving us more of a rap moment. She was really filling that character arc.
01:18:58
Speaker
So yeah, maybe that's something that we can expect, you know, from the small world. The small world is also living her best life. She's giving us what needs to be playful together.
Gun Violence and Media Sensitivity
01:19:10
Speaker
So the last thing, again, Amur.
01:19:14
Speaker
somber topic, but also a drag, because you girls got the game fucked up. Unfortunately, since the last time we talked, another mass shooting has happened, which we thought we had just met our quota for the past few weeks. But sure, most folks are aware of the shooting at Valde Elementary School that happened recently. And I
01:19:43
Speaker
don't have the heart to just go through the whole situation, but I would just like to channel my energy into dragging white people, specifically because
01:19:53
Speaker
In the wake of the shooting happening, some white people, or actually Quinta, who is the creator of Abbott Elementary, has shared that a numerous amount of people have requested and, you know, stated the request for a school shooting episode on Abbott Elementary. Really?
01:20:17
Speaker
several people have done so and she definitely is just like girl not even gonna ask if y'all are okay because the answer is no and in response literally in response to saying that somebody like responds to her in the tweet below or whatever and she and she also like sort of like blurs people's name out or whatever but
01:20:47
Speaker
um yeah she's talking about how this is this is like an example she shared this person says this is just an idea for the eventual series finale a school shooting episode to highlight the numerous ones in this nation formulate an angle that would get our government to understand why laws need to pass i think avid elementary can affect change i love the show or whatever
01:21:09
Speaker
But why? Wait, who said that? Somebody else? So she was she when she tweeted about this, she showed this sort of like, it looks like a DM or something.
01:21:21
Speaker
And she covers the person's name or face or whatever with an emoji. And she just shares that. But in response to that, one person, I think a white woman responded and talked to me about how Abbott can affect change and how impactful it would be. And of course, the girls dragged. If I could find this person's handle, I honestly might tell you all to go ahead and drag also.
01:21:49
Speaker
but it's lucky it's not it's good it's the community it's the community work. Quinta still has her tweet up so y'all can see it in the thread but yeah i just feel like the i would just i'm just gonna say age the audacity of white people because the car Cassidy the car Cassidy of it all because
01:22:11
Speaker
What reason would there be to not only traumatize viewers in watching an episode? But have kids act it out. But the actual children, the real children that are part of this show to go through, and these are kids that actually still also go to school, like also have these situations.
01:22:33
Speaker
So what would be the reason to traumatize the cast in doing something like this so that white people can watch it and maybe feel like, oh my God, and still not do anything? So what do you mean it has the power to affect? That's not the responsibility of yet again another Black woman to be doing that work, to do some quote unquote effecting change. And also, it's one of the moments for a very specific reason that is a reclaiming of joy.
01:22:59
Speaker
We literally go to Abbott to not have the experiences of trauma that we experience everywhere else. Why would you take away a joyous sanctuary just to be able to say let's throw some time?
01:23:20
Speaker
talking about who has the best pizza like that's what I want to talk about I also feel like like you said those kids go to school and like if you listen to like the interviews from like
01:23:32
Speaker
um the cast and like stuff like that. A lot of them were like, a lot of them have said like some of those kids on set like feel like they're in school. Yeah. Like it's a school, you know, some of them kids are like some of those kids, the younger kids think that like these people are their teachers. So like imagine having to like put these kids to a traumatizing experience where they can't separate between what's real and what these kids go home and be traumatized at home after like telling them that's like
01:24:05
Speaker
for white entertainment, for white amusement, like y'all get entertained, y'all get to watch us get shot up all the time in real life. That's an effort. And no shade, and no shade. And nobody knows nothing about that. And no shade, but some black folks were also very much like, so not around Abbott specifically, but around the shooting were very much like, oh, I don't see more black people talking about this, or I don't see more black folks engaging with this conversation around this. The black people don't know that at all.
01:24:21
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or something like that
01:24:34
Speaker
I'm like, let's also be very clear. This is a lot of our experiences, a lot of our lives. Right. And it's not just in the school. It's not just in the school. And I was like. And also. We're also coming off of the, not even coming off of, but we're also amidst still having a constant fear of grocery stores.
01:24:55
Speaker
I was literally going to restore. I'm doing things that I was supposed to do to navigate that, like, not even what do y'all think, because I could give a fuck, because that question sounds like it should dress to white people, and I don't have conversations with white people,
Safety Concerns and Resilience in Black Communities
01:25:09
Speaker
period, about trauma. I barely have conversations with them about money, which is the thing that I want from them, and that's it. And I barely have that, so I don't give a fuck about it. I was going to say, like, not even that, um,
01:25:23
Speaker
oh like not even that just because like you don't see people like tweeting about a thing or whatever it doesn't mean that niggas don't give a fuck like I've you know many people have had to like disengage with social media between like constantly seeing whatever and like not that there's anything wrong with doing that and that you're just a human being living your life that doesn't have to show up for social media just to prove that you're living your life I
01:25:53
Speaker
I also feel like, cause like, I don't know about other black folks specifically, but I know using I statements, I am terrified all the time.
01:26:06
Speaker
about going somewhere, going to the movie theater now and getting shot up. I'll go to the movie theater. I'm still very nervous. I'm very, like, I'm always constantly on a hundred, like going on the train. Everywhere. And the police do not make me feel fucking safe. They don't. Right. And I was like, the presence of them actually makes me feel more unsafe.
01:26:27
Speaker
And if you do it a brief and certain way, that's like eternal. At least in the station I go the other day. And like, it's so funny because I, so I got pulled over and I pulled over. I got, there was, so Newport News had, I'm in Newport News, but I'm in Virginia by the way for those of y'all. It don't matter, but I'm in VA and they had a, they had a, like a, a checkpoint for like IDs, like a stop point thing. And there were 12 cops.
01:26:51
Speaker
For what? So it was like 12 of them that were at the checkpoint, but only one of them spoke to me. But I looked around at all these cops and was like, if I make one wrong move, they will kill me and then cover up their crime. Right? And even talking about the shooting,
01:27:12
Speaker
Even talking about the shooting, even knowing how the police failed and showing up for those kids, the families. And even some of the things I've heard that they're changing their story about what happened to not make themselves look so bad because they didn't engage with the shooting. They didn't engage with the shooter. And the reason why it was these cops, we were afraid it was going to shoot us.
01:27:34
Speaker
And also, I have seen people talking about how cops were pulling their kids out of school, letting other parents go and try to find their kids after all of that span of time was happening while they allowed the shooter to still be inside. They were facing the opposite direction, pushing other parents away and going to get their own kids.
01:27:58
Speaker
But again, all of that to say, I feel like white people y'all got all this energy to bring to Quinta when you absolutely should not be demanding any of this from this black woman or any at all. And complaining and harassing the fucking people you voted into office. Y'all are talking about.
01:28:19
Speaker
and go do a thing. And people voted, and now what? We voted, and these niggas are in charge. And I was like, I was going to say that. I was like, to those of you who are the girls who was like, go vote earlier. To those of you, the girls who believe in our sister, because I do not believe in that. I do not believe in our sister at all. If you believe in it, then go vote.
01:28:40
Speaker
right go vote like go do a thing call your call your senators right your your call your delegates call your representatives call all of them folks to be like what the fuck are you doing right because to put the responsibility on a show or somebody like that is literally like to walk up to somebody who creates music and say like if you don't make your music about all the trauma you experience as a black person you're not a real musician and it's just like other people got other shit that they want to talk about like
01:29:07
Speaker
and they don't have to have that responsibility. That does not have to re-charmatize themselves just for the sake of art and creating. Can we talk about how literally while all this is happening, we are in the middle of arguing about abortion rights. Go stand outside their houses.
01:29:34
Speaker
have y'all ever seen that video where it says like we're humans fighting for human rights and the person just keeps laughing hysterically they were like think about it we're humans fighting for human rights fucking ridiculous i'm like i'm like we literally are fighting for the idea of their
01:29:59
Speaker
Like I I I feel like there's so much Happening and I think like this might be the straw for some people. Um Yeah, it feels like that could be a thing and I'm just yeah
01:30:21
Speaker
I'm tired. I don't got nothing else to give to this government about gun laws, about gun safety, about abortion rights. I ain't finna argue with y'all no more. I'm just gonna continue doing the work that I was doing and supporting the ways that I was supporting. Happening offline, because I don't have social media, so you can't see me doing anything. But I'm doing shit. I work for org that's doing dope shit. And we also don't have to tell each other ever. Because back in the day, when there was letter writing, there was no TV.
01:30:50
Speaker
There were no cameras. There was no nothing. We still trusted that things were happening. And that's on Harriet, because everybody didn't know what Harriet was doing. She didn't have no damn documentation of what the fuck she was doing, but we know to this day that Sis was fucking doing shit. She didn't need people to know. That was the point. And let's look back to, and that's when Harriet, because I just found out that Sis was a whole herbalist. I was like, this? She was really twin.
01:31:16
Speaker
All the things. All the things. So, yeah, I feel like, you know, you don't gotta broadcast on the social medias, but definitely, you know, Black and brown folks take care of yourselves and each other. And, you know, we, I know we not gonna rely on the government and wait on the government to take care of us. So, yeah. And all. I got a quote from, it's a journey truth that I'm a, I'm a, I'm a loop background, one of those circle back around.
01:31:47
Speaker
Well I was just saying in closing you know finishing up uh if anybody had anything to offer so now would be the time. Oh found it all right this is how I'm signing off so uh Sojourner Troop says life is a hard battle anyway if we laugh and sing a little as we fight
01:32:05
Speaker
The good fight for freedom. It makes all of it a little easier. I will not allow my life's light to be determined by the darkness around me. And that's how I feel and that's why I'm like knowledgeable to the dark shit that be happening. Cause I'm just like, I need to at least laugh and sing and have joy and preserve my joy and just like tap. So. Yeah. I wish that I had a profound quote to share, but I'm just going to say legs and hips and
01:32:35
Speaker
Let's get them girls. I'm bringing up some light into it. I know Candy did not plan that to get that response. But here she is. But it is hilarious to me, and I'm so thankful that you shared that. Yes. What am I going to say to sign out? I don't know. All of my business belongs to me. That's your signature. Mm-hmm.
01:33:01
Speaker
All of my business belongs to me. Mind your business. Mind your business. And to the Black folks out here,
01:33:28
Speaker
I feel like I've said go find joy or like go do something joyous, but I don't know if that's enough. Do something intimate with yourself, you know? Oh, I won't go say that either. I won't go to that period. I was gonna say, um...
01:33:45
Speaker
just if you're a person just just just living in existing like that's perfectly fine if you're not engaging with any of these things if you're not really giving too much energy to anything and you're just like i'm just here that's also fair you can also be that girl not fair that's perfectly fine it's wonderful to be that girl and there's nothing wrong with it i'm just here having a human experience and it's a ghetto one yeah
01:34:06
Speaker
So yeah, that's all my guys. We ready to check it out. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. I want to end this all the good. I want to end this all the good. OK. Thanks.
01:34:29
Speaker
Bye! Bye!