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Healing Modalities: Reiki, Family Constellation Therapy, and Karma Yoga Healing with Edit B. Kiss
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Edit B Kiss is a holistic mentor, success habit coach, #1 best-selling author, Humanitarian Award winner, and international speaker. She specializes in guiding individuals from misery to peace within 30 days by integrating ancient healing techniques with neuroscience. Her journey from a 15-year career in petroleum engineering to holistic healing exemplifies her commitment to transformation and personal growth.
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Show Highlights
- From Engineering to Healing: Edit shares her journey of growing up in communist Hungary, becoming a petroleum engineer to travel the world, and how experiencing severe panic attacks led her to seek natural, spiritual healing.
- Healing Modalities Explained: An easy-to-understand breakdown of what Edit practices, including Reiki (cleansing energy and raising vibration), Family Constellation Therapy (healing the family's unconscious pain), and Karma Yoga Healing (transcendental meditation).
- Multidimensional Trauma: Why someone might experience anxiety or triggers despite having a "perfect" childhood, and how our deep-rooted emotions can actually be tied to past lives or our ancestors' struggles.
- Navigating Life Transitions: Edit discusses her work with clients—often in their 40s and 50s—who are navigating divorces, grief, depression, or the heavy feeling of being lost in life.
- The Illusion of Control: The fascinating story of how getting let go from her corporate contracting job was a massive manifestation that pushed her into her true calling.
- Body, Mind, and Spirit Alignment: Practical advice for raising your vibration, including starting a Samadhi meditation practice, using nutritional supplements, and understanding why cutting out sugar, alcohol, and caffeine is vital for mental health.
- Edit's Books: A look into her published works, including On the Healer's Journey (a guide for lightworkers in their "cocoon phase") and her latest release, The Gap Filler Success, which combines grounded strategic action with spiritual tools like manifestation and numerology
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Transcript
Introduction to Meditation Techniques
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So people who struggle from meditation, they said that it was easy for them to get into that state through this meditation. And yeah i would say like 85, 90% of people has no issue, you know, to get into that state and start stepping into and doing the healings, you know, even this meditation healing or the meditation or the healing with me, because there is another one, the source memory healing, which I do one-on-one with clients when I actually guide them into their memories.
Introduction to 'Grief, Gratitude, and the Gray-In-Between'
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Welcome to Grief, Gratitude, and the Gray-In-Between podcast. I'm your host, Kendra Rinaldi. This is a space to explore the full spectrum of grief, from the kind that comes with death to the kind that shows up in life's many transitions.
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Through stories and conversations, we remind each other that we're not alone. Your journey matters, and here we're figuring it out together. Let's dive right in to today's episode.
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Let's start with a quick disclaimer. This podcast includes personal stories and perspectives on topics like grief, health, and mental wellness. The views expressed by guests are their own and may reflect individual experiences that are not meant as medical advice.
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Hello, hello. Thank you for choosing to listen
Meet Edith B. Kiss: Background and Achievements
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today. Today I'm chatting with Edith B. Kiss. She is a holistic mentor, a success habit coach, number one bestselling author, humanitarian award winner, and an international speaker. And we will be talking about a little bit about her life, the type of individuals she helps. She has helped people all over the world, different countries, and continues to help so I'm excited to have this conversation and get to know you and learn about you so welcome Idit.
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Hi Kendra, hi everybody, thank you for having me. I am so glad you are here and happy to get to learn about your story. So I like to start off by getting to know the guests a little more. Where did you grow up and where do you live now?
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So I grew up in Hungary and lived there till I was like 19. um And then I also went back and forth when I was doing my university there as well. So my basic curriculum was from Hungary. And then I didn't even speak English until age 18. So it was really interesting when I started to learn English and suddenly I understood the songs. the lyrics, you know.
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I'm curious with that. Did you end up realizing like, wait, I was singing this all along and this is what it meant? Yes. For example, one of my romantic songs with my ex, it used to be a breakup song. I was like, holy shit.
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but but that I know for me, even though I grew up with both languages in my household, it's like still you when you're hearing something, even though i it's like you're like, oh, I think that's what it says in that word. But now like that you have access to seeing the lyrics of songs like mine, I'm like...
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oh, all this time I was singing it this way and that's not what it said. It said this, you know, like it's just, the it's just funny that it makes it makes it
From Engineering to Healing: Edith's Journey
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completely different. Okay, so you were, you learned English at 18 and then where i said you where did you go after So what happened is that ah when I was a child, you know, in Hungary, we grew up in a communist era. So it was like under the Russian control kind of thing. So we had to learn Russian. And I also learned German, but not the English.
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And then I was really like um excited more about history and geography. That was my passion and mythology. But eventually I ended up as an engineer because that was the easiest journey for me because I was good in math and and physics. So I was like, okay, let's let's try that path. And I also love travel. And then I chose a kind of engineering career which included travel, which was the oil industry. So I was a petroleum engineer, which actually helped me to travel around living in different countries. And, um yeah, and then and I experienced in one of my travels, I experienced panic attacks. And then I was obviously freaking out. I didn't know what was going on, what's happening to me. And then i you know, rushed to the doctors and then got some tranquilizers and then I didn't like the effect. So eventually when I got home, I tried to figure out what to use, which is natural, you know, not medication.
Exploring Healing Practices: Reiki, Family Constellation, Karma Yoga
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And that's why I ended up with spiritual healings like Reiki healing and later family constellation therapies. And then I was really fascinating about this different world, you know, and it became my sanctuary, my getaway from work or later when I had my kids and family, then basically that was my little hobby, you know, just to go and little retreats like weekend stuff.
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once in a while and then learning about this modality. So I became a Reiki master as well eventually. And it helped me to manage my panic attacks. It helped me to manage my relationship issues or you know when I was a bit out of sync, I didn't know like how to behave with my kids or whatever. So it was always bringing me some peace. And later I got introduced to Karma Yoga Healing, which was like a big transformation for me when I really realized that I want to have others also to heal. I want to have others to find peace and harmony because this tool is really special. And these tools really helped me to overcome things which I couldn't for decades. So that was my story to moving from engineering to to healing, basically. To healing. And then there's several things. So for the listeners, because i I'm familiar with some of the things that you said, but not all of it Like, for example, I don't know the karma yoga healing. I know yoga. I don't know the karma yoga healing. I know the other. I know Reiki.
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I know constellations. But can you explain a little bit? about what each is. What is Reiki? What is Constellation? is Because the Constellations is a big, big one now. And do you work on Constellations too?
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Are you now, do you do Constellations as well? I in a different way because I will explain that later. Oh, I love that. Okay. And that's a big, that's a big topic. I know with my friends, a lot of us are always talking about this and several have seeing people that do constellations. And then karma yoga healing. Can you explain a little bit of what each is? Yes, yes. So Reiki healing is an energy healing, which means that when you attune to the Reiki energies, you basically invoke the light energy from the source, and then you project it through your hands to your patients, like or to other people. And you can do it like if you are a level one, you have to touch the person basically with your hands. If you are level two, level three, you actually use certain signs and then you can do distance healing.
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So that's like sending a distance energy. And it's really good for chakra cleansing, it's really good to ah raise your vibration, helping or supporting your body on their own healings, because we are our worst enemy. you know like we When we think negatively, when we are in a negative vibration, basically we're ruining our wellness or our body.
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and And when we are able to raise our vibration to rest and then not to have negative thoughts, that's when the body can heal. So that's that's about Reiki. And the family constellation therapy is something really interesting. ah When I was introduced to it, we did it in group settings, you know, and in ah in the house of my Reiki master.
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And what happened is that we had to, like a group of people, we had to kind of... um invoke the spirits of a family and then working with these spirits like we had to go through forgiveness acceptance all of this ah procedure because it turned out that sometimes your issues in your current relationships or in your life is actually related to what your ancestors went through so when you actually heal them and then they can heal from the pain or from their emotional issues, then it's it's a ripple effect into your life. And it was so interesting when I was doing this that it's actually like within three, four weeks, it just happens in your life, the shift, you know, because takes a bit of time. yeah it's Yeah, it's like generational trauma that is healed.
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it's It's like what people talk about generational trauma. It's like you being able to realize what it has been and being able to heal that energy that has been throughout the different generations of your family, but through the constellation therapy method. Yes, yes. And then you know we we think that when our ancestors dies, then basically they are happy flappy because they you know leave their body behind, which was causing the most of the issue, maybe the illnesses or something. But their spirits is still remembers, you know, their spirits is can be still hurt and then struggling. And then when we do family concentration therapies, we actually give them a favor, you know, also to be healed. And they also find peace and and they also, you know, very feel very grateful and blessed that we have them to to go through that healing.
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Thank you, thank you for explaining that. And there's a great movie on Netflix if people wanna understand that, because that was like what helped me a little bit to understand was it's called Another Self, it's a Turkish movie. It's a series not as it's a series and it's like it's so it's like two seasons, but it's really good to be able to kind of understand it in a way that's non like, yeah, it's just ah a TV show, but you know? But that's how I at least did help me to understand a little bit more about how it worked. and then so so yoga yeah yeah And then how I do the family constellation therapy is actually related to the karma yoga healing. Because with the karma yoga healing, I was introduced to an ancient practice, which is also called Kashmiri Shivaism.
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And it's originated from Kashmir, from the Himalayas, and I was learning it from an Indian guru. And basically it's helping you also to go through the similar process as family constellation therapy, but in a meditation. So there are particular meditations that you tune into the family unconscious. You literally step into the family unconscious and you can actually request answers from there and you can guide through your ancestors a healing through the meditation so it's basically you can do it alone at your space you know at home just listening to this meditation and you get the similar results because you actually go from the issue and you go into the family consciousness and you release it from there you have your ancestors
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is that is it Is there like hypnotherapy within that space of that meditation or like are you like in a in a hypnotic type of state in that meditation?
Accessibility of Karma Yoga Meditation
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Yeah. So one of the tools in this Karma Yoga Healing is the Samadhi meditation. That's like a very important tool and we start nearly every session with Samadhi meditation because that's how you transcend. So yes, you need to transcend is some something like hypnosis, but it's more like a transcendental meditation. So basically, you are activating your pineal gland and your eighth chakra as well. And then you transcend into the unconscious. So you are in theta, delta brain waves when you are actually connecting with these unconscious, the family unconscious.
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Edith, question with that, like, does someone have to already have experience meditating in order to be able to get to do this type of karma yoga? like do you um and like How long does the process take of someone to be able, in general, of what you've seen, to master being able to get to that depth? Because I know that I struggle even sitting down for sometimes five minutes to meditate in my the way that sometimes that I do, right, in my brain going... So does someone have to already have a very good meditation practice in order to be able to achieve this?
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No, absolutely not. Most of my clients come to me, who some of them never even meditated, you know and some of them have the same struggle as you. And this is a guided meditation, so it actually gives you step by step like what to think of, you know what to see, what but to visualize, and then basically going through the activation and bringing you into that state. So people who struggle from meditation, they said that it was easy for them to get into that state through this meditation.
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And yeah i would say like 85, 90% of people has no issue, you know, to get into that state and start stepping into and doing the healings, you know, even this meditation healing or the meditation or the healing with me, because there is another one, the source memory healing, which I do one-on-one with clients when I actually guide them into their memories. And then we go into, like, we have, if they have an issue in the current life, we actually ask the clients the unconscious to bring in memories into the consciousness which actually was uh the root you know so basically to find those memories is most of the people who go through this practice it's easy for them just the memory appears and then they tune in And it's not just about this lifetime memories. Many times I'm working with past life memories as well in the same source memory healing session. Just i yesterday today I had a session with a client and she was one one ah memory was this lifetime, next memory was other lifetime. So because we we deal with like six memories in one session usually. And one of them was this, the other was past life. So it was like back and forth. And then it was really interesting. But yeah, so it's basically, it's not you don't it not doesn't require any any upfront practice. I tell them that, okay, before they come for the first session, just practice for like five days, the samadhi meditation, the particular meditation we're going to do. So you just do it for like five days. So actually they have that kind of practice.
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awareness or they know how it goes and then they feel how they feel about it. So if if it doesn't bring them to that state or if they didn't like it, they can tell me, you know, if if they didn't understood it or something. So I always tell them like, okay, let's give you a five days just to practice. To do it Now, do people in general, is it best that they're prepared, let's say with even, aside from having practiced,
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ah fasted beforehand? Is there any particular state in which the person has to be... No, absolutely not. No, no. Awesome. Only thing which I usually ask that before the session that they don't have coffee or caffeine, you know, because we want them to be peaceful. We want them to be relaxed. I had a client who always been caffeinated and then it was much harder for her to to relax or to step into memories because she was always high.
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So I had to remind her that next time, please don't drink coffee because it makes it more difficult to tune in and to actually get results. So that's that's the only thing. That's perfect. No, that answer, back but because I was thinking, I'm like, yeah, because it depending on where you are, like your brain can go, you know, be more good like mine. I am caffeinated this morning, so mine would not work today.
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e Thank you for explaining that and the different modalities as to what it is you do with your clients in order to be able to access these traumas. Now, your guests come to you for different types of reason. Your guests, my ah mine are guests on the podcast. Your clients come to you for different reasons.
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What are the majority of reasons that people may show up? like What is happening in their life that makes them seek?
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like for you know For you, was anxiety that made you seek that. What is yeah the emotion that most people have? Most most people are going through like ah life changes, like for example, divorce or grief, or ah they sometimes are in a depression. Or even feeling lost. That's also occurs often that they feel lost, which means they are not happy in their current life, but they don't know what they should do instead.
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So that's another pattern which which shows up. But depression is common and and the the grief and divorce, those kind of things. Yeah.
Guiding Clients Through Life Transitions
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Yeah, I think the the the the part of people not knowing where they are in their life is so common to kind of in that midlife stage, right? Of you're like, you're evaluating where you've been. I'm in that stage of my life, right? I'm 50 years old. You're evaluating where have you been? Does the life that you have right now look like what you had envisioned? And a lot of times people start feeling a lot of angst anxiety. and regrets and things like this, thinking as if their life is almost quote unquote over when you still have another half to go, right? But it is very common to feel disoriented and and even again, even depression and grief shows up in our lives when our lives don't look the way we thought they would look like at certain stages of our life, right? So I could see why
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clients would would go to you? Are the majority of your clients in this in that kind of bracket of age-wise in their midlife chapter, or is it a variety of ages?
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Yeah, it's really interesting. Maybe the majority is 40, 50, yeah, in their 40s, 50s. But I also had clients in their 20s or 30s as well. Because, you know, in 30s, sometimes they feel lonely and they are like, oh, my God, I'm still alone. I still don't have a partner. I still don't have kids. I feel antisocial, you know, and then I feel unhappy in my job. So that's for the 30s. in their 20s, usually who comes somebody to me in their 20s is like because they have anxiety or they have PTSD. You know, they maybe were abused as a child, you know, and then they have PTSD in their 20s. That's common.
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And yeah, but also the 50s are the ones or the 40s which is suffered from like divorce and also abuse or or grief because their parents are at the age, you know, passing and and yeah.
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Yeah, that sand i call it the sand we call it the sandwich generation, the ones that parents are, you know, you're still taking care of aging parents, you're still taking care of kids like teenage years. there's like There's a lot of grief that shows up as our identity starts also shifting and looking different when you're no longer a caretaker to your children because they've already moved away and are to college, but now you're all of a sudden caretaking for your parents, right?
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You know, so there's that could be a lot. Now, in your life, you had a major pivot and identity shift of even your career with having studied petroleum and then should to this. So talk about your own experience.
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pivot and how that was for you, because that was major. And I want to know also how the people around you, your family, your friends, what they thought of this major petroleum. I live in Texas. So yeah that's like the the oil business is the tech you know the what Texas is known for. So you you made a major shift. So can you please talk about that?
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Yeah, it was really interesting. It did not happen overnight though. So it it started slowly. Like for example, the first was like, I felt so overwhelmed from my nine to five. And then I felt that I don't have enough time for my kids. They were smaller that time. They were like, I don't know, six and 10, you know, so I, that was the first thing like, okay, I want to quit my nine to five. That was my first thing. And then When I became a contractor, I felt better because I had more time for the kids. I felt more free. But then I started to have that calling that I want to meditate. I want to do healing for clients or I want to help others. Like I had this kind of calling. And then that's when I got also introduced to Karma Yoga Healing when it started to heal my physical issues. and And this was just all coming together like, oh my god, these tools are so great. I want to show it to people. So it was more like exciting. And then and then for like a year or two, I was actually doing it parallel. So I already had some clients but i in London. i already moved to London. But I still had my old job as a contractor. So I was doing it for like a year like that. And then then one day I just felt like, oh, my God, i I just feel like I can't do this reporting anymore. So I don't want to look at numbers. i I don't want to use this software. I just felt like a really big rejection in my body somehow. It was really weird.
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And then the funny thing was like within a couple of weeks, my manager just called and said that we don't have any more work for you because we are want to get rid of the contractors. And I was like, wow, that was a big manifestation. So basically I lost that. And then I wasn't seeking for new ah you know work because I felt like probably this is the time I really need to change. Yeah.
00:21:45
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It's so funny because even though that's what you wanted to do was leave it the fact that you had to be let go for you to leave it officially, you know, and a lot of times people... when When that happens in life, they take these moments of, okay, now what? And they may continue and go back on, jump on the same horse that they were, even if they were unhappy and it was not bringing them this contentment and kind of alignment in their own life. We tend to sometimes go back to what we know, right? And instead of really trying to go into something that is more aligned with who we are,
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right now, because something we might have been doing for so many years might have been in alignment with us then. But we change. We're constantly evolving and changing as human beings. And it's OK to shift and change paths. And it is scary.
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It is scary. It's a new journey, right? And I was passionate about the oil industry. I really enjoyed that. You know, I was passionate about working on those topics or using those softwares for a while, you know, for like 15 years. But then then it's just changed. And then it was actually terrifying the thing that something what you believed is actually stable in your life can disappear so fast. And then you feel like you are in control. But what if you are not? you know Because what if it's meant to be like, I am becoming a healer. I'm becoming you know someone who's helping others. And I actually have to get rid of this job. because it felt like it wasn't my decision. It was felt felt like it was a higher powers decision, you know, kind of. So it's somehow, it's also scary to understand that um maybe you are not in control and maybe you believe certain things are stable, they are not. So everything is temporary. That's what i want to say. And, you know, the only thing constant is change. So if we are good with change, if we are good to understand that everything is temporary, then we can probably enjoy those temporary more moments better.
00:23:46
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Yeah. And it's so funny that even though we know that the only constant is change, we still are in our mind, our mind struggles with change so much, even though it is the one thing that is guaranteed. Every time we change, it's like, it's already used to going on a certain path, a certain pattern or a routine. It's like used to it. And then you change it and it kind of feels like, what?
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You know, disorienting, right, for our even for our mind because it's so used to doing certain things a certain way, yet we do end up adapting to those changes. Humanity is constantly adapting to all the changes that have happened throughout history, right, in general. So so we can as well.
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00:25:11
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Now let's get back to the show.
00:25:16
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Now, in those changes, you moved also a lot. So i can you talk about that experience of starting new you know new you know work or friends or relate you know relationships in every one of the countries that you lived, please?
00:25:33
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The thing is what I realized that if you move with the person or people or the family you love, those moves are much more ah pleasant for more exciting, more adventurous, you know, more happy things, situations. But if you have to move alone, that's a bit more a struggle.
Experiences of Moving Countries: Challenges and Joys
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Like I remember that once I was moved to countries like when I was ah already had a relationship, And then I had to move to another country because the company was sending me. That was my worst thing, like because I was separated from my loved one. you know And then I had to also have ah i had also had a bad manager who who I didn't like. So basically, it was a bit of struggle. So I actually become depressed during that couple of months being in and that new country.
00:26:21
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and working there because of the circumstances, because of the environment, because of the support group around me was different, and the demand was high you know in the job, and and my loved ones wasn't there. So it was that was, i think, one of the worst things. But whenever I moved later on with For example, when I moved with the whole family, you know, then it was much more pleasant for because everybody who I loved was with me all the time, you know. So it was it was like just happiness. It was like, oh, let's explore together. You know, let's try this together. or Let's try this. So it's it's much more enjoyable when you do these moves basically with loved ones. Alone is a bit more struggle. But if you are an adventurous person, even alone you can find, you know, your tribe or you can find, know,
00:27:06
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fun in places, but it's better together, obviously. when you moot Do you have children? Yes, I have children so two children. when When you moved with your children, did that... Because I can see how it could be exciting, but at the same time, not only are you you you know kind of adjusting, and but you're also...
00:27:26
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helping your children adjust to this change in their own emotions. So navigating their own emotions as they're also letting go of where that used to be to where they go.
00:27:39
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So it's interesting that you say that it's for you, it's easier to move with family. It has been easier to move with family. And in my mind, I mean, I've moved with both, you know, both family. And then when I was on my own and for myself, it was like easier, I guess, on so because I only had to worry this is before i had kids, about my own adjustment. But then as a mother, I'd have to also make sure that my kids were well adjusted. So the responsibility of it felt bigger on in my experience. So I love how we both...
00:28:12
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have different ways of viewing the same scenario. But I can see also like if you have your home, quote unquote, your home being your family unit, you don't feel alone in that changes and you're all together and you're navigating a change together.
00:28:28
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Yeah. And then as you see, it's so important, the perspective. Everybody has different perspective. And then if you create a positive perspective for yourself, then everything can be positive, right? So so for for the kids, ah my son was a bit older when we started to moving around. So for like seven years from his birth until he was seven, we actually lived in Hungary when my mom was around. And then a family around and he went into Hungary and kindergarten. But basically after when he was seven and my daughter was like one and a half, that's when we moved to the Netherlands. And for him, it was a bit more tough than to my daughter, obviously, because she didn't go to socializing for a while.
00:29:08
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And then she absolutely forgot about the Netherlands. She didn't even remember. And then by so for my son, it was, ah you know, I had to get into school, new community, everything. So it was a bit harsh on him.
00:29:20
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And then when we moved again to back to Hungary to a new school, and then we moved again to like the New Zealand, and then we moved to UK. So before we moved to UK, my son was saying like, oh, can we not move now? We moved so many already. And then, no, I love my friends. you know i don't want to move again. And I told them like, oh, let's say, let's, I mean,
00:29:40
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ah let's see this one now because it should be the last move or, you know, I was like kind of making it digestible for them. And then my daughter was more adaptable. She was always excited about any of these moves. She was just, you know, she was younger. she was not that worried. And then then my son, but eventually now, like, you know, so we are here for seven years now, no, all of them, says that it was a good decision to come here because they feel more, you know, happier here and safer and then they believe it's a better place for us.
00:30:12
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So yeah, so it turned out well. Yeah, it's so funny because I remember when my parents, when I was a teenager and sometimes they would talk about moving, I'd be like, no, no, wait till I graduate from high school. Because for, for ah for at least for me as a teenager, my friends were my priority. my friend That was like the main, that was what quote unquote home was for me, was my friends. Like, you know, so, i and I know it sounds very selfish, but that as a teenager, that was my circle.
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So moving as a teenager, I think, in general, it can be much harder because that's when you feel like these are your friends and then you move somewhere as a teenager and then people already have their little circles. So trying to immerse yourself into somebody else's circle of friends can be a little challenging. So I can see how your son probably had a little bit of a harder time when you moved to the UK, because he might have already established those friend groups. So thank you for for sharing those. but And you're right, perspective is different. And that's how we have to address with everybody. Not everybody's situation and and way of dealing with a situation is the same. And the same goes then with trauma. for something
00:31:24
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For someone, a certain experience could have created trauma for them. And that same experience for someone else. doesn't. Can you talk about that and the aspects of trauma and how different perspective is for that?
Healing Personal Triggers and Traumas
00:31:42
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Yes. So basically the triggers, what they are experiencing is related to their roots, their core situation. So if they had a childhood when they never happened to them anything negative about related to the same thing, like losing a place or a home or friends or something, then it wouldn't trigger them basically. But, and it could be also past life. So many times we don't know why certain people get triggered because it's, was it this lifetime or past life trauma? We don't know. Maybe this lifetime, you know, sometimes I'm talking to people and they said like, oh, I don't need trauma healing. My childhood was perfect, you know, like, And then they still got triggered, they still got angry, they still got frustrated, or they still can get depressed, whatever, because their past life, maybe they experienced things which is triggering them now. So everything is connected. We can't really take only this lifetime as this is the only possibility that happened to you, because we are multidimensional beings. We had a multidimensional experience. and then is actually affecting our current reality. So when you're actually not happy, when you are feeling that something is triggering you and you feel disappointed, depressed, and having high anxiety, having all kinds of...
00:33:03
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bad ah feelings, then it's it's ah related, it might relate it to past life. things So it's it's worse to actually dig deep and find the roots because when we do that, when we release that and heal that, basically your life just changing to the better. So in my life is like, you know, ah when I was like riding an emotional roller coaster for every stupid thing and then suddenly I just started to like smooth out and this noise like smooth, which means like hardly anything can trigger me, you know, because it's just All of the routes were like cleared out in the last couple of years. So what what's happening to my clients that when they come to me with a specific issue is basically ah it's within a four weeks. I'm working with them on a four weeks plan, like a 30 days plan. And in that 30 days, I help them with that urgency, what they coming to me. But after the 30 days, other things can come up as well later. So then we can you know take care of that with the different programs. But for a certain urgency, as I talked about the depression or grief or pt or PTSD, we can actually deal with that in in four weeks, in 30 days. And then they feel already empowered and excited about life again and and and just feeling more in peace.
00:34:19
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And in those four weeks, how how often do they meet with you in those four weeks as they're navigating through the first? Yeah, so we have a weekly session, which is about two hours. That's the source memory healing. So we go through like four specific i situations in that four weeks. And then also, meanwhile, they're doing daily meditations. I have a meditation library with also with the ancestral healing meditations and different other karma healing meditations and different other you know, like meditations, which helps them every day. So basically they get a plan which they need to follow. And then they also, there is, I have a course which called a life transformation system. So they watch those videos because it explains them more about, you know, ancestral healing, about the vibration, about mindset, about positive thinking, all of the things which my day would,
00:35:09
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ask me you know or whatever So it's better for them to watch it and they can write their homework so they can write questions. So basically, we don't spend too much time on the one-on-one calls to explaining them all of these ah details. so um So that's how I combine this program for them.
00:35:26
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Yeah, and then sometimes understanding the how something works ends up making it a little bit easier for someone to then really trust at the process, right? If you understand the even the the science behind it behind it all. I had ah a friend, ah someone on the podcast in a Spanish episode, a Spanish episode of of the podcast, who is certified with Dr. Joe Dispenza.
00:35:53
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ah she's like what So she in that episode, she was explaining that knowing the science of of meditation really and the power of it makes a huge difference than when people go into these retreats of meditation retreats or things like that to really be able to...
00:36:10
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take full advantage of it when they understand the house. So going and so right is do do you agree with that? Yeah, absolutely. I mean, it just makes me a smile because I remember that when I had my first clients, like back in 2019, one of them brought me the book from Joe Dispenza.
Parallels with Joe Dispenza's Work
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And the book was The Becoming Supernatural. And then I was reading the book because I didn't know him. And i reading the book and then I realized that he's doing same meditations like I do, which I learned from the guru. And he actually explained in the beginning of the book that the source of his things is yogis as well. So the activation of what he does, activating the pineal gland through ah you know bringing the light into the cerebellum and then It's the same process which I learned from my guru from Kashmir. So basically, he brought the same ancient studies into his work. The good thing is that he actually it took the time to explain everything on a neuroscience way so people can understand. So now if someone comes to me and tells me like, or or have some skeptic, I always tell them to go to Joe Dispenza to read the book. and then You will know. They come back. Yeah. Becoming Supernatural or the, and and what is the other one? the The one I've read. The Hobbit. The Hobbit.
00:37:28
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to um a a yeah Of Not Being Yourself. Something like that. to them Gosh, I can't think of the names. But yes, there's several books. And if ah if not, like you could just watch some of his interviews or other things like that, but to be able to understand this and The thing is you know that nothing is new in this world. Everything has already existed. Family constellation therapy existed thousands of years ago back with the gurus you know in ancient times. But now, as everybody is speaking up, and there are other things that people start channeling from source, like any kinds of healing practices, healing techniques. they say It's mine. I channeled it. I write it down. Yes, but other people channeled it as well. You know, it's like because it's there. It's coming from the stair. Yes. And and that's that's sometimes when people say, and I was ah talking to a not and yeah somebody the other day, and it's this part of like,
00:38:20
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Everything is in the ether. And it's like you just have to be this open channel and then then grab. And that happens a lot of times when you see a book. You may read a book and you're like, oh, my God, I've read this book before. And you read another one. And it's not even that this person copied that other person. It literally is because it's that information that's been channeled.
00:38:53
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art You see that in art and expressions of art. You see that happens a lot of times when people even come up with an invention. They go and try to patent something and it's all somebody had just put the patent for the same probably thing. I'm kind of saying I don't know that for a fact, that part of the patents. But I can i can see because that that that is like the information's there and sometimes it is meant to be received And all we have to do is be open and be that channel in order to grasp it and be the one to bring it into fruition. yeah Right. Yeah. Especially with creativity and things like that, too. It's like just being open. So, yeah, I love that that nowadays we're kind of going back to more of our.
00:39:40
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or original way and how we did things, right? we and And it's okay to mix a combination of the two with the Western way of thinking, but then also going back into the ancient ways in which things had been done, the holistic approach to viewing health, reviewing our life, just all these different ways. So there's always always a way. Now, I want to talk about your books since we just talked about
Edith's Literary Contributions
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Dr. Joe Dispenza's books. And let's talk about your books because you're an author. Which one of your books would but that you and that was the one that made you a number one author?
00:40:18
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Yeah, that was a long time ago. It was actually a co-authoring. So I was co-authored with other authors in a book which calls The One Hobbit for Entrepreneur Success. So that's when when the the time I started to be a success habit coach as well. So when I was writing in this book, The One Hobbit, and that became a a bestseller. And later, a couple of years later, two years later, I actually published my book, which is called On the Healer's Journey. I'm looking at them now. Yeah, On the Healer's Journey. That was a book for lightworkers or people who feel a calling to become a lightworker or healer, you know, and then they feel a bit stuck or they feel misunderstood or they feel unsupported in this journey. They feel like in a cocoon face, you know. when they need that encouragement when they need that push that help and then some some understanding like how to go from the cocoon phase and becoming a butterfly so that's basically this on the healer's journey and it has beautiful ah pictures to mandalas to color so every chapter has different mandalas so if you get the paper back then you can actually use it as a coloring book as well and it's a tiny one so it can
00:41:30
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you can put it in your small bag. And the the second book um of rising after abuse. Oh, that that was again a co author book, the rising of the abuse that is a quarter book and but my personal second book just came out this ah October, last October, that was the gap filler success, it's simple steps to reach your goals. And I felt this gap filler success so close to my heart because it also includes lots of my stories, my personal stories, like how I reached certain goals within my petroleum careers or as a healer or as a you know uh being a speaker and then a writer or author so basically it explains also some of my troubles how i travel to different countries how i i've done different jobs and stuff so basically it gives a little bit of uh storytelling but it also gives you a lot of uh
00:42:24
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how can I say, um guidance, how to take certain actions to reach your goals. And i created like two parts in this book. The first part is for people who are very strategic thinking, who like to take action, who is like not that spiritual, they're more grounded. ah that That's the first part because that was me you know before and that's how I reached those goals, right? And then the second part of my book is more the spiritual one when I also use manifestation, I will affect attraction, you know, and also the healing, the trauma release, the subconscious reprogramming and the astrology, numerology. and And then I give some guidance about those things as well in the book and meditation. There is a whole meditation in the book and some calculations for numerology and stuff like that. So basically it gives you a lot of tools to use and implement and then basically ah ah to help you to reach your goals.
00:43:15
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I love it. I love that. So it's a goal-oriented book, but also intertwined with your own healing and your perspective and the the way that you used to think and then the way that you think now, though the edit before and the edit now, right? Yeah, of that that process. And we' we're all, ah some some were some of us may be right in the middle of where with with those things. so So thank you for that. Now, what would you say would be the first
00:43:48
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thing that someone it should could do, could do, not should, there's no shoulds, but could do in their journey, if they're right now in ah in a crossroad in their life in which they're really unsure as to what to do, whether it is that they're going through depression or again in and a divorce or something like that, what would be One of the things it could do, start reading or reaching out to someone. What what is the what would you suggest is the best approach for someone that's listening right now?
00:44:21
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Yeah, so basically Samadhi meditation itself would help a lot. So if people start ah practicing that meditation, because it helps them to ah heal their chakras, it helps them to through the activation to download more positive thinking, their new vision, their new ideas gonna be downloaded much faster. I remember when I first time did the Samadhi meditation, when I met the guru, it was like synchronicity, serendipity, and then vision was just coming through me like really fast paced. I was already in the spiritual healing journey for many years, like with the Reiki, but I never felt such a strong connection like after this meditation and just doing one. So Samadhi meditation I would recommend. Also, it's on my YouTube channel. So if someone goes to my website, editbeekies.com, they can actually find the YouTube link there. So they can go to my YouTube. And on YouTube, I have a ah playlist. And in the playlist, there is one of them is meditation playlist. So there is the Samadhi meditation there. They can try practicing. And then other meditations I would recommend as well because that's what they can do themselves first, you know, to to bring them less worry, more peace, you know, just getting aligned again with themselves, with their higher self, channeling some more positive thing for the future. And then also to take care of themselves, because I also realized with my clients that the ah the body, mind, spirit is really connected. And while we're taking care of the spiritual healing through meditations and the healing techniques like soul's memory healing, we also need to like, um
00:45:53
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Cultivate a positive mindset, believing that life is just getting better as I grow, as I you know go through things. So basically having that positive mindset that, yes, I'm hopeful. I know it's just going to get better. And then you know saying good affirmations for yourself in the mornings and in the evenings, which can keep you going, which keeps you and like gratitude list and some sort of something like that.
00:46:16
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And then the body, a body is also very important because I also realized that what we consume is really affecting also our mental health. Having a great supplements, if you don't have a nutritional food, you know, at least take supplements like vitamin B or iron, magnesium. to make sure that you don't get over extraa anxiety or or ah these kinds of things, because it's really related to what you eat. Also like sugar, caffeine, alcohol, they all amplify these mental health issues. So if you if you can get rid of those, that's also great. And in the in the meditation library, it's also there's a meditation for
00:46:52
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uh intoxication or or addiction issues so basically if you feel like you're craving things and you can't stop then i would recommend that meditation because it's uh it's also like as you clear that channel as you connect more as you raise your vibration your body will know that those food are low vibration and that i'm not matching with that anymore so basically it will help you to get rid of those negative food uh effortlessly I love all these tips that you gave because these are things that we can start doing and start implementing into our lives, take action, and then being able to also contact people like yourself to be able to guide us even then further if if we need to. so How do people reach you? Your website is a way to be able to do it. And what are, ah yeah, can you share?
00:47:43
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they can they can ah book a free conversation with me, you know, to find out what they need. And also I have a community and school. Might you guys know what is school? It's S-K-O-O-L.
00:47:55
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dot com is a ah community page like basically they have many communities that my community called release with ease so if someone goes to school.com skol.com you just search for release release with ease and basically you can find my communities free to join and I have also meditation library there courses there and then live ah group sessions with me so it's it's easy to connect with me there and and find support Thank you so much. Thank you, Adit, for sharing that. Adit, I always like to ask the guests if there is something else you want to make sure to share with the audience that have not asked you. I think we covered a lot, so I'm really happy.
00:48:38
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Thank you so much again for being such an insightful guest, sharing so much information. and people can also reach your books then as well. So on your website, there's the links to all the resources that you mentioned and you the link to also being able to get your books. And a lot most of them are on Amazon, if I'm not mistaken. Yes, if they go to Amazon and just ah put my name in, Edit Be Kiss, and they can find my books there. Yeah. And I'll put the links of your website and on the show notes. Thank you, Edith.
00:49:10
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Thank you so much. Thank you, everybody.
00:49:22
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00:49:35
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00:49:51
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