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Speaker: While we're sending our children, we look up and we realize that our parents are becoming younger. In my case, my mother died for cancer, us.
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Speaker: Colombia, nosotros en Estados Unidos.
Speaker: Hola, bienvenidos al podcast Grief, Gratitude and the Gray in Between, historias de duelo y gratitud. Este podcast fue creado para explorar los sentimientos de pérdida y duelo que se viven en diferentes momentos
Speaker: It's my intention that people feel a little less alone in their struggle process, listening to Here goes the episode of today.
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Speaker: which is totally valid, are totally valid, that one can understand how much nostalgia you just
Speaker: or you're going to leave your children soon in university, maybe they're deciding to to and
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Speaker: Ahora, la otra parte del pedazo aquí del sándwich, es la parte de nuestros padres. Mientras estamos soltando a nuestros hijos, de repente miramos hacia arriba y ahora...
Speaker: Pero mi papi sigue con nosotros. Ninguno de cerca a donde vive mi papá. So it's something that we also have to look and grandparents live in Colombia, we are here in the United States.
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Speaker: in that role of their parents, and
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Speaker: like abrumados and also like we don't know where to go. It's difficult. And
Speaker: que tomar prioridad y tener más enfoque y luego otra cosa como que está, pasa segundo plano por un tiempo y luego cambia, ¿no? Entonces, eso es lo I'm going to go to school.
Speaker: it may be that I'm doing something like talking to someone, with someone, with a friend or something, I try to hold the phone to be able to pay attention when they at that moment.
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Speaker: o caminando mis perros, porque es cuando menos distracciones tengo, es cuando llamo a estar enfocada y hablando So those
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Speaker: Entonces ahí venía lo de balance, que no vamos a
Speaker: And third, support you in the Talk to to these podcasts also helps you feel part of community.
Speaker: partre sacomunia And I guarantee you that most people of our age are going through exactly the same. So, to speak, it takes that weight to silence and also helps the emotions. Also, maybe you can hear ideas of others, how they managing this new stage in their lives. that was what I wanted talk about today.
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Speaker: Date, de verdad, mucha
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Speaker: Les mando un abrazo grande y estamos en contacto. Chao.
Speaker: Gracias por elegir escuchar el episodio de hoy. Espero que hayas podido encontrar un poco de consuelo.
Speaker: Si acaso tú o alguien que conoces tiene una historia inspiradora de su proceso de duelo y gratitud, no dudes en contactarme. De nuevo, gracias por escuchar el podcast Grief, Gratitude and the Grey in Between. Historias de duelo y gratitud.
