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67. Breaking Generational Money Blocks: How Subconscious Work Unlocks Your Purpose
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Welcome back babes to It's Happening for Me! I'm your host, Ellisa Mae—a spiritual life coach and Akashic Records practitioner helping purpose-driven souls live their highest potential. This week’s episode is full of juicy insights and practical takeaways about money mindset, subconscious reprogramming, and the role of generational healing in creating true abundance.
Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode:
✨ Why money mindset work can feel like an uphill battle—and how subconscious work goes beyond the surface to create lasting change.
✨ My powerful session with a client uncovering the root cause of unworthiness seven generations ago—and how they healed it with subconscious techniques.
✨ The connection between the Akashic Records, subconscious programming, and neural encoding.
✨ Why journaling and affirmations aren’t enough to break through financial ceilings—and what actually works.
✨ How releasing negative emotions like shame and fear clears space for abundance and aligned manifestations.
✨ A sneak peek into my transformational 3-month coaching program, The Portal of You, designed for lightworkers, coaches, and healers ready to step into their confidence and claim their bigness.
Episode Highlights:
- Your subconscious holds the key: 95% of your behaviors, beliefs, and patterns come from subconscious programming. I break down how to access and heal the deep roots of limiting beliefs around money and self-worth.
- It’s safe, trauma-informed, and powerful: Learn why my methods are gentle yet transformative—no retraumatizing, just breakthroughs.
- Integration is key: Release what no longer serves you and make room for the identity of the abundant, confident, and magnetic person you are destined to be.
Join The Portal of You:
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- Bi-weekly transformational coaching sessions using NLP and subconscious reprogramming techniques.
- Weekly personalized Gene Keys audio readings for clarity on your gifts, shadows, and prosperity codes.
- Access to the Icon Alchemy Library, packed with EFT tapping and hypnosis sessions to elevate your mindset.
- Ongoing coaching support via Telegram.
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Transcript
Introduction to the Podcast
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Hello, my babes. Welcome to the It's Happening for Me podcast. I am your host, Alyssa, and I am here as a spiritual life coach and an Akashic Records practitioner to really inspire and guide purpose seekers and spiritual leaders like you to live your soul's purpose with confidence. Each week we dive into spirituality, personal growth and development, gene keys, Akashic Records,
00:00:28
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And we explore the subconscious mind through personal stories and experiences, learning life's biggest lesson that it is all happening for us. So welcome back, my faves. If you are watching on video, then you can see it might set up. Okay. Like this year.
Expanding Podcast Visibility
00:00:46
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going, it's still 2024, but going into 2025, I really, really, really want to focus on expanding the podcast, expanding my visibility. And so I am taking this podcast onto YouTube, which I'm so excited for. And it's so funny, you guys, because literally like the past couple of weeks, I have been going back and forth, trying to figure out like,
00:01:08
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some sort of setup right I'm like okay I need some sort of like background or some sort of like backdrop like how do I want it and I've been looking everywhere in person at stores I've been looking on Amazon and literally like nothing feels like the vibe I'm just like I don't like anything. And then I was like, wait, why don't I just literally turn my desk back around facing my wall, which I feel like is so me. And then if you can see, if if you're watching on video, then you can see um the background. But I also have like my plants here, a little salt lamp. And then I have it. I got the new TikTok chair, you guys, like the new white. It's like a white
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um it's like a white kind of like fuzzy fleece material. And the whole thing is that the seat cushion is like extra big and wide so that you can actually put your feet up and sit crisscross, which I'm like, oh my God, if you know me, literally I'm always sitting with my legs up, like even at my desk at work, even like when I'm eating anywhere I go, like I literally just like to have my feet up, like my legs up like close to me.
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And I'm like, I don't know if that's like my Taurus moon energy where I just want to be like cozy and comfy, but it's such a vibe. So I'm so excited. It turned out so good. And yeah, I'm just so excited to bring video content.
Understanding Money Mindset Challenges
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So today you guys is a super juicy episode because I think this is something that all of us can relate to on the purpose path, especially on the sole business path right so whether you are starting out as a new coach, a new healer, a new guide, you're just
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um just starting to put your offers out there maybe you haven't even put any offers out there maybe you're going to start growing your social media presence in 2025 or maybe you're already a seasoned coach healer guide and you have like an in-person practice and now you really really really want to expand your reach so you're going to start you know creating an online presence so or maybe you are someone who is already a seasoned coach healer guide already has like a a big, you know, following and you're feeling very confident and showing up on socials, but there's still some sort of money mindset work that can be done. And it feels like no matter where you're starting on that scale, right? Like whether you've made zero dollars in your business or you've made a million dollars and you're looking to make two million, it's like wherever you are on that scale,
00:03:39
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There may be this part of you that feels like you're always doing this like money work, right? Like you're always doing this like money mindset work, but no matter what you do, you keep reaching these kind of like ceilings for yourself. um Or maybe you feel like you've been pretty stuck in the same place for a long time and you're like, what the hell is going on? Why can't I surpass this?
00:04:03
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money goal right and so I really want to talk today all about my version of money mindset work and how it literally has changed everything for me and specifically I'm going to talk about a client session that I had today because I think it's just so relatable to give you guys an actual example kind of of the work that I do with a subconscious mind and how it can really help um working with money mindset and any like poverty consciousness any like money blocks. So Just to first kind of start with some background. so I have done a lot of work around money. like i've done ah I've been in a lot of different programs. I've um i've tried everything. like I've tried journaling. I've tried um organizing my bank accounts, which really helped. I learned that from Natalia Benson. I love her teachings on like money and um like organization of money and really organizing your bank accounts. I did that back in, like I think, 2020.
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And so I have like all of my bank accounts super set up like what she teaches that I really love is kind of like any income that you have coming in kind of like creating a percentage system and putting a certain percentage of the the of the actual like chunk of money that comes in towards like the accounts that you have set up so like one would be like expenses, right? Like monthly expenses, which is where like all your bills come out of. Another one could be um like your weekly, like like living expenses, like food, gas, stuff like that. And then what's really fun that I love how she teaches is she also like makes it like really fun. So also there's an account for literally you can have account for like fun or like an account for like um shopping, an account for vacation. You can have an account for,
00:05:48
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whatever it is, right? um And so also like a tax account is a really great idea to start setting aside a chunk of money every single every single time that you make, whether it comes from, um I don't know, like a $10 ebook that you sell all the way up to like your highest maybe like one-on-one or like mastermind group programs. like Any of that income that comes in, assigning the dollars to the certain accounts just keeps everything super organized. So anyways, I love her so much.
00:06:17
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um that's where I learned that from. And that has been really cool. So that's that's been really cool to have my money financially like organized. Now, i I've done a lot of other stuff as well. And there was always just still kind of like, just something wasn't happening. like I was like, why am I not selling my offers? like why is like My offers are, I feel like they're really cool. I feel like I'm showing up. And so there's still something that's happening where like I'm not selling them.
00:06:47
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And I'm so excited you guys that I never gave up on my business because things have completely changed for me. I talk about this in the past couple of episodes, but things have completely changed for me in my business and I feel like the faucet is turned on and like I am selling my offers and I have clients and it feels so exciting. And it's honestly, I attribute it to, I attribute it to a lot of things in the past couple of months, but a huge part of it is the subconscious work, okay?
Roots of Money Mindset Issues
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And the thing is, is that when we're trying to heal money blocks at the conscious level, whether that's like journaling or like doing reflective questions or trying to find the root cause of something, we're really only accessing what we can logically remember through our conscious mind, right? And the truth is where most of our, um, the root cause, if we want to get to the root cause of any issue that we're having in our life, specifically today, we're talking about money, we honestly
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have developed the root causes, usually between, there's a couple of options, either between the ages of zero to seven, right, which is when, um that is when our, um our brains were still developing, right. And we were like an open, um Like we're almost like a notepad or like a sponge soaking in everything from our parents, our caregivers, um whatever we see online, whatever we see on television, society, our grandparents, all of the thoughts and beliefs that are coming from everyone outside of ourselves. We're just taking that in, right? And we're just assuming that to be true. And we're just programming our minds with like, oh, this is truth. This is facts.
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where We can also have beliefs and um programs that we're running off of from past generations. We can also have programs and beliefs that we're running off of from past lives. And so if we're only trying to you know consciously think back to a time of like, oh, I remember a time maybe like in high school when my parents were got divorced And I'll speak to my for like a personal example like okay I remember back when like before my parents got divorced in high school before that um we like I could literally buy whatever I wanted like I like could go shopping and my dad would give me money or um we could we often went out to eat as a family together like all the the time we went to eat out.
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And then once my parents got divorced, like things kind of shifted. And now it was like, oh, um it wasn't just like so free that I was able to receive money. And so if I was only trying to um heal that block or solve that based off of like that conscious memory, then I wouldn't actually be getting to the root of the money problems or like the money blocks, right?
00:09:39
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so I want to talk about um the session that I had with my client today, which was so awesome. So what we did today with my client was so profound because we used the
00:09:57
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Okay, we have interruption. We have a Mr. Peanut here. Hello, say hello world. He would not stop um talking to me because he wanted to join us. So this is Peanut and he's going to be up here with us now.
00:10:16
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Okay, son. Okay. what I did with my client was today was so profound because she has also been working on her money mindset a lot over the past couple of years, right? And um she has done like work and understanding certain emotions that she feels around receiving. And she's done all the work of like what's consciously there, right? Of like how she grew up, how she grew up in her immediate family, all of those things. And there was still something that was like really holding her back from feeling like she's able to
00:10:53
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feel comfortable and confident and okay to receive money, to receive help, to receive gifts, right? There was some part of her that still was holding on to this feeling of shame and unworthiness, okay? That's kind of like the root cause and that is something that just by like conversating with you, right? Like in a session and just you on your own, just anyone on your own, you can have these conversations, you can do these deep interreflective works, you know whether that's through journaling or talking to somebody talking it out, you can come to that conclusion of like what those root causes are, right?
00:11:30
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And pretty much a big, huge part of the time, like ah like very often, it's gonna come back to those core negative emotions, which is like fear, shame, unworthiness, right? And so she already knew that. And so it's like, okay, how can we actually go in and shift this now once and forever?
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And even just talking with her right in our session when we're really talking about, like okay, how does it actually show up for you? How is this actually a problem in your life? And you can just feel the heaviness, you can just feel um the turmoil that this unworthiness around receiving is causing her. you know She has goals of going full-time in her business and and she has all of these financial goals that she wants to to achieve for herself, which all of us can relate to. right And there was just it's just like, why? Why is it that it's so hard? And why do I have so much unworthiness around money?
Techniques for Subconscious Exploration
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So we were able to do one of my favorite techniques, which is all about neural encoding work. And so essentially what this is, is all of us, OK, we store our past, present, and future memories
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in a different way. So all of us have our own unique way of storing this information in our subconscious mind. And so with this technique, we're able to actually go in and figure out how do you store it, right? Like what does it look like? We're able to like get this model of how you store past, present, and future memories. And then we're able to go in and talk to your subconscious mind and find the root cause of when did this feeling, for example, unworthiness around money, or just unworthiness in general, when did this start? And it was so fascinating, you guys, because when we were consciously speaking, and this always happens, like we have an idea of when it started, right? Like a memory.
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But what actually usually happens is it's something that like it's it's it's actually something else. It's usually something else because again, it's going to it's going to probably be stored from the ages of zero to seven, either generationally, past generations or past lives. And so we did the technique and she found out ah we found the root cause was from seven generations ago, you guys, seven generations. And what's so fascinating is that when we're talking to the subconscious mind,
00:14:04
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It just gives us the answers. like It's literally just boom. Just if I was to ask you, think of a number from zero to 62. Go, tell me a number. That number probably popped into your head really fast. You're like, oh my God, where the fuck did that come from? right and like That's how the subconscious mind works. and so We found we were able to pinpoint this cause of this unworthiness around money from seven generations ago.
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and then we're able to go in with another technique that's associated with this past, present, and future encoding. And we're able to go back to that past event, right? And again, it doesn't need to be, um it's not always something that you necessarily remember or like see something. Usually when we're talking to the subconscious mind, it's just like a sense of what happened. Obviously she doesn't have a memory of um seven generations ago. You know, she's not like looking at this,
00:14:57
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She's not like, oh, all of a sudden they have this memory of something that happened seven generations ago. I can literally see it. Hold on, let me let Pina down. Do you want down, buddy? Let me see it.
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Okay. Um, it's not like she's actually like seeing the memory, right? Right. But it's more of just like a sense. It's a subconscious mind talking to you. So we were able to go back in time through this technique and essentially connect to that time seven generations ago, and then get the teachings, get the learnings of what did this, why did this happen? What are we here to learn from this pattern? What does our soul want to teach us about this thing?
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that happened, that created, that was the root cause of our unworthiness around money and just unworthiness in general, we can say. And um it's it's fascinating, you guys. It's fascinating because the the teachings and the lessons just were flowing. Like it was just boom, boom, boom, boom. And that's what's so freaking cool about working with a subconscious mind and is like,
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If you have to stop and like think about something and really ponder it, you're in the conscious mind. right you're not and We're not in the place where you're just accessing that like that inner knowing that is just like firing off. and so We got all of these lessons, all of these juicy teachings from what that experience was supposed to teach her.
00:16:27
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And it's just, it's so beautiful. You know, it's always it's it's always something very beautiful of like, um you know, like you are enough. Like you were you are worthy just as you are. There's nothing that you need to do to be deserving of love and affection and money and all of the things, right? And so we got all the teachings and then we're able to um basically heal that right so continue with the technique heal that come back and then afterwards just speaking with her after we complete the technique it's like looking at a completely different person you guys
00:17:04
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She even said that she even felt like a physical shift happened and she felt lighter. Her face was brighter. She looked happier, more joyful, loved, and it was just so cool. like The synchronicities are so, so cool.
Linking Akashic Records and Subconscious Work
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um And I also really attribute this as well to, like, the subconscious mind is also really connected to the Akasha, right, and the Akashic Records in my opinion, because it really is, if you think about it, the Akashic Records, right, are a library of up ah basically a record of our souls from past, present, and future possibilities. Everything to ever happen, to ever think, to ever be done is recorded in our record, right? it's Everything is recorded. And even in the jean keys, this is why I just love what I do because everything is so fucking connected, to you guys. It's insane. But even in in the jean keys, um I forget what jean key number it is, but
00:18:08
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It talks about how one of the shadows of dishonor happens because people don't realize that every deed, every behavior, every action, every word is recorded. and so If people were aware of that, right we wouldn't have this dishonor, which leads to like infidelities, essentially leads to like war. right It's like people are not connected to the fact that everything is written, everything is recorded, right? It's like, we're all connected. And I love that the Gene Keys also talk about the Akasha because it's like, it is, everything is fricking connected. And I feel like the subconscious mind is the same, like, and everything that's ever been, everything that we've ever done, said, heard is recorded. It's in there and it's imprinted in us.
00:19:03
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And through these techniques, we're able to access them even seven generations ago, even past lives, we're able to connect to them and heal and find the root cause of wherever this negative emotion is that's really, you know, kind of hindering our life. Another thing I want to say about this too, because I do a lot of um re releasing negative emotion work.
Releasing Negative Emotions
00:19:24
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And sometimes people feel like, wait, I don't want to like release anger or sadness because what is life without anger or sadness? It's not like I never want to feel those things again. And that's not what it means at all. Like whenever we do the work of releasing a negative emotion through the subconscious mind.
00:19:39
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We're essentially releasing them in terms of like how they are creating a problem in your life, right? They're holding so you back in some way in life. And so we're going back and releasing those and releasing the root cause. And that doesn't mean that you're never going to feel anger again, or you're never going to feel sadness again. 100% of course you are.
00:19:58
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But we're releasing this whole that it has like somatically on you and also just like in your subconscious mind that is blocking you from taking the steps or taking the actions to move on, move on with your life and go after your dreams, turn into your highest potential, right?
00:20:16
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um which I just think is so beautiful. so yeah I just wanted to share that with you. and so It's so interesting because then what we did is we went in and did a hypnosis to really connect her to this identity of the woman who has achieved this financial goal that she wants to achieve. right and so What I love so much about also about the work that I do is like it's it's a It's basically a series of releasing something. We have to release something to make room for something new. So if we were to just um maybe like only try to program in this identity of this woman who has achieved this financial goal,
00:20:59
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And we didn't go in and first release the unworthiness. She might still be able to manifest it, right? Because the subconscious mind is fucking powerful. Hypnosis works, you guys. i I honestly attribute a lot of the success I have and like all of the things that I've created in the past, whatever, like six months.
00:21:16
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to to hypnosis because I just listen to them on repeat every single night before I go to sleep. But um yeah, it's like she might still be able to attain the thing, but she might not be able to hold on to it because then there might, you know, she might start self sabotaging or other things might happen where she can actually hold on to the manifestation because she still has this belief of unworthiness. And in fact, the unworthiness is so ingrained and so strong that it would be very difficult still to like manifest the thing even through the hypnosis, even though hypnosis is really powerful, if that makes sense. So it's just like such a beautiful system of like releasing the thing so that that's no longer there, making room for the new. And then we can program in using whatever techniques like hypnosis, for example,
00:22:05
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to program in the identity of the person who has achieved the goal of what she wants to achieve. um And then I thought it was so special, too, because in the hypnosis, like I also added in those lessons that she learned from um her higher self, from healing that from what that unworthiness was telling her from seven generations ago.
00:22:27
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So it was just so beautiful, you guys. It was such a beautiful session. Literally, it felt like a weight was just taken off of her. And I'm so excited to see um yeah how things unfold for her. And I'm so excited, too, because um we have like this, she created this special like little sign to like know exactly like what to do when she receives it.
00:22:49
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And so I can't wait to see like when she does. doesn um But yeah, I just wanted to share that because I feel like if you have tried to do, and if not even tried, but if you've done so much mindset work and you're still kind of like, wait, like I've done the mindset work, I thought I knew what the cause of this was of like my parents' relationship, like looking at your parents' relationship to money or looking at a time where, um you know, maybe you had a difficult experience with money,
00:23:17
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Like a lot of times these, the root cause wasn't actually like a traumatic event. It wasn't something that was like life altering or significant. Of course it could be, but a lot of times it wasn't. A lot of times the root cause is very subtle and it either happened between zero and seven in the womb or past lives or past generations.
00:23:39
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And for a lot of us, especially healers, coaches, and guides, we're like breaking generational curses. Like we're breaking generational patterns. and so most likely you probably have generational things that is still kind of there. Like ah the residue of it, that's still kind of sticky. And so it's just about like getting to the root cause of it and simply shifting it. And what's mind blowing to me, you guys is like, it's so simple. It's so simple and it's very, very safe and trauma informed because you don't have to re-experience the thing. Like, right? Like we find the root cause.
00:24:18
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But the way that we do it, like we're so we're disassociated from the emotion and the experience itself. So you're not going back to that day and like having to relive it and having to you know experience the hardships. like No, that would be it's unnecessary. right And that's also retraumatizing. So this is a very safe, a very um gentle approach, which is also what i love why I love the jinkies too, because it's all about gentleness, patience, inquiry.
00:24:47
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um and contemplation. And that's literally like what subconscious work is too. It's crazy to me. Like, I don't know. I'm just, I love you guys. I love, I've been finding myself saying this a lot. I love my life. I love my life. I love my purpose. I'm so excited. I feel like just everything is so inflow. And I'm like, I guess this is what alignment is. um It also really did help. I think when pluia when Pluto came out of Capricorn, that's the planet, right? That everyone's talking about.
00:25:19
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I forget, I'm not super great at astrology, but um I have like six planets in Capricorn. So just that shift alone has been feeling like so much expansion and like open up openness for me. um But yeah, I just wanted to share that with you because if you have been struggling with money mindset, highly recommend doing some subconscious work around it. um Right now, the only way to work with me and use these subconscious modalities is through the portal of you. And so just to share a little bit about that with you guys, if you have um seen me talk about it, if this is your first time hearing about it, ah it is my signature program, which is my life's work, you guys. This is everything combined that I
00:26:02
Speaker
have gone through myself and also have just like learned and it is my passion. It is incredible. So it is a 90 day or three month one to one signature program, which is really like an activation for light workers, coaches and healers to really step into their deep seated confidence to live your purpose, live your life's work and become the expert, iconic coach healer that you are. So it's all about really figuring out what is your big yes. Like what is your big yes in your business? What is that next step? Is it visibility? Is it, you know, becoming more visible? Is it being consistent in a new
Portal of You Program
00:26:45
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platform, YouTube, for example? Is it growing your podcast? Is it
00:26:49
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um creating your signature offer? Is it growing your audience? Is it um an income milestone? like Whatever that big yes is in your business and a lot of it is around confidence and like the identity of stepping into and claiming your bigness, claiming your expertise, coming out of the spiritual closet, you know being comfortable, being visible and expressing yourself, sharing your gifts with the world, right all of that. so It's essentially that and it is my one to one coaching container. So essentially, we meet um twice a month. So we meet every other week to go through my five step manifestation process. And this is where I guide you through like all of my neural programming linguistic techniques.
00:27:38
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neuro-linguistic programming techniques the other way around. NLP, I'm just so used to saying NLP you guys, but then I'm like, okay, for the people who don't know it, like let me just say it out and then I completely set up the reverse, but NLP, neuro-linguistic programming techniques. What this is, is this is techniques to work directly with the subconscious mind. so How is this helpful? Well, most people you know try to go about making changes only at the behavioral level.
00:28:08
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For example, say I love this example, cause it's just so like, we can all relate to this. Say you want to start working out, right? And you're like, okay, I really, really, like my nearest resolution is like, I really want to start working out this year. I bought a gym membership, let's go. And so at the behavioral level, some things that you might do is you might set your shoes and your gym workout clothes out the night before. You might set your alarm clock for 5 AM, have your gym bag packed and plan ahead to go to the gym.
00:28:36
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And this might work like the first couple of days, weeks, this, maybe it'll never work. It never worked for me. And the reason why it doesn't actually last is because you're only changing yourself at the behavioral level, right? Of like doing the things, putting out the clothes, putting on the alarm clock. The way to actually make lasting change is at the purpose and the identity level, which can only be accessed through the subconscious mind.
00:29:00
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So when we work with a subconscious mind, we are going in and we're actually changing the neural pathways that create that are there from the habits that you have created for yourself over many years, right? So like I'm 34 turning 35. If I'm just going in and trying to put my shoes out and put my alarm clock on at 5am, but my whole life for 34 years, I have not gone to the gym. Every time that I've tried, I've given up, right? Like I have these like habits and these beliefs in place.
00:29:35
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Who am I? um I'm nervous to go to the gym. i I don't want to look stupid in front of everybody. I don't know what I'm doing. um That's too early, right? All of the excuses and all of the limiting beliefs, all of the fears are going to override me just putting my clothes out for the day. So when we go in at the um subconscious level, we actually go in and we literally change and we wrote reprogram those neural pathways to fit new beliefs, to fit new habits, to fit new behaviors. And this is all from changing ourselves at the um identity level. We literally become the identity of the person who is a badass fitness queen who loves going to the gym, she loves making working out her priority,
00:30:25
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She feels comfortable in the gym. She knows exactly what she's doing. right So we like we install all of these new these new beliefs about ourselves that are going to support us in the actual behavior itself. Then the behaviors become automatic. Then we're not fighting ourselves. It's releasing the resistance. We are going in and we're releasing all of the fears about ourselves, all of the limiting beliefs, all of the reasons of why we can't do this, and we're installing the new ones. and So when we get the subconscious mind on board, everything else just goes on autopilot. Just like how when you drive to work and you take the same route every single day,
00:31:02
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You're on autopilot. Like there might be times where like you're spacing out or like you're listening to a podcast or like listening to music and you're like, wait. Oh my God. I like don't even remember looking at the road. Like how the fuck did I actually get to my destination? Right? Like how did I not like dying crash? Cause I don't remember driving here. It's like our subconscious mind kicks in on those automatic behaviors and patterns and just takes over like our, it just takes our body over.
00:31:27
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just kind of like when we're breathing, right? we um We don't think about breathing, right? We don't have to think about breathing. We don't have to consciously think about it. It's something that we just do subconsciously. It's just an an automatic thing that our body does.
00:31:43
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so The way that this is so helpful for healers, coaches, and guides who are trying to really become that iconic like coach and and leader, if you were to work with if you were to work on the advice of like, oh, just go live on Instagram once a week, um that will create a following. And like that's it. That's all you have to do, which was actual advice that I had from a business coach before. OK, the problem is, what if when you go to press Live on your phone,
00:32:13
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You literally start sweating. You have heart palpitations. Your mouth goes dry. You literally feel like you're going to die because that is the scariest shit that you've ever done in your life, right? And you feel like you're literally going to die. Chances are you're not going to press live and you're not going to do it. And maybe you do do it once and it feels horrible. And then maybe you'll do it a couple more times, but chances are If you have that much resistance towards it, like you're not going to do it. And then you're going to beat yourself up and go into a shame spiral of like comparing yourself to others and seeing everyone else doing these incredible things. And you're like, Oh my God, why can they go live all of the time and just look so confident and like so effortless, but I'm so in my head and I'm so scared. Or like, Oh my God, why can they create consistent content?
00:32:59
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every single week, but here I am procrastinating and struggling. And I just have so many ideas, but I can't seem to like get anything out or, Oh my God, why do they seem to just effortlessly, um, you know, attract and book out their offers. And I can't get anyone to sign up with me, even though I'm talking about it every day and I'm posting about it, like what's going on? All of these things, right? That happen on the entrepreneurial path, especially on the spiritual business path, or even Oh my God, i I want to share, I want to speak, but I'm so worried about what people from high school are going to think, what my family members are going to think. I don't want people to think I'm crazy. like um you know Talking about spiritual things, like I'm scared to look like
00:33:43
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crazy, right? And so it's like, how do I overcome this? And it's so hard and like, blah, blah, blah. And then we just keep staying stuck. And all of those excuses, all of those fears, all of those limiting to beliefs, the limiting belief of like, oh my God,
00:33:58
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I'm so far behind. like There's a million coaches. there's It's so saturated. There's so many astrologers. There's still so many people talking about human design. Oh my God, everyone's a business coach. Who would want to listen to me? right and We listen to those negative little dumb-ass voices in our head. and I am going to call them dumb-ass voices because they are dumb-ass voices. They're lies.
00:34:20
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and What we do is when we work together at the subconscious level, we bring all of those things up to the surface. We bring all of those things up and we're able to release them. We're able to release them for good and call in and program in the identity of someone who is a confident, expert, iconic coach and healer guide.
00:34:42
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They don't give a fuck. Of course, they care about what other people think about them. Yes. like I feel like that never actually goes away, but they are not hiding out anymore because they're so worried about what people from their small town think about them. They are so tuned into their mission. They're so tuned into their purpose that nothing is going to get in their way. um You become someone who knows exactly who you're speaking to. you know You're the exact person that you're speaking to and the exact problem that you're solving. so It becomes easier to create content And then the content funnels them into the offer the paid offer that you have right because you want to make this your life's work you want to make this eventually your full time thing. And if you don't, that's fine as well. This is also going to be a side thing, but a lot of people want to make this their full time business.
00:35:28
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and so it's like We work on all of that together. The other coolest thing is every Monday, I'm sorry. I don't know. I'm saying Monday, but right now it's Monday for the clients I have. It could be a different day, but every single week on a certain day of the week, it'll probably be Monday. Cause I'll probably just keep it the same for everyone. But you're going to receive, uh, gene keys, audio, um,
00:35:52
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an audio Jane Keys reading via telegram. So this is a literal transmission of your Jane Keys going through every single sphere and the genius and the Pearl sequences. So genius is your four prime gifts.
00:36:07
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And then the pearl sequence is how to really step into service um and how does it really step into prosperity, wealth, and abundance through being of service to others, sharing your gifts. So essentially every single Monday you will receive this incredible voice note reading telling you what your genius is, telling you what makes you so special, telling you what your life's work is, what your purpose is, the biggest soul lesson you're here to learn, um your radiance, what keeps you healthy and radiant.
00:36:34
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you learn your vocation, which is like the biggest core talent that you're here to share with the world. You learn your culture, which is how to, the exact frequency
Unlocking Personal Confidence with Gene Keys
00:36:44
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that will repel clients and money from you and the exact frequency and how to shift that into the exact frequency of attracting people to you like a magnet. It teaches you your brand. So like what your unique truth is that you're here to share with the world and also your Pearl, which is all about how does your soul want to experience money and how are you either over complicating things and really blocking it and how can you make things very simple and calling more money into your life? So and then we I also go through all of the shadows there as well. So it's like you're learning your exact shadows and these very specific themes of life, exactly how to alchemize them into the gifts, exactly how you will
00:37:27
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be going in and out of the enlightened states as you are living more in the gift frequency and the exact expression that your soul is here to be in so that you know how to show up on socials you know how to you know the frequency that is the most authentic like when people tell you just be you right just be yourself it's all within you the answers are within you just be yourself what the actual fuck does that mean right like That's what I wanted to know when I was on my spiritual awakening journey and all my purpose journey and all my business journey and all the advice was like, it's in you. The answer lies within you. Be more yourself. It's like, what does that actually mean? With these this system, I'm able to literally guide you through what that actually means very specifically, very, very specifically in all of those themes of life. and so
00:38:20
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What does that do? That and unlocks insane confidence, you guys. you You already know what your purpose is. You already know who you want to help. There's just a part of you that is like torn, a little confused. Maybe it feels a little too big. Maybe it feels a little too audacious, a little too out there. And it's like, no, if you have a vision, if you have an idea, if you have an inkling of something that excites you and makes you really excited to wake up every day and do that thing, then that is the thing.
00:38:52
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And with this system, with these, you know, audio transmissions that I'm giving you that are so personalized to you, they're based on your chart, right? They're so individualized.
00:39:03
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That is going to unlock this insane confidence because you're like, oh my God, you're right. I meant for that. It is bigger than a permission slip. It is a divine connection to source, to God, to the universe, a bigger understanding of like, holy shit, I'm meant for this. So it gives you insane clarity. And when you have that clarity, when you have that confidence, you are able to show up and speak directly to the person.
00:39:31
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day The days of questioning your niche and like, oh my God, I don't want to niche down. I'm a multi-passionate person. You can't put me in a box for sure. 100% you are and absolutely no one can put you in a box. But if you don't even know who you are talking to and you don't have a clear offer that it's paid where people can pay you for your gifts and your services and no one knows what the fuck you do or who you help or how you help them and you're just like, you know, you're just all over the place, which is great, right? We can all be multidimensional.
00:40:07
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No one wants to put you in a box. But if you cannot clearly say, this is why you need this. And I am your motherfucking girl. I am your girl. I am that bitch. I am here. I am the one that you need, right? it's like I think a big huge part as well of like what was really holding me back for so long in my business is like I did not understand marketing. like I did not fucking understand marketing or business. I'm a spiritual person. I'm a spiritual person. I have gifts. I love my systems. I love human design. I love the jean keys. I love Akashic Records. I love channeling. I loved Oracle cards. I loved Tarot.
00:40:47
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I'm not a business person. I did go to school. I did go to college for business, um business management, but I honestly, and like minor in entrepreneurship, but that has not helped me in my business, right? And so I think what happens a lot, especially as spiritual people, we have so many ideas. We have so many ideas. We have so many passions, rightfully so.
00:41:09
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But business, if we want to be ah business a business, the number one thing in a business is you have to make money. Otherwise, you're not a business. If you're not making money, you're not a business. You can be on the way to making money, right which is what I did for a lot of years. like I did not make ah money in my business for like the first three years. right Maybe a reading here and there I would sell, but I never had an actual offer that I was like,
00:41:36
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that I actually stuck with, right? I always was going back and forth, changing my niche, launching an offer and and talking about it for one day and then like taking it off and never talking about it again, creating four different websites, putting them out there, but then again, taking them off and like never talking to them about them again. It's like the days are over, you guys, of us fucking around and being confused or being all over the place. We, if you actually wanna, your goal is to help people, right? Your goal is to help people.
00:42:06
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you need to get them into the door so that they can be helped by you. And so what I have loved so much that I've learned from my mentor is you don't need to niche down, right? Don't worry about picking a niche, but your offers should be very specific. Your offers should have a niche. Your offer should know exactly who that's helping, exactly how it helps them, so that it's so easy you guys to create content and create copy and tell the people what this is here. And then you can create a different offer that can be a completely different ah aspect of you.
00:42:46
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and you can create a different offer that's a completely different aspect of you, a completely whatever, you can change the modality of the vehicle, you can change so many things about it, right? And then eventually you'll have this beautiful platter, this beautiful offer suite of all of these offers that are little pieces of you because you're multidimensional, but each one is very specific because otherwise nobody is going to join something that they don't understand what the fuck it is or how it helps them, right?
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um
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And yeah, this is for me just as much as this is for you, this like little transmission. and um But yeah, I feel like yeah me working with a business coach, which I work with now, her helping me with my marketing has done so much for me because now I'm very clear on who I help. I'm very clear on the offer that I have and like what does it do for the person.
00:43:41
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People don't care about our modalities, right? People don't care about the jinkies. People don't care about human design. People don't care about astrology. People don't care about Reiki. People don't care about tarot. People don't care about the modality. They don't care about mindset. They don't care about subconscious mind reprogramming. What they care about is their problem getting solved.
00:44:10
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the problem that is keeping them up at night, the problem that they're like, God, like I just want this to be solved. They want it to be solved from you. they They're looking to have it solved from someone that they want to spend time with, that is relatable, that they like, that shares the same values, which is why it's so important to like really put ourselves into, you know it's really important to build a personal brand so that people are connecting with us and they want to work with us. There are thousands of subconscious mindset coaches, thousands of people talk about human design, thousands of people, it I'm sure talk about Akashic Records, but it's like putting out your own story and connecting it to you is what is going to help them. So essentially that's a lot of what we work on um in the part of you. And it's because you're able to really identify all of these little layers of yourself through
00:45:06
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your soul codes through your gene keys, right? For example, something you guys ah unlocked everything for me and gave me life was my life's work, which makes up 75% of our personality, 70%. I'm like, my mind is like, I just saw so many different numbers. It makes up 70% of our personality. This is our conscious side, okay? Here I have gate 54 in human design or gene key 54 in the gene keys.
00:45:34
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And 54 is Capricorn energy. It's all about aspiration. It's all about aspiring. It's all about climbing the ladder spiritually and materially and having both success. It's having success um spiritually, but with this energy, you cannot get to spiritual success without getting to monetary success. So the people who, you know,
00:46:00
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shun the the material success and say, I don't want to charge for my gifts. I don't want to. um become wealthy, right? Because there's there's old programming, old money mindset programs about what it means to be wealthy, what it means to be a person who makes a lot of money. They have negative beliefs around what that means. That is going to hinder their spiritual growth as well, especially with this energy. And so I know that it is my mission to bring it to the forefront of spiritual leaders and healers to know that you can have both. You can 100%
00:46:35
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make a lot of money. You can charge for your gifts. You can charge for your work. This is your life's work. This work is more important in my opinion than any work, right? Just like we need doctors. We need holistic doctors. We need alternative medicine. We need those people to help keep us healthy and to keep us living. We also need you. We also need spiritual practitioners who are helping people at the emotional, spiritual levels, right?
00:47:02
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We need people who are helping people tune into their divinity, connecting them back to source, connecting them back to themselves. This work is the most important work, especially going into where like we want to heal the collective. As a Lightworker, you know that you came here for a purpose, to help other people heal and to step into their wholeness. And so you deserve to be abundant. All of us deserve.
00:47:30
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to be abundant, to be wealthy, to be prosperous, to have more than enough money, more than enough opportunities to experience luxuries. We deserve that. Why wouldn't you you deserve to be paid abundantly for also changing someone's life, right? It's not like but like If people are rich off of, um one of my mentors also talks about this, like how like people can get rich off of dropshipping mascara wands to the masses. They can literally create a business of just dropshipping mascara wands, the cheapest product, the cheapest quality to millions of people and they're millionaires.
00:48:15
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Why wouldn't you also deserve to be a millionaire from sitting with a conscious soul across from you and healing their suffering, helping them awaken yeah to their divinity, helping them transform their life, helping them in some way, right? Why wouldn't you be able to be a millionaire from that? That's ludicrous that you wouldn't. You absolutely can.
00:48:40
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And it's honestly um it's honestly not as far away than a lot of us think. It's not far away. The only thing stopping us, you guys, is our mindset. The only thing stopping us is our energetics around it, is the safety that we feel in our bodies to go out into the world and to express ourselves. If you do not feel safe to get onto camera and talk and share your truth with the world,
00:49:09
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You will never do it. You will go another gear without living your purpose, without sharing your voice, without talking about your opinions, without believing that your voice is good just as it is. The way that you speak is perfect. The way that your tone of voice is, your mannerisms, the words that come out of you is absolutely perfect because that tone, that inflection, that frequency, if you're, you know, being your authentic self,
00:49:39
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and showing up is going to go like this, like little sparkles, and it's gonna reach the people who are in your fractal line waiting to hear from you. There's already people out there searching for what you have. I actually did a TikTok on this, I think yesterday, talking about how ah it's not our job, you guys, as healers, lightworkers, coaches, it's not our job to awaken the souls around us. You don't need to,
00:50:08
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First of all, it's impossible for us to wait awaken anybody, right? That's crazy. Like we're not actually awakening anyone. and All we can do is just offer our help and our solutions and our wisdom to the people who have already awoken themselves and like they're looking for help. So my point from this is like, so many times people hold themselves back, coaches, spiritual coaches, healers, guides, they hold themselves back from sharing their gifts because they're like, okay, I live in a small town, for example, all everyone from high school, all of my relatives live here. None of them are spiritual. They think this shit it is crazy. If I
00:50:42
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create a YouTube channel or an Instagram. And I start speaking my truth and sharing myself and offering my services. They are going to think I'm crazy. And then this weird thing happens where you feel like you have to start teaching people or convincing them of why you're not crazy.
00:50:59
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and why this is and why they actually need your help and that's where we get sidetracked because I did this TikTok on where like a lot of like Spirit was showing me this image of like someone like a little healer girl like in her small town with her light on and she thought that her job was to go around to all the other little people in her town and turn on their light.
00:51:19
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right? Awaken them. Open their consciousness, like awaken them to the fact that they need her magic. And that's why she was so stuck and like, didn't want to keep going because that's a hard job. It's literally an impossible job. What spirit said is like, your job is not to turn on the light on anyone. Fuck those people in your small town with all respect. Your job is to shine your light so bright so that everyone else in the world whose light is already on and is on the internet, because thank God we have the internet now. This is a huge blessing. They're searching. Oh my God. I'm like, like they had a spiritual awakening and now they're like, Oh, I kind of heard about energy work. Wait, what's Reiki? I heard someone talk about Reiki. Okay. Let me search for a Reiki person near me. Let me search for a Reiki person online. And then
00:52:13
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You're going to pop up because you're committed to your visibility in 2025. You're putting out content daily. You're showing up. Your breaking shit is going to pop up on their search bar because you are in your fullest expression. You're showing up. You don't care what anyone says about you and they're going to find you. And thank God, because if you didn't do that and you kept your light small because you were worried about everyone in the small town, they would have never found you when they searched for help. And Yeah, that's like spirits, like biggest, like little metaphor. I don't even know if that's a metaphor is a word, but it's like, our job, you guys isn't to convince anybody.
Dealing with Skepticism in Spiritual Journeys
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It's not to pull anyone along. It's not to, um, convincing energy is repelling, right? Like even if your own partner thinks what you're doing is kind of dumb, keep going. Me and George were just talking about this, this week.
00:53:05
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but about how when I first started, like for like two, three years, he would be like, Oh my God, like that's so dumb. Like at first I started learning about Ayurveda and he would just call, um anytime I would talk about like tarot or like anything, like human design, he would call it Ayurveda. Cause that's the only like word he ever like he originally heard from me. He's like, nobody cares about Ayurveda. Your Ayurveda stuff is so dumb. like He's like, Alyssa, nobody's liking your stuff. like like Maybe it's time that you like try something else you know or go all in. like Quit your job and just go all in. like you know And he just didn't get it. But now he's like, oh, I get it now. like Thank God you didn't give up. like You knew your purpose. right like You knew your purpose. You knew your target audience. I didn't know anything about this stuff. Who was I to ever
00:53:51
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No. And now he's like, yeah, keep going. And he's very encouraging. Sometimes, like the people closest to us, it can be disappointing if they're not our biggest fans and our biggest supporters. But that doesn't mean that you need to leave them or, you know, you need to hide your gifts. It'll just sometimes it just takes people time to see, oh, wow, that's actually something, right? Because they don't understand it. And so how can you commit to 2025 and showing up despite what the people closest to you say and go all in on your purpose journey and on your sole business. That is why the portal of you is so helpful because you have me in your back pocket for three months. So it is so helpful, you guys, to surround yourself with like-minded people. If you don't have somebody who believes in you more than you believe in yourself, who sees the highest potential and truly believes that you can be successful and you your' your success, the way I see it, you guys, is like if you have the vision, if you have the idea,
00:54:49
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Your success is inevitable. The only thing stopping you is yourself. Your fears, your limiting beliefs, and your dumbass lies. Remember, I'm going to go outside dumbass, like your dumbass lies about yourself that are not true. So I'm there to be like, girl, nope, we're not thinking that anymore. No, no, no, no, no. Let's program this out, program in these new beliefs, and then ah Let's see what you can create with an actual plan, right? I'm very earth. Like my big three is all earth. So Capricorn sun, Taurus moon Virgo rising. It's very structured and it's very like material organized needle moving grounded. A lot of times as spiritual people, we are up here. We're up here.
00:55:37
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in the ethers where we have all of these ideas, so many good ideas. But then if you look at what you've actually done in the past three to six months, maybe you've done nothing with those ideas because it takes grounding them in a plan to put them into action. So I feel like that's where I can really help you thrive is like showing you, reflecting back to your genius, we can release any of the stuff that is blocking you up.
00:56:07
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programming in this expert iconic energy, and then ah moving the needle forward. So we have six calls together. Again, we meet every other week for the three months. And um that's via Zoom for our calls. And then we have you have the weekly Telegram audio jobs, and then you have coaching in Telegram for the week during business hours.
00:56:27
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So that's where you can share your insights with me. You can ask me anything about your gene keys, anything about the shadow gift or cities. Um, how does this apply in your business? Anything about, all um, anything about that of like creating content, how your biggest core talent, your vocation shows up, um, anything like that. I can coach you in the telegram, which is voice notes. And then.
00:56:52
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on our calls is where we do the actual techniques. We shift things and you leave feeling absolutely incredible. So you're on your way again for those two weeks, you have that like energetic upgrade, that activation and you are like on your way, like you are going and we're going through the plan that we set up for you. Um, another cool thing that I have is called the alchemy, the icon alchemy library, which is going to be a growing library of hyper specific EFT and hypnosis sessions.
00:57:20
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So EFT is emotional freedom technique, which is a tapping technique, which taps on the meridian points in your body. ah This isn't one.
00:57:34
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okay If you guys are listening on audio, I just showed the points. It is a tapping technique where you tap on the meridian points in your body but and you release the anxiety. You release the overwhelming emotions that you are in in the moment, and then we're able to go in and program in the feelings that you want to feel. This is incredible, you guys, for any time that you're feeling nervousness, anxiousness about like getting on a coaching call or posting the content showing up and you know saying yes to a new opportunity anytime that you're feeling that anxiousness in the moment this is a beautiful like somatic technique to get into your body and release the anxiety and then the hypnosis tracks are incredible to listen to i like to do them to where like you listen to them right before you go to sleep and like fall asleep to it
00:58:25
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And these are going to program and you guys the the identities of the person that you are becoming and they're going to be so specific you guys it's going to be like attracting dream clients seeing like stripe and PayPal notifications come in um it's going to be.
00:58:43
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Anything that you can think about like um in business and um spiritual business. like oh Being so clear on your ideal client and they just like come to you. It'll be once about how to tap into your higher self and get like the next steps on your purpose path. It'll be once about how to um be so excited to like show up, show your face, speak.
00:59:05
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to step into the iconic speaker that you're meant to be, right? To share your voice, to love your voice, um to feel confident in your sessions, right? To feel super confident in your sessions that you know exactly how to handle them, you are the icon, um and so many more. So those are really the main components. It is our calls. So our coaching calls,
00:59:29
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the weekly telegram audio drops of your specific readings, and then telegram coaching in between um yeah in between our sessions, and then access to the library. So it's so fun, you guys. I'm so excited. I'm actually taking this whole week off, um this whole Christmas week off. I do work to tomorrow.
00:59:49
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um It's getting late for me, but when your purpose calls, it's like, who cares about going to sleep on time? Just kidding. But yeah, I'm so excited because I'm taking like a big chunk of the Christmas week off um to um create even more of the icon library, the icon alchemy library, and to just like set myself up for 2025, which I highly recommend for everybody. so I'm so excited. i I'm also you guys going to be coming up with a special offer in January, um which is going to be a super juicy freebie. So stay tuned for that. I'm so excited to offer that.
01:00:30
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And if you are interested and ready to fricking go into the new year to step into your iconic expert coach healer guide energy, to release anything holding you back and just have that support, right? Like I can't even tell you like my day, my mood was completely lifted. Like when I had this call, like this morning, this coaching client call, I even felt so great for like the rest of the day. and That's just how it feels. Like it gets to feel like, I mean, honestly, I call in the absolute chef's kiss dream clients. Like absolutely. So if you feel a connection, if you feel like this is um a fuck yes for you and you're like, girl, like let's go. I still am offering this program for $500 off you guys until January.
01:01:16
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So January 2025, the price is 100% going up over $500. So be sure to get in now if you are ready and just know that you can get in now and we'll start um the year of January. So it's not like, it's like you can get in now for the savings. It's not like we're going to start during Christmas break. Like we're going to, where I'm taking that week off.
01:01:38
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um But I would just get in now so that you can literally get in for the $500 savings. um I do also offer payment plans. so If this is something that you've been eyeing and you've been like so excited about it, but you're just like ah like, the investment is just a little hard to do all at once, just send me a message, you guys. Send me a message, do the application, um or just send me a message on Instagram at IMLSMA.
01:02:01
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and um Yeah, we can absolutely figure out a payment plan. like Every single um program I've ever done, like I don't think I've ever paid in full. like That's just how my life is. like i'm I have so many different things going on. I've been like invested in so many different programs and coaches at the same time that like I need a payment plan. I'll always offer that to my people um to just make it more accessible. so Let me know if you have any questions. and Otherwise, I hope that this episode was um helpful. And if you have been struggling with those money blocks, with money mindset stuff, just know that it's probably something that has to do
01:02:39
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like in the womb or from zero to seven or past lives or past generations and we can easily shift it um at the subconscious level and ah get you into a place where you're like no longer holding onto that stuff and you can just receive, remove any blocks of shame, any unworthiness, whatever that negative emotion is to you that comes up around money and just move forward with your life and really step into that iconic expert leader that you know you are here to be, okay? so Thank you so much for joining me, you guys. I love you guys so much. I hope you have the best week and I will see you next time, okay? Bye-bye.