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Astrology and Dating Pt. 2: Separating the Stars from the Scrotes
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Introduction to Zodiac Signs Episode
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Welcome back to the Female Dating Strategy, the meanest female-only dating podcast on the internet.
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I'm your host, Diana.
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And I am Rose.
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And today we have Diana introducing us to the second half of our series on the zodiac and our astrological signs.
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As we wrap up the year, just some reminders to be true to who we are, to embrace the inherent essence of
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our natures, and to be as strategic as possible when taking them into account as we brave this whole new world of dating.
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And so last time we covered the signs Pisces to Leo, and this week we're going to cover the signs Virgo to Aquarius.
Exploring Virgo and Gemini Traits
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And I think that there's no better sign to start with than Virgo, because paying attention to the details is a bit of a Virgo specialty.
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And yeah, yeah.
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Virgo is an earth sign.
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It is ruled by the planet Mercury.
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And Gemini is also ruled by Mercury.
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But the expression of Gemini and Virgo are very different.
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So where Gemini is like a social chatterbox who gathers information through communicating with other people, Virgo does a lot through observation.
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And so I think us women can learn a lot from Virgo because Virgo is one of those signs that really does pay attention to the details and has a very high standard for themselves in general.
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Most of the Virgos I know are very meticulous about the things that they want and like in life.
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They have very, very particular taste.
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They can be very hypercritical.
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You know what?
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Most of the people you know who are spectacular at their craft sometimes are Virgos.
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Michael Jackson was a Virgo.
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Beyonce is a Virgo.
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Zendaya, I believe, is a Virgo.
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All of these high-achieving people who want their shit done in a specific way, most likely, they're a Virgo.
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Interesting.
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I'm just looking at the dates again.
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So...
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Virgo is born between... It'll usually be late August to like early September.
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Okay, okay.
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So I would say it's probably like August 25th-ish, I'm going to guess.
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Something like the 20-something sign.
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So like August 25th, August 24th, probably to September 23rd, I'm guessing.
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Yeah, it's like August 23rd to September 22nd.
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You're right on.
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I'm just wondering, you know, I'm looking through my contacts of like who my friends are because I write down all of their...
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birthdays because I hate to miss a birthday and nope that's the one who I thought would be a Virgo is actually born January 20th.
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I have a question for you Diana because you're talking like you have a lot of Virgos in your life like can you give me an example of one or two of them and how you're like this person is clearly a Virgo.
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Oh, yeah.
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So, I mean, you know, like all of the constellations in the Zodiac are usually connected to Greek and Roman mythology, mainly Roman, but like their origin is obviously Greek.
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So in Virgo, it represents the Virgin Maiden.
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And it represents Astraea, who was the last god to flee Olympus, I think, or she fled the earth for Olympus, I believe.
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And also sometimes in Roman mythology, she's associated with Demeter, who is the goddess of the harvest and autumn.
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So, yes, she's represented by Astraea, who was the last immortal to abandon Earth at the end of the Silver Age when the gods fled to Olympus, which is why Virgo is associated with the Earth.
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And so Virgo people, like I think last time we spoke, I talked about how there are three different energies depending on whatever sign you are.
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So there's fixed, there's cardinal, and there's mutable.
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And if you have to think about it in a life cycle, a cardinal sign is a sign that begins everything.
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The fixed sign is a sign that maintains everything.
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And the mutable sign is the thing that ends everything and starts a new project.
Virgo's Self-Critique and Relationships
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So Virgo shares that with three other signs.
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So Virgo, I believe Sagittarius and Pisces.
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I think Pisces is also a mutable sign.
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So they have a certain flexibility to them that is kind of unusual for the Earth.
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Also, they share a planet with Gemini and the planet is Mercury.
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So they kind of have the kind of flexibility that Gemini is traditionally associated with, but they use it in a very different way.
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So where Gemini needs to be around people, most Virgo people I meet are quite comfortable not having to be around them.
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You know, I know a lot of introverted Virgos, let me put it that way.
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Even if they're very social people, they tend to recharge their energy by being on their own.
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They're very focused on, they're the kind of person where like, if you did a class project at school, they'd be so tired of how fucking stupid everyone is and just end up doing it themselves and wind up with the best grades in class because they can trust themselves.
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Yeah.
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They can trust themselves and they know that when they do something, they'll get the work done.
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They are finicky and they're picky.
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They do not like people who hold them back from achieving their potential.
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They are concerned with details.
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They're concerned with the specificity of details.
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analyze information is very different from the way that Gemini analyzes information because Gemini is all about learning that information through communicating with other people.
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But Virgos do a lot of things by observation.
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They catch a lot of stuff about other people just by watching them and observing them.
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And so most Virgo people I know, I'm not saying that they're all introverted, obviously, but they tend to be people who are very analytical, people who are, they observe the smaller things, they pay attention to the finer details.
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And they are usually a good person to have on projects because they care about these things.
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They care about like, if you are the kind of person who takes a macro look at everything, and you're like, okay, this is more or less good.
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Like this works, you know, a Virgo is going to look at like those tiny things that you overlooked.
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And that's where they're going to focus on to help improve things.
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Like even their criticism, they're not concerned with making you feel bad.
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They're just concerned with doing it right.
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And I think that's something that people need to remember about them is that whenever they do criticize you, it's usually not coming from a personal space.
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They just are used to doing that to themselves.
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I think that Virgos can be very self-critical.
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I think they can be very hypercritical.
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And an insecure Virgo is someone who is going to, you know, project that on other people.
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I was just going to ask, like, let's use this in the context of the dating realm.
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What are some of the advantages to this sort of personality and what are some areas in which they might need to learn to be more aware or be more adaptable than they might prefer?
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You know what I will say I have met a lot of Virgos who are very good at pointing out the flaws and other people and other people's dating lives, but have a huge blind spot with their own dating lives.
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Because I have a friend and she's very good about like, analyzing the men that come into my life and being like, Oh my god, this guy is terrible.
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For x, y and z reason, like, she won't sugarcoat it.
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You know what I mean?
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She'll be like, he's terrible.
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And like, she's also the person who listens to this podcast regularly and gives me genuine feedback.
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Like she's, you know, dedicated to helping me improve.
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Thanks, friend.
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Yeah, yeah, definitely.
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They are people you can count on to give you honesty when it comes to whether you're underperforming.
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But they can have a blind spot with their own selves.
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Because I think that that's like, I don't know whether I mean, I think we all have that blind spot.
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You could be somebody like we have like a certain sense of clarity with other people that we don't necessarily have with ourselves.
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Right?
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I mean, that's, I guess that's kind of human nature is what I'm thinking about.
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Like, you know, from a distance, we're all able to see a little more clearly.
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But when it's upright in front of our face, things just tend to be a little blurrier.
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Yeah, you know what?
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Most of the times when I have seen an artist that I'm really into, they always manage to be Virgos.
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They have like a very impeccable sense of style.
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And I don't just mean that like fashionably.
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I mean that like they have a distinctiveness to their craft and the way that they approach problems in life that are very them.
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Like they care a lot about people call them perfectionists a lot of the times.
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And that's part of the reason why they put a lot of pressure on themselves.
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But I think that like they could use that perfectionism for good and use it with the men in their lives.
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I think that Virgos have the capacity to be very discerning when they need to be.
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But I don't know why, like anytime I've met a Virgo woman, she's always with like such a shitty guy.
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And I'm like, why don't you use all this hypercritical perfectionism in your favor?
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You know what I mean?
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Like use it on him.
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Use your powers for good.
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Use your powers for good.
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Like, you know, instead of paying attention to what everybody else is doing, why don't you pay attention to your own damn life and pay attention to the ancient man in your life and throw him out with the perfectionism that you are accustomed to, you know?
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Do
Libras' Social Nature and Balance
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that.
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Oh, it's so hard.
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It's so hard.
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And I think we've all been there.
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And this is something that I have actually, I was just talking about this with one of my oldest friends.
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Yesterday, she's a high school sweetheart that they married, you know, right after she finished, they finished college.
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And they've had a very difficult and tumultuous relationship because he's been alcoholic their entire relationship.
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And recently he got into legal issues with it.
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And so he's currently at a facility for rehab, which I'm very proud of him for doing this.
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And I couldn't be happier for their family.
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But what was interesting was that my bestie was saying like, you know, I went to some of these Al-Anon meetings that I've been encouraging her to go to for a very long time, Alateen as well for her daughter's.
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But it's really having people deal with, you know, the illness of codependency and how enabling addiction is part of this dysfunctional pattern that happens, this dysfunctional system that props up and supports, you know, the addict.
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And she was like, I've just been learning so much.
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And, you know, all this time I've just been blaming him.
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And...
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you know, just thinking that if you would just get this problem fixed up, like everything would be fine.
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And she's like, and I never looked at my own self.
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And he said to me before, like, well, I'm going to rehab, but like, what are you doing?
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What are you changing in your life?
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It can't just be me.
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And she's like, and you know, I listened to him, but I didn't really hear him.
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And now from the starting to go to these meetings, I'm starting to understand like, there's so much I need to be changing in my own life.
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And I was like, I'm
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Oh my gosh, this is such a huge revelation for you.
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So many people will go through their whole lives without ever once stopping and asking, like, is the problem me?
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Am I the problem as well as the solution?
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You know, it's so easy to point the figure and to look and to analyze and nitpick over every detail.
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And this is what I was saying to her was like, you know, this is what therapy really...
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made clear to me was, you know, all this time I was involved with a very abusive and dysfunctional family.
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And if my sister would just do this, and if my brother would do that, if my mom wouldn't do this, it was all of these ways in which I wanted everybody else to be different and act differently.
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And it was really only through therapy that I came to realize like the only control I have is over my own actions and my own responses to situations.
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And that was where they really started to like grow up and take responsibility for my own life instead of just being a victim of circumstances, you know?
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Yes.
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Yeah.
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And I think that, you know, that's where the fine line has to be drawn, because I think that, you know, you mentioned nitpicky.
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Nitpicky is something I think a lot of Virgo people can be.
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I think that when it is destructive and when it is not productive is when it's either extremely self-directed.
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I think Virgo people can be their own harshest critics.
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They have to sometimes chill it and cool it with the extreme criticism.
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I think it's very hard for some of them to practice compassion for themselves just because they do have such a high standard for themselves.
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But I think that's something that Virgo people have to watch out for with their own selves is
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is the thing that you're being hypercritical about or hyper fixating on, is it something that is actually helping you?
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Or is it something that's just making you feel like shit about yourself?
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You know what, Diana, you're actually making me wonder if maybe, you know, you were saying that like Virgos are really good at pointing out to others what's going on and what's wrong with their relationship.
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But it almost makes me wonder if this is like they're, if they're so hyper,
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critical of themselves, maybe in their own minds, they're saying, well, I shouldn't be as critical of my partner because, you know, I can't live up to my own standards.
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So remember, it's the sort of thing where you're like, well, I'm not perfect.
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So, um, so I can, I should just love whoever loves me.
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And maybe it's that same attitude.
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I had a college friend who was a Virgo and she broke up her engagement last year.
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And so she's like single right now and she's actually going to come to my city and I haven't seen her in years.
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Okay.
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So obviously I was just doing like, I haven't spoken to her in a few years.
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I haven't seen her in a few years.
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So like we do these like random catch-ups where like, it's just like, you know, messaging on Instagram and stuff, but like, she's going to be in my town for like a wedding.
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And so she's just going to crash with me for a couple of days.
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But you know, we got talking about her life and,
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And she was like, Oh, yeah, you know, I just wasn't in like the space where I'm ready to be in another big relationship with someone just because she had been with that person for a really long time.
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And she thought that, you know, they were going down this path of marriage and stuff.
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And obviously, that didn't happen.
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And then she was like, Well, you know, like, just to be very clear, and like have my cards on the table, I am in like a polyamorous
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situation and immediately I was like, Oh, no, no.
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Like, I was like, Oh, thank God I wasn't sitting in front of her.
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And it was on a phone call because I would not have been able to disguise my disappointment, you know?
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Yes.
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And like,
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her whole excuse for it was like, Oh, I'm not really looking for anything like seriously committed.
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And I was like, I mean, you know, you can be in a monogamous dating situation with a person and still not be seriously committed.
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You know what I mean?
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Like the level of commitment should be proportional to the level of effort that like this person is putting in investing in you.
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And I was I didn't sugarcoat my feelings about that situation because I said, frankly, I think it's a situation where men get women they don't deserve and they have too much access to women that they don't deserve.
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I've very rarely seen a man who is emotionally mature enough to be able to handle the emotional needs of one woman, let alone two, three, four or five, you know?
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Very valid.
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Very valid.
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Absolutely.
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So that's just me being straight up plain, right?
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And this is a person who can be so discerning and so particular about all these other aspects of her life.
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But in this particular aspect, she's blind.
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And I do think that, yes, I agree with you.
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It comes from being like, well, you know, I am so critical.
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Is it really that fair to be critical of someone else?
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Because I'm not perfect.
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But I will tell you, lots of Virgos don't struggle with thinking they're not perfect.
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Sometimes a lot of them have the impression that they're the only people with the right ideas and they're the only people with the right perspectives.
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That's got to be a tough row to hoe as a person.
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Some humility is required as well.
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And this is coming from Aaliyah, okay?
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So, you know, take a look at us all.
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Honestly, I feel like there are many people who would do better to embrace a little more ego death.
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And I say this right as a Pisces who's like had a million ego deaths because I just, you know, I'm too quick to look to myself as the root of all problems and maybe more than I need to, honestly.
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It is a balance.
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It's always a balance, you know?
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It is a balance, right?
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It's like the sun and the moon, right?
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Yep.
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It's the balance between knowing when to be discerning and knowing when to be proud of yourself.
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It is the balance between knowing when to be confident and when to be humble, you know?
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And both of these things are equally, equally important.
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And the strategy behind using them correctly is really a life skill that will benefit you in life.
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But it's something that is learned from experience.
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Life will humble you.
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If you make terrible choices with men, life will humble you.
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Sometimes life will fucking kill you because if you spend time with the wrong man, you may not survive it.
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This is why discernment is very important.
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I don't think that discernment is something that Virgo people struggle with.
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I think that they just feel sometimes maybe that they can't apply a lot of their expectations onto other people.
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I will say, Virgo, you can expect whatever you want from men.
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I honestly think you need to pull in that Beyonce energy, not with a relationship front because God knows.
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See, look, Beyonce is a great example of this because she's so perfect about her career, but look at what she is with her man.
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You know what I mean?
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Mm-hmm.
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So I do think that there is some benefit in like learning to use that energy in not just your career, but also use it for the men in your life.
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Because you know what, that's the time where you should be a bit of a perfectionist.
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I will say Leo people, I think sometimes having a big ego helps us because like the second a man loses interest in me and he's not willing to treat me the way he was in the beginning, I get bored.
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I get hella bored and I throw him away back with the other presents.
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Out you go.
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Yeah.
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And you know, I'm always listening avidly to every little morsel from your Leo lips, Diana.
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So that's Virgo.
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And then who do we move on to next?
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Then we move on to the Venusians who are Libra.
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Oh my gosh.
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Yay.
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Almost all my best friends have ended up being Libras somehow.
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I don't like on every continent when I hit it off with somebody, they inevitably end up being a Libra.
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Why is that?
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Well, you know what?
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I'm a Libra moon, so I can explain.
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Libras are the Minnesotans of the Zodiac.
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They are everybody's best friends.
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No wonder that makes so much sense.
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They are best friends with everyone.
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They're the Minnesotans of the Zodiac.
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So Libra is ruled by the planet Venus and it shares that planet with the sign Taurus.
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But where Taurus has to do with material pleasure and sensual pleasure, Libra has to do with like charisma and communication and harmony.
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And just Libras are people who maintain the peace.
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And that is why they are represented by the scale, because they're all about balance.
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They're all about moderation.
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Right.
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They're all about not having that extreme of an opinion and being very fair minded.
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The downside of this sometimes is that they can come across as people pleasers.
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They may fight too hard to maintain the peace at a time when they might need to have a solid stance on something.
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But in general, you can count on them to be people who are not going to turn up a lot of conflict.
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They have a preference for harmony.
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Libras, I will say, Libra girls are a bit like Leos.
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We care about looks.
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We're not shallow.
00:17:31
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I mean, we're super shallow.
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We're super shallow.
00:17:34
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Libra girls will look at the face and then they will forget everything else.
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So if I had to give Libra girls advice, I'm like, you know, he can't just be pretty.
00:17:41
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He has to do something else.
00:17:42
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Being pretty is not a personality trait.
00:17:48
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Yeah, it's not, it's no indication of character.
00:17:51
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I think that's our weakness.
00:17:54
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Who doesn't appreciate a beautiful man, right?
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I mean, it's so rare that you find one, honestly.
00:17:58
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Yeah, Libra.
00:17:59
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Libra definitely appreciates a beautiful man because they're ruled by Venus.
00:18:02
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They're ruled by the planet of beauty.
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So, you know, they care about aesthetics.
00:18:07
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They care about the guy and the way he looks.
00:18:09
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They are not going to be with a sloppy man.
00:18:11
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They're not going to be with someone who looks hideous.
00:18:13
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You know, that flannel and the turn back baseball cap, that is not a vibe for them.
00:18:18
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FDS girlies, let us learn from our Lieberg friends, okay?
00:18:21
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Because this whole, like, cargo shorts, backward cap wearing, you know, ill-fitted t-shirt that has stains on it.
00:18:28
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Like, are these men toddlers?
00:18:31
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Why are they dressing like toddlers?
00:18:33
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I would actually, I would be dressing my toddler better than these men dress, honestly.
00:18:38
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I know.
00:18:39
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There are some well-dressed toddlers out there.
00:18:41
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But, like, you know, it's giving very Luke from Gilmore Girls energy that kind of, like, I don't care about my looks.
00:18:46
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I'm ruggedly handsome.
00:18:47
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No, sir.
00:18:47
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You're just lazy.
00:18:48
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That has nothing to do with ruggedness.
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If anything, it's proving the opposite.
00:18:52
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It's convincing me there's nothing rugged about you because you can't even think about what you want to put on your own body that day.
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Like, you're that lazy.
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I don't think you're off chopping lumber.
00:19:00
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You know what I mean?
00:19:00
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I just think you haven't had to make these decisions for yourself since the last woman, i.e.
00:19:05
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your mother, had to do it for you.
00:19:06
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Okay.
00:19:07
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So no, it's not that sexy to me.
00:19:08
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You know what I mean?
00:19:09
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Oh my gosh.
00:19:10
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Actually, the most rugged man I ever knew was my grandfather, my mom's father.
00:19:13
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He was a farmer, German descendant.
00:19:15
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Again, this is Minnesota, right?
00:19:17
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And he and my grandmother had a very successful, loving marriage.
00:19:22
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And one thing I noticed was like whenever he would come home from working the land, he would go and take a shower and like shave again and put on his cologne and brush his hair and put on nicely...
00:19:33
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Nice clothes that he would like, he would put on his Sunday clothes to have dinner at home with his wife and children.
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And I was always really impressed by that.
00:19:40
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Like he had his farm clothes and those were only out when he was outdoors.
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And when he was indoors, he was nicely dressed and nicely groomed because that's how he wanted to present himself to his wife and his family.
00:19:52
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Wow.
00:19:52
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Yeah, it's nice when they care.
00:19:54
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It's really nice.
00:19:55
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I mean, speaking as a person who's a Leo and a Libra, because I have a Libra moon and I have a Leo sun, so I have a bit of both of these placements, you know, and like we both of these placements care a lot about appearances.
00:20:07
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You know, they care about like Leo's will want the power couple, but Libra's will not want to go for somebody who does not represent their aesthetic taste.
00:20:14
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You know, they are not people.
00:20:15
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They're meticulous.
00:20:16
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They care about their grooming.
00:20:17
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They care about maintaining a certain sense of harmony, even in their appearance.
00:20:21
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Like they are not the people who show up in sweatpants.
00:20:23
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You know what I mean?
00:20:25
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They care a lot about making sure that they are put together.
00:20:27
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So but I also think that they're very efficient at mediating.
00:20:31
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And that's where I think that that might be a flaw, like not a flaw, but like necessarily a downside of being a Libra.
00:20:38
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I think that in situations of conflict with their partners, they are more likely to just mediate and less likely to stand up for what they want.
00:20:44
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You have to really beware as a Libra to not be a people pleaser.
00:20:47
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I have it as a moon placement.
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And for a very long time, my childhood has really struggled with that.
00:20:51
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And most of the time it had to do with like just wanting to maintain the peace in my house because I just did not want to be in a loud, chaotic house.
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And so I just like would give in to what other people wanted, just not like not just to maintain the peace, but just to avoid conflict, you know.
00:21:06
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And so you have to be careful with people.
00:21:08
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And like sometimes the conflict is not avoidable.
00:21:11
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Sometimes you need to actually advocate for what you want.
00:21:14
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And some Libras can do this and some Libras can't.
00:21:16
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Again, it's like their sign is one of the only signs that is not represented by a creature.
00:21:20
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It's represented by a fixed object.
00:21:24
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They're represented by the scales, which is not a real thing.
00:21:27
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They're the symbol of balance.
00:21:31
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And so they always, when they can sense that something is like,
00:21:34
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going in a direction that is taking them off balance, they're very likely to rectify that situation by giving into what other people want.
00:21:40
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And I think Libras need to learn to stand their ground.
00:21:43
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And they need to learn.
00:21:44
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And that's a very hard thing because in FDS, like we say, you have to stand your ground.
00:21:47
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And if somebody can't meet it, you must walk away.
00:21:49
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So if I had to give an advice to Libra, that's what I'd say.
00:21:51
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I'm like, sometimes you cannot be the bigger person.
00:21:55
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Sometimes you can't be the peacemaker, you know?
00:21:58
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Yeah, you can't make peace with Nazis, okay?
00:22:00
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You can't make peace with Nazis.
00:22:02
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And that's like something we
Scorpio's Depth and Vulnerability
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cannot tolerate the intolerable.
00:22:05
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And that's a lesson.
00:22:06
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Yeah, you cannot split the difference of the terrorist.
00:22:09
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You know what I mean?
00:22:09
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An emotional terrorist in this situation.
00:22:11
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Right, exactly.
00:22:13
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And they tend to dot the landscape around here.
00:22:15
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Okay, so that's our dear Libra friend.
00:22:17
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Who do we move on to after our Libras?
00:22:20
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Well, you know what?
00:22:21
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Libras, they bring this very chill and charismatic energy.
00:22:24
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They're usually very good with people and very social.
00:22:27
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And the next sign that we have is Scorpio.
00:22:30
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And Scorpio as a sign is a lot more intense.
00:22:33
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You know, it's like such a big jump to go from Libra, Venusian, I'm sitting in my feminine energy kind of...
00:22:41
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kind of sign to Scorpio, which is, you know, Scorpios have the reputation for being very mysterious and very misunderstood.
00:22:48
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But also, Scorpio is in the sign of, I believe, Neptune?
00:22:53
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And so they're ruled by Poseidon, but
00:22:55
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Okay, is that war or Poseidon?
00:22:59
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No, I think Neptune is Poseidon.
00:23:02
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But also in Greek mythology, they're associated with Hades and the underworld because the Scorpio house that it rules has to do with the occult and has to do with death and transformation.
00:23:12
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And so, you know, that's why Scorpios a lot of the time are represented by the symbol of death, essentially, because it doesn't have to, in this situation, it is ego death.
00:23:21
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In this situation, it is renewal.
00:23:22
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It's not a bad thing.
00:23:24
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Scorpio is all about getting to the bottom of things.
00:23:26
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They're kind of the investigator of the Zodiac.
00:23:28
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They are people who cannot stand inauthenticity.
00:23:32
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They are not fake people.
00:23:34
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They want to know everybody deeply.
00:23:36
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They want to know what makes people tick.
00:23:39
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And to some people that can come off as really creepy and intense.
00:23:42
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You know what I mean?
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Because they don't have time for people who are faking it.
00:23:46
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They don't have time for people who are projecting images.
00:23:48
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And these are social mores that, you know, govern the landscape.
00:23:52
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And there is a certain amount of poly tests that people expect.
00:23:55
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And I think when you are somebody who comes in with that sort of energy, like, take no, take no bullshit, you know, none of this like small talk.
00:24:04
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A lot of people, that's how they're able to like dip their toes into getting to know you.
00:24:07
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If you just want to circumvent that, that often tends to trip off a warning for them, right?
00:24:13
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Yes.
00:24:14
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I will say Scorpio has a very good intuitive energy.
00:24:17
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They're very good at sussing people out when they're in a room.
00:24:20
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They may be quiet and they may keep to themselves, but they are people who are always paying attention.
00:24:25
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And that's something they share with Virgo.
00:24:26
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They are people who are always paying attention to other people.
00:24:29
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So they don't like lack in the I've observed this thing.
00:24:32
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Like a Scorpio is the kind of person who will clock a bad person way before anybody else has just because of something minute they did.
00:24:38
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And they will keep that shit to themselves until the time is right to share that information with other people.
00:24:43
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Like they have a very good bullshit meter.
00:24:46
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And for that reason, they're much more quick on the picking up of red flags, you know, but at the same time.
00:24:53
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Yeah, I was gonna say, but what else should we be on the lookout for then for our dear Scorpios as far as their dating lives?
00:25:02
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Scorpios love deeply, okay?
00:25:05
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That super intense shit that they have for other people when they love you, oh my God, you could murder people.
00:25:10
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And they're like, well, he was just having an off day at work, okay?
00:25:12
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Yeah.
00:25:15
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So almost to a point of obsessiveness and unhealthy fixation.
00:25:19
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Codependence is Scorpio's issue, I would say.
00:25:25
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Scorpio is a sign that when they're outside of that codependency and they're just meeting you, they can probably suss you out really quick because if they know that you're insincere about your affections for them, they lose interest very fast.
00:25:35
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They want somebody who's all in deeply.
00:25:38
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And so you have to be very careful to not attract love bombers or people who are trying to, you know,
00:25:44
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take advantage of the fact, yeah, hoodwink you into thinking that they are more committed than they actually are.
00:25:50
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So Scorpios are very vulnerable to like con artists and scam.
00:25:54
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Okay.
00:25:54
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Well, not necessarily con artists, but... Love con artists.
00:25:58
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The thing is, once they're attached, it's very hard for them to let go.
00:26:01
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You know what I mean?
00:26:02
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Like they are people who love very deeply and want to be in a very, very intense...
00:26:08
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love relationship with other people.
00:26:10
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They want like soul ties.
00:26:11
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You know what I mean?
00:26:12
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They don't like they're not necessarily people who are like, I enjoy being in a casual situation.
00:26:17
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You know what I mean?
00:26:18
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Like to them, even the casual situations are full of intensity.
00:26:21
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So you have to you have to be careful not to run the risk of attracting men who are very devious and dubious and know how to manipulate the fact that you want something like this because they can tell you the right things.
00:26:31
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And then once you're in it, it's very hard for you to let go.
00:26:34
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I'm not saying that they're forgiving people necessarily because Scorpios also have a reputation for holding a grudge.
00:26:39
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In my experience, because I have a lot of key friends who are Scorpios, and I think they're very powerful people.
00:26:44
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I get the sense of them that they have a very powerful sign.
00:26:48
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Being able to see this aspect of human life and being able to see what people really want, what people are actually all about, that is a gift.
00:26:55
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But I think that when you're inside of that bubble, you're blind.
00:26:58
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Like, you know, like that's the thing with every single zodiac sign is they obviously all have blind spots and their blind spot is once they're in it, it's very hard for them to let go.
00:27:06
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They're very loyal, very, very loyal to the people that they love.
00:27:09
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And so even if they're being hurt, they like the they might start making excuses for them and shit.
00:27:14
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You know what I mean?
00:27:15
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So you have to be very careful that like you really, really vet before you give that kind of energy to anyone, because once they're in it, it's very hard for them to extricate themselves out.
00:27:25
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So that's the thing.
00:27:26
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That's the thing about being associated with any level of intensity.
00:27:28
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Intensity requires a level of vulnerability that is not, you know, most men don't have that.
00:27:33
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Let's just start there.
00:27:34
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Most men don't have the kind of vulnerability that this sign is usually accustomed to and enjoys.
00:27:39
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You know, I remember like my Scorpio friend, like the first time I knew we were becoming really close friends was she's the only person in my life who's ever sat me down being like, I want to know everything that's happened in your life that is important to you that I should know.
00:27:50
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And I was like, that is the strangest, interesting, like most interesting question anybody's asked me because nobody's ever asked me to sit them down and tell them what's happened.
00:27:57
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And I was like, well, now that you're asking me in this manner, I'm like, I have to actually think about what do I want to tell you?
00:28:02
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And she was like, well, you tell me what you think is important for me to know.
00:28:06
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You know?
00:28:06
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And I was like, oh, this is such a Scorpio thing because she's like, I want to know you so deeply.
00:28:11
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And I'm like, I have to sit there being like, huh, what is, you know, when I was in the fourth grade, I had a toothache.
00:28:15
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No, that's not what she wants to know.
00:28:17
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You know what I mean?
00:28:19
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She wants the heart of things.
00:28:21
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Yeah, and she's very successful and she's, you know, a very successful performer.
00:28:26
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And she brings that vulnerability and emotion into her work effortlessly, you know?
00:28:32
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But she, I mean, thankfully, I think she's embraced the I can't stand thing
00:28:37
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fake people bullshit of Scorpio and like she does not invite men into her circle at all she hasn't dated in years because she doesn't like most of them because she's like I can tell when a man is being fake and so I can tell when he's not being sincere I have very strong instincts to know he's just putting on an act and so she just doesn't get involved so I think in the highest capacity where they're working
00:28:57
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When they use that power for their, when they're really, really tap into their intuition and they're like, okay, you know what?
00:29:03
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Nope.
00:29:04
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I'm not even going to entertain this.
00:29:06
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They prevent a lot of situations from arising.
00:29:07
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It's
Sagittarius' Adventurous Spirit
00:29:08
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once they're in the situation, you have to learn to walk away.
00:29:11
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So codependency can be an issue with Scorpio.
00:29:14
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It sounds like, it sounds like we all need a Scorpio friend in our lives.
00:29:17
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Oh, yeah.
00:29:17
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Like my uncle, for example, is a Scorpio.
00:29:19
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And he's like, you know, he's very observant.
00:29:23
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He's very honest about what other men are like.
00:29:25
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And he's just like tells me straight up.
00:29:26
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He's like, none of them are good enough for you.
00:29:28
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So don't even bother.
00:29:28
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You know what I mean?
00:29:30
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Like, I'm not even joking.
00:29:30
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He knows exactly what men are.
00:29:32
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He's like, none of them are good enough.
00:29:33
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Don't even bother.
00:29:34
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But he's very loyal to a fault.
00:29:35
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Like, he's very loyal to me.
00:29:36
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You know what I mean?
00:29:37
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Like, I could do a lot of terrible things.
00:29:39
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And if somebody went and told him that he just like get angry at them.
00:29:42
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You know, even if it's true, even if I've actually done those things, he'd be mad at them for pointing it out, you know, the fact that he's so super loyal, but he's also codependent.
00:29:50
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Me like when I was coming on this trip that I'm in right now, he was like, Oh my God, what am I going to do without you?
00:29:54
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And I was like, you figure it out.
00:29:58
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What do you mean?
00:30:02
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Okay, so that's our Scorpio, brethren.
00:30:04
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After Scorpio, do we come to?
00:30:07
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Sagittarius.
00:30:08
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I feel like I don't know anything about Sagittarius.
00:30:10
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What's their deal?
00:30:12
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Oh my god, Sagittarius is my favorite sign.
00:30:15
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If I was not a Leo, I would love to be a Sagittarius.
00:30:18
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Because, okay, so Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter.
00:30:21
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And Jupiter is basically the planet of Zeus.
00:30:23
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And if you know anything about Zeus in Greek mythology, that guy is like a fuckboy.
00:30:27
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Like, he's the king of the fuckboys, okay?
00:30:29
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He is the god of fuckboys.
00:30:31
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But,
00:30:31
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he is associated, like Jupiter is the planet of luck.
00:30:34
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And so with every person, you know, you have a Jupiter placement and that placement is you, depending on which house it is in, usually tells you about where your luck is going to be in your life.
00:30:43
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So for example, I have Jupiter in my first house and the first house has to do with the self.
00:30:48
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And so in general, Jupiter first house people tend to be very, very lucky.
00:30:51
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They tend to be, in general, because they embody a spirit of luck.
00:30:56
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They intend to have an energy where they think that they're lucky.
00:30:58
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And a lot of luck is thinking that you're lucky.
00:31:00
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I think a lot of people don't understand that.
00:31:02
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So in general, I always tell people I'm a very lucky person.
00:31:04
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And it's very true for me.
00:31:06
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I've experienced a lot of amazing luck in my life.
00:31:08
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And so Joup, what do you call it?
00:31:10
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Sagittarius, if you know, it's also a creature that's not a real creature, right?
00:31:16
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It's a centaur.
00:31:17
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It's essentially a half man, half horse.
00:31:20
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Oh, no.
00:31:20
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So they're represented by the archer.
00:31:23
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And the Sagittarius sign is known for like basically the lore behind the centaurs was that was that they were exceptional warriors and exceptional archers, but they were also really big on partying.
00:31:35
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So they would party all night and we have no hangover and then go straight to the battlefields.
00:31:39
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And that is a very Sagittarian energy.
00:31:41
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Sagittarius's have boundless energy.
00:31:44
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They are ruled by high learning.
00:31:46
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They are ruled by adventure.
00:31:47
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They rule travel.
00:31:49
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There are people who are basically doing a lot of shit for the plot.
00:31:52
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And they have a lot of luck.
00:31:53
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My Sagittarian friends, oh my God.
00:31:55
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Like, I don't know where my Sagittarian friend is at any given point.
00:31:59
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You know what I mean?
00:32:00
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He's never in the same country ever.
00:32:02
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Like, I'm like, oh, yeah, what are you doing?
00:32:03
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And he's like, oh, today I'm in Portugal.
00:32:05
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And I'm like, what?
00:32:06
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I thought you were in England last week.
00:32:07
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He's like, yep, I'm in Portugal now.
00:32:09
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And then the next week he's like in Greece.
00:32:10
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He's like, never, you can never catch them in the same place.
00:32:12
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They're like lightning.
00:32:13
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You know what I mean?
00:32:14
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You will never catch them in the same place twice.
00:32:18
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they're also associated with bachelorhood.
00:32:20
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I will say, as much as I get along with my gay Sagittarian male friend, I'm sort of terrified of Sagittarian men because they have a reputation for being very noncommittal.
00:32:31
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But the free spirit and energy they embody really does come out in their relationships as well because you're like, oh yes, I'm dating this man and the next thing you know, he has picked up and moved to Prague and you have no idea that that happened because he didn't tell you.
00:32:43
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Right?
00:32:44
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So they are very, you know, they are very ruled by their sense of adventure and their heart.
00:32:50
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They're really good risk takers.
00:32:52
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Like they they don't they're not really they're very fearless, you know, much like the centaurs and like the and the the creatures that represent them.
00:32:58
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They're very fearless people.
00:33:00
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And being ruled by Jupiter is, you know, super, super helpful because they're basically ruled by the planet of luck.
00:33:07
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So most Sagittarian people I meet have a good degree of luck in their life in general.
00:33:11
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They are the people who can pick up and just move somewhere else and it just somehow works for them.
00:33:16
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They didn't have to think that much about it.
00:33:17
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They didn't have to plan too much about it.
00:33:19
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They didn't have to struggle for nothing.
00:33:21
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They just moved and they had a great time.
00:33:24
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Well, I think this is a really good point as far as understanding the nature of luck itself.
00:33:28
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I mean, because it's a self-fulfilling prophecy, right?
00:33:32
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And this is something where it's a lot easier to be fearless
00:33:35
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when you are always so assured that like luck is on your side because you all right the expectation that assumption is that somehow magically things will work out and luckily they do because of that sort of this intangible element that you still are able to to discern is actually applicable in your life i've been extremely lucky in my life in fact i wanted to ask you diana do i have any jupiter
00:34:01
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We all have Jupiter placements, but it depends where it is in your chart.
00:34:05
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You know, at the end, I'll tell you where your Jupiter placement is because I don't remember off the top of my head.
00:34:10
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But every single person has a Jupiter placement.
00:34:13
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It might not necessarily be in Sagittarius.
00:34:15
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If it is, it's usually a good thing because that means Sagittarius is in its own house, its own planet.
00:34:20
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But usually, like my Jupiter is in Libra.
00:34:23
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Yeah.
00:34:24
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but it's in the first house.
00:34:25
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And so it's very prominent in my personality as well.
00:34:27
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Like Libra is very prominent in my personality.
00:34:29
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And also I just tend to be a very lucky person because again, it has to do with selfhood.
00:34:33
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So this is a person who traditionally, if it's in your first house, it affects all the other houses because what really affects your luck more than anything is your belief in your ability to attract good things.
00:34:42
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And I think it's something that like we should take from the Sagittarian spirit is part of the reason why they're so successful is they take a lot of risks and they genuinely do believe that it works out because they're
00:34:52
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they never cling on and ruminate too much about when things don't go their way because they probably have just as many losses as the rest of us, but they're not usually people who are fixated on their losses.
00:35:03
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They're a mutable sign, just like Pisces, just like Gemini, just like Virgo.
00:35:07
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And so they have this flexibility and this like...
00:35:11
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flow to them.
00:35:12
Speaker
That's just like, I don't, I don't linger on the negativity, you know, much like Zeus, Zeus is like the king of the gods, right?
00:35:18
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He's a person who can take any kind of executive action because everybody just has to follow him.
00:35:23
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Right?
00:35:24
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He is the ultimate leader and he gets to do whatever the fuck he wants.
00:35:27
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Now, obviously in Greek mythology, he uses it for evil.
00:35:30
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But part of the reason why he, you know, he rules this particular sign and Jupiter is basically Zeus is because this is a person who just does things.
00:35:39
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He just takes those risks like he doesn't.
00:35:41
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Like that's one of the downsides of Sagittarius as well as sometimes they may not think through the consequences of doing things like doing things for the plot.
00:35:47
Speaker
You can only get you so far in life in terms of luck, but it can also backfire immensely in that you must plan out things, too.
00:35:55
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You do have to take pause every now and then and take stock and be like, is this a wise decision?
00:36:01
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But the good thing is Sagittarius is a sign that learns through experience.
00:36:05
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They're experiential learners.
00:36:06
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They are not people who you will see glued to a book.
00:36:09
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Even though they do rule higher learning and wisdom and travel, they tend to be people who learn through their experiences with other people.
00:36:16
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So in my experience with other Sagittarians, they tend to be very quick studies.
00:36:21
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The other really good thing I like about them is they're very generous people.
00:36:24
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I've never met an un- like a stingy Sagittarius.
00:36:29
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They're very, very loose with their first strings.
00:36:33
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But I will say that they need like, you know, women, Sagittarius women, that money is yours.
00:36:38
Speaker
Okay.
00:36:39
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Don't be buying men all this shit.
00:36:41
Speaker
So spend that shit on your female friends instead.
00:36:43
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Spend it on your Leo friends.
00:36:44
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They appreciate it.
00:36:45
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That's what I'd say.
00:36:50
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So
Capricorn's Discipline and Patience
00:36:51
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that's our Sagittarius.
00:36:52
Speaker
Who do we have left that we're going over today?
00:36:54
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We have two more.
00:36:55
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We have the next sign, which is a little bit more serious, but also a sign I really like.
00:36:59
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It's Capricorn.
00:37:01
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So Capricorn is ruled by the planet of Saturn.
00:37:04
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And Saturn is a bit of an obstacle giver.
00:37:07
Speaker
Okay.
00:37:07
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Saturn is Capricorn similar to Sagittarius is also an experiential learner.
00:37:12
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But I will say that where Sagittarius has an abundance of luck being ruled by Jupiter, Capricorn learns the hard way.
00:37:19
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And so Capricorn is a sign that can't really fuck around.
00:37:22
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And so it's one of the hardest signs to be besides Pisces.
00:37:25
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Pisces because they have a little bit of everyone.
00:37:27
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And so they have an endless capacity to empathize.
00:37:32
Speaker
But Saturn ruling your planet is kind of a hard sign, like a hard situation sometimes because they cannot mess around.
00:37:40
Speaker
Things come back to bite them.
00:37:41
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Saturn is the most strict with his own children.
00:37:45
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Because Saturn in Greek mythology is basically represented by Kronos, who is Zeus's father.
00:37:51
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And so Capricorn is like the daddy of the Zodiac.
00:37:54
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And the opposite of Capricorn in the Zodiac wheel is Cancer, which is the mother of the Zodiac.
00:37:59
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So different energies.
00:38:00
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Cancer is nurturing, maternal, giving, loving, very associated with the home.
00:38:05
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And Capricorn is the father, the strict disciplinarian who is associated with career.
00:38:10
Speaker
So a lot of Capricorn people are very obsessed with their career.
00:38:12
Speaker
And I mean, again, they're like, they are, their house is ruled by the house of careers.
00:38:17
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It makes total sense.
00:38:18
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You know what I mean?
00:38:18
Speaker
Like they're, they're very fixated on,
00:38:21
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material prosperity as well because they're also in earth science.
00:38:24
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So most earth science have a groundedness to them.
00:38:26
Speaker
They care about security and stability.
00:38:28
Speaker
So Capricorns tend to be very successful people, but I think that they can be very punishing to themselves because they already have an aspect that can be quite punishing.
00:38:37
Speaker
And so they have to be careful not to be...
00:38:40
Speaker
overtly hurtful with themselves in there because they will learn those lessons anyway.
00:38:45
Speaker
Any person that has like a Saturn placement somewhere in their big three, life has given them like they have gone through the school of hard knocks.
00:38:52
Speaker
Okay.
00:38:53
Speaker
So with Capricorns, like the decisions they make,
00:38:57
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hit them much, much harder.
00:38:59
Speaker
And so a lot of Capricorns have a very serious demeanor because they've had to go through some things in life that have forced them to grow up in ways that other signs have not had to deal.
00:39:07
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Like it's a very opposite energy to Sagittarius where Sagittarius is like just crazily doing things that like Sagittarius moves like a child that is in a candy store for the first time.
00:39:16
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Capricorn moves like the child that is after, you know, has come back there after their 20th cavity and their root canal and is now like, OK, I can't afford to do this shit anymore.
00:39:26
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You know what I mean?
00:39:28
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So the energy is very different because Saturn as a planet is very strict with his own house.
00:39:32
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But Saturn rules is basically the planet of karma.
00:39:36
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And so if you fuck around with a Saturnian rule person, it will come back to bite you as well, because Saturn may be strict with his own kids, but he also is fiercely protective of them.
00:39:44
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So, you know, they're not like if they're the kind of person who does like terrible things like they steal or they treat people poorly, it comes back to hurt them and how.
00:39:53
Speaker
So most Saturn people have like a very tumultuous relationship to risk.
00:40:00
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They're very risk averse because they have seen the consequences of taking risky decisions in a bad way.
00:40:08
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And so that kind of manifests in their relationships as well.
00:40:12
Speaker
Sometimes I know a few Capricornian women and some of them have done really well for themselves in that they've learned from their lessons and they're like, okay, my father was this fucked up asshole and I'm not going to do this.
00:40:20
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And so they wound up with someone who really treats them well.
00:40:23
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which is hard for them.
00:40:24
Speaker
I think that they need to tell themselves that they deserve it because I think that for them, it doesn't come as naturally as it does to the other signs because they are just ruled by so much discipline and responsibility.
00:40:32
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And so it's a heavy sign.
00:40:33
Speaker
Like it's strict dad energy.
00:40:35
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You know what I mean?
00:40:36
Speaker
And strict dad does not get to sit down and just enjoy his time with his family sometimes.
00:40:39
Speaker
Like sometimes strict dad will stay in strict dad mode, always worrying about family finances, always worrying about what other people are doing.
00:40:46
Speaker
Like they care a lot about public perception as well.
00:40:48
Speaker
So if they don't feel successful in their life, it can hurt even harder.
00:40:52
Speaker
So it's very important that they have a partner that is nurturing and supportive of them and allows them to relax because they are less likely to do that.
00:41:00
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They're less likely to tell themselves that they deserve that, you know?
00:41:03
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So I would say that my Capricorn sister, it's a heavy load to have the sign that you have for sure.
00:41:08
Speaker
It's very responsible.
00:41:10
Speaker
And like the other Capricorn woman I know, like she's such a boss about her career, but she's with a guy, she's with a Libra man, which I never advocate, but yeah.
00:41:17
Speaker
Which is very frivolous compared to her sign because, again, Libra is ruled by Venus and she's ruled by a much more serious planet.
00:41:24
Speaker
So it would have probably done her well to be with a partner that was going to be a much more supportive, nurturing partner because Libras can be a bit flaky as well.
00:41:32
Speaker
That solidness and that consistency is something Capricorns really need in order to feel safe in their lives.
00:41:37
Speaker
Otherwise, they can't express that softer side of themselves.
00:41:40
Speaker
It's very hard to be a strict mom.
00:41:41
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You know what I mean?
00:41:44
Speaker
it's very important that they find people who can nurture and tease out a softness to them and who can actually allow them to relax.
00:41:50
Speaker
That's very important.
00:41:52
Speaker
And it's also very important that they don't punish themselves through their relationships.
00:41:57
Speaker
You know what I mean?
00:41:58
Speaker
Because I think a lot of them buy into this like,
00:42:00
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Well, it's not possible.
00:42:01
Speaker
That doesn't exist.
00:42:02
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Like people, men like this who will treat you well don't exist.
00:42:04
Speaker
So yes, this is part of my discipline.
00:42:06
Speaker
I just have to put up with this because this is the world we live in and I need a two person income.
00:42:09
Speaker
They can be overtly pragmatic about things that they don't need to be pragmatic about.
00:42:13
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You know what I mean?
00:42:14
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Like you cannot be like, okay, well, we need a two person income and this person will do.
00:42:18
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And so I will take this person and do it because that is how you get a liability.
00:42:21
Speaker
And again, Saturn is all about teaching you consequences.
00:42:23
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It is the planet of karma.
00:42:25
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Your bad decisions will come back and catch up with you.
00:42:27
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And
00:42:27
Speaker
And so I think that's something that we should learn from Capricorn's burden, that all of us should feel the weight of our bad decision making, because that is the only way you will learn sometimes is through strict fatherhood energy.
00:42:39
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You know, the disciplinarian will come back to get you.
00:42:42
Speaker
Well, nobody appreciates it.
00:42:44
Speaker
But at the same time, it's like sometimes that's the only way lessons get through.
00:42:48
Speaker
Yes, exactly.
00:42:49
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We are very strict here.
00:42:50
Speaker
We have a Saturnian influence with women, I think.
00:42:53
Speaker
I think we're very, you know.
00:42:54
Speaker
We have a Saturnian bench.
00:42:55
Speaker
Yes, we are not.
00:42:56
Speaker
We are not very Jupiterian in this regard.
00:42:59
Speaker
Like, we're not just telling you to do shit for the plot and rely on luck.
00:43:02
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We are telling you to have strategy.
00:43:04
Speaker
And Capricorn is also very good at strategy.
00:43:06
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They're very good at these kinds of extremely pragmatic ways about navigating their life.
00:43:11
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That's usually not a thing that they struggle with.
00:43:13
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They're usually quite on top of their careers.
00:43:15
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I've never met... I know a Capricorn who's a big person in the UN now.
00:43:21
Speaker
I know another woman who runs a skincare company.
00:43:24
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I know another woman who's a writer just like me.
00:43:26
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And the key difference between all of them is I can tell such a difference between the ones who allowed themselves to be nurtured and doted on.
00:43:34
Speaker
Because those people have the softness that is very hard for Capricorn to come across.
00:43:39
Speaker
But the one that is, you know, did not pick well, she's still struggling.
00:43:43
Speaker
Because now she has to deal with an extra load of having to... So you know what I mean?
00:43:46
Speaker
Like her consequences came back to bite her and how?
00:43:48
Speaker
Because now she has a son and for her, it's not that easy to leave.
00:43:52
Speaker
Because now she has to do all the work of raising her child on her own and maintaining a really high intensity career.
00:43:59
Speaker
Yeah.
00:44:00
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But at the same time, she does not have a power.
00:44:01
Speaker
She has a Libran guy who just doesn't do very much.
00:44:05
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I mean, he earns money too, but you know what I mean?
00:44:07
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Like it has to be beyond earning money.
00:44:08
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That's what I mean about Capricorn is they can be overtly pragmatic and be like, well, he makes money and like he does the bare minimum for the child.
00:44:13
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That does not make him a good partner.
00:44:14
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That just makes him sufficient.
00:44:17
Speaker
You know, we don't want sufficient partners.
00:44:19
Speaker
We have to go beyond he doesn't beat me.
00:44:21
Speaker
Okay.
00:44:21
Speaker
Yes.
00:44:22
Speaker
Yeah.
00:44:22
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We have to go beyond sufficiency and go into actual enjoyment.
00:44:27
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Surplus.
00:44:28
Speaker
Yeah.
00:44:28
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Surplus.
00:44:29
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Surplus is important.
00:44:30
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I like this.
00:44:31
Speaker
So we can all learn that lesson from the Capricorns.
00:44:34
Speaker
After the Capricorns, wait, is the next one...
00:44:37
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We have our last one.
00:44:38
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And also, by the way, just to end on this note.
00:44:40
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So probably some of you know about like the Grim Reaper and stuff, right?
00:44:43
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He's represented by like the sickle and he represents the harvest.
00:44:47
Speaker
And again, that's the association with Saturn as well.
00:44:50
Speaker
Saturn in tarot is actually represented by the devil.
00:44:52
Speaker
So the, you know, you got the devil is in the details, as they say.
00:44:58
Speaker
But part of the harvest thing is because it's when the souls are at their peak, when they've experienced it.
00:45:04
Speaker
When do we harvest something is when it's ready to be harvested, when it has gone through everything in life.
00:45:09
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Kronos is associated with death because of that, because his weapon of choice is the sickle.
00:45:14
Speaker
And Kronos was put into an eternal slumber by Zeus, because Zeus is his son.
00:45:18
Speaker
So it's really sins of the father in Greek mythology, because Kronos is the one who starts the cycle by castrating his father, Uranos,
00:45:25
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And then he has a terrible relationship with his wife because he ends up eating all of her children, Rhea's children.
00:45:33
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And so she ends up conspiring with Zeus because she basically raises him away from the rest of them.
00:45:40
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And they plot to essentially kill Kronos, but they can't kill him.
00:45:44
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So they end up putting him to sleep.
00:45:45
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And that's why Kronos represents death and it represents time.
00:45:48
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And that's why it's about the harvest, because at the right time, you will be harvested.
00:45:52
Speaker
So that's why it rules karma and stuff, because for Capricorn, everything is about timing.
00:45:57
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So please just believe in divine timing and know that if you are dealing with an ancient man, it's not some lesson for you to learn about about consequences.
00:46:06
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You throw him away and the lesson you learn and that's a turnian thing is there will be better.
00:46:10
Speaker
And the time for that will come.
00:46:12
Speaker
You know, you don't have to settle for the first thing that comes your way.
00:46:16
Speaker
That's such a hopeful, that's such a hopeful note to end on for the Capricorn.
00:46:21
Speaker
Yeah, yeah, it's a hard sign to be.
00:46:23
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Like, Pisces and Capricorn, really, they, like, it's just so much responsibility associated with those two signs.
00:46:28
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It's very unfortunate because they do not get to be light the way some of the other signs do.
00:46:31
Speaker
You
Aquarius' Individuality and Rebellion
00:46:32
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know, Sagittarians, it's a very different energy to go from Scorpio to Sag to Cap.
00:46:37
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Because it's like Scorpio is so serious.
00:46:38
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And then Sag is like, yay, Libra is so fun.
00:46:41
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And Scorpio is like, ooh.
00:46:43
Speaker
It's like every one sign you get, you get another sign that's like super intense that can't enjoy anything.
00:46:48
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Yeah, that is so interesting.
00:46:50
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Because I always thought that Pisces was like, I don't know where I got the impression was that we were flighty and just like this and that and the other.
00:46:58
Speaker
But I've always felt like a real sort of profound sense of,
00:47:03
Speaker
Not responsibility, but I've always felt sort of a profoundness of self with being who I am.
00:47:11
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No, they're very introspective.
00:47:12
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They're dreamers.
00:47:13
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It's not I don't I wouldn't call them flighty.
00:47:15
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I would call them idealistic.
00:47:17
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I would call them dreamers.
00:47:18
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They are dreamy people.
00:47:19
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They they think a lot, you know, they're in their head a lot.
00:47:22
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So, yeah, of course, you have a strong sense of self because you have given it a careful consideration.
00:47:27
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Yes.
00:47:27
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So that's our Capricorn.
00:47:28
Speaker
The last one of today is?
00:47:32
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Is Aquarius.
00:47:33
Speaker
And I believe Aquarius is also ruled by Saturn, but it's co-ruled another planet.
00:47:38
Speaker
Let me check what the other planet is just to confirm.
00:47:40
Speaker
Co-ruled?
00:47:41
Speaker
I didn't even know that could be a real thing.
00:47:43
Speaker
Yeah.
00:47:43
Speaker
I mean, in ancient astrology, it was ruled by Saturn and Uranus.
00:47:50
Speaker
So, but if you think about it in the Greek way, it is essentially ruled by both the big daddies.
00:47:54
Speaker
Okay, it's ruled by Uranus and Kronos.
00:47:57
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And so the generations are Uranus, Kronos, Zeus, and then his kids, you know, which is like, it's easier to count how many children Zeus does not have at this point.
00:48:07
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You know what I mean?
00:48:09
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I know.
00:48:10
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But Aquarius is a very interesting, there's an interesting lore behind Aquarius as well, because it represents Ganymede, the cup bearer.
00:48:16
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And Ganymede is essentially this very pretty boy that Zeus took a liking to.
00:48:19
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And like all the girls and boys were into him.
00:48:22
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And Zeus is like, nah, I want him for myself.
00:48:24
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And so Zeus loved him so much that he became the cup bearer and he made a constellation for him, just Ganymede.
00:48:30
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And that's why Jupiter also, one of the planets of Jupiter is Ganymede, by the way.
00:48:34
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But basically, he never wanted to be too far from his little cupbearer.
00:48:37
Speaker
And so Aquarius is the sign of Ganymede.
00:48:39
Speaker
And that's why it has such a big constellation, because Zeus gave that constellation to his favorite gay toy.
00:48:47
Speaker
Zeus is very bisexual.
00:48:48
Speaker
Let's just start there.
00:48:49
Speaker
But yes, that's why Jupiter... Yeah, that's why he's pansexual.
00:48:53
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He really is.
00:48:54
Speaker
But that's why the OG pansexual.
00:48:57
Speaker
I was going to say, you know, it's like he was fucking swans.
00:48:59
Speaker
He was fucking deer.
00:49:00
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Yeah.
00:49:01
Speaker
He became a bee and then had sex with another bee.
00:49:03
Speaker
Like, you know, his sex life was all over the place.
00:49:05
Speaker
But yeah, that's why Ganymede is also one of the planets of Jupiter.
00:49:10
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So that's the lore behind that.
00:49:11
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And Aquarius is represented by Ganymede as well.
00:49:14
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So Aquarians, it's a very interesting sign to end it on because again, they're also kind of ruled by Saturn.
00:49:21
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So they also have that similar sense of responsibility, but because they're co-rules, they're also ruled by change.
00:49:28
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So they're not just ruled by discipline.
00:49:29
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They're also ruled by the passage of time.
00:49:31
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change.
00:49:32
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Aquarians are people who are very contrarian.
00:49:35
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They are people who are rebels by nature.
00:49:39
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They are very likely to be people who just don't like to conform.
00:49:43
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They like to see beyond what people want from them.
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And they don't buy into convention.
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They don't buy into like, I must do something because it's a system that works for everyone.
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Like they are people that will march their own drummer.
00:49:58
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They are people who also are, again, they're ruled by the planner of karma as well.
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So they are like rebels there.
00:50:05
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I mean, they have a reputation in the Zodiac for being rebellious.
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Okay.
00:50:08
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They're like the rebels of the Zodiac, but again, it does affect them because, because they're co-ruled by Saturn, they have that sense of consequence.
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Karma affects them as well.
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They're also free spirited, just like Sagittarius.
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They're very opinionated.
00:50:21
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Um, um,
00:50:22
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And also they're the opposite of Leo on the wheel.
00:50:24
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You know, it's like, for example, I believe the opposite of Pisces is what is the opposite of Pisces?
00:50:29
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I'm curious to know.
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What is your opposite sign?
00:50:30
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Should be an earth sign.
00:50:31
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I think, I think it's probably Virgo.
00:50:33
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Yeah.
00:50:33
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So your opposite is Virgo, you know?
00:50:36
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Yeah.
00:50:37
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So Pisces is like the water sign is associated with the broader spiritual picture, but like Virgo is a very practical and grounded sign.
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So in a similar way, Leo is about like, it's a regal sign.
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It's a sign that loves to hear from people and loves to be in community with other people.
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But Aquarians are people who want to stand on their own.
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Aquarians are people who want to be noticed for how visionary they are.
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They're free spirited.
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They're eclectic.
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They're bold.
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They want to be noticed for how unique they are.
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Leos just want to be noticed.
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We don't care if you think we're unique.
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very different.
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So we're more connected to people in the sense that like, we want to be acknowledged by people.
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Aquarians are okay to be acknowledged by people, even if it's for something negative, you know what I mean?
00:51:19
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Because they're like, I want to be known for not conforming to what other people want of me.
00:51:24
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They are not people like if you tell them, oh, you just do things just like so well, the way everyone else does, they will be offended.
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Because they were not trying to do that.
00:51:32
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But I also think that they are the true humanitarians of the Zodiac because they a lot of them tend to have an activist streak.
00:51:39
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A lot of them tend, I know a lot of Aquarian friends of mine who are very into the environment and very into like they have a social issue or a cause that they care about and they devote a lot of their time to it.
00:51:47
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You know, there are people you notice immediately because they just have a very unique way of expressing themselves.
00:51:52
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But again, there is a certain detachment and aloofness that comes from being an air sign because they're a fixed air sign and by nature, air is not a very fixed element.
00:52:01
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You know, so they can be kind of stubborn and rigid in the expression of their uniqueness.
00:52:08
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Let me put it that way, because that's the that's the downside of being a rebel.
00:52:12
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Sometimes when you stand outside of the lines and you don't want to be in community with other people, other people just think of you as a eccentric weirdo.
00:52:18
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And sometimes it works for you if you're an old granny who just chooses to wear all green and really funky New Yorker style granny that's like, oh, yes, what a cute old lady.
00:52:28
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You know what I mean?
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But if you're doing it just because you have to be separate from other people, it can also isolate you.
00:52:35
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So you have to be careful because that's the downside of Leo from the other end and that Leos tend to want public approval.
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And so we have to be careful not to constantly seek it.
00:52:44
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It's like a double whammy when you're like a Leo and a Libra, because again, comes back to people pleasing.
00:52:49
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You have to not compromise your sense of self or other people.
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But Aquarians don't do that.
00:52:53
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They don't tend to compromise themselves or other people.
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But the detachment that comes from being an air sign,
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can also make them lack empathy for other people.
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So you have to be careful.
00:53:02
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Like some of the Aquarian women I know, they're really badass, but also there have been a lot of times where I've had to point out to them, I'm like, yeah, that was not the most empathetic way you could go about doing that.
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You know what I mean?
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They can be very detached.
00:53:12
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They don't think, they think macro level.
00:53:14
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So they're not thinking about individual action and like every single thing is going to affect someone.
00:53:18
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They're just thinking about like, well, this is not the most efficient way to do this.
00:53:21
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How can we do this on a macro level?
00:53:22
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So you have to be careful not like Pisces never struggles with this, right?
00:53:26
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Because Pisces having a little bit of everyone makes them so in tune to what other people need.
00:53:31
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They're so empathetic.
00:53:33
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They're overtly empathetic.
00:53:35
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It will be I think for a Pisces, it would be very hard to understand Aquarian because an Aquarian does not have that kind of thought process.
00:53:41
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They're very detached.
00:53:42
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What you're describing to me is like, it's totally alien.
00:53:45
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I have no idea what that would be like.
00:53:47
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Yes, an Aquarian is a person who is not afraid to stand alone.
00:53:50
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And sometimes that is a good thing.
00:53:51
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And sometimes that results in I am going to be polyamorous because people are like, you know, I'm trying to stand away from other people.
00:53:58
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I don't want to conform to society's expectations of monogamy.
00:54:01
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And I don't want to do what everyone else is doing.
00:54:03
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I just want to be my own person.
00:54:05
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And it's like, yes, being your own person sometimes is still conforming to what other people expect.
00:54:08
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Well, I was gonna say, you know, conforming, like, you know, if you if you don't want to, you're still conforming to certain expectations.
00:54:16
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Yeah.
00:54:16
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Yes.
00:54:17
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I mean, you're still conforming to catering to a man first, because I've never seen a polyamorous situation in which all the women are not catering to one man, you know?
00:54:24
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You know what I mean?
00:54:25
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In fact, you're submitting to the most traditional patriarchal structure by that metric, because polygamy is something that exists in a lot of societies, and that basically meant that there was a bunch of emotional labor being done by four or five different women for one man.
00:54:38
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So if anything, you're way more traditional than a person who's doing monogamy.
00:54:41
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You know what I mean?
00:54:42
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Hear that, Aquarius?
00:54:44
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Who are you trying to kid?
00:54:46
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Yeah, you're you're being traditional by conforming to these.
00:54:50
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Like, that's the thing, right?
00:54:51
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It's so funny.
00:54:52
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My cousin has this expression.
00:54:53
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She's like, you can't be so open minded that your brains fall out.
00:55:00
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And it's so true, because it's like, you can be open minded, the point of being foolish.
00:55:04
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Right.
00:55:05
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Because you it's like you it's like that.
00:55:07
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What is it?
00:55:07
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The bell curve of the politics or whatever.
00:55:10
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It's like the circle.
00:55:11
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What is it?
00:55:11
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The shoehorn theory or whatever, where it's like you turn so far left, you wind up back.
00:55:16
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Right.
00:55:17
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Yes.
00:55:18
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That's that's what this is.
00:55:19
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It's like I'm trying to not conform and be so modern.
00:55:22
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I wind up with something even more traditional than the thing that I should have just seen.
00:55:27
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Yeah, that's a very dangerous reality of what can happen.
00:55:31
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But you know what?
00:55:32
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They're great.
00:55:32
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They're great conversationalists.
00:55:34
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They're not repetitive.
00:55:35
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They're very easygoing.
00:55:36
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They're very unfussy.
00:55:37
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There's like a lot of good things about them.
00:55:39
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But I think that, again, they should be careful with like not being... Sometimes they should... Sometimes it's okay to just be a bitch, okay?
00:55:45
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I want to say this to everyone, not just Aquarius.
00:55:47
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But sometimes it's okay to be like, I
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just want things done a specific way.
00:55:50
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Learn from Virgo.
00:55:51
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You know what I mean?
00:55:52
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It's okay to say, I just want to do things a specific way and men just have to put up with it.
00:55:56
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That's right.
00:55:57
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You know what I mean?
00:55:58
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They just have to put up with it.
00:55:59
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And I don't know too many Aquarian women, but like the two Aquarian women I know, one of them married really well.
00:56:05
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She walked out of her marriage the second that he started switching up on her.
00:56:08
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And this is an aunt of mine, but basically she was in an abusive relationship.
00:56:12
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And like the first time he hit her, she walked away from that relationship.
00:56:14
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And she had kids.
00:56:15
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So it was really hard.
00:56:16
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And she had to give up the kids too, because her husband was way richer than she was.
00:56:20
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And she didn't have money at that time.
00:56:21
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So again, be practical, Aquarius.
00:56:23
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Again, a lot of air signs struggle with practicality the way that the earth signs don't.
00:56:28
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And so, yeah, practicality is important.
00:56:30
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She left.
00:56:30
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She wound up with a much better partner.
00:56:32
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She's an Aquarius.
00:56:32
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I don't know what her old partner was, but her new one is Aries, and they're a very good match.
00:56:37
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um because he's got the same sense of adventure as her and he also like aries are also like very non-conformist kind of signs like they also want to do things in a new way they're very spontaneous and i think that aquarians really like that spontaneity you know like aries is not who i would recommend for somebody like a capricorn who wants somebody serious you know what i mean somebody like who's going to be practical and and like nurturing like
00:56:57
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Aries is like, let's go do things.
00:56:59
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Let's see the world, you know?
00:57:00
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And like the two of them, they've traveled everywhere and done everything.
00:57:03
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Like they're much older, like in their sixties or something now.
00:57:06
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So very, very good match.
00:57:07
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And I think that again, she had a strong, like I said, Aquarians don't struggle with having a sense of self.
00:57:13
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You know, it's just, it is very, like, they will never stray from their convictions and their values.
00:57:18
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They are passionate about being around people that think like them.
00:57:21
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It's just that there's not that many people that think like them.
00:57:23
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So they have to be careful not to affiliate themselves with people who will bring them down.
00:57:28
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You know, I think in her situation, she did the right FDS move.
00:57:31
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She picked up and she left and she found a partner that will treat her a lot better.
00:57:35
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I've also seen a situation with an Aquarius old friend of mine who I'm not friends with anymore, but where she basically...
00:57:42
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even in college, shared her bank account with her boyfriend.
00:57:47
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Never do that, ladies.
00:57:48
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And he used to file all of her taxes for her.
00:57:50
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And like, then when they broke up, it was very messy.
00:57:52
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Oh, shit.
00:57:53
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And I was like, you're not a couple.
00:57:54
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So this you're not like a married couple.
00:57:56
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So this was very impractical, you know, but again, it was like, oh, I don't want to conform.
00:58:00
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It's like totally fine.
00:58:01
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It's like, yes, conventional wisdom exists for a reason.
00:58:04
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You know what I mean?
00:58:05
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It's not, you know, you don't have to do things just to be a rebel.
00:58:09
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You know, sometimes, you know, sometimes there is a time when being a rebel will work against you.
00:58:14
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Don't be a rebel without a cause.
00:58:17
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That's right.
00:58:18
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Right.
00:58:18
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Be a rebel for a rightful cause.
00:58:20
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Don't be a rebel just for the sake of being a rebel.
00:58:22
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That's how you get stuck in a situation where you share a Bank of America account with a guy who is definitely not doing your taxes for you.
00:58:28
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So don't do that.
00:58:30
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Don't do that.
00:58:31
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And then you leave college and you move to New York and he stays in Iowa and you're screwed.
00:58:37
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Oh, my gosh, Diana, what a nightmare scenario.
00:58:40
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OK, so that that is our Aquarius.
00:58:42
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At this point, we're going to be having to wrap it up shortly.
00:58:45
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What else do we have to discuss or go over?
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That's it.
00:58:48
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Those are the six signs.
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This is part two.
00:58:51
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Definitely very different energy from the first half of the Zodiac.
00:58:54
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But like every sign, as you've noticed, has an upside and a downside.
00:58:57
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And very often the thing that is the upside is the downside.
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Like too much freedom can be very flaky.
00:59:04
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Too much rigidity can be very stubborn.
00:59:07
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You know what I mean?
00:59:07
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So learning about too much ego can be blind.
00:59:11
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Like, I mean, you know what?
00:59:12
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For a very long time, I always thought I'd be very susceptible to love bombing because I was like, who wouldn't fall in love with me right away?
00:59:17
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You know, so very Leo energy in that regard.
00:59:20
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I was like, that makes total sense.
00:59:22
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I understand why you're so obsessed with me right away.
00:59:25
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And so I was like, oh, I'm going to be very susceptible to love bombing because it's just so believable to me that somebody would be so madly in love with me immediately.
00:59:31
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I love this energy.
00:59:32
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This is such great energy.
00:59:34
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Again, good to have a good sense of self-love.
00:59:36
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Bad to be DeLulu about other people's attention.
00:59:39
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Yeah.
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balanced, dear listeners.
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That's what we have to learn from all of these signs of the Aquarius.
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You must embrace your good qualities, but also understand when they become liabilities.
00:59:51
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That is the overall overarching message for every single one of these signs is just, you know, you have amazing strengths, and your planets will help you in different ways.
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But at the end of the day, what really matters is using your gifts for ways that benefit you.
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And I think with every sign, they have a blind spot that can allow shit-scrope men to enter their lives.
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And just know that there is no zodiac sign for men that makes them a good person, okay?
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Every single zodiac man I've met is shit.
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So, you know, Sagittarius women, great.
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Sagittarius men, nightmares.
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Leo men, oh my God.
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Power struggle through and through.
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Pisces men, very likely to marry you within two months of knowing you and then leaving you with debt.
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Be careful with every single zodiac sign.
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It does not matter if he's a Taurus or he's a Gemini.
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I don't care.
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You know what I mean?
01:00:39
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They've all been cultured, you know, in the culture of patriarchy.
01:00:43
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So we're always going to be dealing with sort of the extremes of those ends, right?
01:00:46
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Because when are they ever... They're all ruled by planet Skrote.
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And planet Skrote does not discriminate.
01:00:51
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Yeah.
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We don't truck with planets.
01:00:55
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Amazing, Diana.
01:00:56
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I can't believe what a font of knowledge and wisdom you are when it comes to this.
01:00:59
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It's so fascinating to hear somebody who has just clearly been immersed in this for so many years and just has really sort of had almost like an encyclopedic memory of all of the friends and people you've met and their characters based off of their science.
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I think that's just so interesting to listen to.
01:01:16
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Oh, yeah.
01:01:16
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It's always fun in retrospect and in hindsight, because I definitely feel like my interest in astrology in general came more from my interest in Greek mythology.
01:01:28
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And I think that it helps explain why human beings have looked at this as a sign of guiding them for so many centuries.
01:01:34
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You know what I mean?
01:01:34
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Like
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millennia.
01:01:36
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Yeah, millennia.
01:01:37
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It's one of the oldest professions really to like look at astrology.
01:01:40
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But again, I'm not saying this, that you must do this and like you must wake up every morning and check your horoscope before you do things.
01:01:46
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I'm saying it more as a look at this and think about your own gifts and think about what you succeed in and what take what resonates with you.
01:01:53
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Because again, your sun sign is not all that makes up your personality.
01:01:56
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You got all these other placements at other houses.
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Like I'm a Libra too.
01:01:59
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I'm a Virgo too.
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I have a Virgo rising.
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You know what I mean?
01:02:01
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Like I have a bit of everything.
01:02:03
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So do you, you know, so I believe you have a Gemini moon or something.
01:02:07
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You have Gemini rising.
01:02:08
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I remember you have a Gemini placement.
01:02:09
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So yeah, you're you are very good at communicating because obviously you have that in your chart as well.
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And I mean, you're pricies too.
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You have all the planets of good communication.
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So you know, it's not like it's not a surprise to me at all.
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Not a surprise to me at all that you're good
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at this.
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But like, look at everything that embraces you and then be like, what are your strengths?
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And like, really be honest.
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I think people lack honesty with their flaws.
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You must be ruthless with your flaws as well so that you can minimize for error and so that you don't end up in situations with terrible people.
01:02:38
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And that's our show for today.
01:02:40
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Diana, I'm so pleased and so proud of you.
01:02:44
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What a masterclass you've given us all.
01:02:46
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Ah, thank you.
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I think it was fun.
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It was so fun.
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I really enjoyed it.
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Yeah, but I hope that everybody has a really good holiday season.
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As I said, we wanted to keep it super light.
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And yes, and as usual, Scroats, this was not for you.
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I don't care what placement you are.
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I don't care what sign you are.
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You're Scroats.
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It doesn't matter.
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Die mad.
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Planet's Grow tells you to die mad.
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The end.
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Thanks, everybody.