Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!

Summer Break

Patricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.

The Secret Palermo Bodega

Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies apply

What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!

Are you interested in participating in a documentary series about being a woman in the world of the internet? Please reach out with an email to us and we will forward it along to the documentary crew! 

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Also email if you want a PDF of the FDS Handbook! 

A Pocket Full of Maybes

What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest.

"Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link [https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630] from the Journal of Interpersonal Violence

Thich Nhat Hanh youtube video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3-aJON5780] on helping hungry ghosts





Freeze, Flight, Faun. Are There Better Options?

Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.

We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyone

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Love you queens! 

Scrotes die mad

The Not-Dating Female Strategy

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love u, see you next week


A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About?

FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.

If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

Scrotes be mad and take it out on pretty ladies

The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah 

Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!

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Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes'

In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should  FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?

Share your thoughts in the comments below!

My Kink is Shaming

Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.

Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic

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Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡

Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”.  Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.  

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