Part deux: previous guest Sophia returns to share the continued saga of her relationship with a beau who would not give up his pursuit, regardless of her wishes or the actual legality of the situation.

I'm Only Blackmailing You as a Friend!

Are we mean? Not mean enough. Rape has become extra legal and we are PISSED and deeply troubled. Join us to talk about the incentive structures that perpetuate systematic, institutionalized violence against women and their bodies.

BTW we are back from a weird post-summer partial hiatus. Happy to be with you queens. Scrotes don't know even 1 rapist.

What Happened in Cornell: Patriarchy, Exemplified

FDS queens are not chill. Patricia is joined by our listener Reina to bury the idea of being "pathetic", center our desires and hold tight to our standards. Its pretty feel-good. 

Wanna co-host with us? Email us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

Love you queens

Listener Guest Reina: Against Chill, For Vulnerability 

Guest host Sarah joins Rose in a freewheeling discussion about alllllll the ways women are told to shrink, dismiss, and ignore how patriarchy instructs us to settle and date down. 

Affirmative action for men in real time - Sarah and Rose tick through the boxes they've broken out of and how they orient themselves to successfully value themselves in the dating realm.

Sarah Says

Guest host Anne-Sophie joins Rose to discuss the lessons learned from the reality tv show Summerhouse and Ciara Miller: how her charisma elevated her platform on the series, and how FDS queens might learn from her dating strategy to navigate their own. Join in to learn what we can learn about friendships and racial/class differences from reality tv.



Wanna co-host with us? Email us at contact@thefemaledatingstratrgy.com

Scrotes act up and then die mad

Listener guest Anne-Sophie: Interracial Dating, Reality TV, and My FDS Journey

How to exist in a world where our worth is always someone else's concern? How to stay true to yourself when seemingly your environment judges and assigns value to every action you take, the way you present in the world, your clothes, your body language? Should we even care?

We delve into self/identity as a woman and human being, and how we fully embody our selves in the face of non-stop criticism and ceaseless attention.

Join us on this philosophical discussion to find some coping strategies and perhaps some insights.

Stay zen our queens. XOXO



Whatever You Do, People Will Have a Million Opinions 

Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!

Summer Break

We explore a useful metaphor for an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. 

No scrotes allowed.

The Secret Palermo Bodega: a Simile For a (slightly) Open Heart

Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies apply

What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!

Are you interested in participating in a documentary series about being a woman in the world of the internet? Please reach out with an email to us and we will forward it along to the documentary crew! 

contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

Also email if you want a PDF of the FDS Handbook! 

A Pocket Full of Maybes

What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest.

"Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link [https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630] from the Journal of Interpersonal Violence

Thich Nhat Hanh youtube video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3-aJON5780] on helping hungry ghosts





Freeze, Flight, Faun. Are There Better Options?

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”.  Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragg

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The Female Dating Strategy

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”.  Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.  

Talk to us at:
contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com 