What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest.

"Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link [https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630] from the Journal of Interpersonal Violence

Thich Nhat Hanh youtube video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3-aJON5780] on helping hungry ghosts





The Four F's: FDS Strategies to Survive and Thrive 

Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.

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Scrotes die mad

The Not-Dating Female Strategy

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A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About?

FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.

If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

Scrotes be mad and take it out on pretty ladies

The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah 

Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!

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Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes'

In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should  FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?

Share your thoughts in the comments below!

My Kink is Shaming

Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.

Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic

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Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡

Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings

Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.

Let's Talk About Sex!

In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS. 

Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026

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A Sobering Tale: Rose's Journey to Sobriety

Rose and Patricia delve into the timeless question: should you play games? In the ensuing discussion, they find answers that underline how important FDS principles are in ensuring a healthy approach to dating and life.

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Should You Play Games? Taking FDS Principles to Heart

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”.  Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.  www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: @FemDatStrat Instagram: @_TheFemaleDatingStrategy

The Female Dating Strategy

Reaux's Show

What happens when a Conservative, Moderate, and Democratic Socialist come together to ruthlessly strategize how to push female interests to the top-spot of their political parties? In this official spinoff of the popular podcast, The Female Dating Strategy, Reaux, Lilith, and Elle plot to reshape the political landscape to women’s benefit (and drag their respective political parties for filth for their failures). We poke through the male-crafted narratives on both sides to design our own common political ground to the benefit of ALL women. Oh yes, we’re breaking the political binary and proud of it! Female First, Female Forward. Politically Non-Binary.

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