In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should  FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?

Share your thoughts in the comments below!

My Kink is Shaming

Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.

Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic

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Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡

Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings

Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.

Let's Talk About Sex!

In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS. 

Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026

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Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
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A Sobering Tale: Rose's Journey to Sobriety

Rose and Patricia delve into the timeless question: should you play games? In the ensuing discussion, they find answers that underline how important FDS principles are in ensuring a healthy approach to dating and life.

Would you like to share a Queen Level-Up Story? Or a roast-a-scrote tale? Write us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

Should You Play Games? Taking FDS Principles to Heart

Welcome back, queens! We are hyped and honored to kick-start the new era of FDS, and we hope to bring back the liveliness and zest of the OG days. We shall do our best

Buckle up for the first episode of the year. We are going to publish every other week and make sure we are consistent before getting back to weekly episodes, and ultimately open the subscriber-only content back up. 

As we shared on Savanna's Swan Song (last pod), If you are still subscribed to the Patreon, we very much value your contribution that goes solely towards production and maintenance costs at the moment.



FOR YOUR REFLECTION:

pillars of FDS, or layers of the cake, or stories of the pyramid

 1. Leveling up - "who do I want to be?"
 2. Standards and boundaries 
 3. Date with intention - continuous vetting that reflects (2)



SEND US YOUR

 * Level-up stories
 * Roast-a-scrote tales
 * Advice (tough love)
 * Guest suggestions 

at: contact@femaledatingstrategy.com



We love you all and are super excited to restart the conversation and to keep the flame alive 👑

What Is FDS: Rekindling The Communal Flame

Join the FDS hosts as they fete and say a bittersweet goodbye to the GOAT: Savannah, OG FDS Queen! We discuss her plans, the State of the Pod, and the goals for FDS in 2026!

Savanna's Swan Song

In this episode, the FDS hosts announce some exciting - and bittersweet - changes for 2026. The State of the Pod lets the Queens say goodbye to Savannah, re-arrange podcast hosting duties, and announce what is to come in the New Year! 

Savannah's Swan Song

Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon queens, the Bonus Queens dive deeper into the manipulative tactics commonly used in debates about dating, relationships, and gender dynamics. 

🎙️ Episode Resources & Links

📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here [https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html]

💖 Support the Podcast
Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon!
👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon [https://patreon.com/TheLevelUpLoungeFDS?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink]

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Logical Fallacies Part 2

Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon baddies, we're bringing this one out of the vault just in time for summer. In this episode, the Queens break down what it really means to have a Hot Girl Summer FDS style.

 

🎙️ Episode Resources & Links

📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here [https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html]

💖 Support the Podcast
Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon!
👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon [https://patreon.com/TheLevelUpLoungeFDS?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink]

🌐 Explore More FDS
Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
[https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com]Twitter: @femdatstrat
[https://twitter.com/femdatstrat]Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy [https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/]

How To Have A Hot Girl Summer

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”.  Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.  www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: @FemDatStrat Instagram: @_TheFemaleDatingStrategy

The Female Dating Strategy

Reaux's Show

What happens when a Conservative, Moderate, and Democratic Socialist come together to ruthlessly strategize how to push female interests to the top-spot of their political parties? In this official spinoff of the popular podcast, The Female Dating Strategy, Reaux, Lilith, and Elle plot to reshape the political landscape to women’s benefit (and drag their respective political parties for filth for their failures). We poke through the male-crafted narratives on both sides to design our own common political ground to the benefit of ALL women. Oh yes, we’re breaking the political binary and proud of it! Female First, Female Forward. Politically Non-Binary.

Savannah

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