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Catching Up: Life Updates
00:00:00
Speaker
Hey, Chris. Hi, Eames. What's up? I have to tell you something. Oh my God. Okay. Should I three-way Peyton in? Yeah, call me. Okay. Hello. Hey, Eames needs to tell us something. I'm three-waying you in. Okay. Immediately. Okay. So. Hello, everyone. Welcome back to another episode of three-way. We are actually three-waying for the first time. This episode today is just going to be like a chit chat episode. We haven't really caught up on like life. Yeah. I feel like we've been talking day to day, but we haven't really like talked. top Yeah. So I feel like we need to catch up on life. I think I have the least amount to say, so I'm going to hand it over to both of you because I just do the same thing every single day. Though I do have a couple notes, but anyway, Kristen, I feel like yours is the most
Kristen's Adventures in New York
00:00:43
Speaker
exciting. So why don't you start? Yeah, let's hear about it.
00:00:46
Speaker
Are we like talking about like personal things? Yes. Yes. We have to give a name. Can we give a name for what's his face on here? Oh God. Yeah. What's his name? What is his name? Everything seems obvious. I know, right? Or should we just call him New York boy? Yeah. So spent the week in New York and I just like had a couple dick appointments, I guess. And let's hear about them from the photos you had a full on boyfriend. You guys were in matching outfits. Can I just tell you like my favorite way to flirt is like so outwardly that it's like a bit to where I'm like, call it like I act like the girl from
00:01:29
Speaker
like the crazy girl from Wedding Crashers. And I'm like, I'll find you. Oh, the redhead. I'll be like, we're gonna get married. And I have your babies like, so it works. I do the same thing. It works. So back up, we met with like through mutual friends on a night out a theme night out mind you with the galleys. I knew this man. Okay, yeah. And I still need the background of that. He's dated quote unquote dated a couple of people that I know. and not in a serious way and like a good way and like a, is there anything bad to report? No, nothing bad to report, but I just have good vibes from him. Like I like him.
00:02:08
Speaker
I know. Okay, well, my experience ah ni was that I was already bored at this bar that we were all at, and I was sleepy and ready to go home. And then Peyton had seen some friends that she was super excited to see. And then this guy, New York guy, looks at Kristen, he goes, I like your outfit. And I knew that they were gonna fuck. And in my head, I was like, and I'm gonna call my Uber, like Kristen's handle, Peyton's handle, and I'm going home. And I called my Uber right away, and I left probably but within the next five minutes. I know it's always such a throw off to like get hit on when I'm it with like Peyton and Iman too, because I'm like, are you sure? Like, but I guess like my nipples were exposed. And also my story made it sound like I would leave if I wasn't getting a touch it. And that's not what i you I just was bored. So New York boy, the shtick on him Schmidt, the lush
00:02:59
Speaker
you know, whatever, is that when I go home with him, he is ah house sitting for someone that is living that lives in my ex boyfriend's apartment, the one that I like lived in during COVID, like quarantine.
Kristen's Fling: A Temporary Boyfriend
00:03:15
Speaker
So like, already, I was just like, I mean, weird, because like, just of all places in Venice, and like, Loki, I had done like a little bump of ketamine, we can believe that. um and It made me sick and so the first night that like I don't know how to believe I Don't even think he's gonna be like a repeating player maybe he he will be but anyway I The okay, I just was like we had a really fun night. I was just like so Aggressively myself and then at the end of the night I wanted to go home with him and I remember like telling Peyton I was like oh I haven't shaved my legs or my vagina and I just like don't feel as hot when I don't like I know guys don't care but like whatever and And I remember like squatting with him and Peyton and just like having a pow-wow and being like, okay, listen, like this is what's going on. And then I was like, also like, are you bi? Cause like you're very pretty. And like, I just- What do you mean by what's going on? What did we say to him? Like- I told him that I had like a bush and my legs were hairy. And that's like, sometimes that just like deterred me from wanting to do, okay, a bush is, I hadn't shaved in like,
00:04:29
Speaker
Oh, you know, I had a little stubble. Anyway, this is also so us coded that I have to be a part of it. I'm like, Hey, exactly. Oh, yeah. my And my boy. I know. I'm pretty sure you were talking me into going home with him because i yeah I was definitely like in a little funk in this position in time. And so you were like, just go. And I was like, trying to come up with excuses, I think. And then we like pow out and ended up just talking it out with him basically. went home with him. It was is always going to advocate for your love life on your behalf. Always, always. And then I go back and it's my ex's apartment and I was like, Oh, that's weird. And then I threw up and he held my hair back and then we cuddled and we made out. I thought he'd made out like
00:05:12
Speaker
a lizard, which if you've listened to Peyton's podcast, you heard made me reevaluate my life. I almost didn't hang out with him again while I was in New York. I just wasn't going to hit him up because I was like, Oh my God, I think he makes out like a lizard maybe. Then I'm just like, whatever. I wake up one morning, I'm horny. I text him and I'm like, I'm in New York. Come over and fuck me basically. And He came over. We had a few drinks. We key keyed. We fucked. My friend Molly came over. We hung out. I pretended like we were dating. I put on an outfit to match him perfectly when we went to go get drinks as a group. And then he was just like my boyfriend for the week. He would just come meet up and like we had sleepovers or
Balancing Romance and Trust Issues
00:05:54
Speaker
a sleepover.
00:05:56
Speaker
Yeah, I feel like he's one of those guys that's just like, I don't know how he is like long term, but he's just always a good time. Like if you need a boyfriend for the weekend, he seems like the perfect one. And he also is basically everything I'm against in terms of like, he's beautiful. He's a DJ. He's a model. Like he could be bad news, but he has three sisters. So then I'm like, wait, he's like so sweet. And like he kept like, we went around and did affirmations one night in New York when we were out. And Ami was like, whoa, I think he really likes you. like He was like, I just love like how genuine like how genuinely yourself you are and you don't give a fuck and all this stuff. And I was like, I don't know. He like sees you. He sees me. And I don't trust him just because of like who he is at the core. I also hate his fucking Instagram presence. I need to unfollow him if I'm ever going to sleep with him again because he's so cringe.
00:06:51
Speaker
Don't just mute. That's my that's my ah my love life update from New York, basically. but I was telling Kristin yesterday, like isn't that her? If she was a boy, she would be a DJ, she'd be a model, and she would live in New York. That is literally her and her core. know that thing it The things I cringe at him for, I am like, God, people probably cringe at me for this same shit. I kept telling Darren to beat him up, and he was like, no, Kristin, I really like him. and I was like, wow. and and um And Ami kept being like, what is like wrong with you? like Why do you keep being mean to him? And I was like, I don't know how to accept love and terrify. Because you're uncomfortable. Yeah, we would having it would be like in the bathroom like ah literally at 3 AM. And I would just be like, yeah, like I just can't let myself love because I'm too fucked up. Your eyes are empty. Yeah, exactly. OK, well, what did what were the highlights of New York?
00:07:46
Speaker
other than um talk about the whole time but being the scenes with Jimmy Kimmel was fun
Emotional Intelligence in Relationships
00:07:51
Speaker
because that was like my first time, or sorry, Jimmy Fallon. And, ooh, that after party was fun. And I think I saw a TikTok that y'all did. Maybe I saw and I think I saw one too. Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah, we did. That was a good one. It was good. That was so cute. That looks so fun. I'm so happy you got to go to that. I know me too. Well, did you eat anywhere good? Or did you get more for I think this place got more time. I want to I want to say like something best burger of my fucking life. It's like literally has maybe 11 seats in it. That's my update, honestly, right?
00:08:27
Speaker
Yeah, you're fucking thriving. Yeah. i'm driving You have a hot, you're like the problem with him is he's so beautiful. and he like with me like care accept love always Like trust issues. It's not, it's not the best, but it's yeah it's the having three sisters that I'm like, Anyway, that's probably the best thing a man can have. Well, he acts like he has three sisters. You can tell he has three sisters. yeah He's like comfortable with women in general. And here's the thing about that. My little brother's like this. like He knows women so well. And he also knows women in like positions of power over him. It's like my mom, my sister, me. like He like listens to us and like genuinely takes on what we say. and like
00:09:12
Speaker
women have shaped his world. yeah So when he goes around and like his friends are so awkward and weird around girls, like Brooks has never really been weird around girls. He's literally just like is like, oh, like he can just, he can be friends with girls. Like he just, it's respectable. He doesn't really see them as objects, which I like. And that's how he is. And that's also how Joe is. Joe has like girlfriends that he's had since like high school that like genuinely love him and want the best for him. But like they're not, it's never like crossing that boundary of like, are y'all flirting, whatever. Like you genuinely sees them as humans. And those are like his friends. He listens to a lot of female like rappers and things like that. Like he listened to a lot of women's music. You know what I mean? Which I like. I liked that about men's. When like a guy can just literally tell a girl she's funny too. I'm like, oh, sadly, like that makes you ahead of like her. I know. Sadly, just scream from the bottom of the barrel. And sadly. Sadly. And sadly.
00:10:09
Speaker
I saw on TikTok that if you're an oldest sibling, you should date a younger sibling because like the dynamic as well. And then I was thinking back to guys that I've dated. And if they had an older sister, we always, because I'm the oldest, we're all the oldest sibling. I've always gone along with them better and I couldn't put my finger on why, but it's like, there's a certain aspect of masculinity, obviously in a man that I like, but when you have an older sister that you've had to answer to and you respect, it's like a masculinity that's not overbearing or like has to be right. It's like, yeah oh, I think women are really smart and what's your opinion on this, but also I'm picking up for dinner. It's like that kind of masculinity. It's of course you and like takes care of you. It respects you.
00:10:53
Speaker
Yeah, right. That's what I guess what I'm getting at. right Well that and knows how to was without being like completely like terrified of you or you know what I mean? Sometimes like, yeah, is but like guy they like are scared of you or like, well, it respects you and also demands respect. That's one of my favorite things about Joe is like, he's not going to deal with me being like he, him him and I both are not really like into toxicity. Like I've never understood the up and down of like the fuck boy relationship. because it makes me uncomfortable. And I, I then see men like that to be really not masculine because I don't like the teetering and the indecision and things like that. Like it just, it's not masculine to me. So with Joe, he's like my, he's the baby of the family. Obviously he acts like one and he like lets me boss him around all day. He does whatever I say constantly. He just like is my little guy. And if I want something, he's like,
00:11:47
Speaker
Well, how do I get this for you? But if I ever like cross a line where I'm being disrespectful to him, he is the first to be like, not mean about it, but to be like, so do know like pause. Yeah.
Iman's Dating and Relationship Goals
00:12:00
Speaker
Yeah. Pause. I'm leaving. Like, great thousand many yeah goodbye. Wonderful boundaries. Yeah, that's also hot. Because I'm literally like, is Joe the youngest? like I'm in trouble. Mm hmm. I like kind of a lot. Anyway, so we'll see. Okay, that's New York boy. Um, we're just just like doing updates on love life stuff now, I guess. Yeah. We're just like, you on what are we going to hide our boy imon I don't have one. Like I feel so single. Well, okay. Okay. If you're listening to this, if you're listening to this right now and you think that we're dating, I'm so sorry.
00:12:35
Speaker
i just feel like i so dingco I am so single and I am going on dates. i'm going i I have one tonight, but it's not that I don't like anyone that I'm dating. I don't feel like anyone I'm dating is the one, but I'm going through the motions of it because I want to be open to something growing. and I'm actively looking for partners and if you think it's you, It's not. It's not. no kind of be Well, what are you looking for, Iman? What do you think the man of your dreams, like what are his characteristics after you've like, I feel like after you date a bunch, which is kind of a positive about dating a bunch, is you're learning things like even if you don't like someone fully, you like parts of them.
00:13:24
Speaker
Yeah. Well, I feel like I'm really having to redefine that for myself because I feel like for such a long time I was dating out of survival of like, I really don't want to work that much. And I just want to be married and have kids. And when you're dating from that perspective, what you're willing to put up with is so much different than if you have your own shit going on and you're passionate about something that I feel like my taste level is also changing the things that I want are changing. um Like what? What do you mean? So obviously still like I want someone who's, I feel like is successful because I'm successful, obviously, but I don't know just the level of emotional intelligence and ability to have like emotional depth has been really important to me. And that seems like, yeah, duh.
00:14:13
Speaker
Well, it's hard but it like actually that playing out like I think that's like words you say like everyone says that but like actually what that means day to day. Yeah, like let's say something annoys you and you guys can talk about it civilly and no one's like, yes, defensive or like offended. Because that's gonna happen. People like honestly, like know how relationships work. Today I was looking on Instagram and someone posted some kind of video about how I was like a meme where this guy was like sometimes when i my girlfriend's being a dickhead, I look at her through ah my fork, and it looks like she's in jail and it heals me spiritually. And like the first comment with like so many likes was like, isn't this a sign of hatred towards your partner? Like don't you even understand? Like, why are you even together if you hate them so much? And Joe and I were like, it sounds like this is like the response of someone who doesn't understand emotions and also has never been in a relationship. Like,
00:15:04
Speaker
Someone who understands the way things ebb and flow and sometimes you're not really gonna like your partner Sometimes you're gonna be annoyed by them and that's yeah like an emotional maturity I guess to understand that like you're not always gonna be happy all the time, but that's always not like a It's also not like a bad thing. know Yeah. And it's also like, when you're having those moments thinking, we're going to get through this verse, like, I don't know if this is the right person. I feel like I've been with people where they're not the right people because the whole time I'm like, I got to get out of here. This place sucks. Instead of like, okay, we have to talk. through I mean, I've obviously had, we need to talk through this before, yeah I think.
00:15:38
Speaker
A lot of my really big fights have shown me how different I am. i I make Joe now with our, if we have disagreements, which we do obviously post, like since our breakup, we've really structured a lot of our like disagreements, if that makes sense. So like for him, I told him during a disagreement, I need to hear him say for him and for me to be like, This isn't, we're not breaking up. This is not like, I still love you. You're just making me upset right now. And like actually verbally say that o that's it's happened only one time really since like we actually made that rule. And like during in the moment, I was like, the last thing I want to fucking do right now is accept that from you. Yeah. But I'm going to say yes, I agree. We're not breaking up, but like, yeah, you're pissing me off. Yeah.
00:16:27
Speaker
that I think my like North star for that is like, I want to be able to have arguments and communicate with a man in the same way that I do in my friendships because I feel like my arguments and my friendships are so healthy because at the end of the day, I'm like, I love this person. Why am I gonna? Yeah, like, and you normally have them in a way that's mean or well you love them and you respect them. But also, yes, like, it's one of those things where like, I have to tell you this and it's going to be really shitty. It's going to suck for both of us have to talk about it because it's uncomfortable. Yeah, like, the idea is it's gonna be better after we talk about this. And you only pick out people that you really like care and love about otherwise you wouldn't put yourself through that like discomfort. Yeah like with my friends I'm not like getting quiet and like turning away in the car and being like hmm that's like that'd be so weird. I'm just like hey let's talk about this it's like very matter of fact sometimes it's obviously emotional but you're right.
00:17:20
Speaker
But it's like you want to do it the whole thing. I am definitely the turn away. Don't. But I say what I'm doing. Not in a way that's toxic. I'm literally just like, I can't talk to you right now. If I talk to you right now, I'm going to say something that I regret maybe. Yeah. Jo taught me that one. My family, we don't really stop talking when we're going to say something we're going to regret. They just blow up. A la my mother.
Healthy Communication in Relationships
00:17:42
Speaker
So Jo taught me that you should probably just stop talking if you're emotional. Yeah. Because you might say something you regret. Oh yeah, the below the belt. That was like really a big like come to Jesus moment for me. I was like, Oh my God. Crazy. Whoa. Oh my God. I could just stop talking. That's weird. you very Like you don't want to say something you regret. Okay.
00:18:05
Speaker
All right. Anything else though? So what do you, are you on hinge? Is that your perfect method right now? I'm on freaking everything and nothing is working. I go on hinge. I could literally pull that up right now. The very first person that I show you is going to validate everything I've ever said. It's not, I'm not saying it like in a way that like, Hey, are you trying everything? I'm like, are you on hinge? What are your response? It wasn't even geared towards you. It was geared towards my frustration and dating and I just took it out on you and that just happened in real time. Well, I knew what you were doing. I know you well enough. um What are your prompts right now? My prompts. Okay. So, okay. I can do my little profile. This is my first photo and it says worst idea I've ever had. Worst idea I've ever had, I say none. And then I do like a little selfie with no makeup.
Bold Flirtation: Kristen's Confident Moves
00:18:54
Speaker
you And then I do a little golf pic. I haven't actually debuted that one on Instagram yet, so no one show anyone.
00:19:01
Speaker
And then it says my most controversial opinion, cant learn and members my Take a deep breath. I'm getting nervous. My most controversial opinion is that all breakfast foods suck and everyone should eat cheeseburgers for breakfast. Classic, Yvonne. And then it says my simple pleasures. I say going home. And then it's, this could be us. It's a video of me eating chicken wings. That's so sexy. I love it. Yeah, a lot of guys respond. Wait, can I tell another New York story? Do I? I so aggressively hit on this man at Zero Bond, like our first night or second night or something. Wait, can I ask you a question? What is Zero Bond? I hear so much about Zero Bond. I've never heard about it. It's like a restaurant and... Is it a sushi? I think I've been there for sushi.
00:19:56
Speaker
Yeah, you probably have. They have like that sushi pizza, I think, but they have really good cocktails like you don't have to eat. We want their after dinner. But like you don't really dance there either unless there's another room that I don't know of. Anyway, We went there a few times, and the night that we were there, there was this dude that was really hot that Ami pointed out, and I was like, oh, yeah. OK, I love when y'all do this, because we did this at the Nice Guy that one time, too. And I feel like, like, that was so fun. Me and Eames, we're not, like, when I go with Iman, we're not, like, necessarily sitting there and being like, ooh, that's a hot guy. Let's, like, sex it up. We've never done that once in our lives. We've done that for almost, I don't know, 10 years now.
00:20:35
Speaker
But like I love that that's like the game and that's just it's just everyone's on the same page and like y'all know each other's types so well. I know and sometimes they cross over but she was like you can have them and so I was like okay so he was leaving and I was like hey I waved at him like I just you know made it a ah whole fucking bit um And he was like, hi. And I like so like told him to come over. And I was like, what's your name? And I was like, oh, cool. How old are you? like Are you married? Blah, blah, blah. And I was like, OK. The voice you're giving him? No, I know. i But it was simply kind of what I was doing. And everyone at the table, and I was like fucking him with my eyes. And everyone at the table was like, oh my god. like Impressed and terrified at the same time.
00:21:22
Speaker
and I can't remember if I was like, do you want my number or whatever? I think i've said I probably said that. And he was like, I'll give you my name and we'll go from there. I'm going to do what like all the girls do. or And so I um just clearly was like feeling confident enough to call the manager over to be like, can you get me a pen and paper? Wrote my name and number on a paper, had him bring it to the dude. And the dude texted. We were texting throughout the week, but I obviously like lost interest since I started hanging out with the other dude and But yeah, I sure put a lot of effort into just not texting the man back
00:22:00
Speaker
after or hanging out with him again. It's also just kind of fun to end the moment for again for the bit to be like, Hey, daddy. Like I have never seen you in like on your game like that. And I was like, Oh yeah, like sometimes I've seen it. It's good. that It's like it's good. It's like something's not for real. Yes, exactly. And then, and I'm just like, yeah, it's so fun. But that was probably one of my best in a while because I literally like had him come over from the other side of the room and then like also had the manager run out my number. wait
00:22:39
Speaker
Do y'all remember when I would like stand up like we were at a club or something? I'd stand up on the table and just point at someone and be like, I'll do it. Yes. And like, they would be so confused. That was one of my favorite things to do. I don't think I ever took a man for two seconds. And I'd be like, bye. like yeah Like, I get the bit. Yeah. It's like a power trip or something. I know. Yeah, pain's on her power trip. Because I'm on the table. Because I'm like... Yeah, no, you're on the bench and you're like... Yeah, and then we would realize like, oh, actually we don't feel like fucking with them. What's interesting is if I had seen Joe in real life, he is definitely someone I would have been like, Hello, Elle.
Chicago vs. New York: A Tale of Two Cities
00:23:19
Speaker
Come here. Because he's so attractive. Specifically attractive to me. I think he's attractive, but he's so specifically my type that he's definitely someone I would have been like, oh, that super tall guy over there. It also dawned on me that I've gotten asked a number of times and my DM of Joe is tall. And I'm like, what do you mean? It's not obvious. Yeah. Everyone thinks that he...
00:23:39
Speaker
I think everyone thinks that I'm taller, but I've got multiple things being like, wait, how tall are you? Because he looks really tall next to you. People think I'm tall and I'm five too. I feel like no one knows how to tell height from a photo more than a tall woman because on dating apps, because I feel like I know how tall every, you could show me a photo. We could do a test. I will tell you exactly how tall each person is. So I don't personally understand not being able to tell, but your legs do look long in photos, Kristen. Hell yeah. yeah Well, someone asked her like, they were like, well, I thought you were tall, but maybe he's just maybe he's just really tall. And I was like, well, he's like six, just under six, five. That's pretty tall. Damn. As a dude. I'd say so. When I wear heels, like he's still much taller than me. Yeah. Release. Release. You got to get yourself a tall man.
00:24:25
Speaker
Kristin, do you want to go to the Chainsmokers after party at 12? I don't think so. Me neither. If you said yes, I would i would say yes. Y'all could rock on. I don't really have much to update y'all on. I went to Chicago. like last weekend. I don't know when it's going to come out. It might be like later. So I don't want to date it too much, but I went to Chicago last weekend. Best fucking city ever. I feel like to it's my second favorite city in the US to visit that I've ever visited, like New York and then Chicago. And then like LA is like somewhere, like number four.
00:25:03
Speaker
Do you guys know that victorious song Chicago? You know what I'm talking about? No. Okay. I fucking love Chicago. It's so clean. It was so fun. Everyone was so nice. If we went to this one place before we went to dinner one night, like Joe played a really good game in Chicago too, so that made it better. But we went to dinner one night and we went to get drinks before and like just little things like we were standing up by the bar and some guy from across the bar who was with his girlfriend. could tell that we were just standing there, like waiting for a drink. So he like fully waved Joe over and was like, come here. And Joe's like, I don't know like what's happening right now. And he waves him over and he's like, hey, we're about to leave. I just wanted to make sure you guys got these seeds because I've seen you standing here. Like they're just so nice and like Midwestern, but like it's still a city.
Engagement Plans: Kristen and Joe
00:25:50
Speaker
There's so much good food. Like it's so big. It feels like I'm in l LA or like New York, you know? Like ah it feels like there's a lot to do.
00:25:58
Speaker
Yeah, which I really like. But the fans they were so nice like in l LA or in New York, playing the Mets was like the first game that reverse played. So we went to play the Mets for like three games. And the fans were so rude. like The little kids in our family section were horrified because they were such dickheads. But the Cubs, in a city like Chicago, you'd think they'd be like really amped and like kind of dickheads as well. But they were just like so nice. They were like kind of making fun of the Brewers player or the blew brewers like family, for example, and the families making fun back. like It was a fun game experience. like No one was taking it too serious. yeah You know what I mean? And New York was so, so different.
00:26:40
Speaker
It was silly, goofy mood. It was so fun. So I feel like we should do a girls trip to Chicago. But also the more you talk about New York, I said I feel like we need to do a girls trips in New York because I miss it. I really want to go to New York really bad. Okay, can we make this about me now? Oh, yeah. Your wife, wife, wife, wife. What if you went like this and there was a ring? i yeah know my god I think honestly, well, one, Joe and I talked about the ring. We've been talking about the ring, Kelsey, all of our mutual friends. wait Have you met Kelsey yet, Kristin? Yeah, yeah. We need to do an actual girl strip with us four. That would be yeah so fucking fun and unhinged. Well, Kelsey is the one
00:27:24
Speaker
who basically was like last time we were when we were all on stagecoach, she was like, you need to get your ring size immediately. And she basically was like, I didn't want to tell you this, but like he she has gotten the text from Joe to be like, don't freak out. She texted her just don't freak out. It's not happening right now. But like we need to coordinate. So I've been sending her ring photos, but I just haven't got my ring sized. And there's literally a jeweler when I say a block away from us. There's something about going to get sized though that I'm like, it's stressing me out. Like it gives me like a little bit of like, because it feels real.
00:28:02
Speaker
Yeah, it does. And I'm not like iffy about it. Obviously, we got back together with the intention of getting and engaged. like I didn't just like get back together with him because we like were feeling like like it. was obviously like ah We talked about it for months, why we'd be getting back together, like what the plan was. But anyway, he knows like I texted him recently, a photo of a ring and he was like, I know what you want. You just need to get sized. So like I was basically Kelsey's our middleman. She tried to keep it sexy. So she's like, don't send him photos because that is like too obvious. Like we're like in high school where you're like, so Hey, my friend likes your a friend. I don't know anything about diamonds, but I need to go get my ring sized. I don't know when it's going to happen, but okay. We'll do it now so that you don't have to make it awkward where it's like,
00:28:49
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Imagine like months down the line if he wants to do it and then Kelsey has to like somehow get you to go get... like Just do it so no one has to try to get you to do it. Kelsey's like, go do it. Drew's like, what's your ring size? but Yeah, go do it so there could be some mystery. Just guess. Yeah. Well, I know what my ring size on this hand, so it's going to guess, but I'm also nervous. What if I get bloated? What if I gain weight? Well, my friend Macy wasn't able to take her ring off for three years after she gave birth and she just kept it on. she I was like, you've been taking that off for three years? She was like, no. She had no issue. She didn't care. out She wasn't trying to get it off. you but see I don't like that though. I don't like jewelry on. Me neither. no maybe their i It made me want to like throw up thinking about it, but she dealt with it. I don't know how. Is this boring up updating on our lives? No. A boomerang? I said, is it boring?
00:29:41
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I think it's boring.
Podcast Reflection and Listener Engagement
00:29:43
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I think to do a podcast and for anyone who's listening, to do a podcast, you kind of have to just mind fuck yourself and to think you people give a shit. But I do think it's nice because let's say when I go on out to self or if y'all did a separate podcast by yourself, it's so hard to have a natural conversation where we talk about all these different things like know to self, I have a purpose and I go in there with specific information, but don't necessarily go on tangents about natural diamonds versus like lab-grown diamonds. we don't share we don't but kind of guess he's our another spell more team I guess these are necessary in between our like themed ones to like act. Yeah. Yeah. And I didn't find that boring. Like I kept listening. Oh, no, I wasn't saying that specifically. I just was like, I mean, does do people really care about, I mean, me? I don't know. We can ask the audience. I think we should keep all of this in. We should keep literally everything in. hu
00:30:36
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Hey, does anyone actually give a fuck? Yeah, if you're still listening, if you're still listening, let us know. So anyway, guys, thanks for tuning in. Thanks for catching up. Don't tell anyone what we said. Literally, guys. Don't tell anyone. Anyway, I want to leave you guys all with and a happy hour theme. Just in honor of you know what came from one of our happy hour themes this week, I would would like to thank you know that night for giving me the pleasure that it did in New York. The pleasure. No, babe, that was the full meaning. That was the meaning. That was pleasure. Yeah.
00:31:21
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Anyway, okay. So let's think of a good theme for the girlies for happy hour this week. One thing would be fun is like full New York fashion week theme. Like you bring out your most and that's like a key iconic. Yeah. Just like not even a high end, but just like most iconic statement outfit. And you guys look all look like the most Like cool. And then fucking romanticize it. Don't get shy when she gets the restaurant. Go order like order like a martini's and yeah your local Thunderbird. Take on the role that you are the main character. Yes, we do. We all do this a lot, by the way. Yeah. And it's every you're happy or a theme. Get together with your girls on a literal Tuesday. That's been like a big
00:32:05
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a big thing still going on in my life. romanticizing Romanticizing. One night when we went to Chateau, I was like, you guys, let's just romanticize. we like did cigarette I don't even smoke cigarettes. We need, how can we romanticize this night? I like cry out the window of the black car. Yes. yeah Yes. Yes. On the way to a sex party. I'm like, Yes, like Chris likes to do. You guys do it up my favorite way to run romanticize life it up really emotional. Guys, this week's theme is New York Fashion Week. You'll have to tag what's our at on Instagram at three way pod.
00:32:42
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you'll have photos tag us. I want to see y'all's best New York fashion week. If you were going to New York fashion week or Paris fashion week, whatever one you want. Yeah. I want to see your best outfits at your place. And I think we might like, okay, something that we should maybe do in the future is like we do some sort of giveaway where We do like an Uber gift card so they could get a black car and romanticize in the back seat, like looking at the door. And everyone should be crying. And everyone has to be crying. I love that. We should definitely also in the future do, when we're all in the same city, do like meet up somewhere where we all come in theme. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I like that. That sounds really fun. I like that a lot. OK, well, OK girls. Bye girls. Bye divas. We love you so much. Love you. Mwah. Mwah.