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AITA - Let's talk about S3X baby | #JY S3E32
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Transcript
00:00:13
Speaker
Hello
Director's Commentary: The Horse Named Snowball
00:00:14
Speaker
everybody. Hello. My name is Shannon. My name's Alyssa and Judge Claude Frollo's horse from the hunchback of Notre Dame is named Snowball. That is adorable. And also for a big, big scary black horse like that. Yeah. It was like the director's commentary. I don't, obviously the horse's name isn't in the movie. So it was just whatever the people were calling him that were drawing him. So like, yeah, but it was, yeah, it's the director's cut where they talk about it. So.
00:00:40
Speaker
Yay! Here we are! Hi everybody! It's been a minute! I know I say that every time, but it's actually been a while. Jokes?
Alyssa's Big Hands Joke
00:00:52
Speaker
I have some jokes. Do you want a joke? Yeah! Okay, how about a low math equation for you? Okay.
00:00:59
Speaker
If you have 13 apples in one hand and 10 oranges in the other hand, what do you have? A lot of fucking big hands. I don't know. Big hands. I was like, oh, more people know how I would say I can only hold like an apple in one hand. Like this. Maybe two. Maybe two. Depends on the size of the apple. Right.
Am I the Asshole: Introduction
00:01:17
Speaker
okay yeah so i guess we should say what we're doing yeah am i the asshole yes to read today so kick back relax and uh we're gonna unleash some drama on you yeah i um only have three but they are long
00:01:40
Speaker
Oh, we didn't even share which ones we have. Which ones do you have? Yes, we'll find out if any are duplicates. That's good because mine are long. Are yours long? I don't know. Mine are long. Okay, you want to go first? Sure. Okay, let's see. Okay, all right, okay, all right.
00:01:56
Speaker
I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna tell you the title of this one because it gives the whole thing away. Okay. So yeah, so. I hate that. Right. Me and
Sibling Support: Period Drama
00:02:04
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my boyfriend have been together for a year. My boyfriend has been taking care of his siblings 16F, 12F, and 11M since his oldest, oldest sister was born. When he was 18 he moved out of his parents house and took them with him. He currently has custody over all of his siblings.
00:02:20
Speaker
He's a really hard worker and I haven't seen him or his siblings struggle at all. They have all they need and as far as I know has never gone to bed hungry because of him. One of the reasons I fell in love with him is because of his caring nature, especially for his siblings. I'm not going to explain the whole dynamics as I know it, but when I say taking care, I mean he took care of them from buying food to helping with homework. He did it all as he was basically mom and dad for them as he finished school in the process.
00:02:47
Speaker
His youngest brother even calls him dad. His parents are the definition of deadbeats. Current situation with them is that they don't even know if their parents are alive and they have no other family. These four is all that is left of the whole family. I slept over at his house last night, and this morning around 6 a.m., his 12-year-old sister came into the kitchen crying hysterically. She said historically.
00:03:08
Speaker
Um, she woke up with blood in her pants and freaked out. She started, she had started her period. My boyfriend got her to calm down and explain that she is all right and everything, have you heard this one? No. Okay. And that everything will be okay. He then gave her a brief explanation of what is happening and that her body is changing. He asked her to go and take a shower to get cleaned up and told her where to find the pads that his old, his other sister, 16F, is using and to use them as the oldest sister showed her.
00:03:34
Speaker
When I left to go and take, or when she left to go and take a shower, he said, shit, I thought we'd have another year left. I asked what he meant and he said his sister, 16, started her period when she was 13. And he knows not all females and bodies are the same, but he thought it would be around the same time. So he was just a bit unprepared for this discussion.
00:03:53
Speaker
I was shocked with that comment and the fact that he knew his sister used pads. Why does he know when she started her period in the first place? Why does he know what she uses? I wanted to ask him why he knew this, but he kept the question to him. I kept the question to myself. Oh my gosh.
00:04:09
Speaker
When his sister returned from her shower, he asked if everything was alright and if she was having any discomfort. I started to get disgusted when he asked that question. He told her that she didn't have to go to school today and he will take her for some shopping. After breakfast, he sat her down in the living room and explained everything in detail to her regarding what is going on and what will happen, all of it.
00:04:30
Speaker
He said he helped the older sister with her first time and will help her as well. He finished with saying that her sister, 16, will be able to help her more with the type of products to use and how they work. I was surprised, shocked, and disgusted about all the things he told her.
00:04:46
Speaker
He was correct in everything, but no brother should know that much about what's happening to his sister's bodies. Unfortunately, his older sister wasn't at home to help. She had a sleepover at a friend due to a project for school, so he took charge of explaining everything. He must have seen the disgust in my face and asked me what was wrong, and it just slipped out. I told him, you're a disgusting pig.
00:05:06
Speaker
The words just kept coming out of my mouth. I couldn't stop talking. I told him exactly what I thought about the situation and that it's disgusting that he knows that much, especially about his own sisters, and is now trying to coach the younger sister on what to do. He asked me to leave. He didn't argue, yelled, nothing. Just said, leave my house. I know I went about it all wrong, but my stance is the same. No brother should know that much about his own sister's bodily functions. Am I the asshole? Yes! Oh yeah.
00:05:33
Speaker
What? If we acted as the parent the whole time, it's not weird. It's not weird. And even if he was... Even if not, yeah. Even if not, it's not weird. It's your suit. Women complain all the time that men don't understand. They don't know what we're going through. They don't know what we're going through. So when they try to learn, they're disgusting pigs for wanting to know what's happening to us.
00:05:54
Speaker
No, no, like I think they should have to learn they should happen. There's so many guys There's still men today. Okay that believe that uh P and everything else comes out the same home. Mm-hmm, right? They still believe that we can control When we have our periods and stuff that we can just hold it in. No, they're like, yeah, hold it in like a wish like but there's
00:06:20
Speaker
I'm sorry. There's so much about that. That is so wrong. The amount of men who thought pads stuck to our bodies and not the underwear is insane to me. Yep. Like, they should know. They should know. There's no reason. They absolutely should. Whether they're, I mean...
00:06:37
Speaker
whether they're going to be in a relationship with a woman or have children in the future. If they have daughters, they need to know this and stuff. I'm not saying they need to know everything about the products and yada yada and stuff, but like all anybody ever does is complain that men just don't understand. Okay? Help them. Yeah. You know? And it's stop shaming them for wanting to know and stuff. Don't say it's like, Oh, it's not manly to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. What's more manly than caring for your children? Yeah. There's nothing more manly than caring for your child.
00:07:05
Speaker
You know? Yeah, and like where the sister wasn't there to help, what was he supposed to do? Just not explain it to her? Oh yeah, no, you're just gonna have blood coming out of your body for occasionally. It's fine. What else are you gonna do? Also, that
Pregnancy Announcement Drama at Baby Shower
00:07:20
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school fucking failed her because a lot of like fifth grade on has a lot of like maturation programs and stuff. She should have known that. She should have known that. I mean, she has 12, so like, but still. She should have known that. She should have known that.
00:07:32
Speaker
Yeah, we did it at age 10. Okay, there is an update. So first and last, she says, to everyone saying, he should leave me, you are right, he dumped me. I went to his house to apologize to him and his little sister. The 16 year old was there as well. She slapped me and shouted at me, vile names, right? That's a lot, but she shouted at me for trying to break the family apart and trying to say her father is a pedo.
00:07:57
Speaker
My now ex got her to stop and sent her to her room along with the other siblings. I wanted to apologize but before I could even start he told me to keep my mouth shut and listen. He forgave me but before I even asked for forgiveness but said that he can't forgive is the
00:08:12
Speaker
What he can't forgive is the fact that I basically turnt his little sister against him and making her doubt his intentions. It took him almost the full day to get her to talk to him and she only talked to him after the 16 year old assured her that he did nothing wrong and only wanted to help her like he helped her.
00:08:30
Speaker
His exact words were, you turned one of my children against me. That is something I can't and will not forgive. You're dead to me. Now get the fuck out of my house. He said it was so much anger in his voice and I could see in his eyes that he absolutely hated me in that moment. I was actually scared for myself in that moment, right? Be a fucking victim, whatever, fuck off.
00:08:52
Speaker
I haven't talked to some of my friends about this and you all might be glad to hear, but I'm losing friends as well. Even my own sister is now refusing to talk to me. Yes, in our house, my father had nothing to do with our periods and my mom handled everything. What should I have done? I was taught he did something wrong.
00:09:09
Speaker
I thought he did something wrong. I can see I'm in the wrong, but still, why am I being punished for this? His words really hurt me. That is not fair. I didn't even get the chance to explain myself or anything after he was done talking. He again just kicked me out of his house. I am blocked everywhere and can't get a hold of him. I even tried his sister's phone, but I'm also blocked there. And then,
00:09:30
Speaker
A couple of more edits and stuff. She said, please stop asking me for his contact number in his name in the comments and PMs. I'm not giving that to anyone. Why would I do that and have one of you try to steal him from me? I screwed up. I know, but I will fix it and get him back. I really do love him and I know he still loves me. This is just a speed bump. Just wait and see. We'll be back together again.
00:09:50
Speaker
uh i don't think so you called him a disgusting pig that's a little much and effectively called him a pedo to his children his siblings yeah like what is the title of it now that you can um spoil it crap where's the title goes did you not copy it since it i might not have copied the title i just remember reading this anyway but it was like am i the asshole for like saying my boyfriend knows too much about his sisters
00:10:16
Speaker
like bodily functions or periods or whatever it was. I don't remember exactly, but yeah, I'll have to look it up later, see if there's another update. But I think her account got deleted, so she'd probably have to make a new one. Okay, so this one I hope you have not heard. It's about a rainbow baby. Do you have a rainbow baby story?
00:10:33
Speaker
Okay, I can't- I still don't understand what the difference about a fucking butterfly- I don't know what a butterfly baby is. Okay, I was reading some of the comments on one of the videos I saw about a butterfly baby. If anyone knows what a butterfly baby is, please tell me and please tell me it's not the re- what people believe is the reincarnation of a just dead baby. Oh.
00:10:52
Speaker
Some people were just like, yeah, when I lost my last child and then I had my beautiful butterfly baby, I knew she'd live on through this one. And I was like, that's weird. That's what do you mean? Just celebrate that you had a child. Right? And I'm like, are you saying like you're just excited that you have another baby and you know that like you're still going to love and cherish your other child and you're going to tell this child about their sibling that unfortunately passed or what? Like what is going on? Like I don't.
00:11:18
Speaker
Are you renaming it the same thing you would have named? Like what? Exactly. That's my other question. Like are you just be like, yo, this is my baby. I can only have one. Like that's weird. I just, I don't know. And I Googled what a butterfly baby was and it said that it was a child born with like paper like skin. And so it's like, it's, it's like a genetic disorder or something. So they have like, yeah, they have really thin skin and they're like easily damaged and stuff like a butterfly wing and like, well, yeah, like they can bruise easily or like yeah.
00:11:49
Speaker
But yeah, and I was like, I don't think that's the same thing. You know, it's not what they're going for. Yeah, and your turn. Okay. Butterfly baby. Rainbow baby. Am I the asshole for not allowing my cousin to announce her pregnancy at my baby shower for my rainbow baby?
00:12:07
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okay okay and there's an update oh okay this is one thing you read about on facebook and think there's no way people actually act like this until it happens to you my husband and i are finally expecting our rainbow baby after years of infertility and multiple miscarriages
00:12:23
Speaker
It's safe to say that we and our family are very freaking excited. My mother is probably the most excited. She's been planning our baby shower and making decorations for months. She's been the biggest help during this exciting yet scary pregnancy. A few weeks ago my aunt told my mother that my cousin is pregnant.
00:12:41
Speaker
We are very happy for her. However, my aunt said their plan is to announce her pregnancy at my baby shower since they're having a party anyways. Cheapskates? No. She says it's not a big deal and we both can share the day. I said absolutely not because we have been waiting for this day forever and it should be all about me and my rainbow baby. My mother is on my side and told my aunt that they better not announce anything at the party. My aunt dropped it and nothing else was ever said.
00:13:08
Speaker
Last Saturday was my baby shower. It was everything I've waited for. Everything is going good. No one has announced my cousin's pregnancy. When it was time for us to eat my cake, my aunt said, hold on everyone, and went outside to her car to grab something. That was the moment I knew something was up. I would have locked the front door.
00:13:26
Speaker
My mother and I followed her outside and my aunt decided to bring a cake announcing my sister's pregnancy and some presents for my cousin. My mother immediately told my aunt that she will not be bringing those back into the rec center and they will not be ruining my day. My aunt started throwing a fit screaming, this is a baby shower. It's for babies. Cousin is having a baby too. So this day is about her too. No.
00:13:51
Speaker
My cousin now joins the screaming and says how pissed off she is that everything is always about me. And why do we always have to be happy for me? They would not stop screaming. So they were kicked out by the rec center security. And half our family was upset that I wouldn't let her have a moment at my shower. So they left too. Now everyone is bashing my mother, myself and rainbow baby on Facebook in group family texts and anything at all. Exactly. You don't need them.
00:14:20
Speaker
So Reddit, what's out of the asshole? So do you want to comment before I say more? I've been coming. I feel like that was true. Like just so, how fast I would have been like, oh, let me help you with that cake. Yeah. Like hurl it over my head. Are you kidding me? Like.
00:14:36
Speaker
We told you no, take that as a no. It's not just for babies. It's for her and her baby and her husband. This is coming from someone who doesn't even want kids, doesn't want a baby. That would be my fucking baby shower. Thank you very much. It's not like both of us had a miscarriage at the same time and we both found out we were having babies at the same time and you being like, this is so awesome. We can do this together.
00:15:03
Speaker
no so what's that update some people have asked for an update and this is the type of update i never wanted to make i am truly heartbroken first off my beautiful baby girl came into the world three weeks early on june 15th we have been so excited and are enjoying every minute of it blah blah blah good for her now the update on my cousin and aunt
00:15:24
Speaker
On June 16th, the day after my baby girl was born, my cousin texted our family group chat and said she had a miscarriage. I was so sad for her and despite still being upset with her, I told her that if she needed anything to call me and I would be there for her. I spent hours crying for her, with her, talking her through everything. Her feelings, my feelings, how I was able to cope through my multiple miscarriages. She came over a lot holding on to my baby and crying. I saw a change in her and she seemed so sincere.
00:15:54
Speaker
My cousin lied. She was never pregnant. What a kind. Apparently a few days after her miscarriage, my cousin told her mother, my aunt, that she was loving all the attention she was getting and that she lied about ever being pregnant. She said she can't wait to magically get pregnant with her rainbow baby.
00:16:18
Speaker
and can get even more attention. A few days ago my aunt made a comment about it to my grandma and my grandma was very upset. My aunt said not to tell anyone, especially me, since I would be so dramatic about it. She said it wasn't a big deal and everyone needed their time to shine, aka my cousin's future rainbow baby.
00:16:38
Speaker
Of course my grandma told everyone and now I am so heartbroken. Good grandma. Right? Yeah. Now I really don't know if my aunt did or did not know that she lied to begin with. My aunt doesn't even care that she lied and her behavior afterward is disgusting. So I'm leaning more toward she knew all along and was in on it. However, we have all cut ties with my aunt and cousin. I cannot believe someone would stoop so low as to lie about being pregnant, then miscarrying and then having a rainbow baby just for attention. I thought she was going to kidnap the baby.
00:17:07
Speaker
I was like, oh my gosh. Like if she had her own miscarriage, then she's like, well, I want my baby. And so, you know, like, especially where it's like, she came over and she held my baby. Yeah. No, no, no, no, no. No. I'll get her a screening order just for that. Oh my gosh. Yeah, I would.
00:17:23
Speaker
That's so not okay. No. She needs help. Yeah. Therapeutic help. Yep. Clinical. Yes. Like straight jackets. Like, yeah, drink it. Oh my gosh. Yeah, that's my three. Holy shit. Okay. All right. Well. Maybe I should have saved that for last. Dang it. That's okay. So good. Okay. This is a long one.
Emotional Turmoil: Best Friend's Marriage
00:17:47
Speaker
I'm sorry. I realize I have two long ones and a short one, so I'll give my two long ones and
00:17:54
Speaker
Okay, my ex-wife, 38 female, married my 37 male, best friend, 35 male. Okay, so he's poster, OP is 37, wife is 38, friend is 35. Okay. It's killing me and destroyed my marriage. Okay. So I, 37 male, have been with my wife, 26 female, for five years, and married for four years.
00:18:19
Speaker
We have three kids from her previous relationship. I was like, damn, getting them in there. Right. Two boys and one girl between the ages of five and eight. I really love her and her kids. Things were perfect until three or four months ago. I've had three big promotions in five years. We bought a house last year. We bought a house last year.
00:18:38
Speaker
I've always been on the fence about having kids, but she really wanted us to have one together. So I agreed to try and have my vasectomy reversed. She is seven months pregnant now and we are so fucking happy. Oh no. My ex-wife, 38 female, divorced me in 2019 and moved about two hours away a few months into the pandemic. Our divorce was amicable, but once it was finalized, I never heard from her again, even when I would wish her well on her birthdays and holidays.
00:19:05
Speaker
I even sent her a graduation gift when I heard that she finished her PhD program. Other people in our social circle, including my parents and sister-in-law who sent her a gift, received handwritten thank you cards. I didn't get so much as a text. My ex-wife is a really kind and thoughtful person, and the woman I knew would have at least sent me a thank you text if her worst enemy sent her a gift. Even though we broke up, I didn't think she hated me. My best friend, 35 Male, and I were best friends since college.
00:19:32
Speaker
He's the best person I know and at least 10 people think he's their best friend. But he said, I was always his. We kind of lost touch during the pandemic. We live two hours apart and he is a lawyer and teaches classes at a university. So he's really busy. I have a really busy career and a new wife and three kids. I didn't really realize that the texts between us were fewer and that the last time he finally replied to me was in late 2021.
00:19:56
Speaker
He also falls off the face of the earth when he gets a new girl and then when things cool off we all hear from him more. We have always been the kind of friends that can go an extended period of time without communicating and then pick up right where we left off. I kept saying that I would eventually call him when things were less busy.
00:20:13
Speaker
My wife and I went to visit the city he and my ex-wife live in last summer for a week and I tried calling him a couple of times to meet up but he never answered. I was sad but just figured that he was busy with work or obsessed with a new girlfriend. I have other friends there so I got to see them. Then I went to the city again by myself in October for a Halloween party. I figured he'd be at this party and I was psyched that I'd get to see him then.
00:20:36
Speaker
He was there. When I went to say hi and hug him, he looked a little surprised and gave me a weak hug. I told him that I was there during the summer and that I tried calling him so we could hang out. He just said, yeah, I was on my honeymoon that week. Sorry, I didn't get back to you. I was really shocked to hear that he had gotten married and a little hurt that my best friend got married without me even knowing he had a serious girlfriend, but I was still happy for him.
00:21:00
Speaker
Like I said, he was a great guy and girls love him. I spit out a rush of questions like, who is she? Where is she? What's her name? What's she like? Where'd you meet her? And how long have you been together? He paused for a moment and just said bluntly, it's blank. My ex-wife. My ex-wife doesn't have a unique name or anything, but it isn't the most common name either. And I instantly knew that it was her.
00:21:23
Speaker
I can't describe how I felt to hear those two words come out of his mouth. I felt sick to my stomach and I immediately wanted to die. I have never felt like that before. I just said, what the fuck? He told me that I didn't get to be mad because I broke her heart and they didn't start dating until two years after we got divorced and that I chose to be with some waitress anyway.
00:21:43
Speaker
Okay, I don't know. So yeah. I drank the rest of the weekend because it was the only way I was able to sleep. I felt betrayed by, or I feel betrayed by both of them. My best friend since I was 20 years old married my ex-wife behind my fucking back. I was married to her for six years and they were never even friends and now they're in love with each other. I also found out that he talked shit about my current wife and me behind my back and never liked her.
00:22:09
Speaker
I went back home and I know that I was distant with my wife and kids because I was just hurting so much. After a couple of weeks we had a big fight and she called me out on being distant and accused me of cheating. I finally came clean and told her about my ex and my best friend which she scoffed about and said she'd known about them for a long time now because of social media. I flew into a rage and we fought for hours. She betrayed me by not telling me the entire time she knew and she didn't say anything when I mentioned my best friend not returning my calls or messages.
00:22:39
Speaker
I didn't get to sleep before going to work and after work, I just stayed with my parents for a few days. When I finally went back home, we got into another fight where she accused me of still being in love with my ex and said that I wouldn't care if I wasn't. I called her stupid and said she wouldn't understand because she doesn't have any friends. Oh my god, people. I wouldn't care if my ex-wife got married to anyone else if it wasn't my best friend. I don't see what is so hard to understand about that.
00:23:07
Speaker
We made up eventually, but I feel sick to my stomach every day and things aren't the same in our relationship. I love my wife, but I've come to realize that it's not the same way I loved my ex-wife. My wife doesn't love me the same way my ex-wife did either. We have started to regret the things that led to our divorce because we were really happy until the moment she left me. I don't even have my best friend to call because he's too busy fucking my ex-wife to care about me anymore.
00:23:36
Speaker
Everything feels empty and like a lie now. A lot of friends agree that both of them betrayed me, but think I need to move on. Even my dad and brother told me to get over it. My sister-in-law yelled at me and my mom tries to comfort me, but I know she's overhearing about my problems. I have to pretend I'm okay, but I'm not.
00:23:55
Speaker
No one gives a shit about mental health when it comes to men, which fuck off. That's not literally my first thought was please go to therapy. Yeah. Uh, I bought, I brought up couples therapy therapy to my wife, but she said that she thinks that we're okay since we worked through things. I guess I have to pretend for the rest of my life now because divorce is not on the table.
00:24:12
Speaker
Why? Right. I need advice on what to do and how to get closure. I'm thinking of driving to their city to just show up and force them to talk to me so I can move on. Is that too much to ask? How do I get my wife to see that it's hard to trust her knowing she kept a big secret from me for that long? Which I kind of agree with a tiny bit that she kept something from you. But like maybe she didn't realize that he didn't know. Maybe. If it's on social media. Yeah. Like are you not friends with your friend? I don't know.
00:24:40
Speaker
And then there's a small update. I need to go and look and see if there's more of an update, but it says, the overwhelming consensus here is that I am a piece of shit, which is true. The other consensus is that I need therapy. I asked my brother to help me, but neither of us even know where to begin to find a therapist. He said he would ask his wife to help us. And she texted me this morning and said that she was only helping because of my brother. I guess that's fair. Literally Google, right? How is that hard? Yeah, Google closest therapist. Therapists near me. Right? Oh my gosh.
00:25:10
Speaker
Yeah, he needs a therapy in general because fighting with your current wife like that is not okay. Right. And then I understand why he would be upset with her, but like I said, maybe she just didn't realize or she didn't want to bring up, Hey, did you see that they got married? You know, how do you?
00:25:29
Speaker
it's true like how would you bring that up also i want to know why did they get divorced yeah why didn't she just leave him like because yeah he makes it seem like oh she just left me but then new husband is like no you broke her heart so like if that's how she feels no wonder
00:25:46
Speaker
you know, best friend doesn't want to be around him anymore. He hears her side of the story. But I still feel like it would have been nice for the friend to at least reach out and just let him know. Right. So like I get where he's coming from, especially because like we don't know what happened. Did you cheat on your wife with this woman? Yeah. Because he said, let's see here, five years. So 2024. So yeah, it could have been him cheating on her or
00:26:13
Speaker
He just got into a relationship very quickly after. Yeah. And you shouldn't travel there and demand that they talk to you. They obviously stopped talking and responding to you for a reason. They're moving on. And you need to figure out your shit in therapy. Anyway, your turn. Am I
Sexual Conflict in Marriage
00:26:32
Speaker
the asshole for getting it elsewhere since my wife didn't want to have sex anymore?
00:26:38
Speaker
yes okay divorce a few months ago i posted for relationship advice on another sub basically my wife has decided unilaterally that we are done having sex she found out that she cannot have kids due to a choice she made before we met which i don't know what the that means because it doesn't seem like she had her tubes tied or something like yeah
00:27:03
Speaker
found out she couldn't have kids as different than I had my tubes tied. And kids apparently are the only reason she was willing to have sex. I love my wife and I enjoy being intimate with her, but it was making our marriage untenable after two years of this.
00:27:22
Speaker
So I posted for advice. I got a lot of great support and suggestions about how to talk to my wife. I tried a lot of it. I started going for counseling for myself as well. But no matter how I approached her about our situation, she would not try and see it from my point of view. Every discussion would end with her crying and screaming in my face that I am trying to emotionally manipulate her.
00:27:45
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I then wrote her a letter outlining my feelings and asking her to come with me for counseling, to seek it for herself and perhaps to see a doctor. I was kind and loving in the letter. The last thing I wanted to do was set her off. I worked on the wording with my counselor to make sure I wasn't saying anything aggressive that could be misinterpreted. She read the letter, then she scrawled across it with her red sharpie, go get it elsewhere because you're not getting it from me.
00:28:11
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divorce. Then she walked out. I sat there for about an hour doing nothing. Then I told myself that's what I was going to do. We were both fairly successful in our jobs. I'm not super attractive, but I'm fit and a good talker. It took a while, but I met someone. We started out as just friends, but it became physical. I made sure she knew I was married. She's not interested in a relationship, so I guess I'm a safe option for her.
00:28:36
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My wife found out because I did not try to hide it. She was crying when I got home one night. When I came in she asked if I was going to leave her. I said no. She asked if I was cheating on her and I said I was getting sex elsewhere. She said that was cheating and I did not disagree. I asked her what she wanted to do. She said I had to stop. I asked her if we were going to start having sex.
00:29:00
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uh she said i was an in i was an irrational asshole if i thought she would have sex with me after i cheated i went to my desk and pulled out a photocopy of the letter i wrote with her answer on it which i don't know why you don't have the original okay let's see i went to have a shower and go to my room to sleep when i woke up she was sitting on the couch waiting to talk
00:29:22
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She said that she reread the letter and that she realized she had not read it at all before. She assumed it was just me begging her for sex. She said she would go to counseling alone and with me and all I had to do was stop having sex elsewhere. I said I would be willing to pause my friendship until we saw a counselor and that if I saw progress in our relationship I would break it off.
00:29:45
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She said she would not agree to counseling without me leaving the other woman. It almost turned into a fight, so I just went for my run. Before I left, I asked her what would compel her to go to counseling if I stopped having sex elsewhere. When I got back, she still did not have an answer. She couldn't even say that our relationship was worth saving. I don't want a divorce, but I am willing to leave over this. I'm 28.
00:30:08
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I'm not going the rest of my life without sex and she refuses to see my side. You should have divorced a long time ago, bro. Yep, because you're never going to meet each other's needs if that's the case. And if she's not willing to let you have a side piece or whatever that needs to be.
00:30:24
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Yeah, there was one, I can't find the story for it, but there was one where this guy found out that his wife of like eight years or whatever is actually asexual and she's been forcing herself to have sex with him. I mean, she kind of enjoys it, but at the same time she says, I don't know, it just kind of felt like you were forcing me the whole time. And he's like, you initiated multiple times. And she's like, well, yeah, I thought I was being a good wife. But it still felt like you were for it. So she's basically accusing him of assaulting her. Okay.
00:30:53
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when she was the one initiating and all this stuff, right? And did not tell him that she was asexual at all, okay? Her parents knew she was asexual and everything. I was going to say, did she like realize it? Yeah. Because I feel like I've seen a lot of stories where they're like, well, I just thought I wasn't that interested in sex. Yeah. Like, you know, like finding out later on is a different story, but she went in fully aware that she was asexual. Oh no, you need to be upfront about that shit. Her family knew she was asexual and we're just like hoping
00:31:22
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She'd just get along with it or whatever. Okay. And stuff. Or find someone who didn't care. Yeah. And so she's just like, so I'm going to come out to everybody as asexual now and I guess we're just going to get a divorce. And now everyone is like, oh, you poor little asexual thing that had to do that for your husband. And he's like, and nobody cares about me that I spent my entire relationship thinking that. You were having a relationship with your wife. Yep. Sad.
00:31:48
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And I was like, would you guys at least friends? Did you get along or anything? That's my other question here.
00:31:56
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I mean, yeah, it's not great for either party, but she should have been. She should have told him. Yeah. She should have told him. Or at least be like, hey, it's probably not gonna happen a lot. Yeah. But I'm willing to do some stuff, you know, something. Like, are you gonna compromise or not? Or you need to find someone who doesn't care. Right? Because asexual people can still enjoy having sex. Yeah. So like... They're just not revving their engines all the time or whatever.
00:32:22
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Some people apparently are like the very far end of the spectrum where like disgusts them and they can't do it at all but that's not everybody. But yeah it's not everybody and stuff and like it's just wow. That one makes me laugh.
00:32:38
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Cause now I feel like I, cause listen, I'm very much a don't fucking cheat. He should have left her a long time ago, especially cause she's being rude as fuck to him. She's refusing to listen to his feelings and all that shit. She was refusing to even hear his side of the story. So like that should have been a deal breaker.
00:32:58
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I wish that he would have just like when she wrote like go get it elsewhere that instead of just being like alright fuck everything he should have been like is this an like are you actually telling are we having an open marriage right now because that's what I'm gonna go do yeah you know like
00:33:14
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Don't be afraid of divorce. And this is coming from somebody who thinks that people need to work through shit. If someone is refusing to work through the relationship, it's not a relationship worth saving. And if you're sincerely not compatible in that way, and to this person sex means a lot, and to this person they don't want it at all,
00:33:37
Speaker
That's not something you can fix with counseling. No, it's the same fucking thing of, I want kids, I don't want kids. It's the same exact thing. And people are like, no, that's totally, no. It's the same exact thing. It's the same people that are like, well, I'm very religious and this is how I want to live our religious life. And people are like, no, I don't want to live a religious life. I don't want anything to do with religion.
00:33:59
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Don't get married. Don't get married. No. One person who's crazy into one side of the politics and one who's on the other, you guys are not going to last for very long anyway. The whole time. Right? People need to have discussions way early on in relationships of what, and again, people's feelings can change. I'm not saying that they have to stay exactly how they were 15, 20 years ago when they first started, you know.
00:34:21
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Like, cause people can definitely partway through their relationship go, I know we said we didn't want kids before, but now I want kids. Right. That should be a discussion, a further discussion and stuff. Or, I know we said we wanted kids, but gosh, I don't know. Like when Zach and I first started dating, it was a, ha ha, when we have kids. And then it was a, I don't know if I want kids. And now it's a, we're not having kids. Right. And even just like a few years ago, you guys were like,
00:34:43
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We still occasionally, sometimes we'll just be laying in bed and go, you know, we're getting kind of old. Should we have kids? Like is that? And then we go like, I don't know. Like it's just, there's a lot. It's not just cause I don't want to have kids. It's a lot. Like it's, you know, I'm not saying I wouldn't love my children. I'm telling you, I would burn the world to the ground for my children. I know you would. I would burn the world to the ground for your child. Thank you. There's nothing I wouldn't do for other people's kids, you know, or for my own children besides have them.
00:35:11
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So like, you know? But anyway, let's go back to what we're talking about. Okay. So, I have a short one. Okay. And then we'll do one more of yours and then be done. Are we- Did we just finish this story? You just did your story. Yes, sex. Yes, okay. Yes, sex. Okay. Speaking of, am I the asshole for breaking up with my fiance after she told me she can give me the best sex of my life but does not want to?
00:35:36
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Hi 27 male was together with my ex fiance 27 female for three years. We had overall good relationship but I would say the problematic part was the intimacy. She was not into trying out new things and was very selfish in bed. I went above and beyond to pleasure her while she did not reciprocate. I had many discussions about it with her but all she said was that's how I am. Well I came to learn it was just how she was with me.
00:36:04
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I had a talk with her about it and asked if she was forced to do non-vanilla things in her past relationships. She told me no and she actually liked these. I asked her if there was a problem from my side and if there are things I can do better to make her more passionate. She told me there is no problem. I asked her why she does not put any effort in bed then. She told me I can rock your world but I just do not want to.
00:36:29
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I understood this issue will not be resolved in the future either, and I do not want to settle for that kind of thing. I cannot force her to do something she does not want to do, so we are just incompatible in the end. I told her it's over, and she should pack her things to leave the house. She was surprised for some reason and tried to convince me. She tried to have families convince me, but I was firm on my decision. She left the house today and has been texting me nonstop.
00:36:54
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Am I the asshole here? That's a compatibility thing again. Like, either you're okay with it or you're not. Right? And if you're not, then what are you doing? We got a lot of sex stories going on. It's true. I know. I was like, sorry. I didn't realize I had that. It's just, I was like, hey, drop it. So. That's funny. Yeah.
00:37:10
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But I'm like, I just don't, I don't understand. It's just people need to be fucking communicating together. And also you just don't want to. What do you mean? What's going on in your life? She's like, no, I'm saving the best for when we get married kind of a thing. I want you to still be interested as the years go on. That's a little different. But for her to just be like, I could, but I'm not gonna. Yeah, that's weird. Okay. All right. But you have, for other people,
00:37:40
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Yeah I was like, is this like a hygiene issue? Or like what is going on? And I'm like, what's non-vanilla that he's wanting to do? Like what are the boundaries of vanilla? What are you asking for? Is she thinking like, cause there's a lot of non-vanilla things that I put.
00:38:07
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People need to talk about what they want in relationships. And obviously he did, so what's going on? Is Vanilla just PMV? Yeah. Like no other outfits? Yeah.
00:38:18
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or outskirts included and you don't want to do weird stuff yeah weird because like i'm fine with people not wanting to do weird stuff and everything because again like people always talk about how it's like oh but you need to do you need to be willing to do things for your partner yes to an extent to an extent if you're not comfortable with it then no you don't need to sacrifice that exactly you don't need to you don't you can still have boundaries in a relationship and stuff and if they're not happy with that they can fuck
00:38:44
Speaker
Yeah, they can fuck off if it's like again, okay, so I have to break all my boundaries But your boundaries aren't willing to be broken when I'm you know, like it's just one person has to be happy the entire time You know, like that's that's what it sounds like it is like, oh if you're not willing to compromise with me This isn't a compromise. No, you're going dictatorship here emphasis on the debt It's just like
00:39:12
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So, people, I just, but at least he was like trying to have a conversation before they got married and stuff. You know, like that's, people are like, oh no, nobody ever, you know, we need to talk, talk to each other, fucking hell. So. Yeah, I feel like I need more information. I know. And I also have, cause I, I don't know, this is ever so slightly off topic and stuff. Cause some people, the newest thing is, oh, you're doing one bad thing in the relationship. You're not good enough for me. We're done. Okay.
00:39:41
Speaker
I'm ever so slightly okay with that in your first couple of dating, okay? If you find something that you go, I don't like that at all, and I know you're not gonna change, we need to just stop. Yeah, cut it out when you're done. I mean, when you're in the beginning. Yep, in the beginning. Totally fine. If it's something that you find out a little ways along the line, is it something that you're willing to compromise on? Or is it something that you like, hey, this I don't like, are you willing to change? Can it change? Can you work through it? Can you work through it, okay? If not,
00:40:11
Speaker
You still need to cut it off and you need to stop, right? If it's something that is game breaker to you, right? But some people are 15 years into marriage posting about how their husband leaves their muddy boots in the mud room and they don't like that. And people in comments of videos and stuff are saying, I'd have divorced his ass.
00:40:30
Speaker
over muddy boots yeah over boots in a mud room like you don't have any other problems yeah because you need to chill out yeah and so many people so many people in relationships now are taking that and saying nope that's it i'm done yeah something everything else can be fine but one thing you're doing is against my liking to me that sounds like not everything is fine but you don't want to say anything yeah so you're taking this one excuse and running yep
00:40:57
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Or yeah, or you're just looking for a way out. True, you just want to cop out. Yeah, you want to cop out. That's what it really is coming down to. Yeah. So just saying. Anyway, did you have any more? Yeah. Okay. I don't have any more. Okay. Last one. I have my super long ones. How long are we? Yep. Last one. Okay. Am I the asshole for refusing to pay for my girlfriend's plane ticket after she decided to stay longer on the trip without me? Okay. Okay.
Breakup Over Italy Stay
00:41:24
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So here's the deal. My 28-male girlfriend, 27-female, of two years and I planned a two-week vacation to Italy. Sign me the fuck up. Oh, right? Two-week vacation to Italy? That's Sinking City. Anyway. I paid for the flights, hotels, everything, because I make more than she does, and I wanted it to be a stress-free trip for both of us. Okay.
00:41:45
Speaker
Everything was great until the last day when she tells me she wants to stay longer to find herself and think about our relationship without me." I mean she's gonna fuck other dudes. Yeah. She did not discuss this with me beforehand and it completely blindsided me. I was hurt and told her that if she feels she needs time alone then she should also be independent financially during this extension of her trip. I said I wouldn't be paying for her return ticket whenever she decides to come back.
00:42:14
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Now she's upset, calling me unsupportive and selfish. Thinking about our relationship means that you currently in this moment don't want to be in a relationship with me. Yeah, we are on pause. We are on pause. Yes. Therefore, I am not financially obligated to help you with anything. Nope. I'm not emotionally obligated to help you with anything. No. Because you are not emotionally supporting me. Mm-hmm. You're not supporting me in any way. Yeah. So we are on pause. And it doesn't say that she doesn't have a job. It just says he makes more than her.
00:42:43
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So you really saved money on all this endeavor because he paid for everything. Yep. You should have extra money. Yeah, you should have money. She's calling me unselfish or unsupportive and selfish and some of our friends are saying I'm an asshole because I left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help. I'll do it again. So am I the asshole for refusing blah blah blah? No, I'll do it again. Update.
00:43:09
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Thank you to all who responded, especially the early ones who gave some outside verification of me probably not being the asshole. I don't feel comfortable saying I'm completely blameless here because you're only getting one side of the story and I need to take responsibility for my part in this whole thing, such as it is. But I guess I never realized how good my girlfriend was at making me feel like unreasonable shit was normal and rational and that I was the crazy one. So here's the update.
00:43:37
Speaker
We're both back in America now, and she's packing her shit to go stay with her family for a bit until she can find a new place. Bye bye! Soon after I posted, it was time to go to the airport. So I did. Without her. I'm one of those people who arrives really early because I never think I'll get to the gate in time. Because everything that could go wrong probably would go wrong. It never does, but that's how I... That's me.
00:43:59
Speaker
I have the worst travel anxiety I've discovered. Like the fact that I didn't know how the parking situation worked at the hotel plagued me for a week before our trip. Oh geez. Everything else was fine. I had the dogs figured out. I had everything out. Like everything was figured out. Except for that. Could I have Google mapped it? Probably should have, but I didn't. And the whole time I was like, how the fuck do we get into the hotel?
00:44:27
Speaker
Like, I was pressed about it, okay? I don't like traveling. I like being other places. People are like, no, I love road trips to drive it. No, absolutely not. The second teleportation has been invented. First one in line. First one in line. I'll be there. I don't care where the fuck we're taking. We're going, let's go. Like, but- I'm the same. Yeah, no. I hate the time it takes to get there. Hate it, so.
00:44:56
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yep anyway so i feel him on that every time the couple of times we've flown to oregon i'm like no we're getting there early early we're there like two hours early okay so yep anyway yeah so traveling side he gets there early i was there for about an hour by myself mulling things over and talking to my mom
00:45:14
Speaker
I looked at a couple responses to this post but I didn't trust that I wouldn't lose it if I started responding and I definitely didn't want to burst into tears while I was in the airport. I was talking to my mom or as I was talking to my mom my girlfriend showed up. I guess she thought I was bluffing but had a rude awakening when the hotel staff kicked her out of her room because I had only paid through that day. I took no small amount of satisfaction in this not gonna lie
00:45:40
Speaker
She'd been so concerned about the plane ticket, she didn't even stop to think about where she was going to stay. As many of you guessed, she met someone while we were in Italy.
00:45:50
Speaker
How do you meet someone while you're there? If you're together with your person. So like, what were you just like, I'm gonna run down to the shop really quick and get something. Like, so you were gone for literally five minutes and met someone else. Like. You were knocking on someone already or what? I don't know. You're a slut. Yeah. She was quick to tell me that it was just a physical attraction and that they hadn't done anything. So you were giving up your whole relationship over,
00:46:17
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Some guy, yeah. But she had his at and was wanting to see if it would go anywhere. His at. You're in America. Yeah. Like, eventually you're coming back to America. I guess that's what I get for not feeling well and wanting to stay in one night while she went out to explore.
00:46:36
Speaker
Oh, I would not feel comfortable going out on my own. No, not in a foreign country. No, no. Shalise one time, I think I may have mentioned it, but Shalise one time said that she wanted to have a girls weekend trip for two weeks in the Bahamas. It's not a weekend trip, but she says. It's a long weekend. She's like, yeah, it's a weekend. I was like, Shalise, all of us have jobs. And she was like, yeah. And I was like, and you two have children. Yeah.
00:46:58
Speaker
Who are they staying with for two weeks? And she was like, oh yeah. Anyway. We got 20 anymore. I know, but I told Zach, I said, Shelly's supposed to go to the Bahamas and he said no. And I was like, and other people be like, I can't believe your husband's telling you no. He said, not unless I'm going with you. You are not going to a foreign country without me there. Cause he doesn't, he does not trust other countries. I'm not the cute one being kidnapped and being taken on to taken and whatnot. Okay. I'm not.
00:47:24
Speaker
I'm not that girl. I'm not Liam Mason's daughter. I'm not Liam Mason's daughter, okay? I got a little extra pudge and a little extra cushion in places, okay? Nobody's taking this girl, okay? The girlies at my friend's desk, they're getting hit on by some guests. They'll call me and I'll come in and they immediately walk away.
00:47:42
Speaker
Okay, nobody's hitting up on this. You got that big mama energy. I do, I kind of do. I do also have a wedding ring, so that could be a big part of it. But even still, and maybe it's because I also don't do my makeup a whole ton, and obviously you can tell that I'm starting to get a little bit older and whatnot. But like, nobody's hitting on me. I haven't been hit on besides my husband in years, okay? So like, also, am I not attractive? Shannon, you've never hit on me.
00:48:06
Speaker
That's a lie! That's a lie! We were dating! Are you kidding me? We've lived together for three years, Alyssa! Four years? Three years. I'm just saying, I have a lot of friends that are bisexual. We had a lot of friends that were bisexual, not a single one of them asked me out. I guess this is true.
00:48:29
Speaker
But like still, friends, lovers, it doesn't help that also everybody knew I was straight. But like, you know, so I say, no, I've never been hit out, that's a lie, I got hit out. I don't look like any of your girl crushes, okay? What am I supposed to do? I'm sorry. You are a girl crush though, I love you so much. That's not the same. It's true though, but yeah, I'm sorry about Gina Carano, she's so fucking hot. She's just so funny. Nobody's Gina Carano.
00:48:56
Speaker
What was I talking about? No one ever hits on you, but then you did get hit on by a lesbian once. Oh, yeah. No, I was like a teenager and stuff. She walked up and she was like, hey, can I get your number? I was like, oh, sorry. I'm not really interested. She's like, why? Because I'm a girl. And I was like, actually, yes. Yeah. No offense. But like, yes. She was like pissed about it. And I was like. You had a V where I'd rather see a V. Sorry. Yeah. Sorry. For anything. Just yeah. But what else was I having before that? What were you reading about? I'm halfway through a story. I don't know. Oh, my gosh. Shut up, Melissa.
00:49:27
Speaker
Oh, cow! How, how, um, I wouldn't be allowed to go to a different country. Oh, yeah, you know, but yeah, because he would not, Zach would not allow me to go to a different country by myself. He would have to be with me. He's like, I don't care. You guys can go have fun. I'll walk behind you. But like, he's like, I'm not letting you go to a foreign country by yourself.
00:49:51
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where anything could happen. Like don't know if you're safe or not. Exactly. What happens if I got in an accident there and I was taken to a hospital and stuff and nobody knew me because I was unconscious and shit. Like I just, you know, anything could happen. People who travel alone, period. And I was like, what are you doing? And then you keep wondering why they all go missing. Yup, yup. And the whole, okay, speaking of that, I don't know if you've heard the man versus bear thing on TikTok, okay? Here's my take on that, okay?
00:50:19
Speaker
I personally would rather see a man, a strange man in the woods, okay? Because normally one or two bullets is gonna take down a man.
00:50:27
Speaker
Do you carry? I want to. I just have to get my permit and stuff. So insane. So yeah, but one or two bullets is not going to take down a bear. It's true. It just drives me insane to say that because like you're automatically villainizing every man and stuff and not every man. Of course it's not every man and every woman will say that. We know it's not every man, but you're treating every man like that. That's what it comes down to.
00:50:50
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But I also agree that women should be allowed to walk down the street and feel safe. But again, it's not always a man that's going to run up and fucking mug me or stab me or whatever. It could also be a woman. It could just be a crazy person. It could just be a teen. If you look scary, I'm afraid of you. That's pretty much what it is. It's the book cover.
00:51:07
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I don't know what to say. There were no words before circle. No, it's the Russell Says circle. Just tah, tah, tee, tee. Just sounds.
00:51:35
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Okay, okay. Anyway, so she met him one night. Physical attraction didn't do anything. Obviously I told her things were over between us, even though she tried to make it sound like nothing had happened. The fact was, A, I couldn't feel like I could trust her when she said that. No. And B, I don't really want to be with someone who feels like it's okay to keep her options open. Yeah, no. When we've been in a monogamous relationship for the past two years.
00:52:00
Speaker
Only two years and he took her to Italy? Fuck you, bitch. You fumbled that back so hard. Yeah, he messed up. The flight home was awkward as fuck and she tried really hard to give another pitch for why we should stay together on the drive home from the airport. That's a long flight. Yeah, it's a long flight. Oh gosh. Here's a flight to Italy, let's see. I think as we got closer to home, reality started setting in and she realized that she had just thrown a lot away.
00:52:27
Speaker
so yeah i'm jet lagged and physically and emotionally exhausted i'm just kind of numb at this point finally i didn't see all the comments as there were two and a half thousand at the time of this update but to the few that were downvoted into oblivion who said this was fake because i hadn't updated in several hours fuck you
00:52:45
Speaker
Several hours. It's nine hours. It's a nine hour flight. That's a day. That's from New York to Italy. So let's not even count if it's from LA or Vegas or something. Oh gosh. We're another country. We don't know where they're from. Well, they said the US, didn't they? I don't think so. Back to...
00:53:08
Speaker
United States, he said United States, yep. I was looking for reasonable dissenting opinions that might have helped me make sense of the situation. And you're accusing me of making this up for random internet points? I guess that's just blah, blah, blah, blah. But yeah, that's all good. Yeah. Good. Kick her the fuck out. Right? I would have also returned her flight ticket. You're like, give me credit or something. Something. Should we not be flying home with me? No. No.
00:53:36
Speaker
No, thank you. Yeah, no, that's fucking bitch. I'm just gonna keep my options open. I met someone in Italy. You are way beyond your relationship. If A, you go out without your partner to go party while they're at the hotel. I would be at home being like, let's cuddle up and watch movies. I don't care where we are. Right? No.
00:54:01
Speaker
I'd be like, give me 20 minutes. I'm gonna go grab us something. Like, let me get you some soup or something and I'll come back and take care of yourself. Whatever. I'm not going down to the bar. No. That's weird. Alone? Alone? It's not even like a group of friends and you went out with everyone else. I could understand that. That'd be different. I'm like, yeah, honey, you know, you go have fun. I'll stay here. Like, I don't want you to ruin your trip just because I'm not here. Go out with your friends and stuff.
00:54:25
Speaker
No. And you'll have so-and-so's boyfriend there with you and everything to make sure everything's okay. It's like, no. No. By yourself. By yourself. In a foreign country where most people don't speak English. And you see a hot guy that makes you go, hmm, maybe I don't want to be in a relationship with somebody. Yeah. What? What? After two years, you're done, babe.
00:54:47
Speaker
You're done. Yeah, I just wanted to see where it went. Okay, then you're where we are currently done Yeah, like you find yourself by yeah by yourself. Bye. Go. Yeah, find yourself Yeah, cuz it's not with me. Nope bitch I wonder how long he's had that trip planned and if she was just like waiting it out cuz she wanted to go to Italy, right? It's awful, but I wouldn't be surprised people suck. Right anyway
00:55:11
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We've been ranting for long enough. Sorry everyone. I haven't seen Shannon in days. It's been a while. Weeks. Weeks. It's been weeks. So there's your daily dose of drama. That was pretty good. And advice from the two of us. Yay. Have communication and healthy sex and
00:55:31
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00:55:58
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