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Speaker: Amazing. Everyone needs some Mary in their lives. Everybody needs a Mary in their lives. 1 ,000%. Everybody needs an E in their life too. So, so good.
Speaker: Welcome to This or More, a wild entrepreneurial podcast adventure for bold and brave creatives like you. I'm Tiffany Napper, your host, holistic business coach, corporate music industry dropout, a seasoned five -time multi -six figure entrepreneur, yoga instructor, and your go -to gal for heart -to -heart coffee chats.
Speaker: On this show, we're not just here to share stories. We're here to ignite a fire within you and make you realize that the reality you envision is just the tip of the iceberg. You're wildly capable of achieving that reality and so much more. So my friends, grab your cup of inspiration, settle in, and let's dive into another inspiring episode of This or More.
Speaker: Hi, ladies. I am so excited to have you all on the podcast. Welcome, Mary. Welcome, E. Thank you. Hello. Thank you for having us. I'm very excited. Yeah. Oh my gosh. We're going to get into some fun conversations and stories today and just give everybody a little peek behind the curtain because you two are graduates, essentially, of Make That Money, Honey. You went through a beta round that I rolled out last, let's see, August. I think we just decided August of 2023.
Speaker: So you were in the first iteration of this and I can't wait to just share some of the incredible stories of What transpired and also catch up on like maybe how things are going since then but before we dive in I would love for you both to Give a little introduction. Let's tell everybody who you are. I'd love to know where you live. They'd love to I know where you live They'd love to know where you live and then what you do. I'll let you go first Mary
Speaker: Okay, I'm Mary Carlisle. I come all the way from Salem, Oregon in the Pacific Northwest. I am a certified online business manager. I founded and own Virtual Busy Bees and I essentially help creative CEOs with the day -to -day management of their business so that they can operate at that high level CEO mode that they should be in.
Speaker: Love it. Amazing. Everyone needs to marry in their lives. Everybody needs to marry in their lives. 1 ,000%. Well, my name is Eugenia. You can call me E because pronouncing my name is a challenge. I'm originally from Venezuela. I live in Miami, Florida. I'm a marketing strategist and coach. And actually, this transition has been through Tiffany, even though I know it's not
Speaker: Today's topic, but I just want to say that out loud because it has been a big win of the year since working with you. And I help entrepreneurs ready to stand out online, stand out from the crowd with their messaging and their visibility. Everybody needs an E in their life too. So, so good.
Speaker: Yes, you are both doing such extraordinary work, and y 'all are both in such high integrity, which I really love and try to surround myself with people that I'm going to coach or be around. There's this level of integrity that I think is so important, especially in today's world, when it's easy to just create a profile and claim you can do something. So I'm honored to know you all and have you all here today. And hopefully, through what we've done together so far and the lessons we're going to share,
Speaker: you and even more women continue to stand out and build these really successful, sustainable, as I like to call them, businesses. So today our conversation, obviously, is going to be centered a lot around sales and our relationship with sales, right? Because that's what I'm teaching inside Make That Money Honey. It's a sales blueprint. It's a sales model. It's basically how I built and ran my multi -six figure PR agency for 10 years.
Speaker: Long before we, you know, Instagram was what it was. TikTok wasn't even a thing back then. I'm showing my age, but it is what it is, right? So I'm excited to kind of talk a little bit about your journey, but let's back up. Let's go before you were ever in my Up Leveler Society membership before I knew you. Let's talk a little bit individually. I'd love for you both to go. And what was your relationship with selling? What was your relationship with sales? Well, I grew up a very
Speaker: a straight A student, everything, I was perfect checking out all the marks. And I guess I've got very used to having that assignment to tell me you did a good job. So when I went into business, I guess sales is the thing, right? The thing that tells me you are doing a good job because when you are in school or college or even my master's, no one tells you, okay, you didn't do great with the test, but you tried hard. You became a better person. You built habits. Like no one tells you that.
Speaker: So I really had an unhealthy relationship with sales because those were the things that were going to tell me if I was good at my job and I didn't have full control. It's not like a test where I can study and I can control getting an A.
Speaker: with a sale, there's an exchange in relationships and energies and sometimes you do your best and it's just not the right time. So before meeting you, I was so scared of just having a sales conversation and getting a lot of no's and having that mean something about myself and having that mean that I was not good enough for my dreams and that I was a great person and maybe I could try be something else, but maybe this was not for me.
Speaker: And I didn't even know that that was the reason until he told me to call outreach. And I was like, oh my gosh, I wanted to throw up. I was physically ill. Yeah. When we are asked to do things we've never done before and we care about the outcome.
Speaker: It's gonna affect us, right? We're gonna feel that in our body. We're gonna feel that in some regard. So that makes total sense. That's all very valid and relatable and definitely things I think we can all relate to and say we've experienced that as well. What about you, Mary?
Speaker: Um, so for me before joining the Up Levelers Society, I had a full plate of clients that were filling my calendar, keeping me busy, all of those great things. So I was focused on working the things that I was doing for them, right? Client work.
Speaker: And in July, right before we started the beta round of Make That Money Honey, I had a client who had something unexpected come up and they needed to pause my work and they were my biggest client. And so all of a sudden,
Speaker: I lost that work and that income and I had nothing to fall back on because I wasn't focusing on nurturing relationships, building up a pipeline and having things in place for that to happen and have a safeguard in place to go back to and say like, okay, I have an opening who's next kind of a thing. Yeah.
Speaker: Yeah, having a little bank of people who want to work with you and you can't, you know, you're like, okay, I can work with you in three months or six months or whatever. That's where the magic lies. We'll get into that later. But that's a really, really valid point as well. Yeah, and that's going to happen. And that's that that is something that maybe we don't talk about enough. But when you are a service based business owner, and especially when you're charging like a premium
Speaker: price for something and you have people on a retainer or another word might be like a contract, like a six month or a 12 month contract, it can get a little scary if all of the sudden someone no longer needs you anymore. And sure, you're under a contract and we can argue that you have to hold them to a contract, but at the end of the day, sometimes that can become messier than just cutting your losses and moving on to the next client.
Speaker: Yeah, it's an interesting thing and something we definitely need to be talking more about, like, what have you put in place to protect you so that you don't have to worry that if your biggest client, you know, has to part ways, what's your backup plan? Who's next, right?
Speaker: Yeah, it was unfortunate timing, but fortunate timing, I think, for you, Mary, because it was like, oh, I actually need to learn this right now. Yeah, amazing. For me, it was great timing because I was working a corporate job and I had my business and I actually got laid off two weeks after we finished.
Speaker: the program. And Tiffany, I've been full -time entrepreneur since then. It was a full -time unexpected. It was not planned. I did not recommend it. But because I had the skills, I was able to feel, OK, I got this. So it was not just like a program that I did, kind of a weight loss program that you do lose 10 pounds and then you put it back on. I was able to go through that.
Speaker: very hard season and then fall back into what I already had in place.
Speaker: That's beautiful. And I think for me too, I just had limiting beliefs started to really surface with that happening, right? Even though it was completely out of my control, something totally unexpected on their end, um, without having like a system and a process already in place. And I'm a systems person, right? I love systems, but just not having that even made it worse, you know, like my imposter syndrome just like kept growing and growing and growing. And so, um,
Speaker: It couldn't have been better timing for me either to start this program and go on this journey and utilize the tools and resources that Tiffany gave us to implement an easy to execute process. And we always say like easy, you know, yes, it's easy because it's spelled out for you, right? Like we'll get into this in a second, but literally inside the program, I go day one, do this, day two, do this. And then we check in, right? So that you're kind of feeling like there's momentum, you're being held accountable.
Speaker: But as he already mentioned sometimes what I'm asking you to do might feel really scary But there's so much power that comes when you realize you're not the only one doing it So to use your physical fitness analogy again, it's like, okay You're gonna tell me to like throw this kettlebell around in the gym and that might feel scary But if I see the girl next to me doing it, I'm like, oh
Speaker: Well, if she can do it, I can do it. And it's the same mentality inside this program. We're just learning a skill set. We're just stretching our wings a little bit, getting a little uncomfortable because it's new to us. But that doesn't mean we're bad at it or always going to be bad at it. We just have to get uncomfortable so that we can develop a new skill set.
Speaker: Okay, let's jump in then because I think this is a good segue. Let's just go straight into the nitty gritty. What do you feel like once we were in the program and it started and we were like, okay, like I mentioned, day one, do this, day two, do this. Do you remember how many leads each of you generated when we did this program? Because that's part of the program too, is we're tracking not just sales, but also leads. Do you remember?
Speaker: Yeah, I went from having zero, and I looked back at my notes before we got on the call today. I went from having zero to over 50, and that includes referral partners and things like that that I identified. But I literally started with zero because I wasn't focusing on that. And so that's part of the thing that I think helped me a lot was just realizing how quickly I could come up with that list and go after it. Yes.
Speaker: Oh, that part. Can we say that again? Like we think we don't have anybody in our pipeline. We think we don't have anybody to sell to. We think nobody's buying or nobody's interested. And in reality, we typically have people all around us. We just haven't invited them. So beautiful. 50 is amazing. Do you remember what your number was?
Speaker: My number was 30 ish low 30s. I had a very high ticket and I think that I was afraid of, I'm not going to be able there's not going to be enough and that's, you know, whole mindset conversation but I was like this is so big. It's not going to be enough. And then the number to the right people was like,
Speaker: Oh, okay. It's a number, you know, like there's no meaning or like deep attachment to it. It's just, okay, this is how much it costs. And even it made, it made them feel safe. Like, okay, this is a prize I would expect. And this is how much it costs, right? If you went to get Chanel and then the lady told you, it's just a hundred dollars. You'd be like, hmm.
Speaker: I don't know if this is real, even if they told you. It's not only the number, the number of people in my pipeline, but saying that the number didn't give them a heart attack, as I thought it would.
Speaker: Yeah. And we talk about this in the program a little bit, right? We dive into what it does this, you know, if you're hearing a bunch of no's, are you priced too low? Are you priced too high? And a lot of people are surprised that sometimes they're actually priced too low. So like you said, we have to make sure
Speaker: to go back to that word, integrity. We have to make sure we're standing in integrity with what we're charging. But we also have to make sure that we are pricing it at a level where we've created buy -in, that this feels safe to them as well. And sometimes if you're priced too low, you can lose the sale because they're like, well, she can't possibly do XYZ at that price point, right? Or they must not have a lot of experience if that's what they're charging. And we think, oh, we're pricing it low because we're scared of hearing the nose. But it can kind of come back and bite us.
Speaker: and the but so that's a good point. I know for you in this program you did have a higher ticket offering and you had a pretty successful run even in our just little 30 days together.
Speaker: Talk a little bit about that. Yes. Um, so my package was $9 ,000 and well, additionally, it was, uh, uh, 1200, but that's for contractors. So I didn't even track it. So technically it was 10 ,400, but that's contractor money.
Speaker: But I, first I didn't have a lot of referral partners because I didn't have a lot of volume just because of the price and I was working full time. So I felt comfortable with just a few clients. So the first few days were about spoiler alert, reaching out to ask people, I didn't have those, but I really was committed. So, and I think that's very important. You need to be taking charge of your own success. Like.
Speaker: I don't think this was something for someone waiting for you to save them because it's for if you're willing to put in the work and you just need direction and that was me. So I skipped ahead and I said, okay, let me then start earlier with other days since I don't have this. So I did a lot of networking and reaching out to collaboration partners.
Speaker: And one of these partners put me in a platform, very small but very niche. And then this person reached out to me because she heard what I was saying and what I was doing. And it was a fractional CMO package for people with a podcast. So it was a very specific expertise. And that's what she wanted. And she reached out to me. And the number, incredible. But then the level of just the quality of this woman
Speaker: She didn't treat me like a commodity or how much for this. She was very respectful. We had to reschedule an initial call, and she emailed me at 5 a .m. from the airport. She was saying, I'm so sorry, I have to reschedule, where some other person would have just not showed up.
Speaker: told me five minutes before. So the respect because I was showing up in this high level of excitement and presenting my offer very clearly. And then we had a conversation. I had never had a call like this with a fully cold.
Speaker: So I was a little nervous, but then she was like, okay, awesome. Cool. Can you give me a proposal and, um, probably we'll have to talk about it with my operations director, but I love it. And that was, that was the last day actually that I sent her the proposal. So it was a little wrapping present, being able to have her say amazing. I love it. Send it to me. We'll have a call to continue this conversation and move in.
Speaker: put the process forward in just 30 days, like didn't know her. Yeah. Just I love this. Send it to me. I want to work with you. Yeah. And that's the beauty. So, yeah, I think when we think about the amount of money that you can make in this program, I'm trying to be very clear that it's not just about what you make during this time together, but it's really the skills that they hope you're walking away with that can make you money for the rest of time. Right. Like.
Speaker: I've been an entrepreneur since 2011. I've been using these skills since 2011. And once you know them, you know them. You can't unknow them once you know them. That's the beauty of it. And you can only get better and you can only get stronger and you can only get more confident. And, yeah, I want to circle back on something you said, though, because I think it's important. The way you showed up and, you know, yes, OK, so you're like, OK, well, I don't have that in day three or whatever it was. So I'm going to skip ahead and I'm going to do this. And then the way you showed up when you were making those
Speaker: you know, introductions, sending those emails, the competence that you had because you were in this program and you felt supported. Talk to me about just what that felt like for you, because I think, you know, we, we skirted over it over it, but I think it's an important part of the equation. Doing it felt amazing, but I have to be honest. I grew up in an old girl, girl school. We would all go to the bathroom together. So.
Speaker: I was saying, I'm not gonna do it. No, this is a boundary. And then I would see Mary, another girl showing up and saying, I did it, it was amazing. And I was like, okay, okay, they did it. Now I have to do it, I guess. I'm not gonna be left out. I went to an old girl's school, we all do things together. So I think A, having other people say I did it,
Speaker: I made me feel like, okay, if they did it and they were scared, I'm not going to be the baby not doing it. So I think that peer pressure, not from a place of shame, just from a place of look what's possible for you, people that are in your shoes was amazing. So I think without it, I wouldn't have done it. I feel like if I had just bought it as
Speaker: some courses online that you just do it in your own time. I think I would have dropped it. But the power of sending my first email and receiving my first no 24 hours later, and I didn't die. My hair didn't fall off. I was fine. I still had a roof over my head. I was like, oh, this is nothing.
Speaker: This was nothing. I feel like the first no is the most exciting one for me. And maybe it's a little masochist, but the first no, it is such a relief because afterwards I know that I'm good after a no. Yeah, we can survive that. And you know, I've said this for a long time, but if you're not hearing no's, you're not doing it right. And what I mean by that is you're probably either not priced right because everyone's saying yes to you because you're priced so affordably that they're like, oh my God, I'm going to take advantage of this while I can before she catches on.
Speaker: or you're not making enough asks and you're literally just sabotaging yourself under the guise of protecting yourself, right? Because you're scared of how you might respond if you hear a no. So the moment you hear that first no and you realize you don't die and everything can continue on, it is like a flip of a switch.
Speaker: Right? Like, oh, okay. Next level unlocked. Here we go. That's why I love your brand so much because you are a person that has a full life. And to me, that was a big lesson. My business was such a big priority for me that I was making it mean a lot versus just saying, okay, what's my workout? My husband, my friends, my family. So my business is just a category as much as I love it. It's not the center of the universe. I can have a full life.
Speaker: Unplug it is fine. It is I know but I have dinner tonight So I I need to figure out what I'm gonna wear kind of kind of thing, you know It's not a big it's not a big deal versus it's just your whole life obsessed with your business. I think that's unhealthy for me Mmm, I think it's unhealthy for most people and I think I mean that was me many many moons ago where I let everything in my business impact me and affect me and I took it home with me and it impacted my relationships with
Speaker: Not just loved ones and friends, but my mom who was my best friend, you know, really impacted me and I was ashamed of how it was impacting me. So I think part of that for me was learning that I am not my business. My business is not me. We're separate. We're different.
Speaker: And again, it goes back to a no is just a no. It could even just be a no right now, not right now, right? It's not even a no forever. But whatever it is, it's not a sign on who I am as a person, my value as a person, my worth. It's also not a sign of my value and with what I do. I know I'm great at what I do and still not everyone is going to need me or want to work with me and that's okay. I don't have to take that as a personal attack, right? So that's such a good point.
Speaker: Mary, I know one of the emails that you sent out during this program. So during the program, as we've alluded to, I do kind of walk with you for 30 full days. You get a day by day, play by play, do this, do that. And then we've got some coaching at the end as well.
Speaker: But during those 30 days, it's really scripted for you. You're told what to do, you're given some swipe files, some templates that you can make your own, and then you're just given everything and told what to do, right? And I was on a call, not long ago, I was on a podcast, not long ago, with Ellen Yen, and she was telling me that one of the
Speaker: days of the program where I ask you to reach out to someone you've worked with in the past or someone you have a good relationship with and ask for them to do an introduction for you, that you sent that template to her and she was so impressed with it, which I was like, oh my God, this is so fun. So talk to me about that process for you. What was it like for you to not just ask for sales, but also ask people to open doors for you? Because that's what that is, right? Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker: Um, that was huge for me and a big game changer for me. And I'm still, I still feel more confident today doing that than I did before. Um, like I said, there were some limiting beliefs coming into play and things like that. And I'm never going to forget the day, Tiffany, that you told me I needed to fish in a bigger pond. And, um, and so that's the thing too is, um,
Speaker: you know you have to be willing to be uncomfortable and do things that you haven't done before and try these new techniques and things if they're not something that you've done before and see the way that they can work for you and so that was a big one for me was I was like
Speaker: Ellen's this person that I have up on this pedestal. I totally respect her. I think she's amazing. Is she really going to have time to respond back to me asking her to introduce me to someone that she might know that might need my services? And she was so helpful and willing to. And I was just not expecting that.
Speaker: Yeah. And you know, her response is exactly the point of the exercise. And this goes back to this concept that we think we're a burden. And I think this is probably a universal feeling for most women. I will say that we don't want to be a burden. We don't want to ask somebody for something. We don't want to ask for help. Right. And on the podcast, she was like, I was so delighted. She's like, it's not that I would never have, you know,
Speaker: made the introduction for her i just never it wasn't my party wasn't on top of my mind so when she asked i was like absolutely of course i'll do that and that's the point is we are kind of sabotaging ourselves sometimes and assuming we're making assumptions and we all know what happens when we make assumptions.
Speaker: But we're making assumptions and it's really limiting ourselves. It's limiting our growth. It's limiting the impact we get to make on the world. It's limiting so many things. Nobody wins in that scenario. Nobody wins except for our egos because it stays nice and protected, right? Yes. I didn't sign a client as quickly as he did, but I have signed clients from referrals that I've been given through doing this process. And so it's just
Speaker: Amazing to see it all play out and those things are wishing and it's a testament that it works. It's Implementable, you know repeatable Which is what I'm all about I love to hear that. I knew it would happen for you. I knew with what you were offering there could be a longer Customer journey so to speak it's to use a marketing term right like how long it takes someone to go from I've just heard about you to I'm ready to sign the dotted line and
Speaker: really varies depending on your industry, what you're offering, and then of course where they are in their journey. And so sometimes when you're thinking about bringing in someone that does what Mary does, they have to be ready for that, right? They might have someone who's already doing it that they've got to like kind of usher out before they can welcome you in. There could be so many things going on.
Speaker: So I knew it would happen for you, even if we didn't have that official cha -ching at the end of the 30 days. So I'm stoked to hear that the referral partnerships are the thing. Would you say that's the thing that paid off the biggest for you was the referral partnership doors? There's two things that I would say. That is definitely one. And the other one that I would say, which was completely unexpected and a wonderful surprise. And that is my friendships and relationships with the other women who were in the program. And now I feel like
Speaker: I can refer you to, you know, anybody that may need her help and others. And it's just been so wonderful to have those connections that I didn't have before and I love that. Yeah.
Speaker: Oh my God. Absolutely. Yes. I have to say the community of women in your atmosphere, they are driven, but they are so good people. And I know, you know, miss America 1965, but it is true. Like they're so genuine and caring. And even when I launched my podcast, we had finished this already. They showed up for me.
Speaker: And it's just that level of, I'm going to show up for you, not because I have to comment on your post. So, you know, Kajabi gives me a point and I win. It's because I really care for you and I want to support you and cheer you on. And that is entrepreneurship online can be lonely. So when you find those people that actually care for you as a person, it is invaluable.
Speaker: Yes. Oh my gosh. Say it again from the rooftops with a megaphone because I cannot stress this enough and if you've never experienced it then and if you've ever had a mean girl experience I would just say don't let that rock rob you from the experience of being in a really
Speaker: loving warm kind supportive community and find your tribe wherever you got to go to look for them because it does change the game it does get lonely when we're running businesses especially when we run a service -based business where we might not have a brick and mortar right we might just be working from the confines of our home which is great and cool because that shuts you know lowers our expenses but it also can put you into this silo where you don't feel connected and your thoughts become
Speaker: the only thing
Speaker: Bubble and we're not seeing other people, you know doing these scary things and getting wins from them And we've told ourselves we can't do that. Well, we're just gonna believe we can't do that and You know, so it's just it's so so important. I have so many containers of women through the years that I'm now a part of and I'm so grateful for that and it's every time I've never had a regret I'm like
Speaker: Oh yeah, I know that girl because of a program I was in five years ago. Oh yeah, I know her from something I was in eight years ago. And it's just such a beautiful thing because when you find your people and people that are genuine and doing good work, yeah, we're just here to like create an ecosystem. Why not? It's literally how it's always been done.
Speaker: I love that you say that it's how it's always been done because as you were talking, it is so true. Social media has made us believe that everyone's gonna like your stuff that you put out there. Like you put out there and either they like it or comment, but you don't have a button that says constructive criticism. So we, or I don't know, me personally, I had sales as this big,
Speaker: I don't know, this big entity and for centuries businesses have been businesses. If you think about, you know, realtors that, you know, usually are more local, they just meet someone and you're talking about how you just moved and they're like, Oh my gosh, I would love to help you find a house. Here's my card.
Speaker: And they move on. It is not a big deal. And if you were selling air conditioning repair, it is not a big deal. Oh, you have an AC in your house? Look, I repair ACs and I'm a certified partner. And if you need help, call me. Moving on. It is not a big deal. But we, because of social and overly so, and I work in social and social media, so no hate.
Speaker: but we think that it was just put out content and we don't have to make the ask or go out because that's too much. And business has like from the market, you know, the years ago in like the Middle East, people were just screaming, come here, get your spices. Like if you don't stop by their shop, they move on with their days. It doesn't mean anything.
Speaker: Yeah. 1000%. And even like, yeah, like you said, like ancient days, it was a trade and barter system, right? Oh, you've got honey. I've got bread. Cool. Let's, let's swap. And then we can fast forward even into like 1900s, early 1900s. Oh, I sell, I raise cattle. I've got beef.
Speaker: you've got dairy cattle, you've got milk, okay, I'm going to refer people to you for their milk and you refer people to me for their steak. This has been done since the beginning of time. It's not new for us to be in this kind of an environment where not only are we selling, but also when we're, like you said, when we're in this community and we're referring each other to one another, we're creating this ecosystem. It's just how it's always been done. It's not new. People try to say it's like,
Speaker: MLM, whatever pyramid, I'm like, this is not new. This is literally just how the world goes around. And when I know someone who's good at what they do, and you mentioned that you need them, I'm going to connect you to them. There's no there's nothing in it for me, right? But but yeah, sales and the whole ecosystem of sales and what that can create. We've got to dismantle these beliefs that it's icky, or gross, or
Speaker: You know, all of the words that we hear quite a bit, like, oh, sales are icky, selling is icky. No, it doesn't have to be. Yeah. I definitely had the mindset that I was afraid of sounding bro -y and like, you know, gross. And after doing this, I just feel like I can be my authentic self and.
Speaker: talk about how I can help them in their business and it feels right and good. And then it's up to them to make the choice if they want to move forward or not. And if not, it's not a big deal because I have a pipeline of a lot of people who I'm nurturing those relationships with.
Speaker: Okay, well that's a perfect segue too because that's exactly I think just going back to the conversation about confidence is when we don't have the pipeline, when we don't know how we're getting our next lead, when we don't know how to ask for the referral,
Speaker: We show up differently when we're trying to make a sale close because we kind of have this like negative energy because it matters. We're like, if I don't get this one, you know, cause it's the only one that's knocked down my door. It's the only one that came from that Instagram post. If I don't close this one and what that creates is this like scarcity fear.
Speaker: Mindset and sometimes it's palpable even even if you can't tell like the energy is just you know Subconsciously somehow the person kind of picks up on it and they're kind of turned off and you don't know why because you said all the right things right so understanding that when you know and
Speaker: You've got this pipeline of leads. You're nurturing these relationships. You've got people to turn to so that when you do have the sales conversation, you're like, I'm going to present this to the best of my ability. I'm going to share with you how I think I can help. You're going to make a decision based on what I share with you. And then we're moving on. It's this total power play. Yeah. And not only that, I have the confidence to say no to people that I know also aren't the right fit, which I didn't have that before.
Speaker: Yeah, that's big too. That's powerful. Yeah. Yeah. If you're listening and you've ever said yes to someone and really regretted it, you know, I feel like we all stopped for two seconds to think about, about experiencing the past. Yeah. We have a lot of moments of silence for that client we regret.
Speaker: Yeah. Yeah. It's powerful. And then, you know, like I said, once you know, you know, like once you learn that scale and you know how to do it, you never know it. And now you just get to get better and better and you fine tune it and your, your little radar gets even better at understanding like, Oh, that's my person or nope, actually that's not my person. And maybe I've got someone I can refer them to. Yeah. Yes. Yeah.
Speaker: I have an aunt, she's a teacher, and she sees so many kids. So now whenever she gives her kids parenting advice, she's very unattached. And if the kid falls, she's like, I've seen thousands of kids fall, like this is not a big deal. So I think that's also the value of the program that you, Tiffany, are someone who has built so many businesses.
Speaker: So you are like, this is not, this is sales. Like, we what? This is not a big deal. It is amazing, but it is not a big deal. And if you fall, it's fine. You're going to be okay. We are first, I am a first time parent with my, with my, with my business. So everything to me seems exaggerated, right? Like, oh, the baby didn't eat. So I'm like, they're going to be malnourished forever. Or I had a bad month. And, and you're like,
Speaker: It's gonna be okay. So having that holding hand of someone who has done it not once, I usually don't trust a lot of people who have done things just once because I'm like, is this luck? Like someone like me who, you know, I was so successful the first time in the program, I would not just copy it and be like, hey, I created this six week accelerator because I'm like, okay, it's not repeatable fully like it is for you.
Speaker: So that is also the value of someone who's done it again and again and again. And it's not going to make you feel better like, oh, it's okay. You're perfect. But more from a place of this is more normal than you know, it feels new because you're, you're new, you're learning these skills, but it is very normal. I think normalizing the sale and falling in love with it and the more also, oh, this was part of confidence.
Speaker: When I did all the exercises, I fell in love with my offer and just with myself and the value I provided because I had to work a lot of my pitch. And after a while I was like, dang it, this is amazing. Like, wow, this is great. So it was like, I really am excited to show you, maybe that's why I got, you know, that blessed with my first call.
Speaker: because I genuinely was so excited. This person was so right. I had a thousand ideas for her business already because I knew that I knew what I knew. Yeah. So at the time of the call. Yes. A hundred percent. Yeah. Yeah. It's a game changer. And oftentimes I think if I had to pinpoint, well, there's kind of three that come to my mind. Three things that I think are really standing in the way of women in particular going out there and making
Speaker: sales work for them. Number one, obviously we talked about this already. We're too scared of hearing a no. That's an obvious one. So we're just not doing it.
Speaker: But when it comes to actually doing it, I would say number two is you've never been taught how to do it. So you're kind of winging it and it doesn't feel confident and that affects the buyer, right? They're like, that felt really weird. So I don't want to buy from them. So there's that. And then two is like you said, like you're not confident even in your offer. And so therefore you don't know how to close the deal at the end of the day. You don't know how to say to them. And we talk about this a lot, but you know, on those sales calls,
Speaker: is to take them by the hand and tell them what they don't know. You're the expert, right? So standing strong in your expertise and saying, I heard everything that you're going through. I have done X, Y, Z before with so and so. And I'd love to do this with you. We could start next week. How does that sound, right? These are some of the scripts that you get inside the program. But it's really about knowing what to say, how to hold yourself, how to present the offer, and then also knowing how to just do the whole thing in integrity, right?
Speaker: Your goal is to
Speaker: Yeah. And I'm so excited to do this again because I'm a huge sports person, right? I love the game of basketball, which I know I listened to your last podcast, Tiffany, and you were like, I hate basketball. I'm like, oh, okay. Um, but you know, it's just like any sport.
Speaker: The more you practice, the better you get, right? So the more you can exercise that sales muscle and practice those things and repeat them and do them, the more comfortable you're going to be with it and the more natural it's going to be for you. And it's just going to make it so much easier on YouTube every time you do it. Um, it's, you're not going to sound like it's the first time you've made a pitch because you've done it so many times that now it just flows off of your tongue, you know? So I'm really looking forward to doing it again.
Speaker: Yeah, we're doing it all over again, starting on January 24th. I'm so excited. So we're going back through the process from day one. Make that money, honey. We've got a lot of new newbies joining us this round. So I'm very excited. And if you're interested in joining us, the link will be in the show notes down below and you'll get to participate along with Mary and E because they'll both be in the program again. I'm so excited to have you all mostly because I think it's going to be really fun for you to see how far you've come and to be able to kind of be cheerleaders like I am for the newbies in the room. Right.
Speaker: Oh, I experienced that. It's fine. Or that actually still might come through. That could still totally turn into cash in the bank. Don't give up yet. That sort of thing, right? Yeah. And creating that community, flustering that culture of the people in this container. This is a culture. We support each other.
Speaker: I'm excited also for future editions, right? After the success, I can't even imagine what this is going to be by February. Seeing all these ladies be there for future cohorts is going to be very special I think.
Speaker: I think so too my hopes is that one day we have like a huge make that money honey reunion in person and do some sort of really fun thing because for me if you haven't heard me say this before I'm really on a mission to increase the number of six figure women owned businesses that are in the world that the statistics are really
Speaker: sad as far as how many are out there. There's a couple of studies, but most of them say that between 88 and 90 percent of women -led businesses never hit six figures in revenue. Obviously, that's a very depressing stat, but also it motivates me because there's no reason for this. There's a lot of talented women in the world doing really incredible things, and it's time to write the ship a little bit.
Speaker: tip that scale back in our direction and I feel really good about what I'm teaching here inside make that money honey because as I mentioned these are this is not just a 30 day cash injection my goal is to give you these skills for life so that you can go out into the world and no matter what your offer is and no matter how much it changes and evolves as time goes by because it will that you know how to sell it.
Speaker: I'm excited. I am super excited and I know it will happen and we're going to toast to an amazing Bellini by the beach. I said it already. I like this vision. Okay, keep going, keep going. I'm sure Mary was like, yes, get me out of the Pacific Northwest for a minute. Okay, it's happening. I'm putting it on my vision board. I'm having a vision board workshop tonight here at my house with a couple of close girlfriends. So that's going on the vision board. Thank you for that.
Speaker: Yeah, big celebratory, maybe it'll become like an annual thing. I don't know, we'll see, but. Well, what advice, let's end on a note that's like, okay, what advice would you give to someone who is maybe where you all were, you know, what, eight months ago, nine months ago, where you were still kind of afraid of sales, you were still putting more energy in your marketing efforts maybe than you were really in your sales efforts. What advice would you give to them? I'll let you each go.
Speaker: My advice would be to be willing to get uncomfortable and try new things. And there may be some times where things don't go the way you expected them to, but don't give up on that. You've invested in yourself to be a part of this program. And in order to get the most out of it, you have to stretch yourself. So good. My advice is to show up every day
Speaker: And every day you show up is a completion in and of itself. Do not get overwhelmed by day 25. Just say, I completed day one. Awesome. I'll show up tomorrow. And maybe that's the first thing you do in your day, whatever it is, but just show up day by day. This is a proven methodology.
Speaker: So there's safety in it. If you are a little anxious like me, you get to relax because there's proven methodology here. So that way you just know that you're in good hands, show up every day, complete each cycle.
Speaker: Each cycle is a win if you're baking a cake You don't get overwhelmed because you are gonna have to do ingredients in step 15 You just do step one finish and by the end everyone's enjoying your cake and you're like, how did I do this? So that's my advice show but if you show up every day It's you're gonna see results. I really
Speaker: I don't see how not. You know what I mean? Yeah. I'm with you. I don't see how not either. My one caveat is obviously you've got to be good at what you do. You've got to deliver a good product because otherwise this well will dry up eventually. There is a lot of this program that is dependent upon you being able to go to happy clients and ask them for referrals or ask them to re -engage and buy more from you. So if you're not doing a good job.
Speaker: You might hit a dead end eventually, but yeah, it's proven, right? This is the stuff that works. This is the stuff that can make your business grow without you needing to spend a thousand hours on Instagram and get lost in the deep, dark scroll that I think we all are very familiar with. And without feeling like you've got to create a whole new everything in order to make your next sale. It's like, no, no, no, just put your head down.
Speaker: and let's follow the steps, and you're going to be able to sell this thing that you already have in your arsenal. You already have it in your toolkit, right? Absolutely. That's good advice. That's very good advice. Tell everybody, where can they find you? And yeah, keep up with you on social, whatever you've kind of got going on. You can find me at Eugenia, that's E -U -G -E -N -I -A, that, W -O -O.
Speaker: And if I could go back to the past, I would have asked my mom to name me like Catherine or something simpler. But that's it, Eugenia Darwoo. And if you want to, if you have questions about the program and you don't want, you know, maybe you don't want to fully DM Tiffany because you don't want to pre -commit to anything, feel free to DM me. I would love to share my experience. I don't want to hold back because I see something good.
Speaker: I'm going to recommend it. I've never in my life have like promoted actively anyone else's program the way I'm doing it with this. And it's because I believe in it so much. But at the end of the day, if you have questions or you want to know my experience, feel free to DM me because I want to support you. And if you if this is something you want to focus on, it is the best in the market and DM me love to chat. Thank you.
Speaker: Yes, same offer stands for me. Happy to answer any questions in the DMs or any other way you can contact me online. My website is virtualbusybees .com, but busy is spelled B -I -Z -Y. I'm sure Tiffany will link that in the show notes. And then I'm on Facebook and Instagram also at virtualbusybees.
Speaker: I love it. Ladies, I'm just so excited because I know in not much time from now, like by mid -March, we're going to be celebrating all new wins for both of you and for all the other women inside make that money, honey. And that's going to be really fun and exciting and see the growth, see the trajectory. And then for you both, just kind of see, okay, what happens when we do it again and we go back in? I think it's going to be really exciting to see. So thank you.
Speaker: Thank you for the very generous offer to answer DMs. That's the kindest and I appreciate it so much because I do know I am an open book. You can ask me anything, but I do know sometimes that can be intimidating. And so if you want a neutral party, you know, someone that's not selling the program, then you guys can go and talk to Mary and E and they can give you their real time feedback on what it was like for them. So thank you for that. Thank you for having us. Absolutely. Okay, ladies, I'll see you all soon. Okay. Bye.
