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We're not just lawyers. So it sounds like you're really good at doing that and having those boundaries in place and prioritising. I'd love to know about the nitty grittyitty so do you go into the office much during the week talk to us about a day in the life of Maddie we love um yeah so we um are I think we have to or slash encourage to go into the office two days a week um so I work from home on a Monday Thursday and Friday typically um we do have like a monthly snapshot meeting on a Thursday. So I try and get like extra help on a Thursday to be able to go into the office. So yeah, Monday, Thursday, Friday, always at home, like drop children off, work five hours, pick children up. And then Tuesday and Wednesday, we actually, this is after I went back to work after maternity leave the second time, because I had to be in the office three days a week with Amazon, found an amazing, amazing nanny. So on a Tuesday and Wednesday evening, she does 4 p.m. till 8 p.m. She's recently come back with her little baby, which is so sweet to have a baby around the house again. And she's really, really amazing. So she does four till eight. And that's obviously another privileged position to be in that we can pay for her to do that. But that enables me to be in the office on a Tuesday and Wednesday because I couldn't physically be in the office until three and then get home to pick him up for three to ten because it takes you know an hour and 15 um so she does a tuesday and wednesday and we also have help from grandparents so my husband's mother lives nearby and then my parents come down every other week to see us and help with the children um so yeah so in the office i guess this was a quick but a long way of saying i'm in the the office office Tuesday Wednesday generally um and I'm really trying to have my meetings on those days as far as possible because it's obviously not as like possible but it's good to have meetings in person and then try and do my like deep work at home where I can just focus on my own but I mean it doesn't always happen like that. I use, I mean, you should see my calendar at work. It's like totally colorful, like green is blocked for focus time. Yellow is like do this by then. I think gray is like non-working hours. There's like personal stuff, you know, either side of that. And then like if there's a deadline, it's like in yellow, this must be done by then uh meetings are in a different color um so I really try and have like block time where I am trying to be like heads down doing work and try to not be distracted by like emails or people teamsing me what I mean it's not always possible and obviously there can be like urgent stuff as well but like the work that I do sometimes just needs like a cold towel over my head to just get stuff done and written. Otherwise, I mean, I don't believe that anyone can actually multitask, but it's quite hard to keep flipping and flopping between emails, teams, a document and like it's very nitty gritty, the stuff that I actually have to do um so yeah like I'm generally doing like commercial contracts and sales stuff but then loads of other bits like products work insurance for the company like a whole range of different things which I really like because I was only really doing like sales contracts before um meetings one-to-ones uh catch-ups with various people there's not much time for like socializing and having a coffee with people but I do know that that's really important as well um so trying to do that when I'm in the office uh but yeah that's that's kind of what the working day like looks like and then having fun with my children afterwards taking my son to swimming or writing in his diary that we're really enjoying doing at the moment, like how has school been today? That's really nice. I have to say, yeah, Maddie, I mean, it's chock-a-block and I love the sound of your calendar. I think you might have to screenshot that for me just so I can see because that sounds just what I need. But it's interesting because, I mean, my first day in London this week and it was a networking thing so it wasn't you know I had to be in the office or anything for a certain amount of time but trying to get back and I'm just about managing it got back for the school run but that wasn't in the plan but it was that I needed that wraparound care I needed somebody to do the drop-offs I need somebody to pick up and you know I I don't don't have, have that, you know, in the system currently at the moment. So if I was trying to go into London, for me, it just wouldn't work. I don't know how anybody really does it sort of multiple times a week. I think you're absolute heroes because I know the amount of energy that takes as well out of you, sort of the extra bit of traveling and, you know, having to think about all the logistics as well. And I think, yeah, it just adds extra, doesn't it, onto your working day. I know there is lots of benefits to it, like you say, social time and all the meetings and things like that. But it is extra things for you to think about as well. Yeah, like getting properly dressed and putting my makeup on and remembering everything. But I do really appreciate it because I do think it's quite energising to go into the office and I always read my book on the train and that is great yeah no that is I have to yeah like you say I really enjoyed just that 45 minutes of peace and quiet quiet coffee just nobody talking to me was yeah I very I've also felt very energized but yeah it took it out of me for sure so I'm glad that you've got something that works and you found a fabulous nanny to help you um it also makes me because I kind of feel like I want my husband to prioritize his well we're not it's not really like prioritizing or deprioritizing but by having the extra help it means that I can say oh actually maybe I'm going to see a friend for dinner on a Tuesday or Wednesday and therefore you don't need to get home until eight which is when the nanny leaves or I could go to yoga rather than like I wouldn't be able to say oh can you get home for like five or three or something like that so yeah it just gives me a bit more flexibility that I can be like right she's here that day I'm going to see a friend and then he doesn't need to get back until eight for example yeah it sounds like you've got a really solid system in place it sounds great I just I know I keep saying this but you just have to do what works for you you have to do what works best for you the family and it sounds like it's just working really well and it's so amazing that you can maintain your career and that you have the opportunity to do that and, you know, have life for yourself and to be able to spend time with your family. It really does be amazing. It gives me so much hope. Oh, thank you. I mean, I'm not bossing it. Like we're all like, you know, it does look good. And actually I'm so, so, so But there's obviously, like, things up and down and that kind of stuff. So we're all just trying to do our best, really, aren't we? Trying to be, like, career women and mommies and do everything. And have it all. You know, just do the thing and have it all thing. I mean, it sounds like it's easy to do, but I think you've got a brilliant system that, you know, things that you make it look, it sounds like you're making it work really well. Yeah. I have a lot of help as well, like family and supportive friends. And my husband's very, very supportive as well and good. And like, he is a really, really good daddy. And work is great as well, like all very supportive. You are obviously a really good person. And you're you your ambition if you're you're asking for these things but you're doing it in the right way and you know you've managed to create this sort of village around you that really supportive so I don't know what the quote is there must be a really good quote out there there is I totally agree with that as well like and like manifesting and that kind of stuff like and I I feel like I would quite like to say what Jo did and like, you know, pay it forward to someone else and create other opportunities. Like I was talking to someone at this networking event last night and about, you know, part-time legal roles. And I mean, the other thing that people are doing at the moment is like doing fractional GC work, so general counsel work and maybe taking on a few roles, but doing like a few hours here and there. But then you're self-employed. So you can do that and be like a contractor and be self-employed, which it sounds good and can give you flexibility, but then also got other pressures there. It's a whole other beast, isn't it? And one of the reasons why we wanted to set this up was that I think currently we just didn't want to have to be in a position where you're taking a part-time role that's completely in a different career. So because that's what I did, I do love it, but I did have to completely do retrain and do a pivot or to take a part time role that is not taking into account your qualifications and experience. So therefore you're taking a massive demotion, you know, or having to set up your own business or, you know, to be and I know freelance work is probably going to work for a lot of people. But wouldn't it be nice if we lived in a world where a five-hour workday was the norm and it's well paid and it takes into account our skills and our qualifications and that we know that we can be highly productive within that time we're gonna get the job done wouldn't that be nice if that was the norm to be an option? Totally agree. That's what when I saw Emma's post and it was called the five hour club, I was like, hang on a minute, that's what I do. One of my friends saw it and they were like, oh, is that how you got your job then? I was like, no, no. Kind of fluke and weird timing, isn't it? It's such a brilliant example that it's already existed and you're a lawyer and, you know, it's, I think, just highlights how it can be done and you're doing it so well. Yeah. But I would say I'm in a privileged position as well that I, as a household, we've been able for me to, you know, take a pay cut and do a part-time role because my husband works really hard and has a full-time role. I mean, it's also helped that we're now not paying nursery fees for my son because he's at our local state school so actually in the round like we're not in a particularly different position as we were say when I was working at Amazon and we were paying nursery fees for him so you know it just kind of you just have to keep I guess looking at your situation at the time and seeing what works for you and like what, I guess. For me, time is really, really important and I'm way more motivated by time and the flexible working and stuff than maybe the money. But that's probably because I feel quite privileged. So I don't know. But people agree with you. You know, there has been a lot of research to ask, what do people what would they choose over a higher salary and they would choose that flexible working but what does that flexible working mean and having that and and the conversation that you had with your employer you had that you know it was really it was brave of you in a way to have that conversation with your employer to say actually am i going to be able to get this done in 25 hours so you you because you had the bravery to say that you had that clear-cut transparency from the on from the offset which was brilliant and and probably enabled to help you to make the decision yes this is the right position for me yeah which I think comes like as you get more senior or as one gets more senior when you are going for roles you need to be interviewing them as much as they're interviewing you because you want to see whether that role is actually going to work um and like other kind of key things for me like now we just work within the UK and so it's generally just like UK time zone whereas when I was Amazon it like all over the world time zone.