*Trigger warning - episode contains references to sexual abuse.
Has your teenager been groomed? Or are you a young person experiencing grooming? In this episode Emma Cantrell talks about her experience of grooming at the age of 12 over a number of years.
What does grooming mean?
The NSPCC defines grooming as follows:
What is grooming?
What is online grooming and should parents be worried?
Online grooming can be of great concern to parents, because it's often easier for a groomer's behaviour to go unnoticed. However it's important to remember that grooming happens in all kinds of situations, not just in an online arena.
If you're worried about screen time or social media apps, this episode with digital parenting coach Elizabeth is reassuring.
What are the signs of grooming?
As a parent it's natural to worry when your child begins a relationship that could lead to sexual activity, but sometimes it's the less obvious connections that need to be examined.
So how can parents spot the warning signs of grooming? Here are some of the signs of grooming behaviour you might like to keep in mind:
What are the long term effects of grooming?
Emma explains in the episode how the long term effects of grooming affected her through her adult life. Listen to hear how it impacted her at university and beyond, including her development of an eating disorder, as well as issues with self-esteem.
Where to find help if you have experienced grooming
Who is Emma Cantrell?
Emma Cantrell is a charity founder and CEO, accidental runner and passionate Do Gooder. She has raised over £3m for small charities and can be found talking passionately about poverty, politics and her steadfast belief in the fundamental good in people to whoever will listen. She lives in Berkshire with her two children, Joni and Wilbur.
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