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you know, tell you do this, do that, live live differently just because I think that's right for you. Because those are the exact same things that we rebel against. It's like even with my wife, we're having this issue, ah it's a leap because our kids started going to crash. and And I'm like, no, I don't want her to go to crash and ah stuff. and And it's like, then I'm like, am I letting my fears limit my kids growth and development? Because that's Those are the exact same things that we kind of see our parents doing because they want to protect us. They want us to live in the small, that'll be like the small fish in the small pond where there's less danger, everything is kind of, you know, figured out. And then you, you know, you want to move control, whatever they're like, no, no, no, stay here, stay here. And I'm like, I caught myself like, damn, cannot, we cannot limit our kids the same way. We cannot um sort of repeat those same patterns if