Flez leads discussion of chapters 9 and 10, which includes Principle 5: “Solve Your Solvable Problems” from The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD.
0:36 - “They Don’t Make ‘Em Like They Used To” - Snacks
Principle 5 Discussion - “Solve Your Solvable Problems”
4:24 - Share an example of when you did not approach a difficult topic with a soft start up. How did that conversation go? What could you have done differently?
9:50 - Think about your last argument. Did either of you throw out a repair attempt? How did you respond to it? What can you do in the future to better seek and receive repair attempts?
17:21 - Who is the “saver” and the “spender” in your relationship? Has that caused arguments?
31:55 - Why do you think people shy away from talking about porn?
Next week, we’ll discuss Principle 6: “Overcome Gridlock” (pgs. 236-259).
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