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18. Our Latitude Is Gratitude
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We’re in the love wars now.
‘Tis the season to give thanks, and we have so much to be grateful for. Buckle in for a giggly episode where we express our gratitude for all the ups and downs that our lives have had to offer, and all the good things looming on the horizon.
We're grateful you're here! If you like what you’re hearing, you can follow us on Instagram: @soulpodthepodcast. You can also email us directly at [email protected].
Molly does tarot readings online and locally in Massachusetts: https://www.thehighpriestesscoaching.com/
Christina sells delicious microgreens in the greater Detroit area: https://www.christinasgreens.com/
Hosts: Christina Bell & Molly Wilde
Music: The Confrontation, by Jonathan Boyle, licensed from Premium Beats by Shutterstock
Editing: Molly Wilde
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Transcript
Seasonal Humor and Weather
00:00:24
Speaker
It's the most wonderful time of the year. I am emphatically shaking my head no. Yes, you should be shaking your head yes. What is going on? The weather outside is frightful. That's what's going on. yeah It's really fucking bad. Oh, God.
00:00:48
Speaker
ah Well, tis the season. Tis the season to be slippery. Yes. good Oh my God. It's not fun though. I i feel you. I feel
Holiday Excitement and Podcasting Plans
00:01:03
Speaker
you. No, it's it is the most wonderful time of the year if we're only thinking about holiday. Exactly one week from today. Yeah. Because we're recording on a Thursday. Yes.
00:01:19
Speaker
Uh, I was gonna say, by the time you're listening to this, if you're listening on the day we release it, it's just, uh, three days from now. Woohoo! And you gonna be in my house. I'm gonna be sitting my ass right across from you. Fuck yeah, you will be. I'm so excited. Oh my God. Oh, it's gonna be great. Yeah, we're really looking forward to the opportunity that we're going to have to be able to record together.
00:01:47
Speaker
like in-person IRL in the same room. What? Yeah, pretty fun. So that's ah we're like that's like one thing that we're pretty fucking amped about, in addition to like all the other awesome plans we've got yeah or while you're here. Which I just want to remind you, I am perfectly good just sitting our asses at home and doing nothing. I know. I know you are.
00:02:17
Speaker
But I still want us to like be able to like go enjoy some good food or some good drinks, for example, like at Hecatee that I can't wait to bring you to. I am excited about that for sure. Yeah. so i mean like but But for the most part, like we're really not going to be going out. So we will be sitting our asses at home, but we're going to be having a good time. Hell yeah.
00:02:46
Speaker
So what are we talking about today?
Significance of Gratitude
00:02:48
Speaker
Well, we got gratitude on the brain. It's called gratitude. And that's right. It's the best attitude. I was waiting to see if you would get the reference. No, I don't. I don't think I got it. For those of us Beastie Boy diehard fans, there is a song called gratitude. And he screams like, it's called gratitude. so Anyway.
00:03:16
Speaker
Love it. I love that song so much. So please go YouTube it, listen to it. you It's the best. I love the Beastie Boys and I miss them so much. Hell yeah. And yeah, there is ah just as an FYI, there is some crunchy crunch noise going on in the background. I'm trying to be quiet. You're doing your best. But then again, we don't regret you a good snack.
00:03:40
Speaker
I didn't really get a full lunch today, so I'm hungry. And then dinner. Yeah. My dinner isn't going to be until seven-ish. Yeah. Yeah. It's my friend our friendy friend's birthday today, so we're going out to her favorite Mexican restaurant, which be birthday
Astrology Insights
00:03:59
Speaker
does... Is this Sagittarius season new? It is, as of today, but she's a Scorpio. It's so weird. Wait, so was her birthday today or yesterday? It's today, but I just heard...
00:04:10
Speaker
the hell was I listening to today? I was listening to something today, and they were like, welcome to Sagittarius season. It started today, I guess. I don't remember what I was listening to. Oh, well, maybe. No, I wasn't really... I was gonna say, like, maybe she was born before, like, the switchover from Scorpio to Sagittarius. I didn't.
00:04:34
Speaker
do even if it was after midnight I still looked it up I said what astrological sign is November 21st and it said Scorpio on Google but then somebody yeah I'm very curious where like was it one of the podcasts you were listening to I'm trying to remember what the heck I was listening to because hold on Sagittarius dates oh whoever you were listening to was wrong okay
00:05:05
Speaker
because technically Sagittarius begins tomorrow. okay So yeah, by the time this is released, it will be Sagittarius season. So happy Sagittarius season to all my Sagists out there. And happy belated birthday if you're a Scorpio. True. Yes. And also happy Sagittarius season to my North node, which is Sagittarius. So yeah, my my lovely astrologer friend who I had those sessions with this summer, definitely basically very ah bluntly explained that like my Sagittarius North node is the reason I'm so horny all the time. ah Okay. Okay, now I can tell I can tell you who it was. I was listening to the new horoscope lady. Should I say the YouTuber? The YouTuber? Shani.
00:06:01
Speaker
You can, you can cut her, cut this out if you need to, but. Yeah. No, no, no. Um, it was like i listening to her podcast. It was a, I told you I got the app, right? Right. And I'm doing so you are listening to something on the app, not her podcast. Yeah. Well, I did listen to the podcast as well, but. Yeah. Cause I was going to say like, I don't have a problem. Obviously recommending people listen to.
00:06:27
Speaker
good podcasts that we enjoy. I'm trying to find her exact name. She's really good though. Why can't I find it? Oh, maybe did I not follow it? Hold on. so Let me just explain really quick the app part. It's customized to you. in the She customizes it to your rising sign.
00:06:46
Speaker
um and When you click on
Gratitude's Impact on Life
00:06:50
Speaker
this week at the top, then you get your own personalized reading for the week. And I could swear that she said, today is Sagittarius season or something. I could have swore she said that. um Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm sorry. I was going to say, it's entirely possible that the switch over occurs super late tonight. See that? It says today. And then it says... No, I see it. Yeah, yeah. I see it. Okay. So maybe it it occurs before midnight, you mean?
00:07:21
Speaker
Yeah, like maybe it occurs before midnight, but like technically most of the time it's on the 22nd. The planets around us don't move at the same rate as ah as the rotation of our Earth.
00:07:37
Speaker
Anyway, the the podcast we're referring to is Astrology of the Week Ahead with Chani Nicholas. strong recommend that you go listen if you are into astrology she's super thorough and good she's really good yeah yeah and i love her voice but yeah she also has an app which i have not subscribed to but christina has but we don't have time to get into more about that right now right because we gotta to talk about gratitude it's called gratitude oh my god all right no it's like honestly gratitude is the thing that
00:08:12
Speaker
I feel like I hear all the time from myself as well as from others. Like this is something that we need to implement more. I got to do my gratitude more. I got to like do my gratitude journal. I got to like have a practice. Like, you know, and just like, it's the thing that like people are always lamenting, like, I wish I did this more, you know, was focusing on gratitude. And I am top of the list culprit for that for sure. But it's something that like really does matter to me on a very, very deep level because Like, I mean, there's a billion different ways to think about gratitude and the way it like impacts your life, but like on the most surface level, cause like we can talk about manifestation. We will talk about manifestation, but like manifestation takes time. It takes patience. It takes a lot of like willpower and like, you know, just focus, but like simply practicing gratitude by itself, the surface level impact, the immediate impact,
00:09:12
Speaker
is that you simply feel better about your daily life and the things that you're experiencing and the things that you're noticing are overarchingly more positive when you have like a regular gratitude practice and a gratitude mindset, really. like Because you can have a practice, you can have a journal, like a gratitude journal where you like write down 10 things you're grateful for at the beginning of each day.
00:09:37
Speaker
And that helps. It helps you to have like more of a mindset, but like you don't have to be doing like a journal to be able to just simply focus on or think about or notice more the things that you are grateful for throughout your day. And it just makes you feel better. I think that when you know when you talk about manifest but manifestation, you have to be in a mindset of gratitude. like Most of the time for that to be even a thing. Yeah. Like if you want, if you want your manifestation to be a little bit more effortless, like having the like foundation of a regular gratitude practice is like so suggestion number one for helping to be able to manifest a little more easily, like without, without as much strain or focus or whatever.
00:10:30
Speaker
Yeah. and And it shouldn't be the kind of gratitude where you have to remind yourself to be grateful. You can't sit there all day long and be like, I'm grateful for my house. I'm grateful for my family. and you know You know what I mean? You have to like carry that emotion of it on on a regular basis and just like live in that emotion. Yeah. Yeah. And like shift your way of thinking like so that it's the the things that you're grateful for occur to you throughout the day as you're going through your day.
Practicing Gratitude in Everyday Situations
00:11:00
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So like one of the things that I think of that's coming to mind the most readily right now is that whenever I'm driving and I end up behind a slow driver, rather than get like super frustrated at how slow they're going, I find myself expressing gratitude that they are in front of me because they are likely keeping me from getting stuck in a speed trap. like that's you know it It makes me feel a lot better about the very natural impatience that I tend to have, especially on the road. And they could be preventing you from entering into an accident up ahead. Right, right, right, right, right. Yeah, like there's all sorts of ways that like this driver in front of me is so like you know slowing me down ah that is going to be better for me in the long run. I just don't know it. Because that's the universe doing its thing.
00:11:54
Speaker
Yeah, protecting you that's kind of the beautiful thing. and like that's i mean it's Like I said, that's just like one example of like a hundred billion possible examples of ways that you can just sort of shift your like daily thoughts and focus and like thought patterns into gratitude based on like what it is that you're doing and encountering on a daily basis.
00:12:17
Speaker
Yep. I understand, you know, the tie in here is because it's Thanksgiving coming up and we're supposed to be you know, about being grateful for things and being thankful for things. But when you're living in that mindset all the time, you might even have to be reminded to actually say it to people because you're so used to being in the mindset of being grateful that it may not occur to you like to actually speak to somebody and, you know, say like, I'm really grateful that you're in my life. You know? Right. Right. I am really grateful for you, Molly.
00:12:53
Speaker
And I am really, really grateful for this podcast because we get to have a set time scheduled together to like talk and communicate and share our views with people and, uh, have fun. I'm having fun. Are you having fun? Oh my God. Yeah. Yes, absolutely. Thank you. Um, no, I like, I back at you. I'm grateful for you. I'm grateful that we, you know,
00:13:22
Speaker
have finally decided to do this. I'm grateful that you are coming here in a week. And like a gratitude, oh God, gratitude is huge on that front because like, I know it's so not easy for you to just like travel. And so like the fact that you have like decided to take the plunge and travel on a major holiday, like to come see me because we know how important it is to me,
00:13:51
Speaker
like fills my heart with the kind of joy that I like can't even deal with. Otherwise, I'm going to fall into a puddle of tears. whoa
00:14:04
Speaker
And I'm really sorry, the furnace just kicked on. And so oh who cares? the background No worries. It'll drown out my crunching. yeah No, I really can't hear too much, so don't worry about that. okay I was going to also say though, like you may have noticed, you the listener, you may have noticed that we have been in the habit, although I'm not sure if we've done it the last couple of episodes we've recorded, but we've done our best to be in the habit of ah expressing the gratitude that we have for you the listener, being grateful that you're here. And that, while it is like
00:14:43
Speaker
for sure in the hopes that like we're energetically attracting more and more like-minded people to listen to us, to communicate with us, to connect with us. like We also really truly feel it and mean it from the bottom of our hearts. We are so grateful that you want to listen to our stupid asses. like Honestly. I second that. It's it's wonderful. i mean like we you know, we're just people, like we're just weirdos who decided that we wanted to, you know, bother the world with our opinions and our thoughts and our stupid fucking laughter. oh my god But like, but at the same time, like, we take so much pride and pleasure in how much we like what kind of energy the combination of us, the two of us brings to the
00:15:40
Speaker
you know, to the table, to the world, to whatever room we're in. Like, it matters a lot to us. And it's like, I guess gratitude for ourselves in that way, that we're like, so excited that we now have taken the plunge to be sharing it with you guys, with the world. Because people from all over the world are listening. Like we just discovered. Oh my God. Yeah. What was the most recent one? It was, um,
00:16:09
Speaker
Fucking... Was it Finland? It was not Finland. Oh, who was it? We had Germany, we had Spain, we've had Belgium for a while. Oh my god, I'm gonna have to look again. Because I remember what day it was because I told you. Oh my god, I feel so dumb.
00:16:28
Speaker
don't feel dumb, dude. There's a lot of countries. There's a lot of countries in this world, dude. I know. Oh my God. Well, while you're looking for that, I just want to say... It is... Hey. What? I was trying to say something. I'm trying to find the country. I know. I said while... But I well only found the county, which is not helpful. Okay. I'm so silly. I'm so sorry. Let me say something. Yeah. I just want to say...
00:16:59
Speaker
Along the theme of being grateful and having gratitude, it's like, yeah, we are ah hopefully expressing our gratitude for the listener, but this whole thing is literally us, I think. It kind of boils down to us expressing our gratitude for having found each other and having each other in our lives again. That's what it boils down to. And we want to share that. We want to share it with everybody. You're right.
00:17:28
Speaker
You're right. Oh my God.
00:17:35
Speaker
We're very grateful that we have each other and we know that and we know it and we acknowledge it a lot. And we don't ever want to take that for granted. who It's true. I love you. I love you. It was hungry. Hungry.
00:17:54
Speaker
Hungary. hung hunger and gary The county is Heves or Heves. I do deeply apologize if you are that person listening in that county and I have grossly mispronounced the name of the county. Molly, you can you can speak a couple different languages. We don't expect you to speak Hungarian as well.
00:18:22
Speaker
okay adds Hungarian to my Duolingo. Oh my god. It's regardless, Hungary is fucking cool. Can I say something really stupid? Yes.
00:18:39
Speaker
because Okay. I'm acknowledging right now, Hungary and Turkey are two different countries, so that's I'm not getting them conflated or are confused, okay? But it reminded me of this stupid joke. I gave my son a bowl of turkey to eat.
00:18:56
Speaker
and He was sitting there not eating it. And so I started getting silly and I go, eat your turkey. I was like, eat your turkey. He's so stupid. And he goes, do you say Turkish?
00:19:12
Speaker
My my little nine-year-old has the funniest sense of humor sometimes it just cracks me up He made me laugh so hard yesterday He made me laugh really hard too, and I i don't even remember what the heck he was doing But I don't laugh easily at things that are like, you know, just silly or goofy or stupid You know, it has to literally be like funny like legitimately Yeah for me to laugh out loud about stuff and like saying he made me laugh so hard last night. It was so fucking hilarious Anyway, thank you for joining us, Hungary. Absolutely. So you weren't going to tell us the thing that made you laugh? I can't remember. That was last night. I'm just saying, his sense of humor is is just that good though. Like he literally makes me laugh out loud, like really hard. That's so awesome. Yeah. yeah I love that. I love it too. I was going to say that like, I don't know when I first like, it's really not a joke because it is, it's dumb as fuck.
00:20:08
Speaker
But like I remember being a kid and like realizing the names of other countries in Europe and stuff and decided that it was like a silly sentence to have come up with to say that I'm hungry for Turkey that is fried in Greece. Oh my God.
00:20:26
Speaker
That's your dad's humor right there. Jesus fuck. That's your dad's humor. funny okay But It's stupid. It's what it is. That's your dad's humor. Oh my God.
00:20:43
Speaker
Sorry, biological father. you're humor Do you remember when I sent you the TikTok that you came back and were like, this is how I know your you're your father's daughter. Reminder. It was the person who said, I'm going to go out on a limb and say this. And then they filmed themselves walking outside, climbing a tree, going out on the branch and saying the word this. Oh my God.
00:21:14
Speaker
It's the kind of humor that you're just like eye rolling about. Eye rolling. I know. I know. Yeah.
Humor and Anecdotes
00:21:26
Speaker
Oh my god. I'm really grateful for my stupid sense of humor because it makes my life a little better every day. ah so And I hope it makes your life better because if it doesn't, then what am I doing? Who, me or the audience? Anyone. You both. Everybody. Gotcha.
00:21:46
Speaker
If it doesn't make your life better, what are you doing here? anywho Any any whomst. I love it when people say that. It's really stupid, but it's funny. What is it? Any whomst. I don't know that one. It's like a word earworm that's like in my head now. um Okay. And it just makes me giggle every time. Tell me if you've heard this one.
00:22:11
Speaker
Okay. Any hooters. I've never heard that one. I hate it. Have you been to hooters? Never. Should I go to hooters? I've not been to hooters. I don't know if there are any around here anymore. There was one and it closed. But there's somebody that I know that said any hooters. And I was just like, ah that is dumb. Shut up.
00:22:34
Speaker
There's a Hooters and Shrewsberry. We can go together if you want. Oh my god, stop it! We don't have time for that. You don't know that. We can have time for whatever we want. The proper response is, who doesn't have time for boobs? That's also true.
00:22:56
Speaker
Am I making you blush? No, because honestly, my next thought was, what if we just go to a strip club? What the fuck, dude? Are you serious? I've never been to a strip club. I really want to go. Oh my God. Okay, I don't think I've ever been to any that were like female strippers, but I was at one that was full nudity male. And that's interesting. In Canada.
00:23:20
Speaker
ah Yeah, right across the border in Windsor. It's called Danny's. I need to check and see if it's even still there. Cool. Yeah. Well, I'm not suggesting we definitely try to go to a strip club. This Thanksgiving at least, but like maybe someday. anyway Anyway, I am grateful for Doritos. I was just going to say that I'm grateful for boobs.
00:23:46
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00:23:49
Speaker
You've been practicing your French, dude. I remember a lot of it. I just never use it. I feel it. I feel it. I'm like, I find myself like thinking in French a lot, trying to like remember what words I actually do know. Yeah. um Any who, any who's, any who-ders.
00:24:10
Speaker
I'm going to put away my cina. Yeah, k Christina's been eating Doritos and spinach dip, which frankly, I'm jealous of because it sounds really yummy. It's literally because that's all I had to eat. It's so good. eat but No, it's a great idea. Now I want some. It's good. I surprise myself sometimes because I will just come out with a French phrase that is exactly like correct. And I'll be like, how did I remember that?
00:24:38
Speaker
You know what I mean? Like I'll just make a comment in French and it's like, I don't even remember. I don't know how I would remember that because I don't practice it. Right. Same. Like I don't even, it's on my Duolingo, but I don't even, I haven't like practiced it in such a long time because I've been so focused on Swedish. But the thought just encouraged me and this is probably a really terrible idea. But what if one day we try to record an entire episode in French? Oh my God.
00:25:04
Speaker
We would botch it and then people in France would start to listen and be like, who the fuck are these people? Fuck off. Fucking Americans. They fucking hate Americans already. They'll just make it worse. I just remember the really funny story. Okay. Oh God, what? You know that I traveled to Germany by myself in the... Yes. ...bots or whatever they call that. Yeah. I'm trying to remember. It was like around 2003, I believe.
00:25:32
Speaker
And my cousin lived on a military base out there at the time because she was married to a service member in Darmstadt. I think it was Darmstadt, Germany. Anyhow, she and I took at the train all the way up to where the Birkenstock outlet is or like the factory. Why did that just make me full body shudder?
00:26:00
Speaker
because This is my crunchy vegan side coming out. Dude, who in the fuck gets the chance to go where they make Birkenstocks? Like, an a we went. Oh my God. Yeah. I was so excited about it. Anyway, we were writing. Birkenstocks for the listener. Birkenstocks are one of the things that k Christina and I immediately vomited over when we met. Birkenstocks and Doc Martens, so. Oh yeah, dude. Yes.
00:26:26
Speaker
Um, yeah good so we were riding the train and I had like my little German English dictionary thingy with me. And, um, also just for reference, like the born identity was a movie that was out around that time. And I loved that movie. And like, there's a, I think she's German, but she might not be German, the actress that played like the girl that he ends up getting romantic with.
00:26:55
Speaker
I don't remember, but continue. She's gorgeous. Love her. And I can't... I remember who she is. I just don't remember her name. Yeah. I can't think of her name right now either. Yeah. But um she says Shiza, Shiza, Shiza, like all the time. She's like, Shiza, Shiza. It's like shit yeah in German, right? Yeah. From what I can recall, if I'm wrong, please it is correct me, right? No, its it is correct. I don't know all of German, but I know Shiza. Okay.
00:27:20
Speaker
I know the swears. Oh my God. You know all of them? All of them? No, not all. i Not all the swears. I just know some swears.
00:27:30
Speaker
So we were looking up different words to go with Shiza, such as horse and pig and dog. Oh my god. So we were like saying like, I don't remember what the words are now, but we were like saying horse shit and pig shit and dog shit. Oh my god. I don't know horse or pig, but isn't dog hund? Yes, yes. So is it, it would have been like hundenshiza? Hundenshiza, hundenshiza, something like that. Yeah. We were just sitting there looking these up and just spewing them out like,
00:28:05
Speaker
you know it was so fucking funny and there was like a couple of german girls like near us sitting together that kept laughing oh my god see the germans appreciate americans the french fucking hate americans and in both cases i understand why ah i swear to god i wish we had like Oh my God. I don't even remember if I had, I had to have a cell phone back then, but like, I was like, I don't know. I wish I could have fucking recorded that like on video. That would have been so goddamn funny. Oh my God. It would have been great. It would have been wonderful. It was one of the funniest and funnest times I ever had in my life. Oh yeah.
00:28:48
Speaker
Fuck yeah. We have taken a break, yeah ah but we are back and ready to go for round two. so yeah so that was I don't know how I could forget, but like when we were on the train going to the Birkenstock outlet, huh back we looked up bullshit. Oh my God. i remember Do you remember what it was? No.
00:29:13
Speaker
I don't know about any of those. The only one... Oh, a pig is like swine or something. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Swine. Swine. Swine. Swine Shiza. Swine.
00:29:28
Speaker
I don't know. I just remember there was a dude that I worked with who he doesn't work there anymore. He was like old enough to be my dad. um And when I told him I was going to Germany, he's like, just make sure you don't insult anybody by calling them Sveinhund. What does that mean? Pig dog. But but why is that?
00:29:51
Speaker
It's a fucking insult. Why is that particularly? I don't know. I don't know. He is like, if you call somebody a pig dog, that's like the biggest insult. So don't call him a swine hoon. Wait a second. on, hold on. I can almost, I can, I'm an almost positive that's what he said. And it wasn't swine and hoon then or anything like that. It was just fine. No, I wouldn't think it would. I don't, I don't. ah But what I was going to say is, you know, that scene in Monty Python,
00:30:20
Speaker
where there's the French guy on the top of the castle wall. Yeah. And I'm pretty sure that at one point during his ranting insults, he says, you pig dogs. Yeah. Yeah. I'm like, but ah was that a reference to that? I don't know. I'm curious. Well, maybe I mean, in Europe, maybe Steinhund was like,
00:30:43
Speaker
an actual insult back in the 70s or something and that's probably why this old dude told me don't don't call anybody a swine hoot because it's an insult oh my god now i need to like i need to see if there's like an explanation out there somewhere anyway so it would be like swine shiza or hoot shiza or whatever and then like i don't know what the horse and and the other ones would be the bull but that was a very funny day Yeah, I only know, I'm only remembering, like, the French word for cow. Do you know it? No, not offhand. La vache. Okay. I don't know that one for sure. I don't know that one. Yeah, V-A-C-H-E, vache. I haven't gotten there yet in the ah Duolingo world, so... They haven't taught you animals yet? Yeah, some. I know maybe, maybe some.
00:31:42
Speaker
I remember learning the Swedish word for B, which was just B, me B-I. That's so funny. It's a bi-B. I love it. Oh my God. What were you going to say about anniversaries?
Personal Reflections and Anniversaries
00:32:03
Speaker
Oh, okay. So we need to acknowledge that the week after the election was the ninth anniversary of our reunion.
00:32:17
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I see angels descending from the heavens.
00:32:24
Speaker
Yes. Yeah, we need to acknowledge it because we fucking forgot. I remembered like three days later. We forgot to acknowledge it to each other. We forgot to, yeah, like like but it's because, I don't know why, because I remember the original date because it was Friday the 13th, but like, because it's not been Friday the 13th again. Like I just, I just forget what it happens. Yeah. It's also been just a, you know, a crazy, crazy goddamn time. So, yeah ye you know. And the other anniversary is ah my anniversary at work 28 years this past Monday.
00:33:08
Speaker
Oh my god. I know. Us bonkers banana towns. huh It makes me feel really old. And goddess willing, I will not be working there two years from now. I will be required. Yeah. Oh yeah. I really hope so. Me too. That's what we're working on. Yeah, hooray for anniversaries. I'm grateful for anniversaries. I like to remember.
00:33:37
Speaker
yes um Yeah, I usually don't have such a hard time remembering anniversary dates. Usually it's the bad ones though. I hate that that's always a thing with humans to like have a stronger memory when it comes to negative associations. Right. So yeah, I want to say I'm i'm grateful for, I have gratitude for our nine year anniversary.
00:34:06
Speaker
And the eight-year anniversary at work, gratitude for the job that I have because it has provided me with some sort of freedom. And stability. And stability. Yeah. I mean, like it it's the thing that sort of helped you to afford to own your house. Yep. That's fucking badass. Yeah. I love it. Yeah.
00:34:29
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it Yeah, I've got to in that same vein, I've got to express gratitude for my own for my own job. In spite of the difficulties, which I'm not going to get into. The one thing that I do feel like abundantly grateful for is the fact that it pays my bills, and that it offers me insurance, no matter how like horrible like basically all American health insurance is, I still have it. And I'm fortunate in that. And I can't forget it. Like I really, I really can't allow myself to get lost in feeling crummy about the specifics.
00:35:10
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It helped you get your condo. I mean, honestly, yeah. like I wouldn't be... it's I mean, it's still really, really tight. like but Housing prices are just absolutely fucking ah like uncalled for. Yeah. But like like i I make it work and I'm honestly doing better than I ever have been.
00:35:30
Speaker
Um, even with it being as expensive as it is. So then I'm grateful for the fucking condo. Yes, ma'am. Holy shit. I'm grateful for the condo. Yep. It's a, it's a beautiful feeling to to own your own place, like living place, living space, yeah whatever the fuck you want to call it. Yeah. And I do wish that it was, you know, like a detached single family home.
00:35:58
Speaker
Like i I wish that I could have found something in that vein. Like I really was like, that was what my real estate agent was gunning for was in the hopes that we might find like some little old lady's grant, like a little old grandma house that like they weren't trying to, you know, sell for an extortionate amount. And it was just like livable, but you know, in need of updates or whatever, like mostly aesthetic updates or,
00:36:25
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decor and such. Dude, I'm telling you, be grateful that you don't, that you didn't, because upkeep on the outside of a house is a pain in the ass. I know, I know. But even still, like it's something, it's the kind of thing that like, it it it would be like a labor of love.
00:36:43
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Like it'd be like a akin to the kind of upkeep that you have to do on like a cast iron pan, you know? No, no, youre not no, no, no. i'm I'm not saying, I'm not saying like the level. I'm saying like the same kind of like begrudging care. It would be like, I'm so grateful to have this and I'm like, you know, grateful to have the outside space that I would because I don't, I don't have that.
00:37:08
Speaker
I don't get to just hang out outside. That's what I want. I want a yard. I want a deck. I know. Believe me when I say I've given it all the thought in the world. I really have. If you don't have $8,000 or $10,000 laying around to repair a roof, you you got to be lucky that you don't have to repair a roof. like feel like It's not easy, dude. like you No, i'm not saying more money I'm not saying it's easy.
00:37:36
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but like I would rather have the privacy. I would rather have the ability to hang out outside and not feel like I'm in everybody's view constantly. That's what I want. That makes sense. I get all that totally. I don't have privacy in my backyard. I can make expenses work. I can make expenses work.
00:38:04
Speaker
Yeah, you know there's a when there's a will there's a way and I can figure it out but like you know, it's just I Whatever it is what it is like it's my goal for like the next place that I try to find Whenever that maybe I don't know how soon it will be but it will certainly be sooner, you know ah That it otherwise would have been know that I am not like throwing money away on rent, right? So Yeah. I was gonna say, like it is nice, but I don't have privacy in my own backyard because the neighbors that are all... you know like my house Our houses are so smashed up against each other. but I mean, your last house was like that too, but right being in my backyard, if anyone else is in the back in their backyards, then there's no privacy. I want a privacy fence. like I really want to build a privacy fence. Really, really bad. Yeah.
00:39:03
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The thought that I had was like, if I got a piece of land with a house on it that didn't have a privacy fence, that I would get those like, basically those privacy hedges, and just like plant those like just within the property line. Yeah. And like, they probably wouldn't be like full coverage immediately. But like, they would grow into it pretty easily. Or otherwise, like, you know, like set up like a crisscross like trellis almost looking thing. If I had like like a deck or something. And I just wanted like some like visibility blocked off on one side or on two sides of the deck to like get those trellisy things and then like maybe
00:39:45
Speaker
Like grow some viney plants through it. Oh, you're talking about the crisscross. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's called lattice. That's the word. Yeah. and pie My mom and dad had like, they had put lattice around the base of like the bottom of the deck because like it was like wide open underneath and like try to keep animals out. They put this lattice around it. Yeah. That stuff is.
00:40:15
Speaker
is tacky when you do it like that but like when you're talking about how you would do it with like buying new stuff growing on it then it's like pretty yeah just like if i were to do like you know those like standard wooden decks with like the three foot railing or whatever like i would just put those zip tie them to the uh posts and then just start growing plants yeah yeah because i'd like like i don't even necessarily need like the whole yard to be private i just want to be able to sit outside with my coffee and not like have to contend with somebody saying hello to me. yeah yeah no Because that much of an introvert. Yes. I feel like I'd have more privacy on my front porch than I do in my backyard. It's kind of weird.
00:41:01
Speaker
Because like my front porch, like my house is on a 30 mile an hour road, which is like more of a thoroughfare than like a so you know subdivision road would be. Right. And like people drive pretty quick through there, but you don't see a lot of people hanging out in their front yards at all. And so like, I really wanted to, maybe I will still, I don't know, but. You can like add to the sides of it, the deck, I mean. the first Well, i was I want to build like a whole deck.
00:41:27
Speaker
ah Like actual deck from Okay, you know like where the driveway is how the driveway goes straight up to the house I would want it to like start where at the edge of the driveway is and go the whole length of the house to the left Yeah. Yeah. And so like you'd have like, I'd have to take that. So like straight out of the living room, living room window. and yeah yeah Yeah. And have the railing be lined up with the side of the house, you know, like a railing. And I would like to have a little, you know, couple little chairs out there. So I can just get my morning coffee and go sit on the front porch and just look at passers by like cars going by and crap. See, this is the thing that those like, that's all that I really want. That's what I want. Because like,
00:42:10
Speaker
I remember I showed you the other condo that I tried to get that like was way cheaper than this one, but they like wouldn't they wouldn't fucking accept my offer because it was like 30k less than they wanted. Oh my god. And it's like it was not worth that much. like I couldn't actually offer more than that because the mortgage company would be like, that's not the value of this place. like We won't pay for that.
00:42:35
Speaker
Those people probably still haven't sold their house. No, they haven't. They haven't. It's absurd. I'm sure they haven't. And like, but the thing is, I would have been so happy with it. Like it would have, it was like 200 more square feet than this place, but like also like it had its own balcony. And like, even though the balconies are not really very private, like It had a lot of that like forests backed up to the house, right? No. They didn't have the woods like behind. ah There were there were woods all around it. But the like the direction that the basically the the windows of the condo were facing were like, toward the center of the complex, not toward the woods.
00:43:17
Speaker
Okay, but I still do remember like I think that's the one I was thinking of. that has the ones that had the it's It's the one that had the wall boobs. I don't know what that is. You know you know the boob light? Boob lights? Oh, kind of. You know how like it's like when you see a boob light on the ceiling, it's like, oh, the ceiling tit. Yeah, I have one in my hallway. This is the this is the place that had the wall tits.
00:43:43
Speaker
That's hilarious. I don't remember that. Because there were so those ceiling lights like mounted to the walls. It made no sense. It was so, that's, this is what I'm saying. Like there were so many things wrong with this place. Like the fridge was missing the handle. Like the door handle that was missing. That's ridiculous. I know. It was awful. I was like, why did they want it? They wanted like, they wanted like 220 or 225 for it.
00:44:07
Speaker
Wow. And like, and I was offering like 189 or something. And they were like, absolutely not. But yeah, no, they they wanted way too much money. And I would have been I would have paid the 189 or whatever and been totally fine with it. Because it's it was a lot of space. I could have done so many updates and like would have turned a significant profit. You know, whenever I went to sell it, then I would have had the balcony in the meantime.
00:44:35
Speaker
Right. I fucking love a balcony. I love a balcony. God damn it. I'm sorry. It's whatever. That's going to be the kind of thing that when I am shopping again for another place to live, that's going to be like top priority, top of the list priority. A balcony? A balcony or private outdoor space. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. But like more emphasis on private outdoor space, because ideally I'm not going to sell this place just to move into another condo. Right. Like that would be that would be the goal.
00:45:05
Speaker
but if it is a condo, gotta have a private balcony or a private deck or something. Yeah, and not ground floor. I ain't been anybody being able to just walk right up to me. Absolutely the fuck not.
00:45:21
Speaker
You know, oh ever since, I'm sorry, my eyes bugging me. You're good. Ever since I started thinking about, I don't know why this didn't occur to me sooner than like today, but I want to get, you know, I'm getting rid of my lease. I want to buy that little junky little car. Right.
00:45:37
Speaker
And for some stupid reason, it didn't occur to me till today how much money I will be saving and just what I can do with that money. yeah And I'm just like, I know, but like I just really it started sinking in like today.
00:45:53
Speaker
yeah And I want to, first of all, save up a couple grand, which will only take like less than three months, right basically, um just to have that as the you know emergency fund. Then I'm going to start paying down my credit card debt right away. yeah And then I can use, you know, I can save up a little bit more and I can like start finally fixing up the house next door and this house. I can do both. I could probably build that deck next summer that I want to build. You know what I'm saying? I'm just like, what the fuck? Yeah. What the fuck have I been thinking for the last five years or whatever?
Financial Insights and Planning
00:46:41
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Like why, I mean,
00:46:43
Speaker
i know I generally didn't just have $1,000 to like buy a car, which if I had thought to do that, I would have or could have, but like I don't know why I didn't think of it. It's like, why haven't I just saved my longevity check that I get every year?
00:46:59
Speaker
And you know when we file our taxes in February and like get our tax money back, like take two grand and buy a used beater and just like save tons of money. I don't know why I haven't thought of this. The first time I tried to buy a used car was the Ford Flex, right? Right. And it turned out to be like such a money pit almost. Yeah. It was going to be if I had started to like fix it up when it needed fixing. And I just was like, yeah.
00:47:28
Speaker
But I didn't even have it paid off. Yeah. It was 16 grand or whatever when I got it and I financed that and it wasn't even fit paid off by the time I had to get rid of it. yeah So dumb. So I'm just like, all right, I just want to get, you know, and I was just telling my friend at dinner earlier about it and she's like, don't do it. She's like, it's, you know, you don't want a little tiny car like that. And I'm like, no, literally I don't care right now. I literally do not care.
00:47:58
Speaker
I need the money. I want no car payment, and if and it's probably really good on gas, so I'll save money on gas too. you know The insurance might you know should be cheaper because its it'll be paid off. I can probably get what they call PLPD, which is like the basic insurance that covers basically hardly anything. And you don't have you don't have anything on your like driver's license, right? like You got like a clean...
00:48:27
Speaker
Yeah, I don't have any points or any of that. But I don't know what they call it if they have the same kind of thing where you live, but PLPD insurance is like the basic, basic insurance that you have to have at least some kind of insurance to like legally drive. So that's the basic, cheapest thing you could possibly get. And with a lease, you have to have full coverage insurance.
00:48:53
Speaker
You have to have like, I'm paying over $1 a month, you know what I'm saying? like So I'll be saving, that's why I was like, $1 is my car payment it right now. yeah I shit you not. I will save at least $1 a month on insurance as well. So that's over $100 right there. A month. Plus probably cheaper, you know less gas.
00:49:17
Speaker
maybe I'll save 50 bucks on gas a month. yeah Because I fill up, I'm paying about $50 a week right now for with the big SUV. And so I'm i'm thinking I'm ah upwards of $100 a month that I could be saving. Right. It's blowing my biscuits. It's blowing my biscuits.
00:49:41
Speaker
um What? The fact that we're taking the initiative to you know, become more financially literate. Yeah. Yeah. I should have done this a long fucking time ago. but We're doing it together.
00:49:54
Speaker
I'm really proud of us. I wanted a really nice car. i've always And the thing is I've always been afraid of not having a reliable car. So that's why I've leased because I need to have a reliable car. yeah And this, like literally, if this car can last me three months or four months where I could put all that money in the bank and something happens to it, I can just go buy a whole nother one yeah because I'll have that money saved up.
00:50:22
Speaker
Yeah. And I'll be able to do that. So it's like, even if it needed some kind of stupid repair that wasn't worth getting, I would just go buy another beater. Right. Sell that one for 500 or something. You know what I mean? Right. Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah. It's like, I finally have a freaking plan that makes sense.
00:50:45
Speaker
I don't know what's wrong with me. Hey, hey, that's not what we're here to do today. I'm almost 50 years old now. Mother, Christina, this is not what we're here to do today. We're not beating up on ourselves. I know. We're not. We're grateful. No, I am. No, I literally, I have the ability to make the decisions that we're able to make now. I'm i'm laughing at myself because I just don't understand why I didn't think of this sooner.
00:51:11
Speaker
And like what the hell my problem is, but I am grateful. I have gratitude in my heart for this plan that is developing before my eyes. Like I can see a brighter yeah future all of a sudden because of it, you know? Yeah. No, I get it. I get it. No, just like the same way. It's like I didn't realize all the ways that I could have dealt with the credit card debt that was plaguing me forever and ever.
00:51:33
Speaker
I could have done it. I could have dealt with it so long ago when it was layla way less than it was, or is, or yeah, it was, because really it's like, it's on its way out. um you know and like So I've had that same thought, but I try not to be up on myself because I didn't know any fucking better. right You don't know it until you know it.
00:51:58
Speaker
yeah That's all there is. Yeah. That's all it is. And oddly enough, you know, I ran this by John earlier. I was like. It's a Chevy Cobalt. It's a 2005. It's a thousand dollars." And he was like, cool. He's like all for it. He's like, even if it needed a repair, that would probably be a cheap fix. I was like, yeah, it might. It might. Even if I needed to replace the transmission or something, like yeah in a month, I probably would have that money saved up because of not paying, you know, the amount that I'm paying for that other car.
00:52:31
Speaker
yeah oh No, I mean, like it's it it is what it is. Now you just got to actually like stick with the plan and you got it. yeah ye You got it in the bag. Yep. Yeah. That being said, I might actually end up staying at my job just a little bit longer until I can get my credit taken care of, all my credit and my debt. i mean and like Potentially, I can pay this house off like really fast. Yeah.
00:53:01
Speaker
Yeah. I mean, whatever you got to do, but like. and in a way Literally it would make more sense to just retire and take the pension check and then go get another job. Right. And make, you know, not the same amount of money. Cause I can't, I can't imagine actually finding a you know dollar an hour job out, out of the door, out of the gate. You know what I mean? I had to work my way up in that freaking company for yeah there was an hour. for Well, I mean, and we'll have to see what the job market is like at the time.
00:53:30
Speaker
Yeah, but I'm like, even if there is a nightmare right now, but yeah, there's still a lot of job openings that are not getting filled though, right? Yeah, because I don't think there's actually openings. They're not actually trying to hire. They just want to make it look like they are. You think so? I'm like positive. the I don't understand it. I just know that it's, you know, shady as fuck. That's very weird. Yeah.
00:53:59
Speaker
But it's i mean like this is this is what like multiple of my friends have been dealing with. you know It's really upsetting. It's really, really upsetting. So we'll have to see where where we're at in two years. Yeah. um But you don't have to make any decisions before then, so. Right. And like I keep telling Julie, like I can go back to as a sub and make $1 an hour as soon as that. You know what I mean?
00:54:27
Speaker
Yeah, while still getting the pension. While still having my pension check, o because I will be retired and I will literally just go, you have to take a few months break. I don't know exactly why that is and how long it's either like six or nine months. You have to stay away for that long yeah and then you can come back as a sub and I can pick and choose my schedule. I don't have to work in the mornings. I could just say, I just want to work in the afternoon.
00:54:55
Speaker
That way I can still get all my sleep. And then like, I could go and be a sub lunch lady in the schools during like the lunch hours, you know? yeah yeah yeah And that doesn't make a whole lot of money, but it's something. So I mean, there's options there. Yeah. Yeah. And I was gonna say, like, you could also plan on like saving enough to, you know, get you by during the time that you the six or nine months so that like then you don't even have to like deal with trying to find a temporary job in that time. Right, right that's my question. Yeah, and then you can just like sort of recover.
00:55:36
Speaker
Yeah. Yeah. Just get rest. yeah But then I keep thinking about like, well, if I'm not actually out going to a job every day, I'm saving money on gas. yeah I'm saving money on lunch. I'm saving money on whatever else crap. You know what I mean? like if i And when I stay home, I don't even eat as much as I normally would when I go out, like when I'm out doing stuff. Like I eat really light when I'm just putzing around the house.
00:56:06
Speaker
And that would give me the time and opportunity to go through all my crap. I could start selling crap that I don't need anymore. That's another form of income. You know what I'm saying? it's like yeah i I might even be able to get by on just my pension check. If I can get my debt under control, maybe potentially have my house close to being paid off.
00:56:31
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you know I wanted to ask you if you wanted to talk about your yearly gratitude post on Facebook. Well, I did talk about it around Mabon. i didn't It didn't occur to me probably because it's separate from this time of the year in my brain. It's relevant.
00:56:51
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but
00:56:54
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I earlier I said that gratitude as like a consistent daily practice e etc etc like I always lament that I should be doing more and most people that I you know know say similar more things but like there was something that I I'm trying to remember what the actual context was that, like, made me think of this. But do you remember when I realized earlier this year that as a part of my own magical practice, I should start implementing, like, ritualized gratitude? Yes, I remember you talking about that. That is something that has, like, hovered, it's remained in the back of my mind, like, how the fuck do I even do that? Because, like, it goat for me,
00:57:44
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what ritualized gratitude means is not just like sitting down with a gratitude journal and lighting a candle and you know filling out the prompts or whatever. It's like something that's that would be and should be incorporated as like a magical practice. It's effectively you know what I would consider to be important to my role as a witch.
Gratitude in Magical Practices
00:58:13
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and and technically as a priestess, which I am continuously forgetting about. Forgetting about in what how? What do you mean? Forgetting that that's a title that I hold. Okay.
00:58:27
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Like, because it was a self-initiation, because, you know, it was something that happened entirely, like, in the privacy of my own living room, like, on my own, uh, and was not bestowed upon me by anybody else. It just sort of, it occurred, and then I, like, forgot. And this is the problem with ADHD, I think, because out of sight, out of mind. But I am a priestess.
00:58:55
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And I do have somewhat of a responsibility to implement more formal practices in my daily life, as well as in my own community and my own like social circles. And so this is a part of it, I think is like the, the formal private rituals as much as the ones that occur with others, you know? Yes. Yeah.
00:59:24
Speaker
That's been my thought process there, but I've definitely had that feeling of like, I would very much like to actually suss out what, like on a practical, technical level, what a gratitude ritual consists of. And, you know, also just sort of make it somewhat realistic because in all likelihood, if I'm going to practice a gratitude ritual, it'll be a part of my morning routine. ah And I have to be realistic about the amount of time I have, as well as the amount of energy and awareness that I have in the mornings, because i as much as I am somewhat of a morning person, it's still a real challenge. um Like that, I feel, has got to be
01:00:13
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If not something that I figure out within the next month and a half, it's got to be a part of like something I work on in the new year. I think that I also need to find ways to do the same exact thing. Because when it comes to manifesting the future that you want, you really do need to make that a part of your daily practice. Yeah. Because it's like there's no chance of manifestation working.
01:00:42
Speaker
if you are not living in the energy that you want. Exactly. So yeah, got we got to start doing that. Maybe there's maybe we could spend a little bit of time together while I'm there where we can write ideas and and maybe formulate specific little rituals that we each can do. And like we don't have to do the same things as each other, but I'm just saying like we could bounce ideas off of each other and help each other figure them out.
01:01:10
Speaker
We gotta we gotta to do spell work while you're here. I really want to. I hope we do. We have to. yeah It's what we've been saying that we want to do that we keep like not feeling like we have the time to. But like this time around, we have the time. you're I feel like you're going to be here for a longer time than you've been before. Yeah. And lakeke we're not trying to like cram every day full of stuff. We have plenty of stuff to do, but like we're not trying to go, what?
01:01:39
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There's gonna be a new moon on Sunday, December 1st. Ooh, you know what that means. We can do new moon spells and rituals. Oh, I was gonna say new moon mac and cheese. What the fuck is that? We can turn our mac and cheese into a new moon ritual spell. Okay, I'm down. It's kitchen witchery. Hell yeah, I'm down. Yeah.
01:02:06
Speaker
Yeah. Every time I'm out there, I'm just like, oh man, I wish there was a full moon ritual we could go to or do something like that. I'm like, all right, wait, there might be an actual real legit moon phase that we could do something to while I'm there. And I just looked at it and I was like, fuck yeah.
01:02:25
Speaker
A whole day and night that I'll be there, that it's going to be a new moon. Fuck yes. All right. Sunday's our ritual day. It is known. I'm so excited though. It is decreed. Okay, ok priestess, I'm making it your job to like figure some shit out for that day. Fuck yeah. Yeah, you pulled the priestess card, you know I'm on it.
01:02:55
Speaker
Oh my God. i'm I'm very excited. Yeah, man. It's going to be so good. Any who, any Hooters? I'm so excited. Are we going to go to Hooters? We can. We can figure it out.
01:03:14
Speaker
I love you. I love you. oh You know what my son's been saying to me a lot more lately? What? I love you more. And I'm like, but I love you to the moon and back. We're like, we're in the love wars now with who loves the other one more. That's the best thing before to be in. It is. It's awesome.
01:03:41
Speaker
Yay. And I told him the other day, I love him times. Oh, wait, what did I say? I love you to infinity and beyond. Like Buzz Lightyear. Yeah, Buzz Lightyear. And he's like, wait, how big is infinity? And I said forever and ever and ever, and it never stops.
01:04:00
Speaker
And he's like, oh, and then he goes, what's the biggest number in the world I've said? Infinity, the biggest number, there is no biggest number because it just never ends. And and and he's like, right answer. ah Oh my God. He's smart, Molly. I love that. You know what I can, you know what I can not wrap my brain around unrelated to anything at all, except for infinity, the way that Pi never ends.
01:04:29
Speaker
Yeah, I mean that's an infinity number. I don't understand it. And it doesn't have a pattern either. i know that it like breaks my brain i know it's like numbers are supposed to make sense why does that one not make sense it's literally like if you try to think about how big space is i know space never ends i know and that fucking scares the shit out of me i know oh my god it scares me it's like it's like okay don't get don't get freaked out but it's like you thinking about being in the middle of the ocean where you don't know where the bottom is
01:05:05
Speaker
yeah You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? When I think of space yeah in that context where it like never ends, I get that kind
Cosmic Thoughts and Thanksgiving Plans
01:05:13
Speaker
of feeling. See, here's the problem. I don't know where the bottom is. I'm fucking gonna drive, you know? Here's the problem. Here's the problem is that you can be dropped in the middle of the ocean easily. You can't be dropped into space. ah Well, you'd have to be someone would have to commandeer a rocket.
01:05:35
Speaker
right but and like anybody anybody anybody can build a raft no i could sneeze hard enough and launch myself to piss my pants i can one really good fart and i'm in floating away in outer space don't forget to name a star after me
01:06:29
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ah
01:06:38
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Oh my god, I have to breathe.
01:06:43
Speaker
oh It's all shaped balls all over again. It's what? This is why you have to listen to the Mavon episode again. You said ball-shaped balls. It's skull-shaped balls all over again. Skull-shaped balls. Oh my god. Oh my god, if you forgot that, then you have to listen to the Mavon episode again. Okay. Holy fucking shit. Oh my god.
01:07:12
Speaker
You did it. You you made me yawn. I blame you. o I love you so much. I love you so much. I love you so much. But no, I'm not kidding, dude. I swear to God. I'm gonna be drifting in space.
01:07:30
Speaker
you like shit feeling like i'm never gonna come back i can't touch the bottom molly what the fuck ah listen i'll give you a gummy that'll take you to space second oh my god a
01:07:52
Speaker
I love you. oh I love that you love me. this this this is This is what we're about, you guys. If you were still listening, this is what we're about. This is what we're here for.
01:08:11
Speaker
Oh, my loves. Oh, thank you for joining us on this wild fucking ride. um It's been such a beautiful discussion. I'm grateful for you. I'm grateful for you. I'm grateful for this. Yeah. Me too. Yeah. Technology. We doing good. Oh yeah. but And we are grateful for you, listeners. Very. We are so grateful you're here.
01:08:48
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We don't know why you're here, but we're very grateful.
01:08:54
Speaker
What kind of twisted fucks these people must be. They keep sticking around and listening to our crazy asses. Listen, ah clearly there are kind of twisted fucks. Yeah. We're so grateful for you.
01:09:11
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we hope that everybody has a beautiful day of food of of giving thanks and and so much food.
01:09:23
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it's it's It can be a really tough time of the year. It can be a really tough holiday for some people, especially if you have to be around family that you don't really agree with.
01:09:34
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a lot, but we hope that you can find peace and beauty in any space, whatever space, whatever situation you find yourself in.
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And we will be thinking of you as we dine across from each other at our own Thanksgiving table.
01:10:02
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you'll You'll be on our gratitude lists. I think that this coming Thanksgiving will be the best Thanksgiving I've ever had. You know what? I think it will be too. I can't wait. I'm really, really fucking excited. Me too. I can't wait. If I if i create for you a New England in November playlist, would you listen to it?
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Like before I come there? Before and like for your flight out, you know, okay. Okay. Okay. Yay. Okay. Now I'm extra excited. It's always a good day when I can make a playlist for somebody.
01:10:49
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Anyway. Merry holidays. Happy Thanksgiving. and we will be back again next week together in person together in person we will be back again but also releasing another episode every monday oh so we hope you'll join us again keep your ears open you can edit that out it sounds stupid i was gonna say to keep them wide open keep them pride open um yeah
01:11:23
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and come find us on instagram you can see our handle in the description and see what we look like yeah that's true we got pictures face reveal and uh we want to hear about your thanksgiving traditions so send us an email i can't wait dude we're taking pictures of this feast that we're gonna make together yeah actually go follow us on instagram because we will be posting photos of our many adventures, including Thanksgiving meal adventures ah on our Instagram. her So we hope to see you there. Yeah, baby. That was very Austin Powers. Wasn't really. i was Yeah, baby. I wasn't even doing an English accent. What are you talking about? You don't need to. he does that He barely does an English accent. Good God.
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oh god Yeah, baby Now my dog is scratching herself while she's leaning up against my laptop it's like Great awesome. She's probably shaking it around and making it extra noisy. Oh, no worries Have a lovely evening, everyone, or day, or morning, or midnight. Sleep well. Take care of each other. Love yourself. And lock your back doors because we're coming for you. We're creeping in. We're here to steal your cranberry sauce. I'm here to rub it on my nipples.
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the potato she's a potato and her little foot is caught uh oh i got you my babe i love her oh a little girl i love her so much baby's gonna keep her while you're in thanksgiving yeah while i'm in thanksgiving stuff me in the turkey i and okay that's the bit that's going at the end of the episode