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Because, yeah, because I just drawn a blank when what it really comes down to it. um but Yeah, I have a hard time also of figuring out exactly how it's used or when, but yeah, go ahead. Well, I just kind of, you know, I thought it would, it's also just a a good jump off jumping off point for um talking about you know, giving and receiving criticism. Um, and so, um, you know, like I just said, it's it seems that it's harder, it's harder to do these days. I don't, I don't know how it's up in your observation as well, that, uh, people are, especially like a a stranger is not going to want to take criticism from you or you might not want to take criticism from a stranger. Whereas, you know,