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And yeah, I think for me, my i felt i was like, okay, like people find their happiness. People find their happiness in uncomfortable, hard, challenging, whatever times. Like, I guess this is also maybe a conversation about where romance falls in the space between pure comfort reads and realism, you know, where it's like people can still be happy and life is not all butterflies and rainbows. But I did think about not an event, but the fact that they were going to be living in a community and have to deal with that community and that community's prejudices and like how their kids would be treated in that community. And, you know, hopefully they have a welcoming community that's a small town and people know them and care about them and... And it won't be a big deal. It will won't be a big thing. But like their children are going to be technically illegitimate. They're also going to be biracial. You know, like. Right. All these things I'm like, man, so many things could just be really hard going forward. And it's kind of like, I really hope that they land in a good place and can continue to rely on each other and their family. You know, like that. was where That's our happy ending. I'm not sure I can trust everybody else in the world, but okay, let's lend optimistically. Well, and I do think it's interesting that, you know, he does in the book, he does have an example for that. Or was it him or her that had friends where it was like, it was him, ah the German fellow and his wife, you know? So like he has some frame of reference for how it could be. And he knows it's not going to be easy, but they have each other and they build something, you know, with with people and it's okay. But, you know, that also broke my heart because I was like, but I just, I feel like it just stinks so much that it has to be. yeah the standard is so much lower. Yeah.