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5 Ways You're Rejecting Your Unique Positioning
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Everything in your life is designed to position you specifically for your purpose and your impact. But we have blindspots that can block and derail this positioning. Are you falling for one of the 5 right now? Find out inside!
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Letting Go for Growth
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Here's the kicker, we don't make space for those being positioned in that next level because we're holding on to relationships and connections and energetic hooks that you have outgrown and then quite frankly have outgrown you.
Introduction to Empowerment Podcast
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Welcome to Freed and Powered Up. Here is where conscious female leaders who are taking their exit from the overly dominant male patriarchal energy, however you experienced it, can really start to break free from the energy that keeps us back from being who we came here to be and leaving the legacy we came here to leave.
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episode, I'm going to connect you to your inner power and awaken the divine feminine within you. I'm your host and your sister, Latoya Zavala. Let's go.
Rejecting True Potential
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Hey, hey, everyone. Welcome, welcome to Freedom Powered Up. And today's live is going to be powerful. We're talking about the five ways in which we reject our positioning. So I'm going to dive right in because I'm not not deciding to be up here long today, but I felt this download and I felt like this was a message that really wanted to be given birth. So five ways in which we reject our positioning, that we're doing it subconsciously, that we're doing it consciously, and we don't even know how deep or how powerful it's affecting our positioning.
Understanding Unique Positioning
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um Let me start with this.
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hey I know that you know, and maybe you need to hear it again today, so I am so grateful to be the channel for you to hear it. in On this Tuesday, August 6th, so that you can have this energy carrying forward for this week. Listen, you have been positioned, right? You not only have been called, but you have been positioned. And I know some of you don't feel that right now.
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And I know that I have had times recently where I felt like I didn't feel like I was positioned. And like, you feel like you have this really big calling. You feel like you have this really big mission, this purpose, this legacy that you're meant to leave, this movement that you're meant to create. And yet you're like, well, how can I get there? I know that I'm supposed to be knowing, you know, it's the right people. It's the right spaces. It's the right room, right? The right.
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right, the right connections and how can I get there? I don't have the right connections or I don't know the right people or I haven't been in the right rooms or the right spaces. um How can I know that I have been positioned? And that's what we're here to talk about today. I'm gonna show you how you have been positioned and how sometimes we are rejecting that positioning. It is important, I would say, vital for you to understand and know and embody and embrace and accept and walk in the fact that you have been not only called, not only purposed, not only designed, but positioned for what it is that you are here to do on this earth. So there's five ways, and I'm gonna go right into number one.
Personal Experience with Domestic Violence
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Number one.
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rejecting or denying your circumstances. And that is present or past, right? A lot of us as women, we are we have circumstances that are in our lives. So let me start with myself, right? A part of my past, I was in a domestically violent relationship. And for a long time, that's not something that I would speak about. But I understand now, and let me say this, let me say this, because I'm not of the camp that
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I'm not of the camp that, you know, ah everything was good, right? Because it wasn't. The best of the fight relationship is not good. I would not wish it on anyone. Definitely not my daughter. I would not wish it on myself again. I would not go through that again. Even knowing now what I know now, I would not go through that again. I would not wish that pain, that trauma, that triggering on anyone, period, right?
Influence of Background on Positioning
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But it happened.
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facts. And so now that I know it happened, I went through that, I understand that having gone through that and having been myself, the way that I'm physically made up, the way that I'm spiritually designed, the way that I am gifted, the way that I am called, that that part of my life is now a part of my unique positioning. I I am uniquely positioned to now speak to that aspect, especially now when I'm doing energetics work, I'm uniquely positioned to talk about the energetics of what gets to be cleared and healed and regenerated and and recalibrated in your body after an experience like that, right? um I did... years and years and years of theology work, right? I'm a theologian by trade. My bachelor's, my my master's, my post-graduates, clinical pastoral education, I was a missionary. like All of the training and experience I felt like when I was rejected by my own denomination, damn, all of that has gone to the trash. what do I do now, especially when I left the military, right? I was like, damn it, thousands of dollars, years and years of education, right? And now like, here I am, trash, right? But the truth is now that I am in my next level of purpose and my next level of calling and my next level of legacy, I understand that that experience, that training, that education, all of that is part of my unique positioning when my clients come in and they talk about church hurt or denomination hurt or religious suppression and oppression and trauma. I am uniquely positioned not only because of my training, but because of my own religious trauma that I went through that I can now serve in a very different way.
Current Struggles and Future Impact
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Again, I would never wish that this on anyone, but it has happened. And now I get to understand that
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As time has progressed, this is part of my unique positioning. There are things that you are going through right now. Whatever is happening in your bank account, whatever is happening in your physical body, whatever iss happening whatever is happening with diagnosis of yourself and your children, whatever is happening with movement, and I mean physical movement, maybe you're moving houses or or um cities or countries like I did, right? What's happening in your life, it may not feel good. It may be um it it might actually be causing some trauma in your life right now. You're going through some stressful situations right now. You're trying to make sense of what has happened in your past or what's happening to you currently right now. Maybe there are some things that you're not speaking about, some realizations and some awakenings
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that are happening in your life and you're not speaking them right now, I am wanting to speak life into you right now. Your circumstance right now is a part of your unique positioning. And I'm not saying to go out there and do a live about it or post about it or write an email about it. I'm talking about your energetics.
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I'm talking about you going in and accepting and embracing and embodying who you are, who you're called to be in this earth right now, not five years from now, not 10 years from now, not when the children leave, not when you, no, who you're called to be right now,
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And the energy that you get to walk in, that you get to feel, that you get to to recalibrate to, that's what I'm talking about. Like really embodying, embracing, accepting, and know that you know that you know that you know, you are being positioned right now for what it is that you're called to do on this earth. So that's number one.
Forming Supportive Connections
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Whoo, I done told y'all it was a dialogue today. Number two, number two, you're ready for number two? Number one is your circumstances. Your circumstances, past and present is a part of your unique positioning. Number two, people. Now you may not have heard it this way. So come on in. When you are elevating, listen to me.
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When you are outgrowing where you are and you are moving into who you are becoming, you are being positioned. Let me say that again. When you feel it and you feel it, you feel it emotionally, you feel it energetically, you feel it mentally, you are outgrowing where you are. And you are moving into another level of becoming for yourself.
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you are being positioned. They go hand in hand, right? You're being positioned to leave a legacy, to to make an impact, to change lives, to tear down some walls that need to be torn down, to revolutionize an industry that you are being now called to. You are being positioned. And as you move into that position, there are others that are also being positioned there to support you, to collab with you, to make space for you, to open doors for you, to to make that next secondary territory connection for you. As you move into position, other people are moving, are being moved into position to create that next level connection. But here's the kicker. Here's the kicker. We don't make space.
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for those being positioned in that next level, because we're holding on to relationships and connections and energetic hooks that you have outgrown and then quite frankly have outgrown you. Woo, come on. I know you feel that power. I'm gonna say it real quick again. You're being repositioned.
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for that next level of impact and reach.
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And as you're being repositioned, other people are also being repositioned. This is how universe works. This is how universal law works. This is how divine works. Other people are also being repositioned for you to support, mutually support and collab and make room for and open doors for.
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But we we're blocking and rejecting that positioning because we're holding on to relationships and connections and closed doors. Hold on. Closed doors that you have outgrown.
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Come on, some of y'all still holding on to them jeans. You know you outgrown them. you ah my My son makes fun of me all the time holding on to t-shirts that I love that I have that i have outgrown after buried two birth kids, right? Holding on to them, then you don't have the energetic space. I'm not talking about clothes, but I'm just using that as an example, right? How we hold on to things that we have outgrown.
00:11:37
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the the There's no space within the clothes for movement. I'm talking about being positioned. Right? Okay. So we already know I'm going to direct you to my podcast to go ahead and cut, confront, and control. There are three C's of managing your people energy. Cut, confront, and control. Some people you need to cut, some people you need to just tell your truth to confront, and then some people you need to control your energy space and time. You need to manage your people energy because as you're being positioned, if you're not managing your people energy, you're rejecting your positioning subconsciously, consciously, and energetically. And universal law will act
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accordingly, right? Okay, that's number two. Number three, y'all ready? Number three. I know I'm moving quickly. I told y'all I wasn't gonna be up here long. I'm trying to give you this download, this powerful download um so that your your week is more powerful. All right, number three.
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Introduction to the Goddess Collective
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The Importance of Boundaries
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Number three is boundary bending. Y'all, I know this so intimately because I do this all the time. boundary bending. There are certain boundaries that need to be in place as you're being positioned for who you're being called to be and what you're being called to do.
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right And those boundaries can be so simple as these are the hours that I'm going to be in my office doing work. right These are the hours that I'm not going to be on social media. These are the times that I'm going to be cooking, and I'm going to be with the family. right there there's Some of them are like really simple, they seem real easy, seem real subtle, and we boundary bend.
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And we justify the boundary bending, right? There's always a good reason to, whoa, listen to me. There's always a good reason to boundary bend. I know this.
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I know this. ah Someone's always in need. Someone always um is is more important than what you got going on. um There's always an emergency. there's always um There's always tomorrow. There's always later on in the evening but and and for a good reason. I know that. But let me show you what's happening. Let me show you what's happening.
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You are being positioned to be here, let's just say, right? This is the visual. You're being positioned to be here. And the boundary you've set with good boundaries and good intentions, right? The boundaries you said, they're not overboard, they're appropriate, they're in alignment, is right here.
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And what happens is there's this energetic space that's meant to be there, right? For things to be manifested, for doors to be opened, for opportunities to come into your field, for you to have awakenings and new realizations and downloads and creativity. That's what's happening in this energetic space.
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And so when you bend the boundary, what happens to that energetic space? It's also being moved and it's also being bent. And then what happens to you? You're being moved out of your positioning. Hold on. So you see what's happening energetically. This is the visual. And so know that. Know that you know that you know that you know.
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You're being positioned to leave your legacy, to be who you're called to be. You're being positioned, the universe is working things out and rearranging itself and moving things right now. But you also have a part to play. And so the boundaries that you're being led to create and put into place, it's behooving you to honor them now, because if you bend your boundaries, you are moving yourself out of position.
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All right, Jill. That was number three. Number four. Number four, stay with me.
Mindset and Manifestation
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your own thoughts and your own words. Now listen to me very carefully. I know that you have heard and you have and you have even spoken and you have written and you have reposted, right? Your words have power. Your thoughts have power. You know this. They have manifesting power. They have creative power. You know this. The women that are in my goddess collective, they know that they know that they know that they know this. And we're talking about, you know, the new research and the things that are coming out.
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Listen, you, in the very simplest form, right, for the purposes of this life, you are speaking to yourself all the time. We are speaking to ourselves all the time. You're speaking to yourself in the shower. You're speaking to yourself as you're typing. You're speaking to yourself when you're when you're doing your agenda for the day. You're speaking to yourself when you're cooking. You're speaking to yourself when you're driving. You are speaking to yourself all the time, moment by moment. It's a it's a subgenre of the collective where this notion came in. If you speak to yourself, you're crazy. If you hear your own voice, you're crazy. When when it is, in fact, natural.
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right It is in fact a deeper connection to the divine, to your higher self, ah to your core self, to your subconscious, right? You're speaking to yourself all the time moment by moment. So now the question, are you talking yourself out of your positioning or are you reinforcing it? This is a real question and it's a very serious question.
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when you're talking to yourself, especially when you're manifesting or when a new opportunity is coming up for you and it seems out of bounds, it seems bigger than it than you were calling it in the first place, right? ah This fear of success starts showing up. Are you justifying why you get repositioned, right? are you Are you justifying why you need to dim your light, why you need to speak less, why you need to lower your hand, why you can, why you can't,
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Are you speaking life, love, and light into your next? Are you speaking light, love, and light to yourself in the shower while you're driving while you're cooking?
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or are you talking yourself out of your positioning? This is something I'm asking you to be conscious of over the next week and over the time where you are now manifesting the new life that you are creating for yourself and the movement that you need to bring into this world. This is something that I'm asking you to be conscious of, to be aware of, and now to be intentional about.
00:19:41
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not just speaking life to yourself, because this is a very broad concept that came to us from different spiritualities and religions and schools of thought, right? Speaking life to yourself. Well, what even the hell does that mean?
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OK, speaking positive affirmations. OK, great. Speaking positive confirmations. OK, nice. Bringing mantras into your life. OK, no. Speaking light, love. Speaking into the next. Justifying why you should be in that position. Justifying why divine and universe is positioning you for that next level. justifying to yourself why it is and how it is that you deserve and that you are worthy to be the the leader of that next movement, to tear down the walls, to create the movement that you're creating, to be the revolutionary, to raise your hand, to speak up your truth, to to to amplify your voice. Speaking life, meaning justifying
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Reasoning, confirming, knowing, recalibrating, speaking this into yourselves moment by moment. You might as well because you're speaking to yourself all the time anyway. Right? That's number four. And number five. That's my last one, y'all. Number five.
Embracing Unique Traits
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The fifth way in which we are consciously and unconsciously denying or rejecting our positioning.
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apologizing. Whoo, I know I know we hit you. Apologizing.
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And I'm not talking about you don't want to be rude. I'm not talking about asking for forgiveness for something that you you actually you know did someone that was harmful or hurtful. I'm talking about apologizing for your design, apologizing for who you are, apologizing for how you were created, apologizing for for for how you're being positioned.
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Apologizing that your voice is so bright and so attractive and so powerful. Apologizing that you but that you are being elevated spiritually. Apologizing that you happen to shine brighter than your partner when you walk into a room. Apologizing apologizing for being the center of attention when in fact you were positioned to be the center of attention because you're called for a powerful movement.
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And this is a big one. This is probably the most common in the collective. Apologizing for your tears. What are you apologizing for?
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It is a natural response. You were created with responsive tears. And some of us more than others. Some of us were created with more hair than others. You apologizing for your hair? and Some of us. You know, what are you apologizing for? You were designed and created that way. And what we don't understand is your design and your creation is a part of your positioning. No one ever told you that, huh? Your tears are a part of your positioning. Why? Some of us, like, I'm not a big crier like that. I'm telling you the truth, and I used to feel guilty and the ashamed of being in a funeral. um
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And I would not be crying i'm not because I'm not created or designed that way. But guess what? I'm uplifted. I'm moved. I'm i'm motivated. I'm connected in a way that I may not have been before by your tears. And now you're apologizing for them, which means now you're rejecting, you're taking back the gifting and the blessing that you were meant to give on to another. So let me ask you a question. Who told you that it was shameful to cry? Who told you that your tears, that your tears when you're literally being moved emotionally by your passion about what you're saying, who told you that that was something to be sorry for and to apologize for, expressing yourself in the way that you were designed and created?
00:23:58
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apologizing for your truth, apologizing for getting off the phone early so that you can spend time on your business or with your family, right? Apologizing for going to sleep a little early because you know that your body needs a little more rest, right? So the invitation is that you honor yourself, that you honor your makeup, that you honor your design, that you honor your tears, but you that you accept who you are, how you are, and how you move in this world, that you no longer
00:24:38
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deny or reject your divine and unique positioning in this world. Now, this is only five ways, and there may be some other subtle, but now that we've talked about the five, it may be unlocking for you an understanding of how you may be repositioning yourself right out of the legacy that you're meant to leave, um and the movement that you're here to create, and quite little, the person that you're here to become.
Invitation to Deeper Self-Discovery
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the person that you are here to become for yourself, for your own elevation, for your own evolution, for your own joy and freedom, because it is just as worthy as your service to others. Yeah, truth. Truth. And so,
00:25:36
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that completes the download for it today. I um would be um dishonoring you if I didn't invite you and let you know that the this is just a glimpse of the deeper work that we get to do in The Goddess Collective. And um I am opening the door for The Goddess Collective at each phrase phase, excuse me, and the second phase begins, I think, next week.
00:26:06
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And so if you're interested and you want to just DM me, let me know, we can have a conversation about what it means to go deeper in doing the energetic work, doing the activations and the recalibrations in your body, within your energetic system, so that you are walking into your divine calling and that you are truly embodying, embracing, accepting and knowing and being who you're positioned to be.
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Goddess, I am sending you so much light and love and power. Have a wonderful week and I will see you next time. Oh, and don't forget to like, to share, and to leave a review. It really helps us spread this goodness to every woman who needs to hear this truth. Thank you so much.
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