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Ep. 113 Beyond Survival Consciousness: Resolving 5 major survival codes blocking love, money and purpose
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So many women are doing all the “right” things: healing, manifesting, investing in growth and still feel stuck when it comes to love, money, and fully living their purpose. We were indoctrinated and conditioned to thing we need to do more, be more consistent, be more hustle-minded, do it right-er, lol. It’s actually none of that.
It’s survival consciousness running beneath the surface and we get to deprogramme all that.
In this episode, I name five major survival codes that live in the subconscious and energy body and quietly shape how we relate, earn, choose, and play small even when we deeply desire more.
We explore how these codes form, how they show up differently in love, wealth, and purpose, and why willpower alone can’t override them. This is about awareness, embodiment, and learning to recognize when survival is driving your decisions instead of sovereignty. Then I give 5 anchors that will help you enter the deprogramming while loving on yourself.
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Transcript
Embracing Authenticity and Worthiness
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It was unsafe to please yourself. It was unsafe to go for your dreams and your desires. The safety coding makes sure everybody else is pleased.
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And so we carry that coding until we don't.
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And now it's time for you to declare and decree. i am no longer in survival mode. And therefore i am worthy of my own pleasure. I am worthy of my desires. I am worthy of my dreams. Not only am I worthy, but when I go for my desires and my dreams, others are also in harmony and pleasure and pleased because when I am in the fullness of me, those in my vicinity also get to benefit, also get to be blessed.
Breaking Free from Patriarchal Constraints
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Welcome to Freed and Powered Up. Here is where conscious female leaders who are taking their exit from the overly dominant male patriarchal energy, however you experienced it, can really start to break free from the energy that keeps us back from being who we came here to be and leaving the legacy we came here to leave.
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the fear, the triggers, self-sabotage, and limiting behaviors and beliefs without all of it. Every episode, I'm going to connect you to your inner power and awaken the divine feminine within you.
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I'm your host and your sister, Latoya Zavala. Let's go.
Understanding Energetic Patterns
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When I'm working with my clients and when I'm having conversations with people who are working things very often, very often, they come to a place where a pattern is resurfacing, right? Um,
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resurfacing right um certain behaviors are resurfacing and they don't know why. And so they're like, I don't know why I'm saying these things again. I don't know why I'm behaving this way again. i don't know why I'm feeling this thing again.
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ah ah Specifically when it comes to money, when it comes to an elevation of some kind, and when it comes to elevation of positioning, and when it comes to spiritual expansion. And they're like, why are these things coming up for me? Why is this feeling? Why is this emotion? Why is this thought? Why is this behavior coming up for me
Impact of Survival Codes on Behavior
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again? And very often, i know the reason. And the reason is because you're in a coding situation.
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Right. It's not just a pattern. It's not just belief. Energetically, this has been coded into your body, into your energy body, into your energy system. Right. And so at part of your energy system is your physical body. We know that now scientifically. Right. Your cells are literally vibrating energy. And so your body is a community of vibrating cells. And if your body is a community of vibrating cells, you're then um the energy can have it can have stagnation. It can be stuck. It can be blocked. And oftentimes there is this coding in your energy. So let's talk about what some of that coding is. Now, there are many, many survival codes that are lodged into our bodies, especially if you are a part of a underestimated or underrepresented community.
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We are working through these things in the awakening lounge, especially when we're working through the 44 day money activation.
Common Survival Codes and Their Effects
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We're working through some of this survival coding because it very often comes up when we're speaking about money. So I'm going to give you five today that are very common, that are spread across the collective, that come up over and over and over again.
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um i can I can see three, four different patients in a day and one of these survival codes will come up. That's how pertinent, that's how o common they are.
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Okay, so let's talk about the five. Let's just drive in. And I'm going to give you five ways to clear them energetically, okay? Okay.
The Fear of Exclusion
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The first one is belonging, and this is huge. I dropped a short about this also. um There's a reel here in Facebook ah about this also, right? The fear of exclusion. So the fear of exclusion, the opposite side of that is belonging. And we will often sacrifice ourselves. We will often sacrifice our beliefs, sacrifice our values, sacrifice not even... Okay, those themes seem big and they seem deep, but we will sacrifice our happiness...
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are feeling good. Let's just call that. We will sacrifice feeling good to be long. And I have done it many, many, many times. Maybe you join a Facebook group. Maybe you join um some kind of networking group. and maybe you join, it could be face-to-face, could be online. And you're there and you know you are different.
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You know you are different. And they don't necessarily make you feel different, but you feel the energy. You feel it in the air. You feel that you you don't jive. you're You're not really energetically aligned to this community. But you stay because what? Maybe because...
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They have you know a certain kind of power that you want to be connected to. Maybe there is elevation of money there and they say, you wanna be a part of a community that has more money so that you can elevate to that frequency or you know they have the knowledge or they have connections, whatever it is, you feel the need to stay
Creating Spaces for True Acceptance
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there. This fear of exclusion is often used to control, to create attachment,
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um to control the flow of money, to control numbers, It's often used so that you don't leave for a specific purpose, right? The fear of exclusion. So they will make you feel afraid that you will not belong anymore.
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And there's a natural desire to be belong, to be accepted. So let me just hang the hat there. There is a natural desire to be accepted, but that's not where it ends. There's a natural desire to be accepted for who you are. It's a natural desire to be accepted for the completeness, the wholeness of you. And let me not stop there. The wholeness of you is expansive.
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You, when you are in core self, you are continually expansive. You're learning. You're growing. You might fall. You get up. You've learned. You've grown. Now you're expanding.
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You're expanding financially. You're expanding spiritually. You're expanding emotionally. You're expanding um some of us physically, and that's okay. It's okay to take up space. Okay. You're expanding. You are here to grow. You are here to expand.
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So when we say we want someone to accept us in our entirety, we're not talking about just today. so Suppose next month we come into a new belief and we're like, oh, that is so me. You want to be a part of a community that accepts you for the the way that you are growing and expanding and becoming more and more and more of your true self, your core self, your God self.
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If you're a part of a community Whatever it is. ah church, ah you know ah ah nonprofit organization, um you're a part of a community, you know networking, Facebook group, virtual group, you're a part of a community and you sense and you feel and intuitively you are knowing they do not accept you in your entirety and who you are truly becoming, then it's time for you to go. And you don't have to fear exclusion because you create your own inclusion.
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When you truly embody who you are, you are magnetizing and drawing and attracting to yourself not only those who are aligned with who you are, but those who accept you in your entirety. It is a lie. It is a projection.
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an inoculation. That we want to and need to belong at all
Historical Impact on Self-Worth
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costs. No. No, that's a false belief that was injected into you.
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That is not natural. That's not who we are. That's not who we are. You don't even see it in the animal kingdom unless something is desperately wrong.
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We want to be, we want to be accepted, embraced, loved, understood, made space for in the entirety of who we are.
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And so, when we are not fully embodied in that and we're yielding, we're sacrificing, we're making, um you know, we're making, um dimming our value, dimming our thoughts, dimming parts of ourselves so that we can belong, then we're doing that because we feel it's safe. And this is a safety coding. It comes from our past. It comes from,
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culture. It comes from lineage. It comes from times past where our people, especially if you're an underestimated, underrepresented and mistreated community, it comes from a time where our people, where we where we were in survival mode and we were like, there's safety in numbers. So at all costs, we just got to stay with the herd. At all costs, we just got to stay with the herd, stay with the herd. It doesn't matter how they're treating you. It doesn't matter how they value you. It doesn't matter how they see you. You need to survive. If you're outside of the herd, you will be killed. You will be dead. And this is survival mode thinking.
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But we are not in survival mode thinking anymore. You now have autonomy. You now have spiritual authority. You now are coming into your next level of your God energy. And so we get to let go. We get to clear ourselves. that survival coding that at all costs, let me be somewhere so that I can belong.
From Survival to Thriving
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No, let me create the belonging that is in alignment with who I really am because I am deserving and because I am worthy and because I am elevating from survival to thriving mode because I am elevating from survival to abundance mode.
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So that's code number one is belonging. And anytime you see it surface in yourself, and it can surface in many different ways, if you see yourself thinking, oh man, they're not going to accept this part of me.
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Let me hide this. You're in survival coding, right? The survival coding in you has been activated so that you can stay safe. But the truth is it isn't really safe anymore, is it?
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Because now it's damaging your emotional health, your spiritual health, your mental health. which if those things are being damaged, your physical health is going to take a hit also.
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Facts. Okay, let's talk about the second one, which is value.
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So in times past, particularly um if you're a woman, you carry feminine energy, a dominance of feminine energy, because everybody carries feminine energy, but you carry a dominance of feminine energy, then you are carrying an energy of times past where you were considered the property, right? You were sold, you were bought, you were rented, you were exchanged, the same as property and cattle.
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And this is across many cultures. Name a continent. We can probably find this coding on it, right? So now think about that. If that survival coding is lodged in you energetically, in your lineage, in your genealogy, then think about how you might relate to the frequency of money, to the frequency of wealth, to the frequency of owning when you were the one who was owned. Can you can you feel that? How you might relate to owning property,
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If in your lineage you were the one who was owned and as being owned you were mistreated, you were not trusted, you were considered less than human.
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So energetically you might have some subconscious blocks towards value, being value.
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Trusting how worthy you are, how valuable your information is, how valuable your spirit is, how valuable you just being you is without the doing. Hold on, let me say that. How valuable you are just being you without the doing. This is such a big one.
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Being valuable without the doing. This, this, the resistance to this is survival coding. Why? Because you were only valued lineage, culture, genealog ah genealogically wise. You were only valued if you were doing, if you were pulling the weight.
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if you were um doing enough work, if you were making enough outcome in the day, whether that whether you were farming or you were grazing or you were, whatever it was that you were made to do, that is where your value lied. And for a lot of women and those carrying that major dominant feminine energy, that also had to do with giving birth.
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And I know I'm touching a cord. So if you would like to come and sit with that for a while, let me know.
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But this is survival coding. The shame around the the shame, guilt, not enoughness, imposterism. This comes from survival coding of value.
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You are only valuable if you do enough to allow for survival. Cooking enough, pulling enough food in, those kinds of things.
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And that. is what gave you your price when you were sold or exchanged.
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So no wonder you are thinking, you're trying to clear things because you're thinking it's that person or it's me, there's something wrong with me or that I'm thinking this way or I can't stop. No, no, no. It's survival coding.
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And now we get to declare the survival coding. You get to declare, decree, and say, i am no longer in survival mode. I am in expansion mode.
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I am in abundance mode. I am in expansion mode. I am in elevation mode. I am no longer in survival mode. And so I clear the survival coding.
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And anytime you feel less than, anytime you feel not enough, anytime you feel like, am I am i am i an imposter? It's survival coding because your value was linked to survival.
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Okay, so number one was belonging. Number two was value. Number three, sacrificial harmony. That's what I'm calling it. Others have called it people-pleasing, but I'm not saying that because it's been overused and it's kind of cliche.
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Really what it is is sacrificial harmony. And when I say it that way, You feel it differently. What am I talking about? I'm talking about sacrificing your peace, your harmony, your happiness, your pleasure, your time,
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your worthiness, your divinity, your identity, your dreams. That's a big one. Sacrificing your dreams for the harmony of other people.
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for the harmony of the herd, for the harmony of the partner, especially if the partner is considered positioned in hierarchy.
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The head and you're the neck. You've heard that.
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So if we're in positioned in hierarchy, the head of the home, right? the money the the breadwinner, the moneymaker, the bacon whatever, right?
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then your place is to sacrifice for the good of the herd, for the good of the family, for the good of the unit. And you will have heard that echoed in politics, in societal norms, in media, in music. You will hear it echoed and echoed and echoed and echoed. It is your place to sacrifice what you want, what you desire, what you dream,
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even your physical health to sacrifice for the sake of others. I know what you're thinking because a lot of you come from those spiritual backgrounds where sacrifice was adored. Sacrifice is is holy and anything other than that is not.
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The truth is it's survival coding because in order to feel like you are worthy, in order to feel like it's okay for you to stay,
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you would have had to please others. And coming from these underrepresented and um mistreated, and under under the one thats underestimated underestimated communities, to not pull your weight, to not please others may have been to be banished, to be beaten, to be sold.
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It was unsafe. to not please others. It was unsafe to not please owners. It was unsafe to not please partners. It was unsafe to not please parents. Even your parents would banish you.
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in the in In the Old Testament, and this has long been a sore for me, Esther is elevated and praised and glorified when Vashti, the original the the queen, the first queen that we're introduced to in this whole story, was simply standing up for her worthiness and her right. You're not going to parade me around in front of your buddies because I'm worthy. And she was banished. And because she was banished for standing up for her worth,
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Then Esther came in, but how many people are named after Vashti? Esther, I'll roll the place. But how many people are named after Vashti? How much is she glorified?
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How much is she talked about? How many of you talk about Vashti to your children? About standing up for your worth, for your honor,
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for your self-respect?
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I know you're talking about Latoya, why you didn't name your daughter Fastie? Because I was also under the spell.
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It was unsafe to please yourself. It was unsafe to go for your dreams and your desires. The safety coding makes sure everybody else is pleased.
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And so we carry that coding until we don't.
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And now it's time for you to declare and decree. i am no longer in survival mode. And therefore i am worthy of my own pleasure. I am worthy of my desires. I am worthy of my dreams. Not only am I worthy, but when I go for my desires and my dreams, others are also in harmony and pleasure and pleased because when I am in the fullness of me, those in my vicinity also get to benefit, also get to be blessed.
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Okay, so number one is belonging. Number two is value. Number three is sacrificial harmony. And I know that's a big one. I know it's a big one.
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So you get to kind of sit with that for a few days. And you'll see it surface. You'll see it, ooh. You're like, oh, I'm sacrificing. um i am I am right now in the survival code of sacrificial harmony.
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And then Claret. I'll talk about that in a minute. Okay, so number four. The phrase, I don't know.
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And if you've worked with me, you already know. I don't hold space for that. I hold space for almost everything. I don't know. i don't i don't hold space for that. Why?
Overcoming Fear of Knowledge
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Because I know that you are God energy. I know that you have spiritual giftings. I know that you have intuition. I know that not only spiritually, but biophysically, your body is designed to give you intuition. Your body communicates to you.
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I know that you know. I know if you sit in heart space, if you sit in solar plexus space, if you sit with yourself long enough, I know that you know. What happened though? You were told that you don't know.
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You were made to believe that it is unsafe to know. That it was unsafe to be the smartest in the room because then you would be criticized. You'd be ridiculed. You would be banished. You will no longer belong.
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Right? It's kind of all connected. You no longer have the value because you're out of position. Your position is down here. And to be the smartest in the room would make you equal.
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So the survival coding says it's safer to not know. So you come into my space and you kind of talk about some of the dreams. You kind of talk about some of the purpose. And then you end the phrase with the safety coding. I don't know.
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And I know it's a safety coding. And if you've worked with me, you can drop in the comments, but if you work with me, you know what my response is. When you say, I don't know Latoya's response is, yes, you do.
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I know, you know,
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It was unsafe to know. It was unsafe to know. It was unsafe to be smart. It was unsafe to to let others know that you did know how to read, that you do see. Ooh, come on.
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That's spiritual survival coding. It was unsafe to let people know that you had intuition. It was unsafe to let people know that you have direct access and you actually hear, you actually hear spiritual things happening around the house. You see spiritual things happening around the house. You're having dreams.
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And interpreting them. But it was unsafe to say. It was unsafe to say it to your family. It was unsafe to say it in your spiritual communities. It was unsafe to say it in the tribe. It was unsafe.
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And maybe some people you even knew were harmed because they knew It's a survival coding. And I am inviting you now.
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You get to sit in the power of now. And you get to clear that coding not only for yourself, but for the lineage and for those who are coming after you. And I don't mean just giving birth. I mean those who are placed in your vicinity to see you rise above the survival coding. I know you know.
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And you know you know. Hold on. And you know that you know. I know that you know. Okay, so survival coding number one is belonging. Survival coding number two is value.
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Survival coding number three is that sacrificial harmony.
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i feel that one so deeply.
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Survival coding number four is I don't know because it was safer not to know.
Embracing Presence and Space
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And survival coding number five is, and this is going to sound like a funny one.
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And i I've not done modules on it and I've not talked about it as extensively, but it is important. Survival coding number five. Wait one sec, goddess, before we finish this delicious podcast episode. Let's chat.
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I know you, you've been doing a lot because you know you're here to have hella impact. So you've been doing the therapy, the YouTube manifesting practices, the business coaches, the mindset coaches and books and podcasts.
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And there's a spot that all that stuff is just not hitting. It's not getting to the knowing and the being in your power, in your own authority over your time, your body, your emotions, and your money. Knowing without a doubt your purpose and when you're acting in it.
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Book a call with me with the link in the show notes and let's get you started. Okay, so posture and shrinking.
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This is a survival coding.
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It makes me shake because I see it so often. I see it. I've seen it in the military. I've seen it in the hospital. I've seen it among leadership. I've seen it regardless of rank. I've seen it regardless of race. I've seen it regardless of culture. I've seen it regardless of um spiritual background and religion.
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Not being able to take up space.
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What we know, and we know this scientifically, that you are more than the physical, right? You are actually vibrating, right? They say that cortisol extends, it leaks from your skin out into your energy bodies. And and as far as what? As far as we know, the aura goes, right? We understand this. And so it I've seen this with six foot tall, burly men not taking up space.
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It's not just the physical, although it is also physical. It is also energetic. It's when you walk in the room and you own your body and you own your space. You are fully embodied and grounded in your worth, in your value, what you bring and who you are, your identity.
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All of your identity, what you believe, what you know, what you're gifted in, what you're talented with, what you don't know, what you're making space for, that you're growing into.
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All of you, no matter what your size, no matter what your height, no matter what your color, no matter what your skin looks like, you get to take up space simply because you exist here on this earth. There's worth and there's value and there's purpose.
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And there's purpose that leads to your prosperity and your power. Taking up space means your posture represents you know who you are. Your posture represents you know what you bring.
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Your posture represents I respect myself. Hold on. I'm not even talking about other people. Can you hear me?
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Your posture represents I respect myself. myself
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Your posture can represent, I feel down right now, but I respect myself. Your posture can represent, I'm grieving right now, but I respect myself. Your posture can represent, oh my goodness, I was wrong about that, yet I respect myself. Your posture can represent, wow, everyone in this room has a higher degree or more certificates than me or more experience than me, yet I respect myself and I bring something to this room. Otherwise, I wouldn't even be here.
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because universe has rearranged itself for me to be here. And don't get me wrong, I understand that this is difficult to completely embody, even when you're feeling these things.
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I understand this. Because it's a survival coding. It was not safe for you to take up space. So in places in your lineage, in your genealogy, in your culture, religion,
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where you were told that your value is in your positioning and your positioning is lower than others, then your posture reflected as such hunched over. Right. Slavery, picking up things, they get hunched over, looking down.
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Oh, this is a survival code I've been working with for a long time. Walking down the street and knowing that I am bright and I greet people and immediately look down at the ground. This is survival coding. This is all a part of the physical posturing that says I'm trying to respect myself, but I don't because I'm in survival coding.
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Mm hmm. and i And don't get me wrong, I know, I've traveled all around the world. Some of these things are cultural. And they are cultural survival coding. It's safe for me not to look you in the eye. It's safe for me to to lower my stature. It's safe for me to ah whatever the survival coding is that that i i don't want to use the word makes you, but invites you to shrink, invites you to be smaller, invites you to cower, and invites you to to curl in.
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It's survival coding.
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So yeah, I do all of this even in in business. Okay.
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So gonna flash this Tiara because, um okay seeing things that were harmful and not good, right? And so protective instincts, yes. Fight or flight, yes. voicing well voicing um Voicing was disrespectful, right? So when we going when we go through the archetypes,
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in the awakening lounge and in the um even deeper. So in the goddess collective and the Phoenix goddess collective, we're going to go really deep into those archetypes. And one of them is the silent child. Right.
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And so there are even um quotes by really powerful, big men that talk about silence. Now don't get me wrong. There are times and places where silence is golden, where silence is power, but the projection and the inoculation of the kind of silence that we have been carrying is survival coding. It's safer to be quiet. It's safer not to say, right? Yes, voicing was just was seen as disrespectful when you probably were just speaking truth to power, right?
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You probably were just voicing the truth from the pureness of your childhood. And A lot of times people were voicing what they saw, what they saw spiritually. They were voicing what they dreamed about, what what might happen or was kind of a warning and people didn't want to hear it. And so you were chastised.
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Yes. And so you wanted to protect yourself. And so you fell silent and some of you closed down some of those spiritual giftings. And now the world is not better off for it.
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So now is the time that we get to reawaken them. right Now is the time that we get to um activate them again because the world needs them. The world needs you in the fullness of who you are, in the fullness of your power, in the fullness of your direct access, in the fullness of your God energy. Now is the time we get to reawaken them. We get to activate them. We get to use them. We get to share them. Not with everybody body because that's survival coding. Okay. That's belonging.
00:32:44
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Okay. That's um sacrificial harmony. Okay. Not with everybody. With those who are aligned. With those who are soul coded. With those who are um who you sense and you instinctively know are in your vicinity to be able to receive. Those who are willing and open to receive from you.
00:33:01
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And that's not everybody. OK.
00:33:09
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Thank you, Dee. I hope you don't. I'm going to say this. So she said I was beaten as a child for speaking things I wasn't supposed to know or say. Right. And how subjective is that? What I wasn't supposed to know.
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How would you know what you weren't supposed to know? Right. And you don't know you're not supposed to say it unless you say it. Right. Or until you say it. And that supposed to actually means what? You weren't supposed to say it because it makes them uncomfortable or you stirred up because now you expose the truth that they didn't want to say, which they probably should have said anyway.
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Or you you brought up a fear that they have had for a long time and now they now they feel like they have to deal with the fear.
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They were not ready to face their own survival coding, which I understand. But we are in a time now in this collective where so many of us are awakening and so many of us are coming into the fullness of who we are and how much who we are
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brings light, blesses those around us. Well, I'll tell you, it lights me up when you tell me what you saw through clairvoyance or what you dreamt or what you heard or what you reconnected with. It lights me up and so many others.
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It frees us
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I don't share it with everybody. But when I do, when I feel led to, and I share what Julia sees through her clairvoyance,
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so many people have gone into tears, cried. Because it validated to them that what they had seen all along was in fact what they were seeing when everyone around them was telling them that they're not, that it's fake, that they're looking for attention, that they, right? And then beating them and and making and making them silent and pushing them in the corner and and shutting down those gifts. And now they feel validated and they feel reawakened. because I was able to share Julia's truth and her story. I'm inviting, I'm saying that to say, and so with you.
00:35:37
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And so with you.
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Survival coding.
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So now the five ways we get to clear.
Clearing Survival Coding Methods
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This was yummy. And I wasn't planning to be up here this long. I never am. Okay, the five ways we get to clear. So don't underestimate the power of the awareness.
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Okay. Being aware and being able to identify, ooh, that's happening. That's survival coding. That's not me. That's survival coding. That's not my original code.
00:36:18
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That's survival coding. Ooh, don't underestimate the power of that because you can't detach. Well, let me I can't say you can't. It's more difficult and usually less effective to detach what you have not identified.
00:36:33
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Now that you are aware of it and you can identify it it's so much easier to detach it because you realize it wasn't mine in the first place. Right? And it's survival coding. And you realize this is not a code that you want.
00:36:46
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it It's malware. Right? You open your computer and starts doing crazy things. You're like, oh shit. No, I don't want that. Right? What do you do? You got call somebody to debug it, clear it.
00:37:00
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Yeah. You don't want malware or Trojan horses. Right?
00:37:06
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So identify it. And then number two, Reese, me too. Number two, we clear it. So um it's on a YouTube video.
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um Let's see, if you're on LinkedIn, it's in one of my newsletters, but it's the 4D clearing system, right? So we're going through it, especially with the money frequency in the awakening lounge, right?
00:37:31
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Detach, dissolve, delete, decreate. 4Ds, it's the 4D clearing system, right? You identify it. Oh, that's not mine. What do you do? You detach it, right? Remove it from your body. And there are energetic, meditative ways, intentional ways to do that. You detach it, then you dissolve, right?
00:37:49
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Right. And then delete. Right. You know, if you put white out. It's still there. Right. So we're not whiting it out. And that's what we end up doing a lot energetically. We're not whiting it out.
00:38:03
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We're deleting it. But we also know, especially in this computer age, you press delete. You can always control Z or undo. Right. And this is what happens a lot. So we just delete.
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But it's still there.
00:38:18
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So now what do we do? We decreate, right? Energetically. And you can even just set the intention if you want to come into the awakening lounge so that you can really practice that with what comes up for you. um And also in the awakening lounge is the um reclaim your womb portal where we go through it um very extensively and deeply in detail, right? But anyway, it's the four Ds. Detach, dissolve, delete, dissolve.
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and decreate. Spend time with those four words. Practice them. Say them. Use them. And every time one of these survival codes come up, identify it as not yours. This is malware. This is a Trojan horse.
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You know what I'm talking about when I say that, right? i'm talking about things that come and mess up your computer. um This is not mine. Right. And so now I get to clear it. Ooh, I detached, dissolved, delete, decreat across all time, dimension, space and reality is not mine. It doesn't belong here. It doesn't belong in my body. doesn't belong in my energy. It doesn't belong in my mind. doesn't belong in my subconscious. I override it.
00:39:22
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I override it. Yeah. Okay. The number two, sit in us. Number three, excuse me. Number three is sit in heart chakra. Right. Why? Because heart chakra is love for yourself. Right.
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It requires you to come away from, am I being pleasing to others? Are others in harmony? Is everybody else okay? Is there peace in the system, right? Am I doing enough to belong? Come away, come in and sit in heart space. Okay. I love myself. I love myself because I am. i love myself because I'm crazy. I love myself because I'm different. I love myself because I'm skinny. I love myself because I'm big. I love myself because have spots on my face. I love myself because, right?
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Especially those things that annoy the collective, right? i love myself because I'm loud. I love myself because I'm silly, right? Just sit in that heart chakra and Your body needs it.
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Your energy needs it. Sit in heart chakra. um One, two, three, four. Number four, solar plexus. I could go on and on and on and on Let me flash this, Tiara. Thank you.
00:40:41
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Y'all need to come in the awakening lounge. And the link is is there. um The link is in Facebook um in the comments. And the link, I think it's a pinned comment. And I will put the link in um LinkedIn. But we are having lots of fun. We're doing a lot of clearing, but in a fun way, in an easy way.
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Yeah, it's really good. Okay.
00:41:06
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You love me because I'm crazy too. Crazy knows crazy. Okay, we're sitting in solar plexus. I am, right?
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That's your I am. It's your true spiritual authority. It's your autonomy, right? It's your sovereignty. It's your knowing, right? It's the I am, and I'm not my role. I'm not my gender. I'm not my skin color. I'm not this flesh. I'm not, you know, I i am i am being these things as I've collapsed in the flesh here.
00:41:40
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But the core of me, my awareness, my essence, my consciousness, that is the I am. That higher frequency, that is the I am. And that is in the solar plexus. And so, yeah, you don't have to clear your mind.
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you don't have to be in silence, you know? You don't have to think of nothing. you don't have to use a mantra. Just sit with your solar plexus and feel the true core of the I am.
00:42:16
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Okay, number five. I am saying this because it's been so helpful for me. There are many other methods, but some somatic way where you can get it out of the physical body. So I use tapping um because somatically it gets to reset your nervous system, right? it gets to It gets to include the flesh in all of the energetic clearing, right? So...
00:42:45
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Somatic, there can be dancing. um There can be the the rapid eye movement, exercise. There can be walking it out. The people in the awakening lounge know that I'm doing 30 second planks twice a day, right? So physical, there's something physical where your body gets to move it out too. um And I love tapping because tapping can be instant. And the way that we do tapping, you can you know you can set your own number, color, shape ah system. And then you can you can see kind of the progression that's happening.
Community and Personal Growth
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And sometimes, sometimes if you're truly like really connected to the frequency of what gets to be cleared, it can go instantly. um
00:43:36
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And sometimes it takes a while and either way is beautiful and okay and perfect. this Yes. Okay. So we have the five survival codes, right? Belonging, value, sacrificial harmony, I don't know, um and posture, right? So those are the those are the five that we're discussing today.
00:44:00
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There are quite a few more. But now that you know what they are, and now you know what they feel like, and now you know how they surface, you will be able to identify them, even if I haven't mentioned them here. And some of them will be very unique to your experience. So now we have the five ways of of making sure that we get to elevate from it, right? identify, clear, sit in heart chakra, sit in solar plexus and do something somatic.
00:44:25
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I use tapping. We do tapping monthly in the awakening lounge. We're also doing um energetic clearing and recalibration. Our clearing and recalibration session is tomorrow.
00:44:37
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um Yeah. So we're doing a lot of juiciness in the awakening lounge. This is calling to you. Click the link. Come on in. $9 a month, $50 the year.
00:44:48
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I am eternally grateful for everyone who's been here. You don't know how much you give me life, especially today. You have no idea. Okay. So thank you for being here. Thank you for elevating. Thank you for saying yes to yourself and your spiritual expansion and your growth. and your healing and your clearing for not only your lineage and your heritage for those to come as well in many ways.
00:45:18
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That being said, it's time to go. and love you. I'm sending you so, so, so much love and power always. And I will see you soon out in these streets.
00:45:35
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