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People's Perception Of Us
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Ever heard of the phrase "don't judge the book by its cover" well, that's exactly what we do in our society. As much as we say looks, money, job whatever it may be doesn't matter, in reality, it does hence first impressions are everything and it is hard to change that. I thought this would be an interesting topic to talk about as recently I experienced this myself. It's been maybe barely 2 weeks since I bought my Tesla, and people have started treating me very differently. I guess big purchases do pay off...
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Transcript
Societal Stigma and Capitalism's Impact
00:00:14
Speaker
Hey, guys, so welcome back to the podcast. So today we are going to be talking about people's perception of you in this society. I feel like there is so much stigma in our society. And I feel like I have talked about it quite a lot on this podcast about, you know, how we live in this capitalistic society. You know, like it's everything is about the money or how much you can make. But on top of it,
00:00:41
Speaker
i feel like as much as people say this but it's just like they're big fat liars truth is as much as they say that appearance or whatever they're like the first impression they get from you
00:00:57
Speaker
is not like it's not important, but it really is. People treat you so differently based on your appearance, based on what you're, I don't know, what you're doing, your job and everything.
Perception Shifts with Car Ownership
00:01:12
Speaker
Just like the word that they say, you know, don't judge the book by its cover. But I feel like in our society, that's literally what people do. And that's essentially what also we do.
00:01:24
Speaker
I feel like people say that it's like we don't do that anymore, but we really do. And the reason I haven't mentioned this is because I'm going to talk about this like later after the update today. But ever since I got the car guys, people have started treating me so differently. And I'm just saying, like, I just never experienced this. Like, I feel like I have maybe had other experiences in the past, but maybe it wasn't as drastic as what I am experiencing these days.
00:01:54
Speaker
And I just feel like it is important to just talk about it and address some things. Not in a way that I'm just saying like this sucks, but I feel like or just suggest things that's like not really financially good choice. But I'm just saying in a way that like that's what I have experience and that's what people are doing. And I feel like I guess big purchases do pay off in some ways.
Preparing for Aspen: Stress and Tasks
00:02:20
Speaker
Okay, yeah, but today's topic is about people's perception of us. So that's what we're gonna talk about. But before that, let me tell you guys a little bit update on what's going on. Honestly, there's so much going on. You know, sometimes I feel like in our lives, you know, things are just like, you know, constant in a way that like, you know, you have things going on, you have things to do, right?
00:02:42
Speaker
But then some weeks, right? Everything is just essentially happening at the same time. And I mean, like almost all of it happening at the same time. It feels like finals week, you know, like when you're in college, high school, even, you know, you have these finals or you have these midterms and all of it is essentially the same week and you are burnt out, stressed out, sleep deprived and everything. It's just like it's a lot.
00:03:11
Speaker
you know, like you're so stressed all the time. And that's essentially what I'm feeling these days is because like, not to mention like, what's going on with the car and everything all the time, because like I'm still figuring out like monthly parking thing. But on top of it is like, I feel like I have like these, don't get me wrong, I'm so grateful for the brand deals that I have and like everything is great. I have securities before, but some of it is like essentially happening at the same time and I'm like,
00:03:38
Speaker
really trying to get on top of it and also because I'm leaving town literally in two days. Is it two days? Yeah. Yeah, in two days. So I'm like, I have to do everything before. So it's like, it adds a lot because I don't want to be like, you know, doing stuff while I'm on out of town.
00:03:55
Speaker
And I'm also going to, like, one of my favorite places in, I don't know, I don't think it's an entire world, but one of my favorite places that I always wanted to go, Aspen, Colorado. Oh, ew. What was I saying, Aspen, Colorado?
00:04:14
Speaker
I'm so used to saying California. That's why I'm like, oh, Aspen, Colorado. That's what I meant. Yeah, I like if you guys know me or if you guys like have, I don't know, like followed me on social media or anything, I have been eyeing this place and I have mentioned about this place like probably 100 times. I love Aspen. I've never been there, but I have heard so much about it. All I notice is a rich town and
00:04:41
Speaker
This is not the same rich at all. No, I'm not but this is I feel like it's going to be my once a lifetime opportunity to go So it's happening thanks to my boyfriend. Hopefully You know, I get all the good footage and everything that I'm going to show you guys Yeah, it's gonna be fun. But anyways, yeah, that's that part. So anyways before that though, I really want to make sure I have everything done speaking of that like there's so many things that I need to do and
00:05:09
Speaker
Not to mention, I feel like this is something always happens to me too, even if this wasn't that right. Every single time before I leave town, there's always like million things for me to do. Then I'm just like, why though? Like, why? There's always like laundry to do, there's always like that email that I need to send to, or that content to send to, or that literally this happened to me every single time I left town.
00:05:34
Speaker
Whenever I was leaving town, either I had like sponsored posts that I had to send out for approval or there was approved sponsored posts that I had to post while I was on
NYC Rental Market Challenges
00:05:45
Speaker
vacation. Again, I love my working with brands and everything. I absolutely love it. I'm not complaining about that. I'm just saying a timing is never great.
00:05:55
Speaker
I don't know why like it happens all the time like even today because I think I'm gonna be posting some sponsored thing while I'm on like in Denver first then Aspen but it's just so funny to me I never understand it and today this is the part I'm gonna mention that as a part of update then I'm done I promise
00:06:15
Speaker
I know, like, people, like, love, you know, New York City. They always say some shit about it. You know, they're like, oh my god, it's the shit, you know, it's the place. But one thing I, like, not actually learning. I've been constantly reminded of is that New York City, again, I'm not sure about New York State because just not been there outside that long to know about it. But if it's New York City, it's like,
00:06:40
Speaker
Everything, and I mean every single thing, is a competition. Like, even if you have the money for things to buy, there is a competition. And what I mean by that is like, okay, perfect example. I know rental market is crazy right now. Like, probably crazy everywhere in terms of the pricing, but it's not crazy as New York.
00:07:04
Speaker
So, let's just say you have been eyeing an apartment or you're going to tour an apartment, right?
00:07:12
Speaker
There is a chance that like, not even a chance. There's 100% chance the time you're going to go to this place, right? There are probably like 15 or 10, 15 to 20 people behind you to see the same apartment. And there's a chance that that apartment is probably not even good. And even if you don't take it, there are probably 15 or 20 more people who might be interested in taking that apartment.
00:07:36
Speaker
And same thing I experienced when I was getting a fucking parking spot at, like, garages. And don't get me wrong, I'm not even looking at these garages that, like, in Midtown or, like, these Times Square, you know, like, these popular, popular places. This is, like, residential area. Like, none of these, like, booming, popping places, you know?
00:08:01
Speaker
Either they're like straight up lying to you. They're like, okay, we will get back to you or whatever. Or you call them, they no one answers. Like it's so odd. Everything is so shady, I have to be honest. But on top of it is right. Like you tell them, okay, I can do this. Or they're like, can you do a deposit or whatever? Apparently that was the thing. Anyways, but on top of it, right? They're like, okay, we will get back to you. They don't get back to you. They call you very last minute, but then you end up being on a wait list.
00:08:30
Speaker
Even if you put a deposit down, you are on the wait list to get the fucking parking spot. That is how crazy this shit to me. Because, like, some of these places, like, one is in Brooklyn. Again, nothing against Brooklyn. Love Brooklyn. But, like, how competitive this shit is? Like, are they trying to make this up to make it, like, more hyped? Like, I know everything is about the hype in LA, New York, places like this. Even Miami, too. Like, everything is so hyped up.
00:08:58
Speaker
Oh, it's the it place. Oh my god, it's the place. It's the shit, you know, I get it. Yeah. But like, what is the deal, right? Like, you asked me for money, you know, for the rent or whatever the place I'm going, I'm giving you the money. So why can I have the place? You know, if it is full, tell me from the beginning. It's like, you know, what they remind me, these landlords or these people who are giving you space, place, I don't know.
00:09:23
Speaker
toxic ex-boyfriend, or toxic boyfriend, I guess, who leads you on, then just stirs up some drama and leaves you. They're essentially like that. Like, when I call them, right, and they essentially get all my data or info, right, about anything, making me seem like, oh, they're gonna call me, or they're gonna make it seem like there's a space.
00:09:47
Speaker
Then I keep calling, like, why didn't you tell me that you are fool in the beginning? What kind of unorganized system you have? Like, then you leave me on and I waste my time by calling you every other day. Then you tell me, oh, we are actually fool. Oh, you didn't know about this the first time I called you? Okay, maybe you could have called me, told me the second time, but you were telling me this after the fourth or fifth call that I had. Then, I'm not even done.
00:10:14
Speaker
if you don't accept the space or whatever they're giving you, right? They're like, oh, actually, we have two more people in the list or five more people in the list. Like, you're not important if you don't want it. Their shitty offer, like, it's just the shitty offers they give you. It's like, first, they give you a good price, right? Then they don't follow up on the price. Or I have tried this trick with my sister. Like, the places I called, right? They gave me this initial price. Like, this is the price. Or this is what they say on their website, right?
00:10:43
Speaker
Again, if you have a website and the price is not accurate, why even bother to have a website, right? Like what is the point? I feel like the entire point of a website is that it gives information. And if the information is incorrect or it is misleading, why even bother to provide that information? Like what is even, why even pay for that domain? Honestly, you shouldn't even pay for it.
00:11:05
Speaker
I know I'm getting so upset, but like it's just like so infuriating to me that I have to go through these loopholes, loopholes, I mean like hurdles, loopholes. I don't know why I was going to say that. Maybe I have been reading too many contracts these days. Hurdles to get a spot. It's not even an apartment, it's a spot. Like it's a parking spot.
00:11:27
Speaker
It's not like, I'm not even citing a contract, guys. It's like a monthly contract. It's not even like a year contract or something. But the fact that they are making this so hard, I don't get it. So I call them one time, right? And they say, oh, this is actually not an original price. We have raised the prices.
00:11:47
Speaker
Like, everyone is so greedy in New York. Like, landlords especially. Super greedy. I feel like there's plenty of space, that's what I'm trying to say. Like, they're making me seem like, no, it's full, but it's not full. They're plenty of space, but they're so greedy.
00:11:58
Speaker
Yeah, so on their website, right, they say one price, then you call them, they say another price, then I just did this for fun. I asked my sister to call and ask them the same thing, right? They gave her a different price. Like you guys see, right, how messed up this is. Like, messed up, shady. Like, I don't understand it.
00:12:20
Speaker
I really don't understand it. This gives me a headache. Yesterday, I signed a contract with a company. They gave me a prize. And I thought I was done because today I got a receipt. I was like, oh, they charged me. I was like, oh, great. Finally, I'm done. I feel so relieved.
00:12:40
Speaker
Then they call me today, girls, like, oh, I'm sorry, I made a mistake. It's actually $50 more a month. How could you make a mistake? Like, it's your job. Like, how? Like, how did you do that? Like, either you're lying to me or you just find out that, like, my car is more expensive. Like, I don't know what's going on. I really don't know what's going on. But like every place is like this.
00:13:04
Speaker
They advertise one price, you call them, they say another price, but then they come back to you, when you sign a contract, they add more fees. That's it. I'm done. That is the update. I'm just trying to say. Essentially, leave New York City. Like, don't stay here.
00:13:24
Speaker
I don't know that's like it's it's been such a frustrating experience is that like it's not about the like even experience of like the price is being expensive it's like everyone's saying one thing and nothing is consistent and whole process just feels so shady sketchy like
00:13:43
Speaker
It rubs me the wrong type of way, and I don't know how to describe it, but this is the only way to say it. Anyways, I know I'm laughing, but I'm super, super upset. But yeah, I just want to put it out there in case anyone was planning.
00:13:59
Speaker
on having a car or renting a place in New York. That's it. Yeah, that is the experience. So I would not recommend it unless every single day you feel like you're going to bang your head against the wall or you're going to pull your hair every day. So if you don't want to do any of those, I would not recommend it at this time. Okay. That's my TED Talk. Thank you for coming. Now let's move on to today's episode.
Appearance and Social Perceptions in NYC
00:14:26
Speaker
Okay, so I know I said people's perceptions of us don't really matter. You know, in a certain sense, it doesn't. But I feel like in certain societies, it does. And I feel like New York is one of those places. And not even just New York, I feel like maybe United States is one of those places. People's perception of you matters a lot, depending on especially even the industry you're in. It's just, it's a lot. It puts a lot of
00:14:56
Speaker
What is the word for it? Emphasis. Yeah, emphasis on how you will do in life or how you will do overall, like just generally. And I think this is sometimes to say like it changes based on your actions, that is for sure. But also it changes on your appearance or whatever, you know, like I just mentioned very beginning of the episode that like, you know, don't judge the book by its cover, but people do.
00:15:24
Speaker
And especially in New York, it's like, yeah, like people might dress like shit, you know, they don't care in that aspect. But especially depending on your job, though, like if you were to like in these events, right, that I get invited to as much as they say don't like it's casual, it's this or whatever.
00:15:42
Speaker
Even the casual one, you need to try harder. You need to put something to make it unique, cute, extra. Otherwise, they're not going to take pictures of you. Or they will. But this is what happens. Interesting experience. Very humbling experience, I would say that, nonetheless. But yeah, it is humbling. Very, very humbling.
00:16:10
Speaker
So, they will take pictures of you, like, you know, these photographers from Getty Images and stuff, right? Then, they sometimes even ask you for your name, so you're like, oh my God, yeah, they're going to take, they're going to put my name and everything on the, you know, Getty Images. If you don't know, that's a big deal. So, only celebrities, known people are on Getty Images.
00:16:32
Speaker
with their names, obviously. So yeah, so you're like, oh, I'm the shit now. I'm going to get images. Then you go and get images the next day or two days later. Usually it's the next day. They're that fast. Yeah. You don't see your picture. Like you see the events and the pictures from the event. You don't see it because they lied to you.
00:16:54
Speaker
You know why? Most of the time, they don't have the guts to tell you that they are not going to take pictures or they walk away. They will pretend or they will take pictures of you that they will not post it. Because they're like, who the fuck are you?
00:17:11
Speaker
Or, like, who are you? Like, what are you even wearing? And that matters a lot. That's what I'm trying to say. I feel like people say that it doesn't. It matters a lot. Like, in, like, I feel like in daily, like, daytime, like, you know, in New York, like, you know, if you're going to groceries, whatever, just regular times, like, you know, you're going outside. Yes, that aspect, I don't think people care so much. It's New York after all. But if you were in another state, another place like Boston,
00:17:37
Speaker
As much as people say Boston is not that kind of place, like it's so diverse, it's like, like New York, it's not. People judge you. And I mean judge you deeply. Like from top to bottom, they will look at you. Like if you're dressed up, like not good. And I don't mean like it doesn't have to be designer. I just mean like not dressed up in a nice way.
00:18:03
Speaker
they're going to give you that look that look like you didn't try. They're like, like, what are you doing with your life? So I'm saying, like, you don't get that in Boston. I mean, New York for sure. But if you do go to events and stuff like that, you're going to. So I learned that. And there are times that I felt so left out or out of place. I was like, oh, no, I did. I really did. And there are times I was like, um, yeah, I should have worn better or I should have done that.
00:18:33
Speaker
But now I've learned. Hence, I'm saying this. I had my Getty debut. Yeah, I am on Getty Images, guys. But again, I have to humble myself. He did take pictures of us and he posted it. So I'm grateful, very, very grateful for that. I feel like this is like the essentially first step. But
00:18:56
Speaker
He didn't ask for our names, he didn't even search for our names. He just said, because I went to the Hulu premiere I mentioned last week, so they just said guests attended, whatever, whatever, Hulu X Walter premiere.
00:19:12
Speaker
So no names. No one had names except the two actors who were in the show who came to the premiere had their name on it. The rest of us were peasants. Or just like, I feel like they don't even say press. I feel like they should have said press. They make it seem like regular people.
00:19:31
Speaker
And not to say like anything wrong with that, but I feel like it wasn't like open to public. The way they made it seem like, I feel like when you say guest, it sounds like, I guess it would be invited guest or whatever, but it did sound like more like, like it sounded like public. So I was like, okay, I guess we don't have status, which is fine. Again, I am saying humbling experience.
00:19:49
Speaker
but still on Getty images so I feel like that is first step to get another image on Getty is my name on it so I'm aiming for that but I'm just saying I feel like that's the first step which means somewhat my whatever I dressed up as
00:20:05
Speaker
was not terrible because they I am telling you guys they told us casual I did not see casual in the like in the list like there are people they went over the top there's a girl she was wearing top to bottom Gucci I'm not sure if her picture ended up there though but I'm just saying like I feel like it was not casual casual there was some it was more like business casual but they did use the word just casual so I was like okay
00:20:35
Speaker
Anyways, I'm just saying, that's one experience. Another experience, this is the part that I mentioned from the beginning of the episode, is me getting a car.
Tesla Ownership and Social Benefits
00:20:44
Speaker
So first thing I would mention is that like I honestly didn't even expect this because in my eyes, right, yes, Tesla in price-wise is an expensive vehicle, right? But I feel like it's not like one of those vehicles like Range Rover,
00:21:02
Speaker
Mercedes or I guess some models of BMW. Like I feel like it's not like it doesn't give that impression. You know what I mean? Like I feel like this Mercedes, even a cheap Mercedes, people are like, oh, rich or expensive. Like it gives that swag look like you're like, you know, like it gives that it has that swag. It does.
00:21:24
Speaker
But I feel like Tesla, I don't see that in my eyes. Again, that's my eyes because I feel like the entire reason I even bought into Tesla or I like considered Tesla versus because it's electric. But also it's like they're the top tier in terms of like their category and like they have so many superchargers. I feel like I never had to worry about it. And I was so like invested in them. I have even stocks of Tesla. And also I feel like their technology is so advanced.
00:21:51
Speaker
So I feel like even if it was a different kind of looking car, I would have still bought it. Because let's be honest, it's not like it's the best looking car. Like it's not. There's a lot more like gorgeous looking cars. Like I have to be fair, like Range Rover looks gorgeous. I mean, gorgeous. It's a gorgeous looking car, but like I've heard very bad things about it, but also like, no, I'm not buying it for that. But I'm just saying like, I feel like if I wanted to be that type, I would have bought a Range Rover. So hence I didn't, I bought Tesla.
00:22:21
Speaker
But yeah, people have started treating me differently. Starting on Instagram, like I think ever since I posted like, you know, the I posted my car and everything. Randomly, people have been inviting me to things or there is this another person who invited me to like their birthday party, which I don't even know them.
00:22:41
Speaker
Yeah, I feel like maybe some people who were like expecting this, maybe they were like, oh, okay, yeah, cool. Like I wanted this, but like I was just never expecting this because like in my eye, like, again, I saw this as like, it's something I've wanted for the longest time. I didn't just I didn't buy this car to be like, oh my God, I have a Tesla. Like I'm going to shove it to your face. I'm going to be that person. Like it was not my intention.
00:23:07
Speaker
but I'm just saying like I can't like I guess like that's what happens it does and now another thing it happened is that like I feel like Instagram was one thing and like there were a couple experiences and also there were some people that were like super super nice to me like saying really nice things that like I deserved it and everything I feel like I feel so so happy about it but other thing was through TikTok is like I did a TikTok live and I was in my car
00:23:34
Speaker
And usually, you know, like, it's like basic TikTok and I talk about skincare and lifestyle stuff. Then people, I guess, saw the car and everything. They started asking things about the car. It got so much attention, guys, like, because initially it was maybe like 10 people, 12 people in my life.
00:23:50
Speaker
It got on to like 70 people all of a sudden as they ask questions about the car and everything. Then automatically people are like, you're rich. Oh, you're rich rich because you have a car in New York City. You're like higher tier or whatever. It's like higher income or something like that. It's like, I just can't believe like just seeing one thing it automatically people have this perception like they're like, Oh, you must be that person.
00:24:16
Speaker
you must be loaded, you must be that. So I just like, I mean, yes, it did well for me, that TikTok, but I'm just saying, I feel like that was not my intention, but it just shows what the society does. And that's why I feel like sometimes I see why the celebrities or creators, like they go buy or make these big purchases, not necessarily because like, I mean, obviously you should be able to afford it. That's the first thing.
00:24:41
Speaker
But other thing is that like you do it because you know that there's going to be an outcome from it. I feel like that there's so much that I put into thoughts or put thoughts into it, I guess, for my car. Like it wasn't like a random brash decision that like, oh, I'm getting a car. It was not like that. I have I went back and forth and I had my full pros and cons list for it.
00:25:06
Speaker
So I'm just saying it was definitely like experience that I put it into, but I feel like, wow, like it just, I feel like that really pays off in different perspective and it opens new doors for you. Speaking of that, so that's what I'm gonna say. So ever since, because I posted my video of, I posted the picture of me getting a car on Instagram, then I posted on my, I think I did it live on my TikTok, but then I also posted on my YouTube channel,
00:25:36
Speaker
And it has been maybe barely a week or maybe a week or something, one week and a half. You know, I already got like people saying, like I got attention, like I was not expecting it. But on top of it, I already got like brands reaching out to me saying that, oh, we want to send you like accessories for your car or when to send you this. And there's like a paid sponsorship for it. It's like it is so surreal to me that like
00:26:03
Speaker
Just because, the thing is, it's also my first time I was posting. I think I did post about Tesla before on my YouTube channel, but it wasn't like this. But the amount of opportunities it opened for me, I was just not expecting. And that's something I want to even conclude with that thought and put it out there.
00:26:23
Speaker
because I am not saying this in a way that like oh my god I encourage people to like go above their means and like buy expensive things and like you know live their life like that because again as I mentioned like this was not my intention I didn't buy Tesla to gloat and or just say people like
00:26:40
Speaker
Oh, you can suck it. You cannot afford it. That's not my intention. It was more to be like, I wanted it, I needed it, and I have purpose behind it for my business that I'm going to use it for. So I have a lot of advantages for it. But the fact that it also opened more doors for me, now I can understand why creators and celebrities, they get a loan for certain things or they buy these big purchases. Like, especially like YouTubers, you know, when they buy these houses,
00:27:09
Speaker
Like, they can make so much content out of it, and also people, like, they're like, oh, you have a house. Oh, you have a car. They automatically think so highly of you. They're like, oh, you know, they have their shit together. They know what they're doing.
00:27:26
Speaker
Like, I mean, it is it is so sad that that's what our society is, but it is what they think. And I feel like it's like I'm not even saying that it's just like ever like I'm not the same, but I feel like it's automatically like embedded into our brain as that you see that someone has a house or bought they bought a house, even it's just mortgage. And I feel like there's no judgment in that, like financed or not.
00:27:48
Speaker
Getting a financing, like a special good financing, it's not easy. Like it takes time, especially in today's industry, it's hard. So I feel like they're both same to me. So I feel like the fact that you have a house mortgage or not, or you have a car financed or not,
00:28:05
Speaker
Like, I feel like people automatically are like, oh, they know what they're doing. They got their shit together. Like, that's automatically, I don't know, like, plus, I guess, in their perspective, and I feel like that's what I think of it too sometimes. Like, I try not to affect it me, but I don't know. I feel like maybe because we are a capitalistic society, but also because we think so much about appearance. You know, appearance is one thing about, like, you know, how people look, but also on top of it is, like, what they have. That's just, like,
00:28:35
Speaker
I don't know, like I just never thought of this before. It's like it never crossed even my mind that like what will people say or like what they're going to think about it because I wasn't even when I was posting my like the picture saying that I got a car, it wasn't to say like, oh my God, I got this car and my guy like it's so nice.
00:28:54
Speaker
It was to say because I really was obsessed with this car and I've been wanting it for so long.
External Factors Shaping Society's Perceptions
00:28:59
Speaker
It was kind of like, oh my God, it's the biggest accomplishment for me to do it. So it's like very different than what some people interpret. They're like, oh my God, gloating or whatever. But it's like, I guess that's what people think. They're like, you're rich, whatever.
00:29:12
Speaker
And that's why when I concluded this, I like people's perceptions are really based on exactly what you look like and what you are doing in life versus what you are on the inside. And that's just the sad truth. And I feel like that's what we are, I don't know, like made in a way in our society. And that's what we think of.
00:29:33
Speaker
And I just want to put it out there that I feel like in certain ways, I guess that's what we need to do to get an upper hand. And I guess it works. I'm saying this from my experience. I haven't even had the car. I think it's been only two weeks. And OID has done so much for me that I feel like it's very beneficial. And I never expected that it would be because nine out of 10, guys.
00:29:58
Speaker
when I was saying that like I'm gonna get a car people were like it's a liability don't do it there's like you're dumb like don't do this like I knew the judgment that was going to come but I'm so glad that on top of what I was going to use it for it also opened more doors for me and I cannot be more thankful for that but
00:30:18
Speaker
Yeah, just wanted to put it out there. Anyway, so that was the episode for today. I hope you guys liked this episode. If you do, please don't forget to rate us on Apple podcast or where we get your podcast and I'll see you guys next week with another episode. Bye guys.