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Personality Change Science

S2 E19 · The Positively Healthy Mom
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Welcome to The Positively Healthy Mom Podcast! I'm Laura Ollinger, and today, I’m thrilled to welcome Shannon Sauer-Zavala, a licensed clinical psychologist, and expert in the emerging field of Personality Change Science. Shannon is dedicated to helping people from all walks of life—whether they’re teenagers, parents, or college students—transform their mental health through her research-backed insights.

In this enlightening episode, Shannon delves into the fascinating world of Personality Change Science—exploring how we can reshape our personalities in ways that lead to healthier, more fulfilling lives. With her background as both a private practitioner and an academic researcher at the University of Kentucky, Shannon’s expertise offers a unique blend of hands-on experience and cutting-edge science. Her research is funded by the National Institute of Mental Health, ensuring that her strategies are grounded in the latest psychological advancements.

Shannon guides us through practical steps to apply Personality Change Science in our everyday lives. She’ll share how understanding the malleable aspects of our personalities can help us overcome mental health challenges and lead to meaningful personal growth. Whether you're a busy mom, a student, or a parent, Shannon’s tips will show you how to harness your potential for change and live more authentically.

Throughout the episode, Shannon also discusses the critical role personality plays in our emotional well-being and how intentional change can be the key to breaking negative patterns and fostering positive ones.

Key takeaways from this episode include:

  • The science behind personality changes and how it can lead to better mental health and life satisfaction.
  • How to incorporate small, actionable steps into your routine that align with your desired personality shifts.
  • How Shannon’s work as a clinical psychologist and researcher offers groundbreaking insights that can support your journey toward personal growth.

Join us for this insightful conversation and discover how Shannon’s passion for Personality Change Science can inspire and guide you toward living a more balanced, empowered, and fulfilling life.


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Introduction to Positively Healthy Mom Podcast

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Hey moms, it's Laura Olinger.
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Welcome to the Positively Healthy Mom podcast.
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Because there's no manual for the hardest job in the world.

Meet Shannon Sauer-Zabala, Clinical Psychologist

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Hello everyone, welcome to today's show.
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I'm so excited to introduce you to Shannon Sauer-Zabala, who is a licensed clinical psychologist and has so much awesome information today for the mom.
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So Shannon, say hello and tell us a little bit about yourself.
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Hi, yeah, thanks so much for having me.
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I'm really excited to be here.
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I am a licensed clinical psychologist.
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And so that means I have a small private practice where I work with all kinds of people, teenagers,
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parents, college students, you know, sort of runs the gamut.
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And then the other sort of like big piece of my day to day is as an academic researcher.
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So I'm a professor at the University of Kentucky.
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So I do a little bit of teaching, mostly at the graduate student level.
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So I'm training new PhD students to become therapists.
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And then I'm doing research.

Research on Anxiety and Depression Treatments

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So I'm funded by the National Institute of Mental Health to do clinical trials to basically to make our treatments for anxiety and depression better, more efficient, more personalized so that more people have access to good care.
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Wow, that sounds just totally fascinating.
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And right up my alley also as well to learn more about that.
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And so I know your specialty is about changing your own personality.
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How tell us about that.
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Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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So I kind of came to be interested in personality change through my treatment outcome research, so developing new treatments.
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Basically, the way clinical psychology has really approached treating mental health difficulties has been to have a different treatment for every disorder, right?
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And that's really inefficient because there are shared vulnerabilities that could put a person at risk to develop
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more than one condition.
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What we find is that personality traits can actually predispose people to develop anxiety or depression or substance use disorder or eating disorders.

Modifying Personality Traits for Personal Goals

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And so it's actually more efficient to target the vulnerabilities instead of targeting the symptoms themselves.
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And so some of my research work has been really focused on, well, can we change personality?
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Can we do this intentionally?
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How can we shift it?
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And turns out you can.
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I'm really interested in basically just sharing that information with people, right?
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I mean, going why I've wanted to come on podcasts, because I think people really think your personality is set in stone.
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You should, you know, you should kind of customize your life to fit the personality that you already have.
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when really we have a lot more say in how we develop or evolve our traits over time.
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Wow.
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That is just kind of like a new, totally new perspective to look at this because part of my training in positive psychology is when we look at like character traits.

Debate: Strengthening Positive Traits vs. Improving Weaknesses

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The idea is to, if you assess yourself or take one of the assessments of like the via character assessment is the one, is to kind of look at your top traits and just to continue to strengthen those.
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And in my training, they encourage us to kind of ignore the bottom
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traits.
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They said, just don't worry about those.
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They're low on the list.
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Don't worry about them.
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But I know that's not what a lot of people want to hear.
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So for example, if there's a personality trait that falls at the bottom, like one is humor.
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Say your last trait is humor, but you want to be more humor, more funny, then I think it's worth looking at that and worth saying, how can I build that trait or skill or quality about myself?
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So what are your thoughts about like focusing on the positives or focusing on the negatives?
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Or how do you how do you look at it?
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Yeah, I think you hit the nail on the head in terms of like, I think it differs based on a person's goals.
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So the way I think about it, or the example I always use is kind of introversion versus extroversion, right?
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Because a lot of people will kind of be quick to say that the world is built for extroverts.
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And we really need to be, we need to be kind to our introverted friends and not sort of push them to be extroverts when they're not.
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And that is something I fully agree with, right?
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So if you are a person who, um,
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who it's like working for you to have fewer closer relationships that you need to recharge your social battery and that's not getting in the way of your goals, then you're not going to have the motivation to change your thinking and your behaviors that would lead to this lasting personality change.
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And that is a okay because being extroverted versus introverted, like there's no one side of the pole that's better.
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Right.
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you know, so take humor, for example.
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And I do, I love the character strengths assessment.
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I actually teach it in my, like make the students take it in my psychology class.
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You're right.
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Like it is the idea that like, we can't be good at everything.
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And so really put your energy into what's already working for you.
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And I think that that's great.
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If your strengths are
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really align with your goals and what you want to do.
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I think like, I think the, the twist here, the thing that's a little bit different is that like, you don't have to change your goal or change your dream based on what the personality test tells you your traits are right now.
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You can develop the traits if you want, right?
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That's that volitional part.
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Mm hmm.
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So how does this apply to mom?

Improving Traits like Patience in Motherhood

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So give us like an example of how this even shows up in your practice that you work with your clients through or just things that you see day to day out in the real world.
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Yeah.
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So I mean, I can give you two examples.
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One is actually like a personal example.
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So I'm a mom, I have a nine year old, and I have a six year old.
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And like, I would not really describe myself as the most patient person.
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And most people would say that like patience is a pretty important trait when it comes to success in dealing with the things that children do.
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And I'm sure I'm not in the teenage years yet, but I'm sure that applies maybe
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maybe a hundred fold when you're working with T. And so, you know, one of the things that has been really important to me is to really, really flex that trait, right?
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It could be easy for me to say, well, I'm not a patient person.
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So, you know, I'm just going to snap it.
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My kids would be irritable.
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Um, that's not, you know, so I could like take a personality test and get that result and kind of say, well, that's just not me.
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I can't do it.
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Um,
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But that's not really the reality, right?
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We can work on how flexible we are with interruptions.
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We can work on how irritable we are.
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We can change our thinking patterns around what it means to be interrupted.
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Or like for me, I...
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I don't like it when the school gives my children whistles for some reason to reward good behavior.
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And so, so part of that is like building up a tolerance to things that are sort of like unpredictable that children do, right?
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And that's, it's kind of a, kind of a combination of reducing like how neurotic I am, right?
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Which is a personality trait, tendency to experience negative emotions.
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So how, how open I am to, and how flexible I am.
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I think like thinking about like if being an effective parent is a priority for you, and it may or may not be, but I'm assuming if you're listening to this podcast that it is, then it's a reasonable goal to want to enhance some of those traits.
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And there's no reason.
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I mean, the research suggests that we can.
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Mm-hmm.
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What's interesting is that it's coming to mind for me is a lot of times moms don't, they know they need to change certain things about themselves.
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Like you said, I need to be more patient or I need to this.
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But a lot of times moms,
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parents think that their child is the problem and they're not really willing to take ownership.
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So it might be like, oh, my kid's always doing this.
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And so it's so annoying and putting more of that.
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And instead of taking like ownership, like, oh, maybe I need to change.
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Maybe I need to be more patient.
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Maybe I need to handle it this way.
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So what do you do when it's just like for you as a clinician, it's so like blatantly obvious right in your face.
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And you're like, come on, you know, you know, what do you do?
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How do you work with that?

Influence of Parental Reactions on Children's Behavior

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Yeah.
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So when that comes up in my practice, I think it's important to use some Socratic questioning to sort of help parents and teens kind of understand how their patterns are unfolding, right?
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And how...
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it's a system, right?
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So it's not that the child is necessarily being annoying on purpose in a vacuum, right?
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It's that it's the parent's response and how that response might actually intensify the behavior.
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So like working with a family, with a teen, with an eating disorder, something that really commonly comes up is that parents are really
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controlling around eating.
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They're like, eat.
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Like they're very, and it's because they're anxious at the table, right?
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Because they're worried about their kid, of course.
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And so the way that they manage their own anxiety is to be really forceful and pushy.
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And unfortunately, that often has the opposite effect where the kid will kind of shut down.
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probably eat less than they would if the parents took a different approach.
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And so helping them see, one of the things that I always like to do is help people see how their behaviors make sense, right?
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Like why you're trying that, why it makes sense.
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Like you're so nervous about this.
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Of course, you're just like being really forceful and aggressive and yelling about it.
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Like, because it's really high stakes.
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Of course you are.
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And the data, like, is that working?
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Yeah.
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So in the short term, it might be harder to kind of sit back and go with the flow, but that might be a better way to get what you want in the long term.
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And so really helping people understand the function of their behavior and how it is helping or hindering moving towards a goal or a value.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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That's awesome.
00:11:20
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I liked how the way you explained that was, it was really easy to understand.
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And so, um, next, what about, you know, I hate to say there's such thing as like negative personality traits, but like the one you kind of highlighted was like the neuroticism and, and that tends to, and tell me if I'm wrong, but that tends to lend itself more to, um,
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The anxiety, the depression, the OCD, that whatever might happen.
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So is that characterized as a negative personality trait?
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And if so, what can be done to improve that?

Managing Neuroticism for Better Mental Health

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Yeah, yeah, that's a great question.
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So I don't personally believe that any sort of level of any particular personality trait is inherently better or worse than another.
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And so to kind of give the counterpoint, being really, really low in narcissism is not great
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you because you might not, you know, you may not experience risk the same way.
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You do things that are impulsive or get you into trouble.
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I have a colleague who is pretty stoic and he says like his wife is often mad at him because she'll tell him something that happened and he won't like emote enough and she feels really invalidated.
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So, so we think of being like really low in neuroticism as being a great thing.
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but like too much of a good thing actually can cause some, some different problems.
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The counterpoint to that is like, I would kind of describe myself as a neurotic person.
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And I like, I always tell my patients cause I'm trying to normalize it and I don't want people to feel bad about experiencing emotion strongly.
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So I think being a better therapist, it helps me emphasize and empathize with people and that that's important.
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Now,
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When, and so we think of these personality traits as like on a spectrum, right?
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And we wouldn't, we, there is kind of an optimal level of negative emotions that help us function, right?
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Anxiety helps us prepare, sadness helps us process a loss, guilt helps us not make the same mistakes over and over again.
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So it's not like we wanna get rid of those emotional experiences, but we want, we don't, what we don't want is for these emotional experiences to interfere.
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And the stronger and more frequently we experience those emotions, so the higher we are on the neurotic spectrum, the more likely it is they interfere.
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It's not the feeling, the emotions themselves, though.
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It's the how we respond when the emotions come up.
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And what I find is that most of the people that I see in my practice with anxiety or depression, they don't like their emotions very much and they do things to avoid them.
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And those
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that they do to avoid their emotions actually just make things worse for them.
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So somebody that has panic attacks, they are probably pretty high on the neurotic spectrum.
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Um,
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they think panic attacks are really scary.
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And so maybe they don't go in elevators or they don't go in movie theaters or they don't take the stairs because like that might cause their heart rate to increase.
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All of this avoidance just kind of reinforces the notion that emotions are bad.
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And so your world gets smaller and smaller and smaller as you, as you avoid.
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And that's what an anxiety disorder looks like.
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And so isn't that,
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emotions, it's how we cope with them.
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And so the way that therapy is to help kind of redefine your relationship with emotions through, you know, cognitive, like thinking differently about emotions, it's not a sign of weakness.
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It's my body telling me something important is happening that I should pay attention to.
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And then through behavior change, you know, normally, you would avoid this hard conversation, but we're gonna have it today.
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Um,
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It can promote this new learning that, oh, I actually can tolerate my emotions.
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They're not permanent.
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And I have the skills to deal with it.
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Hmm.
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Okay.
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Okay.

Helping Teens with Flexible Thinking

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And then is there a way to, so you're, you're kind of, um, you're not running from these things.
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You're kind of feeling it.
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You're kind of thinking differently.
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You're doing different things about it, but is there a way to, because what's coming to mind for me is a lot of my teenage clients are very rigid thinkers.
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They're these black
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and white thinkers.
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And so it causes a lot of problem in the whole family and it stresses out the mom.
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And then the mom is calling me and my daughter is this and the, right.
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And so I have my own coaching methods that I use to help, but I'm curious from your standpoint, how can you, you know, is there a way to lessen a person's rigidity or is it just more your ability to deal with what is already existing?
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people can become more flexible over time.
00:16:03
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I think like it can be hard depending on how old your clients are, right?
00:16:07
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I mean, you would probably know better than I would, given that this is kind of your bread and butter population.
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And I work with teens a lot less, but you're kind of, this is like the period of your brain development where you're moving from like concrete to more abstract.
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And so however you are, the less, you know, it's like right and wrong or black and white, right?
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The less able you are to do that.
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And so the good thing
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is that as your brain develops, like you're going to have more capacity to hold two truths in your mind at the same time.
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Like I could be really mad at my mom and she also could be right.
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It's not a good idea for me to go to this thing.
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Like both of those things would be true.
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And that's, that's a big ask.
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So, so I think some of it is like kind of normalizing and psychoeducation for the parents that like, this is
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it's a big ask to expect them to kind of hold both of those things in their mind at the same time.
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Lots of evidence as, as with like, as we get more practice with flexibility.
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So I use, I use just like this list of challenging questions.
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So when someone has a rigid thought, like, you know, my mom is doing this on purpose to piss me off.
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You know, do you know for certain that she's on purpose?
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What evidence,
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And I actually make my clients read the questions out loud and answer out loud because there's something like,
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Once you take the negative thoughts out of your mind and like verbalize them, they sound more just far-fetched.
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I guess my mom is going out of her way.
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I can begrudgingly admit that.
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And so what we find is when people have a habit of thinking one way in a situation, my mom's doing this on purpose.
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Those are the thoughts that will pop up the next time the situation is similar.
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But with practice, we can create new patterns so that different alternative thoughts pop up kind of at the same time.
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And that may over time kind of overtake that initial negative thought.
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Hmm.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
00:18:12
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I, it's, I, I use some similar questioning with, with my clients as well.
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And one of the things I say is, can you prove it in a court of law that this is true?
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And then they're like, what?
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No, it's almost never true.
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It's almost never true.
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So, um, okay.
00:18:27
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What else can we, um, deliver to the moms today that might be like a helpful tip, you know, just like your, um,
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you know, on a daily basis, you know, not like life changing, personality changing, but just kind of, you know, you talked about like just patience, but what else can we help them with?

Embracing Change and Its Role in Parenting

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Yeah, I mean, I think the biggest thing that comes to mind to me, like in my own parenting, and with
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you know, thinking about clients is that, especially at this stage, change is the only constant, really.
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So, you know, if you're, I always try to remind myself that the thing that I was worried about with my kids six months ago, isn't even a thing now.
00:19:08
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So, so knowing that, you
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there are these kind of like fits and starts with your relationship with your teen.
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That's to be expected, right?
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There are, there's variability in like, you know, kind of the extremities of how, you know, how challenging these relationships are.
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But for the most part, some of this is developmentally normal.
00:19:35
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And to kind of a little bit to the personality change, what we find is that most personality change occurs after, you know,
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kids leave home.
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So, you know, you think like that this is such an important like developmental time and it is right.
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I mean,
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Kids are learning information about how they can expect from other people in their lives.
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But actually, like we see the most shifts in someone's neuroticism and their agreeableness and their openness and their conscientiousness after they leave home and they can select their own environments.
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So if you're worried about your kid right now, it's possible that they could change a lot when they're able, you know, when they go off to college or when they start working, they're going to develop these traits that are going to work for them.
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They're going to become adults.
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And
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going to probably be easier to interact with, frankly.
00:20:27
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Yes, I think that was so helpful, even for me thinking about my own kids and the changes that they still have a long ways to go.
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But more importantly, I liked the idea of just kind of having like holding all this loosely.
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I know some moms who go so hardcore into problem solving mode when something's going on with their child and they're researching it and they're doing this and they're trying so hard to fix it.
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And it's almost just like, oh,
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Take a breath, like, like, take a step back, like this is going to evolve, whether you do anything about it or not, it's going to evolve no matter what.
00:20:59
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So I liked what you said about, you know, six months from now, this probably you won't even remember this was even an issue, things like that.
00:21:06
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So I think that was some really good advice.
00:21:09
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Is there anything else that we didn't cover that you feel like is really important to squeeze in?

Intersection of Personality Science and Parenting

00:21:15
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Oh, no, I mean, I think this is like,
00:21:18
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This is like, when it comes to, you know, just thinking about like personality science and how that relates to parenting.
00:21:25
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Yeah.
00:21:25
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Yeah.
00:21:27
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Yeah, well, this has been so such an interesting conversation for me.

Upcoming Book on Personality Change and Conclusion

00:21:31
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And so tell us how people can find you.
00:21:33
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And I know you have a book that's coming out.
00:21:35
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So tell us about that.
00:21:36
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Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
00:21:38
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So, um, so I have a book that's hopefully coming out.
00:21:42
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I am working on the book proposal and trying to find a publisher.
00:21:44
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And it's basically going to be on actionable steps you can take for intentional personality change.
00:21:51
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And so if listeners are interested in that, they can follow me on social media.
00:21:58
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So I am on Instagram at self.made.personality.
00:22:05
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And or they can visit my website where we have free personality change materials and a science based personality test.
00:22:13
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And that is www.personality-compass.com.
00:22:18
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That sounds amazing.
00:22:19
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Okay.
00:22:19
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Well, I will be sure to check this out as well.
00:22:21
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And I'm sure our listeners as well.
00:22:23
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So thank you, Shannon, so much for the time.
00:22:25
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And I really appreciate the conversation.
00:22:27
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Of course.
00:22:27
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My pleasure.
00:22:28
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Thank you so much for having me.
00:22:29
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You're welcome.
00:22:32
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