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Season 2 Kickoff and Life Updates

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Hello! Hello!
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I don't know every episode. Life got in the way.
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So, if you want to listen to our listeners, we will be able to listen to them. Yes, of course. What's your last episode? July? June. June?
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Welcome to season 2!
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I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it, but I
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just

Musical Interlude: Why Are We Singing?

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to... just to make that clear that we are going to have a visit. But before that, I'm going to tell you something. I'm going to tell you a little bit more about how to do it. I'm going to tell you a little bit more about how to do it. I'm going to tell you a little bit more about how to do it. True. Anyways, hi guys. How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you? How are you?
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don't know
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I'm in the description of the video! I'm going to watch the episode now, Anna. Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why are we singing, Anna? Why
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Anyways guys, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. I'll see you guys in the next one.
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Hello Prince! Hello! Hello! Hello! Hello! Hello!
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Mark. Marking. Flip.
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Oh, both parts. I don't know what to say, but, um... Okay. So, I don't know. Can you say something?
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I don't know what to do with this song, but I think it's a good song to play. I don't know what to do with this song, but I don't know what to do with this song. I don't know what to do with this song. I don't know what to do with this song. I don't know what to do with this song. I don't know what to do with this song. I don't know what to do with this song. I don't know what to do with this song.
00:05:41
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And the music is still alive, and I don't know what's going on here, but I don't know what's going on here, guys. What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here? What's going on here?
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For economic purposes. Anyway, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say.
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I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it.
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I don't know what the inspiration is because I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is. I don't know what the inspiration is.
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I don't know how to say that in English, but I don't know. I don't know how to say that in English. I don't know how to say that in English. I don't know how to say that in English. I don't know how to say that in English.
00:07:37
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Oh my god, please do not use the name of Taylor Swift in vain. We are very sincerely sorry that we did not end the last season properly.
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I don't know how to say that in the end of the season, I don't know. I don't know how to say that in the end. I don't know how to say it in the end. I don't know how to say it in the end. I don't know how to say it in the end. I don't know how to say it in the end. I don't know how to say it in the end. I don't know how to say it in the end. I don't know how to say it in the end.
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I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it.
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I don't know how to say it but I don't know how to say it but I don't know how to say it but I don't know how to say it but I don't know how to say it but I don't know how to say it but I don't know how to say it
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I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things. I'm going to organize a lot of things.
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I'm so happy! Ghost month 2023!

Cultural Insight: The Significance of Ghost Month

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August 16th. This year's Ghost Month begins on August 16th and ends on September 14th.
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Hello, I'm going to show you how to do it. I'm going to show you how to do it. I'm going to record it. I'm going to record it. I'm going to record it. I'm going to record it. I'm going to record it. I'm going to record it. I'm going to record it. I'm going to record it.
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Why is August a ghost man? Why is August a ghost man?
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The practice of observing the ghost month originated with the Chinese. According to the Chinese folklore, the ghost month is a time when spirits of the dead and their ancestors and relatives visit the world of the living. Oh my god. Oh my god.
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But there's a lot going on here in India. I don't know. In November. In November. In November. But there's a lot going on here. There's a lot going on here. There's a lot going on here in Mexico. There's a lot going on here in my Europeans, in my Druids. There's a big calendar. There's a big calendar. There's a lot going on here.
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The veil between the world of the living and the world of the dead is very sad, but it's also sad, you know, from the world of the dead. So for the Chinese, it's still a lie. It's a problem. I don't know what the Philippines is about. It's a problem that we don't know what the Philippines is about, but we don't know what the Spanish is about.
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Anyway, anyway, we digress. No?
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I want to ask a minute of silence for the joke of the day.
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We have to acknowledge what we did, so we're going to talk about it now.

Dating Dilemmas: The Phenomenon of Ghosting

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We're going to talk about... We're going to talk about ghosting, appropriately. August is ghost month.
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It's a very... According to the Chinese. According to the Chinese. So... Anyway...
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I know I'm ghosting. Kevin, when did you learn about ghosting? I don't know. I don't know that I'm going to be dating apps.
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Papus!
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A few years ago, when I was a kid, I didn't know that I was going to be a stereotype. I didn't know that I was going to be in the U.S. I didn't know that I was going to be in the U.S. I didn't know that I was going to be in the U.S. I didn't know that I was going to be in the U.S. I didn't know that I was going to be in the U.S. I didn't know that I was going to be in the U.S. I didn't know that I was going to be in the U.S.
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I'm a ghost. A ghost in French. What? I'm a ghost in the US. You're a ghost in the US. You're a ghost in the US. You're a ghost in the US. You're a ghost in the US. You're a ghost in the US. You're a ghost in the US. You're a ghost in the US.
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I'm not a ghost, I'm a ghost. I'm not a ghost, I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost, I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost.
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I don't know how to say it, but I don't know what to say.
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I have to learn now. I have to learn. When is it exactly called? When can it be called ghosting? Because that means what is ghosting. How can you say ghosting now?
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I feel like at the moment, I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all. I don't want to interact at all.
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I'm a ghost. I'm a ghost. I'm a ghost. I'm a ghost. I'm a ghost. I'm a ghost. I'm a ghost.
00:18:02
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I'm not a ghost, but I don't know. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm not a subconscious. I'm
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That's some bad guy. Go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go. Sorry, Limo. Go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go
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with my partner, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn. I never really experienced it, Venn.
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three days, three to four or five days.
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I've learned sometimes it's not as simple as texting or chatting the other person if you want to talk to them apparently
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You also have to be wary on how frequent you do it and who does the first move. So that's why I made my own calculation. I'm like, should I check first? Have I been ghosted? You say nobody would make a fucking first move. I went a lot of it. I mean, I see my algorithm is full of it. So I think it happens a lot of people.
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Do you feel bad when you're ghosting?
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No. No. Should I feel bad? Should I feel bad? Should I feel bad? Should I feel bad? Should I feel bad? Should I feel bad? Should I feel bad?
00:21:43
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I was just lifting my foot into the water to test it out. Like, how is this dating upward? Blah, blah, blah. So at first, you'd be like, of course, very excited if you have matches. So you'd invest your time
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or like energy in starting the conversation, you want to sound interesting.

Social Media's Role in Modern Dating

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You know, you become invested in it somehow, especially when you're new to the scene. Oh my god. Oh my god. I am self-worth, god. So sad to admit, but that's how it was at first. Because I really didn't know how it works. Or at least I knew it by theory, but not in practice.
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So when I started to try it, I didn't have enough of some investment or conversation with going on with the person. But still, I still end up getting ghosted. So I'm like, oh, is there something wrong with me? And I'm like, I'm not interesting enough. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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So yes, that's the reason why I feel bad. I never really ghosted anyone before. Like, especially, you know, I mean, not for instance. Well, I'm not an ego ghost. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending. I'm an ending.
00:23:34
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what transpired in those. Let's call it experiment time on how that works. It's so funny. What the fuck? How do people date under these circles? How do you all find partners? This is such a godforsaken place. So I think of the dating apps sometimes.
00:24:04
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I don't feel bad or why do you think it's okay?
00:24:33
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I don't think it's okay. But I also don't know why I feel bad about it.
00:24:49
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I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.
00:25:10
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I want to make you feel... nah
00:25:28
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You know, I'm just here, but like. So usually it happens. It happens. For example, politics, no other.
00:25:58
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I'm a big deal breaker when a certain person subscribes to a certain type of politics. Or the lack thereof. Or most especially the lack thereof. I don't think so. Have you ever told a person?
00:26:25
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I think we should end this. I don't want to... The meaning of the word like now is different. So let's say this person was a good person. I don't think they're very kind, they're very independent.
00:26:54
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interesting but there wasn't let me tell me this was a girl doesn't meet coming like she was very uh she was quiet um
00:27:05
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she didn't say much really and i had to it was a podgaster moment i was with her so i was just asking about her and she was returning the questions to me and it was a nice it was a nice interaction face to face yes face to face very pandemic how do you refer to that term face to face pre-pandemic
00:27:35
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In person. In person. You have to face them. You have to face them. So it wasn't a bad experience, but it was it was one that made me an alien. You know, no, they. Well, it's not going to work out anything. Yeah. So I told her now after
00:28:04
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We would still chat, but we don't have time to interact with each other. We don't have time to chat with each other. We don't have time to chat.
00:28:20
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Yeah, the communication. Engagement, communication. Yeah. Or via chat? Via chat. So I was like, I know I don't think it's gonna, I don't think it should go in here, but I'd love to connect. I mean, I'd love to stay in touch or I know, but yeah, I just have to go, no, I know, I'm not in touch. You know what I mean?
00:28:49
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If you want to talk to someone, you can just reach out. Reach out! If you need to talk to anyone, you can always reach out to me via email. I should talk about that.
00:29:40
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Anyway, anyway, anyway, anyway, anyway, anyway
00:29:44
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I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how. I don't know how.
00:30:10
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If you have a question, I would like to ask you five sentences. The basic question is, where are you from? What are you in number for? Where are you located? How old are you? I'm just speaking a theory. You never got in depth yet, right?
00:30:41
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So when the conversation stops there, somebody asked the question and the other one did not respond anymore. That's ghosting, that's qualified, that's ghosting. Somebody asked that question and it wasn't responding. So that's a ghosting. Is that bad? Is that bad? Not really, right? Because nobody really invested like any
00:31:04
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Any more than a few minutes I think that's okay. That's like I already an indicator. Okay, it's not it's not a match It's not a book at all. So let's proceed. Let's go to that. Okay. Don't get it. Yeah But America's in manga incidents or in any nikonayo But I don't see like in a situation shape like there are three months in
00:31:32
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The talking stage, or like, I don't know, I love you, honey. Just be out of nowhere. The other person just disappears. I think that's... Like, saden. Like, saden. Like, saden. No, like, saden. Oh my god. Oh my god.
00:32:01
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Is that a bad thing? I think you always do the other person to kind of say... Is it there... I think it's a moral obligation
00:32:31
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to say nah at least nah sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry this is not gonna work out sorry
00:32:58
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When I was in a college in the Philippines, I didn't have any memory of it, so I didn't have any sense of it. But when I was in a college in the Philippines, I was on a Filipino cultural street, and I knew that I was a confrontational person. Like, when I was in the Philippines,
00:33:25
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I don't know if it's true or not, but it's not true. I think that in business, I think that there are a lot of things that I don't know. Usually, I don't know if it's true or not, but I hope that I will get a message and that they will act on it. But I'm feeling that it's a ghost thing.
00:33:50
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I don't think...
00:34:03
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I don't think this is... I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work. I don't think this is gonna work.
00:34:28
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What are you talking about? What are you talking about? What are you talking about? What are you talking about? What are you talking about? What are you talking about?
00:34:48
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I would hope Nama gets my own message and it's gonna make me feel even more bad.
00:35:13
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Oh, I know. So, I wait. Sorry, I don't know if it's a ghost or a ghost, but it's a ghost, right? It's only a friend, right? It's only a friend. Okay.
00:35:53
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What would make you ghost a person at that level? My emotional investment.
00:36:07
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How long have you been dating to the dating stage? How long have you been dating to the dating stage? I don't know. I think at a personal level, at a personal experience, I feel like a young person is not negotiable.
00:36:32
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We just have a political experience. We don't have a political experience. We don't have a political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political experience. We don't have political
00:37:00
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religious beliefs religious beliefs religious beliefs religious beliefs religious beliefs religious beliefs religious beliefs
00:37:25
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super clean you want to give it some time when you for example when you say let's you you hooked up with a person that was you guys click the button it would take some time to like
00:37:46
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really develop the relationship. But at the same time, I don't want to invest in emotions. I don't want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions. I want to invest in emotions.
00:38:16
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I'm not a ghost. I'm not a ghost for the same reasons, I think. I don't know if I'm a ghost, but I don't know. Or I don't know, like, I don't know.
00:38:33
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Feeling cool. I say I die, well. Feeling cool, I don't know. I don't know how to click. I don't know how to use it. I don't know how to make common interests. For example, animation. It's political. I don't know how to use it. I don't know how to use it. I don't know how to use it. I don't know how to use it. I don't know how to use it. I don't know how to use it. I don't know how to use it. I am none of those things.
00:39:02
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I don't know what to say. I don't know. I don't know what to say.
00:39:08
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We changed our energy. We changed our energy. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning.
00:39:34
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It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the... It was a natural dish for the...
00:39:53
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This is going to be the end of the transaction. This will be the end of the transaction. This will be the end of the transaction. This will be the end of the transaction. This will be the end of the transaction. This will be the end of the transaction. This will be the end of the transaction. This will be the end of the transaction.
00:40:18
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I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel bad about it.
00:40:43
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I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say.
00:41:02
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I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know,
00:41:31
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I don't have dating apps, I don't have any dating apps. I don't have any dating apps. I don't have dating apps. I don't have dating apps.

The Psychological Impact of Ghosting

00:41:47
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I don't have dating apps. I don't have dating apps. I don't have dating apps. I don't have dating apps. I don't have dating apps. I don't have dating apps.
00:41:56
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Now, for me, it's been a long time since I've been here for a long time. Basically, for me, it's been a feature of a mental health support feature for the users. To be honest, it's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. But I feel very well.
00:42:26
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intentioned.
00:42:46
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I don't want to say that I'm not sitting in my own house, but nothing goes away as people who have been ghosted. Because I hear that it really does take a mental toll on people, especially self-esteem, self-worth. I don't want to talk about culture anymore, because I'm a ghost,
00:43:19
Speaker
So assuming that the ghost is not a ghost, is it a ghost? Yes, not a face or something. Yes, it is. So, I don't know if it's a self-doubt or self-pity. Self-pity, I don't know. Self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity, self-pity.
00:43:45
Speaker
How should one handle it? How do you handle it? Can I say how do I handle it? Can it be also very different from how should one handle it? Exactly, exactly. That's why I'm asking two different questions. Yeah, okay. At first, when I experienced that, of course, I already knew the concept of ghosting. I mean, I knew the shit about it. But when you're there, it feels
00:44:15
Speaker
If it stings, that's the word that I usually use for it, because it doesn't mean ouch, like hurt. But my stings, I say, I am not like you, you would then think was there, was there something wrong? I said, like, what did I not, am I not interested enough for this person? Maybe, maybe, maybe he looked at or maybe they looked at my profile, like,
00:44:41
Speaker
and they saw that they didn't like this or they didn't like my picture or whatever. All of those things will go through your head. Like if I said this, if I said this in our conversation, would it have been different? Maybe I shouldn't have like chatted them like repeatedly, but kind of only then second. So me self-reflection. Oh, self-reflection. Healthy or unhealthy? I think so. It is healthy because you then review like
00:45:12
Speaker
Did I do something bad? But sometimes, because it's a self-reflection, more like you look for what went wrong, you kind of blame yourself, when you do not take it personally. Maybe you just weren't their type, and you know what? That's okay.
00:45:39
Speaker
First of all, you wouldn't want to be with somebody who doesn't like you. Okay, let's start there.
00:46:15
Speaker
it's not it's not your fault oh my goodness girl know it uh no
00:46:25
Speaker
It just wasn't a good match and that's okay, right? It might be swipe right and swipe left. There's so many fish in the sea. It will be of course difficult to find a good match, but once you do get to find one, you wouldn't even be trying too hard. You wouldn't think too hard on what to reply because the conversation goes easy.
00:46:49
Speaker
But I understand with some people, because it's very hard to interact rather than to chat or just simply with talking. I've learned now some people find it very hard to do that. Nope. And that's okay there. If there are other mediums of how to find people, I guess, but
00:47:17
Speaker
It's not just all unlikely thing. But the point is, there's nothing wrong with you. Okay. That's okay. If they go stinky. Do not blame. Do not question your self worth because
00:47:53
Speaker
We don't even know if that's all real too, right? Like social media is a fucking illusion.
00:48:01
Speaker
Also, I've learned with matches, if it's not a good match, how could you tell if you're trying too hard? You don't know what the answer is next. If that's not happening, it's not happening. And that's okay. That's okay.
00:48:33
Speaker
It's not my loss. There is no loss here. That's it. So, yeah. You showed me. I don't know if I'm a ghost or not. I don't know if I'm a ghost or not. I don't know if I'm a ghost.
00:48:58
Speaker
It hurts, but it didn't hurt. It hurts because I'm not even worth the bother of them telling me that it's not going to work anymore. I'm not going to work anymore. I'm not going to work anymore. I'm not going to work anymore. I'm not going to work anymore. I'm not going to work anymore. I'm not going to work anymore. I'm not going to work anymore.
00:49:30
Speaker
We should consider that the other party does not have, for example, the
00:49:51
Speaker
emotional in the EQ emotional quotient needed to confront the situation. Yeah.

Is Anything Truly Lost in Ghosting?

00:50:12
Speaker
Yeah, it's sometimes, you know, if it's not a good match, it's not a good match. We should learn how to practice the art of letting go. Letting go. It doesn't work. It doesn't work.
00:50:39
Speaker
And it's okay to feel sad about it, right? But usually it's a bit, what we mourn about, what we grieve about, what was lost. Did that really lose anything? Because usually it's not gonna stay just maritime plants too. I mean, not plants, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
00:51:05
Speaker
Imagination ship. I don't know why. I'm not a Marcos administration. Sometimes you know more than that. We planned this. I was thinking about you were already having this plan in your head or like you were already visualizing it in your head and that's okay. Of course we all do that.
00:51:34
Speaker
And it hurts when you're like, oh, you beat up the face. And that's sad. That's okay. But again, do not take that as... Because it's not your fault. It's not your fault. It's not your fault. It's not your fault. It's a bullet dodge.
00:52:04
Speaker
Oh my god, it's not that bad, right?
00:52:18
Speaker
Ok, today we're going to do a training episode. I don't know what to talk about, but I'm going to talk about it. Today we're going to do a video about what we're going to do. We're going to do social media. We're going to do an email. We're going to do an email. We're going to do an email. We're going to do an email. We're going to do an email.
00:52:50
Speaker
I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it.
00:53:17
Speaker
I don't know if this was the question that you intended to ask. This is a different one although similar.
00:53:34
Speaker
I'm not a ghost, that's it. I don't want to die from the dead. Yes, I don't want to die. I don't want to die from the dead. I don't want to die from the dead. I don't want to die from the dead. I don't want to die from the dead. I don't want to die from the dead.
00:53:56
Speaker
Oh, and then it was, that's when she wasn't going to match it. That's when she wasn't going to match it. That's when she wasn't going to match it. That's when she wasn't going to match it. That's when she wasn't going to match it. That's when she wasn't going to match it. That's when she wasn't going to match it.
00:54:20
Speaker
I don't know, I don't know what it is, but it's a good essay for 300 words. It's a nice new roman. It's a nice new roman to me. Anyways, it's a long episode, but I don't know how long it's been since I've watched it. It's been a long time since I've watched it. It's been a long time since I've watched it, after I've watched it.

Season 2 Wrap-Up and Listener Engagement

00:54:56
Speaker
It's so glad to be back, you guys. We will not ghost you again, we promise you that. We are back for season 2 and we are looking forward to
00:55:20
Speaker
having you guys around and having you have us around. We still get a few messages here and there telling us that they're listening to our podcast. What are you saying to our listeners?
00:55:40
Speaker
We don't really know sometimes why we're doing this, but after I was trying to, you know, after the mama said just, you know, we kind of like, oh my God. So please reach out if you want to, you know, if you have any comments, any suggestions or just, um, you know, let us know that you're listening. Yeah.
00:56:07
Speaker
Yeah, I think it's a good thing that we're in the process of, like, sorting shit in our lives. We always are. We continuously are.
00:56:30
Speaker
I don't want to go on an excuse, but I usually... I don't want to go on an excuse. I don't want to go on an excuse. I don't want to go on an excuse. I don't want to go on an excuse. I don't want to go on an excuse. I don't want to go on an excuse. I don't want to go on an excuse.
00:56:58
Speaker
At the same time, I have a lot of comments, you know? Questions? Do you have any questions? Oh, yeah, please feel free to comment in our posts. DM us. And then slide into our DMs. And Instagram, and Twitter, which is now called X. And I'm so confused. Do I call it X? We're also in Facebook. You can reach us both in our
00:57:25
Speaker
a person on social media accounts y'all can follow dariel at something i don't know my social media he's there just reach out to him and to me too so yeah
00:57:45
Speaker
I don't know. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it.
00:58:12
Speaker
Is this thing on?