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From Gold Cards to Red Flags: Wealth, Privilege & Dating Gone Wrong
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Dive into this episode of "Unsolicited Perspectives" with Bruce Anthony and Jay Aundrea as they serve up spicy takes on modern dating, the wild world of "golden visas," and the real difference between being rich and being wealthy. From hilarious dream-fueled show ideas to jaw-dropping dating stories (including a guy who sent an Excel invoice for dates!), this episode is packed with relatable moments, sharp social commentary, and laugh-out-loud banter.
We break down why Americans are chasing golden visas, what it really means to have privilege, and how the 1% buy their freedom. Plus, we get real about relationship expectations, money talk, and the pitfalls of moving too fast in love. Whether you're here for the tea, the laughs, or the life lessons, this episode has something for everyone who loves unfiltered conversations about the world we live in. #moderndating #goldenvisa #WealthVsRich #Privilege #unsolicitedperspectives
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00:00 Welcome to Unsolicited Perspectives 🎙️🔥💥
00:47 Sibling Happy Hour: Spicy Takes & Drinks 🍹🌶️
01:44 Late Night Show Prep Dreams Gone Wild! 💭🌙😅
02:40 HUGE NEWS: We're Going Premium! Join The Family! 🚀💫💰
10:33 Modern Day Scammers: The Wild Dream Idea! 🎭💸😱
12:32 What If: Modern Civil War State Picks! 🗺️⚔️🤔
21:22 Golden Visas: The Great American Escape Plan! 🌎✈️💳
30:30 Wealth vs. Riches : Why Generational Money Hits Different! 💸🏦🔥
32:48 Amazon Prime: The Dopamine Hit You Can't Resist! 📦🛒✨
33:53 Golden Visas & VIP Privilege: How the 1% Buy Their Freedom! 🌍💳🚪
41:21 SHOCKING Dating Story: He Did What With Excel?! 📊😱🚩
52:10 Dating in 2025: Expectations vs Reality Check! 💑💔💯
55:38 Too Fast Too Furious: The Dating Speed Trap! ⚡️💨⚠️
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Podcast Introduction & Overview
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gold visas, buying your way in the countries, and also paying for dates and asking for money back, we gonna get into it. Let's get it!
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Welcome. First of all, welcome. This is Unsolicited Perspectives. I'm your host, Bruce Anthony, here to lead the conversation in important events, the topics that are shaping today's society. please Join the conversation or follow us wherever you get your audio podcast. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for our video podcast and YouTube exclusive content.
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Rate, review, like, comment, share. Share with your friends, share with your family, hell, even share with your enemies.
Sibling Happy Hour & Crazy Stories
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On today's episode, it's the sibling happy hour.
00:00:50
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I'm here with my sis, Jay Andrea. We're going to be dilly-dadding a little bit, and then we're going to be talking about gold visas, not Trumps. And then we're going to do an Am I Overreacting? And this story is crazy.
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But that's enough of the intro. Let's get to the show.
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What up, sis?
Dreams & Podcast Preparations
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What up, brother? I can't call it. I can't call it. I got a bunch of stuff to get into during this dilly-dally because I had some crazy dreams and thought that they would be good content.
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The dreams were I was dreaming okay that I was preparing for the show coming up with ideas. That's right, ladies and gentlemen. It has now gotten to the point where I am now dreaming about preparation for the show.
00:01:43
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That's pretty bad. It is. So I came up with some ideas and topics to talk about on the show. and i And I woke up in the middle of the night and i was like I got to remember these. I got to remember them. So that next morning, I did remind remember them.
00:01:56
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I wrote them down. yeah And then a couple of hours later, I was like, these are some dumbass topics. Yeah, I don't know why. it i don't know anybody who ever had an actual good idea come from a dream.
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It's like you wake up and you're so frantic, like, no, this is absolutely amazing. I don't know why i didn't think this before. And then you look at it later you're like, that wasn't the hell. Yeah. that's What the hell, Yontay?
Monetization & Membership Tiers
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But I do have an announcement and I wrote a press release. We ain't got no press, but I wrote a press release. So ladies and gentlemen, I'm going to read this announcement to you guys, because this is a big deal.
00:02:36
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Jay, you haven't even heard about this. So this is a big deal. No. Okay. okay Hey fam, Bruce here, you know. Bruce Anthony, a host of Unsolicited Perspectives. First, I want to say thank you because of you, Unsolicited Perspective is officially monetized on YouTube.
00:02:53
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That's right. We are running ads. I can't stress enough. Watch those ads, please. But... If you ever wanted to support the podcast and get even more juicy content, tea spills and laughs, you can now become a made member and join the unsolicited family.
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For $2.99 a month, you can join the prospective Posse membership. You get loyalty badges, custom emojis, members only community posts, access to our discord and behind the scenes goodies from the main show.
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I bet you're asking what is Discord? Discord is a communication platform to let us and you interact through text, voice, and video chat. Thank you for having, think of it as having our phone number and being able to hit us up, send us memes, send us show ideas, or just spill the tea.
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You know we messy, so you know we want all that. It's for you to be able to have access to us, kinda. Like you have access to us. scientists right But it's like, what's up app? You know, you can, you can text us. You can send us memes.
00:03:56
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but app What's app? What's up app? What's up? What's up? What's up? You know what, let me finish with this press release. ah Okay, go ahead. I'm sorry, that was adorable.
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All right. So that's the that's the unsolicited posse for just $2.99. If you want early access to episodes and our raw uncensored takes, then level up to our inner circle at $4.99 a month, where you can get everything from prospective posse, plus you get after hours uncensored.
00:04:28
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That was typically on our Patreon. We're still going have it on Patreon, but we're going add it to YouTube. An extra behind the scenes from our after hours. Now, if you think the behind the scenes from our main show is funky, the after hours is funcier. You have idea.
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Okay? yeah Now, if you're really about the tea, gossip, and even a Sunday
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fun day life, then there's the VIP. That's for you.
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It's $9.99 a month. You get everything from the other memberships, plus live streams with me and maybe my sister sometime down the road when she's done with school, but mainly just me.
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Yeah, yeah, mainly just me. You get Q&A sessions, exclusive polls, and a weekly 10 to 15 minute clip of unsolicited perspectives messy. That's where I spill the tea with no filter.
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All the stuff that y'all really want. Like, my sister knows how messy I am. I got stories for days and stuff going on. You get that in the VIP membership. So if you're ready to laugh louder, sip deeper, and be a part of the dopest community on the and internet, hit that join button on the YouTube page and become part of the family.
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Your support keeps this podcast going and growing, and I appreciate every one of y'all. for helping us grow this. So we're doing the membership program. You get more access. It's more work for me, but it's more work for me that I actually enjoy because I actually get to yeah like interact with y'all, you know, more way deeper than y'all DMing me and maybe I get to it, maybe I don't.
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Right. that's actually That's really exciting because, ah you know, you could come
Golden Visas: Seeking Opportunities Abroad
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in. Hey, you want to come in? Just perspective posse. We should probably workshop that. Difficult to say.
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hip di dids Did you? See how many times I stumbled over that? Now, my friend who says I always stumble over words, she's like, you should edit that out. I'm like, no, no, no. That's really me. I'm not going lie at all.
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Perspective posse. are very up front. Really tough. ah about your speech impediment is there, and but you know what? Ain't no shame in that. Ain't no shame in my game. a love ah But perspective posse is even difficult for me to say. So I- The PP crew.
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No, that's even worse. And I think you know that. But yeah, you could come in at at that tier, see what it's all about. You're gonna love it.
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And then you're gonna wanna upgrade and get more and more content. And it's dope because you get to see us. You know, this is actually us filtered, y'all. yes yeah Yeah. This is a... We curse way more. And we are way messier. Right. So some people have seen the After Hours, have watched the After Hours, so they know.
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But there's some stuff that we say on the After Hours, it's like, i can't put that out. I can't that out. But since y'all gonna be extra paying for it, we're gonna go ahead yeah and and leave that in. I'm well here.
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And ah for a couple of the episodes, I was doing the behind the scenes. I did it for probably about five weeks to give people a take a taste test. But yeah ah we've actually been recording now and running for a good five minutes before we actually start the show show. yes And yeah it's been in preparation for these behind the scenes. So y'all are going to get everything that we go through producing, everything that I go through producing this show.
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Yeah. and how my sister just come on in. and when When I tell you bare minimum,
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guys. That's the crazy thing. She comes in. Bare minimum.
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And I purposely, I know it's going to be bare minimum. So I make things really easy for her. I produce the hell out of her because she's the yeah star of the show. almost cussed. She the star the show. She's the main reason why y'all are really, really coming here. Because every clip on social media, people are like, that was funny. I know. My sister's hilarious. Why you think I asked her to be on the show with me?
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yeah and so but So if y'all want to see even more of that, more of that, and you know you do, come on, subscribe, become, you know, become prospective posse, get in that inner circle, be a VIP and get more of us.
00:08:56
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Right. And don't worry, ladies and gentlemen, when you go on the YouTube page
Am I Overreacting? Dating Expenses Debate
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at when this airs on Friday, it'll be all set up. When you go on a YouTube page, it'll have everything down there and explain it for you. So yes it'll be very simple. You don't have to remember exactly what I said. I surprised my sister remembered the three tears.
00:09:15
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I'm really surprised that she did. She's really good at listening. Yeah, she's really good at listening. That's what's going on. paying attention yeah to you talking literally in front of me. Yeah, but the live streams, I think, you know, you do the VIP.
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The live stream is going to be to start off
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30 minutes of my Sunday fun day. And not just me sitting on the couch, like me prepping my my brunch, you know, me doing my singing and dancing. It's a whole vibe. And y'all can chat with me while I'm doing it. That's the thing. yeah It's a live stream that y'all can interact with me.
00:09:52
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If y'all say, Bruce, what you cooking? I'm like, okay, I might turn it into a cooking show. I mean, I cook the same thing every Sunday, but if people start requesting, hey, why don't you make this? I might do it. You know, I ain't no Anthony Bourdain. have to know.
00:10:04
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Shoot your shot. Right. Shoot your shot. So that's what's going on. But that's enough of that. and Can I tell you about the ideas that I had for the stupid ideas? Yeah, because I don't know why you thought dream ideas would actually be good.
00:10:21
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Okay, so I'm sure you guys can hear the thundering from my sister. ah Yes, yes. I've got thunder over here. Hopefully it didn't come out too badly in the recording. So, okay. okay The first part, it just had scammers.
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that ah That was the idea, scammers. What does that mean? What does that mean? I think... ah Do you want to be one? Do you want to interview one? No. are we talking about? I think it was... Scammers and how often are you trying to be scammed? Like scammers are trying to scam you either through calls or were you out on the street?
00:10:58
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You know, somebody like, hey, yeah and I really need to eat. Like just scammers in general. Obviously, this was a dumb idea. Somebody needing to eat? ah Well, hey, look, I told you about that scam, about that woman that said, hey, can you help me feed my child?
00:11:12
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And then I took her to a hamburger place. I took her to a pizza place. And then we ended up at Legal Seafood. And she got the ah lobster roll that was off market. It was market price.
00:11:23
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I ended end up spending $50 for her and her little nappy-headed kid. No, that's not right. Yeah. Let me take that back. But why did you go to three different places?
00:11:36
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She was like, oh, I told this story before, but she was like, oh, he had hamburgers yesterday. i was like, oh, OK. ok they yeah Oh, he he's lactose intolerant. I was like, well, so am I. But I still love pizza. And I said it, too. i was like, it's a hamburger place.
00:11:51
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No, that won't work. I was like, well, everybody loves pizza. It's a pizza place right here. No, that won't work either. She kept giving me some excuses. And then I was like, okay, so where where would he like to eat? How about legal seafood?
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i was like, all right. No, no. That sound like a scam. was a scam because it was supposed to be just buying her son food. And then when I get there, she's like, can I get something? And I was like, yeah, sure. Absolutely not.
00:12:17
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It sounds like a thriller night over here. It does. so ah yeah It does? all right. So that was the first topic, scammers. Stupid. This one, I think, was interesting. I just don't know how we could stretch it out to a segment.
00:12:31
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Okay. You know how the Civil War was between the North and the South? Yes. Okay. So I was thinking if there was a Civil War now, it wouldn't be North and South because there are some Southern states that are blue and there are some Northern states that are red. So it wouldn't just be North and South.
00:12:51
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So you would have to pick your state, right? Like what state do you want to roll with based on the people that live there that you think will be able to handle themselves
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in a fight?
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I mean, in New York. I mean, obviously New York, but really only New York City. I know people from upstate New York gonna get mad at me. don't care what you say. New York City's, okay? D.C. and Philly, but you know what?
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I kind of want Atlanta too. So that means I got to take Georgia. Yeah. Georgia's red. Like, and like don't let nobody don't let nobody fool you. Atlanta is blue.
00:13:28
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Georgia is red. Okay, like don' but I want Montgomery, Alabama, mar so solely because of the brawl. Just those couple dudes in Montgomery.
00:13:40
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They might be able to fight the whole state. Well, no. You give a good folding chair. No, that folding chair didn't work on that dude. Remember, he hit that dude with the folding chair.
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But he didn't give up. He hit he didn't give up. But he did the dude didn't go down either. The dude did not go down. It was one of them WWE chairs that don't really dispose the break. he had to He had to really hit them with it, but he didn't give up. And that's really the resilience of Black people.
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But you know, and that's different you got cities in different states that you know, okay, you got Chicago. We got to have, we got to take Illinois because that's all Chicago. Like you get Chicago. So that's what I'm saying. Like I was thinking- I don't think you could do that. You got to go.
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You got to take the state as a whole. And I don't think there's enough blue to carry a state like Georgia. as just don't. I mean, remember Marjorie Taylor Greene is coming out of here.
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Okay. She coming out of here. But in 2020, they did. So it just flipped back in 2024. So it's it's purple. Arizona, they be capping.
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So that goes purple. New Mexico. i mean It's too hot. Once you get to like the Southwest, we don't really... You know, that's what too much like enslavement. We don't really good do much in the heat.
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That don't do nothing but piss us off. Do you want do we want to adopt you know Montana? Because they got them gunslingers out there. They got them cowboys. I kind of want them our side. That's true. That's true. That's what talking about. When you're going to choose a state to be on your side for your civil war. You got to really, really think of about it. Who we know is not on our side?
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Well, Montana would be one. No, Florida. That's the first state that comes to mind. And I know going say, Miami. No. No, Miami is red. well Miami yeah i mean that was red. Miami, Miami-Dade County is red now.
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Yeah. Yes. Yes. There are a lot of conservative people. and Florida is the number. Maybe not no more. Definitely. Maybe not no more with alligator Alcatraz. Some of the people, there's lot of people down there, Venezuelans and the the cuban Cubans that voted for Trump. There's just like, we, you know, this is not what we expected.
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and We don't know how we told you, but. Yeah, we tried to tell you. Why did you think they would only come for some of you? That don't make no damn sense. How do they know the difference? And guess what? They also don't care.
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they yeah They don't care. They don't care. They don't care. So if I don't know what you were thinking. That they would just be able to tell who's documented, who's not documented, they don't care. They don't care. They don't care. They're Senate people with protected status.
00:16:33
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They're deporting people who have protected status. They don't care. They don't care. Please. They trying to take away birthright citizenship. Yeah, birthright citizenship. They don't take away birthright.
00:16:45
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Yeah, like what? Y'all thought y'all would... Yeah, well. We tried to tell you. But back on the States, okay, so that was, it was a dilly dally.
00:16:56
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It was a dilly dally. Because you got to really think about it. It's like, mm. You do. You do. But usually ideas from dreams be like, T-shirt. for the bottom, your legs go in the sleeves. And you'd just be like, that's just pants, you know? Or shorts.
00:17:13
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that That would be or shorts. shorts. Yeah. You know, like it's not, that's not a good idea. but in if at the time you were like, I have to jot this down.
00:17:24
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I didn't even jot it down. I just said, make a mental note, remember, which is stupid. My phone was right there. could have just woke up. but you i didn't It was the middle of the night, and I didn't want the light of the phone to wake me up where I wasn't going to be able to go back to sleep because it was nice and toasty in the bed. I was playing with my feet. Not playing with my feet, but, you know, rubbing my feet together, being happy. Yeah, you rub your feet together and be happy. Yeah, yeah that's a classic symbol of happiness. yeah Yes, yes, yes. That's what I was.
00:17:49
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ah ah But ladies and gentlemen, that is it for Daily Dallin'. It was crazy, in my dreams, and I realized when I got in the shower, that those ideas for the show were stupid.
00:18:02
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Yeah, I don't know. don't know, but the Civil War thing is very interesting because it's like, can you go state by state? No. or do you have to go county by county, tear like city by city? Like, how do you even, is it just a free-for-all in the streets? Like, how do you even make that work? I don't know. I don't i don't know.
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Let's be honest. I think it's the government against the people, honestly. Yeah. Well, that's what I don't get me started on what ICE is becoming. But let's be honest. Larger than a lot of countries, militaries.
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um There's no way for us to have a civil war like we did before, where it was a North versus South. Yeah. What would happen is if something like a civil war was to happen, and I truly don't believe something like that would happen again.
00:18:52
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But if it was happen, each state would have their own civil war. Because there is no state that's completely all one thing. There isn't. Yeah. that This will sound weird to say, but it's true. There's not enough togetherness.
00:19:09
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To have the civil war that we did have. or So you think like, how is has their togetherness with it? But no, like states came together and said, we all going to do this thing.
00:19:21
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You know, so money we don't have the money behind each state. Well, it's always the money. It was a lot so less people in yeah and the than it is right now. Yeah, it's always the money. But like having that being able to have that kind of coalition or coalescence around an ideal, like
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I don't think states or, you know, local government things like that could do that now.
00:19:47
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I just think there's too much infighting and things like that for them to actually come together and say, no, we're going to seed from the like, I just don't see that happening because there's not enough togetherness.
00:19:58
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Well, i tell how... not enough common ground to be civilly disrupted. I tell you where there could be. Mm-hmm. And it's because there's an exodus of some Americans out of this country. And I'm not talking about deported ones.
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And we're going to talk about that next.
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Jay. Jay. Yes. Americans are leaving. And it's not just me just saying this.
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There was a Newsweek article. Newsweek article. The title of the Newsweek article was
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Map Shows Countries Offering Americans Golden Visas. It's story by Julia Carbonario.
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Carbonario. yeah Carbonario. At least I got Julia right. Carbonario. That's what I It's probably Julia Carbonero, but that's okay.
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not Well, okay. All right. Anywho. So the article discusses the growing trend of Americans seeking golden visas, residency or citizenship by investing programs offered by various countries.
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These programs allow individuals to obtain legal residency and sometimes citizenship in exchange for significant financial investment, typically in real estate. government bonds or business ventures.
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The article highlights the country's most popular among Americans for these programs and explains the motivation and benefits behind the global mobility trend. Now, we talked a couple of weeks ago about Trump's golden The little Trump card. Yeah. Where people can buy the citizenship.
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This is yeah actually not a new thing. So Trump's idea now is not a new thing. It's not even a new thing in this country. The way he's going about it is a little bit different. But yes and we don't know where that money is going.
00:22:06
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But other countries have this. the main thing. Right. ah But other countries have this. So what are the golden visas? Residency or citizenship is granted in exchange for investment.
00:22:17
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Investment options often include the real estate, government bonds or business ventures. Programs are designed to attract foreign capital and stimulate local economies. So why are Americans interested interested in this? Well, it's pretty easy. ah The desire for global mobility and visa-free travel, especially within the EU,
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access to high quality health care, education, and stable environment, economic diversification and investment opportunities abroad, option for plan B in times of political or economic uncertainty.
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So basically, a lot of people, a lot of people saw Trump get elected and said they're getting the hell out of town. We know people personally that are actively planning to get the hell out of the country.
00:23:06
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Yeah, like literally has have several avenues that they can take. Honestly, just trying to find the one they want the most.
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Like, yeah, i ah if I had the the scratch, if I had the coins, okay, I would give me a golden ticket.
00:23:29
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It's a golden visa. There ain't golden ticket. This ain't Willy Wonka and the Choco Factor. i Give me a golden ticket to escape this hellscape. You are right. If I had... Listen.
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Don't let me be somebody with some money.
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i Where are people going? Where are they going? all right so Some of these popular countries offering these golden visas to America is Portugal. Real estate investment starting at 250,000 euros is a pathway to citizenship and after five years.
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Greece, okay real estate investment also of 250,000 euros. Residency with a visa-free travel. Spain, real estate investment of 500,000 euros.
00:24:18
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Residency and is that Scarscatchewan? Access. look Listen, what? I don't know. Italy, and invest two hundred that is ok italy and in ah an investment of $250,000 for residency.
00:24:34
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Malta, investment and donation options path to citizenship. Cyprus, real estate or business investment of 300,000 euros. The UAB, and this is surprising a lot of ah lot of folks, the UAB, real estate or business investments for long-term residency.
00:24:54
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And Caribbean nations like Antigua, Barbuda, some other stuff. you that What the? First of all,
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Look, this has been a really long day because I'm taking tomorrow off to go see Superman. I am really tired. Okay. Okay. I am really tired. So it is it is the Schengen era area. Sorry. Schengen area. And it's a group of 29 European countries that have eliminated border controls at their mutual borders. So they allow free movement of people, goods, and services.
00:25:29
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Okay, that's cool. Well, the Caribbean nations offer a lower investment thresholds and quicker pathways to citizenship and visa-free travel. So... You know, that's good. So there's a lot of key benefits, residency rights for, you know, people that want to put that money in.
00:25:44
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Visa-free travel. I've explained that before. This is a key thing. Access to health care, education, and business opportunities, which is crazy because we're supposed to be the land of you could come here broke and work your way hard and become rich.
00:26:01
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I'm going to just say yeah that's been a lot because I know a lot of people that come from generations of working real hard. Two, yeah three jobs. yeah Don't become rich.
00:26:13
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Don't ever get out of poverty. And they work hard. now So that's it's yeah luck in this country. It's really luck. But the access to health care and education, we're the richest, well, supposed to the richest country in the world.
00:26:25
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And, you know, we don't have that. There's tax advantages and asset protection. i mean, if you've got that bread and you want to protect that bread. and So, yeah, you know, so that's that's what it is.
00:26:39
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And it's is a growing thing because people, you know, don't know what the hell this world is going to be in the next three years. We ain't got no idea, but just so y'all know, don't get too excited.
00:26:52
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Okay. Because the Euro is worth 17 cents more than our dollars. So when it says 200,000, you That ain't that bad. No, it is that bad because it's about $293,000.
00:27:03
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So you more USD. that bad because it's about two hundred and ninety three thousand dollars so is you pay a more usd All right, but timeout. If you got that $250,000 just to spend, that extra $43,000 ain't going to hurt you.
00:27:21
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No. You know what saying? Unless you've been scratching and surviving to get that $250,000. If you were scratching me and surviving the get and you were sitting on $250,000, you better play the stock market, invest something. You better put that parlay, better parlay of something. You need to work that investment.
00:27:40
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You need to get you a brick. No, no. Flip that. No. With $250,000, you can get you a lot of bricks. No, take a piece. You get you.
00:27:51
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Flip that. Get you two more. No, let's All right, stop talking. Stop. Because YouTube going to kick us off the air. Oh, I forgot. I forgot. Monetization. Yeah, YouTube going to kick us off the air. We can't talk about that.
00:28:05
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This is jokes. Jokes. Just a joke. So what do you think about, you know, people getting up the hell up out of here and these golden visas? Because we harped on Trump with his gold card.
00:28:16
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And it's a little bit different, but really the same thing. this This benefits the wealthy. It benefits the people that got bread. It don't benefit Joe Schmo and Jane Schmo.
00:28:28
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Yeah, I mean, our EB-5 visa program, which is essentially our same version of that, even though it's a lot more expensive and you have to do a lot more, like you have to create jobs and things like that. But,
00:28:46
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oh I lost my train of thought. ADHD. ADHD. What did you just say? And then will remember what said. benefits the wealthy.
00:28:57
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Yes. So so that same EB five program, Trump's gold card, gold visas, blah, blah. This is all just easy making it easier for rich people to move around. Like that's all that that is. ah You know, the rest of us.
00:29:12
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Hey, we got let me see. You've got a Cartagena. Okay, that's nice. That's real nice down there. You got Tulum, Mexico. There's places we can go when you ain't got the bread to, you know, get into these these exclusive visa programs. But this is just this, the Trump gold card, all these things. It's just a way rich people getting together and deciding how could we best move around when without having to answer any questions. That's what it is.
00:29:42
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Right. So this is... This is all that is. um So, I mean... And a way to hide their assets. What's another way that I can hide my assets so I don't have to pay taxes? Look, there's a reason why rich people are rich. They know how to keep their money.
00:30:01
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Yeah. there's a I tell people all the time, there's a difference between being rich and wealthy. There's a complete difference. There's a lot of people out there that's rich. There's not a lot of people that's out there that's wealthy.
00:30:11
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And people are like, what's the difference? The difference is having a lot of money versus having your money work for you. There's just a difference.
00:30:23
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Yeah, there's just a difference. I always think of it as you're rich, you could lose that. well You still can lose your wealth. It takes you. can You could lose. ah Sums of money that people have never seen in their lives.
00:30:37
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Like Musk. And still be like. Yeah, and still be out here like he is. Right. still Still be the richest man in the world.
00:30:48
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So it's not, it it does he his stock goes down, but comes up, goes down. He don't care. He's the richest man in the doesn't care. So wealth, you're not losing that. Rich, rich, you could be up.
00:31:01
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And then next thing you know, you're down and that's it. You out. Wealth is generational. Yes. Yes. Wealth is is enduring. yeah you know Rich is, maybe you are, maybe you aren't. Rich is baseball, NFL, NBA players.
00:31:19
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They're rich. The owners are wealthy. so big I don't care if they sign a $400 million. You got baseball players that sign for $500, $600 million dollars over 10 years.
00:31:32
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yeah that you know That's good. and that's It's real good. i would love to have something like that. The person paying that. yeah Yeah. The person signing the check. Yeah, they're paying several people. Like, yeah, that's all good. You know, look, let me tell you something. If $2.50 is missing from my account.
00:31:52
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listen I'm looking high and low. But when I tell you, i'm looking high and low for that $2.50. I'd be like, nah, know I had $47.85 here.
00:32:05
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So why the hell do I say $2.50? Because you know I don't know the math. $2.50 say less than that. Oh, you know what I did? Go to the vending machine. OK, OK, I can account for it. I can account for it.
00:32:20
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But no, I'm looking. i'm I'm looking. My paycheck dropped on Friday. Yeah, it dropped on yeah Friday. And i was like, OK, good, because I know what my paycheck is. So I was like, OK, good. I'm good.
00:32:32
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And I go to my account. Why is it less in the account than in my paycheck? Why? And so I'm going through the charges. And i was like, oh, yeah, I did that. Because I knew my paycheck was coming.
00:32:45
Speaker
So you spent it you spin it early. They had the pre, because you know last week was my birthday, so i you know I did some things, and then they had a pre yeah Amazon day deals. And now these Amazon day deals, you got to see some per you are you should already see some stuff in the cart, because I'm like, look, let me go ahead and hop on this.
00:33:04
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Y'all about to give me a big old case of Celsius. That's my golden ticket. Amazon Prime Day deals. Prime Day deals. And I know y'all are like, well, we got Jeff Bezos. Listen, I hear you. yeah And I am your sister in the struggle.
00:33:24
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Mm-hmm. But I don't want to go out to buy things. I want them to deliver it to my home that I don't leave.
00:33:36
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and So until y'all can come up with a way for me to have that in the same at the same level at which I'm getting it right now, then I really don't know what to tell But you know what?
00:33:53
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Speaking of these ah golden visas and those people having privilege, we also have a privilege that not everybody gets to share.
00:34:05
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Right. Then there's a couple of different ones. One, we have an hands Amazon account. Yeah. okay OK. One, we're able to order stuff off of Amazon and we don't have to go to brick and mortar.
00:34:15
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Two, we actually live in an area where we can get things the same day that we order them off of Amazon. Like that is an option. You can wake up in the morning. and order something and it's there by 10 p.m. that very same day, right? Sometimes, depending on what time, you get it before 5. Right.
00:34:33
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ah Or the very next day at the latest, two days unless it's something real funky and then you got to wait a couple of more days, but that's because it's probably coming from overseas. And listen, when I can't get that same day shipping, your girl get an attitude. I got to wait till tomorrow to have this thing I want right now for some reason.
00:34:54
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But you can live in certain rural areas and you might as well forget forget it. yeah Two days don't even count for you because they don't have the distribution centers that's even close enough to get it to you two days.
00:35:05
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So there is a privilege and we have to acknowledge the fact that we have a privilege. And yes yes, for those people that have a privilege, they are supposed to stand up for the rights for the people that don't have the privilege.
00:35:16
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And I hear you. I'm normally for any struggle except for yes Amazon and Popeye's chicken. Like, I'm not going to turn my back on neither one of them.
00:35:27
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OK? I'll turn my back on a lot of things. But not Amazon and Popeye's chicken. Because I haven't had What? I wish that wasn't... thing?
00:35:40
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I wish that wasn't one of your choices. Like, I wish that wasn't one of the the things that you could not get Have you had Popeye's chicken? Yeah, of course I've had Popeye's chicken.
00:35:51
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I'm an American. he said But I... But I...
00:35:56
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but not but i I just don't want that to be the hill you die on. I don't want Popeye's chicken to be the thing that you're like, I will turn my back on the struggle.
00:36:12
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rate KFC, Raisin Kings. Juicy fried chicken. Like, I really don't want that for you. Yeah. Hey, look, the optics are not good.
00:36:22
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It's not great. No, it's not real, real bad. It's really bad. And I get it. Yeah. Yeah. I don't care. I love Popeye's chicken.
00:36:37
Speaker
That is my guilty pleasure. I'm on husband's chicken. I'm sorry. And then some stuff I already wasn't doing. Like, I already wasn't going to Target because every time I go into Target, I spend $150. So I just didn't go. And so when the boycott came, I was like, yeah, yeah, we not going. i wasn't ain't gone in like two years before that boycott even happened. So I was like, I'll just keep doing what I've been doing.
00:37:02
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Well, you weren't going because of Amazon. But you know where you can also spend $150 real quick? Amazon. Where it? amazon is it Yeah, very quickly. um But for some reason, I don't know, I feel better about it.
00:37:14
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Cause it's just like, it's just like, you know, it's just one click and I got the thing and then, and then the box comes it's like a present and it's a nice, yeah, you get, yeah I think you get like a ah dopamine rush unboxing and stuff. yeah Yeah. So no, I still see, even though I love,
00:37:36
Speaker
running errands and coming home with my bags and like going through and like, what'd I get from the grocery store? And oh, I got me some noodles, you know, I got couple of boxes of tissues. I don't know, anything. But I just, i'm like I like that because I do get dopamine rush from that.
00:37:52
Speaker
So I hear everything you're saying about the packages being arriving because whoo, when I get that notification, there's a package, can't wait to go downstairs and go get my package.
00:38:02
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However, leaving Target with all the bags, that's regret and guilt. Because I'm like, I went in here for one thing and I came out of here broke.
00:38:16
Speaker
And I had $2,700 in my account and now yeah i got twenty five cent why they had a tv on sale head up But look at all my goodies. Like, I don't think you get like, but I also get things.
00:38:35
Speaker
But it's not the unboxing. Amazon put in the box. You got to open up the box. It's almost like Christmas. Yeah. And maybe and maybe when these people get these golden visas, it's like the same thing.
00:38:48
Speaker
See how tie them all back together? No, literally they're just paying so that they don't get held up at customs somewhere or they did they just came up with this idea.
00:39:00
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How can we make it so other people can't do it? Only we can do it. How can we make it easier for us to move around no questions asked? That's all this is guys. Like this really all this is that the entire world operates on just money. And if you have enough of it, do whatever you want. And that's, we see the evidence of that every day.
00:39:25
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Well, you know who also isn't paying?
00:39:33
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Women on these damn dates. And we're going to get into Am I overreacting? Next. oh but like way before Before we get into it because I know people listening to that about to say, Bruce, what the hell are you talking about?
00:39:48
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Look, it was a segue. I didn't really mean it the way it came off. Just listen to the next segment and you'll get it. OK, that's all I got to say.
00:40:03
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Jay, went on my favorite social media site and I found an Am I Overreacting? you Y'all know how much I love Am I Overreacting? Am I a jerk? I'm messy. yeah People are telling me their stories.
00:40:16
Speaker
I'm stuck. i'm I'm addicted to it. This one... yeah This one, though, and we've had some crazy ones, like dudes giving their partners STDs and not saying nothing.
00:40:28
Speaker
You know, we've had some crazy ones. Fathers cussing daughters out. This isn't that bad as far as being harsh towards another person.
00:40:39
Speaker
It's just crazy. In my mind. Okay. All right. so I haven't heard it. I'm i'm ready. out let's see lets so What happened? So am I overreacting?
00:40:49
Speaker
Hi, everyone. I'm a female that's 23 years old. I've been dating this guy. 32 years old, for a little over a month now. He was very persistent in pursuing me, consistently texting me, making plans, asking me to go on runs and bike rides and beach days.
00:41:05
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We live in Florida and inviting me to dinners and bars and even paying for Ubers to and from his place. We were hanging out at least four times a week. Everything felt like it was going somewhere.
00:41:17
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He'd been slowly building things up and even waited weeks to finally kiss me. Then out of nowhere, he sends me a little Excel spreadsheet with a breakdown of dates and how much he spent and a column with my name asking me to reimburse him.
00:41:33
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I'm attaching it because I truly can't believe it. It felt transactional and weirdly formal, especially since he was the one inviting nearly, initiating nearly all the plans.
00:41:45
Speaker
What's even more confusing, after sending this, he still insists on seeing me and continuing to date. Like you want to invoice me and kiss me? And for context, I've picked up the tab quite a few times.
00:42:00
Speaker
Dinners, drinks, etc. what Without making anything of it, I never asked him to pay me back or keep score. I thought we were just getting to know each other and splitting things organically like adults, especially since he's about 10 years older than I am.
00:42:15
Speaker
So am i overreacting or underreacting? I can't tell if this is just him being organized or if it's a huge red flag. um Then you are definitely underreacting. It's a giant reflect. Girlfriend, go ahead and cash app him and then block him.
00:42:33
Speaker
Well, there's more. Yeah, there's more. There's more. So she did include the screenshot of the Excel spreadsheet. It is very detailed as most Excel spreadsheets are.
00:42:44
Speaker
And then he i have to see this. Yeah. and Oh, my. Oh, my. Yeah. And then he sent a text message along with the spreadsheet. Here it goes. Hate to ask, but can you Venmo or Zelle me some money for the last few weeks?
00:42:58
Speaker
I know you got me some stuff which I'm appreciative of and definitely happy to cover most things like our date night and drinks and stuff, but you never paid me for the first round of stuff from a few weeks ago.
00:43:10
Speaker
And money is a little tight for me and a source of stress right now with with working two jobs, et cetera. She goes back, sure. He texts back, okay, I think $100 is fair unless you have objections.
00:43:26
Speaker
She says, are you charging me for in-between days? I'm charging you $100 for the $500 of stuff I've covered since we started hanging. You never paid me the last time I asked for some money.
00:43:39
Speaker
All right, maybe we shouldn't go out so much. LOL, I can't tell if your butt hurt. I'm asking for $100.
00:43:49
Speaker
Yeah. So it goes on. I'm not going to read all the text messages. It goes on. she Yeah. He sends him the money. Then he also says, oh, yeah, don't forget you owe my boy some money, too.
00:44:02
Speaker
You want to send that over as well? Because I guess he bought some drinks or something when they was out. So my man straight up it said, you owe me some bread for my time.
00:44:15
Speaker
Now, the reason why I think this is crazy is because the concept of it is very new to me. I'm 45 years old. I'm old school.
00:44:26
Speaker
I believe the man pays for the first couple of dates. Then after that, it's whoever invite the other person out pays. Right. If I'm constantly asking you out.
00:44:37
Speaker
Yeah. If I'm constantly asking you out, then I'm asking for you to go out with me. If you're asking me out, that means you're asking me to go out with you.
00:44:50
Speaker
Either we going to split or you going pay. But you asked me. Don't be asking me out all the time and expecting me to pay. So if that was a thing, I could kind of get what he was saying. But that's not what it was happening.
00:45:03
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She said now He was chasing her. Never mind the fact that he's 32 and she's 23. Obviously, he should be way better off than she is. Yeah. Yeah.
00:45:15
Speaker
So there's a couple things wrong here, right? Like beyond him asking to be reimbursed, it's the fact that this wasn't communicated beforehand. Like to there's, there doesn't seem to be any indication that he communicated to her beforehand.
00:45:31
Speaker
Hey, I'll pay, you know, just so we don't have to do split checks or something like that. I'll pay, but like, can you... you know, split it, you can just Venmo me or Zelle me or whatever later on. Like, it would be one thing if as they're making plans, he says, hey, I really want to do this. You think we can go, you know, Dutch or whatever.
00:45:50
Speaker
But that's not what's happening. What he realized is when he went to go pay his bills and he looked at the whole rundown of where his money went, he highlighted them roles that were dates with her and said, I'm see if I can give me some money.
00:46:06
Speaker
That's a red flag, girl. You are underreacting. First of all, you just pay, looked like $190 because he asked for the money for his quote unquote friend.
00:46:22
Speaker
You just paid $190 to dodge a bullet because the thing of it is y'all were going back and forth. You know what I'm saying? He would pay for stuff. You would pay for stuff. It wasn't like it was not equitable. Like y'all were going back and forth, going on runs and bike rides and beach days. That's free.
00:46:42
Speaker
So like, don't, but like mean and if you're paying for dinner, you said quite a few times, dinner, drinks and things like that, and never asked him for anything back.
00:46:54
Speaker
I think you should go. and figure out how much is actually owed and to whom. That's what I think. And if you find out he did spend more than you, okay, then don't bring it up.
00:47:04
Speaker
But you might want to invoice him. I mean, honestly, that's the kind of petty argument, but honestly, you paid $190 to get this person out of your life. That's what I think. Do not continue to see this person. It's not going to get better.
00:47:18
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if If y'all have only been dating for a little over a month and he's invoicing you, because he's broke, girl, it's not gonna get better.
00:47:32
Speaker
It's not. I don't know what to tell you, but it's gonna be some more, this is really giving me who the F did I marry vibes. Like it's really, this person is not good with money. He likes to spend in the moment and then realizes he can't cover it later and then that's coming back to you for stuff.
00:47:51
Speaker
This is this is a pattern. That's not going get any better. And it's going to come to a head when he decides to make some big purchase and realizes he can't cover it.
00:48:03
Speaker
And then he's coming to you and coming up with all kinds of excuses so that he doesn't feel guilty asking you for money because he spent money he didn't have. No, absolutely not. And this is a grown ass man.
00:48:19
Speaker
Like there's no reason... And y'all ain't even really been kicking it for that long. Cut your losses and move on. Like, I know y'all probably like, Jenna, you always be like, just walk away. But listen, because be right.
00:48:36
Speaker
Some y'all don't walk away when it's time to run. Okay. This, no, no. Absolutely not. And I'm looking at this Excel sheet. Absolutely not.
00:48:49
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All right, you've got to be kidding me with this. And I mean, it is broken down. I mean, dates, where y'all went, but uber ah the the like he, wow. He must be an accountant.
00:49:05
Speaker
He has to be an accountant. But it definitely is given like, hey, I do my budget. You know, every time i'm it's time for me to pay my bills and I'm looking, I'm seeing all this money going out, but that's your fault, my guy, because you're the one that invited her out.
00:49:24
Speaker
and it and And the fact that you acknowledge, you acknowledge, I know, first of all, he kept saying, ya, YA instead of you, and that really would have ticked me off. That would have pissed me off, because we're having a serious conversation. Don't you dare say, can you Venmo me? No.
00:49:44
Speaker
No, that would have... Don't piss me off today. But like... ah He says, I know you got me some stuff which I'm appreciative of. So you already know she's already been kicking out money the same way you've been kicking out money. So why does she owe you?
00:50:03
Speaker
And you not have to pay her back for the stuff that she's paid for. You see how it don't... It's not... The logic ain't logicking. Yeah. I see multiple things wrong with this outside of him, which is ridiculous. He is the main yes thing that's wrong. But I see multiple things wrong with this and it all stems from modern dating.
00:50:26
Speaker
And I was talking to somebody recently about the amount of times you see a new person in a week. And the person I was talking to was like, I want to see this person more. I was like, you've seen them once a week.
00:50:42
Speaker
Yeah, I know, but I want to see it more. i was like, you've only been dating for six weeks. When you yeah see people too often, too fast, you burn out. You burn out without even really getting to know them. They're going, they're hanging out four times a week.
00:50:57
Speaker
That is way too much, way too much. That's first and foremost. Okay. Yeah. yeah Another thing that bothers me in modern dating is people not understanding what they... People not explaining what they expect in a relationship.
00:51:13
Speaker
And we've talked about this before. I have a friend of mine, a dear friend of mine, who is like, men are out here are not being providers. And I was like... Okay, but like you have a job too, so why do they need to provide for you?
00:51:29
Speaker
And then she told me, she was like, well, you just believe in that 50-50 stuff. And I was like, well, no, actually I don't believe in 50-50 because relationships are never 50-50. Sometimes people right give more than the other just because of the capacity of whatever is going on in life. So I was like, no, but I do believe in a partnership.
00:51:47
Speaker
If I make money more money than my significant other, and the And half of the rent would stretch her, then she wouldn't yeah pay a half the rent. Maybe she pays 30 or 35 or 40 percent and I cover the rest. Pro-rate it so that it right makes sense so based on our income. Right. yeah like So, yes, I want a partner, but 50-50 is ridiculous. I'm not keeping an accountant like that.
00:52:13
Speaker
I had dated a woman who made twice as much as me. It was her birthday. Of course, she threw a party for herself on her birthday. But the next day, you know, I stayed over. The next day, we spent the day together because it was a big birthday for her.
00:52:27
Speaker
And she had all her friends. So we didn't get a lot of a alone time. So the next day, it was me and her time. And that entire day, I paid for everything. I didn't even think about it. It was just like, it's your birthday. So, yeah.
00:52:38
Speaker
She brought it up at the end of night. She was like, you treated me so well. You paid for everything. i was it's your birthday. but's What's the big deal? Most men don't do that. I was like, it's your birthday. Like, that's yeah kind of the way that I was raised. with I'm going to take you out for your birthday and ask you pay half the bill?
00:52:55
Speaker
i Wouldn't expect, I would hope that you would do the same for me. You don't have to. I don't expect anything out of people, but a yeah partnership.
00:53:05
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So it's clear yeah he didn't say in the beginning, and you know, just so you know, when we go on these dates, I'm gonna keep an invoice, ah everything. And then at the end of the month, we're going you know, pull everything together and see who, oh who, what,
00:53:21
Speaker
Like, that should be something that should be established. especially That should definitely have been a conversation well before the actual date. Right. Because then I could have told you, ain't got to go nowhere. Well, you would have.
00:53:32
Speaker
But it seems like that conversation or something like it would have come up in the amount of, in the 16 times they've seen each other in a month. Yeah.
00:53:43
Speaker
Yeah. If a month only got 30 or 31 days and you seeing somebody 16 or 17 of them days, y'all might as well move together. That's crazy. Yeah, that's crazy.
00:53:54
Speaker
In the first month? In the first month? That's crazy. yeah ah and yeah And people, I implore you, like so there's so much dating anxiety and people are so used to having everything right now. Everything that we have right now. We want to watch a TV show. It's here.
00:54:11
Speaker
We don't have to wait a week anymore. It's here. now If we want something we just talked about on Amazon, if we want something, we want it now. In an hour. We can't wait seven days anymore. We want things now. And people are trying to microwave these relationships.
00:54:25
Speaker
You can't. You don't fall in love without knowing the person. And you don't know a person until a good nine months into dating them. Because we all have these facades that we put together. We always put our best foot forward. You need to see people at their worst and see if at their worst, you can deal with them.
00:54:46
Speaker
As so many people, it happened during the pandemic so much that these people were getting together and in three months they were engaged. They got married. They come out of the pandemic outside, open up again. They're like, what the hell did I just do?
00:54:59
Speaker
you didn't take the time to get to know the person. Right. You just were stuck together and you're like, that's good enough. Yeah. No. No. So, you know, I'm not blaming her. I don't want to put any blame on her because she's not overreacting. because this is...
00:55:16
Speaker
She's underreacting. She's underreacting. But I do want to put blame is in the right word. I say she has to take some accountability, a small women out there. Don't drag me a small, small bit of accountability for giving him access to her that much that fast.
00:55:39
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Well, I mean, don't know, because if they like each other, enjoy each other's kind of seem like they enjoy each other's company, then I can't really say what's too much was not enough. I can. I can What's just right. Things need to breathe.
00:55:53
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I think it's person to person. The problem is he sees his money as more important than hers because he sees his him being reimbursed, but never mentioned reimbursing her. yeah, yeah.
00:56:10
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And that, so that... I the initial problem is him. I'm talking macro level here. Yeah. And this is what ah what I say with modern dating. And you say, well, no, people should spend as much time. What happens when you have a plant and you don't give it enough water?
00:56:28
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don't know. It dies. It dies. What happens when you give it too much water? It can also die, yes. What happens when you don't give it enough sunlight? Look at that.
00:56:39
Speaker
What happens if you give it too much sunlight? I get where you go. Okay, so not enough or too much, yeah for everything in moderation. We all know everything in moderation. Maybe moderation for them was instead of every day we see each other four days.
00:56:57
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Maybe that's moderation for them. I don't know. And it's damn sure not good moderation for my man because he's going broke. And he got two jobs. He got two jobs. But he... But he ain't have to go broke because it seemed like she's fine with the run dates, the bike dates, the beach day dates.
00:57:16
Speaker
These are all the low cost. state You didn't have to get her Ubers back and forth, back and forth. Well, you know why he did that. You know why he did that. Because it wasn't just a bike ride.
00:57:27
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It wasn't just a run. It was a bike ride, a run, and go out for drinks or lunch afterwards. So we i often do that when I'm yeah dating women. I'm like, we're going to go out for drinks. You're not driving. I don't have a car.
00:57:38
Speaker
I'm just going your Uber to come to me. I don't want you to have to pay for the Uber to come to me. um And they will leave from my house or I'll get the Uber to come. If you are comfortable with me coming to your house, I'll get the Uber to your house. But if they're coming to my house, I'll just get you to Uber. Like, I don't I don't want yeah you to come out of your pocket. I've invited you out.
00:57:55
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So I get that because maybe he's being a gentleman, but a true gentleman would have just been like, I don't want you to drink and drive. I'm a pay for your Uber. I got your Uber.
00:58:05
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Not a month later. You know what? I'm going need the reimbursement for that Uber. Yeah, remember that Uber I bought you? Yeah. Okay, if we're this meticulous that you send me a whole Excel sheet, then send me also the Excel sheet, the balance, but balance it out. Show the stuff that I've paid.
00:58:25
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And then you give me the actual total. Well, he didn't say that. He said, don't just make up. Don't just make up. Oh, it was for $500. So just give me a hundred dollars. No, this sounds, ah it don't sound right. And you're not factoring in what I've put in.
00:58:40
Speaker
So if what I put in don't matter, you write only what you put in matters. You're telling me you think you're better than me. i i I don't... I don't um i think you... But I mean, it is a little bit of...
00:58:57
Speaker
Like also my money is not valuable enough to be reimbursed also or to even be factored into the equation. You're only thinking about what you spent.
00:59:09
Speaker
You are not even considered. and the And the fact that you acknowledge, hey, I appreciate all the stuff you bought for me, but here's the invoice for all the stuff I bought for you. That don't make no sense. He should have hollered at his boy instead of saying, hey, once you pay the boy back, you should have hollered at your boy be like, hey, man, I'm a little short on these bills. Can you spot me and I'll get you back next month instead of hitting her up?
00:59:31
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And then has an audacity to still be like, so um we still going to get together this week? No. No. Don't get together. No. but so No. No. You're going to broke dealing with him. And obviously, yeah you know what? I applaud her.
00:59:46
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for being a young cat, because she's 23, I can call her a kid almost, because you know I'm yeah twice her age. And being mature in the fact where I paid for something like he was doing this, and then, of course, I'm going to return the favor.
01:00:02
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Look, whoever you are out there, you good. You good, OK? Yeah. um At his big age, he should know better, and there's a reason why when you met him, he was single, girl. Like, that's... Go on, him... Go on, release him back into the wild. We're both single, so, I mean, that could... We're single for a reason. ah But that doesn't mean it's a negative thing. No.
01:00:27
Speaker
No, go on, release him back into the wild. Well, okay. I do agree with that. Release him back into the wild. You go find a better guy. You're gonna find somebody better, Playboy.
01:00:40
Speaker
If you dating a woman nine years younger than you and and you asking her for money, you need to re-evaluate your life. You need to figure out, you gotta make some moves or something. Like my sister said, yeah you get a, get you a quarter. We've had a lot of times. We've had a lot of times.
01:00:59
Speaker
But I was literally about to say the exact same thing. Yeah. Yeah. right last down yeah I don't know what to tell you, but go and run away, girl. go gone Just go take the L on that one.
01:01:11
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Yeah. Okay. On that note, Jay, where yeah what do you want to lead the people out we are here with? Become members of the prospective posse. We're going to work on that. Well, prospective posse or the inner circle or the VIP. The VIP is really where it's at.
01:01:28
Speaker
But if you're on the fence, test us out. That's true. You're right. Perspective posse. yeah Perspective posse. P-P. Join the PP. Guys, we're going to workshop that.
01:01:38
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So don't. We're going to have workshop it quick because I'm about to freedom implement that. It's about to go live and and by the time this airs. so mistakes that Stay tuned. this On that note, ladies gentlemen, I want to thank you for listening.
01:01:55
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I want to thank you for watching. And until next time, as always, I'll holler.
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