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121. Enhance Your Mindset: Supercharge Your Success with Less Stress
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In this episode of the Spiritual Fitness podcast, Eric Bigger reveals the practices and mindsets that will supercharge your success and elevate your mid-year achievements by blending spiritual insights with physical wellness strategies. He guides listeners through thought-provoking questions to assess their victories, challenges, and the adjustments needed for personal growth. Eric discusses the importance of setting clear intentions and outcomes to effectively manifest success.
Also in this episode:
- Define your goals and understand the purpose behind them to streamline your efforts and achieve success..
- Focus on maintaining a positive vibration and clear energy pathways to attract desired outcomes.
- Establish strong boundaries to avoid distractions and stay committed to personal goals.
- Engage with like-minded individuals to share experiences and gather collective insights for personal growth.
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Transcript
Introduction to Holistic Health
00:00:06
Speaker
Welcome to the Spiritual Fitness Podcast. I'm your host, Eric Bigger, and each week we will explore powerful practices, inspiring stories, and expert insights to guide you on your path to holistic health. By blending spirituality and physical wellness, we support you in strengthening your body and soul. Whether you're a seasoned spiritual seeker or just beginning your journey, the Spiritual Fitness Podcast is here to help you unlock your inner potential and live your most vibrant, purposeful life.
The Power of Intentions and Mindset
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It's Miracle Season.
00:00:40
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I just want to say thank you all for being here and I'm holding time, space, and energy to make yourself available. But this message, I'm looking forward to seeing what you guys got in mind, consciousness, energetically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. I'm just grateful. You know, sometimes I look at life and you know You look at the things you always want to do, you get an opportunity to do it. And sometimes when we have those things, we forget where we were 10, 5, 3, maybe 6 months ago, years ago, right? So I'm just honored and really thankful. Here we are. Elevate your mindset and supercharge your mid-year success. So as to some of you who've come home before, you know, I have could have topics and we could speak on each topic. So, you know, they say four and a possible. We plan spades. I want you to write these things now. First three are questions.
00:01:30
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So the first question is, what are your wins so far this year? What are your wins? What are your successes so far this year? And then the second question is, what are your challenges this far? What are the challenges for you this far? Next question is, what needs to change? What should we change? What do we need to change? And sometimes it can be our attitude or our mindset.
00:01:59
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or our perspectives. Maybe we need to leave that child or that relationship. Oh, we got to stop over taking care of the child. They're grown, man. Let them figure it out. So they'll talk to my mom this morning about my nephew. She's a grandson. and She's worried. I said, Mom, I get it. I said, at the end of the day. So if his dad, maybe don you don't have the rapport he wants with his dad. That is his dad. So that a man do a man's job, it might not make sense because of your emotions. But trust me, he's fine.
00:02:30
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mars All right, he needs discipline. Young boys need discipline, right? So that was an interesting comment because I carded for something else and she gave me that. I was like, okay.
The RPM Method for Success
00:02:39
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The next one is RPM. So the R stands for rapid, P stands for planning, and M stands for method. The need that you can put in like asterisks, R also goes for results, the P goes for purpose, the method goes for map, and map is massive action plan.
00:03:00
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right So, Rabbit Plan and Method, below that is Results, Purpose, Map, and AP, World Map, Massive, Action, Plan, and beneath that, we have Intentions, Activity,
00:03:17
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outcome Sometimes we get how important people are that you don't get to think about when you're in in the moment. I want to share a quick story.
Acknowledging Unseen Contributions
00:03:27
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I remember I was on a TV show years ago and their producers on the show was like, you can't talk to the camera about it. You can't talk to the lighting about it. I'm like, what? These people make us look good. So you don't just get in the story of who they are and what they do. Kind of find out these guys make so much money. But you wouldn't know if you didn't have a conversation. It's like, yeah.
00:03:48
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I'm good, bro, I make good money. but But it was like, they're like, no one's talking to me because you're not supposed to, but I'm like, they got a camera in my face, they're following us around. So I'm always looking at the people that people don't, they don't get to acknowledge that you don't see them, but they're making everybody's dreams come true.
00:04:05
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You know, life is in your mind and in your breath, right? Read a certain way. You think it's a certain way. Imagine when you're happy. How do you feel? How do you breathe in your head? Like, oh, I just got a raise. Oh, I'm on the thing. What? Bye. I'm taking the kids. Oh, he scored the cups He had it all right. I'm so happy for you.
00:04:22
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You know, you're breathing a certain way, you're in a certain frequency. I had a client earlier this week, he's like, yeah man, I wrote myself, he's a kid, he's like 21, he's played hockey, and I wrote myself a contract, and I wrote it down, and I signed my name, and yeah man, I just had a great week, I learned $400 on a golf course, and so he's giving me all these stories, and I'm like, what happened before that?
00:04:41
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Oh man, I just woke up in a good, wow, I just knew I was going to have a good time with my dad and my friends. And I said, you created that moment to win the $400 because it started here.
Creating Reality with Intentions
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You say you woke up. It felt good. So we also got to know that we are all creators of our reality. And that's why the intentions activity outcome, very important at the end of the call. But let's get right into it.
00:05:03
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What are your wins thus far this year? So far this year, what are your wins? You can write them down and then I will love the people to chime in. So I'm going to talk about it because I think it's important for us to get acknowledgement. Also know many of us, or maybe some of us may have accomplished a lot this year because we're not getting celebrated or acknowledged for we might not feel the way it looks. You get what I'm saying? Now I want y'all to think about that.
00:05:30
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You need to celebrate all your wins, even the small ones, right? Getting up at 5am, we used to get up at 6.30, right? You know, communicating with your spouse or your kids, like, we need acknowledgement around the things we win in because it amplifies our confidence in that space. Sometimes like, oh, it's like, nothing is like me overcoming something and you're becoming something. So what are your wins? I would love anyone to just jump in and we go from there.
00:05:57
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ah hi e I didn't know until you asked me now, right now, that I've actually had revenue growth of 220% this year since January up to July, up to 31 July. I know. 220%?
00:06:12
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of 220% are calculated in percent, because you're right, it boosts confidence, it it increases that feeling of expansion. Because one of the challenges I was going to automatically say is like, it's not good enough. Meaning, where does that stand? Am I, where do I have that route going? I'm not good, it's just not good enough by my standards, right? for what I want to achieve. So I loved your question. I just thought I'd share that because yeah, it is awesome that it's a 220% growth revenue, just top line. But yeah, you see, there's already the back there. I'm like, yeah, but I've still been doing this. So it's just one of the wins. Yeah. Anyway, I thought I'd share that.
00:06:54
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Wow. Congratulations. out there and so Let me ask you a question. What was your intentions at the top of the year for you to get here with 200? What was the thought in mind? What were you intending to do in business for you? to To move to California, to go into a stunning 3M rental. I've got images, like literal pictures. I know what I was.
00:07:15
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And I almost settled for less than what I want in about April-May, which I didn't then. I made a decision and I feel good about it that I chose not to move into that home that was offered to me, even though that I handled sweetener, but it was tiny. And I've got two large breed dogs. They're my boys. They're coming with me. They're my other four part of life, you know? So that was the intention. So I said, all right, well, to live in California is literally three to five times the cost of living here in Greenville, South Carolina. And the rent.
00:07:45
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I'm looking at $6,000 a month rent. ah For example, versus $3,000 a month rent here, type of things. So, and I wanted to invest more, which I did do. I did make investments this year, but the big goal for me is to move to Santa Barbara, Laguna Beach, or somewhere around there in Santa Barbara County, Los Angeles County. So it's not like I'm aiming cheap. Buying in my head is what I'm saying. Sorry.
00:08:12
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right yeah That forced the these footies to increase the revenue. Yeah. it's The desire is so strong. Because I saw Kathleen and everyone doing the fun Malibu December thing last year. I'm like, I'm going there. The weather's better all
Manifesting Goals and Personal Stories
00:08:25
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around. like It is sweltering out here with humidity and bags right now. I've just come back and inside. and sorry that was the It lit my fire to increase revenue. so Yeah. Thank you for making me aware of how good that is.
00:08:40
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separate from the fact when I want to, I don't know, beat myself up, we're still not having done the move. I've given myself time the whole year, so somewhere in me is still that root of it's just not good enough. like I've got to do better. you know There's so much more for the taking and this is just a rental. It's not the investment property or whatever, just a rental one year, but I made a goal.
00:09:03
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That my peace of mind find as i call it mass have a certain figure in it and i'm not there yet. I realize now doing this that i keep focusing on that so called negative without actually placing my gratitude and focus on the. That's a way that's a massive when in six months.
00:09:21
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Yeah, so you but you made me aware of it. and I have to thank you. But and I think your time is some frequency of the vibration of this portal. We open because let me tell you something. I was just selling coin this weekend. Oh my God. Amazing. So Santa Barbara is one of my favorite counties to go. The energy there is incredulous.
00:09:39
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Right? Like, and I don't know if you've taken an astro-catography reading. So astro-catography is about, they take your nail chart, the time of your ball, where your bond, and they place it in a geographic location in the world. And you get to pick a few cities you want to be in, you get to see what resonates with your soul. Right? So I was told that Orange County is good for self-healing for me.
00:10:06
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However, LA is good for career driven in relationships. So when I went out there, I felt this sunk into like the vibration I felt so at peace.
00:10:19
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This woman knew what she was talking about. Who gained career like five months ago. So that's something also that can help. But what you're discussing is what we're going to talk about at the end outcome intentions. That's why I asked the question. You gave me all of these and now you at this 220% increase because you were clear, you set an attention and you have outcome. We're going to unpack that later today, but thank you for sharing that and just know you are there. Sometimes we think like, Oh, we got to have.
00:10:49
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another income source or nothing like, no, the other income source of things is your energy. Your energy is that thing. It's your vibration. you When you're smiling, and you're speaking, I can feel your energy. You feel good. You feel like you're winning.
00:11:01
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but ah Well, but I was ready after running outside. Maybe you'd be asking you, why did you do it? yeah Right? So yeah, yeah, yeah. Thank you. Thank you. thank This was great. Anyone else who else got some wins to share? Let's go then. I enjoy. I like that name. We enjoy LJ all day. Thank you. So this has been a really big and busy year for me. I just joined Millionaire this weekend.
00:11:29
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And before I did, I was, you know, I'm a Christian, I'm very spiritual. So I was like, you know, God, I would love to have a community of like-minded people because I have a very full life. I've built two international businesses in the last 10 years, had a baby.
00:11:44
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like It's been crazy, and especially these last four years have been like unbelievable in a way that hasn't been great because I'm working in another country and you know it's a lot happening. But I finally got my business to the point where everything is set up and this is coming at the perfect time because I'm in a different space mentally and I'm prepared and ready for ascension, if that makes any sense. you know and It's not about money, it's just about You know, your my spirit rising as opposed to being feeling burdened by, you know, responsibilities and stuff. So that for me is a tremendous win. And I feel like in the last 10 years, I've changed so much. Even the things that I wanted 10 years ago are completely light years away from what is important to me now. And so for me, it's like such a tremendous blessing. You like can't put a price on that. So that's all.
00:12:39
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Oh, wow. I mean, that's incredible because it's prizes that you're in such a space where what do you do spiritually? Do you meditate? Do you yell over? Do you pray? Because you're holding things like coming through. It's like... Thank you. Thank you. I'm just a spiritual person and I really am very careful why I align myself with and spend time with, which is really funny because I'm actually in an industry that is you know very male-driven, male-centered. I'm living in Spain.
00:13:09
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So it's a very muchismo type of culture. There are many things happening, but I appreciate that. And on one other thing, I sat through class today in Millionaire and this just keeps happening. It's almost like confirmation. Like I'm hearing something from somebody else at my parents and you're like, okay. And then you hear it again from some another place and you're like, oh my gosh, this person is literally saying something that has been told to me many years and I just couldn't accept it or receive it then. And now I'm in a space.
00:13:36
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where I am able to really take it in and understand what's being said to me, like from the spirit. Yeah. Because here's the thing, I think what I realize in life is that sometimes when you're so good at doing something or you're so accustomed to being something, you don't think about the way someone else outside is seeing it, right? So YouTube both spoke and I can vote, oh, 220 cent increase. You got your business said last 10 years, the energy's gone. Like, okay, what are you guys doing?
00:14:01
Speaker
What is your method? What is your medicine? And I want to and encourage you both, you know, I don't know how long, you know, you've been in millionaire or whatever program, use what you have like you give it to the people there because we all benefit.
00:14:14
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No one's better than no one. We all have a role in this lifetime collectively. Just as much as I'm giving and you're giving, we're all receiving. Sharon is receiving and I don't want people... Also, I try to tell my clients, I don't want to take your autonomy away from me. I'm going to give you something from my paradigm, from my perspective. Some things might not resonate. That's okay. Do what works best for you. Other than that, because that's what makes you different.
00:14:38
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And I think more people can step into that power like, yeah, but there's no, but you know what to do. You got the call on your spirit. They say, Hey, let me jump i'm really now. Like I'm in here. Let's get it. Right. But sometimes because the way the world is shaped and the way we're programmed, we give all our energy and power away to these thought leaders and these politicians, whatever. And it's like, I get it, but you're your own thought leader. You're your own boss and politician for yourself. And how do you feel inside? Cause the body keeps the score.
00:15:07
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But I'm just thankful that you guys are so, your energy just earned here. It's like, okay. Oh my goodness. Happy August. Right? Because everybody's vibration helps everybody's vibration.
00:15:20
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So my intentions is always to like hear people speak and tell their truth because I don't want to come in and just talk to people out. For what? I'm not getting nothing out. I'm getting more out of this because I'm learning. Oh, what do you do? What is your business? like Oh, what you been doing? Oh, you said intentions and you 220, you know, so these little things, calling patterns, but we got to pay attention to like people are telling us, oh, you got a great energy. What is the universe trying to tell you through these people? What is God trying to show you to these people?
00:15:49
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We got to catch the signal and listen. And sometimes, you like you said, it's a timing. So congratulations. Thank you. And you're so right, because I mean, I'm somebody who moves fast. And sometimes you move so fast that you're not able to hear what God or you know whatever you believe is trying to tell you. you know And so I'm so grateful for this space in my life now where I can actually really hear what I'm supposed to be doing next and how I'm supposed to be doing it. So that's all.
00:16:19
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Anyone else want to share? I'm excited. I love this party. Kimberly, you want to speak?
Reclaiming Identity and Community Support
00:16:27
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How are you today? I am grand. How is everybody?
00:16:31
Speaker
Yes. Yes. Can we get some wins? What are your wins so far? I would love to know. Okay. Well, hey, you everybody should know my major win is I got a one-on-one with Kathleen. like I am super pumped. I'm ready. like It's about to be a life changer. I'm in it to win it. and That's about the best I can give you. That's my first one. That's my major win, but I just came from the hair just wanted to get my hair cut real quick.
00:16:55
Speaker
And I was speaking yet, we're not finished with the dude yet speaking to her about my book. And we had talked about it before. And she said, what do you want to do with your book? I said, well, I would like to sell it in bulk. And that's what I'm manifesting. And she says, really? I said, yeah, you know, bulk is the way to go. I want to sell my book in bulk. And she said, well, what's the name of it? And, you know, we talked about that in this inhale confidence, exhale doubt.
00:17:16
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Let's see it. Congratulations. That's major you key. con Thank you. I appreciate it. So talking to her, she says, well, Kimberly, you were sent to me today. I said, okay. Cause you know, I scheduled you. But kid that but um she said, it no, you were sent to me because my sister in, I think she said Oregon or Utah, because I'll be calling her right after this, but needs, she's picking the books and she has a huge community there.
00:17:43
Speaker
and they need a new book to read, but it has to be on building your spirit and things. I said, girl, you're in the right place and I'm in the right place at the right time. So we exchanged information and she wants to put it in her first cousin's hand. I think it's her cousin that has this major book club that will want to get it in bulk. And I'm like, this is a done deal. I said, okay, I'll call you when I'm done. I got to go on a zoom, but I'll call you when I'm done. And she was like, okay, I'm serious. ah You know, I had to tell me I've already placed myself on different TV shows. So you don't have to tell me about calling you about this book today. So that was a win for me. And I literally just ran in. Eric, I can't lie. I'm like, I was looking for you yesterday because I was ahead.
00:18:23
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So I was on the one that wrote in here like, what happened to Eric? I said it and then I was like, what happened? Then I realized I'm like, if you would like maybe give it a day, he's so on time. That was a little early. So that was ah my win for today. I'm grateful. I already see it. I already see it.
00:18:44
Speaker
Yeah, I feel it from your aura, from your presence. I'm going to ask you a question. So what is it that you actually do? Because your vibe is giving me like a whole talk show. You have a voice like the way I'm listening to you. Like what is it that you do? well I'm a coach. Okay.
00:19:02
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I inspire other ladies, you know and this is what I do do. Moms and women, my book was written because I am a mother of two, but a grandmother of seven. And five years ago, I started raising four of those grandchildren. So four of them are in my care. And I kind of got caught up in them so much that I lost me. Yeah.
00:19:26
Speaker
That's what my book's about, you know, and how I came back with prayer and meditation and just declarations and affirmations and saying, I don't want to feel like this. And listen, Saturday is my birthday and it was still a little nudging of that there. Like I hadn't really gone out to celebrate my birthday in years. is Like hold up, what's wrong with me? So I'm going to, like Shannon knows I'm starting my birthday journey and it is called my birthday friendship tour.
00:19:54
Speaker
because over the past five years, I've been so far away from my friends that the kids were the only thing that I was centered around. you know So I am starting my friendship tour and it starts actually on Friday, Shannon. So I'm starting my friendship tour and my friendship tour is being able to communicate with one of my friends, going out with them, hanging with them and giving them a card and thanking them.
00:20:18
Speaker
for being a part of my life. And I'm going to do that all year long because I mean, I celebrate my birthday all year anyway. So I can do that all year long. And it was funny because Robert has stated in one of the things that his friend celebrates every day on a third. So my birthday's a third. So I'll do it on a third, whether I'm here, local, you know, are going away. I want to be able to, whoever I'm embracing at that time, be able to share and let them know how important they are to me and how they were a part of my group.
00:20:46
Speaker
Yeah, so your birthday's August 3rd. August 3rd. So, yeah, I don't know if you're into new neurology, but I... So, three is expression, right? It's how you express yourself. How you write, how you speak, how you talk. Also, C is the third letter of alphabet, communication, conversation, right? So, this is when I'm hearing you speak, I'm realizing, you have a podcast, you have a show, like you need to speak more about who you are because people will listen because how you articulate your vibration, your energy, and your knowledge, and your allele.
00:21:14
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Leo is like, oh, yeah, they take a note and they like to take care of people. So we'll bring it back. Yeah. But you know what, Eric, I had to get that belt off my year to my roar. I was like, yo, oh this is not me. Wait a minute. Listen, I'm back. Let's put it like that.
00:21:30
Speaker
Welcome back. Welcome back. My family, yes. but Welcome back. You deserve that. Yes. Y'all fired up today. I think energy is serious. We're on. Let's get to the next question, challenges. less you know We all want to talk about the wins. Let's give a little bit of the
Addressing Challenges and Setting Boundaries
00:21:47
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challenges. We want some of them, right? Can we get some challenges anyway? I'll tell you one of my challenges has been it's distraction, right? You know how there are people in your life that you love and care about, but then when you give them your time and energy and you're like,
00:22:00
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What am I doing? You don't really want anything because you love them and you have that attachment to them. It could be family, it could be friends. I said, you know what? Less is more. I got to really set some strong boundaries. Definitely have my phone on, do not disturb, but most of the day. Because when you talk to some people, they don't want anything. Right? And it's like, why am I wasting time, energy, and space? Or there are people that come in your life, they want your energy.
00:22:27
Speaker
And then there are people that come in your life, they're giving you energy. So I had them discern like, hold on, let me just take a step back. Who's in my life giving to me without trying to? Who's in my life to pretend they're giving or to take it?
00:22:40
Speaker
And I don't think it's wrong, right? I just think that's their attentions, right? Or their unconscious thinking. So I said, you know what? It's clear energy. It's lacking. August is around the corner. So distractions has been my chance. I've been getting distracted by the wrong things, people and energies. Even some people, I got a video on Instagram. You know?
00:23:01
Speaker
So unfollow some people or account. So these little things in my life that has been a challenge that I say, you know what? If I let this energy go, it should come in. Like you said, back in the name, right? Layla Joyce, that we swear we're always busy. and We can't be present to receive the medicine from the universe.
00:23:20
Speaker
Because we're always striving to doing things and we're not being in and out being in to receive what we need. so But anyone, someone, I share your challenge. I would love to talk about it.
00:23:32
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I just want to say it's so beautiful when you sit with that. It looks like you have a crown behind you. I don't know, but it's just wonderful. I love it. So I'm trying to read it though too, but it's wonderful. um I agree with what you say just starting this year out. I think not so much on the big wins because I was caught up in all the output instead of the input and thinking that was somehow going to get me somewhere. And I think what some of the other folks put in there too about just saying no. And it was very hard to say no and say, this doesn't agree with me. Like, I refer to it kind of a dating, you know, some people, they will break up with someone until they have another person. And so sometimes we feel that, well, I can't let go of this until
00:24:19
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you know the big client or the big this comes in and so that was the struggle for me i didn't like it it wasn't agreeing with me and i just had to stand up for myself and do that. And then the focus rate making sure that i want to focus more on myself.
00:24:35
Speaker
And so I totally agree with what you're saying and so that's honing in my focus and being true to myself so that I can absorb and I can, you know, ramp up the energy and then be available for all the good stuff to come in, right? Clearing out to make room for the good stuff.
00:24:53
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Yeah. And I mean, I think this might be a third session because we got healing going on. So there's three things that came to mind when you're speaking. I was like, ah, this is interesting. So there's something I like to say to everyone. He or she feels it, knows it. You know what you know, what relationships, partnerships we avoid. Why? We avoid because the only reason we don't let people or things go because we can see what we're going to lose. We can see it.
00:25:20
Speaker
If I turn this light off, I know it's off. But how about if I turn this light off and I can get a whole new light? But because I can't see the light coming, I'm so afraid to turn this one off. So all this light is doing is taking up the wrong energy and space in my life to keep the other light from coming in.
00:25:38
Speaker
Yes. Yes. Yes. No people are holding on to what they can see they're going to lose. Oh my God. If I get rid of this 10,000, that's 10,000 less than the bank account. But what if 50,000 is coming in? But you can't see it. So you got to have faith. And you got to have faith.
00:25:54
Speaker
in part Because we live in a 3D reality when we're going off with the 3D eyes and not the third eye eyes of seeing the higher self. Right? But when you have that faith and you have that trust and you have that certainty, I'm going to let this go because I know this is not helping me grow. up This is pulling me down. Yes, I love it. And here's another thing. I don't want anyone to let and love with someone or love for something stop them from changing when they know they need to change because we get caught in that error.
Letting Go and Self-Care
00:26:21
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but I love you so much, we better get it from so long. We like quantity of total, we better get it from 15, 12. Hey, it's over with, it's okay. I used to have this perception with family. Oh, we should all talk, we should all get along. It's not real life. Everyone doesn't have to get along energy.
00:26:39
Speaker
Like, that's not real. Like I was sitting here talking to him, mom I said, mom, my nephew needs discipline. His dad is going to discipline him. You don't like it. I said, because you're not used to men discipline the boys. And I was the only boy growing up who disciplined me. You didn't. I love the basketball practice. You know, I had to learn discipline. So when something's not common to our nervous system, we think it's wrong. So I said, my nephew's not used to structure.
00:27:06
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His dad is put him on a time by, hey buddy, you gotta go to put sleep. Was he like, calling grandma? No, london no, no, no, no, grandma's not too big of a deal. You got to sit in your mess because your car had it. So just know, there's nothing wrong with staying too wild, but you don't want to stay and stuff in so long that you should get who you are.
00:27:26
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I think somebody kimley was saying that it's like she's given so much of herself. I mean, I did that. And I wanted to add as well, is that do you notice at times, maybe you do, maybe you don't, where you find yourself thinking about what everybody else want to need is like, Oh, you're just neglecting yourself. No, no, no, eric no no, no, no, they don't need anything from you. You need that.
00:27:45
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Stop giving them that, give it to yourself. Because it's unconscious programming because of lack or worry or scarcity or trauma. So when we get out of that space, I'm like, they're not asking for that advice, brother. No, no, no, no, focus on yourself. So all this bringing the mirror back to you and what you need so you can grow.
00:28:03
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So thank you for that challenge. It's a beautiful challenge to add because now you know, like, it's about me and it's okay to make it about you. Be selfish. Being selfish is selfless. You see, that's not what my mom said. So that's the tape that plays, right? And so we have to change that. But yeah, that's the trigger word. So I appreciate your perspective. I didn't realize, you know, what you're talking about, what people need or what we think we need, you know, the taking and the doing, that that's actually kind of filling something else, like maybe not sitting in my mess and not clearing that out. So that's a good aha. I like that. So thank you. I always say our mess is our message, but you don't want somebody else's mess to be your message. I've done it for years because of obligation, because of being real. I'm the good family member. And I'm like,
00:28:55
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Oh, I'm only doing it because I want love. You realize like, oh, that's you. That's your shadow frequency. You're trying to call it up and like, oh, you haven't opened everybody. No, that's your self is being fulfilled. And guess when you do that, they're not even going to cure the way you did. Because you're coming from the wrong paradigm, right? Because you want that love and that attention from doing that thing. You don't need that. So what this is why we got to have greats, we got to have compassion and self acceptance. It's like, you know what, this is where I'm at in my journey. It's not bad. I'm growing, I'm learning.
00:29:25
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I will not be in a space of sabotage in myself. Damn, in my life, because I feel like because of a title, I'm a mom, I'm a sister, I'm a brother, I'm a this, I have to do that. Okay, I train and coach people, but I make mistakes. I mess up. I was telling Kathleen, I say, as a classic Kathleen, he has my training. And she was like,
00:29:46
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I said, Kathleen, I'm on ice cream. She showed me a picture. I said, I don't want you to feel like you can't be real with me. Like, I eat ice cream. What happens is we get this perception from what we see. No, I'm not the jolly perfect. No. I have fun. I eat. What do I need to eat? And it's not about the food.
00:30:06
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It's our relationship with the food. Because if you ate it with no resistance, it wouldn't have an impact on your body. But the world makes us believe that. That that's bad. It's not bad. It's actually part of life. Just like having emotions of being ate or being upset. That's real emotions. There's nothing wrong with that.
00:30:22
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So I want people get to honor their full capacity of who they are. Listen, the reason I'm saying that because I play the mass of I'm positive and I'm really sad and hurting inside, but I don't want to see it because I don't know how to be vulnerable because I feel like if I am, I'm going to lose. That's a program. Actually, when I'm vulnerable, I have more power.
00:30:44
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Huh, because I'm not hiding anything. I actually get more from the universe because I'm being genuine, I'm being authentic, I'm having integrity. So we can let our guards to hell, you know? I don't want to have no answers. I'm tired of making decisions. I'm tired of paying all the bills.
00:30:59
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Right? Sometimes you've got to call that responsibility back and say, okay, now what? But it's okay. So thank you for sharing. This is beautiful. Thank you. I love that. Anyone else with challenge got me hyped. My big challenge is not feeling my day with everything. I'm from New York City.
00:31:17
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I'm a worker, I'm a doer, something in my ear, out of conversation, watching something, emailing, so that's just how I operate always. you know and It's going to be like almost like wrestling with myself to stop doing that. you know That is a big challenge for me. Now that I'm here in this program, I've decided that I really want to expand. That is my big challenge, like just doing less, that's all.
00:31:44
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Hey, listen, that's been my biggest challenge my higher life. I didn't get this message until I went to Peru and hike some mountains and realized the reason I lack patience at times because I don't want to feel so I feel like they up with things. I'm in the masculine always doing it. I'm afraid to be because oh my God, what am I going to feel up at this mountain? I'm afraid of heights. yeah Feel that emotion, young man. Are you so strong after all?
00:32:08
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Man, that person didn't text me back. Well, wow, gotta sit in silence. So I realize my big wins come in life when I'm not productive. wow Biggest things happen in life when I'm having fun or I'm at rest. They say manifestation is manifest when you relax. Not when you're charged up. So we're always feeling time to feel a gap that we don't want to feel or experience for whatever reason. But I'm telling you that gap and that feeling is a great reason to sit in it to get more out of your life instead of being so busy. But I think a lot of us, we're all autopilot and we're always doing things, especially when you work for yourself. You're like, oh, I just did this, I gotta do that, do that. Sometimes doing something is doing nothing, but not action is action. Be present, you actually will bring in more because you're not in the way of your manifestation. You know, I also want to just keep talking, keep talking, keep talking. Okay, okay, okay. Listen now.
Balancing Productivity and Rest
00:33:05
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Can you listen? Oh, that's the thought. He was listening.
00:33:09
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So oh this is beautiful. Oh, vacation. I think you should start a group. Plan a nothing vacation. Wow. That is great. But thank you and enjoy. It's a nothing vacation. Like, I don't want to go with folks is planning this whole big agenda. Because when I want to do nothing, I want to do just that. I'm going to call you later because I'm from Philly, you know, talking about that. I'm from Baltimore, so I know. Yeah.
00:33:38
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It's live in Europe. They're not doing anything here. August is a month of but the relaxation. Spain, the global country shuts down. They have siesta. That's a real thing. Things shut down in the afternoon for a couple, but I'm still over here. Steam's coming to my fingers. I've emailed people. it'pi I love it. Yeah, so we have these challenges. What needs to change in your life right now that you know it's like, and it could be very small, what needs to change? Is it just, I was at a client this morning and we had to do an app, their whole energy change. I said, oh, why did your energy change? I said, we'll do a core. I said, because your relationship to the term, language, the power of language, right? Words can take energy from us.
00:34:23
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You know how somebody can say something or you see a negative comment and just take your energy? I say it's because your relationship, you're already anticipating the workout to be hard because your relationship with the word adds core. Now, when you're in your rhythm, you're already struggling because of what's in your mind. It started in your mind because of your perception of it.
00:34:43
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So no, sometimes what needs to change is the words we use, right? You know, someone can say, oh, I gotta do so much paperwork, right? Well, you see, I built too much so much paperwork. What if the paperwork was purpose work? I have to do purpose work today, guys. I get to do purpose work. Words, right? Because words create an experience in our body. And if you say it, depending on what that experience was for that moment, you'll bring it back into your body.
00:35:08
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So I know for me, for some of us, be aware of your attachment or your perception to certain words that you could change, right? So it's like, I don't have no money. I'm saying that. Do you have money? Your operation is money. Yeah, boy. I said, just hear me out. You're manifesting what you're saying. What we speak, we reap. That's just what it is, right? Can I mention just something that I did change? I'm still working towards it.
00:35:37
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Sort of like what Christine was saying, just not being hard on myself when I don't do that thing that I had planned on doing or that I'm used to doing. And I'm like, today it really gave me clarity of how well it's working on me because my stylist at the shop says, you know, I didn't do such stuff before I left, but then I realized that I'm going to be okay and blah, blah. And it took me right there. And I'm like,
00:36:00
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You're going to be OK regardless, regardless if you get that thing or not. So it was just like it was my confirmation that OK, Kim, you know, you learning to be open to receive and releasing things has now allowed you to be able to share this with somebody else who now is in this frantic space of, oh, God, I didn't do ABC and XYZ, but I did such and such and such. And it feels like I didn't get enough done. You know, so I was able to give her some insight to that because it's something that I had been working on.
00:36:29
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And it's so great because I struggled with that for years. And the last thing and we're going to do before we get off, we're going to talk about activities. How we got all these activities that we feel like we must do or else. What if those activities not lead to an outcome? Right? What you think they are. So that's really, thank you for sharing. The question you asked just kind of really sat with me a little bit heavy in my heart. You said, what needs to change?
00:36:57
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And I thought about it and thought about it. I'm like, you know, embodying all the positive energy, the abundance, prosperity and all that. But, you know, as a mother of three teenagers, I have a girl in the middle, I have two boys. You know, yeah fear, that needs to change, right?
00:37:17
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fear, worries, doubts. With so much going on in the children's lives, i can you know here I am trying to manifest wealth and just myself working on myself, but these worries keep getting in the way. I'm like, damn it. I'm like, oh, at these low vibrations, it's not doing it for me. so It's a constant check-in.
00:37:46
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and a constant awareness and being able to shift and create higher vibration. It's definitely that that's what needs to change. And actually, Eric, I was going to even reach out to you. I'm like, do you do coaching for teenage boys? Hey, you know, it's interesting because the universal, I feel a little better. I was doing plant medicine. I hiked all these mountains. and I also done day at the top and I was like six a.m. I'm getting all these channel dogs download. I got four nephews, you know, their dads and not in their life like they need to be. And I was like, I got to give young boys this medicine. I had to go create become the man I wanted to look up to. you And recently, like tracking like young men, I got three clients, they're all 21,
Mentoring and Personal Development
00:38:33
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right? Young, still young men, but
00:38:35
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They're becoming, and I see what young boys are missing, and I see what they need. So when the time is right, we'll get off here. We can talk about that. But I want to echo what you're saying, and I realize you're reasonably worried and we have fear that we don't trust because it's a controlled response.
00:38:55
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right? So you can control what you think can happen on something bad because you can see it is hard to control what you can't see. So you don't stay in that frequency, you stay in a frequency that you control, which is low. Oh, yeah, I don't want them to go out. And I realized this as a man, you know, looking after a woman or sister or or mother, unconsciously as man, we don't know sometimes we can project our theorem when right when they're out.
00:39:20
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Call me when you get there, be safe. And you know, those guys out there, but think about it when I'm talking, I'm saying I'm putting that into their fridge. I could help them manifest that because I'm wearing in the fridge because I know, I know, right? Because I control that because I can see it.
00:39:37
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So the reason we have fear, we worry is because we can actually see it in our mind's eye. We trade imagination from a low frequency because it's so evident in our mind. But the higher frequency doesn't make sense because we don't have the evidence in front of us, right? Or we're projecting our own experience on the kids. And it's tough, but I realized to all of us, the fear, the worry is a controlled thing. We can control it because we can see it. You can't control what you can't see, so therefore you don't want to see it.
00:40:02
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Exactly. And so just know that we all, I struggle with that at times, but always get back to your affirmations, right? Talking to yourself and putting on good music, goodbye. Because also, it could be ancestry, right? It could it be an ancestral thing from past lives. It could be someone in your life that could be their thoughts. But you look like a powerful, incredible woman that knows what she wants. you know We all struggle with this. this But that doesn't have to be our life or our livelihood. It's just the awareness of like, okay, where is this coming from? Like when I get those, I was like, oh, thank you. Is this not the younger me? Or is this the higher me? And a lot of times, I was talking to a client yesterday, saying when we hit our upper limit in life,
00:40:46
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So look at it like this. You're doing all this work. We're doing all this material. We're climbing. Right. We get to the top of a mountain. Say Machu Picchu. We at the top. And at the top, it is about a number of clouds. So you at this top and you're like, yo, where's my man at Like, I'm at the top. So like two things happen.
00:41:03
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self-sabotage because it's like that space that you got to sit in where nothing's happening, you're creating like, I'm going to just go eat something bad. I'm going to go do something that I shouldn't do unconsciously because it's a controlled thing again. And then you want to climb the clouds, but the clouds are not ready for you to go to the next mountain. So what happens is you're sabotaging it because you get an upper limit. So when you hit an upper limit, when you're at your life,
00:41:28
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And I did 30 pushups, I can't do no more. It's like, that's what you're thinking. You're not allowing space for you to do the next set, because you're looking for the expectation of the manifestation, right? And I always say, I have that expectation, I have appreciation.
00:41:42
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Sometimes expectation gets us in trouble, but it's all of of the divine feminine and the trusted and the allowing knowing, right? We could not believe in what I seek. My kids are fine. I praise for them. They're great. I hugged on my shoulder and gave them love. Y'all are going to be phenomenal ones.
00:41:59
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Take care of yourself, okay? and Go outside of what I think is supposed to happen, because guess what? You have to learn. Everyone's here to have their own son or soul. And I told my mom, he's 10. He's a young boy. If he don't learn from his dad or his uncle.
00:42:15
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The world won't meet him. I can't say if you did. Nephew, I love you. So we just got to have that trust and that faith and we don't want to make sure we're putting out burdens while we went through, but it's hard. When you're a parent, you've got so much responsibility. You're not doing anything wrong. you know At least they know you care about him. As if he wasn't changing. Wow. Every word you spoke really resonated right here. So thank you.
00:42:42
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All right, so Kimberly just spoke on action items and to-do lists. I think Kristin spoke on, I asked her what her intentions was. She talked 20% to% increase business. So rapid planning method. What is that? So lately,
00:43:03
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I've been thinking like, okay, cool, not a lot of information, not a lot of wisdom. I've been through some things, I've done some things, cool. I'm going to get my clients' graphic results like I want it now. How can I bring it in? So I'm so analytical and so deep, and it comes to people I look up to. So Tony Robbins, been studying Tony for years. like When I got to LA at 22,
00:43:23
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I had no clue on this personal development. So I had to start reading books. Tony Robbins changed my life. Came here in 22, had $1,000 in my name in Los Angeles. I need one person, slept with someone in college, paid $500 a month. I was just out here trying to figure it out. Young kid from Boston. But over the years, I was just like, oh, what's his son? Oh, he's a Pisces. Like me, I'm a Pisces. I understand the passion. And then I was, if you go deeper into it,
00:43:47
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the astrological chart, if anyone, where there's something called your MC, your mid heaven. So like the temp house in your chart, there's like your career path and how you will make money or how people see you in a social sense. So yes, cancer. And it's mid heaven. I have that in my temp house. And I'm like, people who have that in their temp house, when it comes to work, it's more emotional.
00:44:05
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So a lot of the work I get to do with clients are was physical, mental, however, spiritual. It's emotional, psychological, right? E.T., emotional intelligence, awareness, spiritual. I'm like, oh, and so my spirit was telling me, like, beginning of
Focused Intentions and Success
00:44:19
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July, you had to tap back into Tony Robbins.
00:44:20
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I'm like, ah, okay. So I listen to Tony Robbins every day in the morning in the gym, five, six, eight, you know, this, come on, Tony, get it to me. but i want So I came past this method, RPM, rapid landing method, and I'm like, okay. So I'm into the brand. So he started to say like, what if all the activities you're doing is not getting you close to your outcome?
00:44:42
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So for years, I'm like, I'm doing all these activities, but I think it's really changing. So I'm going to give you what I came over for myself, but his first thing was wish outcome, right? If you say, so I've even won clients, like when she first started training and she said, Oh, I just want to move my body. Want to feel good. Oh yeah. So I was like, okay.
00:45:02
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And in every month, I'll give my clients with your intention for the mark. So one of hers was soft love. Do you want to be more into our fitness? Soft love. I said, so we want to speak like soft love, dress like soft love. So I'm like, whatever that is for your frequency. And then I say, you know what? We're not really focused on your vessel the way ah you normally do. I said, give me a number. So I would love, how come 10 pounds? I know 10 pounds. I'm like, great. Cool. Boom. Train twice, three days to a bar. She said, oh my God, I lost six pounds.
00:45:32
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I said, oh, really? She's like, yeah, I don't know what happened. I said, bingo, we set that outcome, right? We set 10 pounds. But imagine if I was giving her all these to do list. So basically what, and I'm gonna get back to the beginning, what he says is that, think about your rent, right? Or mortgage. There's a number, there's an outcome. So imagine you you don't have the money you need right now.
00:45:53
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your brain will find a way to get you the outcome. But if I'm thinking, I've got to do the meditation, I've got to get up at five, I've got to work out, I've got to cope, I've got to get the rest. It's going to take me longer. However, my brain is going to run it quicker because we get more of what we focus on. So when I say my attention is to make more money.
00:46:15
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Right? It's free. Okay, that's extra $5, brother. What is more money? Oh, it would be $50 in this money. Great. Now we got our outcome, right? Now we have our intention. And this is where I come in and bring in my method. We have intention, we have outcome. But in between that, we have activity items, ah action items. So our activity is not the activity we should be doing because we feel like that's going to help us. It's in alignment of my outcome, right?
00:46:43
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If I want to make my economy $50,000, what type of activity do I need to be making instead of me doing all these little to-do lists that don't even make sense for the outcome? It's like a person is in a relationship and a person wants more love from them and they're showing on what they want, but they're not telling them. So you got to speak it and not show it. That could be their activity item that changes, right? So for all of you on here, what is your attention? She says she wanted to move to Santa Barbara, the corner, right?
00:47:12
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It was attention. And then her sales increased, right? Cause she had an outcome, right? She's paying three. She want to pay 65, whatever her number was, but it was a number in her mind that she held the vision.
00:47:24
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Right? Give you another story, another client, makes a lot of money. So in July, I didn't have the outcome method yet. I just had the intention method. I say, buddy, what's your intentions for July? He said, big sales, big sales. I said, big sales is going to be the intention. So we work out, that's the thought. And then we do affirmations around businesses growing and flowing, money, you want more money. Money, he's a multi, multi, multi-million. But I noticed when I come into his space, when he's not making money, his energy's off.
00:47:53
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I said, you got money, that's too much power over you. You're damn near 70 years old. We got to shift this, right? So then mind you, intentions, we set the intention. He went to Sun Valley, he had a you know something going on there. And he's like, hey, it's like ending another second or third week of July. I'm like, how's it been? And he said, oh, this is the most money I ever made. All this year. I said, wow.
00:48:16
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We had an intention, right? Big sales. So now when I say, I want you to think, how much do you want to make before you go to Europe? I say, come on, give me a number. You don't got to tell me how much you made already. Give me a number. He said, I don't know, 400,000, 500, 600. I say, okay, 400,000 it is. Great.
00:48:35
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So my, this is me coming into the gym with this new outcome thing, right? No outcome. So we talk and we talk and get a call from his wife. She throws his energy. She throws his energy off. He's all, I say, hey, neutralize. We ain't got to embrace that. It's okay. Let's forget about it. Let's get back into state, right? Five minutes later, you get to call. He says, oh, it's my client from Monaco. Mind you, because we're talking. I said, answer that.
00:49:02
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It might be calling it money, right? Because we're in alignment, because this is what we're talking about. And so it's a call from a client. This client makes 150 million a year. I call this $100 million economy. And I said, oh. And I said, you're going to see him when you go to Europe in two weeks? He's like, yeah. I was like, oh, OK. I said, you might make some millions. His bill is $44 million in France.
00:49:27
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So what I had to teach him in that moment was like, you see how the frequency you're on, you see how you pulled that, was you anticipating him calling you? No. Right. But the outcome doesn't always have to be the actual thing. It could be the lead up to it. I said, that's frequency. That's a conversation. And I seen him, I saw him again. We walking.
00:49:46
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And he said, Oh, I just hit me up. He was feeling like 500,000. I said, did you expect that? She's like, no, I said, you see, so I'm trying to open up his awareness. We're trying to open up our awareness, how we had these things, these outcomes, right? You know, your rent is 2,500, 3,000. You know, you got to pay that every month. Guess what? You're going to figure out how to make that money.
00:50:06
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But sometimes when we get in place and we get comfortable, we stop thinking big. We stop giving us outcomes.
Community and Collective Growth
00:50:12
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And where most people fail is that when they don't hit their outcome, they just stop it. They just give up.
00:50:18
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No, no, no, no, constant activation. So before we get off here, because I know it's cutting the time, I want to elevate your mindset and your supercharging me here, giving you this method, right? You know, the results, right? What is the results that you want? What is your outcome for you? Right? What is your outcome?
00:50:36
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Write down, what is your outcome? You gotta share it with just write down. What do you want your outcome to be? Cool, that's great. Okay, we have this outcome. I want to make this my monkey. What's the purpose? What's the why? Let's go to a route like, why do I want this outcome? Is this ego driven? Is this from my heart desire? Is this fulfill as a success? It doesn't matter what it is, but let's get clear on. Like she got clear, she wants to move to California. She was clear on that. There was no confusion in that.
00:51:03
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And she was able to supersede her business because she was clear. I'm trying to get to California. Okay universe, clear. And she probably even got clear on why, right? You said the story of everybody's in Malibu having a good time. Clarity people, we need clarity in our frequency to pull it in, right? So what is your outcome? What is the result? What's the purpose of that? Why don do you want this? And then, you know, the activities same way as the math,
00:51:32
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massive action. What actions? What massive action are you taking towards that end goal? What are you thinking about on a day-to-day basis? What are you reading? Who are you talking to? And people don't understand. I'm listening to a video. It's Marty. He's like, you know what me and my friends do? We talk about money all day. We just talk about money. He said, guess what? We make money.
00:51:55
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all because they're talking about it. Now I'm not saying money is the ideal, but for most people, money and love is like, is it everything to people? Money or love won't buy you that much. I done seen it all, I done had it all, right? And I'm around people who got real love. And it's like, it's not it.
00:52:12
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That's why we got to get deep in our core. It's like, what is our intention? What is that result? What actions am I going to take? Does this activity bring me to my outcome? And by the way, once you start playing with this formula, right? You only have to take that many actions and you'll be able to get right to the outcome outcome because it's in your brain. No, this is psychological. We like to get the mechanical 3D, I think Bob Crocker talks to you, right? The hell you're an action thing every day you say it. And it's like, I get that Bob, but there's a different way.
00:52:42
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to get there. And it's all in the mind. If there's nothing in your mind, you can't think about it. Before I went to France last year, I was like, man, I gotta make 10,000 before I leave. I know how to make 10,000. But here's the thing, I wasn't attached to the 10,000. I just said it. But it was in my mind first. Right before I went to France last year, I had a brand deal to pay 11,000. But it was in my mind first. It didn't just come to me.
00:53:05
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thought about it. So that's how simple you can manifest things when you have this one word and you can write it out for the month of August. It's something you should do for August. Okay, what is my outcome for August? What is my purpose? What is my why? And what action items activity is going to get me closer to that? What do I need to be thinking about? Right? And play with it. It's like your imagination. What are you thinking about?
00:53:27
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Don't give it too much of your apologies to think about it, look at it, and then watch the universe start bringing phone calls, people, places, things, right? So this little rapid planning method, this results purpose map is what we can use. We don't be doing so much, using so much energy, and I've done this for years. Because I'm the guy, I'm going to read the whole book, and I'm going to do this. And I was like, I don't need the whole book. Now when I read books, I go to a chat, I'm like, what stands out to me?
00:53:56
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Read that chapter. When I was in Peru, my friend was telling me, do all these things. That doesn't work for me. Autonomy. What works for you? You might understand this concept in a different way to make it amplifiable quicker. Because I'm just giving you medicine that works for me and what I'm learning. You might learn differently. Let's just put the thought. What do I want? Why?
00:54:17
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Okay, cool. Let me think about this enough. Eventually, I'll pull it in. It's that simple. So come beat yourself up. you know I'm pretty sure everybody has a lot of wins they should be thinking about. You should be acknowledging and um celebrate yourself. You deserve it. i We all we got, right? As people, as a collective. I'm sharing. You guys are sharing. We're helping each other. We all deserve to feel good inside.
00:54:42
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And guess what? It might sound crazy, but there's no problem. We trade them. They're all in our mind. They're so grown. Like as I said again, I love my mom. The topic was not heard. Mom, you just had an emotional reaction to your grandson. He's fine. I said he wasn't like that with me.
00:54:58
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right but it's emotional because of the perception, the meaning we get. The reason we have this emotional challenge or thing is because the meaning we get, you know how someone can tell someone no and not care and someone else like, oh, it's one girl, maybe I did something. It's two different energies.
00:55:16
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The one who said, no, with no care, they're not attached to the note because they're serving their highest good. They're setting that strong, man. But some of us, I've been in a way like, man, maybe I should have said I could do it. Now you feel bad. No, I'll guilt trip yourself. Don't feel shameful for putting yourself first, but it's learned behavior.
00:55:31
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We learned from a childhood that I'm not worthy enough to do what I need to do for me, even as moms. I had a client shot four kids. She used to see all of her brand in the face. I said, you better sit down and take some time for yourself. I said, by the way, I want to see you. a You need to cut somebody out. You're too nice. You're too fucking nice. I'm like, yes. Yup, I said it. You're too nice. I want to see that dark side. You ain't making all the millions by just being nice.
00:55:57
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No, you execute it. You're that masculine. Let us get that. I say the people who go against how do you treat them, they need to feel that. I say we get what we tolerate. So people, honor yourself. Love yourself. Let's elevate our lives. Elevate our mindset. Let's take some of these notes. And let's just go to the next level of our ascension. Let's be happy about it. Let's be proud about our gifts. Let's take up space. We're not playing it small. She got the book. we Exhale it in yourself. Doubt. Hopefully I said it right. We getting it out of here, man. Doubt. Doubt. What doubt?
00:56:26
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I got all this life and I'm down. Are you crazy? Oh, what about the cop? Got all this energy? We got all this information? How can we lose when we got all this right here? How can I lose when I got all this? This is community. This is one thing about Diamond Academy that I love and I told Kathleen is, you don't understand how most people don't have a real community. They have friends that they don't even connect with.
00:56:47
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They just grew up with it or they worked with it. This is a real community. You women are powerful. You're really about this work. And I thought I'd be inspired by a bunch of guys, guys that are doing this work. They just want to look like they're doing like, y'all really doing the work. I don't know. Hey.
00:57:03
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They ain't gettin' up and run me to the rounds, which means I'm like, I'm like, win. That's like, oh my God, give me a hug. You're crying because you wanna win. You don't wanna be in this miserable situation anymore. Yes, how can I help you? How can we help each other? That's what I like. Because you're willing to do what it takes to get where you wanna go, even if you have this bag of strong moments charges. It's i so right.
00:57:30
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But your intention is, remember, remember, you guys' intention is to win. So eventually guess what's going to happen? We're going to win. We just got to figure out why did we want to win? What's the outcome? So we can pull it in even quicker, right? You might get over here like, damn, I just got to buy a person to buy 10,000 books, like right now. What's the outcome? What's the bulk? Bulk is what? A box of 100? What do we want? 5,000, you know?
00:57:55
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But if anybody want to share, I don't know, I just went off a little tangent, but I wanted to share this information. You guys are just incredible beings and your energy is just... I told Kathleen, I said, Kathleen, you have the power to create a consciousness and collect the healed world with this medicine that you're giving. Your women are so strong. I've never in my life seen so many powerful women who want to win And this is why men got to step up, because they don't want to win, right? To win, they want to win to be in control. That's not a real purpose, brother. I don't want to be in control. I want to be in control of what I can control to me, but I want to win to help the collective evolve. I'm the power of you, you know, I'm the consultant. I don't want to be, but you know what, you got this. You want to be sharing what we get, right?
00:58:42
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But that's my perspective. That's my paradigm. I just think we all deserve to feel good inside. We deserve to be happy. No, you choose your happiness based on your thoughts, your thinking, your emotions, and your experiences. They say we change the way you look at things. Things you look at change. I tell my nephew, I say, you cry about your mom and your dad. Some people don't even have that. But she's too young to know. It's not a perspective.
00:59:05
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Right? So, the gratitude is added to anybody else want to share or not. just I'm just honored to be here. This was a beautiful session to everyone. Thank you. This was good. So connect with me on Instagram. It's Eric Bigger, DM me, email me. It's miraclesunam.gmail dot.com. But other than that,
00:59:25
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Let's keep this momentum going. Let's keep this energy going. Let's continue to love i ourselves and not put ourselves last because we're afraid to be first because someone else is in security. You deserve to be first. All right. So that's all. That's it. It's incredible. Thank you.
00:59:43
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