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Judicial Insights on Child Support The Complexity of Attraction and Gender
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In this episode of the Man-Gave Podcast, hosts Briceson Young and Luis discuss various topics ranging from personal experiences with child support, work-life balance, and the impact of financial struggles on parenting. They delve into the complexities of the child support system, sharing their frustrations and insights on how it affects fathers. The conversation also touches on social dynamics at holiday parties and the allure of lottery winnings as a means to achieve financial freedom. Throughout the episode, the hosts reflect on their own lives, the challenges they face, and the broader implications of financial decisions on family life. In this conversation, Briceson Young and Luis explore various themes including the importance of practical skills like carpentry, the inadequacies of the current education system, the pursuit of passion through education, and the complexities of vulnerability in relationships. They discuss how personal experiences shape one's skills and the need for a more hands-on approach in education. The conversation also delves into the significance of being vulnerable in relationships, highlighting the balance between masculinity and emotional openness. In this episode, Briceson and Luis delve into various themes including vulnerability in communication, the dynamics of attraction and identity, and political perspectives on gender and leadership. They share personal anecdotes from their Uber experiences, discuss the complexities of attraction in the context of gender identity, and express their views on the emotional aspects of leadership roles. The conversation is candid, humorous, and thought-provoking, touching on societal norms and personal beliefs.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview
02:53 Holiday Party Plans and Social Dynamics
04:45 Work Life and Early Mornings
06:50 Lottery Dreams and Generational Wealth
09:18 Child Support Conversations and Financial Struggles
12:48 Judicial Perspectives on Child Support
15:03 Navigating Financial Hardships
18:48 The Impact of Child Support on Parenting
21:12 Reevaluating Child Support Systems
23:59 Living Beyond Means and Financial Choices
25:07 The Art of Carpentry and Skills Transfer
26:49 Education and Practical Skills in Modern Society
36:51 Pursuing Passion: The Journey Back to School
42:59 Vulnerability in Relationships: A Double-Edged Sword
51:41 Exploring Vulnerability and Communication
54:56 The Uber Experience: Conversations and Connections
01:00:15 Navigating Attraction and Identity
01:10:49 Political Perspectives: Gender and Leadership
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Transcript
Introduction to Man Gave Podcast
00:00:01
Speaker
Welcome back to the Man Gave Podcast. I am your host, Ray Sinhyeong, and my other co-host here. It's Luis, my friend. Hi. And yes, no one money another week. another week. Another weekend.
Podcast Release Schedule
00:00:21
Speaker
Another day living in poverty. and she Oh, fuck. Drop my shit.
00:00:29
Speaker
Lewis wasn't here next last week, ah but we had a couple of filling guests. I have not posted an episode yet, if you guys probably haven't noticed, but it will come out before this episode because now I'm just going to post that one tomorrow. And this one that records today that you're listening to now will be posted on that Monday. So now, just in case we have a week off, now I can have a filler episode that can I can push in there and don't have to sweat.
00:00:59
Speaker
Well, that's my, that's my idea anyway. But, um... That's not a bad idea. Yeah, let's see how it works out. Let's see how it works out. Let's see how it works.
Drinking Blackberry Crown Royale
00:01:08
Speaker
Tonight, man, I'm drinking on this, uh... I don't know if you've seen this one. The Blackberry Crown Royale. No, no. The Crown's not bad. Little fuck for the two of you. It's not. It's not bad.
00:01:20
Speaker
I like the, uh, I like vanilla cause it's so smooth, but it's so smooth and tastes so damn good, bro. ah I can just drink, drink, drink. And before I know what I am, fucking fuck. And this is the same way. Cause so, um, if I started getting loopy, start sounding a little loose cannon by minute 2025, that's it. That's the reason. Sorry. But I think y'all like it when I start talking about the handle anyway.
00:01:47
Speaker
So anyway, getting to that.
Military Holiday Party Planning
00:01:51
Speaker
Yo, Louie, I ah texted you, um, when that takes you about the other week, uh, the holiday party for the three 99. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Were you gonna, were you gonna attend that? Yeah, I'm down. I didn't know I could still go. You're the one who told me that I could still go. I'm definitely down.
00:02:06
Speaker
yes for uh past present future 399 soldiers of the uh of the army yeah man you yeah yeah i fucking skipped out last year i should know i definitely should have went last year but i know you said you had the kids though right don't you have the kids yeah because i got the kids that weekend yeah it's all right i'll just talk to them on the boat swapping them or i'll just be like can't you want to see one of their friends out your friend's house like all right that's a little bit don't just call me boat Oh, well. Dad, can I sleep well, my friend? don See, yours is easy. Yeah. See, I would, I would like to have my wife as a guest that night, like last year, but because of the children, I don't think that's going to work out. So. Yeah. That really sucks. But I don't, but if I got to be there by myself, then I don't want to go either. That's why I was like, I mentioned to you, see if you might show up. Cause I'll, I'll roll up. If you go, I'll go. You think Central probably go, right?
00:02:59
Speaker
If somebody's informed him when it is, yeah, he'll probably be there. well But yeah, nobody in the motor pool really goes. So if I show up and you know, I don't really fuck with nobody. So I don't really, I got nobody to fuck with. Yeah, I got nobody to talk to. Even last year was mostly just me and my wife just chilling at one table the whole fucking time. And I probably had.
00:03:21
Speaker
Second a few seconds of conversation with other people like it was nothing major like it's kinda Like damn, so I was just sitting there really trying to get drunk honestly and uh You know because she's the she's the driver. I don't gotta go nowhere. I don't gotta do no. Well. Yeah at that time yeah I get that yeah But she she was still pregnant right at that time but she Oh, yeah, she had to have been pregnant cuz otherwise she wouldn't have been there yeah so No, no no no no I feel like she drink that night. She drink that night. Maybe the baby was with her mother at day on that night. She was there and she had a drink. I know she had drinks, so.
00:04:08
Speaker
Yeah. She wasn't pregnant when she had drinks though. Trust me. yeah that's That's why I was like, wait a minute. I think she was pregnant. I'm not sure. Baby be jumping off the handle. Open that bitch, bro. What the fuck you been at, man? What you what you been doing?
Job Dissatisfaction and Routine
00:04:23
Speaker
Honestly, just work. It sucks. I wish it was... I should say it sucks. I should be happy that I have a good job. but You know, it is what it is, but just work, man. I wish it was something more exciting, but no, sorry, guys. This week has just been work. They really just ran a Halloween party last night. It was a good time, but just small like family type male people. Not a lot of people at all. Before we get to the Halloween part, I want to ask you about the Halloween party. oh
00:04:49
Speaker
But I want to say what the fuck are they got you get being in at work though at three-third in the morning That's what you told me what for wait, which one that Monday law last monday last Monday morning You told me three-third in the morning. You had to be up for work. Oh because they got all right, so there's There's this older guy that he's kind of We'll just say he's an older guy. I wouldn't say that he's usually the first one that opens up and he got really sick But he's on my team because he's like pretty much retirement so they just put him with the guys that take the easier work and He's usually the first one in so I had to go and get keys from him so I could open up like everything Essentially because he's usually the first one in
00:05:33
Speaker
Do they typically do that at like shop? Let the, the older guy gets that easy workload and come in super early. Cause when I was at a Plymouth and Brockton for my little, uh, 30 days or whatever, the old guy there too, they would come in super early. They get the jobs that aren't really quick jobs. They, the jobs that can take a while and you know, they can take the time and be patient with it. Is that.
00:05:55
Speaker
like a thing yeah because they they there's not a lot of people that want to wake up with the freaking crack of dawn and come in to open everything up so that's why there's usually like one or two guys that are like all right fuck this shit Well we'll let him do it and he's an older gentleman so it works out and you give him, just like you said, the easier work. He gets that shit done and he does the thing that people don't want to do. it It's like a win-win right there. And nobody gives that guy shit obviously. No one gives the other guy shit. For the most part, no.
00:06:27
Speaker
Damn. Oh, I thought that was something. I was looking at my, uh, I thought the lottery numbers came out. I'd be just, I'd be, uh, my lottery shit. You'd be like, Oh my God, yo, we'll go into my industry. I'm trying to find people that want to do a fucking Powerball group.
Lottery Strategy Discussion
00:06:41
Speaker
So we can really increase our chances, bro. I'm trying, I'm trying to talk people into this, uh, this, uh, what do they call it? Generational wealth through the lottery. It happens as companies that have done it. So.
00:06:55
Speaker
For real. I think there's people at my job that do it. I just don't participate in theirs. I feel like it's not enough money. I tell my boy, I want to do like, everybody chip in $10 when it hits a certain mark. And I think their group does like $2 or $3 per person. Yeah. I'm like, we need more tickets than that. So only one play per person.
00:07:14
Speaker
Yeah. and I mean, if I'm going to buy, if I'm going to do it that way, I just go buy my own ticket. Yeah. But I guess what they're looking at is now they're getting the amount of tickets they really buy if they weren't being cheap and just only doing the $2 ticket or the $3 with the Powerplay. I always use $3. Fuck it. Do with the Powerplay. Do the Powerplay, bro. I do it at my store a couple of weeks ago, hit 50K, and it's like, bro, if you did the Powerplay, that's 100K because it it was a 2X multiplier that day.
00:07:45
Speaker
An extra dollar, you got $50,000 more dollars. So now when I play it, now I do the power play. I've never won, but I always just do it. Like, fuck it, I'll spend the extra dollar, why not? You never know, because I honestly don't play for the thinking I'm going to hit the jackpot. I play for the thinking I'm going to hit the lower tier prize. Yeah, like that one mill, that'd be nice. Yeah, I'll take one mill. This is a single mill, I'll take that. It'll be sweet.
00:08:12
Speaker
You get the power play on that, two, three X, bro, three meal. Now I'm done. I'm quitting my job and I'm going to push carts at Wegmans. no Just pretend to be a broke ass motherfucker. I mean, cause I still got to pay c child support. So I can't technically quit a job, but, um, I got to find me a trustworthy individual to cast a check for me. And then do it in a trust, put it in a lawyer's name, bam. Hmm.
00:08:38
Speaker
will that get back to me and child support though
00:08:42
Speaker
hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey like when you claim it i believe they have you on ah now recorde like it depends if you do have if you do child support through the state yes theres ways they can find ah if this you don't do it do it through the state then no someone has to report Well, being that I do do it through the state, Massachusetts, I'm always wondering.
00:09:12
Speaker
Okay. I hit the lottery. Are they going to now try to take a large amount from me out of child support? No, I don't believe that matters because I've seen, like I've seen like a little, you know, like court shows or whatever. You can't believe all of them because some of them are fake. Yeah. But I have seen some that like where, I don't know the exact terminology, but some along the lines of like a change of financial, uh, wealth and stuff like that. Is it really a justifiable reason to increase child support?
00:09:42
Speaker
For real? I mean, because women win in this shit all the time. Oh, I know, bro. I know the women win all the time, but that's what I heard a judge say. Man hits a jackpot for 400 million. He's taking home 300 million. You know he doesn't have to work anymore.
00:09:57
Speaker
So that's going to be seen as earned income, is it not? I mean, when you do your taxes, that's- Yeah, no, that's true. But if that's the case, then I'd be like, all right, your honor, then you know what? I i want to, whatever this is, like re re I want to refuck and throw a lawsuit out, because now I'm taking the kid. I got the money. What is it going to go down like that, though? Of course it is, because think about it. That easy. now It is going to be easy like that, because think about it.
00:10:25
Speaker
Someone who makes, let's just say 85 grand a year, which is good money. They still have to work for that shit. The person who has fucking 300 million doesn't have to work. So that's going to be a better life for the kid because the parents are going to be there 24 seven. So it might be yes what you're saying. yeah Sounds so good and true. But bro, you are a man. You're walking on against the statistics. I know you have a dick. She has a pussy. she ah put The baby came out of her, not you. The judge don't give a fuck.
00:10:55
Speaker
Most of them know they don't. I really wonder what happened. I got lucky, man. I got one that actually gave a fuck, bro. She wanted to know what happened. It was great. And then she roasted her. It's kind of funny. We won't go into details. It was good. I'm very curious. If anybody has ever won a little jackpot of money, I like to know how that works when you own child support.
00:11:21
Speaker
I'm so fucking curious and I look it up online and I can't really find a solid answer, but I don't know. I'd be wondering if they're going to change my, are they going to change my child support payments? Cause they know, oh, you're not working anymore. We know you have money now because you want all that. So now we're going to readjust your, your child. think No, I don't think they could do that without a court order. They can't do it at a state level. You know what I mean? Like a judge has to clarify, it like being declared by the court.
00:11:50
Speaker
unless there's a dirty judge, which I feel like they're all dirty. They all support the women when they come in the fucking courtroom. Dude, but that's it. You know what? I would
Child Support System Frustrations
00:12:00
Speaker
have agreed with you, but the judge I had was a woman and she was on my side. Bro, it was fucking. It was fucking crazy. I think yes she tried to make me pay less. She's like, what you're offering is less than what you required. You know that, right? No, I'm sorry, i'm more than what you required.
00:12:20
Speaker
Do you think you find that more women do agree with men on this child support issue? Because I will tell you, I think since doing this show and having a certain conversation with people, I feel like a lot more women, I'm not gonna say a lot more agree overall, but I think a lot more agree or disagree with the way the child support system is set up more than I thought they did. Yeah.
00:12:41
Speaker
I didn't know that many and women actually felt the same way. like they They think it is ridiculous. I hear ah so many women now say it's fucking ridiculous. it Well, it is. That's why like you know me and my ex, we didn't go through the state because the the way the state does is bullshit. like We have an agreement and there hasn't been any issues. I don't understand what the... I know they say it's a formula for this shit, but I don't get it because I was working, I know my my last, my previous job, I was making substantially less money than I was where I'm working now. yeah And my checks came out to about 650 every two weeks. The judge ordered me to pay $1,200. That's what they wanted. How much money do I got after that? $600.
00:13:31
Speaker
so Why is it only important that the child has a a decent way of living when they're with the mother? But are you not thinking about the fact that the child is going to be living in what the fuck when they come to the dad's house who has $600 left over to split between car payment, car ass insurance, health insurance, gas, food, toiletries,
00:13:57
Speaker
I got nothing. It's gone after the car payment and car insurance. Nevermind fucking heat, electricity, fucking water. All of that. So i know't I don't understand not only ah how a woman can be so fucking dirty. Well, I get it. I know how y'all can be so fucking dirty, but how can a judge sit there and say, we're doing things and for the for the betterment of the child?
00:14:25
Speaker
But you're doing things for the betterment of the child part time. Yeah, that's true though. I never really thought of it that way. But that's very true. That shit is ridiculous. I just, I remember going back to my car that day and I'm like, bro.
00:14:41
Speaker
I said, I got to quit my job and not quit my job because I don't want to pay child support, but I have to quit my job because I have to find another job in order to make up for the $600, the $250 a week that's going to come out. They did reduce it to $250 a week, which is $1,000 a month.
00:14:56
Speaker
but Yeah, I had to, I said I gotta, I gotta do something else. I have to, uh, because ah you're man. I wanted to say that, but you know what I was going to say. That's what I got to go and get another job and probably do some Uber and on the weekend. So what I did was I did eventually quit that job, got a new job.
00:15:17
Speaker
made more money, and then I still went and got a part-time job at Wegmans. And so I was working at Wegmans two days a week while also doing, working in the freezer station while also working at the new place I found Ryzer. And i was ah I was okay with that because Ryzer was giving me like $250 a week. So yeah I was like, okay, I'm pretty much canceling out the $1,000 and I got a new job. So I'm better.
00:15:43
Speaker
Riza, no, child support eventually came and took that check. And I didn't think they could do that. I didn't think they could do that because if that's the case, then why don't they ever, why have they never come out to my military pay? And and when I was in the office that that day, when we were doing the child support discussion with our arbiter and all that shit, they told me that we don't know, we only care about your main source of income. We're not trying to.
00:16:09
Speaker
Take every income you have. We only care about the main source of income. That's what we're going to take the child support from. So I didn't understand why I got my, I got my weight machine one day, bro. Freaked out $42. Freaked out. So want to fun you know, I'm driving from Pawtucket, Rhode Island to fucking ah Westwood mass for this. This is like a 40 minute drive. So.
00:16:32
Speaker
I called my boss and I was like, what happened to my check? Something's wrong. And then he, he, he got to the bottom of it and saw that, yeah, it shows that you have, uh, this is coming out. I was like, well, you if you know what that is, I'm like, Oh my God. And I came in the next day. I came into work. I told him this, this is going to be my last couple of weeks here because I, and I don't want to quit. I don't want to quit on it, but.
00:16:53
Speaker
I'm paying to come work here, and I like working here, but I don't love it enough to pay for it. Yeah, no, fuck that, dude. That's ridiculous. That sucks, man. That shit pissed me off. I'm like, so I can't even... So not only is Child Support set up for it, I only get a crummy living when they do go to the father's house.
00:17:13
Speaker
but it's also set up to cripple you from even progressing. You can't even say, okay, I'll go work some more hours somewhere and try and earn some extra of money. No, they're coming to get that too. And that shit's fucked up. I don't understand that. You can't make that make sense to me.
00:17:30
Speaker
that's day i dude that sucks fucking Can't make that shit make sense to me. That shit put me know that should put me in a downer. I was down like a motherfucker. I remember coming home and damn near wanted to cry. I'm like, so i can't so I can't do shit. she she got She fucking got me. She fucking got me. It sucks because that's this is definitely not the first time I've heard at a story like this dude sucks. yeah so i um It doesn't make sense to me that They want to cripple the father so bad that you ruined the experience that children have too, even when they go to their parents' house, go to the other parents' house. And my children's experience was slightly ruined when they came to daddy's house, because it's like, there's nothing here. When they first started coming to my house. No, you don't. Like, I can't, I can't take you out to eat. I can't go buy you this and that. And I would get a whole lot of, well, they just, they don't care about that. You can do, go do free things with them.
00:18:25
Speaker
Everything doesn't have to cost money. There's nothing you could do for real. There's really nothing. That wasn't even my argument. My main argument with it was they don't want to do anything that is free. What they want to do is the things that cost money. And at that time, extra money on any given day wasn't really a thing I had existed. There's no extra. Yeah, there was no extra. I was… You have bills. I don't know if they were… That's the extra.
00:18:52
Speaker
Yeah, when they first came over, I think I was a roommate when I first started letting them come over. And I didn't even want that because I'm like um' their father and they see me living in a house with three other people in a bedroom, confined to a bedroom. That shit sucked that my kids had to come over and see that. And i I hated that. I fucking hated that.
00:19:13
Speaker
and But she felt like I was trying not to see the kids at all. i just i'm like i'm just I'm trying to move out of here. i just Why would you not want your children to see their other parent in a better situation? Why would you want to want them to see their their father in a low situation?
00:19:32
Speaker
Yeah, but they're like the same fucking thing, you know? I wouldn't want that. That doesn't make sense. You want them to be able to make sure their lives are good so they can be able to provide the same thing for their kids. Yeah, you won't have equal lives in both environments. I would hope. I would think so.
00:19:53
Speaker
And I think about a lot of things like that were bothering me so much at the time. They don't bother me now. I just want to make that clear. I'm all good now. I'm in better places. But at that time, it just bothered me because I, and then I lost my train of thought, but I didn't want to.
00:20:09
Speaker
I don't understand. can't I can't grasp it on some of you women. that I understand some men are shit and they deserve it. I get it. But if they aren't completely shit- Some women too. Yeah, some women me too. Why do you go to the extents that some of you will go to, to crush the fuck out of them? Yeah, yeah like some straight up emotional damage. first Crush, crush, crush. And then...
00:20:37
Speaker
I remember one day being told that, well, you change your job, you change your job every other month. like I'm trying to trying to get out of this hole. and I'm trying to get out of this fucking hole on me. Do what I could do. What the hell? so Yeah, that turned off into a whole rant about my ah past, but that was like four, five years ago.
00:20:58
Speaker
and I just feel like child support does need to change at some point. They need to figure another way out to to issue this money that is said to be owed to the children. Yeah, the formula or algorithm, whatever the hell they have set up is fucked up. And it's I didn't know that they could just frickin' pick from whatever you're making. and That sucks.
00:21:23
Speaker
Yeah, they can, ah yeah, go get it. If I go get another part-time job now, it'll take a couple months, but they will get to it. They will get to it. which so one I'm just curious, which job made more money?
Financial Strain from Child Support
00:21:38
Speaker
The Wegmans or the other one?
00:21:41
Speaker
oh well Well, I was working there part-time. You mean while I was working at both of them at the same time? Yeah. Oh, obviously my full-time job, I made more money. Damn. So wait a minute. You told me, so they hid you at both jobs in the same week? Yeah. They would take 250 from my riser check and then they were taking, it would come out to 200 from my miss check. So she was literally just getting a whole paycheck from you. She got another separate paycheck. $500 essentially. That's ridiculous.
00:22:11
Speaker
So that's bullshit. And that's why there's many guys, bro, that they literally quit their high paying jobs because the more money they made, the more money they had to pay them. thats street And like literally, this most states, their cap is 10 grand.
00:22:30
Speaker
Which is what? How can that shit be fair? du ten gri Like, don't get me wrong. If you're making that kind of money. Okay. But at the same token, that person, regardless of sex, that person put themselves in a position to make a lot of money. So you're telling me that it's going to take.
00:22:52
Speaker
$8,000 a month in child support. Oh, fucking even even $4,000 a month is ridiculous. It doesn't. It doesn't take that much. Like fucking that, you know, that's insane. but right I got it. It depends on kids. It depends on kids. Don't get me wrong. If you have like three kids, four kids, God damn dude, the whole game is weak. Fuck. I been intent wrapped i yeah fuck theyre up god damnmon i got three. Mine are all three intentional.
00:23:22
Speaker
Listen, I came from a family of four of ah five. It was fucking crazy. But on the other hand, I know people that have... I know one guy that has seven, which is fucking insane. I got a burp. Okay. Yeah. There's a video of this girl on YouTube. She was complaining that um maybe you've seen a tube during your travels. But... um She was like, rollland she's like, I am so upset. My, my ex-husband quit his six figure job to go work at a fast food restaurant to avoid paying c child support. And then continued to say, I can barely afford my mortgage now. Who told you to fucking move where you can't afford it? It sounded like somebody in the comments said, well, it sounds to me like you're more like you're living beyond your means. Yep.
00:24:17
Speaker
Just like he was doing it if he had to. Just like most men would do if he had to. Like I did. Like let like if i had that if I had enough skill set as a technician, I would quit the fuck out of my job and do side gigs. Because i and a lot of people mention it in the comment section because he was an electrician.
00:24:35
Speaker
i'm like And they're saying what I'm thinking, like if he's an electrician, oh, he's still getting making money. He's doing side gigs and getting paid on the table. He's still making six figures. Yeah, he's still making 50 to 75 on the side easily. he still If you're a good electrician, yes. the The side jobs roll in very easily. Hell yeah.
00:24:57
Speaker
And you know what? Good for you. You fucking learned a fucking skill. Yeah. I've been a mechanic for 25 years. I guess so many times I've done something like that. Yep. A lot. I wish I had it in me to be able to do something like that. Like my dad, he, um, he's so good at carpentry. He was doing side gigs in carpentry for people remodeling their, their bathrooms, remodeling their, he was remodeling an entire fucking trailer.
00:25:22
Speaker
for a woman when I went down there a couple years ago, but that was before he got really sick.
Regret Over Not Learning Carpentry
00:25:27
Speaker
He can't do, um, carpenter anymore. But, um, I always, and I know, I mean i've know I've mentioned this somewhere on one of my episodes before, but I wish I spent more time around that motherfucker. So I could have soaked up all that carpentry knowledge. My carpentry knowledge is at a DIY level.
00:25:47
Speaker
His shit is at Bob Vila level. yeah i um Anybody remember Bob Vila? Bob Vila's the man. Or was he? My dad was on, he's on that motherfuckers level. He can build some shit. I can watch a video and replicate it to an to an extent. But my dad, he knows his angles.
00:26:07
Speaker
How does how does the support that it needs and all that shit and he ain't he's not a math person at all I don't think carpentry takes a lot of math does not like he all those angles and you're gonna measure stuff and he's not actually I don't think no offense to my father or anything, but he's not um academic math man. He's, he's not the most academically skilled guy, but you get that motherfucker i saw in some two by fours. And he's going to build something fancy. Don't you worry. Yeah, he's kicking ass. Like that. That's crazy to me how people.
00:26:41
Speaker
And that brings me to another discussion too because I – Yeah, I'm like – This is called the branch podcast because it just keeps on going. Branch and all. But it's amazing to me how they try to put everybody at this level. Like they need to be a certain academically inclined in school and shit.
00:27:02
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And I don't think school is really designed in the best way for everybody. You can't tell me everybody has to be smart in math, English, social studies, science. You have to be in order to do this. Cause there's people that can do that and know none of that shit. That's true. But math, I would say math and science are the only ones that I would say that is really important because in reality you could literally, those are in every job in some way or another.
00:27:32
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I think everything's in every job to an extent in some way or another. yeah But true I feel like once you get out of middle school, I feel like high school should be designed totally fucking differently. It needs to be about earning college credits or earning a even earning a technical degree, like a skill or something, a trade. High school should be focused on that, not writing fucking research papers and shit. That's why I went to a trade school, bro.
00:28:00
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We didn't have it back in my day. The benefit, motherfucker, I'm not that old of you. What the fuck? Back in my day. 40, not 58. But you grew up here in a much and a larger state and had larger opportunities. i You're right, you're right. My school, my graduating class was 53 people. I mean, tiny school. Yeah. You grew up in big shit. but yeah yeah My graduating class was like 280, something like that.
00:28:27
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I couldn't imagine being in a school with that many motherfuckers. So how many of y'all's classrooms like? Uh, each classroom? I think it was like 20 people, 25. See, we would have some classes that were 10 to 12. Most classes were 10 to 12. I remember some classes that had like five to seven people in it. No, there was a lot of kids. The ones that had like, it's going to sound bad. The ones that had less were like the special kids that needed help. Oh, they were.
00:28:55
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but Yeah, the special ed's kids are a smaller population of the of society. So yeah, there will be ah fewer of them. But even then, I would assume you had more special needs kids too than I would have in mind. Bro, they had two squads. They were two squads deep. I remember knows exactly how many right now. Two squads, so it was 10 people. Dude, two squads deep walking around.
00:29:25
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Still waiting on my goddamn promotion. Man. I increased my mileage on there to a thousand for acceptable E5 positions. My intent is not to accept it though. If it comes in, I was told I can decline it. Ask them can I stay if I was no union. What did you get something fucking cool though? Like what? Texas? No, like Golden, California. It's beautiful in Northern California.
00:29:51
Speaker
I don't, I hate California. Yeah, but you you think about the desert, the desert one sucks ass. But I don't like, I don't like California as a state. I think the laws are stupid. I don't. Well, yeah, you get to see a bunch of fairies friends around or the ding dongs out, but you know.
00:30:06
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Yeah, you can't really have a gun to each their own, by the way. You know, that's what you want to do. If you want to ding dong, I can say what I what I want to say. You know, it's what I want to do. It's a free country. It's free country. If you believe in they and them. Good for you. Good for you. Good for you. I'll still have five of both of you. Yeah, I'll high-five both of you. I just believe in she, her, and pussies and dicks. I just believe that you were born one way and you're still that way regardless of any, but that's just me, sorry. Sexuality is binary. Isn't that what they say? Two weeks their own, you know, fuck it. Sexuality is binary. Isn't that the way it goes? I think that's, I don't know. Doesn't it? Yeah, because binary means two.
00:30:54
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binary means so relating toris or involving two things relating to using or expressing a system a numerical notation that has two rather than ten as a base so yeah sexuality is biary um well Yeah, that's right, because they usually say it's non-binary.
00:31:09
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yeah and Yeah, I'm, I ain't gonna, I'll start some shit with y'all tonight, okay? yeah did It's two fucking sexes, okay? If you decide... I'll start some shit with you guys today. Fuck this shit. I'll start some shit with y'all, man. Hell, Crown Warrior said I can say whatever the fuck I want tonight. But, it's two sexes. I need you to prove me wrong if there isn't. I mean,
00:31:36
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ah I hate when people find these rare occurrences and they're like, this is proof that sex is sexuality is is more than two genders. No, that's just a rare motherfucker. I mean, not every you're not going you're not going to tell me that it is usual that a man or woman or whatever the fuck it is is born with a dick and a coochie. Right. How many people are born with a dick and a pussy?
00:32:02
Speaker
I'm sure there's a number out there, but I have one research to number how I met one in my entire life many Not like that. I just found out later You sure you see that shouldn't get interested interested like poking me in the belly. What is that's pretty awesome? so i'm pokeking My belly button with the are born with to genitalia. The number of births with ambiguous genitalias is in the range of 1 out of 4. So.2% to 0.5%.
00:32:44
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All right, so that's another Staggering number, but it's not stag. It's not staggering enough. I mean we go to the bathroom for you Yes, not even half percent. It's like Quarter of a quarter of a quarter when you go to Chili's you need to choose men or women ah you can't There's no bathroom for you. Okay, just pick one or piss outside. No one cares. But sorry if you're shaking it this That's pretty much it. If you're fucking shaking it, you know what batteries you're being. I mean, can you be a woman and shake it? No, you can't. I'm sorry. You might have to pull your pants down very low and really straddle that urinal and just... Oh, oh, oh. Dude, you got an RB's number five. I'm sorry.
00:33:33
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Got the roast beef. I'm sorry, you know. there is this girl though i see i'm gonna give me shit for that one but it's all right you know i seen this girl some on snapchat that um she i guess she's called herself uh she was intersex and i guess her things was that her hole never opened it what so she just had a greasy not well greasy that's not a slab down there yes
00:34:02
Speaker
The fuck? Slab? It's a slab. Those bitches they cleaned. That's a smooth tissue down there. That's so... that is so what ah But there's so many questions. There's so many fucking questions that I can't even ask her. The fuck? Smooth tissue. Oh my god.
00:34:26
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man Yeah, um but it's on Snapchat. It pops up every now and then. But apparently she's born where she has more i guess more and um male traits than female traits, and in some parts it's more ah female traits than male traits where it should be, vice versa. I couldn't tell.
00:34:48
Speaker
It's very weird, but that is a that's an anomaly. that's not a That's not a normal enough thing for us to say there's not two genders. We know there's two genders. So I don't understand people. I like listening to Charlie Kirk debate these people because Charlie Kirk be fucking me up. and me trippping well yeah do He's able to like stay like with the facts and not get distracted. That's a good fucking debater. It really is. That's the thing. And people try to throw curve balls all the time and he just stays with the facts. he's
00:35:22
Speaker
They curve balling and he's fixed speaking factual. He's just kicking you facts. and ah And while he's kicking you facts, he's being all calm. He's not putting his feelings into it. So many of those people get up there to debate him. All feelings. Just like a woman. Y'all women ain't number feelings. I'm always going to bring it back to women. I'm sorry. i love even the as I'm always going to bring it back to you.
00:35:46
Speaker
So yeah, intersects, uh, smooth slate and, percentage of the population. You guys are affected. Um, other than that, I know the last episode we were on together, I was talking about, oh, were you going to say something? No, no, no, no. I was talking about, uh,
00:36:14
Speaker
that's how my um I didn't like where my life was and some shit and I wanted to do more and be better and all that shit. So, something like that.
Returning to School for Nutrition
00:36:22
Speaker
But yeah, I still feel that way. So, I have decided to get my ass enrolled into school again. I've done this a lot of people. I got about 30 something credits worth of schooling. I have been in there and done it. but I'm gonna do this again. And I'm doing it for this time. For the last time. It's still in the same general area. It's still in the healthcare area. So it's in nutrition. That's what I want to do. I want to do a... Well, you're good with that shit now. A Bachelor of Nutrition. Yeah, I feel like the best way for me to do this is to do something I'm actually interested in learning about.
00:37:02
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I do pay attention to what I'm putting in my body most times or not. So nutrition is something I would love to learn. And I like, and I would feel good, you know, working in a hospital, going to tell people like, you need to eat more. of This, this, this. It'll help improve your sleep or your hormones or your, you know.
00:37:19
Speaker
Your sex drive, blah, blah, blah. These foods are bringing this down. you know I like talking about that kind of shit. I'm always doing it anyway to a lot of people around me. So why not try to make myself smart in that area and get the fuck out of this.
00:37:36
Speaker
shit I'm in because I'm just doing this but I don't love it. I want to do something I love. what It's awesome if you do something passionate about that's for sure. Yeah, it makes it less of a job, you know, and more yeah definitely more enjoyable and you know,
00:37:51
Speaker
I want my kid to be happy. I want my kid to see that he did something. I want my next kid to see, you know, I want to be able to have something, you know, just have something and do it and have a job where I get up and dress nice and, you know, look good. You feel me? I do. I don't keep a haircut because I don't keep a haircut now. I mean, I'm a technician, but I'm working in an office, you know, working in a hospital. I got to keep a haircut.
00:38:16
Speaker
gastic fly and keep it clean gastic fly so That's you know, that's just a little update on something. I am doing I also Want some tickets, you know, you're about vet ticks calm the one where you get you get free They have loads of free tickets for military members. It's only for military members. and Okay so Yeah, they got The good stuff is really hard to get, like Patriot tickets, Celtic tickets, that kind of stuff is lottery based and you got to enter it and hope you get it. Yeah. um But then they got other stuff that's less people aren't really crazy about, like they'll have comedy shows, ah concerts for very under known artists.
00:38:58
Speaker
um ah Yukon games, Rhode Island Ram games. So they got some good stuff in there, but I entered one of their little lotteries for GEZ concert. I didn't think I'd get it. Yeah, I got it G easy goddamn it and I'm like, but if that was joining Lucas or somebody I really fucking enjoyed Big Sean I bet y'all wouldn't have got that shit. So it just but Jesus. Alright, I did used to listen to his music. I don't think he dropped the real album since like 21 20
00:39:29
Speaker
Yeah, but I like Jesus so that's in Boston and on in November 14th the week of nice man Yeah, so I'm gonna I'm gonna go there. It's gonna be a good time turn up. You know with G easy Yeah,
00:39:46
Speaker
yeah I like your shit I do like I've been really listening to him again today, and I'm like damn Why did it was stop listening to easy? He ain't bad. He's he's already got I
00:39:56
Speaker
Damn, I drank that shit way too fast. Don't pull you another one, brother. That's all right. Don't be that way. We'll keep rolling. You ain't doing your other stuff tonight. What's what's up? I fucking have to roll it. I wasn't prepared. I was thinking I'll try to keep looking down. I'm like, I could roll it right now. You can roll it and talk, brother. Roll it and talk. No, I can't. I can't roll it and talk like a motherfucker. Trust me. That's why I'm like, damn, he ain't rolling up today. I know. I know. That's not good. That's his normal thing. It's like me not having a drink when I do this podcast with you. It's like, I got both, bro.
00:40:32
Speaker
It's ah fucking Sunday. you know It's the weekend. It's the end of the weekend, unfortunately, people. You got one thing to look forward to. You get to listen to us. But on the other hand, it's the end of the weekend.
00:40:44
Speaker
who Get to listen to handsome gentleman kid and play. like you know I haven't seen that fucking movie in a man long time. That was a good movie. I need to watch it. I'm trying to party. In case any motherfuckers want to talk about it. how Or actually, the first one is called Class Act, I think. Oh, no. what but what I thought that was wasn't that like the technically like the was it the prequel or whatever? Let me see. Class Act movie.
00:41:15
Speaker
Yeah, the first film was called Class Act. All right, so I didn't see that one. The first the one I saw was House Party. And then it moved off into being called House Party. You haven't seen Klassak, more guy? Um, maybe. Klassak's how they got started. a Kid, I mean play was a bad kid and he tried to switch places with Kid. So he switched his name, they s switched names around. He pretended to be him and the other one and vice versa. So.
00:41:47
Speaker
Yeah, that's how they got started off and then the house party shit kicked off on the next one That's nice start doing house party the way shes a good fucking movie the glass. Yeah, it's a good shit Apparently it budget had a seven point five million dollar budget That ain't really shit today for a movie, but I bet back in 1992 that was some good working money spent on a bitch that was like over a hundred k a hundred fucking million fuck yeah Yeah, it's probably up there now. i want yeah I wonder what that is like adjusted for today's income. and I almost guarantee if you Google it, they'll give you some fucking type of website that's like adjusted gross income or adjusted income. They probably do. oh It is probably some type of AI system out there that it can fucking calculate it for you. Back in 2019-20. It's gotta be. It's gotta to be.
00:42:38
Speaker
Now I know you guys coming for some relationship type shit. I think I've already touched on a little bit of it with a talk about transport and how it's a bitch, but I had one thing I do want to talk to you about. Uh, let me make sure my boy, like I cut you off. Oh, you're going to go ahead. Cause I was going to, I was going to bring up something like that. Okay.
00:42:58
Speaker
ah So I want to talk about vulnerability in a relationship. but um Which to a lot of guys is a fucking word you have to explain. And then when you explain it, they're like, oh yeah, no, nope.
Vulnerability in Relationships
00:43:13
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I think vulnerability is something i don't I don't think I ever really talk about it much. Most guys don't. When it comes to the importance in a relationship.
00:43:26
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ah And I think a lot of guys don't really show it off too much because it brings up a level of weakness, I guess, for a man. and Yeah, because you have to open up and show your, your actual weakness. So yeah, they what made to the point women like masculinity. So if a man is too fucking vulnerable, it becomes unattractive, but you guys swear you want it. I think i think you do want it until you get it.
00:43:58
Speaker
You think it's 50-50? I feel like it's 50-50. They want it until it doesn't appease them. You know what I mean? Yeah. Well, it's not all because we don't know all. We're just going by the input we have received physically and we'll say internetly. And yes, I just say that fucking word. So it's media wise and the ones that I have inserted. There it is. My main company wants to save.
00:44:25
Speaker
The ones who have rec received my demon. They are the ones that I draw my experience from. um Sometimes in movies, but movies are based on what happens in real life, so same shit. For the most part, yeah. Yeah. Vulnerability to quality of being easily hurt, influenced, or attacked, or the state of appearing as if you are.
00:44:50
Speaker
Ah, comes from the Latin word vulnerableness, which means wound. That's some new shit I didn't know about. One example of vulnerability. Here you go. You want a doctor who understands the patient's vulnerability, those who organize the attacks, exploited vulnerabilities and nation's defenses. It can refer to a weakness in a system, system security procedures, internal controls, or implementation that can be exploited or triggered by threat, or it can be um or can we refer to your fucking relationship and you're like thereof because you're not vulnerable enough which means you're not opening up with your partner and if you're not opening up with your partner that can lead to problems in other areas of your relationship because not opening up your partner partner doesn't just refer to
00:45:41
Speaker
talking to them, but being vulnerable means you're open enough to share your heart with them, to share your communication with them, to share your sexuality with them, to you know be there for them for support.
00:45:57
Speaker
So vulnerability plays just as much as an important part to communication and trust because vulnerability pretty much is like the foundation, the baseline you need to even have a level of trust because how can you say you trust someone but you're not vulnerable with them? So you're not trusting your emotions with them, you're not trusting your heart with them because that's being vulnerable.
00:46:25
Speaker
Also, communication. You're not trusting your words with them. You don't want to say this or that because you're not trusting yourself well enough. So you're not being vulnerable. So vulnerability, I believe, is a key baseline that everyone needs for a overall, a very ah healthy, communicating, trustworthy, supportive relationship.
00:46:52
Speaker
And Lewis is now going to tell you his side on vulnerability. I don't want to do Lewis. Uh, I honestly, it's definitely, it's like one, I want to say it's one of the first things that goes into you and being like, you don't actually realize you're considering it, but to be vulnerable with someone is literally like to give them the ability to hurt you. It's one way to look at it. True shit.
00:47:14
Speaker
because you're telling them like some deep shit whether you realize it or not and then they could use it against you it doesn't mean that they're going to but you know shit happens in the heat of the moment and you know that's but again if you don't take that leap you'll never know and it doesn't mean that everyone's gonna be like that but if you're back to the whole saying there's uh like every beginning part of a relationship at one point or another you have to become vulnerable because you got to tell them especially like at my age man like I'm 40 you have to explain your fucking baggage because everybody has it even younger age though too but it's just expected at this age like it's just funny talking yeah
00:47:56
Speaker
like some women about like the podcast and I'm like, oh, you know, and oh yeah, nothing. Everything's good, no problems. And then as you start to get into the details, like, oh yeah, my fucking ex is a piece of shit. Like that's a problem that you should be like clear right off the fucking bat. For real. For real. But yeah, you do have to be vulnerable if you want it to be healthy because you don't want to get into it and then try to be vulnerable because A lot of times, us as a like us as people, first impression is is's definitely lasting. So I'm not saying to try to be perfect, but be your true self as much as you can. You can't be your true self for not being vulnerable because that shit has, that shit you've been through all your life in your ex-relationships, you know, losing how you lost your virginity and why you don't talk to this type of person no more and blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:48:49
Speaker
that shit molded you into the person you are today and so if you're you not being vulnerable my friend is it correct my friend yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah so if you're not being vulnerable if you're not openly Expressing all that shit. You're really doing your partner a fucking disservice and I mean you're fucking them over because they think they know who you are and they have no idea because you've never been Truly honest with who you are you to yourself. Yeah, so If you're not being truly honest to yourself, you just presented a fake person to the person you're with
00:49:29
Speaker
Think about that shit, man. That was actually kind of deep. Bro, I got some shit, bro. let it was bad Last week's episode, I said some shit too, and Amado was like, damn. Yeah, Amado was like, damn, that was good.
00:49:47
Speaker
And I was like, bro, I should have been a fucking therapist. Well, see, he wasn't coming on at first and, um... damnmon a modelto you better get the fuck back on yeah It really was just Isabel. And then, um, he messaged me like 30 minutes prior. He's like, when you're doing a show, I was like, oh, we're doing it in like 30 minutes or so. And he was like, yo, I'm going to be on. I want to come on. I was like, bet.
00:50:11
Speaker
You know, he's just like, he really hit me up out of the blue. I didn't tell him to come through this on that weekend or nothing. He just, you want to show up. Him and Jonathan Alasea, they're going to come on together for an episode and we're going to have some fun.
00:50:30
Speaker
but Yeah, I was telling them that um I said something last week that it hit him, too. He's like, damn, bro, that was i was fucking good. I was like, I should have been a fucking therapist at this point. I got some shit, bro. Oh, you trust me. They make money with bars. I got bars, bro.
00:50:48
Speaker
Uh-uh. My friend's fucking wife is a therapist and she does make money, but she doesn't tell me about stuff, but just like the tiho she just always seems stressed. I don't want to make that kind of money if if I'm just stressing the entire fucking time. I don't think I can listen to everybody else's problems.
00:51:08
Speaker
at that level. like um When I invite girls to come on the show, when I invite people to come on the show, that's different. like I don't think we're really diving deep, even though I would love to do that sometimes. But on a consistent basis, and it being my job, and me taking notes, and me not ever laughing.
00:51:26
Speaker
like yeah Especially if you get the one who's a sex fiend, and I know that's an actual thing. Yeah, I can take that, too. My husband won't let me suck his dick in the middle of the night, and you're like, What the fuck am I supposed to say? You want to suck mine? I mean, are you feeling empty? No, I can't. Yeah, that'd be too tough for me. But I mean, if you ladies want to come on the show and talk this shit, I love to talk on the show. Yeah, come on, man. I say that and then I fucking miss the one show that people come on. God damn it. One episode. Yeah, we got a...
00:52:04
Speaker
I still got a schedule with that one, uh, license. Oh yeah, that's right. they build Yeah, I got a schedule with her. I think she's probably thought at this point, he's just, he ain't doing it, but I just haven't gotten around to it. I don't know what my schedule looks like either. I only know what my next drill date is and.
00:52:21
Speaker
Then I want to do it. I'd rather do it on a weekend when the kids aren't here. Yo, that's right. You got to make sure you send me the information at that party before we forget. yeah Yeah. Did I? I never sent you that flyer. No. You see, you're going to look up the email and send it to me. Unless you did and you just didn't tell me you did. Because I get a bunch of emails and I'll check them every day. It's one thing i since I'm not in anymore. I probably wouldn't have emailed it to you anyway, though. I probably would have just text messages texted to you. I don't think I would have sent you an email.
00:52:51
Speaker
I probably said email, but didn't mean to say email. Well, I think it was just like forwarded. That's why. Yeah, that's probably what I don't know what happened. So I don't know what happened that day. Don't know what fucking happened that day. Try to get some of the women from the unit to go.
00:53:08
Speaker
You know what, I've been doing, I did Uber last night. oh shit yeah yeah I had a couple of women in the car. i I need to start being a little more hopeful. You gotta bring a brain of GoPro. You gotta bring a GoPro and be like, so you guys ever see if I can? I used to have a GoPro, I didn't like it, but I actually have the, ah I have a camera mount in my car on the windshield. If you ever get my windshield and you're wondering what the fuck is that contraption on my windshield, it's for my Sony camera. So.
00:53:37
Speaker
I do be meaning to bring it and record my drives. Yeah. But I never do. But um and just put the mount in just to be like, this thing's going to smack me in the face if I get in a car accident. Awesome.
00:53:50
Speaker
Nah, nah, nah. It's secure. It's secure as shit. There's a dude on YouTube. His whole channel is his Uber drives. Like, you can make a fucking YouTube channel off driving people. But see, he's conversing. Is he guy? He's got some long hair. He's like Indian looking. and know oh cause it all got op in this here I forget the name of him. It's something funny uber rides. I want to say he's based out of Australia These guys in America, he these girls he got girls in the car literally trying to fuck him like they want to fuck god Damn. No, this guy's funny as well. I've never out of all my uber rides had anybody want to fuck me Not once
00:54:33
Speaker
So, you know, I did drive taxis a long time ago. My dad owned a taxi company. And I'm not gonna lie, there was two women that came on to me and I was only like 18 at the time. One of them was really drunk, so that's a given. The other one wasn't. It was bone sober and it was like fucking three o'clock in the afternoon. I did have a fucking taxi.
00:54:59
Speaker
I did have one, um, driving around. I was taking them to a strip club and they asked me to come. If I would ask me to come in with them, they're like, you want to come in? I'm like, like, no, I gotta go make money. And then they're like, well, if you come back later, you know, hit us up or whatever. But I'm like, nah, I'm all set. I'm good on that. No, I didn't do that. But, um, you're like thanks ladies. No, thank you. Yeah, I never, I don't think I come off conversive enough for anybody to feel like I'm going to get him. I don't come off like that. Unfortunately, I have a very standoffish attitude, but facially. I'm really not that low. I was going to say, you really do have that fuck you face, no offense. Yeah, but I really do. Don't look at me. I enjoy people. I really do, folks. That's why I'm on here. I'm a nice motherfucker. I just look like I hate you. I really am. Trust me. Yeah, Bryce is a good guy. You see him in the streets. Say fucking hello.
00:55:55
Speaker
Yeah, you people, have you've come on the show, you know, okay, hes he talks more than then he puts on. I mean, the people I know, listen to they found out about my podcast, you know, I was a Sergeant Sherman. and I'm very surprised. You got about guys like, yeah, I do talk. I like talking to people. I honestly like talking to people. I just. He just needs to fill you out first to make sure you're in a fucking ball bag. I got to feel the fuck out of people. I got to feel the fuck out of you. Yeah. like I just can't go having a full blown conversation with a fucking stranger. My ex-wife used to be really good at with that. And I'm like, how are you just talking to random ass people? Like, you know, I'm like, I ain't doing that. I do it sometimes in certain situations because I want to feel them out.
00:56:36
Speaker
I don't want to feel anybody. No, no, no, not physically. If I'm in a situation where there's someone close to me for any given situation, every certain, any given certain amount of time, I want to know that person. You know what I mean? This shit goes down. I can square them up. Everything he says sounds like he wants to fuck them.
00:56:56
Speaker
there sounds So bad you're right Fucking hey, I'm talking about one and I have to like take him the fuck out and you're like, yeah He wants to penetrate him. Yeah, that's what you sound like you want to know something No Dixie for chicks man. That's my opinion at least Really? You know like real girls do not like I'm a girl, you know I feel like I've wanted to, I've been wanting to revisit that whole, I'm not gay podcast episode.
Hypothetical Scenario on Sexuality
00:57:26
Speaker
Um, so we should do it, but we should get like four or five other guys on it and do like a fucking, i will like a circle would be fucking hilarious. Because I folks hear me out, bro. I mean, no, homo, nothing, no D check me. It's just.
00:57:48
Speaker
I don't know how gay I would think a guy was. and isnt isnt Don't think this is my own personal beliefs and something not but um I'm doing. But I just, if a guy told me, damn, that girl's hot. Bro, I'm gonna get her. And he takes her home, he's kissing on her and shit. He rubs down there and she's like, I gotta tell you something, you know?
00:58:09
Speaker
I got a ding dong. Oh, dude. Like, what do you how gay is he now? Because then men are to hear me, hear me. hear Men are designed to be attracted to women. She looks like a woman in every fucking. But he's every fucking it's a woman. man She looks he looks like a woman. Every fucking sense of the woman.
00:58:31
Speaker
Hair, lips, toes, legs, soft skin. That's fucked up though. Dude like that. But they got a dick. How wrong is he for still finding some level of attraction? Like, well, damn, that's a pretty hot guy. Yeah, but here's the fucked up part. It's funny to me and you, Ray. But his brain has just thought over this over and over and over, like a thousand times in less than a half a second. And that's why they lose their fucking mind and beat the fucking shit out of the...
00:59:00
Speaker
person yeah because dude what the fuck if that's the case cool you won't you want to look like a woman on the outside but then still have a ding dong then fucking be honest right off the bat I don't know hard the like hey yeah you think I'm cute just so you know I got a bigger dick than you like so you like what if oh my god what um like don't even What if you don't even find out that it's a girl? I mean, that it's actually a boy. Dude, that fucking video I said to. What if you don't find out it's even a boy for like a month? and but But that night you went over there, she just gave you some shit for why she can't have sex. she's on it He's on here on his period. no oh she gay But he gave you head.
00:59:44
Speaker
And you going back telling your boys, bro. I could beat the fuck out of that person. Bro, Crystal gave me the best head of my life, bro. Best head ever. So what if now he's been seeing Crystal for a whole 30, 60 days, bro, getting the meanest dick sucker ever in his life. And she founds out on month five, she wants to, she wants to, I can see I'm fucking up. I don't even know if this here or she. And this is my goddamn tour.
01:00:06
Speaker
they are very He or she wants to give this man finally wants to fuck. And she's like, I got it. We got to talk. Give him the banana split. And, um, I know it's wrong and I shouldn't have done you that way, but but I can't do this anymore because I really love you.
01:00:27
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and
01:00:34
Speaker
but Listen, listen, Jeffrey. ah Good, good. I was born a man. I'd fucking punch you in the face. yeah Right in the face. I don't give a fuck. i I would punch you in the face. That fucking long dude, fuck you. you're a You're a dude at that point. You are straight up a dude. Guess what? You're getting punched in the face like a dude. ah Fucking, oh my god. Oh shit, I knocked my camera light over.
01:01:01
Speaker
Fucking uppercut you like Superman you fucking oh oh my yeah That's what she lets me that's deceitful at that point and you deserve the fucking ass whoop and it's coming to you Oh my god, they claim you got a fucking vagina all you want at that point, man I'll fucking pull it out and hold it my hand. There's no vagina here. but the fuck Oh my goodness my shit That's fucked up by I don't like people who are going to lose. They're going to be like, not everyone, but some people. So you've been receiving the meeting saved for six months and not yogurt. How gay are you, bro? Sorry. Yeah, how gay are you? We'd have to put it to the panel. And I think it'd be like an overwhelming vote. But you didn't know, you are a man and you are built to be attracted to a woman. All you know is a woman, Luis. That is a woman. If you never found out, if you never found out, you're golden. But since you found out that it's a dude, you're gay. That's it. I'm sorry. Dude, that's guy talk. Literally, you can ask any fucking guy and it'll be just like that. I don't know, bro. If you never found out,
01:02:11
Speaker
it's It's not gay, it's just a woman. But he found that immediatelyly done he found out that when he's done, he's once he knows it's a guy, it's over. You're still saying he's gay even though he received hair from what he know to be a woman for five months. Yeah, but bro you're telling me for five months this girl's giving you sloppy toppy and you're not you're not trying to like it doesn't matter how good her head is you still want to bust a nut in a pussy. I don't care with anybody. Have you not seen some of these like legit like they had the money to get the real woman do over?
01:02:44
Speaker
Have you seen something new? I have. do is I've tried to find this website before because I wanted to put it on and talk about it on the podcast. But there was this like power how like compilation of whatever where and someone put together actual women and when and transitional women. well just That's the title I'll give them for now. Then you get to guess, huh? And you have to guess which is real and which is not. dude and there was There was four real women.
01:03:15
Speaker
and there was six transitional ones dude I literally got four out of the freaking six wrong because I thought they were legit women the other two I could just tell by like the certain cheekbone and like the other one dude the big question here Lewis how are you gay no because I didn't know they were women and that is a Well, I don't know man being in that situation again like think about it now you're gonna tell anybody I'm never gonna lie as you're a man looking at those pictures though You're like damn I fucked shit out of that and now you felt you're like damn I got it wrong I would have said I'm a man. Yep. Yo, I'm not gonna lie. I'll fuck that I'll admit to that shit. Yes
01:03:58
Speaker
Any guy who's been on a dating app, like Tinder, and he's just swiping, you'll get that instant visual and be like, oh shit, all right. And then you look again and you're like, oh, wait a minute. So every guy has done it. So fuck you. you good job do I'll fucking admit it. Yeah, I have done it. And then yes, do I reevaluate my thinking process for the next like 15 minutes? Yep.
01:04:19
Speaker
You got to, bro. I give myself a mental check, like, oh, whoa, hey, wait, I just thought a guy was cute. Nope. I've done that before, too. But we're not wrong for thinking that way, though. We are men programmed to see a woman. Yeah. Our brain sees a woman, so our brain... features Yeah. Now you're a hot woman and until we find out you're a guy in our brain and shut that shit down. If you were truly a man, now, if you're overthinking about shit, you're on the fence and shit. You're like, I'd fucking attractive, man. Well, then you might be. Oh, fuck, man. Hey, yeah, you're a little gay now. But if you're over here thinking to yourself, well, if she gets to surgery and takes a dick off, you know, oh good for you. It's just enough for me, bro.
01:05:04
Speaker
Now what if he is with a woman who will agree to get the surgery and remove the dick? Are you now gay? Yes, dude. I'm sorry. Yes. Yes. but would say yeah No, I don't give a fuck. That's my opinion. Yes. You knew she. She. but Whatever. You knew it them fucking had a fucking ding-a-ling. I don't know what the fuck to call them, but you knew. And then you're like, you know what? Yes. Lock that thing off, turn it into a banana split so I could fuck the hell out of it.
01:05:34
Speaker
No. That's okay. Wow. Okay. Okay. So next question. I'm going up every level. Listen. Okay. So if they already have had the split. They've already got it split and turned into a banana split Sunday. Now, you can't know that that man, that that person was born a woman or not. And you've been fucking that God, I mean that scientific lab created this. I don't know. I honestly don't know. You've been fucking artificial pussy, bruh. I don't I don't know, dude.
01:06:09
Speaker
Oh, I fucking, I do. I don't know. you know go yeah listen I saw a fucking video the other day. I was just talking about it. I saw a video the other day where it's this like attractive blonde woman. And she's talking about how she was like, how it was growing up and her being in like a black neighborhood. And then she's like, yeah, it was right when I was transitioning and they pan to one of the other panels on the panel guests or whatever. And it was this black guy and he's like,
01:06:38
Speaker
like he's looking at like tri he's like trying to like change the angle like looking at her cheek structure and oh man like that's the thing like it was that where like i watched it like two or three times be like that's a man holy shit It does not look like a fucking man. There are some very talented doctors out there. Yeah. So... That is... I don't know. It is one of my worst fears. Just be a fun fuck man. It's a lot less worse than fucking finding out after you fucking destroy someone's psyche. Don't do that.
01:07:13
Speaker
Because I'm married now, so it doesn't scare me. But if I'm a single man and I'm, you know, the fuck out of me. bro Yeah, I was about to say, because we live in an area where there's a high population of people like that. I mean, we're in the Boston area. We you go to a Boston club or one of these nightclubs providence or some shit like that.
01:07:32
Speaker
You know, you people that live in Dallas, Cali, Miami, you up in there hot, sweaty with a motherfucker, you drinking. You know, like, oh, hey, girl. You want to come home with me tonight, huh? Yeah, Bobby, yeah.
01:07:50
Speaker
to to do to And you go you're kissing and you're kissing and you're making love on the dance floor already. you know You ain't thinking about shit because you're drunk. They're drunk. You just didn't have a good time. You could accidentally end up slipping your dick into that booty hole and think you got some pussy last night. Are you gay?
01:08:16
Speaker
Oh, fuck, dude. I don't know. Is there such thing as accident? Accidental fucking gig is that all me? I'm just trying to play devil's advocate here. I think it is all. I think it's very interesting when you try to really break it down like that. It's like it is just because.
01:08:38
Speaker
We are programmed to, you see a woman, woman's hot, you're not thinking about whether or not it has a dick or not because you're a man, you see a woman's face, you think it's a woman. It's, that is, it's so crazy to me. Just yeah like that. Like, yeah. yeah i think of mother i think I think even the best motherfucker could fuck up.
01:09:03
Speaker
Honestly, I really do believe me personally, you could turn a motherfucker who literally thinks he's straight. I mean, you see it on some of these Snapchat videos, I don't know how much of it is fake, but you could turn a motherfucker who is literally, he's a straight guy and they believe they're a straight guy because this woman, this man looks like a woman. They walk like a woman, act like a woman, look like a woman. So in their mind, in their opinion, they're a straight man with a full blown female.
01:09:34
Speaker
And how are we to tell him that he's wrong for that if he is truly seeing a woman? You know, because if we saw that person now, we would think they were a woman too, until somebody tells us that's actually a man. Yeah. So how are we to tell him they're wrong? How are we to tell him he's gay? If his brain, his brain seeing a woman, we see a woman, he's straight. He's not gay until he tells us that's a man.
01:10:07
Speaker
that's guy coda bro i'm i'm just i'm kicking that shit man i i told you that crown to give me on my it give me on point man that's it's a special shit right here can't fuck with me when i'm on this shit man but i'm on I think I'm doing I think I'm gonna hit my ah my peak with the gay talk. ah But I love getting
Critique of Kamala's Leadership
01:10:29
Speaker
in the pot. You know, I like to do that I was gonna talk about Kamala and Trump tonight, but I'm gonna leave that to i'll play that for another week. I'll tell you what, I'm gonna say something right now. I'm so goddamn tired.
01:10:42
Speaker
he of ka yeah story of herbeing ah middle class fan little grown up in a middle- class family and the ferma saved up money and ten she was oh she had enough money to get us a house when i was at age of seventeen And she bought us a house. And I believe every American family should have the right to have a home. And that's why I'm gonna institute $25,000 loans for first time home buyers. And I'm gonna increase the child tax credit to $6,000. I know what this bitch gonna say before she say it. I'm tired of
01:11:19
Speaker
I'm tired of common. I'm gonna tell y'all something too and I don't care what the fuck y'all think either cuz I don't really think that a woman need to be fucking president. I said thank ah fucking city it I Said and I and I and it's not nothing other than I just think what I say on this podcast all the time I think women think too emotional to be running a country I think overall women think emotionally, they behave emotionally. And I don't need emotions running the country. I need logical thinkers running the country. So, sorry. No, I'm not'm not sorry if that defends anybody. I got my fucking right. Free country. But... That's right.
Reflection on Voting Choices
01:11:58
Speaker
That doesn't mean I agree with everything Trump says either, because I think Trump's a goddamn clown. But if I had to vote... Because I gotta pick the better of two evils. Yeah, but it was like when Hillary and Trump were ah fucking... Did I vote yet? No, what I'm just saying.
01:12:13
Speaker
yeah If I had to pick the better, when Hillary and Trump were going at it, better of two evils, I was taking Trump. Also, at the same time, that was a woman running. I can't find my i can't find the heart to say that a woman, that she's gonna be an exception and not be emotional of a thinker because she's still a woman.
01:12:32
Speaker
So that's just my personal belief. If I lost you because of that, it was nice having you here for the first 35 episodes. Goodbye. Nah, I think the women that listen to us put up with our shit because we make them laugh from time to time. But that does not mean I think Trump is great. I just think he's slightly lesser of the two evils, really.
01:12:53
Speaker
I'm damn near don't want to vote for either one of them. I just don't want to vote at all. My one of my ah friends told me the other day, though, the only reason he votes is because as a black man, what our ancestors went through to get the right to vote, he votes. And when I think about that, that's a really good point. When I think about it like that, I said, damn, I have to vote. I cannot vote because go that is true as fuck.
01:13:22
Speaker
What our ancestors went through to get the right to vote and me to just say, I'm not going to do it. That is fucked up. So I'm going to vote.
Listener Gratitude and Engagement
01:13:31
Speaker
I'm not going to say it's for Trump, but I will tell you it won't be for Kamala. And that'll be the end of the show. now If Louis, you have anything you want to end this shit on. um I'm good. I love it. I love everyone who listens. You guys get anything. Please hit us up. Don't be afraid to come on. We're just having a good time either the way.
01:13:48
Speaker
Yeah, we love to have a good time. um We're not going to beat you down. um I mean, or you could listen to our competition. Pinky's up.
TikTok Profile Promotion
01:13:58
Speaker
And, or, um, you can hit us up on our, on our social media platforms, uh, the man cave pod clips on tick tock. Um, come on, go follow that shit bro. Don't ask. It's the best parts of the episodes. If you ever wanted to be like, I don't want to sit and listen to these motherfuckers for an hour, 15 minutes. Talk about for you.
01:14:24
Speaker
Yeah, chop it up for you into little bitty pieces. It's like, I know y'all can't eat a whole 10-ounce steak, and you got to chop it off. I know some of y'all got a fucking 30-second attention to you. Come on now. These episodes are fucking fillets, and I know y'all got to split it into a fucking meal throughout the week. Think of it as a meal prep. I'm meal prepping the Man Cave podcast for you. I'm giving you little snippets for Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday.
01:14:50
Speaker
Fuck with me, all right? Man, K-pop clips on TikTok. Also, listen to, not listen to, but go follow me and Lewis on our social media because that's when you get to see the other side of us, our family side with our children, or my wife, I mean. And that wasn't a shot, but y'all know what I'm saying.
01:15:10
Speaker
um Yeah, come come fuck with us, man. But anyway, Love having all this into us. Thanks for joining us and can't wait to see you next week. Peace out. Much love. Deuces. Later.