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Absalom's Coup and Usurpation

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Okay, guys, so when we last followed David's adventure, his son Absalom had led a coup against him, had usurped the throne, had taken control of the monarchy, and many people close to David sided with Absalom.
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In fact, the vast majority of the nation sided with Absalom. Sometimes you might look at things that you're that the people vote on in a referendum or something, and you think, oh my goodness, like how do you think that was going be a... Or you look at who they vote for in elections, and you're like, these people have wrecked our country for a decade. How... like These very things... What's going in your mind?
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There is nothing new under the sun. People have always been brain-dead stupid. In our last chapter with David...

Absalom's Demise and David's Grief

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David's men faced against Absalom.
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Absalom was riding on a mule, which is a hybrid, you know, half donkey, half horse. and Absalom could have been the Antichrist, you know, the beast, the hybrid.
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But he had very long hair and his hair got stuck in the tree. To like dangle there in the tree. David had given his men an instruction.
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When you find Absalom, don't kill him. He's a prince. He's my son. Bring him straight to me. Joab, and if Joab's in the Bible chapter, someone probably dies.
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Joab is David's military commander. Joab saw Absalom swinging from the tree and said, screw what the king said, who cares, and killed Absalom and buried him beneath stones.
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Word got back to David that Absalom was dead. And David's response was, Absalom, Absalom, my son, my son, if only I'd die, not you, my son, my son is heartbroken.
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Second Samuel 19 shows us what happened next. Now, Sometimes you might think your life is one series of battles. Something happens, and then the next thing, and the next thing, then and the next thing, and the next thing, with very little room for reprieve or to take a breath.

David's Lingering Challenges and Hollow Victory

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David's life was a lot like that. This is stepping out of the frying pan and stepping straight into the fire. There is no victory parade.
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There is no celebration. There is no, yay, party, we're alive. Things go from bad to worse.
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Joab was told, the king is weeping and mourning for Absalom.
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Or, Joab was told, the king is weeping and mourning for Absalom. Depends who said it, someone sympathetic or someone outraged.
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And for the whole army, the victory that day was turned into mourning, because on that day the troops heard it said, the king is grieving for his son.
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The men stole into the city that day, as men steal in, who are ashamed when they flee from battle. The king covered his face and cried aloud, O my son Absalom.
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Oh, Absalom, my son, my son.
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I understand David's heart here as a father.
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But let's keep in mind, David is a king. He and his men have just been chased out of their castle, have had to hide in the wilderness,
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The threat of death has been so ever-present, so close, so tangible, his people almost died and he now died.
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And on a day that should be day a victory, they're returning to the city
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like they're criminals. Awkward. Embarrassed. Mortified. Tiptoeing. Afraid to have slanted eye. You look when one direction neither.
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How do you think they actually feel right now? How do you think his army feels? How would you feel if you were a soldier, you just had this great victory, and you have to be, you feel, you have to be a ashamed of that victory.
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What do you think is going through their heads? Because this isn't afraid of the real people. How would you respond? Your big gobsmacked. God, smiling's a good word.
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But excite, any other feelings in you?
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Shame? Shame, yeah, you you'd feel it's inherited shame, yeah. Have you ever done something nice for somebody and within like two minutes you saw, okay, they don't appreciate this?
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How did that make you feel?
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Bended. Lived. Taken for granted. Well, that could be the last time I ever do anything for him.

Joab's Criticism and David's Leadership

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Verse five.
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Then Joab went into the house to the king and said, Today you have humiliated all your men who have just saved your life and the lives of your sons and daughters.
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and the lives of your wives and concubines. You love those who hate you, Absalom, and hate those who love you.
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You've made it clear today that the commanders and their men mean nothing to you. I see that you would be pleased if Absalom were alive today and all of us were dead Now go out and encourage your men.
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i swear by the Lord. In the 21st century, we say, I swear to God. I swear by the Lord that if you don't go out not a man will be left with you by nightfall.
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This will be worse for you than all the calamity that have come in you from your youth till now. This will be worse for you than the day you had to fight Goliath and no one believed in it This will be worse for you than all the years you spent running from Sol.
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This will be worse for you than the day you got your wife Michal back and she basically said she no longer loved you. This will be worse for you than Absalom stealing the hearts of nations away and you having to run away into the wilderness.
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Absolutely everyone who loves and adores you will hunt you to your grave. That is how serious this is.
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So the king got up and took his seat to the gateway. When the men were told the king is sitting in the gateway, they all came before him. Meanwhile, the Israelites had fled to their homes.
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So David comes from Judah, which is a tribe in Israel. When it says Israel, or an Israelite, it's referring to the other ten tribes.
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Think of it like... counties. Ireland has 32 counties. When it says Judah, that's referring to Judah and Benjamin, okay? That'd be like County Louth and County Meath.
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And then all the other 30 counties Ireland were pro-Absalom. That's what's happening here. So the ones who are pro-Absalom, they're all running back to their houses. They're spooked. They're scared.
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So far so good? Okay.
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Naomi, will you please read from verse nine, please? Verse nine. Mixed feelings. throughout the tribes of israel all the people were arguing among themselves saying the king delivered us from the land of our enemies he's the one who rescued us from the hand of the philistines but now he has fled to the country to escape from absalom or an absalom whom weno to rule over us has died in battle so why do you say and say nothing about bringing the king back okay mixed feelings David rescued us from enemies.
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That's one point to David. He rescued us from the Philistines. So Goliath and Co. Another point to David.
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a Now he has run away to escape from Absalom. So, I don't Scaredy cat. One point against him. and We anointed Absalom. So we really, really, really like Absalom. Another point against David.
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Absalom's dead. And they kind of feel sad about that. Three against David, perhaps? And so why do you say nothing about bringing the king back? So they're like, do we want him back? we not want to back? I mean, he was good. We kind of got rid of him. We were happy he was gone.
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do Do we want to be him back? Do we not? They've got mixed feelings about this.
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Perhaps on but on one hand, they might be afraid that he might punish them for what they've done.
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Verse 11. King David sent this message to Zadah and Abiathar, the priests. Ask the elders of Judah, why should you be the last to bring the king back to his palace? Since what is being said throughout Israel has reached the king of his quarters.
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You are my relatives, my own flesh and blood. So why should you be the last to bring back the king? And say to Amazah, are you not my own flesh and blood? May God deal with me, be it ever so severely, if you are not the commander of my army for life in place of Joab.
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Okay, thank you. Okay, so now David sends message the priests to talk to the leaders of Judah. David actually comes from this tribe. You should be demanding his reinstatement.
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What's with the delay? What deliberations are taking place there? Are they thinking, we should have a change of leadership. Maybe something else might be a good idea. So you've got, this is not one of those, you know, one and done.
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not that the dust has settled and everything goes back to normal. You got people thinking, well, actually, you know, we coped when he was gone. If he had died, you know, we'd still be okay.
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Maybe this person is better, this person is younger, this person is stronger, this person is never to adultery, whatever's going through your head. And he's saying, okay, get your act together. And then Amasa, may God deal with me, but ever severely,
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If you are not the commander of my army for a life in place of Joab, David is now talking to Mass's relative and says, you, my man, are getting a promotion.
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You are getting Joab's job. Like I said earlier, whenever Joab is in a chapter of the Bible, someone's probably going to up dead. We've seen Joab murder people before.
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He was told not to kill Absalom, and he did it. David's like, Joab's getting in the sack. Joab's getting replaced.
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Keep in mind Joab's personality. Keep in mind Joab's disposition. do you think he might react to that news? All right, verse 14. He went over the hearts of the men of Judah so that they were all of one mind.
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They sent word to the king, we return you and all your men, verse 15. Then the king returned and went as far as the Jordan. Now the men of Judah had come to Gilgal to go out and meet the king and bring him across the Jordan.
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Shemani, son of Jera, the Benjamite from Bawarim, hurried down with the men of Judah to meet King David. Okay, good. You might not remember this guy, there's been a few weeks.
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When David and his men had to go through the valley into the wilderness to hide from Absalom, Shimmy, this is the guy who got the boulder, the rocks, and was throwing them down at their heads.
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When David goes, you know, maybe God has red rejected me. Maybe this is God's will for my life. This is that same Shimmy. Shimmy is the one who was like, you know, so is my relative. You're scum. You stole the thrones all you deserve. This.
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And now this same Shimmy is now coming to David. With him were a thousand Benjamites along with Ziba, the steward of Saul's household, and his 15 sons and 20 servants. Okay, good. And now it's been a long time to saw Ziba.
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a You might remember Mephibosheth. Remember Jonathan? David had a BFF, best friend forever. Jonathan had a son, Mephibosheth. Mephibosheth was lame in both feet.
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Didn't walk. When Jonathan was killed... the nurse took Mephibosheth into the middle of nowhere, a place called Lodabar, which literally means no pasture, literally means nowhere.
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And there they hid him. Then David eventually said, oh my goodness, does Jonathan have any surviving kids? The defendant of Mephibosheth, he brought Mephibosheth back to his castle, his palace, and Mephibosheth would eat with David and his sons every day. He basically adopted Mephibosheth.
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Ziba, was the steward of Sol's property. After Sol died, Ziba and all the sons looked after Sol's estate. When Mephibosheth came back on the scene, David said, Ziba, you and I work for him. Mephibosheth's your boss.
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Mephibosheth is entitled to all this property. You I work for him. And Ziba said, Okay.
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When the user patient began, when the coup began, Ziba went to David but said, oh, Mephibosheth won't be joining us in exile. No, no, no. Mephibosheth said, David deserves this.
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God is wrecking vengeance on David for ah for how badly he treated Saul. So yeah, Mephibosheth, he betrayed you David. Sorry. That's the Ziba.
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Okay.
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yeah they crossed at the for to take the king's household over and to do whatever he wished when shimei' son of jarra crossed the jordan he fell prostrate before the king and said to him may my lord not hold me guilty do not remember how your servant did wrong on the day my lord the king left jerusalem may the king put it out of his mind For I, your servant, know that I have sinned, but today i have come here as the first from the tribes of Joseph to come down and meet my lord the king.
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Verse 21. Okay, good. So now this is the shimmy, okay? This is the guy who was throwing rocks at David's head last time we met him. And now he is very, very quick to come back and apologize.
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Abishai, son of Zeruiah. Zeruiah. Sorry, is that... You did well. You did not. Don't worry. king of Shimei be put to death for this. He cursed the Lord's anointing.
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Verse 22. David replied, What does this have to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah? What right do you have to interfere? Should anyone be to death in Israel today? Don't I know that today i am king over Israel?
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So the king said to Shimei, You shall not die. And the king promised him on oath. Verse 24. Mephibosheth, Saul's grandson, also went down to meet the king. He had nothing taken king had not taken care of his feet or trimmed his moustache or washed his clothes from the day the king left until the day he returned safely.
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When he came to Jerusalem to meet the king, the king asked him, why didn't you go with me, Mephish? Mephishet. Mephishet. Good. Okay, I think it's a very, very valid question.
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So before we hear his answer, let's just assess the physical

Misunderstandings and Allegiances

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evidence. So Mephibosheth comes down to meet the king, comes down to meet David.
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He hasn't taken care of his feet. Well, what's important but his feet? He's lame. His feet don't work. So they're quite important. Or it trimmed his mustache or washed his clothes. If you saw someone who had not washed their clothes, they were wearing dirty clothes, they smelled badly,
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And they just didn't have their hair done, hadn't done their face. They just locally didn't give a toss about their physical appearance. What would you say about that person?
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What would you think about that kind of person? Just giving up bit of hope, bro. Just giving hope? Yeah, good. Anyone else?
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What would you diagnose them as?
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Parent depression. Yeah, sure, exactly. So you'd say yeah they're depressed. that they've They've given up on life. That's how Mephibosheth now comes to David.
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So Ziba said, oh yeah, Mephibosheth doesn't like you, he hates you. He's happy you're on the run. He's happy things are badly for you. He has, um, he thinks that he's going to get really, really wealthy now that you're gone.
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and He hates how you treat his grandfather, yada, yada. yada That was Eva's report. And then Mephibosheth comes along and he just looks depressed.
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When did this begin? We're told here, from the day the king left until the day he returned safely. So what depressed Mephibosheth?
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How badly Absalom had treated David. Mephibosheth was depressed by the fact that David was in exile. Mephibosheth was depressed for the fact that David genuinely might never be seen again.
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This tells us that Ziba, the steward, is a liar. Why would he lie? Because Ziba and his sons had been the stewards of all of Saul's property.
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Then this chap with a stupid way too multi-syllabic name, and legs that don't work, crawls his way out of Lodegar, literally nowhere.
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You know, you've heard people say, well, you came from nowhere. This guy literally comes from nowhere. more And next thing, he's the master of all souls property, and is sitting David's palace, eating like a prince of the realm.
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Ziba was grossly envious of Mephibosheth. And he saw this as his opportunity to destroy him. To cut out the last of Sol's line...
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And to actually get all of Saul's property for himself and his sons. I believe that's why it always says Ziba and his 20 sons. Ziba and all the songs you all sons. and all the sons. Because this guy had inheritance on his mind. He had will those his money had power on his mind.
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I thought when he said they were stewarding of Saul's inheritance at the top, it was Saul's So it was Ziba's sons. Ziba's sons, not Saul's. Yeah, because Saul had a son, Jonathan. Jonathan had a son, Mephibosheth.
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So Mephibosheth is Saul's grandson. He has a right to the heir. Exactly, he has a right to all Saul's property. Ziba, in the absence of any of Saul's heirs,
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Ziba and his sons were managing all the estates. oh And probably thought they were going to inherit everything. but then Because there was no one else to take it. Mephibosheth literally comes from nowhere.
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And David says, okay, it's all yours. And Ziba has been sitting on this offence for years. And when the exile happened, Ziba said, okay, David's going to exile.
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i think David will win. If David could survive Saul for years, he can survive Absalom for a few days.
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That's Ziba's thinking. So I will take a hit now if I get all that property later. I will bleed now so long as I get what I want afterwards.
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I will suffer a short-term loss if it means I set myself nicely. That's was thinking. And next thing, Mephibosheth comes along on a donkey and he has a very different version of the story.
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And thanks for all that reading. And Naomi, Catherine, you please read verse 26.
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He said, my lord, the king, since I, ti your servant, am him, I said, I will have my donkey sapped and will ride on it. so I can go with the king.
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But see when my servant betrayed me. He has landed your servant to my lord the king. My lord the king is like an angel of God, so do whatever you wish.
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All my grandfather's descendants observed nothing of death from the lord the king, but you gave your servant a place among those who eat at your table. So what right do I have to make any more appeals to the king?
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The king said to him, Why say more? I order you and Ziba to divide the land.
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How did you say that last thing again? Well, Mephibosheth. Oh, Mephibosheth. Said to the king, let him take everything, now that my lord the king has returned home safely.
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Okay, thank you. So that very definitely shows you which of them was telling the truth and which one was lying. And I think David had earlier said, we're not going to kill anyone today because we just had a war. Personally, Ziba probably did actually deserve a death penalty for his treachery to the king.
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i think David was far too generous, saying, you know, I'll just split it 50-50. And I wonder if that's because maybe he didn't know which one to believe. And maybe he thought, well, technically Ziba did come with me, so he isn't told to reward.
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Maybe he just wanted to expose the heart attitude of both men. When I read this, what I actually thought of, David had many sons. His most famous son is Solomon.
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One of the most famous stories of Solomon is two women come before the king. Do you want to Oh, it the that two women come before the king and they are both screaming that they are the mother of this child. Yeah, sure, yeah, yeah. One will say, this is my child. The other says, no, I'm the mother of the child. And so the king says, well, fine, in order to give you the equal of the child, let's just kill kill the child and split the child in half so each of you have an equal share. Yeah. And then one of the mothers scream, no, no, never mind, I'm not the mom, she's the real mom. So then that she that the baby will not be killed. All the way around, all the way around. Yeah, you're so, that you're 99% right. One of them screams, you know what, just to let her have the child.
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Just don't do anything, just let her keep him. And she was the mother, exactly, because she would rather have her child than have her child hurt. and And Solomon is like, well, I think we know that the mother is.
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I e wonder if this is where Solomon got that idea. I wonder.
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All right, verse 31. Barzillai the Gileadite, I do not expect you remember him. He was like a gust of wind eight or nine weeks ago.
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He's basically a rich man who gave David food when he was in exile. That's his contribution the Bible. Barzillai the Gileadite also came down from Rogolim to cross the Jordan with the king and descend to his wife from there.
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Now, Barzillai was very old, 80 years of age. He had provided it for the king during his stay in Mahanaim, who was a very wealthy man.
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The king said to Barzillai, come over with me and stay in Jerusalem le and I'll provide for you. And this guy's already rich. But David's like, your help to my men and me was invaluable.
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I have to bless you. I have to show you my appreciation. But Barzillai answered the alliance for king, because remember, he's 80. How many more years will I live that I should go up to Jerusalem with the king? I'm now 80 years old.
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Can I tell the difference between what's enjoyable and what isn't? Can your servant taste what he eats and drinks? My taste buds are not what they used to be. Can I still hear the voices of male and female singers? I'm deaf in one ear and 50% deaf in the other one.
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Why should your servant be an added bird to my lord the king. If I go with you, people have to slow down to accommodate me, and that's not fair.
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Your servants will cross over the Jordan with the king for a short distance, but why should the king reward me this way? Let your servant return, that I may die in my own town near the tomb of my father-in-law.
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But here is your servant's king, man. Let him cross over my lord the king Do for him whatever you wish. So he's a wealthy man. He's got servants. Think Downton Abbey, the ancient world version. And he says, here, take my man's servant with you.
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And whatever you want to do, do.
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And the king flips the script and says, him shall cross over with me. But I will do for him whatever ah you wish. You know the guy. You know what he deserves. You know how faithful he's been. You know what good man he You tell me what he deserves and I'll look after him.
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And anything you desire from me, I'll do it for you. So all the people crossed the Jordan and then the king crossed over. The king kissed Barzillai and bid him farewell.
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And Barzillai returned to his home.
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When the king crossed over to Gilgal, Kim had crossed over with him, so Barzalai's manservant is now going to with David. All the troops of Judah and half the troops of Israel had taken the king over.
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Soon, all the men of Israel were coming to the king and saying to him, Why did our brothers, the men of Judah, the men of the the big tribe, steal the king away and bring him and his household across the Jordan to gather all of his men?
00:28:36
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Such... Unnecessary drama. All the men of Judah answers the men of Israel. We did it because the king is closely related to us. Why are you angry about it?
00:28:48
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They're all trying to lay claim to the king now that the dust has settled and the battle's over.
00:28:56
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Have we eaten any of the king's provisions? Have we taken anything for ourselves? you know We're good. We are suffering. We're slaving over here. Then the men of Israel answer the men of Judah.
00:29:08
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we have 10 shares in the game because with Judah and then the the small tribe Benji was two, you have another 10 tribes. So the 10 tribes are saying, well, we have more of a right to David.
00:29:24
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So you might, sometimes you see this in in a church setting, in a business setting, in politics, people competing for the leader. I want to know, want to know, want to know, I want to know. Like he's a Barbie doll and two girls are fighting over it. That's what's happened.
00:29:43
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We have ten shares in the king, so we have a greater claim on David than you have. Then why you treat us with contempt? Weren't we the first to speak of bringing back our king?
00:29:54
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The same one that they happily got rid of and replaced Absalom. For the men of Judah pressed their claims even more forcefully than the men of Israel. People are people.
00:30:05
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And this is not a situation where the battle's over and suddenly everyone says let's be friends. This is not a situation where the battle's over and everyone just decides, okay, let's have peace again and try to rebuild.
00:30:21
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Instead, there's this tussle. There's an animosity. There's a challenge. There's that, well, we deserve him more. well we're better than you. Well, yada, yada, yada.
00:30:33
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And this kind of Tension would actually continue until David's grandson's reign, when actually the nation was would formally split into two separate kingdoms.
00:30:47
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A little bit of division. little seed of disunity. And what happens? The whole thing splits, the whole thing falls apart. And you see the cracks are already here.
00:30:58
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So that's a generational... Can I curse? Is it that started with David or... Yeah, the the the disunity. Because David created the kingdom of Israel. He united kingdom.
00:31:12
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But you see that you still have tensions. Imagine Dublin. Our most numerously populated county. Or Cork.
00:31:25
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The geographically biggest one. And... Let's with Cork. David comes from Cork and therefore Cork thinks that they have such a claim to him of their own.
00:31:41
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And then the other 31 counties... No, I didn't say 25, I said 31. The other 31 are like, no, he's is's everybody's king and there are more of us than you, so he's see's our king.
00:31:52
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And you have this tug of war, this tussle. And eventually things are so irreconcilable that Cork decides to become its own country, Corconia.
00:32:03
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And the other 31 counties become their own kingdom, and Ireland. So you have Ireland, and then you have, let's say, the kingdom of Cork, you've got the kingdom of Ireland.
00:32:17
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That's what effectively happens in this in two generations. The kingdom of Judah, with Benjamin. and the kingdom of Israel, where the nation formally splits over these subtle divisions that they never appeared, they never made whole, and the whole thing splits.
00:32:36
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That's why you have church splits today. So when you've got one group over here with this idea, everyone else is like, well, we've got the right idea, and rather than just reconcile... fragments, it splinters, it shatters. Even though Judah and Benjamin are still one of the tribes of Israel. Exactly, yeah. they would eventually become a kingdom, and the other ten become a kingdom.
00:32:58
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That's why when you read 1 and 2 Kings, 1 and 2 Chronicles, it's like, oh my goodness, there's like, how many kings and queens were there that's unending? because they're actually looking at two separate kingdoms.
00:33:11
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And David's the other one nation, but they fragment, they split, and early kings. m And it just continues up until and long after the Babylonian invasion.
00:33:27
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yeah
00:33:32
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All right, 2 Samuel chapter 20. And Naomi, will you please read the first few

Sheba's Rebellion and Tribal Division

00:33:37
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verses here? ye This is one of my favorite chapters in the Bible. When we first start, you're going think, why?
00:33:45
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I like heaven
00:33:48
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ends. 2 Samuel 20. Now a troublemaker named Sheba, son of Bichri, a Benjamite, happened to be there. He sounded the trumpet and shouted, We have no share in David, no part in Jesse's son. Every man to his tent is real. All right, so you've got the men of Judah saying...
00:34:07
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He's our king. We have ah right to him. have a share in him. We can lay claim to him. You have the Israelites saying there are more of us than there are of you He's ours.
00:34:19
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And now you have a third group also coming from and Benjamin, which would be Saul's household. Saul's tribe. And they're like, we don't want anything to do with him.
00:34:31
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hell with him.
00:34:34
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He has just defeated Absalom days ago. And already you've got three massive factions growing. These are days of reconciliation, unification, restoration.
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The days are more and more splintering.
00:34:53
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So all the men of Israel deserted David to follow Sheba, son of Beak the Creek. But the men of Judah stayed by their king all the way from the Jordan to Jerusalem. But David returned to his palace in Jerusalem. He took the ten concubines he had left to take care of the palace and put them in a house under guard. Okay, now remember, before he went exile, he told his ten concubines, you're in charge on the house. 21st century feminists might not like that idea, but I'm sure they were happier staying at home being in the battlefront.
00:35:23
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He said, stay at home. Stay in the kitchen. have the whole palace yourselves. Look after the house. And what did they do? Well, they didn't really look after the house, but they looked after his son Absalom's needs.
00:35:39
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His PG-18 needs. And they all climbed on the roof and had sex with his son in broad daylight for all the nation to see. That is what his concubines did.
00:35:51
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They became his son's concubines. And now I'm sure David is having a very awkward conversation with them. Full of pauses, ellipses, squinting, and not a lot of eye-to-eye contact.
00:36:06
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he Because people in the Bible, like people today, are not. David cannot catch a break. He really can't. He actually can't catch a break.
00:36:17
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um He provided for them, but had no sexual relations with them. They were kept in confinement until the day of their death, living as widows. I think that's fair. is that but
00:36:31
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then Verse four. Then the king said to Amasa, summon the men of Judah to come to me within three days and be here yourself. But when Amasa went to summon Judah, he took longer than the time the king had set for him.
00:36:44
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Okay, good. Now, it's interesting. The king is sending Amasa, not Joab. Why? Because David has told Amasa, you're getting Joab's job.
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And whether or not he currently has the title formally, this will be his first responsibility, his first role.
00:37:07
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David said, verse six, David said to Abishai, Now Sheba, son of Bikrit, will do us more harm than Absalom did. Take your master's men and pursue him, or he will find the fortified cities and escape from us.
00:37:20
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So Joab's men and the Karathites and Pelathites and all the mighty warriors went out under the command of Abishai, They march out from Jerusalem to to pursue Sheba, son of Bikri.
00:37:31
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Okay, lovely. Now, I know we've a lot of names today. So Abishai is Joab's brother.
00:37:38
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Joab and Abishai are brothers. There were three brothers, and there are two. The other one's dead. David says, this guy, Sheba, who wants to splinter, fracture, and fragment the country and turn it against me, he is a major th threat.
00:37:53
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And the fact that David says he can do us more harm than Absalom did means that people were listening to him. He was not a lone voice speaking into wind. His word was finding soil.
00:38:07
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Like kamikaze planes they were finding a landing strip. And David's like, we've got to deal with this guy We cannot let him escape. We can't then go underground or something's gonna fester underground that we will have to deal with in the future.
00:38:23
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This needs dealing with now. So Amasa, Joab's replacement, is on one side, in one direction. Abishai, Joab's brother, sent to another assignment.
00:38:37
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And now let's find out what Joab's getting up to. Verse eight. While they were at the Great Rock in Gibeon, Amasa came to meet them.
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Joab was wearing his military tinnock and strapped over it as his waist was a belt with a dagger in his sheet. As he stepped forward, it dropped out of his sheet. Dropped. Joab said to Amasa, By itself, by accident.
00:39:02
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It just happened. By chance. Joab said to Amasa, How are you, my brother? Then Joab took Amasa by the beard with his right hand to kiss him.
00:39:13
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Amasel was not on the guard against the dagger in Joab's hand and Joab plunged it into his belly and his intestines spilled out on the ground. oh Without being stabbed again, Amasa died.
00:39:25
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Then Joab and his brother Abishai pursued him. I missed it, but what did David see in Joab to make him understand? Good question.
00:39:36
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Good question. he was on his side when Saul was on the throne. But ah yeah. So if you thought Judas Iscariot's kiss of death in the Garden of Gethsemane, this is worse.
00:39:48
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This like, you know, hello, man who's about to replace you, get my job. Stabs him, slices him open, and his intestines spill out on the ground. That's why the law says he didn't have to strike him twice.
00:40:02
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It was a fatal blow. And then Abasa, first day on the new job. well Last day on the job. And Joab was like, whew, I almost lost my job and my salary and all my benefits. i almost lost my parking space. for My chariot outside the front door. but now I have it. It's fine.
00:40:22
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And then Joab and his brother Abishai like, right, we're the duo. Used to be a trio. Now we're a duo. We're going to kill Sheba. We're going get the glory. We're going a good standing with the king again.
00:40:33
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He'll forget that I murdered if his son. It's fine.
00:40:38
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Alright, Captain, you please read verse 11. One of Joab's men stood beside Amasa and said, and whatever whoever favours Joab and whoever is for David, let him follow Joab. Interesting order there. Whoever favours Joab and whoever is for David.
00:40:56
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This was all one big exercise in the restitution of Joab's self-esteem. He felt he'd been shunned overlooked, had been hard done by, and now he can give himself a pat on the back and say, phew, it's all good. It's all good. i still have my job.
00:41:17
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Amasa lay wallowing in his blood in the middle of the road, and the man that all of the troops came, and the man saw that all the troops came to a halt there. When he realised that everyone who had come up to Amasa stopped, he dragged him from the road into a field and threw a garment over him.
00:41:35
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Okay, good. So what's happening here is one of Joe's men roars, whoever her favors Joab, let him follow Joab. And people are like, you know, yeah And they just stand. There's a dead body there.
00:41:50
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Two more!
00:41:53
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That's his long intestine. That's short intestine. Let's kill Sheba! Yay!
00:42:01
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I've heard just... He ate one of his fingernails. He's trying to mobilize them into battle and they're all just standing there looking at the corpse. Distracting me. Did that just happen?
00:42:14
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Is this because he was going to get your job? Is this David's angry at you? there haven he is He wants them to butcher another man, Shiva.
00:42:27
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And they're just looking around thinking this is dead body. And no one's moving. Totally distracted. Inearth to the king's will.
00:42:41
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Immobile. Just focusing on the corpse. And then they just say, okay, let's drag him off the road. Put a garment over him. He's invisible now. Out of sight, out of mind.
00:42:54
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Can we please get back to business? Alright, verse 13. After Massa had been removed from the road, everyone went on on with the wrath Pursue Sheba, son of Berkha.
00:43:05
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Okay, thank you. Yep. Okay. And now verse 14. I said I read this one of favorite chapters. You might think, why?
00:43:16
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but but This is the part of the story that I like. um It's a bit weird. It's a bit strange. There's a bit of a wild woman in this, but I kind of dig her. Sheba passed through all the tribes of Israel.
00:43:31
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to Abel Bet-Maca and through the entire region of Vichrites, who gathered together and followed him. So this is not a short chase.
00:43:44
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This is a long chase. The ground has been covered. And more and more and more people who hear his message are siding with him. More and more people hear the venom and the filth and the bile he spews are like, yeah, I agree with that.
00:44:02
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That makes sense. I like this guy. I'm on his side. Screw David. Who needs this on a jazzy? So the thread is real. All the troops of Joab came and besieged Sheba in Abel Beth-Maca.
00:44:18
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So Abel by Famacus, the city where he's hiding, and all Job's men lay siege with his surroundings. They're not letting anyone in, they're not letting anyone out.
00:44:29
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They built a siege ramp up the city and stood against the outer fortifications while they were battering the wall to bring it down. A wise woman. We don't know her name, and that makes me like her all the more, because any one of you, sorry Steve, you're a dude, any one of the rest of you could be this woman.
00:44:50
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A wise is woman called from the city. Listen! Listen! Tell Joab to come here so can speak to him. And that's one of voices, I'm sure.
00:45:03
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He went toward her. And she asked, I mean, one man in the entire army steps forward, but she has to be really, really crystal clear. Are you Joab? You can just imagine Joab as a man like, oh, you're in trouble with him.
00:45:19
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And this strong military man, this murderer, is about to be schooled by this lady. I am, he answered. She said...
00:45:31
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Listen to what your servant has to say. When I was at university, we were told, don't say something in 100 words that you can say in 15. First of all, she's like, listen, listen, to get their attention.
00:45:43
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Then she says she needs to talk to Joab. Then she asks, are you Joab? Now she's saying, please, this is what have to say She could have just said what she had to say, but no, she's taking her time. She's got time to kill. I'm listening, he said.
00:45:57
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She continued, long ago. he's like, we're in the middle of a war. I don't time for history lesson. Long ago they used to say. He's like, I don't care who they are. I don't care what they said. There's a killer in there. I need, well, he wasn't a killer. He just incited violence.
00:46:13
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He was the killer. I knew this guy. And she's like, long ago they used to say. Get your answer at Abel. And that settled it. You just imagine this guy getting really, really frustrated with this chick and all his men. Like, you know, ho ho ho.
00:46:31
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We are the peaceful and faithful in Israel. That's a great name to give yourself. You know what? is that That's a declaration. I am the peaceful and faithful in my nation. I'm the peaceful and faithful in our nation.
00:46:45
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You are trying to destroy a city that is a mother in Israel. Why do you want to swallow up the Lord's inheritance?
00:46:56
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Look at this.
00:47:00
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Her city has a good reputation. He wants to kill one man. He could have knocked on the door and said, whoever runs this place, there's a guy in there, i don't want to kill him.
00:47:16
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Instead, he has set up a siege, so no one's getting water. No imports, no exports, no food coming and out. Say goodbye to your 2nd of August summer holiday. ain't happening. You ain't getting out. The holiday makers aren't getting in.
00:47:33
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And they are slamming against the walls to bring the whole city's fortifications down. He just wants to kill one guy.
00:47:45
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Far be it from me, Joe replied. Far be it from me to swallow up or destroy. Have you read the start of the chapter? he He literally murdered someone like 20 verses ago.
00:48:00
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A man... Fewer. A man named Sheba, son of Vichri, from the hill country of Ephraim, has lifted up his hand against the king. Against David.
00:48:11
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Hand over this one man and I'll withdraw from the city. you So basically... I was happy to destroy a lot of lives, kill one man, but if you're least into my custody, I'll bug her off. let you live your lives.
00:48:27
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this so No one knows this woman's name, but she just whips out her wooden spoon and she gives him a spanking in front of his whole army. I'm sure he was scarlet with embarrassment.
00:48:40
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know that expression? on Scarlet for your mother. Scarlet for your life.
00:48:48
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And this is possibly my favourite sentence in the whole Bible. thought it was in that T.I.M.A. It's better than the movie.
00:48:59
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This is one of my favourite tabs in the Bible and this is my favourite sentence. The woman said to Joab, his head will be thrown to you from over the wall. jesus She's just given him scolding.
00:49:17
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for his violence, for his wicked ways, for the fact that every chapter of the Bible he's in, someone who is living becomes a corpse. And she's like, I'll behead him for you.
00:49:29
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You just stay there. You do nothing. Just chill out. Then the woman went to all the people with her wise advice. And here's the thing. It was godly advice. This is good advice. This is advice God approves out of.
00:49:41
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And they cut off the head of Sheba, son of Bichri, and threw it to Joab.
00:49:48
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Is it a bird? it a plane? It's Sheba's head.
00:49:53
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He sounded the trumpet, and his men dispersed from the city, each returning to his home for tea. And Joab went back to the king in Jerusalem, because he still had his job, because the competition was dead, as well as Sheba, who was never headed.
00:50:10
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I'll read the next few lines, then and then then I'll explain why I love that story so much. Joab... and I'll read these because I would not torture for any of you with the names that are about to come out of my mouth.
00:50:22
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Joab was over Israel's entire army because he had killed them hit the man who was going to get his job. Benaiah, son of Jehoiada, was over the Kerithites and Pelitites. Adoniram was in charge of forced labor, because if you defeat an enemy nation, you can either kill them all and put them to hard labor.
00:50:40
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Jehoshaphat, son of Allah, was reporter. She, though, was secretary. Zadok and Abutah were priests. And Ira, the J.R.I., was David's priest. What I love about is that story with that wise woman whose name we don't know is
00:50:59
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she looked at Joab and she saw him very clearly. Joab was a tornado. He was willing to besiege her entire city, make life difficult for everyone in her world, knock down their defensive walls.
00:51:18
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And the fact that she had to ah accost him and give out to him, he had the power to do it.
00:51:27
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And she says, no, this boundary is my boundary. You don't cross my boundaries. You're a drama queen.
00:51:39
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Wherever you go drama follows. Wherever you go destruction follows. I don't bring destruction! You killed someone 15 verses ago. Who was going to get your job.
00:51:51
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And now you want to do the same in my hometown. This was a woman who had lines and you did not cross her lines. This a woman who had boundaries and you did not cross her boundaries.
00:52:08
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If you wanted to two weigh in on what happened in her city, you could have a conversation. You could give advice. You could say who it was, who his father was, where he came from, who his great-great-great-grandmother was, and whether she was a tailoress or ah spinster.
00:52:28
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Doesn't matter. She was responsible for owning her zone. And you did not cross her zones. You did not bring crap into her zone.
00:52:42
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You did not bring stealing, killing, and destroying into her zone. You did not bring destruction into her own You did not bring grief unnecessarily into her zone. She owned her zone.
00:52:54
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She was decisive. She was afraid to speak truth to power. She was okay with, you know, this is our vision. This is who we are.
00:53:06
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We are the peaceful. You do not get to bring disease, which is dis-ease, anti-ease, into the realm of the peaceful.
00:53:20
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This is a place of order. We do not tolerate your disorder. This is a place of structure and stability. You don't get to inject instability into my home, into the lives of people around me Her yes was yes, her no was no. And when she had the facts, she said, we will make a decisive decision.
00:53:42
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She didn't just operate alone. she was not a lone wolf. She took her decision to the otherwise leaders, are the other councillors, and said, right, this situation. This is what's happening out there.
00:53:53
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This guy is in here. We don't want that sword in here. We don't want his sword out there or in here. So if we take care of this, they won't have to. And made a decisive decision to lop off the problem at the source.
00:54:06
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To lop its head off. Threw the head back to him. Take that to your king. Butter off. Get out of my life. Get out of my zone. That is why I like that story so much.
00:54:18
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That is why I like that woman so much. Because she owned her zone. And that's what happens. is we have people who you let people into areas of your life they were never as supposed to be in.
00:54:36
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And so what happens is we have people who like the Joabs. They like the drama. They like the misery. They like the hurt.
00:54:47
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Like, it makes me feel alive, and I know that because I used to one of those people. But actually... to, I thought you should describe yourself, we are the peaceful and faithful.
00:55:01
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We are a mother in our land.
00:55:06
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If that is your vision statement for your life, to be the peaceful and to be the faithful and to be a mother or a father figure to the people in your world, you don't tolerate the drama.
00:55:23
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You don't tolerate the destroyers. You don't tolerate the people who will crush anyone to get what they want. You don't tolerate the people who will do your family and your community harm in order to achieve their vain, glorious ambitions.
00:55:42
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He was about to get demoted. He killed the guy who was going to get promoted to his job. And now he really wanted to make a name for himself. And she you said, I don't tolerate your ego.
00:55:54
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There's no room for your ego and your pride in my zone. We're the peaceful. We're the faithful. We're mothers and fathers. We don't tolerate your crap. We're the parents. We will take out the wooden spoon. We're in charge of discipline hero.
00:56:08
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We say yes. We say no. My house, my rules. You don't get to invade. You don't get to bring all of your issues, all of your nonsense, all of your stealing, killing, and destroying into my life.
00:56:24
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And that is something all of us can and should i apply to our lives every single day. If you are to be the peaceful, the faithful, and mothers and fathers...
00:56:40
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That is a requirement. You take out your spiritual wooden spoon and you say, my yes is yes, my nu was no is no. I will bounce ideas off people who are wise.
00:56:56
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I will listen to other people's information. But I say yes, I say no. My house, my rules, I decide what happens in my zone.
00:57:11
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All right. Any thoughts, comments, queries or concerns on any of that from today? Chapter 19 or 20. I think it ends up on on a very powerful note.
00:57:24
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You know, it's about taking charge. Yes. Not tolerating, dealing with the issue. Not going around sacrificing people needlessly. Yes. You know. Yeah.
00:57:37
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Because when somebody... you know, when people don't deal with things, it's like in a house, if there's an issue. sure When people don't deal with it, everybody suffers. Yes.
00:57:48
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Yeah, it's true. Yeah, I'm thinking of that, with the expression, you know, happy wife, happy life. The same is true in the opposite. Yes, that's true. The women, it can't be meant, nor any women, set the thermomus or the tempo or the temperature for the atmosphere yeah in the home.
00:58:08
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And now... We can apply this to all of our lives. And if you set the atmosphere to bitterness, offence, unforgiveness, dysfunction, everyone suffers a consequence. One person choosing to have a bad attitude.
00:58:26
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One person choosing to be a slut. One person choosing to harbour unforgiveness. One person choosing to say, 16 years and five days ago said this!
00:58:40
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Everyone suffers. It's like the body politic or the body of Christ. We're told that if one part of the body suffers, is we all suffer. If you stub your toe, because you're walking around the house with no shoes on in the dark, you go, ah, you know what, um i'm and I'm in pain.
00:58:56
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you don't just say, you know, 168,000 cells on my right toe happen to be in pain. that I'm in pain. The whole house hurts.
00:59:07
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And what she's doing she's saying, not on my watch. I actually like peace. I actually like faithfulness. I actually like being seen as someone who's wise, of a good counsel, of good cheer, good temperament.
00:59:24
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Don't tolerate the drama. Not here. Not so long as I'm alive. not a woman' seen That conversation does not take place when I'm at the table. a You don't get to be a worrywart when I'm around.
00:59:39
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We're switching worry. We're turning up to to faith, to trust in God. a were not We're pulling the plug on fear. And we're injecting the plug. The joy of the Lord is my strength. And I'm going be joyful anticipation of the good things God's going to do.
00:59:58
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And yeah, she owned her zone.
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she's great woman I think she's I really think that she is so brave because especially with the fact that you know because when she knew about Jova and that was she did because he had a whole stage and everything and the fact that she even went out loud and said oh tell Jova I want to speak to him and then that Jova went I feel like that had to be something like he's something like man that's stubborn that he would just go to everyone so I would imagine God had to influence him somehow to go to her because he would have just passed her so she's just a woman or whatever but then he came yeah and she said are you listening he said yes are you listening that's right yes you know like she's so do you hear me yeah am i crystal clear yeah and not if you understand me joan exactly especially because also the one that is such an encouraging thing for a woman to read that that's like especially in the old testament yeah because a lot of women today who are anti-god anti-bible who are so said that the bible thrives on women you know, being low and like subverted, they'll read that and she's standing up in front of like military kind of tyrant and she's like, we are the peaceful and the faithful. You don't have to do all that. You're not going to do that here. That's right. Yeah. The fact that it,
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He listened. And then God let that in scripture. Yes. That we can read that openly and plainly and see that it's not wrong for women to stand up and say no. Yeah, find their voice, reclaim their voice. reclaim their voice and to lead in that way.
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is if and I didn't think that this chapter was going to go like that. was like, why is he like... not like They like the word intestine? Yeah, was thinking, like, maybe there's something about, you know, the masculinity that my head does but of not see right now. But I said, oh! They want to this? The buzzer? Yeah, I was like, is this big? just Maybe there's a steer side thing that I don't have.
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But then I like, wow, like, she said, no, you're not bringing that hand. And then when you're saying about she's decisive, because in that yeah we can have that, you know, because feel like the way women are kind of taught it, something that's only for,
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like The masculine. And women can't always just be decisive because that's us trying to be men or something. Yes, because you have to, you know, I'll talk, you know, with my mother and my sister and talk to all my girlfriends and then, you know, may say this to him and I'll hold this back and then, we'll talk about this one because this isn't the room anymore. Yeah. But actually, God finds it very attractive when his people make decision or send a decision and see it through. You let your yes be yes and you know your no be no.
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Actually, when you were saying something in the beginning about, it was in my head, about the crisis of men, of men are not saying anything, they're kind of being quiet. Even people who are, an example I'm using is like, Trump, how they feel about him. They said no matter how they feel about Trump is, they call him, he's like a father. Like he's going say yes, his yes is a yes, his no's a no. Whether people vote for him or not, he's going to do what he said he's going to do because we're in a culture where everybody's so wishy-washy, the words doesn't mean anything. And I'm kind of thinking about her. She's like, no, this is who we are. We're the peaceful, we're the faithful. not going to bring that here.
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And that to me is like, oh, wow, that really connects you the interest. Yeah, because a big thing you see in the Western world, because I can't speak of a nation Earth, but can speak of the West, it started with the lie of tolerance.
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You know, the Bible talks about tolerating your brothers and sisters in their weakness. You put a blanket over them of of love, of care, of protection. restore them on their journey.
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But when the we i think helping you guys it just gets in one second when the wicked say tolerance, what they need is tolerate the wickedness that I do.
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Tolerate having lower living circumstances. Tolerate when I say that. Not reclaiming your voice. Tolerate when I suppress you. Tolerate when i Pull these ones down and elevate your enemies.
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Tolerating when these people insult you, you just have to, you know, keel over and take it. And letting these people have abuse you, letting these people hurt you. Don't fight back.
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And accept the slop. Accept the abuse. When the enemy says, you know, tolerate everyone, that's actually what it means. Because Christianity doesn't get tolerated. Jesus doesn't get tolerated.
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But you're told to tolerate everything else because then you're a nice Christian. The Bible never, ever tells people to be a nice Christian. Yes, you you know, you should make an effort to live in peace with people when possible. It's not always possible when possible.
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But there is a peace that is real and a peace that's not real. And if a woman, for instance, extreme example, was living in a house with a violent man, he was verbally abusive, physically abusive, all the abusives,
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It's not peaceful for her to come under that and be quiet and timid and to tolerate that bad behaviour. Okay, she might not be snarky and nasty, but that that's not peace.
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Peace is actually, for a living than peace, is actually living in freedom. but And it's the same with spiritually. And people are told, accept when we tax you into oblivion.
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Accept you cannot afford a house. Accept that all the money you pay in taxes is going towards people who came here illegally. Accept that this happens, accept this happens, accept this happens.
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You're not told live a life of acceptance. You're told to live a life freedom, where God is a warrior who fights the good fight of faith, and we're to fight the good fight faith as well. And you cannot fight that good fight of faith if you're not willing to be decisive.
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If you're not willing to say, these are my boundaries, you do not cross my boundaries. These are my defensive mechanisms. Because there walls come down where your defensive mechanisms are good.
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You don't cross them. These are protective. These protect me and these protect everyone connected to me. And when someone challenges you, listen.
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No, listen. And if he had not listened, she could have gotten, she was good at mobilizing people. She could have got archers on that wall to shoot the living daylights out of them.
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And the fact that they just chopped off Shiva's head They were okay with the right kind of violence. They were okay with the right kind of retaliation. They were okay with the right kind of militarization, the right kind of pushback. And that for us is prayer.
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That for us is no. That for us is not not today, devil. No, devil, not today. It's not happening. and And it's necessary.
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No double-mindedness. The days for double-minded Christians, yeah, maybe, perhaps, are over. But yes, we ask, you know, we know. That is very powerful, guys. But she's not named. That's like a really good template. Yeah, stick yourself in there. Yeah. yeah Amen.
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Amen. Amen.
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All right, guys. Any more thoughts what or comments before we have some communion and wrap up for today?
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We don't go cutting their heads off. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. a Just adding more fuel to the fire. Adding more drama. Just decisive.
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bre did you look walk with right
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I'll be healthy first and I'll go to cheek one of those afterwards. you. It's going to be great.
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right, guys, please get your communion elements ready. you ah Whatever your wine is and your price. Thanks, Don't you leave that lovely comment in the chat box. really appreciate that. like um Yes, the worship music is specifically tailored towards Radiant in September. playing around a few song ideas there.
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and And thanks for the teaching comment there as well. Much appreciated. Thank you, everyone. so Red, no. you the kaba and je leather I could taken in the two set to try it myself, but the
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standing. It's true that you said that Hebrew doesn't have adjectives, that the language that he would... evil Yeah, it doesn't have, let's say, superlative adjectives. Thank you. So... How does a language... with So let's say there are three kinds of adjectives. So you have happy as an adjective.
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and Happier is a comparative adjective Happiest is the superlative adjective of You don't have the superlative adjective that visit Exactly The highest them and The most The least The greatest The most on The funniest They're the superlatives The EST Adjectives So therefore instead of The godliest god He's the god of gods Instead of the songiest song, it's the song of songs.
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Instead of the lordiest song, the lord. Instead of the kingliest king, the king kings. That's what they did. Because when you said that, I was like, how does that language even run without a song? That's incredible. than god I should have specified the third category. I'll be honest.
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After taught it, I said, so and ah yeah after i told it i said There was a better way I could have said that sentence.
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just love like languages and letters and words. Like that's like my favorite thing. That is so cool. All right guys, for communion today, let's reframe 2 Samuel 19. Earlier we looked at it militaristically.
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land
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let's reframe seconds your nineteen earlier we looked at it militaristically We looked it in terms of these people risked their lives for you.
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And you have basically slapped them in the face when I'm saying thank you. I'm going to reframe this
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it. 2 Samuel 19.1 Our good friend Joab was told, The king is weeping and mourning for Absalom.

Divine Love and Forgiveness Reflected in David's Lament

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Absalom was a murderer.
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Absalom was a usurper. Absalom was a thief. Absalom was conniving. Absalom literally slept with his father's concubines, butt naked, on the roof for the whole nation to see.
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He was a pervert.
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And for the whole army, the victory that day was turned to mourning. Because on that day, the troops heard it said, the king is grieving for his sons.
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Verse 4. The king covered his face and cried aloud, O my son Absalom. O Absalom, my son, my son.
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I want you to imagine this now as Father God.
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Father God. David, exactly. David being God. Thinking of every human layer, every human pervert, every human killer, every human schemer, every human who has ever stolen a position that was not his to steal, and the same God who is decisive, he loves what's good, he hates what's evil, the same God who is decisive, you pick Jesus or you suffer the consequences of that rejection.
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The same God who sets his people up to win and sets traps to take down the enemy. That same God who is love and who takes up every space in every dimension that exists.
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Thinks about those perverts, election thieves, murderers, destroyers,
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saboteurs, people who division in families,
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and still weeps and mourns for them.
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Oh, my son.
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Oh, my daughter. Oh, my children.
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Oh, people I had such plans for, good, perfect, pleasing plans.
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people for whom I had more thoughts than there are grains of sand on the seashore, and every single one of those plans was good, perfect, and pleasing.
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Beautiful, pure, noble, commendable, and praiseworthy. That God had plans for those people for every single day of eternity, and eternity lasts a very long time,
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And the idea of them perishing, of them not knowing Jesus when their moment of death comes, and they go to hell, which we looked at two Sundays ago, and the king is weeping and mourning for them.
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Oh, my son, o my daughter, oh, my kids.
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That same God has adopted every single one of you.
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And it brought him so much joy and angels celebrating heaven. They literally had a party. The second you on the earth chose to pick Christ, to love Christ, to follow Christ, to be his child, to let him sign your adoption papers, to let him write your name in the book of life,
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In the Book of Remembrance,
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Isaiah says, the Lord has your name written on his hands. the What is on the Lord's hands? Holes from the nails. When he looks at his hands, when you see those holes, he sees your face. These are name.
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The deep, deep love David had for Absalom is a teensy, tiny human picture. on the enormity and immense love God has for you.
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And we live in that love.
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By the body of Jesus that was broken on the cross for us.
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On the blood of Jesus that was poured out for us.
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And we do not have to live life alone. He has given us family on the earth. And i declare this very morning, afternoon, that the Joshua generation, God's people, are the peaceful and faithful mothers and fathers.
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and we will not let the enemy swallow up the Lord's inheritance. In Jesus' name. Amen.
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really Amen. Amen. Thank you, Jesus.
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This is the body. We claim it as an emblem of the body, a broken body of Jesus.
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broken for our sins, for our healing.
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You
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know, we've crushed.
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And then we take the water, it's a symbol of the blood. I don't have a powerful hour of red wine. take it as a symbol of being washed.
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We've been washed in the blood.
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That's the room where he wanted to go up, he sits in. It's from Ardey, so she's always there, you know.
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She's lovely woman. I think she has cancer.
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Amen. Amen. Amen.
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All right, guys. Thank you so much for being here with us this morning, this afternoon. Have a special and precious rest of your Sunday. Be that wise woman.
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Let your yes be yes. Let your no no. Determine the proper rules your life, defensive boundaries.
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Don't be afraid to speak truth to power. Don't be afraid to whip out your wooden spoon and say, listen, listen, if you'd walk around in one of your handbags, that's okay.
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Unless you're a man. Then don't have it in bag, but in your backpack, whatever. There's a visual aid. Write it on your on right on your hand in a pen, wooden spoon. You'll know what it means.
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And go forth bravery. Bravery. Go forth bravely. Be the peaceful. Be the faithful. Be mothers and fathers.
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And as a recipe for not letting your life and those connected to you be swallowed up by the thief who comes to steal, kill, and destroy. Know that you're not doing this in your own strength. You have to it with an act of your will.
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but you're doing in the Lord's strength. And our God is absolutely good. Walk in that goodness. Walk in that favor.
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Walk in the lifelight of Jesus this week. And we'll see you again sin God bless friends. Have best day. Brandon, thank you. Bye-bye. Thank you, Brandon. Thank you so much.
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Thank you so much, everyone.
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