Would You Rather,’ tackling wild hypotheticals and impossible choices. Expect plenty of laughs, unexpected debates, and total chaos in this hilarious episode!
Yep. Happy Wednesday. How was your guys' this week?
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Heather
Mine was pretty boring. Nothing exciting. Second week in a row.
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Shelley
Mine.
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Heather
That's kind of crazy. But yeah.
Anniversary Trip Recap
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Shelley
Mine was actually, I actually got out of the house this weekend, this week.
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Victoria Ouellette
Wow.
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Shelley
Wednesday was our 10 year anniversary. So we decided to go and stay in Orlando at a beautiful resort hotel. And then we went to um Universal for the weekend.
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Shelley
And yeah, it was, it was pretty awesome, really busy and hot in the afternoon.
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, that sounds great.
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Heather
It was pretty hot this weekend. Yeah.
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Shelley
yeah so but we had fun and it was worth the trip and we actually got upgraded because it was our anniversary they upgraded us to like this sweet like insane so yeah it's really nice
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
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Victoria Ouellette
That's nice.
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Heather
That's pretty cool.
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, I've never had that happen to me, so.
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Heather
Same. Me neither.
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Shelley
Well, was funny because the guy asked us, are you celebrating anything this weekend? And Tony's like, no. And I'm like, yeah, our anniversary.
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Heather
ah
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Shelley
and the guy started laughing.
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Victoria Ouellette
Tony's just like, no.
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Shelley
i know. And the guy started laughing and he's like, I upgraded you guys to the Sapphire Suite. And I'm like, oh my Because I told Tony, I'm like, that's a really expensive room. But yeah, it was it was pretty, pretty awesome.
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Heather
That's cool, though.
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Victoria Ouellette
I didn't do anything this week.
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Heather
I'm glad you had fun.
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Shelley
Nothing at all.
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Victoria Ouellette
either It was a rough week at work, but aside from that, nope.
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Shelley
You worked.
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Heather
Yeah, we went out to lunch today.
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Victoria Ouellette
I chilled. I relaxed.
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Heather
but But yeah, that was about it.
Introduction to 'Would You Rather' Segment
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Heather
So anyways, this episode, we have decided to do some would you rather questions.
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Heather
um Hopefully it's a fun way for us to kind of answer questions and get to know Well, for you guys to get to know all of us with some weird, crazy questions.
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Victoria Ouellette
Just a little bit more.
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Shelley
I didn't get the assignment, so I only have one would you rather question, but I have other random off the wall questions for these guys.
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Victoria Ouellette
Shelly went the the hypothetical question route.
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Heather
So.
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Victoria Ouellette
So yeah.
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Shelley
They're still pretty funny, I think, but.
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Heather
So. So we're going to give her this one, yeah. so she she she may have a little
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Victoria Ouellette
Right.
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Heather
she may have a little bit different questions, but that's okay. They'll still be able to, you know, teach you guys a little bit more of how, I guess, how we are, what we think, or...
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Victoria Ouellette
Our personalities and how we differ.
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Heather
Yeah.
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
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Heather
Yep. who's going first, Shelly?
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Shelley
Yes.
Battle Scenarios
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Shelley
Let me ask you my one and only would you rather question that I have.
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Heather
Okay.
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Heather
Okay. Let's hear it.
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Shelley
um Okay. So would you rather fight one horse size duck or 100 horses? Okay.
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Heather
ah
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Shelley
do size horses
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Heather
Wait, I feel like if I have to fight ah hundred duck-sized horses, then I would have to kill a bunch of horses, and that sounds really mean, but
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Shelley
Yeah. Well, no, there's going to
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Victoria Ouellette
That does sound mean.
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Heather
but i think I'd rather do that than and what?
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Victoria Ouellette
I think I'd pick the horse size duck.
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Shelley
one.
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Heather
One
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Heather
duck-sized. Wait, yeah.
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Shelley
One horse size duck.
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Heather
That's so confusing.
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Victoria Ouellette
ah
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Shelley
So the duck is as big as a horse or a hundred of little horses, little duck size horses.
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Victoria Ouellette
Right.
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Victoria Ouellette
Basically.
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Heather
So weird.
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Shelley
I'd probably do the duck. big The big horse duck. Just because, mean.
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Victoria Ouellette
big horse attack
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Heather
like we're just saying random words at this point.
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Victoria Ouellette
right oh wow
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Heather
I don't know. i I'll just stick with my original answer, the 100 duck-sized horses.
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Shelley
oh
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Shelley
Then you'll have them like kicking you You'll have them like kicking you.
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Heather
It can't hurt that bad. They're duck-sized.
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Shelley
I guess. That's true.
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Victoria Ouellette
not that ducks are tiny or anything i'd pick the one
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Heather
I could just step on them and be okay.
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Shelley
Yeah, that's true. They're not that tiny. The one.
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Heather
Okay.
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Shelley
i would pick the one as well.
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Heather
I'll stick with the 100.
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Victoria Ouellette
All right, I'm going to make it fun.
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Heather
Make it fun. Why not?
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Shelley
I've had two of those types of neighbors
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Victoria Ouellette
I'm going to start on the easier side here.
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Shelley
in my life.
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Victoria Ouellette
Would you rather have a noisy neighbor or a nosy neighbor?
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Heather
ah
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Shelley
o
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Heather
um
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Shelley
i've had i've had two those types of neighbors in my life
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Shelley
I did not like the noisy one.
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Shelley
Depends. If they're noisy during the day, that would be okay. But if they're noisy at night, that's a problem.
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Heather
problem I think I would go i don't know because I'd probably go with the noisy one because noise has never really bothered me I mean
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Victoria Ouellette
You
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Shelley
I would just be noisy as well.
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Heather
I was going to say, I'm probably the noisy neighbor, so I mean...
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Victoria Ouellette
ah you probably are.
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Shelley
And I'm probably the nosy neighbor.
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Victoria Ouellette
i think I would.
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Victoria Ouellette
I think I'd go with noisy neighbor as well. I'd rather have a like noise wouldn't bother me too much. It really depends on what kind.
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Heather
so
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Victoria Ouellette
Like if there was a dog barking all night long, i don't, that would be tough. But like, yeah.
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Heather
Oh, well, that is my neighbor. He has three dogs over there that I can hear all the time. And because our bedroom is on that side of the house, that's literally all we hear at night. And especially when they decide to go night swimming in their pool, and that's right at our back window.
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Victoria Ouellette
Oh, man.
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Shelley
That's our neighbors.
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Heather
hear their dogs, we hear their TV, and we hear them swimming in the pool having conversations.
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Shelley
They have a pool.
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Victoria Ouellette
and
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Victoria Ouellette
Oh, wow.
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Shelley
oh
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
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Heather
So I already have that neighbor. But it doesn't really bother me. I just think it's funny that that's when they decide to go swimming and do all those things outside on their back porch is when we're going to sleep.
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Victoria Ouellette
yeah
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Victoria Ouellette
um I don't blame them.
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Heather
So yeah, I don't either.
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Shelley
I would do the same. If I had a pool, I'd be outside.
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Heather
Yeah, I think I would be too. I mean, not during the week, obviously, because I got to go to work. But anyways, I think I kind of my questions are probably all over the place. But I think I just some of the few that caught my eye were just, I think, a little off the wall one. So I guess mine aren't really mine aren't hard by any means. But my first one will be, would you rather get a paper cut every time you turn a page or bite your tongue every time you eat?
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Shelley
oh
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Victoria Ouellette
oh man i'd rather have a paper cut i guess but that's a lot i touch a lot of papers at work so like that one's tough
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Heather
I
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Shelley
how deep of a shortcut yeah i don't i've bit my tongue many times and that sucks when you have to eat and you have that soreness um
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Victoria Ouellette
but
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Heather
don't know.
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Heather
hu
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Victoria Ouellette
You like wouldn't taste your food after a certain point.
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Shelley
yeah i'm thinking paper cut as well i just have band-aids hey we put band-aids on then it'd be fine right you just keep
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Victoria Ouellette
like
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Heather
I should wear gloves gloves then yeah
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Victoria Ouellette
Just always wear gloves.
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Shelley
oh yeah wear gloves wear gardening gloves or like you know those like uh gloves that mechanics wear uh you're doing yard oh yeah gardening gloves yeah
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Heather
yeah I think it would be the same thing i yeah I don't know period no matter what yeah I don't know
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Victoria Ouellette
But does the paper cut show up either way? Like, it doesn't really matter if you're wearing gloves or not. Just if you're turning pages, you're going to get a paper cut.
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Shelley
You're just going to get paper cut.
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Victoria Ouellette
It just shows up. Right. It doesn't come from the paper necessarily. Just the action.
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Shelley
Dang.
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Heather
Seems that way.
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Victoria Ouellette
And the glove.
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Heather
That's how it's worded anyway.
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Victoria Ouellette
Right. That's what it sounds like.
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Shelley
That sounds terrible either way.
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Heather
i would I would pick the paper cut too, though, either way. I mean, it would suck because paper cuts suck, but, you know.
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Victoria Ouellette
Biting your tongue sucks a worse.
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Shelley
Yes.
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Heather
Honestly, I also want my tongue in one piece, so
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Victoria Ouellette
so
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Shelley
Yes. Paper cut all the way if I had to. Alright, so here's my non-would-you-rather. Alright.
Survival Scenarios
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Shelley
So this one is if you had to survive in a zombie apocalypse with only items currently in your purse or bag, how long do you think you'd last?
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Victoria Ouellette
Not very long.
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Shelley
You don't have anything in there that help you?
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Victoria Ouellette
I carry basically a wallet. So I have some credit cards, some chapstick, maybe.
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Shelley
That's it. You can use your keys.
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Heather
yeah
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Victoria Ouellette
Maybe a pad or two. That's it. That's all I got. It's a little pumpkin shape wallet.
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Heather
Um,
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Victoria Ouellette
That's it.
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Heather
my purse is pretty big, although I don't really have a lot of things in it. I mean, i guess, hypothetically, I could have a lot of things in it, but I really don't, so.
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Shelley
you can use your keys
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Shelley
No, but currently right now.
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Heather
Um, yeah, it probably wouldn't be very long. I mean, I have I don't, I probably have some like tweezers or something that I could hurt somebody with.
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Heather
don't know. Can I out?
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Victoria Ouellette
You can hurt one zombie.
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Heather
I don't know.
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Shelley
Yeah, one zombie, that's it.
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Heather
ah can i out i don't know
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Shelley
So i I currently just kind of went through my purse. or Well, it was probably yeah earlier today. And I took out my medication that I would need.
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Shelley
So I would not survive.
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Heather
health wise you couldn't survive.
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Shelley
Because I wouldn't have my inhaler.
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Victoria Ouellette
Just based on the meds alone.
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Shelley
but have my yeah Well, I need my inhaler, right? If I have an asthma attack, then I'd be scared. So I would not survive.
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Victoria Ouellette
Now, if I can take my work bag, I carry a whole lot to work. So
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Shelley
It says purse or bag, so it wasn't specifically.
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Victoria Ouellette
I mean, it is a bag I carry with me everywhere.
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Shelley
yeah
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Victoria Ouellette
i i put my purse inside of it when I own during the week. So I guess it could count. There's a lot in there. i have everything in there. Anything IT related is in that bag.
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Victoria Ouellette
Plus my lunch, freezer bags, my keys, all the keys. My hairpin? That could maybe hurt somebody for a minute.
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Shelley
Yeah, that could hurt somebody for a minute.
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Heather
ah firm
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Shelley
I do have a few pens in my purse. um
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Shelley
Credit cards. Yeah. Keys.
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Victoria Ouellette
Use all the cords to strangle somebody, I guess.
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Shelley
Oh, yeah.
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Victoria Ouellette
The zombies?
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Heather
Right.
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Shelley
I'm up.
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Victoria Ouellette
Maybe if they die that way. Just tie them up, I guess. I don't know.
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Heather
and
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Shelley
like and
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Victoria Ouellette
um Okay, so mine is would you rather experience a wonderful life to the age of 100 spend years at any age you choose
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Heather
Wait, so live a wonderful life to the age of 100 or pick an age and spend 100 years at that age.
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Victoria Ouellette
exactly
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Heather
I would rather...
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Shelley
So it could be the best age ever that you loved.
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Victoria Ouellette
Yep.
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Shelley
You have the best life. I would go that way.
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Victoria Ouellette
yep But you have to live it for a hundred years.
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Shelley
I would live it for 100 years.
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Victoria Ouellette
And what age?
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Shelley
Probably s
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Shelley
early thirty s
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Heather
and i don't know. I think I would just do the hundred years.
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Shelley
I don't know.
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Heather
Live.
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Victoria Ouellette
Like live to the age of a hundred?
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Heather
Yeah. Yeah.
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Shelley
As I'm getting older, it sucks. So I'd like to be like in my early 30s. Because, you know, i haven oh i mean I have a good life now. Something like when you're younger, more energetic and stuff like that.
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, but you don't get to live the life then. You just live your age. It's not like you get better. You just live that age. So your mind and all that stuff would stay the same at that age.
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Shelley
Oh.
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Victoria Ouellette
You know what I mean?
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Heather
It's not like you're taking the information you know now and going back, right, is what you're saying?
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Victoria Ouellette
That's why I...
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Shelley
i would never.
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Victoria Ouellette
yeah Or moving forward. Yeah.
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Shelley
i don't know. It's tough. For me.
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Victoria Ouellette
That's why I think I'd pick to just live to 100%
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Heather
yeah
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Victoria Ouellette
Just because like I have I mean, yeah, there's a lot of crappy things that I would have loved to have skipped. But there's also like a lot of different stages of my life that I've lived. That I wouldn't have wanted to miss out on, you know.
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Shelley
That's true.
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Victoria Ouellette
So that would be really hard for me to choose a specific age and just live 100 years that way.
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Shelley
i was just thinking like, you know.
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Heather
Yeah, it would for me too. I feel like i I am who I am because of the major things that I've been through.
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Shelley
Yes, I believe that too. hmm.
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Heather
So...
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, because it's like I could choose my 30s, but then I wouldn't have Bash. So it's like then I'd live my life without my youngest kid.
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Victoria Ouellette
Or like, I guess either way, Wayne's there because I'm so young.
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Shelley
Yeah, but if you if you chose the age where you had Bash...
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Heather
yeah
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Victoria Ouellette
I mean, I guess, but then I feel like. Do I choose him as a baby and he.
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Shelley
Oh, he has to stay the same age as you choose him?
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Victoria Ouellette
I mean, I don't know. i guess we I'd have to set the rules because it's my question.
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Shelley
I mean, he would eventually get...
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Victoria Ouellette
but
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Shelley
ah Eventually he would get as old as you and then he'd be your best friend. Yeah.
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Heather
you
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Shelley
ah
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Heather
but
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Shelley
and know that's tough, because I do agree with that statement that Heather said, that um things that happened in your past, you know, I feel things that happened my past made me who I am today, you know?
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Victoria Ouellette
yeah
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, for sure.
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Shelley
um But there are a lot of things that I loved in my early 30s that I'm like, oh, dang, I wish I could, you know, do that now kind of thing. I don't know.
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Shelley
I'm almost, I'm in my mid 40s guys, so. I'm old.
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Heather
Um, my next question. It's my turn, right?
Movie Preferences
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Heather
I already lost track.
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Shelley
Yep.
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Heather
I'm sorry. Um, would you rather watch nothing but Hallmark Christmas movies or nothing but horror movies?
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Victoria Ouellette
Like forever?
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Heather
Silence.
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Victoria Ouellette
That's tough because I really love horror movies.
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Heather
Silence.
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Victoria Ouellette
But to only be able to watch them forever... Sounds like a lot of sadness in the long run.
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Heather
you ah
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Shelley
Yeah, i would I would choose the Hallmark.
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Victoria Ouellette
Like Hallmark can make you like happy and feel different feelings and like as much as people think so think that it's cheesy. You know, i get my joy from horror movies too, but like to have to watch that be the only thing.
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Victoria Ouellette
I think I'd have to, surprisingly, i think I'd have to pick Hallmark movies. Yeah.
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Shelley
I would definitely pick Hallmark.
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Heather
Yeah, I had that thought too that most people probably just assumed that we'd pick the horror movies, but yeah, you make a pretty good point there. don't know, I like both, so it would be a hard question. I think I'd probably go with the Hallmark ones too.
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Shelley
Okay, so back off that question, do you like the cheesy horror movies or do you like like classic horror movies? like What kind of horror movies are you guys into?
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Victoria Ouellette
All of them.
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Heather
I was gonna say i don't have a specific like type that I would rather watch.
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Shelley
Like gory ones? Scary? Like jump out and scare you?
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Heather
I don't...
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Shelley
Or like gory or all of them you say?
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Victoria Ouellette
Both in the middle.
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Heather
Yeah, all of the above.
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Victoria Ouellette
I mean, my favorite horror movie is Trick or Treat because of Sam and all of his Halloween rules.
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Shelley
Yes.
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Shelley
Little Sammy.
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Victoria Ouellette
Which I think everybody should live by his Halloween rules. Without the murder.
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Victoria Ouellette
um And I feel like it's kind of in the middle. Like if you watch trick or treat. It can be really kind of cheesy.
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Shelley
Yeah, it's cute though.
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Victoria Ouellette
But there's some. Right. it's There's some cute. There's some horror. There's some killing like any horror movie. And there's.
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Victoria Ouellette
Some weird crazy parts. But yeah. I mean I mainly love Sam for his rules. His Halloween rules. So.
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Victoria Ouellette
It's kind of ah on the cheesier side though, for sure.
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Shelley
Yeah, you know, to be honest, I never really watched a lot of horror movies because I would get scared. Like, you guys know me, I'm like a chicken. So I only actually started watching horror movies with you guys.
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Shelley
Any of the movies that I've seen that were scary was always with you guys. So...
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Victoria Ouellette
Wow.
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Shelley
But I've known you for how long now? So...
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Victoria Ouellette
I know.
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Shelley
I mean, I seem like... You know, you're old, like, Friday the 13th and stuff like that. i remember going to the theater when I was, like, 15 years old to go see Jason in Manhattan on Halloween.
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Victoria Ouellette
Yeah. Mm-hmm.
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Shelley
It was, like, really crazy. But... Anyways. Is it my turn? Okay, here's another one. That's kind of crazy. in your opinions...
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Shelley
Is cereal a soup? Why or why not?
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Heather
Such an odd question.
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Shelley
It is, right? Yeah,
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Heather
um A, I've never heard cereal be called a soup, I guess. So I don't, I think I would say in my opinion, no, cereal is not soup because not everybody eats cereal with milk.
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Shelley
me neither.
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Heather
Cereal itself is just literally ah stuff in the box, not, not with the milk.
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Victoria Ouellette
cereal right yeah not with milk that's true
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Heather
I mean, most of my, most of my kids eat the cereal right out of the box.
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Shelley
I sometimes have Cheerios without milk as a snack.
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Victoria Ouellette
but if you put it with milk yes that turns into soup
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Heather
Yeah, I guess.
00:18:19
Shelley
See, yeah I consider soup being hot.
00:18:23
Shelley
So I would never put hot milk in soup. I mean, in cereal.
00:18:29
Victoria Ouellette
yeah
00:18:30
Heather
I think.
00:18:31
Victoria Ouellette
I mean, know I guess soup would be hot, but
00:18:31
Shelley
So I don't think cereal is soup.
00:18:36
Victoria Ouellette
um
00:18:38
Victoria Ouellette
I don't know.
00:18:40
Heather
Yeah, I still don't think I would consider it soup, even with milk. But I mean, i don't know what you consider it, but it's not soup in my opinion. I don't know. mean, I can see where people could see that, but I don't think so.
00:18:54
Victoria Ouellette
I think it being hot is a good point. So yeah, probably not then.
Food Debates
00:19:00
Victoria Ouellette
Pretty sure Mythical Chef Josh from Good Mythical Morning answered this exact question.
00:19:00
Shelley
Oh,
00:19:04
Shelley
um really?
00:19:05
Victoria Ouellette
And I don't think i i watched the episode.
00:19:09
Shelley
So, okay.
00:19:09
Victoria Ouellette
Maybe I should.
00:19:11
Shelley
So, here's another part of to that question. Well, sort of. So, what is your favorite type of cereal?
00:19:19
Shelley
Right now.
00:19:20
Heather
um
00:19:20
Shelley
If you could have any cereal right now, what would you have?
00:19:23
Heather
always I always go to Frosted Mini Meats.
00:19:23
Victoria Ouellette
Frost.
00:19:25
Victoria Ouellette
Frosted mini weights, yep. That's what I have in my kitchen right now.
00:19:28
Shelley
We have that too. That's Tony's favorite, but I like the Roof Cutters, Captain Crunch, or Lucky Charms.
00:19:33
Victoria Ouellette
I do love Captain Crunch.
00:19:35
Heather
ah That new protein che Cheerios that came out is really good too. I'm also obsessed with the protein Cheerios.
00:19:39
Shelley
Is it?
00:19:42
Shelley
Never had the Protein Cheerios. I like Honey Nut Cheerios and Frosted Flakes as well.
00:19:50
Shelley
I don't eat a lot of cereal, but when I do.
00:19:53
Shelley
That's it.
00:19:53
Victoria Ouellette
So...
00:19:54
Shelley
question.
00:19:55
Victoria Ouellette
would you rather Would you rather relax at home but have no holiday For two months.
Work-Life Balance
00:20:06
Victoria Ouellette
or work really hard for ten months and have a two month dream holiday
00:20:14
Heather
Work really hard for however many months you just said.
00:20:18
Victoria Ouellette
and months
00:20:18
Shelley
Yes. I would work really hard for 10 months and have my dream vacay. 100%. Yeah.
00:20:23
Victoria Ouellette
two months
00:20:26
Shelley
For two months. Go wherever I want.
00:20:29
Heather
Yeah, I'd be okay with that.
00:20:29
Shelley
And do.
00:20:31
Victoria Ouellette
I do love, i i guess, I don't know.
00:20:31
Shelley
All expenses paid?
00:20:34
Heather
It doesn't really say that well.
00:20:37
Victoria Ouellette
Make it your own.
00:20:40
Victoria Ouellette
don't know because I love relaxing at home. So that's really hard for me.
00:20:45
Victoria Ouellette
And I guess that like, am I still getting paid? Like, this is that part of it? Yeah. Am I relaxing at home, but still getting paid, but I just don't get to go on vacation.
00:20:55
Victoria Ouellette
If that's the case, i I'd probably be okay with that.
00:20:55
Heather
Yeah, I don't know.
00:20:55
Shelley
It's your question.
00:20:59
Heather
Well, also, are you literally stuck? I mean, I guess you are. You're stuck at home, right? Is what that means?
00:21:05
Victoria Ouellette
I mean, you're relaxing at home.
00:21:08
Heather
But for...
00:21:08
Victoria Ouellette
I don't know. That one's actually really hard for me.
00:21:10
Heather
That's a... yeah
00:21:12
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, I guess there would. Am I allowed to leave? Am I allowed to go do normal things? Like, am I allowed to go to the beach? It's right down the road. Like, or does that, is that considered a holiday? A vacation?
00:21:22
Heather
yeah that's what um That's what I want to know. If I can go play sales world.
00:21:25
Victoria Ouellette
I live in Florida. Can I go to the pool or is that?
00:21:26
Heather
Right?
00:21:28
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, I guess that's hard.
00:21:30
Shelley
Right?
00:21:32
Shelley
Maybe it's considered a holiday if you leave the state.
00:21:36
Victoria Ouellette
Right. So all my I live in Florida. All my vacations are right here.
00:21:41
Heather
right
00:21:42
Victoria Ouellette
i would need to know the rules, I guess. I would need to read the fine print of this question to have an answer for you. um But I do love relaxing at home.
00:21:51
Heather
oh
00:21:54
Victoria Ouellette
But I would be OK working hard for 10 months, too, and having my dream two month vacation.
00:22:00
Shelley
you guys know where...
00:22:00
Heather
So i think I found a question that actually works pretty good along with yours. And it says, would you rather travel the world for free for a year or have $50,000 to spend however you please?
00:22:14
Shelley
All expense paid?
00:22:16
Heather
Yeah. Travel the world for free for a year.
00:22:18
Shelley
Free. Okay.
00:22:19
Heather
Yeah.
00:22:20
Shelley
Yes. I would travel the world free for a year.
00:22:23
Shelley
Because $50,000, I mean, yeah, it's a lot of money, but yeah, it'll go quick.
00:22:25
Heather
I mean, yeah. It's going to go quick.
00:22:29
Shelley
And you could travel the world for free for a year, which would probably cost a lot of money if you had to pay for it.
00:22:35
Victoria Ouellette
But are they paying my bills too?
Travel vs. Money
00:22:39
Heather
I was wondering that, like, but does that count like not working and just.
00:22:43
Victoria Ouellette
You're paying for my travel, but like, yeah, what about what I would normally be making while I'm traveling? Well, I'm not traveling.
00:22:49
Heather
Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. I mean.
00:22:56
Heather
You'd have to have the right type of job to be able to do that, I think. I mean, like for Shelley's instance, I mean, it works out for them.
00:22:59
Victoria Ouellette
Right.
00:23:02
Heather
They could just work remote wherever.
00:23:05
Heather
So, yeah, I don't know.
00:23:07
Victoria Ouellette
If my bills were paid, like my family was happy and and healthy and i my family could come, then I would probably travel for a year for free.
00:23:16
Heather
Yeah, I think my first instinct said to travel the world for free for a year. um But that is under the assumption that I guess so and that's all I do for that year.
00:23:25
Victoria Ouellette
My bills are paid.
00:23:27
Heather
Yeah, like everything's done.
00:23:28
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah. Yeah.
00:23:30
Heather
That's all I do for that year is travel.
00:23:32
Victoria Ouellette
Right. If I have to work and travel, just give me the 50,000.
00:23:36
Heather
Yeah.
00:23:36
Victoria Ouellette
like that's a lot of stress trying to figure it out just give me the 50 000 it's fine that's a that's a good chunk of money and i can do good with it so
00:23:37
Heather
ah
00:23:44
Heather
That's true.
00:23:47
Heather
yeah yeah
00:23:50
Victoria Ouellette
o
00:23:53
Shelley
so here's uh a question i have for you two specifically um since you are twins actually i have two questions but i can do the other one
00:24:07
Victoria Ouellette
Yes,
Twin Talk
00:24:08
Shelley
um if one of you was an evil twin who would it be ah no I have to answer it no
00:24:08
Victoria Ouellette
we are kids.
00:24:16
Heather
Yeah. You mean we're not?
00:24:19
Victoria Ouellette
I think you have to answer that, Shelley.
00:24:21
Heather
Yeah, how can we answer that?
00:24:25
Victoria Ouellette
If one of us were the evil twin, Shelley, which one would you pick?
00:24:30
Shelley
oh I can't put me on the spot yeah
00:24:36
Heather
I feel like that's dependent on what they consider evil.
00:24:40
Victoria Ouellette
The environment. Yeah, that too.
00:24:42
Heather
No, what that person considers evil. I think we both have our pros and cons on what we're pretty stern with or what we're pretty whatever the word is like when it comes to certain situations so I really think that depends on what the person thinks is evil
00:25:00
Victoria Ouellette
But I also think this is like a really traditional like twins. Like we grew up with this question. you know what i mean?
00:25:07
Shelley
Well, yeah, and the other question I have, I'm sure you guys have grown up with it as well.
00:25:07
Heather
oh yeah for sure yeah we got asked that so many times
00:25:12
Shelley
And it's, have you ever pulled the classic twin switch to mess with people?
00:25:15
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah. Oh yeah. I mean, people.
00:25:16
Shelley
And I think I've heard you guys tell stories. Yeah.
00:25:19
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:25:20
Heather
So many times. We could probably do a whole episode on twin questions.
00:25:22
Shelley
so crazy.
00:25:24
Victoria Ouellette
Questions we get asked as twins.
00:25:28
Shelley
I would do We should do that one day. Do you guys want to hear those questions? Let us know.
00:25:33
Heather
Yeah. Did we ever switch? that No, I would say that we never specifically switched places, but we have, and I'm sure everybody's probably heard the story, but we have, when we were younger with our boyfriends, not walk up to them to see if they could tell who was who.
00:25:53
Victoria Ouellette
To see if they would walk up to us.
00:25:53
Heather
And they they they could not.
00:25:56
Victoria Ouellette
They failed.
00:25:57
Heather
Yeah. So.
00:26:00
Shelley
That's funny.
00:26:02
Victoria Ouellette
We both stood side by side to see if our boyfriends would come to us. The right person.
00:26:08
Heather
Yeah.
00:26:09
Victoria Ouellette
And they didn't move. they they weren't They weren't going to do it.
00:26:13
Heather
They weren't confident enough to try.
00:26:14
Victoria Ouellette
Because they didn't know. but So. They just stood there by their vehicles.
00:26:19
Shelley
I don't, you know, because I've known you guys for so long, I just, I, like, I could, I spot, like, I know the difference between you two. I'm like, yeah, that how could you mix these two up? You know, but it's just because I know you both.
00:26:31
Shelley
That's true.
00:26:32
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah. I mean, those guys did too. So they really...
00:26:36
Shelley
That's true.
00:26:37
Heather
I was thinking that.
00:26:39
Victoria Ouellette
But whatever.
00:26:39
Shelley
ah chair
00:26:39
Heather
don't remember how far it it was, but yeah, they and knew us.
00:26:40
Victoria Ouellette
It's funny.
00:26:44
Heather
Yeah.
00:26:45
Victoria Ouellette
I mean, one of them was our neighbor for a long time.
00:26:48
Heather
Yeah.
00:26:49
Shelley
Wow, that's pretty crazy.
00:26:49
Heather
That's true.
00:26:51
Victoria Ouellette
oh Anyways, I mean, I guess we didn't really answer the first one, the evil one. that That's hard to answer. i think at some points in our life, we've both been called the evil twins. So but we'll just leave it at that.
00:27:01
Heather
Oh, yeah. I would say that, too.
00:27:03
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:27:04
Shelley
I mean, I heard you guys were mean to your brother, right? Aw.
00:27:07
Victoria Ouellette
We're probably both the evil twin to him.
00:27:09
Heather
yeah
00:27:10
Victoria Ouellette
yeah
00:27:12
Heather
We were the annoying older sister that just was mean to their little brother. Yeah.
00:27:16
Shelley
ah
00:27:19
Victoria Ouellette
Poor little Steven.
00:27:22
Heather
That's fine.
00:27:23
Victoria Ouellette
um Okay. So.
00:27:26
Victoria Ouellette
Would you rather.
Career Choices
00:27:30
Victoria Ouellette
Be an extra in a really good movie or have a big part in a terrible movie. Did
00:27:37
Heather
Oh my god, they asked us this question at work. we pull question we pull We pull questions at work, like during our meeting in the morning, and that was one of the questions.
00:27:39
Victoria Ouellette
they?
00:27:46
Victoria Ouellette
Oh, that's funny.
00:27:46
Heather
That's funny.
00:27:49
Heather
um I think that I would... Wait, what was the second part? It was or be...
00:27:53
Victoria Ouellette
Have a big part in a really terrible movie.
00:27:53
Shelley
have a big part.
00:27:57
Heather
Or have a small part in a really good movie.
00:27:59
Shelley
Extra.
00:27:59
Victoria Ouellette
Or be an extra in a good at a really good movie.
00:28:00
Heather
Yeah, that was it. I'd rather be an extra in a really good movie.
00:28:03
Shelley
Yes, because then you could be like, I was an extra in Captain America or whatever.
00:28:07
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:28:08
Shelley
Instead of like, i had a big part in Godzilla fights Aqua Starfish or something.
00:28:08
Victoria Ouellette
I would choose that too.
00:28:17
Victoria Ouellette
Oh, yeah, it was that i was the main guy in that one movie, but i'm not going to tell you about it because it's embarrassing.
00:28:17
Shelley
i don't know.
00:28:19
Shelley
Yeah. Yeah. ah Yeah. ah but
00:28:24
Victoria Ouellette
Wait, I have and I have I know I'm going out of turn now, but I have a specific question for Heather. So going to ask that real quick as we're getting close to time.
00:28:33
Heather
yeah
00:28:33
Victoria Ouellette
um So Shelly can answer this, too, but I wrote this one down for you, Heather. So
Life's Little Luxuries
00:28:40
Victoria Ouellette
would you rather have free unlimited Starbucks for the rest of your life?
00:28:40
Heather
Thanks.
00:28:46
Victoria Ouellette
Or always have your phone laptop charged 100% without ever having to charge it again for the rest of your life.
00:28:54
Heather
Free Starbucks for the rest of my life.
00:28:56
Shelley
ah ah
00:28:59
Heather
I don't care about my stuff being charged.
00:28:59
Victoria Ouellette
I kind of assumed that would be your answer.
00:29:00
Heather
I'll charge it myself.
00:29:03
Heather
you know how much money I could save by having free Starbucks the rest of my life?
00:29:07
Victoria Ouellette
A lot. I have no doubt. A lot. Right.
00:29:10
Shelley
I don't drink Starbucks enough to have that question bound for me.
00:29:14
Victoria Ouellette
Right. I don't either, which is why I'd probably just say charge my stuff because I don't ever go to Starbucks.
00:29:22
Shelley
But my stuff's always charged usually, I don't know.
00:29:26
Heather
Yeah, mine is too.
00:29:26
Victoria Ouellette
I'm all right.
00:29:26
Heather
So that's what I'm saying.
00:29:27
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:29:27
Heather
i might as well pick the Starbucks because I go there anyway and I charge my stuff already. So nothing would change except my free Starbucks.
00:29:36
Victoria Ouellette
All right. One last round. We want to do one run one last round.
00:29:39
Heather
Sure. Do you want me to ask?
00:29:40
Shelley
Sure.
00:29:41
Heather
So me next and then we'll just do a big full circle. Okay. um Let's see. Would you rather let me pick a good one for this last one?
Vacation Dilemmas
00:29:53
Heather
ches Would you rather go on a cruise with your boss or never go on vacation ever again?
00:30:03
Heather
I don't know how Shelly would answer that.
00:30:05
Victoria Ouellette
ah I'd go on vacation with my boss.
00:30:07
Heather
but
00:30:08
Shelley
I don't have a boss.
00:30:08
Heather
Just pretend, Shelly. Just pretend, Shelly.
00:30:10
Shelley
Okay, so we'll go my old boss.
00:30:11
Victoria Ouellette
Your last boss. Yeah.
00:30:15
Shelley
She was cool. So, i mean, yeah, I'd probably go on a cruise. sir Cruise, you said?
00:30:22
Heather
Yeah, it's a cruise. Cruise with your boss or never go on vacation again, which seems crazy.
00:30:23
Shelley
How long?
00:30:26
Heather
I mean, a cruise, you can get lost.
00:30:28
Shelley
Yeah, you can get lost and you can go to your own...
00:30:28
Heather
You know i don't have to hang out with them, right?
00:30:29
Victoria Ouellette
Like just my boss, like the boss up from me.
00:30:32
Heather
It just says you're a boss. So yeah, I would assume.
00:30:35
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, I'd go on a cruise.
00:30:38
Heather
I mean, mine's easy. i would I would easily go on a cruise, so.
00:30:42
Victoria Ouellette
Like, I'm not super interested in the cruise part, if I'm being honest, but like being the question, yeah, I'd go on a cruise with them.
00:30:42
Heather
Plus...
00:30:52
Heather
Yeah, or never go on vacation again. I'd rather do that than never go
00:30:54
Victoria Ouellette
Right. Yeah, I'd rather if I have to go on a vi if I have to suck that one up and go on a cruise, just have a vacation in the future. I'm going to do it.
00:31:04
Heather
That's funny. Oh, I remember that question. Hold on. There was one question I was going to ask, but I already, I feel like I already know the answer, but I just figured I would ask anyways. Oh, let me find it again. Um...
00:31:14
Heather
Oh, well, feel like i already know the answer to this
Reality Show Preferences
00:31:16
Heather
question anyways. It says, would you rather win on Survivor or The Bachelorette?
00:31:21
Heather
So I feel like the answer for that would be Survivor just because The Bachelorette would be.
00:31:21
Shelley
you asking me but so
00:31:26
Victoria Ouellette
you get money on the match for it?
00:31:26
Heather
i don't even know what they win. I was going to say, I guess I don't even know what they win on The Bachelorette aside from.
00:31:29
Shelley
no but i think well i haven't really watched bachelorette in a long time but they get to go on like lavish vacations with the bachelors right and they get to right so but i don't think they just get they get the fame like for being on it like
00:31:38
Heather
whoever they pick though and you guys don't need to pick partners so I guess you could pretend don't know yeah I guess you could and
00:31:43
Victoria Ouellette
We could.
00:31:47
Victoria Ouellette
But they don't get like a million dollars, right? So I guess I'd choose Survivor then.
00:31:48
Shelley
No.
00:31:50
Victoria Ouellette
Because
00:31:50
Shelley
i would choose Survivor because we all know why.
00:31:54
Victoria Ouellette
of Jeff.
00:31:54
Heather
we all know why that also means I gotta do the stuff right?
00:31:57
Victoria Ouellette
Okay, Shelly.
00:32:01
Victoria Ouellette
That's what I'm wondering.
00:32:01
Shelley
The challenge But you'd be so good at it that you would win it.
00:32:02
Heather
the challenges
00:32:02
Victoria Ouellette
We just automatically win it though. Apparently.
00:32:06
Shelley
So...
00:32:06
Heather
I mean, I guess it says when, so yeah.
00:32:10
Shelley
Okay, so this is kind of... I don't know this if you guys can answer this or not. I kind of have an answer myself, but...
00:32:17
Shelley
If animals could talk, which animals would be the most annoying?
00:32:25
Heather
I'm
00:32:27
Shelley
you guys hear that?
00:32:27
Victoria Ouellette
I feel like monkeys would be the most annoying.
00:32:27
Shelley
All right.
00:32:28
Heather
just annoying.
00:32:31
Heather
ah monkeys out of everything I don't know yeah sure they'd be constantly like a little toddler saying mom mom um and mom hey mom hey mom
00:32:37
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, have you ever seen people with pet monkeys? They just jump all over you and they try to steal your stuff. You have to like when you're making drinks and stuff, you have to like cover them so that doesn't I just feel like right.
00:32:46
Shelley
So they're flinging poo at you?
00:32:48
Victoria Ouellette
Like I just feel like they'd be so annoying if they could talk. Yeah.
00:32:55
Victoria Ouellette
Right, exactly.
00:32:56
Shelley
Yeah.
00:32:56
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, can I have that? I want that. I need that.
00:32:59
Shelley
yeah
00:32:59
Victoria Ouellette
Can I have that? what are you doing now? Oh, is this over here? Are you going that way? Yeah, that would be them.
00:33:04
Shelley
Well, that could be dogs or cats. Like, annoying, too.
00:33:07
Victoria Ouellette
No, cats would be like, why are you staring at me?
00:33:10
Shelley
Yeah, why are you in my house? Get out of my house. I'm the king of this castle.
00:33:13
Victoria Ouellette
Excuse me, your plate is on my table. Could you get it off, please?
00:33:22
Heather
Oh, gosh. I don't know. i don't know what I would pick.
00:33:24
Shelley
I was thinking chickens would be annoying because they're like super loud all the time. Chickens and roosters and stuff like that. They would be like screaming,
00:33:36
Victoria Ouellette
That's what Shelly hears in the morning when they're...
00:33:36
Heather
Yeah, I guess.
00:33:41
Victoria Ouellette
Well... I don't really know past that. I was just trying to think of really annoying things.
00:33:46
Shelley
The monkeys though would be really annoying. Yeah.
00:33:50
Heather
Yeah, I don't know.
00:33:51
Victoria Ouellette
Chickens kind of already have a voice that you want to Whatever you want to say it, but...
00:33:51
Heather
and
00:33:55
Shelley
But they would be saying words.
00:33:56
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, I guess.
00:33:57
Heather
Yeah.
00:33:57
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:33:58
Heather
Actually be talking something you'd understand.
00:34:02
Shelley
But they have a small brain too, so they probably wouldn't be that intelligent.
00:34:06
Victoria Ouellette
Oh, okay. So my last question is, would you rather, actually I might do two because one might be real
Superpowers vs. Snacks
00:34:16
Victoria Ouellette
quick.
00:34:17
Victoria Ouellette
um Would you rather have the power to control the weather within one mile radius of where you are at at any moment or clap your hands and three hot fresh tacos made to your taste appear on a plate before you?
00:34:33
Shelley
control the weather for me
00:34:39
Shelley
ah
00:34:39
Heather
um I mean, I guess control the weather. I can go get my own tacos. It's fine.
00:34:45
Shelley
i don't eat tacos like I don't even know the last time I had tacos or Taco Bell or anything like that so I would be like control the weather yeah
00:34:55
Victoria Ouellette
I do love.
00:34:55
Heather
As long as there's no consequences behind controlling that weather, I guess.
00:34:59
Victoria Ouellette
I do love tacos, but I think I would have to choose the weather only because of hurricanes.
00:35:02
Shelley
ah
00:35:07
Victoria Ouellette
Like.
00:35:08
Shelley
Yes.
00:35:10
Heather
yeah I had that thought too.
00:35:11
Victoria Ouellette
Like if I didn't live ah place where there was no hurricanes, there's a really high chance I might pick the tacos.
00:35:20
Heather
I had that thought too because we live in Florida and hurricanes you know it would be beneficial.
00:35:20
Victoria Ouellette
Oh.
00:35:25
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah, I'd protect everybody within a but one mile radius of us.
00:35:29
Heather
Yeah.
00:35:30
Victoria Ouellette
So whenever there's a hurricane, we all get together. Look, all three of us wouldn't need the power, okay?
00:35:33
Heather
Well we
00:35:35
Victoria Ouellette
So can one of us choose tacos?
00:35:41
Victoria Ouellette
In fact, two of us should probably choose the tacos. That way we we get six tacos.
00:35:44
Shelley
We could feed everybody. Yeah. But we could keep clapping and we'd have more than six.
00:35:51
Heather
That's true.
00:35:52
Victoria Ouellette
well One of us get the controlling weather and the rest of us get tacos. Okay.
00:35:58
Heather
Right? And then when we and we have our family compound, we're good.
00:35:58
Victoria Ouellette
Sounds like a win-win to me.
00:35:59
Shelley
Sounds good.
00:36:01
Heather
we i mean, our all of our houses will be protected. We'll be fine. Okay?
00:36:04
Victoria Ouellette
Right.
00:36:04
Shelley
Yep.
00:36:05
Victoria Ouellette
We'll be safe.
00:36:06
Heather
Works out.
00:36:06
Victoria Ouellette
We'll be all set.
00:36:08
Shelley
And we'll have tacos every night, I guess.
00:36:11
Victoria Ouellette
Always have free tacos whenever you want them. Just clap. I could see all the kids showing up at the door now. Could you give me some tacos? I'm just really hungry.
00:36:20
Shelley
Yeah.
00:36:23
Heather
One of my kids don't eat tacos, so she's screwed.
00:36:27
Victoria Ouellette
I might have all the others.
00:36:31
Victoria Ouellette
Okay, one last
Happiness Trade-Offs
00:36:32
Victoria Ouellette
one. I know this episode's going on a little bit longer than usual, but hopefully it's worth it. So would you rather sacrifice your own happiness to make someone else happy or prioritize your own joy?
00:36:48
Shelley
Oh.
00:36:49
Victoria Ouellette
i feel like this is a good personality question, so that's why I wanted to ask it.
00:36:53
Heather
Prioritize your own joy or what?
00:36:54
Shelley
I would.
00:36:55
Heather
What was the first?
00:36:58
Victoria Ouellette
Or sacrifice your own happiness to make someone else happy?
00:37:01
Heather
Like forever or just certain things?
00:37:01
Shelley
I would sacrifice.
00:37:04
Shelley
If i i would sacrifice to make you happy.
00:37:05
Victoria Ouellette
don't know.
00:37:06
Shelley
If you were feeling sad and I was. And I had a choice to make you feel better. i would make you feel better.
00:37:14
Victoria Ouellette
Me specifically?
00:37:14
Shelley
That's just me. I don't know, whoever. Yes, you specifically.
00:37:20
Victoria Ouellette
Just me. guys Just me.
00:37:21
Shelley
Just you.
00:37:22
Victoria Ouellette
Just me.
00:37:23
Shelley
And you too, Heather, okay?
00:37:25
Heather
I mean...
00:37:25
Shelley
Don't tell her. Yeah,
00:37:28
Victoria Ouellette
Don't worry about Tony over there.
00:37:31
Shelley
oh yeah.
00:37:31
Heather
Didn't even mention him.
00:37:34
Shelley
Well, any person, if i
00:37:35
Victoria Ouellette
I got sad before Tony, guys. Just keep that in mind.
00:37:39
Shelley
if I seen anybody that I knew and loved and cared for, well, maybe, you know, that we were friends, whatever. that they were sad, i would sacrifice my happiness at that moment and make them happy.
00:37:53
Victoria Ouellette
That's
00:37:54
Heather
I honestly think I would pick to prioritize my own joy.
00:37:54
Shelley
That's what I do.
00:38:00
Heather
I don't know if that makes me a bad person or not, but i think that me sacrificing my own happiness for somebody else would but not help them any, I guess.
00:38:13
Heather
That's how I feel about it. Like, they would have to fix that themselves, so...
00:38:15
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:38:18
Victoria Ouellette
That's true on a lot of levels.
00:38:19
Heather
Why am I making myself miserable make somebody else happy when it's, unless I'm like doing that for life? i don't know.
00:38:27
Heather
I don't know.
00:38:27
Shelley
It makes me happy to make people happy.
00:38:30
Victoria Ouellette
else happy?
00:38:32
Heather
I mean, I, I'm a, I'm a giver. I agree. I agree with that statement, but i don't know. I guess there's too many technical questions I have.
00:38:37
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:38:40
Shelley
Unanswered. Yes.
00:38:41
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:38:42
Heather
Yeah.
00:38:44
Victoria Ouellette
With the question on its own, I think I would still sacrifice your own happiness. I would sacrifice my own happiness to make someone else happy. ah Just because I feel like my any when I ask that, my main thought is like my kids.
00:38:56
Victoria Ouellette
And I do that all of the time anyway for them. So I feel like that is what I would do.
00:39:00
Heather
I mean, i I had that thought too. Like, if it was for my kids, yeah, I guess, yeah, no questions asked, of course, but...
00:39:03
Victoria Ouellette
Yeah.
00:39:05
Shelley
So, like, i don't think, like, if I was to sacrifice my happiness because, just say, you guys are feeling sad right now. And I'd be like, no, feel happy, and I'll give you my happiness.
00:39:17
Shelley
It wouldn't be like an all-day thing, will it?
00:39:19
Victoria Ouellette
forever now i and don't know and there's
00:39:21
Shelley
Yeah.
00:39:22
Heather
yeah We're just always sad taking Shelly's happiness.
00:39:27
Victoria Ouellette
always taking shelly's happiness that would be sad then we'd have to you guys have to have happiness to give back somewhere come on
00:39:31
Shelley
I'm like, come on, there's gotta to be some. yeah, I still would sacrifice.
00:39:36
Heather
yeah
00:39:38
Shelley
Mm-hmm.
00:39:41
Victoria Ouellette
Oh, now with that in mind and a closing statement, I will say that I do think your own joy and your own happiness is very, very important.
00:39:41
Shelley
yeah i still would microphone
00:39:49
Victoria Ouellette
And people in life in general should not um ignore what would make you happy and your own joy. And people that love you would never expect you to do that. But I just thought it would be a nice personality type.
00:39:59
Heather
yeah
00:40:03
Victoria Ouellette
Would you question so?
00:40:05
Heather
Yeah.
00:40:06
Victoria Ouellette
but it I think that is going to be it for today, guys. So we appreciate you hanging out and all the support and love that we've been getting.
00:40:15
Heather
Yep, I agree. Thanks for watch or I guess listening. Sorry. Thanks for listening.
00:40:21
Shelley
And I hope to see you guys all next week. Same time, same place. We'll be here. And thanks again for all your support and love.
00:40:31
Victoria Ouellette
Yep. Every
00:40:34
Shelley
And yes, we love you.
00:40:38
Victoria Ouellette
Remember every Wednesday at 8 a.m. you'll hear a new episode from us. um Again, if you have any questions, have any topics in mind or just want to contact us at all, you can contact at us contact us at contact at the 28th angle podcast dot com.