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ARP 001 - Marriage and Relationship talks with Hubby
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For my pilot episode, I am with my husband to briefly talk about us, our relationship, and marriage. Hope we inspire you with our love and life story as a Christian couple. ❤️️
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Podcast Introduction
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Thank you for listening above RWBY's podcast. Created by a mom for every mom and parents for that matter, embracing parent head and sanity. Here to help you get by through weekly discussions on parenting as you juggle daily in life.
Meet the Hosts: Danielle and Husband
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Hi, and welcome back to another episode of Above Ruby's podcast. I am now with my husband, Danielle. Say hi. Hi. Hi. Yes. For
Their Relationship Journey Since 2008
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this episode, we are going to talk about relationship and marriage in general. We've been in a relationship since 2008 and we got married four years after in 2012 and we are turning
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12 years now. What the 12 years now have been this coming October? Okay. So,
How They Met: Church Event Story
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um, a brief story about us. How did we first met? First time in a Gita Tayo. Do you have a joke? No, it's a church.
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It's a Golden Shower, Grace Gospel Church. So, at the time, I was a speaker at a youth fellowship. I was a student at an LGBTI Bible school. So, I was an M.B.A. speaker. So, I was a musician. I was a guitarist. I was a musician.
00:01:41
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I don't know how long it's been. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time. It's been a long time.
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I know your first impression was hacking.
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That was a year after, no? That was a year after, no? That was a year after, no? That was a year after, no? That was a year after,
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What made us decide?
Deciding to Marry: Personal Growth
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What made you decide since you were born in Banguet? What made you decide that it's about time we get married? I've been married for four years now. I've been here for a long time. It's been a long time since I've been here.
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no?
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I think it's a good idea. I think it's a good idea to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to
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I propose to you that if you don't like it, you will be able to see it. It's all about you. So, GALIN coming... GALIN coming to CIBU. GALIN coming to the National Conference. It's about the people who are coming to my National Conference, the Workers' Conference before. It's about the people who are coming to my Titanic. It's about the people who are coming.
00:04:12
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I don't know, I don't know. So, I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say.
Family Building Plans
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I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. I don't know
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We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family. We are going to build a family.
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What is life for us in general?
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And then
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Simply, I was like, what are you doing? What are you doing? I don't know. I don't know what to do with the date. But I was like, what are you doing with the date? Eventually, after my volunteer work as a church, the work didn't happen. And then we started planning, and then got married. So I was like, I don't know what to do with the date, but I think it's a blessing for the Lord.
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And similar to grace, grace is greater than our sins. We can really say, compared before, life is better.
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Yes. So, currently, we have been waiting for one year and a few months already. Why don't you tell them what led us to this decision? We moved for a few months and then we moved for a few months and then just last year.
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We moved here. How did you get here? I went to the Bible school. I went to the Bible school. I went to the Bible school. I went to the Bible school. I went to the Bible school. I went to the Bible school. I went to the Bible school. I went to the Bible school.
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I didn't think that I would be able to do it without myself. I didn't think that I would do it without you.
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This actually started like a joke long as a pattern like a game bureau and I've been that day since I saw because of an Anna Love couple not gonna find like Bible school. Tessa been willing to say that like I'm not supposed to talk about it I wrote in auto so pull on shall say well, I'm not gonna say is it not adding my Bible school a in fact not gonna shine like
00:07:52
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Me iwas. Me iwas, he was like avoiding it. Marabhi ma pastor's hanyanum, a single palanha min. He encouraged hanyanum at bible school. Ayo nyata laga, mohit nyaba. Ayo muhnang. Mahabang historian. So, my family, I don't know how to say it, but history is a family name, but I'm a pastor. Ayo muhnang, then, I'm a pastor.
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As a family, I have a broken family. But before, I had a bad testimony. And I respect the workers. I don't know why they don't like me. But I think it's an experience because of Papa Po.
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Yours was like a different story.
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I work with different companies now. I work in Saudi Arabia for more than three years.
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I'm going to explore how to live financially and provide family. I'm going to tell you, I don't know how to do it, but I'm going to tell you something. Because, for me, even though you become a worker or not, it's important to have an accessor. But I'm going to tell you something about how to do it.
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He has my full support. God has been using us for the ministry here.
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to work abroad for three years before we decided to do this. I think it's very important to know that I've been working abroad for two years now. I think it's important to know that I've been working abroad for two years now. I've been working abroad for two years now. I think it's important to know that I've been working abroad for two years now.
00:10:41
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Well, I don't know if it's a decision or not, but I think it's important to be the head of the family, provide financially. I don't know if it's a long-distance relationship, but I think it's a long-term plan, a long-term set-up.
00:11:17
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We are very thankful to God. He led us to this decision. What's the biggest struggle we've overcome so far as a
Overcoming Struggles as a Couple
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couple?
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I think it's important for us to have a strong relationship with each other. But when we meet each other, it's important to have a conversation with each other. I think it's important for us to have a conversation with each other. Before, I think it's important for us to have
00:11:51
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I think it's important for us to have that information. I think it's important for us to have that information. I think it's important for us to have that information. I think it's important for us to have that information. I think it's important for us to have that information. I think it's important for us to have that information. I think it's important for us to have that information. I think it's important for us to have that information.
00:12:22
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I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on.
00:12:49
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I don't know how to say it, but I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it.
00:13:04
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I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not.
00:13:29
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I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are. I don't know what the criteria are.
00:13:54
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I remember when I was diagnosed, I had a feeling that I was part of depression. I remember there was one time that I had an anti-incoming. I didn't know that I was part of depression, but I was part of it. I didn't know that I was part of it. I didn't know that I was part of it, but I was part of it.
00:14:15
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No work is done as married couple. Let's talk about long distance relationship. It's
Challenges of Long-Distance Relationships
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really not easy. It's very challenging.
00:14:42
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You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words. You have to use your words.
00:15:01
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So, I really wanted to be with you before, because I didn't want to give up. I didn't want to give up. But I didn't want to be with you.
00:15:13
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So, it's hard to realize that I didn't realize that my parents didn't know before or that I didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that I didn't realize that my parents didn't know before or that I didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that I didn't realize that my parents didn't know before or that I didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that my parents didn't know abroad. I didn't realize that
00:15:34
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We're so blessed. We have a lot of people on the internet. We have a lot of people on the internet. We have a lot of love and relationship. We have a lot of people on the internet.
00:15:51
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It's a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad. We have a lot of work abroad.
00:16:19
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You can trust yourself. You really love your partner.
00:16:45
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But I don't know if it's true or not, but I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not, but I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not, but I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not, but I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if it's true or not, but I don't know if it's true or not.
00:17:30
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In the first month of the year, I was born in Europe. I was born in a family of two. I was born in a family of two. I was born in a family of two. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of two. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three. I was born in a family of three.
00:17:37
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
00:17:57
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I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you because I'm very thankful to you
00:18:15
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I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do.
00:18:45
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I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do.
00:19:10
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What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight?
Why Do Couples Fight? Money Issues
00:19:25
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Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one. What do you think is the number one reason why couples fight? Number one.
00:19:40
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Ah. True. Money. Money. For me, it's my number one long money. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have. I don't know how much money I have.
00:20:10
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I was expecting that he would post something about me.
00:20:40
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Him not posting makes me feel like I have a lot of love. But I don't want to express my love language. Eventually, I changed my expectation and then I didn't want to express my love language. Can you say that we are a happy couple? Happy. Happy. Happy. Happy.
00:21:10
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I'm so blessed because I don't want to be satisfied. I don't want to be content. I don't want to be happy. I don't want to be happy because I want to be happy.
00:21:33
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I am financially happy. I am happy that you are not an artist. I am happy that you are an American. I am happy that you are an American. I am happy that you are an American. I am happy that you are an American. I am happy that you are an American. I am happy that you are an American.
00:22:10
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I can say that we are a happy couple. I can say that we are a happy couple.
00:22:23
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I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why. I don't know why.
00:23:02
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I have a feeling that I will never be able to do anything. But I don't know how to apologize. Do you want to say something about Jerusalem, simply in Buhay? I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it in Buhay, simply in Buhay
00:23:08
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Yeah. That was before we got married.
00:23:27
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I have a successful relationship because of our own efforts, but also with the help of God. Last thing is, let's talk about ministry. Ministry and God as the center of our relationship.
00:23:43
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It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here. It's been a long time since I've been here.
00:24:25
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The price is $10,000. I don't know how to sell it. I don't know how to sell it. I don't know how to sell it. I don't know how to sell it. I don't know how to sell it. I don't know how to sell it. I don't know how to sell it.
00:24:34
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So this life must be gave back to the Lord.
00:24:45
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When I was in Europe, I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here. I used to live here.
00:25:16
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So, after the pandemic and the pandemic, there was an exception. There was an exception. There was an exception. There was an exception. There was an exception. There was an exception. There was an exception. There was an exception. There was an exception.
00:25:52
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In
Family First: The Primary Ministry
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support to what you said, Sabinga is only one life. It will soon be passed and only what's done for Christ will last.
00:26:02
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When the judgment day comes, we will all face God, Jesus. We will be judged based on the things that we've done here on earth. And we will be rewarded based on our motives. Your family is your first ministry.
00:26:28
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Oh, they must be doing something different. I still think that we should not neglect our family just to do the ministry, just to do God's word. That's why you spend time, you have devotion in you.
00:26:46
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teach your kids about God's Word and then growing up in grace. And then from there, once you've established your ministry with your family, then you can go out and reach out to other people.
00:27:04
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It's very important. God is doing something good in these people's lives, which is very good. We were done with the
00:27:33
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long distance relationship part and then we can eventually just focus on the ministry and our family and then God is really great. So if there's number one advice that you can tell other married couples
00:27:49
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What would it be?
00:28:09
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Triangle. I'm a child. I'm not a child. Once, I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. Once, I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child. I'm a child.
00:28:39
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It's a constant communication. I don't know how to say it in the same language. I don't know how to say it in the same language. I don't know how to say it in the same language. I don't know how to say it in the same language. I don't know how to say it in the same language. I don't know how to say it in the same language. I don't know how to say it in the same language. I don't know how to say it.
00:29:05
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I think it's a good idea to have a chat with someone else. I think it's a good idea to have a chat with someone else. I think it's a good idea to have a chat with someone else. I think it's a good idea to have a chat with someone else. I think it's a good idea to have a chat with someone else.
00:29:29
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No, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
00:29:38
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I don't know if you've seen this before, but I've seen it before. But... I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before. I've seen it before.
00:29:59
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What do you think about your actions? What do you think about your actions? I don't know. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it. I don't know how to say it.
00:30:28
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I have a problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with my problem with
00:31:07
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Yes. What you have in mind?
00:31:19
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Actually, in defense of this, ladies, it's important that you base it on your partners.
00:32:00
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It's important that we know that too.
00:32:08
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Anything can be discussed. It's very important that you don't keep secrets on each other. And if there's one person that you would consider your best friend, it should be your partner, it should be your husband or your wife.
God-Centered Relationships for Happiness
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Aion, do not forget that God is the center of your relationship. It is God's design for couples to have a healthy relationship, a happy married life, even sex life. Do not underestimate the importance of having a good sex life because it makes relationship even more intimate. So Aion, thank you for your time today.
00:33:01
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00:33:28
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Today's Bible reading is found in 1 Corinthians 13, verses 4, 6, 7, and 13. Love suffers long and is kind. Love does not envy, does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth. Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. And now abide faith, hope, love. These three, but the greatest of these is love.