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E. 23 Stop Selling Yourself Short – This Is Your Comeback Year

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In this solo episode, Danielle gets real about the messy middle of chasing dreams — the doubts, the comparison traps, the days you want to quit. If you’ve ever taken two steps forward only to take a hundred back, you are not alone. Danielle shares her own honest journey with health, entrepreneurship, and battling imposter syndrome in real-time — and why this year has to be your comeback year.
It's time to stop selling yourself short.
No more talking yourself out of your dreams before you even give them a real chance.
No more shrinking.
Your story matters. You are not behind.
You are RIGHT ON TIME.
Grab your coffee (or your favorite rollercoaster safety bar — because LIFE) and let’s have a real talk about honoring your dreams, your health, and your journey.

Mentioned in this episode:

  • Real-time story of joining Life Vantage and working through doubt
  • How health and wealth are a lifelong journey, not a one-size-fits-all race
  • Why it’s not just about weight loss — it’s about aging well, living fully, and thriving for your future self
  • Learning to negotiate the good, bad, and ugly seasons of growth

If this episode encouraged you, I'd love for you to share it with a friend who needs the reminder: your comeback story is still unfolding.

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Introduction to 'Oh There You Are' Podcast

00:00:00
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Hey friend, I'm so glad you're here. Welcome to oh There You Are. This is the podcast for anyone who's ready to step out of the shadows of self-doubt and into the life they've always dreamed of.
00:00:13
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I'm your host, Danielle, a wife, mom, and registered nurse who spent way too long believing my voice didn't matter. But guess what? It does, and does yours.
00:00:25
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If you've been holding back, waiting for the perfect moment, or telling yourself you're not enough, this is your reminder. You are more than enough. You've always been enough.

Podcast Format and Listener Engagement

00:00:36
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Everything you need is already inside you. In this space, we're going to push past fear, stop hitting snooze on life, and start going after what we really want. Each week, I'll bring you solo episodes and interviews with people who had the courage to go first so that you can go next.
00:00:55
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So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let's go. And hey, don't forget to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode because we're just getting started. And remember, you're not late.
00:01:08
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You're right on time. And I can't wait to see where this journey takes us.

Understanding and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

00:01:15
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Hey, friend. Welcome back to all There You Are. today's episode. Oh man, it's just you and me. So go get yourself comfy because I have some real talking to do because, you know, I do say it a lot because this has been heavy on my heart, but no, I'm here to present real life things that I'm going through that I feel that we can relate to one another.
00:01:39
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And hopefully I can be a little boost that you need to help get you out of any rut that you might be in. And then you can be like, oh my goodness, I totally got this. So want to talk to you about imposter syndrome.
00:01:53
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I know we've talked and been down this road before, but it is something that likes to creep its ugly head back in, right? You know, that lovely little voice that says, why de you even bother, right?
00:02:07
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Who do you think you are? Just sit back down. It's safer that way. And honestly, I'm over it. It's time we rise up and crush that stupid imposter syndrome once and for all.
00:02:21
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Because let's be real. Why do we even keep doing things that we're doing? You know, that we take the two steps forward and then we take a hundred steps back. We keep allowing ourselves to repeat this stupid cycle.
00:02:34
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Like, what are we even doing? I know for me, it is so exhausting. I don't know about you. I am tired of making myself small. I am tired of second guessing every move like I'm on this some weird game show.
00:02:49
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It isn't Jeopardy. It's my life. Okay, Jeopardy was terrible for me to choose because I'll let you know a little secret. um I don't watch a whole lot of TV anymore, but every evening I sure do love to sit down and watch some Wheel of Fortune and some Jeopardy.
00:03:05
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No judgment. I know you're watching it too.
00:03:10
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And listen, I'm out here working on My health, right? It's an non ongoing rollercoaster ride. You know the kind where you're so excited and then you low-key wondering why you ever got on it in the first place.
00:03:23
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Yeah, that one.

Recognizing Self-Value and Opportunities

00:03:25
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And here's the thing. Even on days when this rollercoaster feels like it's about to toss me out into outer space, I know deep down this is my comeback year.
00:03:35
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Not next year, not someday, this year, right now. And the truth is, it's time to stop letting mental roadblocks put the brakes on everything.
00:03:47
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We all have such unique stories, perspectives, and gifts. The whole package. When an opportunity comes your way, you've you you know you get the choice. You either can pursue it, pivot, or pass.
00:04:03
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And what you don't get to do is just stand at the doorway and say, oh, not me. I'm not good enough. No, because you're already standing at the door because you are good enough.
00:04:17
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And yes, I'm totally talking to myself here too.

Network Marketing Experience and Self-Doubt

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Let me just put myself out here on blast for a second, okay? I recently joined a network marketing company. Didn't go looking for it.
00:04:29
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It basically found me. And word on the street is that's pretty much how everybody with inside this group shares. It'll come find you. And for the first eight weeks or so, I was all in. I was fired up.
00:04:41
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I was dreaming really big. I was feeling aligned. And then out of nowhere, boom, I pulled myself back, started spiraling, repeating. Why the hell am I even out here?
00:04:54
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Who do I think I am? What if I'm just embarrassing myself? Oh, hello again. Imposter syndrome. Didn't miss you. And the worst part?
00:05:06
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Comparison. Started looking around at what everyone else was doing, how fast they were growing, how perfect they look, and let me break it to you. You know, it broke me.

The Dangers of Comparison

00:05:17
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I allowed it to get to me that bad that I just put the brakes on and said, nope, not for me. The real talk here is comparison is the thief of everything. death It just doesn't steal our joy.
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steals our momentum, your creativity, your your courage, it convinces you to quit things that you never even gave yourself a real chance to succeed at.
00:05:43
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The thing is, this wealth and wellness journey I'm on, it's not a one-size-fits-all deal. And honestly, I'm not just about weight loss. I'm about health, longevity, living well.
00:05:56
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I'm about being here for my future self, my family, my future grandbabies. Oh, don't I'm only going to be 45 to say that word, but it's real.
00:06:07
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Years keep moving, don't they? It's about activating health and wealth, not just chasing a number on a damn scale.

Personal Growth Journey with LifeVantage

00:06:15
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I found something that's helping me do that.
00:06:18
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And through LifeVantage, you know, I'm out here, we're activating health. And no, this isn't a sale pitch. I promise. I'm just out here sharing something real that I know that we all can benefit from. It's just me sharing my real time, messy, beautiful in life progress.
00:06:34
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Because life isn't about pretending everything's perfect. It's about having enough self-respect to sit with the good, the bad, and the ugly and not run from it.
00:06:46
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To learn to look yourself in the mirror and say, I'm not where I want to be yet. But dang it, I'm still showing up. And that's what matters.

Embracing Your Unique Journey

00:06:58
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So today, if you're listening and you've been doubting yourself, if you have been pulling back, if you've been playing small, I want you to remember this.
00:07:12
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You're not crazy for wanting more. You're not selfish for investing in yourself. You're not behind. You're right on time. And this is your comeback year too.
00:07:26
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Let's stop selling ourselves short. Let's actually give ourselves the time, space, and attention we deserve to see if what we're chasing was really meant for us.
00:07:37
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No more quitting in the beginning. No more comparing day one to someone else's year 10. No more saying you're not good enough even before you try.
00:07:49
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You are good enough. You have what it takes. And friend, your story is still being written. and it's going to be amazing. All right.
00:08:01
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That's what I got for you today. So I want you to keep going, keep believing, and I'll talk with you next week.
00:08:10
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Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on Oh, There You Are. Remember, everything you need to step into your power is already inside of you. So keep going, friend. You've got this.
00:08:22
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If today's episode inspired you, don't forget to subscribe so you never miss a new one. And I'd love to connect with you over on Instagram. Find me at itsdanielle.thats.me.
00:08:33
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Drop say hi let me know what resonated with you or just share your journey. And before you go, I've got something special for you. I'm offering a free seven day journal to help you start tapping into your potential and build that mindset shift.
00:08:49
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It's designed to guide you through the steps of unlocking your power. You can grab it in the show notes below. Let's take this journey together. All right, friend, go make it happen.
00:09:00
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And remember, you're not late. You're right on time.