“Behavior is communication.” That one truth can change the way we see children, parents, and even ourselves.

In this deeply insightful episode of Vulnerability Muscle, Reggie D. Ford sits down with ADHD coach, parent advocate, and fellow UPenn MAPP student Joni Corn for a conversation that challenges the way we talk about attention, emotion, behavior, and what kids actually need from the adults around them.

Joni shares how her journey through law, nonprofit work, homeschooling, and parenting led her to support families navigating ADHD with more compassion, more curiosity, and far less shame. Together, she and Reggie unpack why so many children are mislabeled as difficult when they are actually dysregulated, overwhelmed, or trying their best in environments that do not fit how their brains work.

This episode explores the emotional cost of misunderstanding ADHD, the power of co-regulation, why diagnosis can be life-changing, and how strength-based parenting can help children feel seen instead of “fixed.” It is a powerful reminder that psychological safety is not a luxury. It is the foundation for growth, learning, and connection.

You will hear about:

 * Why vulnerability is the starting point for genuine connection
 * How ADHD often gets mistaken for laziness, defiance, or lack of effort
 * What behavior is really communicating in children
 * Why nervous system safety matters before learning can happen
 * How parents can support emotional regulation with compassion instead of control
 * The hidden gifts, creativity, and brilliance so often missed in people with ADHD

Key Quotes / Takeaways

 * “Vulnerability is where all genuine connection comes from.”
 * “Behavior is communication.”
 * “Your kids are people. They’re just smaller.”

Call to Action
If you are a parent, caregiver, educator, or someone who has ever felt misunderstood because of how your brain works, this conversation will leave you with more compassion and a whole new lens. Listen to this episode of Vulnerability Muscle and join us in creating spaces where people feel seen, safe, and supported.

Contact Info
Guest: Joni Corn
Email: corn_joni@yahoo.com
Joni offers a free consultation and can also share trusted ADHD resources for parents and adults who want to learn more.

Host: Reggie D. Ford
Website: https://reggiedford.com [https://reggiedford.com/]
Socials: @reggiedford on all platforms

075: When “Bad Behavior” Is Really a Cry for Safety

“Life is too short to be miserable.”

In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Reggie sits down with nurse coach and wellness leader Joni O’Neill to unpack what actually creates change, not just in theory, but in real life.

Drawing from 25+ years in healthcare and her work in coaching, Joni breaks down why most people struggle to feel better, even when they “know what to do.” The missing piece? Understanding the relationship between your body, your thoughts, and your emotional patterns.

Through stories of motherhood, grief, generational healing, and a career rooted in service, this episode explores how vulnerability shows up for those who are used to being the strong ones, and what it takes to finally turn that care inward.

You’ll also hear:

 * Why calming your body is the gateway to changing your mind
 * The hidden cost of always being “the helper”
 * How childhood moments shape our emotional blueprint
 * A simple but powerful “car, driver, and map” framework to understand your inner world
 * What it really feels like to flourish

This is not surface-level self-help. This is the kind of conversation that helps you understand yourself differently.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own mind, overwhelmed by life, or unsure how to actually create change, this episode will meet you right where you are.

Listen now and start learning how to work with your mind and body instead of against them.

Key Quotes & Takeaways

 * “Your thoughts are not you… and realizing that changes everything.”
 * “When your body is in survival mode, growth work becomes impossible.”
 * “Life is too short to be miserable, and we don’t have to wait until it breaks us to change.”

Contact Info

Guest: Joni O’Neill
Website: https://coachjonio.com [https://coachjonio.com/](Free consultation available)

Host: Reggie D. Ford
Website: https://reggiedford.com [https://reggiedford.com/]
Socials: @reggiedford (Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube)

074: You’re Not Your Thoughts… So Who’s Driving Your Life? 

“What if breaking bread could break walls?” 

In this deeply inspiring episode of Vulnerability Muscle, Reggie D. Ford sits down with Jared Morse—former Vanderbilt football player, devoted father, seminary student, and author of the groundbreaking Taste and See cookbook devotional. Jared’s story is a masterclass in using everyday practices—like cooking, fasting, and conversation—to deepen spiritual connection, foster vulnerability, and build authentic community.

From childhood memories at the community pool to backflips off the high dive, to powerful moments of transformation through prayer and service, Jared shares how his passion for Jesus and love for food merged into a ministry of meals. He opens up about the spiritual discipline of fasting, the radical hospitality of Jesus, and why he believes food can be the most accessible form of evangelism. And just wait until you hear about his banana bread—allegedly the best in the world.

This episode isn't just about recipes—it’s about rethinking how we nourish our bodies, relationships, and souls.

Listen in and be inspired to invite someone to your table, cook with intention, and taste what faith can truly be. Whether you're a foodie, a believer, or simply someone seeking deeper connection, this conversation will feed you in ways you didn’t expect.

Contact Info:

 * Guest: Jared Morse
   * Taste and See Cookbook Devotional available on Amazon, Target, Barnes & Noble, Walmart, and Etsy - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBBQP7R8?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cso_cp_apin_dp_AX7FZ9WV7BSSFXCPJCBN&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cso_cp_apin_dp_AX7FZ9WV7BSSFXCPJCBN&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cso_cp_apin_dp_AX7FZ9WV7BSSFXCPJCBN&bestFormat=true&titleSource=true
   * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jmorse97/
   * LinkedIn: Jared Morse - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jared-morse-cpsp-5b3a9576/

Host: Reggie D. Ford

 * Website: https://reggiedford.com [https://reggiedford.com/]
 * Socials: @reggiedford on all platforms

Key Quotes/Takeaways from Jared Morse:

 * “Breaking bread reminds me that the people you’re with are more important than what you’re doing.”
 * “When you fast, you’re telling your body: ‘I’m in control, not my flesh.’ That’s spiritual discipline.”
 * “The cookbook was written to invite people closer to Jesus—sometimes through banana bread, sometimes through Scripture.”

073 - Taste, See, Believe: The Devotional That Starts in Your Kitchen

In this powerful and deeply human episode of Vulnerability Muscle, Reggie D. Ford sits down with dynamic youth speaker and student success advocate Stevon Lester to unpack the emotional layers of identity, inner child healing, and redefining self-worth. At just 25, Stevon shares hard-won wisdom shaped by instability, poverty, and early entrepreneurship in his family—revealing how childhood scarcity influenced his relationship with food, success, and self-esteem.

Together, Reggie and Stevon explore:

 * What it means to reconnect with your younger self
 * How vulnerability became a catalyst for healing through therapy
 * The mental and emotional journey behind Stevon’s 60+ pound weight loss
 * The real cost of chasing validation after heartbreak
 * How “me vs. me” became a mantra for personal transformation
 * The dream of building a transitional center for returning citizens and the unhoused

Stevon’s authenticity shines as he shares the silent battles many high achievers face: imposter syndrome, internalized scarcity, and the invisible weight of proving one’s worth. Whether you’re a student, speaker, or someone seeking clarity on your purpose, this conversation is a reminder that vulnerability is the bridge between pain and peace.

Guest Contact Info:

Website: www.IamStevonLester.com [http://www.iamstevonlester.com/]
Email: iamstevonlester@gmail.com
Social Media: @IamStevonLester (all platforms)

072 - Me vs. Me: Rewriting the Script of Worthiness with Stevon Lester

"They told me I was too joyful. Too happy. But they didn't know the storms I’ve survived."

In this heart-expanding episode of Vulnerability Muscle, Reggie D. Ford sits down with Colombian-Italian happiness coach and resilience expert Stephanie Mancini-Sims, whose presence radiates the kind of joy that can only be born from adversity. From growing up without a father but surrounded by fierce love, to uprooting her life for a second chance at love in the U.S., Stephanie reveals how she transformed pain into purpose—and why joy isn’t about ignoring hardship but about choosing light in spite of it.

Stephanie shares her Happiness Without Complications methodology, five daily practices that cultivate sustainable happiness, and how she uses her faith and emotional intelligence to help individuals and organizations build thriving cultures. Through deeply moving personal stories and practical wisdom, this episode reminds us that vulnerability isn't weakness—it's the soil where resilience grows.

If you’ve ever been told your joy is "too much" or felt like happiness was out of reach, this episode will remind you that joy is your birthright—and it can coexist with sadness, struggle, and uncertainty. Listen now to reconnect with the power of purpose, faith, and the human spirit.

Contact Info:
Host: Reggie D. Ford
Website: https://reggiedford.com
[https://reggiedford.com/] Socials: @reggiedford on all platforms

Guest: Stephanie Mancini-Sims
Instagram: @stephaniemancinisims
[https://instagram.com/stephaniemancinisims] Website: https://www.stephaniemancinisims.com

071 - “Too Happy to Be Real?” The Truth Behind Unshakable Joy

What if embracing vulnerability could transform feelings of invisibility into a powerful force for change? In this inspiring episode of Vulnerability Muscle, host Reggie D. Ford sits down with the vibrant and resilient Sharon Rolph—behavior scientist, author, and self-proclaimed "Queen of Courage." At 77 years young, Sharon shares how her journey from feeling invisible to discovering her inner spark ignited a passion for empowering baby boomers to repurpose their lives and embrace meaningful retirement.

Sharon opens up bravely about her personal traumas and the secrets that silenced her voice for years. Through vulnerability and profound self-reflection, she unlocked the magic of connection, authenticity, and self-love. Now, Sharon is on a bold mission to impact 10% of the baby boomer generation, inspiring them to unleash their hidden talents and wisdom to heal communities and transform the world.

Listen in as Sharon reveals her insights on:

 * The transformative power of vulnerability as a catalyst for innovation and harmony
 * Moving from fear-based living toward a life of courage and faith
 * Finding your spark through authentic self-expression and intentional curiosity
 * How corporations and communities can flourish by cultivating belonging and empathy
 * Her remarkable journey from invisibility to becoming the “Queen of Courage,” inspiring others at any age to reclaim their voice and purpose

If you've ever felt unheard, unseen, or unsure of your purpose, this conversation with Sharon Rolph is the encouragement you need. Tune in and discover how vulnerability and courage can transform your story, ignite your spark, and empower you to create lasting, meaningful impact in your life and in the world.

Contact Info: 

sharon@effortlessvitality.org

https://www.sharonrolph.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon-rolph/

https://www.instagram.com/sharon_queenofcourage/
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For a quick coffee chat, book a 20 minute session to tell me your story HERE [https://calendly.com/effortlessvitality/30min].

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070 - Finding Your Spark: How Courage Transforms Invisibility into Impact with Sharon Rolph

"Not all battles are fought boots on the ground."

In this deeply moving episode of Vulnerability Muscle, Reggie D. Ford sits down with author and podcast host Kim Lengling, a military veteran and survivor of trauma, who shares how she transformed her pain into purpose. Kim opens up about living with PTSD after a sexual assault in the military, and how a divine whisper on her living room floor set her on a healing journey that led her to spread “nuggets of hope” to strangers around the world.

With heartfelt stories of handing out hope—literally—in pockets of jeans and jars on shelves, Kim shows us the extraordinary power of empathy, kindness, and belief in something greater. The conversation explores Internal Family Systems (IFS), the role of faith in healing, and how childhood wonder, dandelion wishes, and a part named “Bart” all helped her rebuild from the inside out.

This episode is a masterclass in grace, resilience, and reclaiming humanity one act of kindness at a time.

Call to Action:
If you've ever felt alone in your pain or unsure of how to heal, this episode will wrap around you like a warm blanket. Listen now to reconnect with your strength, your softness, and your spark of hope.

Contact Info:
Guest – Kim Lengling
Website: https://www.kimlenglingauthor.com
Podcast: Let Fear Bounce
Books available on Amazon, including Nuggets of Hope and 15 Ways Pets Teach Us Kindness

Host – Reggie D. Ford
Website: https://reggiedford.com
[https://reggiedford.com/] Socials: @reggiedford [https://www.instagram.com/reggiedford] on all platforms
Podcast: Vulnerability Muscle

069 - The Field of Wishes: Finding Hope in the Unlikeliest Places

"I finally told someone that I was sure my father would strangle me with his bare hands—and for the first time, no one gaslit me."

In this deeply raw and revelatory episode, Reggie D. Ford sits down with Jill Sitnik, founder of The Journey Sage, for an unflinching look at childhood trauma, PTSD, and how MDMA-assisted therapy saved her life. Jill shares the hidden costs of appearing “fine” on the outside while living in a state of inner panic and survival. She walks us through her experience of surviving parental abuse, losing her partner and emotional regulator, and reaching a point where traditional therapy and antidepressants were no longer enough.

Together, they explore the science and soul of psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy—what it is, what it isn't, and why it's not a shortcut but a sacred path that requires deep emotional work. Jill breaks down what MDMA therapy actually feels like, how it helped her reprocess traumatic memories, and why she’s now dedicated to educating others so they don’t have to suffer in silence.

Whether you're curious about alternative treatments, have survived trauma, or simply want a more honest conversation about healing, this episode will leave you moved, informed, and empowered.

 Topics covered:

 * Complex trauma and survival adaptations mistaken for personality
 * Widow’s fog, grief, and the body’s memory of fear
 * How MDMA-assisted therapy helped Jill shift lifelong narratives
 * The importance of integration after psychedelic experiences
 * Risks, myths, and ethical considerations in psychedelic treatment
 * Why healing isn’t easy—but it’s absolutely worth it

Call to Action:

If you've ever wondered whether your “personality” might actually be a trauma response—or if you’re searching for real, evidence-based hope—this episode will change the way you see healing.

Listen now and join us as we flex our Vulnerability Muscle in one of the most powerful episodes yet.

Guest Contact:

Website: https://thejourneysage.com
[https://thejourneysage.com/]YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@TheJourneySage

Instagram: @thejourneysage [https://www.instagram.com/thejourneysage]

Books:

 * Rescuing Jill (Memoir)
 * The Journey Workbook – For those preparing for psychedelic therapy

Host Contact:

Reggie D. Ford
Website: https://reggiedford.com
[https://reggiedford.com/] Socials: @reggiedford [https://www.instagram.com/reggiedford] on all platforms

The Therapy That Saved My Life: Uncovering the Truth About Trauma and MDMA

What happens when two men dare to speak openly about one of society’s most taboo topics—sexual abuse? In this raw and deeply moving episode of Vulnerability Muscle, host Reggie D. Ford sits down with Robert Uttaro, a veteran rape crisis counselor and author of To the Survivors, for a powerful dialogue that challenges cultural narratives, dismantles shame, and offers real pathways to healing.

Robert shares how a college class on women in the prison system—and a divine calling—launched his life’s mission to support survivors of sexual violence. He explains why survivors often struggle to come forward, how shame and invalidation compound trauma, and the importance of consent, ethics, and agency in storytelling. Reggie opens up about his own experience with childhood sexual trauma, highlighting the damaging myths around masculinity and the healing power of vulnerability.

From the emotional impact of first disclosures to the life-saving importance of simply being believed, this conversation is a sacred, soulful exchange filled with compassion, faith, and truth. Whether you're a survivor, supporter, or simply seeking to understand, this episode is a beacon of light in a world that too often looks away.

This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a lifeline. Press play and join two men who are reshaping the conversation around trauma, vulnerability, and what it means to truly heal. 🎧 Listen now and share with someone who needs to hear it.

Contact Info:
Website: www.robertuttaro.com
[http://www.robertuttaro.com/] Email: info@robertuttaro.com
Book: To the Survivors (available on Amazon and free on his website)

🔹 Host: Reggie D. Ford
Website: www.reggiedford.com
[http://www.reggiedford.com/] Instagram: @reggiedford
[https://www.instagram.com/reggiedford] LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/reggiedford [https://www.linkedin.com/in/reggiedford]

067 - Breaking the Silence: A Rape Crisis Counselor on Healing, Shame, and Hope

Ever felt like your past disqualified you from a vibrant future? In this powerful episode, Donna Tashjian proves otherwise.

What happens when trauma, teen pregnancy, and shame intersect with divine purpose, healing, and bold faith? In this soul-stirring conversation, Vulnerability Muscle host Reggie D. Ford sits down with life mastery coach and founder of Vibrant Living International, Donna Tashjian, to unpack her story of overcoming childhood dysfunction, sexual abuse, and emotional suppression to build a life rooted in peace, purpose, and power.

Donna shares how a deep relationship with God, not just religious tradition, helped her transform pain into purpose. She opens up about the birth of her daughter at 15, the healing power of visualization, the Spiritual Intelligence Method™, and how she helps clients shift from burnout to bold, aligned living. You’ll hear why not all feelings are facts, how brave-hearted decision-making can change your life, and how to reframe fear into excitement.

This episode is a masterclass in reclaiming your worth, rewriting your inner narrative, and activating your God-given gifts with grace and ease. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt, shame, or feeling unseen, this conversation will speak directly to your soul.

Tune in now to hear how Donna turned trauma into triumph—and how you can too. Your healing begins with the voice you choose to believe.

Connect with Donna Tashjian:
Website: www.ivibrantliving.com
[https://www.ivibrantliving.com/]LinkedIn: Donna Tashjian
[https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnatashjian/]Facebook: Personal [https://www.facebook.com/drtashjian/] | Vibrant Living
[https://www.facebook.com/VibrantLivingInt]Instagram: @drtashjian
[https://www.instagram.com/drtashjian/]YouTube: Donna’s Channel [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXMFNossw9VN2QwDtVitzKg]

066 - What Voice Are You Listening To? Healing Emotional Wounds Through the Spiritual Intelligence Method

Welcome to "Vulnerability Muscle with Reggie D. Ford," the empowering podcast that challenges societal norms and invites you to explore the transformative power of vulnerability. Hosted by bestselling author and motivational speaker Reggie D. Ford, this show is your guide to finding strength, connection, and personal growth through embracing vulnerability.

In a world that often portrays vulnerability as a sign of weakness, Reggie D. Ford believes it is a source of tremendous strength and authenticity. Through insightful conversations and thought-provoking interviews, "Vulnerability Muscle" aims to redefine vulnerability and help listeners develop a new perspective on their own lives.

Reggie D. Ford, renowned for his bestselling book "Perseverance Through Severe Dysfunction" and his captivating motivational speeches, brings his unique expertise and personal experiences to the forefront. With a deep understanding of the impacts of trauma, the importance of mental health, and the power of vulnerability, Reggie inspires and empowers his audience to embrace their own vulnerabilities as catalysts for growth and change.

Each episode of "Vulnerability Muscle" delves into a variety of topics, such as mental health, social issues, and mindset shifts. Reggie and his guests explore the power of vulnerability in healing, building resilience, and fostering meaningful connections. They provide practical tools and strategies to navigate life's challenges, overcome adversity, and create more inclusive and just environments for all people.

Whether you're seeking personal growth, struggling with your mental health, or looking to create a positive impact in the world, this podcast offers a safe space for deep exploration and transformation. Reggie's compassionate and engaging style invites you to step out of your comfort zone and embrace vulnerability as a path to personal empowerment.

Join Reggie D. Ford and his inspiring guests on "Vulnerability Muscle" as they illuminate the path toward self-discovery, authenticity, and true strength. Prepare to be inspired, uplifted, and equipped with the tools to unlock your full potential through the power of vulnerability.

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