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Speaker: Everyone dreams of living an uncommon life. And the best asset you have to achieve your dreams is you. Welcome to the Uncommon Wealth Podcast. We're going to introduce you to people who are living uncommonly. We're also going to give you some tools and strategies for building wealth and for pursuing an uncommon path that is uniquely right for you.
Speaker: Hello, welcome to the Uncominwealth podcast. I'm your host, Philip Ramsey. And I'm Aaron Kramer. Coming at you with a simple step. Today we are talking about being or stop falling victim and start being the victor.
Speaker: kind of interesting, all right? So I think if you're any kind of listener or maybe you're just tuning in, one of our biggest things is like taking responsibility. I feel like Aaron and I both have the tendency to rather do that than falling victim. I also feel like I have this tendency to be around more people who take ownership and I would say then tend to be the victor, but just take ownership, even if it's not going well. And I feel like when you do that,
Speaker: then you can take control and you can start taking responsibility to move the needle in a different direction. When you turn in to be a victim, you don't, you're just a victim. Like, you oh, there's nothing that you can do. It's all done to me. There's nothing that you can handle. like It just seems like a very limited mindset and then you can never get out of your own way. But when you're a victor, when you actually take ownership, you could be like, okay, what else can I can change? Okay, that went bad. I can see where my responsibility was in that and how can I change in the future? There seems like a lot more ownership and a lot more trajectory that you can change. That's how I have a tendency, but to be a victim instead of a victor seems to me like you take all your
Speaker: strengths away. And then you're just sitting there and just getting pummeled versus like, no, I'm going to take the, I'm going to take the reins here, take ownership. Maybe I failed, but at least we're going to change the trajectory. So be a victor, not a victim. That's my simple step in that simple step. I'll be the numbers guy here versus statistics or whatever. Statistically, the chances of a situation where you can just play victim and it actually making sense.
Speaker: the world, there's just no possible way that you couldn't have changed the outcome due to your betterment of yourself. yeah What's the probability? It's slim to I mean, I don't have the actual number. I'm just saying statistically, like you got to think about it. It's very low. like and right We all can go back and be like, Oh, if I changed these things, right the outcome would have been different. That's something you could have done better and decisions you could have made better. So that's where you can own it and not play victim. Like, okay, learn from it. And the next time it won't happen. And here's something, this example, cause I was thinking like, what could be something that like, that wasn't on my thing. Like it's having a deer hit you. Okay. Like at first you'd be like, I didn't have anything to do with that. But the the reality is like, no, we were late. We were late and our, I was late. Does that make sense? If I left on time, that deer would never have been there. yeah I need to be more on time. like So like there are things that you get almost like the butterfly effect. Have you ever heard of that? Like the wing flaps in China and then it's okay.
Speaker: But it is true, like you can, or i I tend to make it a practice of always trying to see my my my faults and my ownership in something. There you go. And I think the other thing that I really think about is how mad are you at the situation? Because if you're not like, if it truly, there's like, you couldn't have done anything, right? Like, but you know, it want to I don't want to go like bad scenarios, but like if you got rear ended, sitting at the light, you know,
Speaker: You could have done anything. Like you were at a red light and you got rear ended. Like you're not really that upset because there's just nothing you could have done. You know, it's like, this is a really bad situation, right? But typically you got to think about if you're super mad about a situation, it's only really made you upset. Wow. There's probably because there's something that you could have done better to made that situation not happen. And you're mad at yourself, but you're trying to reflect it onto somebody else.
Speaker: It's good. OK, so I want my uncommon. All the uncommon people are uncommoners to be a victor, not a victim. That's your simple step. Make it quick until next time. Thanks for listening. You listen to Uncomable Podcast. I'm been your host, Philip Ramsey. And I'm Aaron Kramer. Thanks for listening.
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