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Speaker: Hello, my babes. Welcome back to the It's Happening For Me podcast. o I am so excited for today's solo podcast. I'm actually going to be doing a very juicy um cosmic weather forecast type of situation for the current um cosmic energy that we're all feeling collectively right now. And so this is really special. This is something that I do weekly inside my healing bubble membership, but I wanted to bring this out into the collective to the podcast because i just feel like there's so much juiciness that we can all really tap into right now.
Speaker: So currently we are in Virgo season. okay To all my Virgos, I'm a Virgo rising. So I love this energy. I love this season. And right now we are actually transiting Gene Key 40. Okay.
Speaker: And from the date specifically of August 29th to September 3rd, our sun, okay, so like the biggest planet in our solar system is currently transiting this gene key. And so this is why collectively a lot of us are going to feel this. And this is called the will to surrender. Okay. The shadow is exhaustion. The gift is resolve. And the city, the highest frequency is divine will.
Speaker: And so I really want to speak to this for all of us who are entrepreneurs, all of us that are leaders, um whether you have your own business or you work in a corporate job, you work in a service industry job, wherever you are like a leader in your life, this is also going to influence your relationships. And so, yeah, there's just like so much here for us. And I feel like this is such a beautiful check-in just to see what where we're at and are we truly aligned with our aspirations and with our businesses and the things that we're creating in our life's work. Okay.
Speaker: So also side note, if you were born, okay. If you're a Virgo that was born on August 29th through September third um then this very well could be your life's work. The reason why i say very well is because if you're sometimes like the 29th, like the first and last day of these are sometimes like on a cusp. So you'll have to look at your actual chart. But if you do have this in your life's of work, then as I'm speaking about this, this is really 70% of your personality. This is what you're here to do in this lifetime. This is the work that you're here to do. And this is also your brand. So if you are an entrepreneur, if you are um, a creative, an artist, someone who has a personal brand, this is actually like the core message of your brand and kind of like the through line in all of the work that you're really meant to give to the collective.
Speaker: Um, so that's also something cool to think about. Like, are you actually aligned to this or not? Do you resonate more with the shadow right now? Do you feel like you're really embodying the gift or the city frequency? And so that's just a fun kind of like extra layer to look at. And if you have this anywhere else in your chart, then this is also a huge part of your self, of your genius. And so look in to see like what planetary placement is this in if you do have this in your chart. And if you don't know and you want to know, you can always book a Gene Keys reading with me through the link in my bio, which would be really fun. So anyways, let's get into this. So Gene Keys 40, again, is called the will to surrender. And what this energy is actually really calling us to look at in our life is like, where are we absolutely unable?
Speaker: Okay. Truly, where are we unable to relax and let go? right? So many of us have these aspirations, these dreams, like the things that we are creating, these offers that we're facilitating, these big vision things that we are constantly, you know, just on this wheel of bringing into our reality. But the problem is we get stuck at the shadow of exhaustion when we're not learning how to also relax and how to also enjoy our life. And so this is what it's called kind of calling us to do and like really take inventory of. So the shadow of exhaustion is called the energetics of force and will. And this is so interesting because um biologically, this is connected or physiologically, I should say, this is connected to the stomach. And so, um, for all my Virgo babes out there that have this in your chart or just whatever, we can all resonate to this. If you have stomach issues, um, this shadow is a big, um, a big energetic reason why, like this could be a root cause for you. So if you have any sort of like acid reflux, stomach issues, ulcers, um, this is something to look into.
Speaker: If you also have clients or like babes in your life, this is also something to look into. So the shadow of exhaustion happens when we are using our chi, right? Which is like our our life force energy in a way of forcefulness.
Speaker: Okay. This is located in the will, um, This is located in the, sorry, the ego or like heart center in human design. So this is all about willpower and only a very small percentage, you guys, of the population actually have, has this defined where they have consistent access to this like willpower type of energy. I want to say it's like 30% have, has it defined 60% has it undefined or totally open. Um, don't quote me on that. That's just off of like my, my memory. But it's a very small percentage of us, okay, that actually have access to she sheer willpower. And what happens is in Western culture and Western society specifically, we are taught that like if you want to create something, if you want to make a lot of money, if you want to be known, if you want your dreams to come into fruition, all you have to do is just go out and make it happen, right?
Speaker: It's completely up to you. Go out and make it happen. And if it's not happening, then you're lazy or it's a lack of your willpower. You're lacking willpower, right? And so a lot of us are made to feel like we're wrong because maybe we don't, we can't access this willpower or we're trying so hard and we're forcing things so fucking hard that we're like, why am I doing all of these things?
Speaker: But I'm not seeing the results that I want. Or maybe you are seeing the results that you want, but you're not completely fulfilled in your life, right? And that's what this this shadow is, is this energy of taking this like inner life force and completely going against the universal flow. Okay, so two things can happen. One, you're out of alignment with what your true desires are. with what your true version of your success looks like, right? You're out of alignment with the way that you're meant to operate, with the way that your energy works, right? With the way that your genius is is so specifically ingrained in you. You're fighting against that because a you haven't unlocked what it is or B, we're just so conditioned, right? To do it in a way that we feel like we have to do it. So what can happen is
Speaker: um And this can also happen too, even if you're not an entrepreneur, but maybe like you're you're like in a job that you really don't like, right? And it's like, you're you're not on board with the mission. You're not on board with the actual day-to-day tasks. It feels so draining. And at the end of the day, you're completely fucking exhausted. Because this light, this does not like light you up. Like your spirit is not being used in the way that it's meant to be used, right? Like we all have a divine gifts and divine geniuses in a way that spirit and our our life force energy is meant to move through us. And we're meant to like serve and put a mark on this world and leave our legacy. And if we're doing work, that's not aligned to that. It's going to lead to exhaustion, right? It's going to deplete us.
Speaker: And the two ways that this shows up is the repressive nature and the reactive nature. So the repressive nature, and I always, like, I cannot say this word for the life of me. um
Speaker: I'm trying to see... Sorry, I'm trying to read where like how I know how to say this word. Anyways, the repressive nature is um acquiescent, I think.
Speaker: Acquiescent. And so I'm just going to read you straight from Richard Rudd from the Gene Keys book, exactly his transmission of the repressive and reactive nature because they just hit so hard. So if you're experiencing the repressive nature, these are people who lack firm boundaries in life. People with this nature easily acquiesce to manipulation by others, lacking the will to stand up for themselves. This permissive habit is rooted in the denial of one's own needs, typically arising from patterns and coping strategies that develop in childhood.
Speaker: These people will give themselves away tirelessly and usually to people or organizations that never really care about them. This 40th shadow drains people who do not value themselves and their energy enough. When such people come out of their denial and make a stand for themselves and themselves alone, their life can dramatically improve. Okay, so if you're in this boat, then you might be, again, working for a job where, like, you don't love it, right? Maybe you're being underpaid, you're being undervalued, people, um like, you're not being recognized for your genius and your gifts, you don't feel appreciated, right? And instead of, ah yeah this could also look like being um a mother or a father, like having children, being a parent and completely putting all of your needs to the back to support your partner and to support your children. But this is coming from an unhealthy way, right? This is coming from a completely denying your own needs, completely denying um your own
Speaker: you know, desires to share your gifts with the world, share your genius with the world, right? That's completely dormant and you're putting everyone else's needs ahead of you. It can also happen very easily um for people who are very close like to their families, right? Maybe very close to their, um not even like their spouse and children, but like maybe take like your parents or like this guy I could see this happening a lot in people who maybe are like running the family business, right? And it's like not their dreams. It's not their desires, but they're so afraid to take the leap. And they're so afraid of, you know, severing these relationships or letting down their family. They feel like they have to just put their own needs and their own desires on the back burner and like basically live someone else's dream. Okay. And this happens every day.
Speaker: Now the reactive nature is called contemptuous. And so the reactive side of the shadow is about the denial of rage. Like the fear of this repressive nature, this rage has its roots in a difficult childhood. This kind of denial distorts the rage into contempt for others. These people can be extremely arrogant. They prey on the weaknesses of others for their own benefit.
Speaker: Such a sustained disdained attitude means that these people cannot afford to allow anyone to get too close to them. This reactive nature feeds on disrespect for others and thus people with this reactive nature gradually erode their energy by cutting away all of their support. Because their strong will is fueled by unconscious rage, they do not appear to be exhausted, but inside their constant need to isolate themselves from their community takes a toll in the end. um So this can also be like very common as well, right? So it's this like rage, it's like this disdain for other people. um
Speaker: And it it literally creates this energy where people disrespect and feed off of disrespecting others, right? And again, it's because they're not following their own will. And so we can see how even like leaders in our, in our country, um, we can see, you know, people, um who are in positions of power, even that you know, take advantage of other people.
Speaker: They have this contemptuous energy about them. Right. and And also this could just be any of us, right? This could be any of us. It's not to say, usually clients, usually my clients will, and myself as well, resonate with either the repressive or the reactive nature a little bit more than the other.
Speaker: But one thing I don't want to do is ever make anyone feel like, oh my God, I'm like a monster if I wreck if i know resonate with one of these things. and not the other, right? These are just the extremes. Like this is like, if we're looking at the shadow frequency and we're looking at the city, which we're gonna get to in a second, divine will, the highest frequency, this is really ah um a range we can think of of consciousness, okay? So the shadows, the things that I'm describing right now, shadows are always rooted in fear.
Speaker: And if we think about, um for those of you that are like Abraham Hicks fans, this is like my favorite way to look at it. Like, you know, if you look at the, um Abraham Hicks has like the um different layers of, I forget what what they call it, like,
Speaker: I don't think it's the levels of consciousness, but maybe it's the levels of emotion and like the lowest one being fear. And then as you like move up the emotional scale, right? You just move up, you move up, you move up. The highest level of the emotional scale is love and freedom, right? Same thing here with the gene keys. It's like every gene key has a shadow, which is like the lowest level of consciousness, just rooted in fear and like victim mentality. And then as you move up, you get to the gift. And then as you move up to the highest frequency, that's always rooted in love and truth.
Speaker: um And so it's not to say that when we experience, it's never to like shame ourselves and be like, oh my God, like I'm experiencing the shadow. I must be this like horrible person. No, it's like, that's just literally a part of life. And it's, it's just the other side of the coin. And actually by denying this aspect of yourself is keeping you trapped longer, right?
Speaker: The victim, the shadow is unconscious. Right? We are unaware of ourselves when we are in these states, but talking about these things, bringing light to these things, allowing to see these things in our lives and these patterns that we live and bringing conscious awareness to it.
Speaker: Oh my God, now it's no longer a shadow. Now we see it. Now it's not hidden. 1414 on the clock. And now we can accept it, right? We can accept this thing about ourselves and actually alchemize it and move into the good frequency and ultimately into the shadow or the highest frequency the city. So let's talk about Um, oh, the other thing that I wanted to talk to about this again is like this, this shadow of exhaustion a, again, it's going to be from just constantly over committing and doing things that aren't aligned with your genius and aligned with like what you're actually meant to bring into the world. So it's kind of like living by someone else's, you know,
Speaker: living on someone else's terms. It is not having strong boundaries at all. Like there's no boundaries here. And there's also this very, very um prevalent energy of um loneliness.
Speaker: And this loneliness happens when individuals isolate themselves from others and refuse support from others. Okay. So again, this is two ways this can show up. It's either loneliness or isolation.
Speaker: And when you work, and this is directly from Richard Rudd, when you work at something you love using your energy harmoniously, you automatically activate support from others and therefore do not feel lonely.
Speaker: However, When you push against the flow or give into someone else's flow, loneliness always rears its head. When you allow your energy to be misused by another, which is the repressive nature of this jinky, your natural support network is withdrawn, giving you the feeling of being cut off from life when in fact it is your own lack of action that has caused this state.
Speaker: or action, action or lack of action, okay? um Another manifestation of this shadow frequency is the type of loneliness that comes when individuals isolate themselves from others through their refusal of support or by constantly biting the hand that feeds them. This is a typical behavior pattern of the reactive nature of this shadow. This latter brand of loneliness is less obvious because such willful people often appear to have such great strength and independence.
Speaker: Whereas in reality, at a more unconscious level, they're just as weak and lonely as the repressive side. The 40th shadow is adept at denial and its prime denial concerns feelings. People with the shadow actively often deny the fact that they have feelings and it is in this denial that ultimately leads to their downfall. So that's a bit about the shadow. Okay. So now how does this show up in business? Well, again, okay.
Speaker: How do you feel? And I don't want us to think about day to day. Okay. I recently, couple weeks ago, made a post about um generators and manifesting generators. And I was like, guys, if you're exhausted, like middle of the day, end of the day, you need to fucking do more. Like you are not doing enough. And after I sat with that, it's like, yes, that's still true. But also,
Speaker: it's a little, ah it's it's a little skewed because we have fucking cycles, right? Especially as women, we have hormonal cycles. There's going to be days, you guys, when we genuinely feel exhausted. And it's not that we're necessarily in this shadow. It's just like a general day of just being fucking exhausted. There's not a reason. It could just be that our freaking hormones are different. Maybe we did a lot the night before. Maybe we're not getting good sleep. Like that is not what this type of exhausted is. Okay. So I want us to just, first of all, think about, okay,
Speaker: This is a different type of exhaustion, right? It's something that is going to be pervasive. It is something that is going to be there long-term when we, again, are not aligned with our design. When our business is, we're forcing upstream, trying so hard to be something that we're not because we think it's going to bring us a success when really it's not, right? Maybe again, that's like very specifically, right?
Speaker: feeling like you have to constantly launch something new or structure your offers in a certain way, just because you see that it's successful for your coach to offer them in those ways. Or maybe you feel like, um, I know for me for a long time, I hated doing live readings because I was like, this is so distracting for me. There's so many things like in the way that I work that I just do so well in my own time, space and energy And then so I love doing like recorded readings and you know, I'm, I have just such an expressive energy that it feels like people are on the call with me. Like when they receive it, it feels so it's like, they love it. It's iconic. Right. But for a long time, I was so afraid to do that because I was like, oh, if I'm sending recorded readings, that must mean be not as valuable as someone being live with me. Right. So I had to move through that and realize like, no, this is just how I operate best. Best decision I ever made started selling way more readings. Right. And started finding success in my business, quote unquote success, whatever the fuck that looks like. Right. It's so subjective. So now I'm playing with, oh, I actually kind of love again doing live readings because now I feel like my audience is much more, um,
Speaker: I'm just attracting much more aligned people where it just genuinely feels so fun to do it live and it's so fulfilling. So now i I offer one of my readings live. It's like, where are you doing things because you feel like you can't change it or you feel like it's not going to be valuable, but that is the actual thing that is exhausting you, right? Um, I also was talking about recently, um I forget, I think it was jinky29 all about commitments and half-heartedness was a shadow. And I created a post on it a couple weeks ago that a lot of people resonated with. And I got so many DMS and so many messages, comments from people that are like, Oh my God, Alyssa, like I resonate with this so heavily. I'm completely
Speaker: like redoing part of my business. People are canceling their own memberships that they run, right? They're shutting them down because it just is no longer aligned. They are shifting things, completely shifting how they run their masterminds. Like they're trying new offers there. Some people are completely closing themselves off to coaching for the time being, and they're just living life and exploring that. And like all of that is okay because when we find ourselves so exhausted again, it's like, was this my actual desire? was the way that I, like, am I even meant to have a business? am I even meant to be an entrepreneur? And this isn't to, um, this isn't to, you know, put seeds of doubt into people's minds that, oh, if things aren't just naturally easy and I feel tired, then that means this isn't a lie. No, like entrepreneurship is fucking hard. Like there's, it's going to be so many like trials and tribulations, but I think some people thought that they need to be a coach and
Speaker: When really that's not even how their soul is meant to express things. And so letting that go, you know, they found themselves so exhausted trying to push this business that is just like not even what they're meant to do. And they haven't found success in it because it's just, again, forcing, pushing uphill, not what they were even meant to do. So now taking a break, stepping back, allowing yourself to find joy into your life again, it's going to open up the things that you're really meant to do. Right. And like we will make the most money.
Speaker: from being of service in our unique way. Like that is where we will prosper the most. And so again, it's like, if things aren't working, something needs to shift. It doesn't mean you need to completely stop doing what you're doing, but something about it is just not aligned.
Speaker: And this is a great time that this Virgo energy is saying, where are you exhausted? Right now? Think now this is going to get real good. Cause we're going to talk about the gift resolve, which is so beautiful. So The gift of resolved is called of resolve called the lost art of doing nothing.
Speaker: When you activate the 40th gift of Gene Key 40 at a higher frequency, exhaustion becomes a thing of the past. When your life force is aligned correctly, you will discover that there is a vast amount of energy available to you. The same forces that drive the shadow also drive the gift, but the result is completely different.
Speaker: Everything about this 40th Gene Key is about having boundaries. And in order to create boundaries, you have to be able to deny other people access to your energy. You have to be able to say no.
Speaker: The correct use of this kind of isolation ensures that neither your energy nor your resources are ever depleted. The energy that goes into isolation can be a wonderful ally in life if used correctly. It is this ability to set personal boundaries around your energy and your time that gives rise to the gift of resolve. So...
Speaker: Resolve is about giving to yourself. Okay. This is about learning. How can I give to myself? Now, isolation can be like I just said, and just read from this beautiful energy.
Speaker: Isolation when done intentionally can be so fucking freeing. Some of you need to take a fucking break. Some of you need to pull back the access to yourself. Some of you are running programs, memberships, masterminds, coaching, where you have no boundaries. Okay. There is no fucking boundary. There is no energetic boundary. People have so much access to you. You it's depleting you. And you're wondering like, am I not supposed to be doing this? Or like, why am I so tired? Like I'm so exhausted. And the very thing that used to light you up is now draining you. And it's because there's no boundaries. So this is a beautiful time to be like, okay, where can i actually step back?
Speaker: I'll give you a great example. So, um, when I, um
Speaker: when i first um did When I first launched my Healing Bubble membership, one of the cool things I did was like, oh, I'm gonna do weekly Akashic greetings for every single person in the membership. And um the membership is very small, okay? It's a very intimate community. i want to grow it. It is my like dream and goal to grow this, to be thriving, but it's a very small, intimate group of us.
Speaker: And so I was able to consistently deliver free readings, right? For maybe like seven people at a time. That's very, that's like, I don't want to say that's easy because my readings do go into a lot of depth, but like once a month, okay, it was cool. I was doing it. But then I realized I'm putting a cap on myself because I'm so afraid of inviting new people in energetically that I feel like I'm blocking and stopping people from coming in because there's no way that I would be able to continue giving these like really juicy readings just as it is, right? ah For $44 a month for the membership, that's just like crazy. Like my readings are at least like $222 or like $333. And thirty three dollars and so it was just like too much. I was like, I'm overgiving, right?
Speaker: i am overgiving. And no one... Told me to do that. No one asked me to do that. I wasn't resenting any of the people in ah in my community. I love all of my babes. They weren't even asking me to do that. I was the one giving that to them, right? But then I was like, okay, I need to take this step back and realize that I can't continue doing this. Like, or I'm not going to be able to energetically grow this or like show up in the best way possible. Right. Cause that takes a lot of time and energy. So I said, okay, I'm going to now take that away. Instead, give my babes a very juicy discount on these Akashic readings monthly. Something that is like, I think literally like 70% off, like what they are to the public. Right.
Speaker: And so I did that. Boom. It works perfectly. I'm freed back. I'm being energetically compensated, right? For the, what I'm providing, right? The babes love it. They're still getting some, like an insane value, like outside of like public pricing. Right. And they totally understand. Right. The moment that I made that announcement, you guys, and I was scared. I was like, oh my God, I don't want them to think I'm like trying to steal their money. And like, I'm ungrateful and I'm just like money hungry. And so I was nervous to do that change. But I was like, I have to do this change. The moment that I did that and then I opened up the books for the readings, like two minutes later, boom, I sold three within like two minutes.
Speaker: And like, that's the thing. Your people will support you. Your people understand the value of your work, right? When your work speaks for itself and you deliver such incredible just like results and insights, like these Akashic Record readings are so just like, it makes you want to cry how powerful they are and how much it just gives people, this like confirmation of like, okay, I am on the right track. There are unseen forces helping me. Oh my God, I didn't even see this. Oh my God, that's such a confirmation of exactly what I was thinking. And like, it just leaves you feeling high and like a really great way. Right. So
Speaker: of course people understand the value of that but i had to see the value in that first and i had to be the one to be in the energy of resolve take a step back tighten up my boundaries make a difficult decision to change things and then boom it's like an energetic like again my life force energy came back online and i'm so fucking excited and like i'm so excited to to do these readings like i it lights me up i can't wait for like i usually do them like on a sunday and like i look so much forward to that right it's just like so fun for me. So this is where I want you to think about in your business. Where do you just need to tighten up on some boundaries?
Speaker: Where, and this could also be in your life, right? This could also be in your life. This could be with like friendships. This could be with like, um, a parent, but it's like, where can you say no?
Speaker: Where can you start saying no to things? Maybe you used to
Speaker: like
Speaker: Maybe don't, I'm trying to think of another example of like, maybe something that like you used to feel good, but now you just realize, oh, it doesn't, this is a little bit too much of overgiving. This is a little bit too much. Let me tighten this up. And how can I see that my work, my literal, like my literal life force energy will come back rushing to me. And I will have the energy to say yes to the things that I want to do because I said no to the other things. Right.
Speaker: um
Speaker: There's also a sense of effortless that happens because when we're enter in the energy of resolve, we don't need willpower. Okay. We don't need willpower. If content creation, and I hate talking about content creation because it's so like, I don't know, it's just feels very basic and it feels like, okay, like all of us are using content creation.
Speaker: obviously to create communities and to share our work with the world. Like that's a bigger picture, right? We have these life work, like life's works that we are sharing with the world. We want to make change. We are like sharing our legacy. We want to help people. We genuinely want to change things. We want to bring change and like all of these things, right? So content is a a means to first serve on a very beautiful basic level and create community, right?
Speaker: And also it's a way to meet people and it's a way to share your services. If it feels very hard and exhausting to create content, you're just trying to do it how everyone else is doing it, through force and through willpower, right? Oh my God, I have to post every single day. i have to post three times a day. These in like these marketing people are telling you have to do this and these hooks and all of these things. And then it just becomes fucking exhausting and it becomes so fucking repetitive and so boring. And like you're cutting off all of the the creative spark that you have, right? If you came back to resolve and you're like, you want to just be flowing in your gifts, it's tapping back into like your bigger mission of like, what are you here to do in this world? Right. What is the the thing that you're actually like supporting people on?
Speaker: And like that, it becomes effortless. It truly does. It becomes effortless. When you want to show up how you want to show up, I don't show up every day. i don't I don't give a fuck about showing up every day and posting every day. But when I do post, it's in good energy. It feels good. And I'm excited about what I'm posting, right? And so it's like, how can you tap into that energy of resolve and give yourself space and the integrity of your own space to...
Speaker: come back to the things that like really light you up. Right. And again, it's going to be like, by not doing things like the way that everyone else is doing them. Um, another great great thing about this too, when you say no to someone and you're in the energy of resolve, when you say no to someone, they might be resentful or hurt at first, but it's exactly what they need. It's the correct thing for them to go get the thing from the other person.
Speaker: If you just are saying yes to everyone and you're taking on clients that you don't really want to serve or that you don't even think you can really help, or you're saying yes to, you know, for example, me, I used to help George at the, I used to work for George actually, um, at the sunset market for his business And he would hire me to drive to Oceanside every single Thursday and sell with him as a vendor. And I fucking hated it. And I was such a bitch. I was in such a bad mood all the time because I just worked like eight hours, just commuted two hours. So like 10 hours of my day has already been taken. I'm tired. I want to work on my business. I want to do things I'm actually excited about. I don't want to sit here at this booth, right? Even if I love you, I'm sorry. Like I'm just going to be a bitch because I'm exhausted. This is not what I meant to do, right? This is not what I meant to do. And so anyways, I just kept showing up because I was so afraid to like let him down. And like, I didn't know what he's my boyfriend, right? I love him. He's paying me. So I'm like, okay, well, it's not like completely doing this for free. Like I'm getting a little bit of something out of this. Like, and I kind of felt like I had to do it. And I had this like weird feeling, this like weird fear. Like if I stopped doing this,
Speaker: and I'm not like I'm not connected at all to his business at all and I just had this like weird fear that he was gonna get like so like blow up and then I would be no part of it and I would get left behind even though like it's not even in my business at all right which is like who cares um but I just had all these fears that was gonna bring like drive a wedge in our relationship and like You know, i owed this to him, but I was exhausted and I was being a total bitch all of the time. And I think I was even in this energy of contempt, like contempt. Like i was in the energy of disdain. I hated being there.
Speaker: And finally one day, um After making all of these rules of like, okay, stopping on your phone, stopping on your phone, like blah, blah, blah. Right. I was the worst employee. Honestly, it's like so embarrassing. Cause like, especially on someone who prides themselves on having good customer service, I was like the worst employee. Anyways, he ends up firing me. We have this fight and he's like, you know what Just go home. Like I'm firing you.
Speaker: And I was like, yeah, right. But then like, I also low-key was like a little happy about it. So and ended up going home that day and we were just like mad at each other the whole day. And I never went back. He fired me. And guess what?
Speaker: Because of that, our relationship got a thousand times better. i stopped being in this energy of disdain. I stopped feeling like I was being manipulated and used, even though I wasn't, right? Like he was paying me to do this.
Speaker: But I just genuinely hated it so much like now I was able to stop being resentful of him Our relationship got so good. He does his completely own thing in his business I don't feel any obligation to have to help I do my own thing in my business. We get to spend more quality time together Thursday nights I now use for podcasting and for like client work It's time that I have like solid time to myself to work on these things right or spend time with my mom and brother like go to networking stuff and our relationship couldn't be better. And guess what?
Speaker: Because he said no to me, right? Now he hired someone else that is so much better than me, that is good at what they do, that comes just to help him set up and then comes back to help him take down stuff. And it's a great working relationship, right? And now we're not bickering. We're not like in this weird energy. And so it really took him firing me and for me to be fired by my first job ever um to be set free.
Speaker: right? And it's the most beautiful thing now. But I was so afraid of, yeah, just like what that would mean or look like. So there could be some place, like, so and essentially, again, him telling me no, essentially by firing me, opened me up to have so much more time and energy on my business that I was so afraid to claim for myself because I felt like I needed to show it for him. So you actually saying no to those family members or friends, cutting those people off, saying no to that client, saying no to that collaboration that you know that you generally don't want to do. They might be butthurt or upset in the moment, but guess what?
Speaker: The right person is going to open up the opportunity for the right person. that is going to be connected to resolve and they will have effortless energy because it's the right person for the right, correct opportunity. So sometimes it's just the correct, incorrect timing for us, right? Incorrect time, incorrect opportunity, incorrect person. It doesn't mean anything about us. Um, now this is also, i wanted to point this out. The 40th gift of resolve is also about becoming adept to giving to yourself.
Speaker: Um, and one of my favorite quotes of this
Speaker: is all about... Okay, let me just find it for you because this quote is so good.
Speaker: For a person with the gift of resolve, nothing is really an effort because nothing has to be forced. These people may work extremely hard and use a great deal of energy, but unlike the shadow, they do not exhaust themselves. They know how to stop, when to stop, and more importantly, they know when to say no.
Speaker: Work that is in harmony with your true nature is not really work at all. In this sense, it doesn't really require willpower. Resolve means that willpower is built into the activity from the outset, so it flows effortlessly out of you rather than having to be forced. In addition to this, the sense of effortlessness, the 40th gift engenders a great deal of respect and so support from others. Unlike the shadow frequency, people living at the gift level do not feel a distrust of support, even when... They will always maintain the integrity of their own space. These people actually inspire support and help from others. They often become the backbone of teams or projects because of the sheer power of their resolve. So when you're in the energy and gift of resolve, there's not a fear of of asking for help or asking support. You don't distrust the intentions and motives of others because you're so fucking aligned with your mission and you're so in flow of what you want to do. People will come out of the woodworks to support you. People want to help you. Because they're so obsessed with what you're doing because it's so authentic and they can feel that and they want to get behind that.
Speaker: Right? It's so beautiful. I can't find the exact quote that I wanted to say, but the other thing that I wanted to say was this is really about, oh, it's a wonderful balance between serving the world and serving your own enjoyment.
Speaker: True resolve is not possible unless you know how to relax. So in a hectic world where so many people are afraid to relax, take a break, um turn off their phone, you know, disconnect, feeling like, oh my God, if I don't post every day, I'm going to be forgotten about. I need to be top of mind. Oh my God, like all this frenetic energy. It's like, honestly, like fuck off. The way that I think about it is like, if I'm trying to get off social media, because I've i've noticed in myself a real freaking phone addiction. If I'm trying to get off social media, then i i I wouldn't hold it against people and in like my audience or like my dream clients. I wouldn't hold it against them that they're also are trying to take time off. And so I don't need to show up every day or post every single day. They're not going to miss anything. When they're back on, they'll look for me. They'll like the stuff that I'm doing. They'll see it pop up and that'll be perfect, right? So same with you. Don't feel like you have to need, you need to constantly be like,
Speaker: um chasing this thing or like constantly showing up in order to be top of mind. That's really just like fear marketing. And yeah, a lot of people are doing that and they're, yeah, they're very loud, whatever.
Speaker: i don't know if they're having, i don't know if they're deeply fulfilled on the other side of that as or not. And it doesn't matter, right? Because we can only matter about only worry about our own selves, but there is a possibility and a true way to find deep fulfillment by not being so hectic and feeling like we always have to be on and fully trusting that the universe will support us and that's what this energy is showing us and then divine will the highest frequency the city is like oh my gosh like when you're so attuned to like what you're supposed to be doing like it's not even for your will anymore it's almost like thy will like it's almost like um complete relaxation divine will And it's a very mystical frequency. And like, you're not even just like doing your will. It's like, you're almost like doing God's will.
Speaker: And you're absolutely, it says you're absolutely free to do as you wish in life. And yet at the same time, do nothing, same time, nothing you do is really in your hands.
Speaker: Like when you're in this energy, when you're in divine will, you can do anything that you want and also realize that if nothing is really in your hands.
Speaker: Right. Yeah. The effort that we put out is in our hands. And of course, this is not saying don't work. This is about work. This is about working really hard and like loving what you're doing, but it doesn't feel like hard work and it's not exhausting you because you love what you're doing. So how can you come back to the craft? Right. For me.
Speaker: And I'm going to say it again. You guys are going to hear this for the millionth time. It's like the pod, uh, YouTube, right? Like I want to come on YouTube, but I'm just going to fucking come on YouTube and not have any, any, um, not wrap up in like the outcome of it or whatever. i just want to share my work. I just want to share my podcast. I just want to share things I'm interested in. I want to share stuff like this. Right. And have these conversations.
Speaker: And so how can we come back to more of this idea of like, how can I connect to my own will and my own, um, not willpower. Okay. Not willpower because willpower does not actually exist, but how can I get into the energy of resolve the lost art of doing nothing where work is just fun and it feels good. Of course, there's going be hard days. Of course, we're going to be exhausted sometimes. Of course, we're going to be on our cycles again, but it's like, if the majority of the time of the work that you're doing feels horrendous, you're not using your spirit appropriately.
Speaker: Like someone gave me this example. I forget who it was. It was a coach I had once. And she was like, you know what Alyssa, one of my clients literally just started making the most money she's ever made in her entire life by like face painting, by doing face painting at like markets.
Speaker: She's like, literally, she's making so much money by doing face painting. Face painting is so easy. It's so fun. She never thought it could be that simple. Like things really can be simple. It's like returning back to the things that you're actually obsessed with and the things that you want to do I think we've all gotten obsessed with this whole like coaching and like needing to transform people. Now we're in the days and age of information where everyone just has fucking information.
Speaker: I think people are looking for like, and not to say that we don't need coaches. Of course we do. But it's also like, I think people want to have fun. They want to have experiences. Like, you know, there's all, all of us have different geniuses. We can look at our astrology. We can look at our human design. We can look at our jankies, but like, we don't need to overcomplicate this shit. It can actually just feel really good. Okay.
Speaker: And that's what this energy of resolve is about. So I hope you love this. If you love this kind of thing, um this is exactly the type of juiciness that we get into in the healing bubble during our weekly cosmic forecasts. I dropped these.
Speaker: um pretty much every week to just dive into the current Gene Key Transit. And again, this is a solar transit. The sun is the biggest planet in our solar system.
Speaker: And so it has the most neutrinos. And so we are impacted the most by these energies, whether we're aware of it or not. And that's why I like following these. And I like following the solar transits. It's just very fun. And all 64 of them fit into a year. If you think about the Zodiac wheel and you divide it up into 64 little sections, that is where the gene keys are. They're the same exact numbers as the human design gates. They're fixed. They're in fixed signs. And inside the healing bubble, we make our way through all 64 of them, 62 of them.
Speaker: um,
Speaker: um And so, yes, if you love this, be sure to join us. And I hope you have the best day. Also, feel free to reach out to me. 64 of them. Sorry, my mind is like so dead right now. I'm exhausted, but not from this type of exhaustion. But there are 64 jankies. Um, but yeah, um, if you love this, be sure to also reach out on Instagram. Let me know, send me a message if this resonated. If you have this jinky, I would love to know, which is, I love knowing like what my people have and yeah, I hope you have the best day and I'll talk to you later. Okay. Bye. Bye.
