I asked Barry Moline what his eight-year-old self would think of him today.

He didn't talk about the CEO title. The career. The accolades.

He went straight to the ice. Still playing hockey. Still doing the thing that lit him up as a kid. And that little boy? He'd be thrilled.

There's something quietly profound about that. So many of us chase success and quietly abandon the things that made us feel most alive. Barry never did.

The question is worth sitting with. Not what have you achieved. But what have you kept?

What would your eight-year-old self think of you right now?

Full episode on One Great Question Episode 23 September 28th, 2026. 

What Would Your 8-Year-Old Self Say of You Now?

He wasn't interviewing. He wasn't even looking.

Barry Moline asked one question at a conference and walked away with an offer to lead a trade association as its next president. Not because he was the most qualified person in the room. Because he showed up curious, engaged, and willing to put himself out there.

That's how a lot of the best opportunities actually arrive. Not through a polished application. Through a moment of genuine connection that nobody planned.

The door doesn't always knock. Sometimes it just cracks open a little. The question is whether you're paying attention.

What opportunity are you currently walking past?

Full episode on One Great Question Episode 23 - September 28th, 2026. 

One Question at a Conference Changed Barry's Entire Career

That's not a theology question. That's a leadership question.

Barry Moline brought this one and I haven't stopped thinking about it. The biblical moment where the divine doesn't demand answers about location or circumstance. Just identity. Are you actually being who you say you are?

Most of us are performing a version of ourselves. Polished. Positioned. Safe. And somewhere underneath all of it is the real thing, waiting to be lived.

Authenticity isn't a personality trait. It's a daily choice. And the cost of avoiding it is higher than most people realize.

Who are you when nobody's watching? And is that the same person showing up everywhere else?

Full episode on One Great Question - Episode 23 September 28th, 2026. 

God Didn't Ask Where You Were. He Asked Who You Are.

Nobody teaches you how to let someone go well. And it shows.

Dr. Fay Niewiadomski flipped the script on this one. What if a layoff, handled with genuine care and dignity, could actually be the thing that unlocks someone's next chapter? What if the way you end something says more about your leadership than the way you started it?

The research is clear. How people leave an organization shapes how everyone who stays feels about it. Kindness in those moments isn't soft. It's strategic. And it's rare enough that it gets remembered.

How you treat people on their worst day at your company is your real leadership brand.

Full episode on One Great Question Podcast September 14th, 2026. Link in bio.

The Most Underrated Leadership Skill Is How You Say Goodbye

She called them "Kalashnikov universities." Classrooms where the wrong move didn't just cost you your grade. It cost you your life.

In that environment, one thing kept her safe: the reputation of being fair.

Not powerful. Not feared. Fair.

That stopped me. Because most leaders spend their energy building authority, influence, credibility. And those things matter. But this conversation with Dr. Fay reminded me that the deepest form of leadership currency is the quiet, consistent reputation of someone who treats people right.

You don't build that in a crisis. You build it long before one arrives.

What is your reputation protecting you from that you don't even know about?

Full episode on One Great Question Podcast September 14,2026.  Link in bio.

Your Reputation Might Be the Most Powerful Thing You Own

A literal bomb destroyed Dr. Fay's office. Took out her life's work in an instant.

Most people would call that the end. She called it the beginning.

What followed wasn't just rebuilding. It was reinvention. A moment of total ruin forcing a question that comfort never would have: what do I actually believe, separate from what I was taught to believe?

That collision between personal values and institutional expectations is one of the most disorienting things a person can face. Dr. Fay faced it with rubble around her.

The question worth asking before the bomb drops: are you living your convictions, or someone else's?

Full episode on One Great Question Podcast to air on September 14th, 2026.  Link in bio.

When a Bomb Goes Off, Who Do You Become?

In every industry, there are people who transcend their role. They don't just do the work. They define the culture. Set the standard. Make everyone else want to be in the room.

 Blakeley is that person for a generation of entrepreneurs. The conversation in this episode got interesting fast: what does that kind of influence actually look like up close? And what can the rest of us learn from it?

Influence isn't about fame. It's about making people feel something when they encounter your work.

Who's your industry's Taylor Swift? And more importantly, what are you doing to become that for someone else?

Full episode on One Great Question August 31st, 2026. 

What If Your Industry Had Its Own Taylor Swift?

Most people can tell you what they're working toward. Very few can tell you why it actually matters to them.

There's the stated goal. And then there's the real goal underneath it. The one driving the decisions, the sacrifices, the late nights. They're often not the same thing.

When your actions and your purpose are out of sync, you can hit the target and still feel like you missed.

One question cuts through all of it: what's your real goal?

Full episode on One Great Question August 31st, 2026.

You Have a Goal. But Is It the Real One?

Most people aren't held back by lack of ability. They're held back by the question they never ask themselves.

What would you attempt if success was guaranteed?

Watch what happens when you sit with that. The thing you've been circling for months. The conversation you've been avoiding. The move you've been calling "not the right time." Fear of failure isn't protecting you. It's just deciding for you.

Athletes get this. They don't wait until they're certain. They train for the attempt.

So. What would you dare?

Full episode on One Great Question August 31st, 2026.

Fear of Failure Is Running the Show. Is It Running Yours?

Rivendell isn't just a location in Middle-earth. It's a way of being.

Hospitality. Creativity. Peace. A place where the weary find rest and the curious find wisdom. This conversation went somewhere I didn't expect. What would it look like to actually build that kind of environment around you? Not a fantasy. A daily practice.

The people who lead well, create well, and live well tend to have one thing in common: they're intentional about the atmosphere they create. For others and for themselves.

What kind of space are you building around your life?

Full episode on One Great Question August 17th, 2026.

What If Your Home Was a Philosophy, Not a Place?

Hey friends, we are back with another episode of One Great Question, and this one is a masterclass in what happens when you just keep raising your hand.

Barry Moline has spent 29 years in the CEO chair, is a founding member of the Cialdini Institute, a certified licensed trainer, and the host of the Leadership Career Accelerator podcast focused on helping young professionals build executive presence and influence. But before all of that, he was a 16-year-old kid who accidentally ended up refereeing a near-professional hockey game in front of 2,000 people and somehow pulled it off.

That story alone is worth the listen. And it leads somewhere really interesting.

We get into what it really means to raise your hand before you feel ready, why the world belongs to the assertive, and the uncomfortable truth about what a long and successful career actually costs the people closest to you. Barry is refreshingly honest about this one, and it lands.

We also dig into the difference between work-life balance and work-life order, why attention is everything, and why being here now isn't just good advice, it's the whole game.

And then Barry closes with one of my favorite answers we've ever gotten to our signature question. It's an ancient story about a man named Zusha, a question from God, and five words that I think will stay with you.

Be yourself. Because everyone else is already taken.

Find Barry Moline:
Website: https://barrymoline.com [https://barrymoline.com/]
Email: barry@barrymoline.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barry-moline-29b99a53/

Episode 23: What Happens When You Just Raise Your Hand? 

Hey friends, we are back with another episode of One Great Question, and today we have a first on the podcast. Our very first guest joining us from overseas. And I have to tell you, I was not prepared for how good this conversation was going to be.

Dr. Fay Niewiadomski grew up in Jamaica to Lebanese parents, married a Polish husband, lived in New York, traveled to nearly every continent, and has spent the last 35 years running ICTN, a global consultancy where she coaches CEOs, boards, and actual heads of state on leadership and culture transformation. She also co-founded a university. Just, you know, casually.

She's the author of the new book Decisions That Matter: Rethink, Reimagine, and Reset Your Life. And friends, the title is not a gimmick. This woman has lived every single word of it.

We get into what it really means to stop waiting for permission to become who you actually are, the moment her office was literally bombed and her life's work turned to ash, and what she chose to do next. We dig into why the path of least resistance is a slippery slope to nowhere, why directing 35 theater productions made her a better leadership consultant, and the three things every great leader needs working in chemistry together: competence, courage, and compassion.

And then she shares the question that cracked open one of the most powerful leaders she ever coached. Five words. An uncomfortable silence. And for the first time in that person's career, an apology followed.

This is one of the best hangs we've had on One Great Question. I think you're going to feel that too.

Get the book: https://tinyurl.com/ytnr7tpb

Find Dr. Fay Niewiadomski:
Website: https://www.ictn.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fayniewiadomski/
Book a discovery call: https://calendly.com/fay-ictn/30-minute-discovery-meeting



Episode 22: What Does It Cost You to Keep Waiting for Permission? A conversation with Fay Niewiadomski 

Blakeley Vaughn spent 25 years at Sephora. Started on the floor, ended in a VP seat. Moved from Eugene, Oregon to Hollywood Boulevard to Madison Avenue to Atlanta. And somewhere in the middle of all of that, sitting alone on a park bench near the Met in Central Park, she almost threw the whole thing in.

In this episode, Blakeley and I dig into what it actually costs to climb a ladder when you're outsourcing your worthiness to the people above you, why friction is not the enemy of a good life but often the very thing that saves it, how building intentional community in a new city is the cheat code nobody talks about, and what it looks like to walk away from something you love on your own terms and ask, how good can it get from here?

Blakeley also shares the question that has followed her through every season, every role, and every hard conversation she's had to have. What is it you're really trying to do? It sounds simple. But depending on who's asking and how they're asking it, it will either cut you open or set you free.

She's now out of Sephora, fully energized, and ready to play with her Legos. And honestly, the world should be paying attention.

So here's what I want to leave you with. You've been working hard, climbing, building, achieving. But when's the last time you stopped long enough to ask yourself, what is it I'm really trying to do here? And were you brave enough to actually sit with the answer?

Episode 21: Stop Outsourcing Your Worthiness. A conversation with Blakeley Vaughn

Stephen Proctor is an artist of light. He flies drones over glaciers in New Zealand, projects forests onto the walls of the Washington National Cathedral, and lives in a cabin in the Pacific Northwest woods that he named Rivendell. He got in trouble as a kid for shining a laser pointer in church. He now gets paid to illuminate churches. He'll tell you eight-year-old Stephen is absolutely losing his mind.

In this episode, Stephen and I dig into what it looks like to leave a creative mecca before it turns you cynical, why re-enchantment is the most important thing artists can offer a disenchanted world, what it cost him to work behind the scenes with people the world puts on pedestals, and why slowing down is not just an artistic choice but a philosophy of life.

Stephen also shares the three questions that changed everything for him. One from a mentor in New Zealand who asked what it would look like to put a single photograph on a screen and just let it breathe for an entire song. One from a friend sitting in a hot tub under the stars in California asking what it would look like to flip the model and create something entirely his own. And one about how you take your coffee that quietly started it all.

He closes by reading from his late Uncle Steve's worn paperback copy of The Fellowship of the Ring. And honestly, there was no better way to end it.

So here's the question I want to leave you with. You're busy, you're moving, you're consuming, you're producing. But when's the last time you just sat still long enough to let something beautiful actually do something to you?

 * Book: Wild Wonder: What Nature Teaches Us About Slowing Down and Living Well — available on Amazon
 * Company: Illuminate [https://illuminate.us/stephenproctor] (Stephen's creative company)
 * Instagram: @stephenproctor [https://www.instagram.com/sproctor/?hl=en]

Episode 20:The Kid Who Got in Trouble for Shining Lights in Church Now Gets Paid to Do It. A conversation with Stephen Proctor

Callie Murray is not a clean LinkedIn narrative. She'll tell you that herself. She's got an HR company, a historical fiction novel just released, and a family that went from three kids to seven overnight when she and her husband David finalized the adoption of a sibling group of four through foster care. All in the same season. All at the same time. And somehow she still showed up for a TV interview before this podcast.

In this episode, Callie and I dig into what it actually costs to create something deeply personal and hand it to the world to rate with stars, why balance is a myth but order is everything, what it looked like to torpedo your entire carefully arranged life in the most beautiful way possible, and why a book launch party feels unfair when your friends are quietly surviving things nobody ever throws a party for.

Callie also shares the question her late father-in-law Bill used to ask that drove her absolutely crazy. And now she uses it on her own kids. What's the worst that could happen? Not to scare you. To free you.

So here's what I want to leave you with. There's something you've been wanting to try. Something that doesn't fit neatly into your LinkedIn bio or make sense to anyone at a dinner party. What if you just asked yourself, what's the worst that could happen? And actually followed the thread all the way to the end?

Social Links:

 * Website: www.callimurray.com [http://www.callimurray.com/]
 * Book Page: www.callimurray.com/book [http://www.callimurray.com/book]
 * The Brunswick: Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, and Bookshop.org
 * Instagram: calliemurray [https://www.instagram.com/calliemurray/]

Episode 19 What's the Worst That Could Happen? A conversation with Callie Murray

Jeremy Cowart is one of the most celebrated photographers and creative minds alive. He's also genuinely terrified about where AI is headed. And that tension, being all in on something that scares you, turns out to be one of the most honest things you'll hear a creative say out loud in 2026.

In this episode, Jeremy and I dig into what it means to be an artist in the age of artificial intelligence, why EQ is becoming the most valuable skill on the planet as IQ gets cheaper by the minute, and how Jeremy built a tool called Humathy that starts with one simple question. How are you really? What happened next was thousands of people ugly crying, screenshotting it, sending it to their Bible studies and community groups, and a 96-year-old woman saying it was the best gift she'd ever been given.

Jeremy also shares the question his friend Jimmy asked him 25 years ago that changed everything. Five words. Why don't you do it tomorrow? He quit his job the next day and hasn't looked back since.

So here's what I want to leave you with. There's a question sitting somewhere in the back of your mind right now, something you've been circling, something you keep almost doing. What if somebody who loved you leaned across the table and asked you, why don't you just do it tomorrow? What would your answer be?

Social Links:

 * Humathy: www.humathy.com [http://www.humathy.com/]
 * Website: www.jeremycowart.com [http://www.jeremycowart.com/]
 * Instagram: @jeremycowart
 * X (Twitter): @jeremycowart

Episode 18 Why Don't You Do It Tomorrow? A conversation with Jeremy Cowart

Jason Wahler grew up in Southern California, became a household name on Laguna Beach and The Hills, fought a very public battle with addiction, and somewhere in the middle of all of it found the thing that actually mattered. A pillow fight with his kids on a random Tuesday night. Crying laughing. Nobody watching. Nowhere else to be.

In this episode, Jason and I dig into what it looks like to rebuild an identity after losing one, why the most influential experts are often the ones with the most lived experience, how comparison quietly destroys contentment, and why the people at the top of the mountain so often say they'd change everything.

Jason also shares the four questions he asks his kids every single night that turned into a 30-minute conversation with his eight-year-old daughter about friendship, heartbreak, and what it means to have a safe place to land. And the question that he now gives anyone who's wondering if something in their life has too much power over them. It's simple. It's just six words. And it works on everything.

So here's what I want to leave you with. You're chasing something right now. Maybe something big. But when's the last time you stopped and honestly asked yourself, is this actually adding to my life? Or have I just been too busy moving to notice it's been subtracting all along?

Find Jason:

www.jasonwahler.com [http://www.jasonwahler.com/]

Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/jasonwahler/]

Change Your Brain Foundation [https://www.changeyourbrain.org/]

Episode 17: What If Your Greatest Deficit Became Your Greatest Asset? A conversation with Jason Wahler

Charles Lee arrived in the US at five years old with very little English, moved to Koreatown in Los Angeles, watched his parents build a restaurant that became an institution and cost them their marriage, dropped out of college twice, and somehow ended up advising Toyota, Google, and Sequoia. He'll be the first to tell you he still doesn't feel like he's arrived. And that honesty is exactly what makes this conversation worth your time.

In this episode, Charles and I dig into what it actually means to design a life on purpose instead of just letting one happen to you, why the thing you're best at is usually the thing you take most for granted, how to move from a proof of concept to a proof of value, and why the most dangerous gap in most leaders' lives is the distance between how creative they are at work and how present they are at home.

Charles also shares the question a younger friend asked him over dinner in Atlanta that quietly restructured everything. It was piercing enough that I didn't want him to finish it. And I'm pretty sure it's going to do the same thing to you.

His new book, Design Your Good Life, is out now and it might be the most holistic leadership and life framework I've come across in years.

So here's what I want to leave you with. You're giving your best thinking, your most creative energy, and your sharpest attention to your clients and your company every single week. But when's the last time the people at home got that version of you?

Find Charles:

Website  [https://www.charlestlee.com/design-your-good-life-book-landing-page]

Company [https://ideation.com/assets/index.html]

Book - Design Your Good Life [https://www.charlestlee.com/design-your-good-life-book-landing-page]

Book Video  [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZjBx_e-2yQ]

Episode 16:What If You've Been Designing Someone Else's Good Life? A conversation with Charles Lee

Matt Chenard lost $1.2 million dollars, his wife's nursing job, their life savings, and nearly his health. And he'll tell you straight up, it was the best thing that ever happened to him. Not because he's a masochist. Because it was the moment he finally stopped confusing a good thing for the ultimate thing.

In this episode, Matt and I dig into what it actually means to build a life around mission instead of achievement, why your habits are either deposits or withdrawals whether you make them consciously or not, how a penguin walking toward a mountain alone went viral for a reason, and why the most dangerous version of success is the one that quietly becomes your identity.

Matt also shares the one question that has restructured every major decision in his life, and it's only three letters. Why. Not once. Over and over again, until the real answer surfaces.

Oh, and somewhere in all of this he's also sitting in a frozen tub with an ax. In winter. In Canada. On purpose. And it might be the most brilliant piece of content strategy I've ever seen.

So here's what I want to leave you with. You're building something. Maybe something significant. But when's the last time you stopped long enough to ask yourself, if this thing disappeared tomorrow, would you still know exactly who you are?

Find Matt: (If he is not cold plunging!) 

YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@mattchenard]

Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mattchenard/]

Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/matthew.chenard/]

LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-chenard-3a51541a0/]

Episode 15: What If the Mountain Was Never About the Summit? A conversation with Matt Chenard

Chris Ducker built companies with nearly 600 employees, hit his first million dollar year, and was completely done. Not celebrating. Done. And then he did it again in 2021, this time landing in anxiety, depression, and phase three adrenal failure with cortisol completely flatlined. The long way back didn't start in a boardroom. It started with an hour a day in the woods, no AirPods, no podcast, no agenda.

In this episode, Chris and I dig into what it actually costs to build something significant, why letting go is the skill nobody teaches entrepreneurs, the difference between motion and momentum, and why the most successful people you'll ever meet all have one thing in common, a stillness practice that has nothing to do with work.

Chris also shares the question his mentor Dan Miller asked him that quietly restructured everything. Four words. What would this make possible? Simple enough to dismiss. Powerful enough to change the trajectory of his life twice.

Oh, and somewhere in the middle of all of this, he became a birder. Genuinely. And it might be the wisest thing he's ever done.

So here's what I want you to sit with. You're busy, you're building, and you're probably pretty good at it. But when's the last time you walked into something that had nothing to do with your output, your brand, or your bottom line and just let yourself be fully there?

Find Chris: 

Website [https://www.chrisducker.com/]

Long Haul Leader [http://www.longhaulleader.com/]

Newsletter [https://www.chrisducker.com/]

Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/chrisducker/]

LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisducker/]

YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/user/chrisducker]

TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@chrisduckerofficial]

Episode 14: What Does This Make Possible? A conversation with Chris Ducker

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Carl Lubbe (@getmorecurious)

One Great Question is a Curiosity podcast exploring leadership, decision-making, and human behavior through meaningful conversations. Each episode begins with a single question designed to challenge assumptions, spark insight, and help leaders think more clearly about people, work, and life.