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yeah Orgasm shouldn't be like the goal for other people, right? It's like, oh, let's hang out for a couple hours and just explore and know each other and have fun and take breaks and giggle. And when you do that too, it's it's a longer process. um There's far more disability to be and to be present. And I think that's just such a huge, I think paradigm shift from from where our culture is at with sex. It's all about that utilitarian use of getting something out of it, which is just unfortunate. You bet. man And then I feel like, you know, if if men are like really like, got to, it's like, it's just about the nut as you know, as we we're talking about, then it's like, you know, you find them still like, okay, they're gonna, you know, scroll on their phone afterwards, because then they're still like mentally bored or something or like, you're like, clearly, this wasn't the climax that anyone that you were looking for, you know,