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Men Don't Get It, Leaders Are Lost & Nothing Makes Sense Anymore
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Everything feels off right now—and it’s not just you.
In this Sibling Happy Hour, Bruce and Jay break down why the world feels like it’s spiraling. From men struggling with identity and accountability, to the rise of contradictory dating expectations, to political chaos that feels more like performance than leadership—this episode connects the dots.
What starts as a rant about “people just not being worth a damn” quickly turns into a deeper conversation about emotional intelligence, the loneliness epidemic, and why so many people are choosing not to evolve. The conversation doesn’t stop there—because the same lack of accountability showing up in dating is also showing up in leadership, culture, and everyday interactions.
And somewhere in the middle of all that? A story about a woman so attractive she’s literally causing car accidents… which somehow perfectly explains everything wrong with modern behavior.
This episode is funny, unfiltered, and uncomfortable in all the right ways.
Because here’s the truth:
If this conversation hits a nerve… it might be about you. #Podcast #youtubepodcast #datingadvice #relationships #genz #maleloneliness #EmotionalIntelligence #ToxicMasculinity #Manosphere #WomenStandards #BlackPodcasters #UnsolicitedPerspectives
Chapters:
00:00:00 Why Everything Feels Broken Right Now 🧠⚖️🔥
00:02:06 Instant Breakup Story — That Red Flag Was Insane 😳🚩💥
00:03:00 Jay’s Rant Begins — People Just Ain’t Worth A Damn 😤🔥🗣️
00:05:00 Manosphere Excuses — Hiding Behind Masculinity 🤦🏾♂️🧠🚫
00:07:35 Male Loneliness vs Female Independence Shift 📊💔👀
00:09:59 You Don’t Hate Men — You Just Suck Breakdown 🎯😬💯
00:22:30 Trump Chaos — One Week Of Pure Unhinged Leadership 🇺🇸🤯🔥
00:32:40 Gen Z Men Contradiction — Roles vs Reality 📊⚖️😳
00:34:30 Do Men Even Like Women? — The Real Question 😬👀💭
00:39:50 The “WYD” Text Is Killing Your Chances 📉📲😤
00:40:59 Paying Attention Is The Real Attraction Hack 🎯👂🔥
00:45:00 Manosphere Influence — Social Media Warping Reality 📱⚠️🧠
00:54:30 Wanting Control Without Responsibility Explained ⚖️🤦🏾♂️🔥
01:00:00 Attraction Gone Wrong — Causing Real Accidents 😳🚗💥
01:03:00 You Need Caution Tape — Beauty Creating Chaos 😂🚧🔥
01:06:00 Staring vs Creeping — Why Men Don’t Realize 👁️😬⚠️
01:12:30 Final Message — If You’re Mad, It’s You 🎯😤🔥
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Transcript
Introduction and Overview of Topics
00:00:00
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world leaders wildin', men are confused, and people just out here doing anything. We gonna talk about it. Let's get it!
00:00:18
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Welcome. First of all, welcome. This is Unsolicited Perspectives. I am your host, Bruce Anthony, here to lead the conversation in important events and topics that are shaping today's society. Join the conversation and follow us wherever you get your audio podcasts. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for our video podcasts, YouTube exclusive content, and our YouTube membership.
00:00:36
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Rate, review, like, comment, share. Share with your friends, share with your family, hell, even share with your enemies. On today's episode, it's the Sibling Happy Hour. I'm here with my sis, Jay Andrea. We're going to be breaking down why the world feels unhinged, why men are confused, and why your friends probably shouldn't be driving.
Social Media and Relationships
00:00:56
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But that's enough of the intro.
00:00:58
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Let's get to the show.
00:01:06
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What up, sis? What up, brudda? I can't call it. I can't call it. You hit me up last night. You said you wanted to rant. Yes. I'm going to give you the opportunity to rant.
00:01:20
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Yeah. I'm go give the audience a quick breather before we start leaning in. Because I'm going to be real honest with you guys. The first two segments, it's going to sound kind of angry, but we're teaching you something if you want to listen.
00:01:39
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Yeah. If you want to listen to Larry, we're teaching you something. But before we get to that, I was on my second favorite social media site today, Threads. Mm-hmm. And a woman posted, men only, tell me about the time that you broke up with a girl that you really liked.
00:01:59
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Oh, boy. And one of the posters posted this. I'm paraphrasing because I lost the post. He said, okay. I knew I had to break up with her when we was outside and she spit on an unhoused person.
00:02:14
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That unhoused person started crying and I felt incredibly bad. i gave the unhoused person $20 and I broke up with her right after we had sex in a three-year relationship.
00:02:29
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You know,
00:02:33
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honestly, sometimes people just ain't worth a damn. that that And no so that's two people that's not worth a damn. no ah So they deserved each other. They saved us for three years.
00:02:46
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Three years. of having to deal with two people who ain't worth a damn. Ain't worth a damn. Not a damn. Okay. I wanted to do that little thing as a little palate cleanser before my sister goes into a rant.
00:03:00
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So, Jay, the floor is yours. I don't know that it's
Talent vs. Hard Work: A Debate
00:03:04
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so much a rant because truly it is a rant. No. Yeah. No, it's a rant because i you you sent it to me yesterday. so it's a rant.
00:03:12
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Do I remember all of it? You might be able to fill some things in because I was i was in the middle of the rant to myself alone. Yeah.
00:03:24
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And then I said, this is, I gotta send this to you. So it was, the rant was triggered by a Instagram reel.
00:03:35
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And it was some infotainment show. I don't know. it was a two British gentlemen um and an American woman.
00:03:48
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Okay. And the the start, like the prompt for the discussion was there are a lot of men out here who feel like women's expectations are too high. They want a man of six figures and six feet and all of this. bu up up up up Her argument was, no, no, our standards aren't too high.
00:04:14
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You all are inept. I've been on dates. And y'all are not emotionally intelligent, let alone emotionally available. You're not going to therapy. You're not healing.
00:04:30
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And the other guy just goes off, right? No, women are delusional, right? And that's the problem. She's arguing, no, women just have a choice now.
00:04:44
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They can just say no to you. Like, they can just, we don't have to, be it with you. And it made me think about particularly people in the manosphere, but really anybody that hides behind, in my opinion, like, say, for instance, the folks at the manosphere. I feel like they hide behind this idea of traditional gender roles and masculinity and and alpha male stuff to hide the fact that they suck.
00:05:17
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Jay, did you read the rundown? Yeah. Okay. So, you know, we're talking about all that stuff in the second segment, right? Yeah. So this is going to lead into that. Okay. We got a long way to go before we get to the second segment, but I thought yeah the rant was that people suck.
00:05:33
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Yes. This is what the rant. I just said that. Okay. All right. I said they're hiding behind these things because they suck. right And that we need to start telling people that they suck. Like, we need to really start telling people, hey, this doesn't have anything to do with you being a man. I don't hate men.
00:05:56
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I got two grandfathers that I loved, a father,
Political Extremes and Public Figures
00:06:01
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brothers, uncles, cousins. i I love men. I don't like you because you suck. You're a garbage human being. It has nothing to do with the fact that you have a penis. What it has to do with is the choices that you are making.
00:06:18
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The choices that you're making on how you want to live your life and how you want to act or interact with the opposite sex. But you suck. Your character, your heart, it's trash. It's garbage. You're garbage human being. Your soul looks like a small lump of coal.
00:06:35
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You are terrible. And you're horrible. And here's the thing. Not terrible and horrible. Yeah, both. We have to start because one comes from terror. The other comes from horror. You think it's the same thing?
00:06:51
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it might be. i don't know. I think just keep going. Okay. But what telling people that they suck does for people who actually hear it, right?
00:07:03
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And really kind of like internalize it and really sit with it, which a lot of people don't do. But what telling people they suck does is it triggers the question in their minds of, now that I know I suck, now that i know I'm a trash human being, am I going to continue to suck?
00:07:26
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Or am I going to do something else? so that maybe I suck a little bit less. Because what I was telling you in the rant was, we there is a male loneliness epidemic, not a female one.
00:07:40
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In fact, the research is showing that single women compared to women married to men live longer and report higher contentment across every area of their life.
00:07:55
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Men, on the other hand, when single versus being married to a woman, when they are married, they live longer and report higher contentment. So you see the inverse relationship there? We don't have to say yes to you anymore.
00:08:12
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We can actually have our own bank accounts and jobs and homes and all of these things. So we can all we just say no. And here's the thing. We're not going to argue with you no more. Ladies, I appreciate y'all that's been in the trenches arguing people down.
00:08:30
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Like, hey, no, treat us like human beings. And I'm not talking about the larger political issue of sexism. I'm just talking about people's crappy behavior. ok OK, we don't have to tell them anything anymore. We can just keep saying no, because the question that I really wanted to ask those guys that were on the panel.
00:08:51
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was as you're yelling at this woman about how women are delusional, I want them to really ask themselves rhetorically, do I look attractive right now?
00:09:04
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To the female audience that's watching me, do I think I look attractive to them?
00:09:11
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Or are they going to look at that and say no? The longer that you stand in a corner crying, woe is me, and pointing the finger at everybody else except looking at yourself, the lonelier you're going to remain.
00:09:27
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Because you're choosing not to change. Because you are choosing to
Gender Roles and Modern Dynamics
00:09:31
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suck. Women do not hate men. They hate you. You specifically in particular. Not you, Bruce. I'm talking to the audience. You.
00:09:39
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If it applies to you. Yeah, if it applies you. If it applies to you, they talk em about you. Okay? Just like how it's like that saying, not all men, but always a man. Right.
00:09:50
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is to talk um It's you. You're the problem. It's not all men. It's you. You suck. and As long as you continue to suck and not listen to the words that are coming out of my mouth about how how just piss poor of a human being you are.
00:10:10
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And this thist is not reserved for men. I would want to make that clear. Like I said at the top, this can go for anything. You can... Say say ah you're in MAGA, right? Oh, people people hate me because ah because of my political leanings, because I'm Republican, because I'm conservative. No, people hate you because you suck, because you made choices that are harmful to other communities and honestly harmful to you.
00:10:41
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You're a garbage person. That's why we don't like you. it Honestly, it don't have nothing to do with your political leanings. i I could not care less if somebody is conservative.
00:10:53
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Okay? But when you choose to align yourself with somebody like Trump, like you made that choice, that makes you trash. Okay?
00:11:06
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that makes that That is the reason why you suck and we don't like you. And when you go abroad with your MAGA hat, you get all of these intrusive questions and stuff from the folks in whatever country you're in. I saw a lady on Instagram upset. She went on a trip to Ireland and everybody kept asking her who she voted for. Meanwhile, she never said in the video who she voted for. So that we all know now who you voted for because you won't even say it out loud.
00:11:36
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Because even you know you suck for making that choice. We need to start telling people they suck. We got it. I heard everything that you had to say, and I agree with like 99% of it. Mm-hmm.
00:11:53
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hu I just want to point out. Yeah. I... often talk about how much I love telling people about themselves and you be saying that I'm wrong but now you're saying it's okay to tell people that they suck no I don't ever say that you're wrong what I say is you consider your opinion to be the objective truth so to the point where you want a superpower where if you slap someone then they think the way you think
00:12:24
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No, i didn't I never say I think the way I think. I never say I think the way I think. The choice that you want them to make. No, no, no. nope Not that either. What is the power? Please explain it me again. The power is to make them think. the power is to make them think.
00:12:41
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I slap people and make them think. that The reason why you're upset and they're calling these people trash is because don't think. That's what's annoying to you because you have all this evidence that's presented to you.
00:12:54
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Yeah. But you don't want to examine that evidence. It's like these people that are no vaxxers, right? Yes. Years of research goes into it. you ain You didn't even pass high school chemistry.
00:13:07
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Right. But yet you're going to tell me vaccines aren't effective. And then when I ask you, okay, explain your position to me. You tell me, look it up. No, because obviously you looked it up. Explain it to me because you didn't look it up. You're regurgitating somebody else's thoughts that you think is right because you want to believe it. And yes my problem is you're not thinking for yourself.
00:13:35
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and So that's what I want. I want the superpower to when people come up with these, and even myself, I want to be able to smack myself every now and then. Luckily, I got you and other people in my life that that verbally smack me and say, hey, is that the way you want to be thinking about this? Right.
00:13:53
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Like everybody does it. Everybody should be held accountable. I just want the superpower because I feel like I recognize it a lot when people ain't thinking. Like when people, when I ask people, how'd you come to that?
00:14:06
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And it's not logical. Prime example. I had a conversation with a gentleman yesterday.
00:14:12
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Or the other day, a couple of days ago. In the conversation, we talk about Malcolm Gladwell's book, 10,000 Hours. You do something to become proficient at it, become good at right? Malcolm Gladwell, the king of common sense, yes. Yeah.
00:14:25
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And then he was telling me about another book that he read. And in this book, the guy says people aren't born with talent. It's basically ah people work harder and other people make excuses. Now, part of that I do believe in, part of that is people work harder because the example always use in basketball, Tracy McGrady and Vince Carter had more talent, skill, athletic ability than Kobe Bryant. Kobe Bryant maximized all of those things because he worked harder than everybody else.
00:14:58
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But they were still born with talent. So when they yeah said nobody's born with talent, I said, that's ridiculous. There are people that pick up an instrument the very first time and can play it. There are people who can draw.
00:15:10
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I just started singing at five years old. Yeah. I was like... i he and then And then they started moving the goalposts. And they started saying, well, people that can sing, they got an extra tooth. It's something in the background. I said, you weren't.
00:15:22
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had the same number of teeth. Yeah, I was like, you're saying a bunch of bullshit right now. I was like, let's get back on. People are absolutely born with talent. I was like, yeah if people weren't born with talent,
Voices of Marginalized Communities
00:15:33
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then why are some people faster than others? And he was like, oh, well, now you're starting to get in the eugenics. I was like, I don't think you know what you're talking about. Eugenics is a psychological the philosophy that basically white people are more superior intellectually ah and physically and that they should keep on breeding those higher individuals to create the greatest genetic human being. Now,
00:15:58
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Part of that is genetics because people can, attractive people can meet together. Athletes, two athletes, two professional athletes can get together and create an offspring. They're more likely to create an athletic child, but there's still no guarantee.
00:16:14
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But the point I was trying, the reason why I was getting frustrated with this person, and then I just said, wow am i why am I even having a conversation with this person? This person's an idiot. And the reason why I said that to myself is because they're not thinking. I'm hitting them with logic. And they and and they don't want to be wrong.
00:16:30
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yeah Or don't even want to think that they could possibly be wrong. yeah So they're they're combating me. And I'm like, Ann, you're moving the goalposts with your argument. What was your main argument?
00:16:41
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It's like, you don't even remember what your main argument is. I want to get back to this thing where people aren't born with talent. That's a ridiculous statement. i was like, people are born with higher IQs than other people. People have a certain capacity that they have yeah in academics. Not everybody is Albert Einstein. That was a talent. I was like, what you're saying is ridiculous. And then I said something little mean. I said, the only reason why you're saying that is because you haven't found your talent yet. And so since you haven't found your talent, it's easier for you to say,
00:17:10
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You aren't born with any talent. And it's just about working hard. Yeah. And that is a that is a part of it, but that's not all of it. Some people are just born with talent. Yes. People are just born with talent. yes people are born with talent Hard work can overcome a lack of natural talent. Right.
00:17:30
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But the truth is some people are. It makes me think automatically of. um Oh, gosh. The Olympic swimmer. ah the mar Michael Phelps. They've done studies on his body shape and how he's like perfectly designed to swim.
00:17:50
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and and he was... that was the body that that young man... well, he's my age. That man was given. oh That was what the body he was born with. I don't know if both of his parents were athletes, neither here nor there. Yes, some of it was obviously honed through his hard work, but your natural physiology, his natural physiology just being perfectly suited to swimming...
00:18:16
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Just what happens. Yes, it's hard sometimes to acknowledge that. Some people are born with talent and it's like, and they're like I didn't get that.
00:18:27
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I can't play basketball to save my life. Now, it's true that I could probably practice and get decent, but i I'm never going to the WNBA.
00:18:39
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No. and that was I don't have the hand-eye coordination. That was another argument that I had with him that he said, you could do You could do anything and be anything that you want to be if you just work hard enough. And I was like, no that's not true. i remember I know that people said that. And that's probably something nice that you want to say to your kids and not damper their spirits and and yes and make sure that they have some ambition and drive.
00:19:05
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However, there are some things that you just can't do. Guess what? I'll never beat Usain Bolt in a race. No. It'll never happen.
00:19:15
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There's now nothing that I could do physically. Well, I mean, yeah, if I want to give myself some metal legs, I don't even think steroids will help me. But it doesn't matter how hard you work. Look, some people are just smarter than I am. Some people will have a better aptitude with like, could I be a lawyer? Probably. I think I could be ah ah a lawyer. I don't think that's an unattainable thing. Could I be a surgeon? No, my hands shake.
00:19:41
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Yeah. My handshake. I can't be a lawyer. It's just the way it is. it So people do suck. Yes. But you understand why people suck, though, right?
00:19:52
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the It's one of two things where I was thinking back ah again about that reel and those two gentlemen that were antagonizing this one. was GBN News.com.
00:20:05
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It was gbmnews.com backslash your say. And it was a young lady and two men. And the thing when I saw the reel that really pissed me off, and when they asked, what do you do to make yourself, you know what do you think men should do to make themselves better in your eyes? And she just listed off a couple of things. Be more yeah intelligent. Go to therapy. And the guy says, that's what women do. Men don't go to therapy. And to that man, who is an idiot, an imbecile, And he slaps.
00:20:36
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Yes. if If you don't want to make yourself better, you're right. Don't go to therapy. Yeah. If you want to be better, because men always like want to be the best. If you want to be the best man that you could be, why would you not want to improve your emotional intelligence?
00:20:56
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Makes no sense to me. i want to improve every facet of me that I can. Mind, body, and spirit. To maximize my potential.
00:21:07
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Yes. so That's what everybody wanted to do. Maximize their potential. Be the best person that they could be. So that man sucked for one of two reasons. Okay. Either one, he truly believes what he's saying. I think he believes what he's saying.
00:21:20
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Or two, he doesn't and he's saying it for the money and the likes or clicks or whatever. He's saying it for the fame. Either way, both of those things, you suck.
00:21:33
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yeah Because either you're being ignorant or you're being willfully ignorant. Well, no. It's ignorant. Ignorant, willfully ignorant and greedy.
00:21:46
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Right. yeah Yeah. But, you know, people are greedy. Right. But I wish I could have asked. People will sell out for money. I wish. And Homegirl was, I applaud her. Again, i applaud the women that's in the trenches really trying to educate.
00:22:03
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Okay? I applaud anybody that's in the trenches really trying to educate. But we got to stop. We got to stop. Because honestly, what I would have said in the calmest voice in that moment would have been, do you think you're attractive to women right now?
00:22:19
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Because they're watching you. We're on television. This is going on social media. as a Do you think you look attractive? No, you don't. Because you suck.
00:22:31
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All we're going to get more into men and dating. But I told y'all, ladies and gentlemen, because we are only doing one show a week for this month because I need a little river little bit of a break, that the show is going be slightly longer, not this damn long, because we're still in the first segment. And we got yeah one other thing we need to get to in this first segment. And it's about another person who sucks.
00:22:53
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Our favorite suckiest person that we love to talk about because they suck so much yeah is the current commander in chief president of the United States, Donald J. Trump. Why does he suck? All right.
00:23:07
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This month alone, Donald Trump. Just this month. Just this month. And we are it fit this head we did we're filming this on tax day. This is yeah dropping on the 17th. Halfway through this month, this is what he had done done.
00:23:20
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All right. He then started a public feud with Pope Leo the fourteenth after the Pope criticized the U.S. military actions towards Iran. He posted a Jesus AI image.
00:23:32
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Then he took it down because of all of the backlash. But then later said, oh, he thought it was a doctor, not Jesus. And you know what? He posted himself as Jesus. Yeah. You said he posted a Jesus image. It wasn't just a Jesus image. It was was himself. It was him as it was as Jesus. And he then he tried to say, oh, I thought it was a doctor. Now your hands are glowing. But you know what, though? don't think he knows too much, you know, iconic Jesus type of stuff. So he might have. Nope.
00:24:07
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But that was all after. That's not the prompt he put into the AI. That's true. This was after Easter because on Easter, he sent out a true social post where he was talking about taking out the whole civilization of Iran, bombing it back to the to the Stone Ages, but taking down bridges and power plants.
00:24:26
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a Ladies gentlemen, yeah that's what he did within the first... This is before the 15 days. I'm going to say it's the first 10 days. First 10 days of the month of April. It wasn't a full two weeks, y'all.
00:24:40
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into the month. Talk about sucking. Now, look, how in the same week, actually, Easter was when? Easter was the the fourth, fifth?
00:24:54
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Good question. I don't know. It was a Sunday. Because this was actually all in the span of seven days, now that I think about it. You know what? You are correct. Yes, Easter was the fifth. This was all in it the span of a week. Correct. This was all in the span. As Jay-Z said, it was all good just a week ago. This was the span of a week. And in this week, the man that certain...
00:25:21
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Christian rights say were is as as important as Jesus. Some have even said that. yeah They are praising him like he is the second coming. My man, on Easter, before he says, happy Easter to everybody, he has risen. Before he does any of that stuff, he said, I'm going to take out a whole civilization and bomb them back to the Stone Age. That's the first thing he puts out on Easter Sunday. Not to mention he ended he ended that tweet with praise Allah. yes I forgot about that. He did say praise Allah. Then the Pope said, hey, look, I don't like what's going on in Iran.
00:25:57
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It's not too cool. He attacked the Pope. By the way, this is a second time he attacked a clergy member. Mm-hmm. they didn't they called the clergy member down to the Pentagon to say, hey, look, don't be talking about the administration. And that clergyman was saying, hey, look, going say whatever I got to say because mine yeah is divine, but divine text. and then And then after all that, yeah right? After all that, then this man posts himself as Jesus.
00:26:31
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yeah Wow. And and For those people who are part of the religious right that knew it was blasphemous, y'all still writing for them? No, they're not. so um A lot of the reporting that I'm seeing is people, especially MAGA and the religious right, are pissed. Well, they he had to take it down.
00:26:57
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They made him take it down. This is that. And I feel like that's the first time he's ever retracted a tweet. No, he took down, the after a while, the thing with the Obamas.
00:27:08
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Yeah. Oh. He eventually took that down. I forgot about that. Yeah, but that wasn't this month. That was last month. Yeah, that was it might have been the month before that. don't know. I can't keep track with him.
00:27:19
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Can't keep track. I can't keep track with him. It's but unhinged. It's unhinged. Everybody was out there talking about Biden. And look, as somebody with speech impediment, I'm scared to death to get older because I saw Biden and I was like, that could be me.
00:27:35
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um Some of that is just... you're you're Your mind moves faster than your words can get it out. And when your words do come out, it's all mush mouth, milly mouth. yeah And it's going to get worse. Mind gets worse if I'm just tired. There are some times I'm filming this show, I'm just tired and I can't talk. So I don't know...
00:27:58
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But everybody tied it to him cognitively sliding. And he's getting older. So, yes yeah. But no, I mean, you hear people on the left talking about, yo, you see these things? you sure this ain't dementia? And it's not getting talked about. The people that ride for him on the right ride for him no matter what. They not backing down.
00:28:22
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But that... Jesus depiction him, him depicting himself as Jesus that riled them up. Now they still s suck because but Because taking away abortion rights or snap from children or bombing children or and and civilians, about all of that, grabbing people by the such and such and all that, none of them Epstein files, none of that, none of that turned y'all away because y'all suck.
00:28:59
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Because y'all suck, it because y'all trash. this This did it. For some of you. For some of you. This did this didn't. Oh, they well this is blasphemous. This is where I draw the line. That's where you draw the line?
00:29:12
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I mean, blasphemy is is a big deal. that's ah but but you But it got to get to that point is what you're saying. That there's a whole bunch of points ahead of time where you couldn't draw the line. It didn't have to go that far. and i And I got to tell you, now, I don't know Jesus personally. I have a relationship with God, but I haven't met him.
00:29:34
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Right? So I don't know. I can't say. But I think that before he looked at a picture of somebody depicted as him, he would probably hate our treatment of undocumented persons, of children, of women, of the poor, of people of color, of ah ah ah Palestinians, of Iranians. He would probably
00:30:06
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Hate that stuff a little bit more than an AI-generated photo of someone pretending to be him. So the fact that that was your line, the bar's in hell.
00:30:19
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Well, you know what I say. It's really tough for people to take that A word into consideration. What word?
00:30:31
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Accountability. That's real tough for people. That is extremely tough. But that's what telling them that they suck does. And you do have a point. Sometimes. And so I reiterate, if they hear it, right? Because a lot of times you could tell people they suck and they're still going to default back to, well, you hate that I, you just hate men. No.
00:30:51
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Well, you just hate that I'm conservative. No. Well, you just hate that I'm white. No. Now you suck you as a person. So if they really do sit with it, then that's when they have to ask themselves the question, am I going to continue to suck or am I going to try to suck a little bit less?
00:31:10
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Yeah. Well, all of that whole segment is a perfect example of people wanting power. without accountability. And guess what? We touched on it a little bit in this segment. going to talk about it more. Dating right now is built on that same contradiction.
00:31:26
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And we're going to get into that next.
Shifting Gender Dynamics in Relationships
00:31:33
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We are continuing of ranting about how men suck. By and large, not every single one of them, but generally speaking...
00:31:45
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clarification okay how people suck no but in this segment we're talking about how men suck oh okay yeah this is the men suck this is a men suck segment got it please don't make me say that again i feel like i should be saying you know Never mind, because this ain't Cam, Ron, and May show. Just say trash if you don't want to. Just just say trash.
00:32:12
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Trash? Men are trash. Just to say that. Yeah, men trash. all right, what am I referring to? A Newsweek report highlights a global survey showing Gen Z men are more likely than baby boomers to support traditional gender roles while simultaneously valuing ambitious career-driven women.
00:32:32
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yeah That's right, ladies and gentlemen. They want to maintain traditional gender roles, but they go after the ambitious, career-driven women.
00:32:44
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Why? Because they still want to go 50-50. Yes. Yes. Yes. So Gen Z men are showing unexpectedly traditional values about marriage and gender roles. In a 23,000-person survey across 29 countries, Gen Z men were more likely than baby boomers. I have to stress that again. More likely than baby boomers. Yes.
00:33:09
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That's insane. Right. To say a wife should obey her husband and that a husband should make major decisions. But the same group also showed a contradiction, like I said earlier, because many Gen Z men said women with successful careers are attractive.
00:33:26
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The article frames this as a sign that young men's attitude on gender are more conflicted and less predictable than expected. Before I get into the raw numbers, Jay. Yeah.
00:33:37
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I knew something like this was happening because the manosphere is created by Gen Z men. Maybe some millennial men started it. Gen Z men are expanded it. that They've created themselves. They've made themselves incels. There's a lot of women hating men more than normal because yeah there's always been a lot of women hating men. Now, men will say, I don't hate women. I love women. You love the physical nature of them. They like sex. Yes. With a woman. They don't actually like her. like Her.
00:34:16
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What she has to say. It's always a running joke. Yeah. Like, oh, here she come. Get ready to talk again. Get ready to ask questions. I'm like, bruh, if you don't like talking to your woman, You don't like her.
00:34:28
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Yeah, you don't don't like her. yes It's that old, take my wife, please, you know, kind of Like, it's that old, it's it's a very old story, right? Of like, you marry a woman, but you don't really like her. You wish she would shut up. The honeymooners, he threatened to punch her to the moon.
00:34:48
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To moon. Every episode. Every episode. Look, i I remember I was dating this woman. She's still a a good friend of mine. i just, we always had great communication. Like she was just all, I could, we could, one time, it was actually the day that we broke up, which is funny.
00:35:07
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It had nothing to do with what was going on earlier that day. We sat in her living room having drinks, just talking for eight hours, eight hours. We looked up and was like, yo, we gotta eat. We haven't eaten since breakfast.
00:35:22
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and ah And it didn't feel like talking for eight hours. yeah A woman that I was hanging out with in the fall, She would call me and we would talk on the phone.
00:35:34
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You are my sister. You know, yeah all your life. Yeah. You know, I hate talking on the phone. ah You do. Don't call me. She would have me on the phone for an hour. Didn't bother me because the conversation was engaging. Yeah. I like women. like Yes. I love women um Some dudes would be like, man, why you always like the women and everything? Because I like women and you yeah hate women. yes If women, if men didn't have, if the autonomy wasn't different.
00:36:14
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Okay. Hold on. if if If men didn't have penises and women didn't have vaginas. Right. Okay. Okay. Men would have no use for women.
00:36:27
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Correct. ah I'm speaking... Aside from in ah the capacity of a maid or, you know... Yeah, I'm speaking of those men who hate women.
00:36:38
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Right. And it seems like a lot of these Gen Z men just hate women. Now, i yes like I said, I feel like the manosphere started with millennial men who couldn't get no women.
00:36:49
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Right? Definitely did, yeah. But these Gen Z men have taken it to a whole nother level. Part of it, part of it, is they don't know how to talk to women. And communication is an issue with Gen Z because they communicate differently. Look, ladies and gentlemen, when I wanted to rap to a young lady when I was younger, I had to go up to her blind and talk to her.
00:37:13
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yeah There was no DMing. There was no texting. You couldn't pass a note. There was no swipe left or right. Yeah, you couldn't pass a note because notes, this is a toxic thing,
00:37:25
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Thinking for back in the day, but only women pass notes. Men couldn't pass notes and be like, hey, do you like me? You had to go up to her and be like, hey, I want to talk to you. Doing that passing and failing, you hone that ability to talk to women.
00:37:42
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Yeah. And you realize being turned down ain't the worst thing in the world. Have I been rejected? Of course I've been rejected. that often. Same. Not that often. Thank you, Mom and Dad.
00:37:53
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Not that often. but actually had look Appreciate you more than realize because I see some people out here. I see what's out here in these streets. yeah and That's the reason why I'm single because I see see what's out here for the picking. But had yeah but but um yeah, no, like you get rejected. It's not the end of the world.
00:38:16
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Here's... Go ahead. And then you realize that you have to be engaging. It's easy to be engaging when you text and you you can think about what you want to say before you send it out. When you're right there in full effect and you're talking, you can't take long pauses to be like, oh, what I want to say right here. No, you've got to have a conversation. So you've got to be quick with it. And women like being women like men who are quick with it.
00:38:44
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I think you just can't suck. Like you just gotta have a personality. Like, and that's just something you develop, but I'm going to push back on that.
00:38:55
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Honestly. Okay. Because jen Z women also grew up in this same environment.
00:39:08
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And communication is Also an issue, but like not to that extent. Right. There's more things at play. It's what you said that that I specifically want to hit on. You have to be engaging and engagement comes from your personality, your character, your values, your beliefs. If you're if those things suck or don't exist, then you are not engaging.
00:39:35
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Right. And talking to you is a chore. Right. And so ah I'm just going to leave you on read. Case in point. Oh, Lord, here we go. Fellas.
00:39:48
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Please stop. tech Like, I want you to really honestly make a concerted effort to not text WID. ah Don't do it.
00:40:00
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Do not text W-Y-D. I don't know any woman who gets excited seeing that text.
00:40:13
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One, because we already know you don't give a damn about what we're doing. Because you didn't even take the time to make the question specific. You could have just said, how was work today? I know you had that presentation. How did it go? Now that what say saying how was work today is just as generic as what you're doing.
00:40:36
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But paying attention to what's going on in their life because you actually care. Yeah. And saying, yo, how'd that, not even saying how did work go today? Yo, how'd that presentation go today?
00:40:50
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How are you doing
The Impact of Physical Attraction
00:40:51
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today? How was that presentation? Is Cheryl still tripping at work? Bruh, do you realize when women understand that you are actually listening and paying to them paying attention to them, that is an aphrodisiac? They are more true. The drawers fall.
00:41:08
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And not just because you lost weight. No. ah But if she thinks that you're listening because you are, right? And if she thinks that what's important to her is important to you because it is,
00:41:26
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Draws fall. It's not. it's And you, it is way more likely in life, way more likely in life, that you will see an unattractive or average-looking man with a knockout.
00:41:43
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Every single white sitcom show about a family. Right. you How often do you see a knockout man with an ugly or an average woman?
00:41:57
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Rarely happens. You don't. Rarely. Rarely happens. Like, you will, because I've done it a few times. Yeah. Not ugly, but I've done a few times. But when you see it, like, people call it out. But nobody says anything about King of Queens.
00:42:11
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Nope. Right? Nobody says... Hell, I talked about the Honeymooners. This is really aging me, even though I wasn't alive when the show was actually on. But no I watched Nick at Night. You were Zillenium. That's what happens Yeah. I'm a Zillenium.
00:42:23
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Like... Uh... What was her name? Edith? Edith was the the wife's, the neighbor's wife. Judith? what Something. i can't remember the line, but bop to the moon, whatever. She was a dime.
00:42:40
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a He was a schlub. That just was just a bus driver. Yeah. Nobody ever says anything. all Alice. That's right.
00:42:51
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Yeah. ah So Alice was a dime. Could have done much better. But instead, you know, the times being what they were, she had to make a choice, and the choice was get married to this jerk because at least he's got a city job. Right. I want to get into that, but I want to give some of these numbers.
00:43:13
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Okay. So this survey, funny, was released on nat International Women's Day. So that's that's funny. 31% of Gen Z men say wives should obey husbands. That obey thing just...
00:43:26
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Wow. yeah Versus 13% of baby boomer men saying that. That's considerable. Baby boomers. Yeah. Baby boomers. Okay. That's considerable. 33% of Gen Z men say men should have the final say in major decisions. Versus 17% of boomers. Women across all generations largely reject these views. So it don't matter what generation a woman is living in.
00:43:53
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They say this is stupid. Yeah. But the baby boomers, the baby boomers who you would think would be the most toxic, most stuck in those toxic masculinity ways.
00:44:04
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I actually would, I would say that that isn't the case, particularly now, right? Because a lot of these boomers have millennial children coming of age.
00:44:17
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Mm-hmm. And a lot of millennials are in therapy mike and creating new dynamics with their parents. And a lot of these boomers are now saying, hey...
00:44:31
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i I think what I used to do back in the day really wasn't cool. but Yeah. because no Because my kid just hit me with some logic that I can't refute.
00:44:47
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Right. Right. Possible. Influences is the reason why Gen Z men are starting to move towards the social media narratives, that manosphere, culture wars, and modern dating frustrations. Now, i want to have a larger conversation.
00:45:07
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about about this. i would i As I was preparing to run down, something kept rolling over my head. And it's a theme that goes on in these shows of these people that have these, where you talk about MAGA, these people that are wrapped up in these ideologies that don't want to think. Yeah.
00:45:27
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and and And wrapped up in harmful ideologies. Right. Yeah. And I go back to that video that you sent me where the men were complaining that women were asking for too much. And what women were essentially asking for is for the man to be emotionally intelligent, attentive, have something engaging to say, just anything. Kindness, compassion. These are actually small ass.
00:45:54
Speaker
These aren't um big things. Like the men started making these ridiculous statements. Oh, you got to be above six feet and make ah over $100,000 a year. And there are women who say that, but they're the minority. Don't apply that to the larger generation because that's the larger population of women because that's not what they're asking for. Right.
00:46:15
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Right. Stop taking these outliers and saying this is the thing. It's not. And it's yeah it's a tired trope that a lot of these people are using.
00:46:26
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And they're using it because they don't want change. yeah
00:46:34
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My building during COVID closed the pool. Why? Because it was COVID, right? Yeah, yeah. It's a privilege. It's a luxury. Do we pay for it? I mean, I guess it's included, but it's, it don't have to be included, right? Like it's, it's something that was taken away for a justifiable reason to stop the spread of COVID.
00:46:57
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Yes. People were up in arms and angry. And I get it because you couldn't use the pool. Something was taken away from you. Yes. But for good reason. Yeah. Patriarchy is being taken away from men.
00:47:11
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Mm-hmm.
00:47:14
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They're grown up saying this is this is the way it is and it's not that way anymore. yeah And this isn't a situation where it's like equality. It is something being taken away from them. Now, yes I'm not condoning the selfish nature that they are living, but it is something that that's being taken away from and it's and it's tough to reconcile with something being taken away from you yeah when it's giving somebody else Their dignity?
00:47:48
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Humanity, yeah. Humanity? oh and And honestly, you got to ask yourself, too, what's being taken away? I'm going to get to that. Well, I'll give you my opinion. Okay.
00:48:01
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What's being taken away is the privilege to act like an entitled toddler. Okay. So that's that's leading leading me in to this. to this so People aren't complaining. Women aren't complaining. They're saying this is the standard.
00:48:21
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And why it's so difficult for men is because women didn't have a voice before. Let me explain. I had this older client. Her mom was even older. Her mom loved me, right? White people.
00:48:37
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Her mom loved me. And I really, I genuinely had affection for her mother. Yeah. Yeah. Mother was from the South. And Black Lives Matter protest happens after ah Michael Brown is killed.
00:48:52
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Mm-hmm. Now, for white people, seeing Black people in the street angry and frustrated It's a shell shock. It's like, what's going on? Yeah. Never mind the fact that white people do all ten all the time for things that are trivial. Like you're being taxed on your T or you lose an election. You'll do all types of revolts and destroy things. Or your team loses a game. but Or wins a game, right? Yeah.
00:49:19
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and And she told me a conversation she had with her mother, and I pushed back immediately. And what her mother said was, we used to go to concerts all the time, and there was never any problem.
00:49:29
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I said, do you mean during segregation? You mean when y'all were on the floor and the black people were on the balcony, but we were there all enjoying the music together. I was like, no, they never had choice. They didn't say anything, but trust me, they hated it or else you wouldn't have had the civil rights movement. They couldn't say anything because they would die. Women couldn't say anything because killing your wife at a certain time in this country wasn't a crime.
00:49:54
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You wouldn't even be charged for it. I believe in the 70s, 60s or 70s, it was when it became illegal to keep your life. Matricide. Yes. No, that's killing your mother.
00:50:07
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Matricide. Oh, what is it when you kill your ah your spouse? It's something. Y'all
Public Behavior Awareness
00:50:14
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know what I'm talking about. but I mean, being physically abusive...
00:50:18
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only became illegal. I'm talking about murder. Yeah. I'm about murder. Like, you could kill your wife, it i want to say as early as the 50s? Are we supposed to be saying, like, ah code and words?
00:50:33
Speaker
What are we talking about? Are we allowed to... Because I know some people, they use code words like unalive or something like that. you're talking about for YouTube? Yeah. Or just general. I don't know what the semantics are about anymore. Yeah, YouTube. If I can't, YouTube will flag it. But I'm not going to let it derail me.
00:50:53
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I'm back on my point. Okay. Okay. The reason why people, the reason why you see so many people from marginalized communities, whether it's people of color, women, people in the LGBTQ plus speaking out more, fighting for it is because they can now, because now if they get killed,
00:51:14
Speaker
it's It's a thing. It means something. where It means something. It means something. Yes. So when people are saying people are so sensitive now, whether not people are just speaking up, they've always had these feelings. Always hated it.
00:51:29
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always Always hated it. But not able to say anything about it. And for those people who are not still not grasping what I'm saying, think about what you say as an adult to your parents.
00:51:43
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The boundaries that you set that you would have never done as a kid because you couldn't as a kid. But you can as an adult. yeah So when I give it to you in that context, now place yourself and how you feel, setting those boundaries for yourself with your parents or your aunts and uncles, anybody before, anybody that's older than you that you know that you wouldn't have been able to do when you were a kid.
00:52:07
Speaker
Right. That's how these groups are feeling. Stop complaining that people are saying that doesn't make me comfortable. Yeah. And if you feel attacked, it's nothing that's not them.
00:52:20
Speaker
It's you. You're the one in the wrong here. You suck. by um That person's not the problem. The person who you are harming with your words or actions is not the problem. Being black is not the problem. Racism is. Being a woman is not the problem. Sexism is. Being gay is not the problem. Homophobia is. Like, that's the people who are being marginalized. The people who are being harmed are not the problem. You are. You suck.
00:52:54
Speaker
Yeah. and you are fighting for your life to continue to suck. that's crazy work that That's crazy work. That is crazy work. work.
00:53:07
Speaker
That's insane. And I mean, fighting for your life. It's the hill you would, the guys in the manosphere, boy, it's the hill they will die on. But once again, i understand it. Don't condone it.
00:53:19
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I said I understand it because people don't like change. People really, really do not like change. yeah Even if it's for the better. They don't like change.
00:53:32
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And so there's always going to be some pushback when there's change. But damn it, evolve. That's what evolution is. Yeah, going back to this Gen Z story, though.
00:53:43
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i think the... the um conflict there with they they want ambitious, career-driven woman because they want to go 50-50, but they still want control in the relationship because they want to be an entitled toddler.
00:54:01
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Like, that distinction, like, that contradiction has always, I think, existed in the patriarchy. and ah And I'll explain why. And this is this is largely, like...
00:54:16
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how you have men who want relationships but don't like women, which is also a contradiction, right?
00:54:28
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It's because what they're taught about masculinity is that is the antithesis of femininity. Not only that, anything feminine, you saw the guy in that reel I sent you. Oh, I don't go to therapy. Women do that. Anything feminine, they're supposed to abhor.
00:54:47
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They're supposed to hate it because it is contradictory to what is masculine. So why would you like the person who embodies the traits that you hate?
00:54:59
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But patriarchy also tells you you need a wife to subjugate. Or else how is stuff going to get done around your house?
00:55:09
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Right? So marry but hate her. And that's when you get these did sitcoms and all this stuff where it is clearly a very harmful, very toxic relationship.
00:55:23
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where Where, where the, ah my God, I mean, he hates her. heights Still talking about Honeymooners. Yeah. But there's other shows. There's other ones. There's other. There's plenty of others. They're typically old, though. They're typically old. Yeah. yeah yeah a lot of the new shows are not portraying things like that. the movie They still, like, the shows of the 90s and early 2000s, it was just more men don't hate their wives. They like them.
00:55:53
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but they're just inept. They can't do anything around the house. They don't know how to do anything with the kids. they I just saw a clip from King of Queens, actually, where he came in the kitchen and asked his wife, where are the scissors? And she said, we've lived in this house for 20 years. The scissors have always been in the same place, and yet you always ask me where they are. What if I died?
00:56:13
Speaker
Would you be in here, unable to cut anything, crying in a corner? She was fighting for her life every episode because he couldn't do nothing right. Couldn't do anything. You know what TV show broke that mold? The Bernie Mac show. Because he was doing a lot for such a masculine man who Bernie Mac was. Nobody ever questions his manhood. He was cooking. He was cleaning. He was taking the kids all over. he beat So i love I love that Bernie Mac. God rest his soul. But yeah, you you bring up a really...
00:56:46
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It's always been contradictory. So now the new messaging is, hey, guys, don't spend any money on these women, but they need to be doing everything you say. So get a woman with money, but also one that you can boss around.
00:57:01
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Like, it's always been contradictory. But now women are being like, no, thanks. Yeah. who's these These women, this feminism is making them not want me.
00:57:14
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Yeah. Yeah. Yes, yeah you are correct. gotta better. You gotta be better. the The old, just having a job is not gonna cut it no more, playboy. I know that's what your granddaddy did. i know that might might it have been what your daddy did. It ain't gonna cut it no more because women out here...
00:57:32
Speaker
iless out and outpacing us and everything except for wages where if they're still getting paid less for the same job but they out here taking them they got it they got they don't hate us for that right
Economic Segregation in Cities
00:57:45
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don't need us for they don't even need us for the physical aspect because these damn toys let tell y'all something listen they don't ever get lost down there like some of y'all do let me tell you something man All they need to do is is get about 1,000, 2,000, maybe 3,000 good men freeze their sperm. They don't need us no more after this.
00:58:12
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yeah They don't need us. A lot of women are choosing to be single women by choice because if I'm already going to be a single mom, I might as well be a single mom by myself instead of being a single mom with a spouse who just doesn't do anything.
00:58:28
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But before we end this segment, I just got to say this. I am one of those emotionally intelligent men that has gone to therapy to better himself and to do all those things.
00:58:40
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yeah And there are a lot of times out there women ain't ready for a man like that. They say they want it, but they ain't ready. So yes, men have to get better. But women, when you ask for it,
00:58:56
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you better be ready to accept it. Yes. Because accountability I'm going hold myself to is the same accountability I'm going to hold you to. Absolutely. Anybody can be trash.
00:59:08
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Yeah. Or suck. Anybody can suck. yeah Anybody. But I don't know if it's ignorance, ego, or just plain delusion.
00:59:23
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But when you look at dating right now, It just might be all three.
00:59:36
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Jay, speaking of women who know their worth and are looking for that emotionally intelligent man, oh i have a ah friend of mine.
00:59:48
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She told me a story earlier today and I said, hey, I'm gonna let you know I'm putting that on the show because he wow. Okay. yeah Now, to give you some context.
00:59:59
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Okay. This is a very attractive woman. yeah Face card will never be declined. You leaned very close to the mic when you said that. She is a very attractive woman. She's a personal trainer.
01:00:11
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Body is bananas. T. Just T. Got it. Face card never will be declined. Always goes through. Got it. Funny whole nine.
01:00:25
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I know her because we live close together, same neighborhood, and I love her dog. And her dog did used to love me. I guess he don't be seeing me in enough anymore. But anyway, so we just became friends.
01:00:37
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Yeah. So I forgot why we're Instagram buddies and neighbors and friends and all that stuff. We were sending reels back and forth about something. And she said, I got to tell you the crazy story that just happened to me other day. I said, okay, what happened? So she's walking around my neighborhood with her dog. So she got her headphones on, just vibing to her music. Loves R&B.
01:00:58
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Loves old 1990s R&B. It's the best. And incense. And burning incense. Right? Yeah. So she's walking down the street, minding her own little business, and she's got her headphones on, and she's recognizing this dude is yelling out the window to try and get her attention.
01:01:14
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Mm-hmm. She's not paying no attention to it because she's walking her dog and vibing to her music, but this gentleman is not stopping.
01:01:27
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Well, this gentleman was so... enthralled by her whole being hey that he got into a car accident.
01:01:38
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oh A major accident. It wasn't a small accident. He was so busy driving Looking at her, looking at her, trying to get her attention that he literally and it's the main strip. So I live right off of a ah main road. Yeah. And it was that road.
01:01:57
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And it caused an accident that backed up traffic for a mile. She said it was it was wow like it just dead stop because it it was a major, major accident. I said, you out here causing accidents? She said, Bruce.
01:02:10
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It's crazy because he wouldn't stop staring at me. He wouldn't stop looking at me. He just drove into the car and crashed his car. I was like, wow, that's crazy. She said, oh, I didn't tell you this other story. I said, what other story?
01:02:23
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You got another story? She was like, yeah. I was in my neighborhood walking her dog again. And the cars were coming opposite. Right. So she was walking in the direction of traffic, but on the sidewalk.
01:02:37
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Yeah. And she saw the car coming and the person kept looking at her and smiling, looking at her and smiling. So much so that they weren't paying attention to the road, ran up on the curb. She said she had to pull her dog real fast because he almost ran into the dog.
01:02:53
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Ran up on the curb, blew out his tire. Wow. Wow.
01:03:00
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Steady looking at her. yeah Blew out his tire. yeah Didn't say nothing. Peeled off with a blown out tire. Drove down the road a little bit more.
01:03:11
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Lost control again. blew out his other tire running into the curb. Jeez. And I said, girl, you need to put yellow caution tape around your entire body as you walk down the street.
01:03:24
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She's not the problem. that she She is. She isn't the problem. She is not the problem. Yeah. But she, hey, she should just wear baggy clothes. Look at me being a toxic man.
01:03:38
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Look, if she is as attractive as you say, it's not going to help. It's not going to help. Because a face card will not is not going to be declined. And don't get me wrong. like I've been driving and and drive by. like i air That's my favorite word. When I see, I even accidentally say it out loud.
01:03:56
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Yeah. On the elevator. Did it the other Oh, listen. I'll be like, dang. like No, I get it. Yeah. Okay. This happened on the elevator on Sunday.
01:04:11
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Okay. There's this is young lady lives in my building. She's attractive. Mm-hmm. Too young for me. I got to be 20 years older than her. Yeah. Maybe 15 to 20. Too old, right? Yeah. I would never hit on her.
01:04:22
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Yeah. But she got on, and, like, in our, in my building, people always going down to the little shop to get coffee or whatever, and people walk around in their robes and their pajamas all the time. I don't understand it.
01:04:35
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I don't. But that's just me. So she was wearing pajamas, but she was wearing... house party to pajama jammy jam pajamas. Oh, okay.
01:04:45
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So for those people that don't understand that, their pajamas with pajama top and then shorts. Yes. She got on the elevator. She was like, hey, how you doing?
01:04:56
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i was like, hey, how you doing? Because she knows me because I see you in the gym all the time. Yeah. Push a little button, turn around. i said, damn, fuck.
01:05:06
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so everything ill ca it I got a sharp pain in my hamstring and just like kind of flare it up. them like That's a great thing about being over 40. Nobody.
01:05:18
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She don't know that I'm over 40. Well, I mean, but the thing, that's a great thing, though, about being over 40, because you can say stuff like that. And even my sciatica's and they want. what you Oh, my gosh. Are you OK? Yeah, my sciatica's.
01:05:32
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My sciatica's active up. You got two of them? Yes. No, she got on there, turned around, hit the little button. I said, damn! She said, you okay? My damn hamstring, I done pulled That's the reason why I'm about to go for my walk right now. try stretch it out.
01:05:46
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and I couldn't get you. But there have been times where I've been driving down the road. and like yes I've never gotten into an accident, though. Yeah. And she's literally causing problems on the road.
01:05:58
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I just, that boggles my mind because I've seen highly attractive people, but I'm not going to endanger myself and those around me to simply stare I think that you don't realize that you're doing it. There are times I've got men older male clients will be in the gym working out and an attractive female will be in there.
01:06:23
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And I've got to let them know, hey, stop staring. Because I know, number one, there are some women that want to be stared at at the gym. But by and large, women want to go in there work out and be left alone. Yes, absolutely. And women can feel you staring at them.
01:06:41
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Yeah, we know. There is never a moment where we do not know. Right. Your eyes burn holes. hint to Like, there is never a point. Y'all think, oh, no, I was being slick with. I was pretending like I was looking at my phone. No, we know.
01:06:58
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We know. ah Because of the goofy ass look on your face. I told you by the time I was was was, no, I was in D.C. i was in D.C. And we were at this bar and right across the street from the bar is a famous gay sports bar in Washington, D.C.
01:07:18
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Mm-hmm. So me and our cousin come out of the bar catching an Uber to go back home. Yeah. And there was a couple of guys from the other bar on the corner. Mm-hmm.
01:07:30
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I felt, i because I caught eye contact with them as I exited out. I felt them. yeah staring at me ah here as I opened the car door. It was like, hey, what's going on, pink shirt? i was like, hey, how are you doing? About to just head on home. Y'all have a good evening.
01:07:49
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God bless. but But like women understand it. So I tell my male clients, hey, man, you're staring. I am. Sometimes they don't even realize that they're doing it. hyper aware because of the industry that I've been working in and the environments I've been working in, whether i when I was in the restaurant industry, or gym, what have you, just yeah being a boss, a person.
01:08:12
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I'm being an executive, whatever. You got to pay attention to not stare at people to make sure that they're uncomfortable. So I've trained myself to do that. But a lot of people just don't realize that they out here just staring at folks.
01:08:24
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Yeah. A lot of y'all not only suck, but you creeps too. a But you know what? We've both admitted that we are creeps.
01:08:35
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Again, I've never stared to the point where i've like I would make someone uncomfortable. I've never stared to the point where I endanger myself or others.
01:08:48
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Right. Yeah. Right. Because attractive people exist in the world. Like you're I mean, they they just do. And and again, beauty, all of that is a spectrum. What's attractive to one person would be might not be attractive to another, whatever. But everybody is going to encounter an attractive person if you have your sight, right? Like, that's, like, that is what it is. So it's like, like, get a grip.
01:09:22
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But sometimes they be so fine that you can't. and obviously, my friend, the people that wrecked their cars, they thought that she was so fine that they couldn't control themselves.
01:09:36
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That's insane. is. And you know what? It makes me think that you see this person. i don't think that you're seeing a person. Like, I feel like you're seeing parts.
01:09:50
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Oh, yeah. No, it's all physical attraction. Yeah. Yeah. It's all physical attraction. it's not flattering. It's not. Like, don't... don I mean, unless the a less a woman, like...
01:10:04
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specifically wants you to notice her butt, right? Like, she's got the BBL, all of that, or whatever. You don't be like, dang, got fat ass. Like, that's not a compliment.
01:10:16
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You know? Like, sometimes you can just keep it to yourself. I get that sometimes you just, do it comes out spontaneous utterance.
01:10:26
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get that. just be on the elevator. It happens sometimes. It happens sometimes, yeah. But boy, oh boy. Some of y'all, Some y'all are creeps. Yeah. All right. Before we let everybody out, let everybody out like they had church. Well, I used love it. I used love it when the pastor would say that. Before I let everybody out, let everybody go. Before we let everybody go, something popped up on my Instagram feed. This dude was in Baltimore. Yeah. He was taking a video of Baltimore. Mm-hmm.
01:10:55
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He was walking in this nice neighborhood. Mm-hmm. And in the very next scene, he was walking in a not-so-nice neighborhood. Because that's how Baltimore is. Right. and And I thought that was hilarious because if you don't know Baltimore, most cities are segregated. Segregated in this standpoint. There are the haves and the have-nots. D.C. is like this. You know where the bad neighborhoods are. They even give you a little bit of warnings. Like, hey, be careful because in a couple of blocks up. Right. Right.
01:11:23
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It might be a problem. If you see Lucky's check cashing, turn around. There are markers, right? There are markers that you start to see as you're going down the road. Hey, things about to get a little sketchy. In Baltimore, there are no markers. i The only way that I can explain it is this is not an exaggeration. You could go one block,
01:11:46
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Perfectly fine. Next block, war zone. Next block, perfectly fine. Next block, war zone. It is crazy in Baltimore. Now, they do have neighborhoods where it's just one or the other. But you could be by the harbor back in the day. They've changed the harbor a little bit now. But you could be back in the day by the harbor and just be walking around. Because my ex-wife was in Baltimore. And I was like, we would go walking around like, where are you taking me right now? Yeah.
01:12:14
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I'm scared. Yeah. Yeah. and it It is crazy the way cities end up segregated, like you said, based on economics. Like a lot of people are...
01:12:29
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right I think you think it's race, but a majority of it of the time, especially now, is is division based on economics. That's the main, that's really the main division because since America is a business and it's not a country, it's a business, it hates poor people.
01:12:49
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Yeah, really does. Yeah. More than anything, honestly. More than anything. ah but like And they definitely hate when poor people get assistance.
01:13:03
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You ain't never lied. They're totally fine bailing out corporations. That's fine. But boy, don't make sure that mother and her kids can eat.
01:13:14
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oh She's a welfare queen. Yeah. Yeah. now Jay, what do you want to tell these people before we get out of here? Hey, listen. If my rant pissed you off, if my rant pissed you off, it's because you suck.
01:13:36
Speaker
I knew you was going to say that. I knew it. It's because you suck. Listen to me. Get real close to the speaker or the screen. Look me in the eye.
01:13:49
Speaker
You suck.
01:13:53
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What if they're listening? Get real close to the speaker or the screen, whichever one. Okay. Yeah. You suck. You suck. You're lonely and people don't like you because you suck.
01:14:10
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Do what I'm telling you this out of love. Okay. because I don't want you to suck. The world will be better with fewer trash ass people.
01:14:22
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That's just an objective fact. And you, if my words upset you, it's because you yourself are trash.
01:14:33
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Freedom. Freedom over fame. And on that note, ladies and gentlemen, I want to thank you for listening. And I want to thank you for watching. And until next time, as always, I'll holler.
01:14:51
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