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Speaker: Hello my babes, welcome back to the It's Happening For Me podcast. I am so freaking excited that you are here and today's episode is so juicy.
Speaker: So I have been wanting to talk about this for a while. This is kind of like the basis of a lot of the work that I do. And that is really talking about the difference between wealth and prosperity. And a lot of people think that they have a money block and Sometimes there are money blocks. Like there there is a lot of work that goes into um really learning how to receive money and have a relationship with money.
Speaker: And also sometimes there's this very like simple shift of awareness that can actually change everything for us when we start to view money and the way that we make money in our businesses from this lens of prosperity versus wealth. And so that is what we are going to get into today. And I actually created TikTok about this um sometime this week. And then um i had someone comment on it. So I'm also going to address like her comment because it was just so interesting. So let's talk about the difference. Like what is the difference between wealth and prosperity?
Speaker: So wealth... is essentially the accumulation of resources, of money, of dollars in our bank account. It is really rooted in this energy of taking.
Speaker: And so when we are trying to acquire wealth, every decision that we make in our business is going to be rooted around like, how can I get more? So when we're trying to, um Not even just trying to, but like when we're creating offers, it's like, okay, how can I create this in a way that would make someone want to buy this? um What, like, how should I structure it in a way that would work for them? Great example.
Speaker: I have a client who runs a membership and she had been offering two different um live energy healings a month inside her call or sorry, inside her membership only because she has babes from all over the world. So she has babes that live in America. She has babes that live in Europe and in different countries. And she was really feeling um like a little bit scattered and a little bit like, you stressed out because people were in such different time zones. And so she felt obligated to offer two different sessions at different times during the month um to kind of like accommodate everyone's needs. But what happened is
Speaker: It made her very resentful and she didn't actually have the energetic capacity for that. And it wasn't coming from a place of like, oh, I'm so excited. Like I'm gonna offer two energy, you know, live healings a month in this membership. It was more coming from a place of like, oh, I need to do this in order to provide enough value so that people will continue to stay in this membership and pay me.
Speaker: And it's very sneaky because we can think that it's rooted in service and that it's rooted in helping other people. But the bottom line, was really like, oh, I want to make sure that like I can offer this, you know, the most availability to people so that they stay in the membership so that I can keep acquiring wealth. And when we really dug into it and, you know, thought about like, okay, well, what's actually best for me if I was actually um coming from a place of service, which we're going to get into what prosperity means in a second. But it's like if I'm actually coming from a place of service, then I know that
Speaker: for her, one of her core values is like being with her family, right? So it's like, if she wants to make sure that she has enough time to be with her family, that she's like pouring into her own, her own cup, she wants to make sure that she's in the best energy, um whenever she is doing these energy healing. So if she actually came from it from a place of that and was like, if I was truly providing the best service possible and I trusted that people would just make it work, if they can make it work, they can make it work. um You know, if they can't make it live, then they can watch the replay. Then it would be the best decision to only have one because that's her true desire is to only offer one energy session live a month.
Speaker: So um so going back to wealth, right? Wealth, again, is acquiring something. It is taking something. It is making decisions from a place of how can I do X, Y, and Z in order to get people to pay me and to join my stuff and to like come into my work. um And so what happens is let's say that you start becoming very successful. Like let's say you start hitting your income goals and you start making $10,000 then you start making a month and then month. rooted in the frequency of wealth, there is going to be like no cap to ever feeling satisfied. Okay. Um, the Buddhists talk about this, about like the hungry ghost realm where it's essentially like, you know, you have this like hole in your stomach and you just continue eating and eating and eating. And I also think about my Gene Key shadow, my life's work, Gene Key 54, greed, the shadow of greed. It's almost like, when is it like ever going to be enough? It will never be enough as long as we are operating from the frequency of wealth because there's a feeling of scarcity. There's a feeling of, oh my God, I won't be able to reproduce this. So I'm going to try extra hard to show up. And, you know, it's like, oh my God, I am going to lose everything. It's a feeling of almost like the floor, like,
Speaker: coming out below you and like losing everything. And so when people are operating from this, even if they are making a lot of money, they're not, they might not actually be super satisfied in their business and in their life. They might be, you know,
Speaker: prioritizing the business over something that's actually more important to them, like their family or their loved ones or whatever it is. And um again, it's not to say that everyone who's like a millionaire or you know really killing it online is rooted in this frequency. They might actually be rooted in prosperity, which we're going to get into in a second. And if so, then that just means that they're going to feel really good behind the scenes. And they have tapped into the real way that money and opportunities like want, like want to have a relationship with us in our life. Because the truth is we are all meant to be abundant. Like 100%, all of us are meant to have an overflow. All of us are meant to be in this energy of abundance and prosperity happens. Okay. When we start to align our lives the
Speaker: two the energy of nature, which is aligning our life to the idea of cycles and aligning our life and our business to the idea that we can't always be in summer, right? We can't always be um in the casino on top. I don't even know why I'm using this metaphor because like I rarely go, like I never really go to the casino and every time that I do, I would like never win money. i think I had like beginner's luck. The first time i ever went to a casino, I think I was like, how old do you have to be 18 or 21? How, whatever I went like right whenever I think 18. Um, I remember going and like, um, playing blackjack and having like beginner's luck and winning 60 bucks.
Speaker: And thinking that like I was the richest person in the world at 18, like $60 was like meant everything to me. And so then, um, sometimes me and my friends would like go up. Um, cause the casinos are current, like I grew up in San Diego and the casinos are like a little bit far away, but we do have like five major casinos, but I just remember we would like make a trip of it. It's not even that far, but like we would drive to it. And then, um, ever since the first day, I just like, I never won money again. yeah,
Speaker: Luckily, I never really got um super like into that, knowing that I have like an addictive personality. Anyways. Okay. So let's talk about um prosperity again. So getting back on track cycles, realizing that we cannot always be up. It can't always be summer. We can't always be in a launch. We can't always be um making the most money ever, right? There has to be times where we go into a reflective period. There has to be times in between launches, times in between running offers, times in between, right? It's like, and when we can align ourselves and realize, especially in entrepreneurship, that money will not always be consistent, right? That's just the flow of freaking nature. Sure. Some people,
Speaker: hit a certain income goal each month and they're able to attain that. And that kind of like becomes their floor. That becomes like, you know, that's just like their normal. And so they kind of like, like, you know, tend to fluctuate within a range of that.
Speaker: But if we really do align ourselves to nature, then we're going to realize like there are going to be months that are lower. And instead of making that mean something about ourselves or making it mean something about our business, if we can just accept that like, oh, this is all part of nature,
Speaker: The other thing about prosperity is realizing that we will be rewarded in direct proportion to our purpose. Okay. Again, we will be rewarded with prosperity, which is like money, abundance, opportunities, in direct proportion to our purpose. So it's not about how can I get something from someone? It's how can I fucking give? How can I give and give and give and not from ah a wounded place of overgiving, but genuinely, how can I give and trust the law of repris... What is it? I can never say that word.
Speaker: The law of reprisicity. Whatever that word is. um It's like, you know, it's the cycle. It's like, okay, I'm giving, I'm receiving. I'm giving and receiving. That's what true prosperity is. And so if we want to make more money, the question is isn't what can I do to get people to sign up? It's like, how can I give more? How can I create? And it's not coming again from a place of like, how can I...
Speaker: try to provide more value just to make this valuable for someone. But it really is like, how can I create something so fucking iconic, show up and deliver and give and give and give and facilitate and be in the work, invite people in, ask for the sale.
Speaker: Like all of those things go with like the giving of it. And then we will receive. And when we're aligned to that, we realized that like, we never actually, run out of money like we will will always be taken care of even in the times where you felt like oh no like this month is going to be tight right whether it's in your business a corporate job a service industry job whatever like somehow even if on the times where you thought it was going to be really tight there always ends up like it always ends up working out like people always end up um we always end up finding a way to make things happen and that's because we really will always be taken care of like ah the universe will always take care of us
Speaker: as long as we are showing up and also giving and for people who are just starting out or for people who haven't yet seen a lot of success in their business i think where people get stuck is they start giving right and they give for a couple weeks maybe even a couple days of of consistency or like giving or showing up and then when they don't you know sell something immediately it's like oh well this isn't fucking working So then they really ghost everything and they like stop showing up. They stop offering stuff. They stop asking for the sale. They stop, you know, giving, giving, giving, and they, they just expect things to drop in, but that's not how prosperity works. And so that's the other side of the coaching industry that I think gives a lot of people the ick is this idea of like, Oh, like there's this one cheat code. And like, once you figure out this one, you know, strategy or this one thing, people are just going to be like knocking at your door and like throwing money to you. And it's like, no, there has to be, again, this effort of giving and receiving, connecting, receiving, and it all comes back to people, which I'm going to get into in a second, because this is the question that someone put on my TikTok when I was talking about this. And I thought it was so interesting. So
Speaker: Again, if we look at the difference, wealth is really built by accumulation. It's rooted in scarcity. It's a feeling of like it's never going to be enough. It's stockpiling wealth. It's just like wanting to get more money, more money, more money just to feel safe. But the true safety comes in realizing that we're always taken care of and we will always have enough, right? And it's also not to say that material like things aren't good. Like absolutely. We we deserve to live an enriched life. Like we just um we just finished the...
Speaker: solar transit in Genki 56, the gift is enrichment. Like we're meant to almost live and like get, yes, like, like tap into these like more hedonistic, um, tendencies where we're like, we really enjoy what this earth has to offer. We enjoy the luxuries of the food and we enjoy the great sex and we enjoy the, um, you know, all of the things that can also be deemed as distractions that we can try to like um abstain from, but anytime that we're abstaining from them, they still have power over us. So it's still ah the shadow of distraction. But when we realized that like a lot of these things enrich our lives, like the chocolate cake, it enriches our life sometimes like um the things that we want to indulge in, like it can absolutely enrich our lives. And so it's not about
Speaker: saying like, you know, well, wealth means that those are people who are seeking materialistic things. No, we can still be in an energy of prosperity of giving service in exchange for gifts, opportunities, abundance, and buy really cute, nice shit, right? Like we deserve to have nice stuff. We deserve to ah take like, and this is the other thing. If you do not know what your, um, Pearl,
Speaker: Okay. What your pearl sphere and the jinkies is and the relationship that money wants to have in your life, because the line keynote for the pearl sphere is the exact relationship that money wants to have with us in our life. If you don't know what that is, it's going to be very easy to get off track and to have guilt or to feel like afraid to spend money in the way that money really wants to work in your life or feel like you have to make, you know, this like crazy,
Speaker: you know, huge business where you have teams and teams of people or like create a non-for-profit in order for it to be legitimate legitimate, where that's just not the case. Like only a small, like there's only a percentage of people that are meant to like take their business to that levels. I'm a line one. I'm here to...
Speaker: and But the relationship that money wants to have in my life is simplicity. And so I meant to do what I love to do and get paid enough money to live a simple life. It doesn't mean a broke life. It doesn't mean a not a millionaire life. I absolutely like the Capricorn in me is like, bitch, I will be a multimillionaire. But also Taurus moon. I like the nice things. Okay. And I want to enjoy nice things, but it's going to be in direct proportion. And to me being of service and to sharing my gifts. And so that's wherever I'm like, not loving the dollars in my bank account. I'm like, well, Alyssa, you haven't even been inviting people ah into anything. Like you, what are you offering? Like, you know, if you're not currently offering something right now,
Speaker: There's no way, shape or form that you can be sad or upset or disappointed by the dollars in your bank account. Like you need to be serving people in order for people to invest, right?
Speaker: and that that's the other thing is like so many people online are like build a personal brand like you know just share about your life and it's like okay yeah but you're also if you you're you are a business like you're not a content creator unless you are also a content creator but it's like you are a business and so what are your offers do do i have something if i went to your page right now that i could immediately go and buy it clear what it is is the price there do i know what i'm getting like do you talk about it often? Are you excited about it? Or is it like hiding and like you never talk about it? You know, like all of those things you have to really ask yourself and be very honest because of course you're not making money and and making sales if you're not being of service. And if people don't know all the time, every day, like what you have to offer. And so I find myself in that place where I'm like,
Speaker: Hmm. I haven't really been making sales. Oh yeah. I haven't been offering anything. I haven't been talking about my stuff. Um, uh, yeah, but I am a line one simplicity. And so the relationship that money wants to have in my life is like, I want to live a simple life again to me.
Speaker: That looks like. I want to make a fuck ton of money. I want to live a simple life where like, I love my home and i have a beautiful home and I want to invest in a chef who like cooks good nutritious meals for me. i want to have ah a clean, a person coming cleaning my house. Like, like I want to enjoy, like to me, that's like the finer things in life that like I want to enjoy. Like that's what I would genuinely want to invest my money in. Not so much like for me, It's not so much materialistic things like the clothes or the shoes or the bags. Like I've never really been interested in that. But it's more of like how can I make my life easier? How can I, um the things that really support me, it's like that's what I would really want to spend my money on. And so, and like also eating at the most delicious places all over the world. I love food. I'm a big foodie. I'm a big like coffee girl. So it's like just little things like that, you know.
Speaker: never looking at the price tag on that kind of stuff. It's like, that feels really good to me. Um, and it's going to look different for other people. Some people, this is where it's very freeing. Okay. Because some people, they are meant to make a fuck ton of money so that they can give back to charity. If you're a line four and your pearl spear, so that's like the number to the right of the decimal, then you are here to like essentially Like it's charity. Like you're here to give back and, you know, um get really behind the different organizations and the different non-for-profits that you really love. And like whether that is...
Speaker: you know, it something that has to do with like animals or babies or whatever it is like this or I don't know say those examples, but whatever the non-for-profit stuff that you really love or like the organizations that you really want to give back to, like that is the money, the role that money wants to have in your life. And that's, what's going to motivate you to make money. But someone who's not charity, they might feel like, shoot, I feel guilty that like God, like I feel guilty because I feel like I need to like give my money away to people and like donate to things. And it's like, you really don't like a line three. Okay. Is probably the, if you're a line three here, you're meant to celebrate. Okay. So you're the line three of is the line of celebration. And I think this is where people feel the most relief for my clients because a lot of them have been so conditioned and like, so,
Speaker: um guilt tripped into thinking that money has to look a certain way or like they need to like wait and like save or like hoard their money. and actually, if you have a line three here, you're meant to celebrate life and like have so many different experiences and money just wants to use itself through you so that you can create and celebrate life and have fun. And so that might look like, you know, going on trips with your loved ones that might look like taking yourself to the yoga retreat that you want to go to, like whatever it is for you. But the more that you celebrate money and actually use it and spend it on yourself to enjoy life and celebrate being alive and not worrying about like not
Speaker: like more coming in or feeling guilty for spending it on yourself. Like that's what blocks abundance. So line three is like you're meant to do the fun shit. And the more that you do that, the more money will come. Like that's actually like an abundance ritual for you. was like doing things that you love to do and celebrating life and trusting like more will come as as being of service. So there's six line keynotes. um I would highly recommend booking your prosperity blueprint Jinkies reading. I'm so excited you guys, because I have moved back to live readings. I've,
Speaker: already updated my website on my link in bio and IG for the like prosperity blueprint one, which is the um money and business jinkies reading, which you learn. um I go through your pearl sequence so that you can learn exactly how to do business in accordance to your soul. And like that comes, that comes down to like branding, like your core message, um, the size of offer that like your soul naturally wants to facilitate. It's just so iconic. But for the longest time had done recorded readings because that just felt really good at that, at that season of my life. And I just recently,
Speaker: um was hired to be a resident Jinkies reader for another, another iconic babes business mastermind. Like it's just like the highest honor. And she really wanted to do them live. And I was like, you know what? Let's do it. I'm obsessed. I'm literally obsessed. I immediately went to my website. I switched them to live. So it's just so fun because we can go back and forth and you can actually like receive coaching from me. And I can actually like, we can talk through, you know, what's coming up and it's just, it's so cool. Um, I still need to update the other ones for the Venus and the genius. But anyways, if you want to book your reading, I would love to love to connect with you. Um,
Speaker: But yeah, going like that in that you learn what your your line keynote is for the pearl so you can understand the relationship that money wants to have in your life. But again, OK, so going back, we're comparing wealth to prosperity. so
Speaker: prosperity again is like connecting to the cycles of nature which is just basically realizing like okay it's not going to always be this like same exact steady flow of income unless you're working for nine-to-five salary job or you know somewhere where you get the same exact hours every single week that's how you're going to know you're going have like that steady income but
Speaker: and this is where it gets cool. Your pearl is again, prosperity, the most opportunities for fulfillment, being deeply fulfilled and feeling so alive and offering your services to the world is going to be more encyclical in nature. So this is really like, this really does, um, support my artists, my creatives, my, um,
Speaker: people who are like contractors or whatever people who like you know your income changes like monthly just getting really okay with the idea that it's going to go up and down is going to set you free like truly um and then the really cool thing and this is how i want to address the question that i got on my tiktok so i was talking about how you know prosperity to be in the energy of prosperity over wealth you have to get into the energy of service Like it's all rooted in service and people. And um someone commented, well, what if I don't like peopling? Like I don't like people. And um i kind of laughed because I was like, okay, there's definitely like, there's definitely things in our design that can like point to not being as social, right? To being a little bit more hermity, to wanting to not be perceived as much, to wanting to be a little bit behind the scenes, a little bit more low key. There's so much that we can look at in your chart that can support that. Like not everyone wants to be
Speaker: the shining star face of the brand like personal brand even though i feel like in this day and age if you do want to have your own business I feel like a personal brand is like a non-negotiable like even if you're not the most um because I'm not extroverted at all I am highly introverted but even the most introverted people or even the most hermity like I'm a line I'm a two four so like I have so much hermit energy I'm an individual um culture sphere, line one culture sphere, meaning like um I'm really suited best for like solo entrepreneurship or like really working alone. And then I'm also single definition. So like I do best in my own energy and it almost kind of messes me up to be with other people, which is why I switched to recorded readings for so long. But this is another story, but I just realized that I was, that was when I was
Speaker: The live readings didn't feel aligned anymore because I was calling in people who weren't like so aligned clients. So it just felt yucky. But that's been, I've been serving the people that actually want to serve for like the past like two years. So it's been long overdue. Anyways, there's so many things that could point into your chart of like why you wouldn't necessarily think that you're a people person.
Speaker: But... every, every, every, every dollar in our bank account comes from a person. It comes from a person. So you have to love people. And again, it doesn't mean you have to be the face of everything or like the center of the universe. You don't have to be a coach. You don't have to guide people. You don't have to work directly with people, but then you're going to have to find something that, you know, a mission that you align with. You're, you're going to have company that you, um, believe in that you share the same values with it. So you can do more of like an, um, uh,
Speaker: individual contributor role where like you're not directly working with people and you can absolutely find abundance, success, peace, satisfaction, all of that. So yeah, I just want to make it really clear that like you don't necessarily have to be the one that is directly coaching, guiding, leading, working with the people, but you do need to find according to your design, like what is the best role for you and then align yourself to a company or, you know,
Speaker: a business partner or whatever that has this the same similar values just because your day-to-day isn't going to be directly working with the customer you still have to be a people person like you still have to have to the value of service otherwise it will not be sustainable anytime that you're not like putting the the the service first, right? And to unlock the service, it it comes from the heart. And what happens as well is a lot of people skip the step of
Speaker: I like to say like the heart work, like you have to do the work on opening your heart back up to relationships because everything is relationships. Everything is connection in business. Everything is relationships. If you want to have your own business, you absolutely have to connect with people. You have to work with people.
Speaker: Again, you can find a role to where like you're not directly working with the customer if you genuinely are more like an individual contributor role where you just like to be in your solo energy, which is totally understandable. But you have to have a heart of service and you have to learn to with people in general.
Speaker: in general So this kind of takes me back to the hero's journey. And what's really cool about the Jinkies is there are three pathways to enlightenment. And the first path, the first pathway to enlightenment is the pathway through the self. And this is really going on this journey to awaken, right? Awaken to this idea of like, oh, I'm actually... um You know, I'm actually the soul living in this human body. You have like a spiritual awakening. You probably go really deep into like personal growth and development. And you kind of start realizing like, oh my God, like I'm so different from like all of my friends and family. And wow, I actually feel like very like...
Speaker: I almost feel lonely. You start feeling lonely in your life because you start looking around and realizing that the relationships you have have all built been built on this old version of yourself. And you just don't find the same things interesting anymore. For me, it was like partying, right? Like I, I looked around and realized like, oh, all of my friends, the only thing I have in common with them is like partying and like getting drunk and like going out. But like if we were to remove that, there's really nothing there.
Speaker: Like, because I didn't even know myself. And this is no shade on them. It's just I did not even know myself at all. I didn't know what my interests were. i had no hobbies. i just knew that I liked to drink. And so I went on this personal inner, okay, this inner development journey for probably, like, it was so long. It was, like, 2020... Sorry, I would say
Speaker: to I would say like 2021. So i I went on this inner journey for like six years. I wasn't posting on Instagram. I wasn't posting on Facebook. I wasn't on social media. i was completely alone. I really didn't have any friends. All I did was go to school and work, school and work. And I didn't really hang out with anyone outside of um work. I had my boyfriend who I lived with at the time, George. But other than that, like that was like my only friend. I had no friends. I had no connections. And I found myself very isolated. Okay. I ended up moving back to San Diego from Bakersfield at the time. And, um, I, it was really scary because I was on the sobriety journey and i had stopped drinking at this point for like five years.
Speaker: And I was coming back to where it all started to where I like
Speaker: had all my drinking and like alcohol days and friends. And so it was really awkward for me to come back. And i just like didn't, um, I had already gone, been gone for so long that I already kind of like lost those connections. And so I didn't really like reconnect with anyone. And so again, i found myself very alone. I had no friends and I only had my boyfriend and it was very lonely. I started like at this time I had already gone to like all sorts of things spirituality listening to all the podcasts reading all the books started taking like started signing up for different programs taking different certifications and I just remember I signed up for this one certification and I was like my only intention is to make friends like I feel so alone.
Speaker: And I was still stuck on this whole like personal growth and development journey. And so my intention was like, I just want to make friends. Like I feel so alone. I feel like such a loser. I feel like I have no one to talk to about this stuff because my boyfriend, um, he's not into this stuff, right? Like he's not on the spiritual path. He's not into astrology and human design and all of the things like he quite the opposite.
Speaker: I had no one to talk to about this stuff. I felt so alone. So I started making friends online. I started joining things, started trying different masterminds, different programs. And I started making friends online. And then started learning how to like be myself in real life. Started posting on Instagram, started my business, started my um business Instagram account in 2021. And then, yeah, it just went from there. And then I just eventually started meeting like all my new friends and like-minded people. And then...
Speaker: From there, I would like hang out with them in real life and then make these real life connections and friendships and like growing my business and I'm obsessed with all my clients and like, yeah, it's like it just slowly happened over years and years and years like it took years.
Speaker: But this is my point. we can't stay and We can't stay on an island forever. We can't stay alone forever. We can't have these spiritual awakenings and become these like awakened beings and then like stay alone and away forever because that's not like that's not the point of life. And i think some like new age spirituality bullshit kind of tries to like make it seem like it is. like Oh, you should cut off your friends and family or, you know, I see it's it's just weird out there. Like I see people getting recommended that they like cut off their friends and family if they're not also spiritual.
Speaker: And it's like, no the whole point is to come back to the heart and relationships are the greatest spiritual things. um training ground. And I promise I have a point to this. This is all rooted in prosperity. Okay. Not wealth, but prosperity. and this is going to help us, you know, ultimately make more money is through being of service to be of service. You have to learn how to open your heart again. So the Venus sequence in the Jinkies is all about okay, I was on this island. Now I want to go back into the real world. Well, i have to start somewhere. I'm going to start with my current friends and family.
Speaker: They trigger the fuck out of me. So how do I learn how to just like be with them and like be a good person and not try to not like default to just like cutting people off all the time because that is immature. Like That is not growing spiritually. That is just like running away from all of your problems because the truth is the things that trigger you from one relationship to the next are going to be in the next one. It's not the guy. It's not the boyfriend. It's not the girlfriend. It's not the friend. It's not the boss. It's not the mom. It's not the mother-in-law.
Speaker: It is us. Like it is us. It is our triggers. And it's our responsibility to understand what are our patterns? Like what are our shadows that we were imprinted with in the nine months of gestation that we were in our mother's wound? That's our greatest core wound. What are our patterns from, you know,
Speaker: zero to seven. What are our patterns from seven to 14 years old, 14 to 21, our inner child, our inner teenager wounds? What are those? What is the shadow? What is my mental, emotional, and spiritual loop that just keeps me looping over and over again? Because again, if you're having difficulty in relationships anywhere at work, um, in your own personal relationship with your friendships, um,
Speaker: Like guys, it's not the people around you. It is you. And I can confidently say that because it is me. And I learned that. I learned that very quickly when i was alone for like six years. And I was like, okay, I have to go back into the real world. And now I'm like dealing with different relationships, different dynamics, different people, different bosses. And like I had to learn the stuff that is mine because it ultimately is us.
Speaker: Like it ultimately is us. And you know why? There's this thing called the Eden loop. And what this is, is anytime that like I am...
Speaker: emotionally ah triggered. Let's just say someone triggers me. Right. And I'm going to, I'm going to naturally go into like my emotional trigger, which is going to be this like kind of like, um, like backlash or like this, like instant, um, like an instant reaction to someone.
Speaker: for some, it's it's different for all of us. There's different ways that it could show up. Mine is like being mean. And so it's like, I can say like a really mean thing to someone that's going trigger their emotional pattern. And now they're going to say something mean to me that mentally triggers me. And it just keeps going back and forth. It only takes one person to break the loop. So it only takes one of us to like really change relationships. So like, as long as we're like, you know, being ourselves and being our our highest self, it does change other people as well. Because now we're giving them this different version of ourselves and it gives them an opportunity to respond in a different way as well. And anyways, so it's like through the Venus sequence, we really learn like what our patterns are so that we can become a healthier, more loving, open individual and not have these guards around our heart where we just feel like people are out to get us or, you know, everyone hates us or like...
Speaker: Everyone's annoying or like, oh, we always must be doing something wrong and really staying in the victim because that's ultimately what it is. It's like a victim frequency that we we just fucking stay in and we don't want to stay in that. Right. So having the self accountability, learning what those are, moving through it And again, using this as an experiment to just show up in a different way every time, use the tools that you have, whatever. So then.
Speaker: We learn how to be in communion with other people because guess what? Again, we need other people. If we want to have dollars in our bank account, we need other people. We need to get along with the people at our at our workplace. We need to have a positive work environment, right? Like we spend...
Speaker: I would dare to say 80, I'm just making this up, but I would dare to say like 80% of our time, um, we spend at work, especially if it's like 40 hours a week. If you have your own business, then maybe you, maybe you aren't, um, you know, working for a boss. Maybe you don't have coworkers, you have clients, you know, and,
Speaker: Oh gosh, like having client issues is the number one way that your business is going to go fucking out of business, right? Like if you don't know how to handle your own triggers and you're projecting that onto your client, who's paying you to be the leader and to teach them and guide them and hold the space.
Speaker: I have the craziest stories, you guys, of the absolute off the wall, bonkers, crazy fucking shit you like being in a mentor space who was completely off her rockers.
Speaker: And I also have multiple people that can cooperate like the stories that I have for you. And I spent an exuberant amount of money in this, on this bitch. Like, and again, but I needed to learn that I was pedestalizing a mentor and I needed to learn how to come back into my power and how to come back into my voice and how to be like, Oh, I don't actually need this from this person. Like I need to actually be the authority of my own life. It was this whole thing. But um anyways, it's just crazy because we will keep attracting people that come into our life to create drama, to show us what we need to learn about ourselves, the things that we need to change about ourselves, the behaviors we need to change about ourselves, the things that we need to start doing, stop doing. It will be reflected into us by...
Speaker: the quality of our relationships and it's all on us. It is all on us, baby. Like who we are attracting is on us and how we navigate that and move through that. Like we're either going to, again, attract people who are here to bring drama in our life where it's just like, we're both creating drama back and forth or people who are here to assist us in living our Dharma.
Speaker: And in your Venus sequence, your attraction sphere tells you that exact thing for me. My shadow is um weakness and it's like really based on like gender roles. And so for me, like when I used to attract mentors from the shadow, I was attracting people that I really put like on ah on a pedestal and I felt like they had all the answers for me. I was like, oh, like they're going to solve my business problems. Like, I'll just pay them. And like, all a sudden, and I'll have all the clients, I'll have all the business, I'll have all the money. And then i shortly realized, like, that's not how it fucking works, you know. And so I had to learn that. And then now i through the gift frequency of equality, i have attracted the most soul aligned mentors that I'm obsessed with soul aligned, soul aligned that I would like, like they are
Speaker: just like my dream people and they give me exactly what I need and it's not this energy coming of like from like telling me what I want to hear or because they're so easy to be with it's just like no I genuinely love them for my entire heart my heart is so open and I've received the best results because these are like soul aligned people that I've that like are meant to be in my life to help me But I had to first heal that wound so that I wouldn't be attracted to the people that were speaking to my shadow. Right. And this also, this goes so deep, you guys, this goes into psychology. This goes into like copy, like pain point marketing, like all of it. And it's, it's far beyond just the words that we're saying. It's like the frequency that we're putting out and like how we're positioning ourselves to attract like soul line clients or not. Anyways. So yeah,
Speaker: Once I i like learned, okay, I went on this journey. I learned how to open up my heart again. And I didn't know. I didn't have the map. I didn't know about the gene keys at this time. i didn't have a fucking map to my hero's journey. So I was just raw dogging this, as many of us are. And I was just learning things about myself, having these realizations, learning how to show up in relationships, learning how to communicate when...
Speaker: to friendships and to new friendships when I felt like I needed more of them or when I felt like my feelings were hurt and learning how to like not avoid those conversations but actually tell them and to accept them and to understand them and all of the things right and now I have really great friendships oh my god and My relationship with my mom and my brother is like so much better because I understand my triggers and I understand how to be a better person, a better daughter, a better sister. My relationship with George is better than it's better than it's ever been. Like...
Speaker: It truly is like understanding these things about ourselves and making these like tiny little shifts. And when you have the map to your hero's journey, AKA your gene keys, hologenetic profile, it literally already names your shadows for you. So like you get the instant awareness and now you're no longer like questioning it or like in the dark or like wondering, it's just very obvious.
Speaker: Um, so once we go on that journey and we've like opened our hearts to love in relationships, now we get to the good part, which is the pearl. Okay. And this is where the prosperity piece is really going to come in. Now that we, now that I am stable in my purpose, I'm stable in who I am as a client, as a mentor, as a coach, as a guide, as a friend, as a daughter, you know, basically being in relationships with people.
Speaker: I can now go out into the world and give my greatest core gift to the the collective in in in exchange for ah opportunities, abundance, and of money. So because I'm being of service and I'm giving my gifts to the world through my business, I am receiving opportunities, money, fulfillment, being deeply fulfilled by the work that I'm doing. And again, our gene keys literally tell us it is a map that is paved out for us. Our pearl sequence tells us our exact core wound that we're here to alchemize exactly like the core talent we're here to give to the collective. And it teaches us that we have to have courage. Okay. We have to go on this path called the pathway of the initiative. And it's taking the initiative to be like, guys, I have something really fucking cool for you. So again, if you don't love the dollars in your bank account, I would ask you this.
Speaker: How often are you exercising the muscle of courage? How often are you going out and saying, Hey guys, I have this thing. How often are you shooting it from the shouting it from the rooftops of like, guys, I have this thing. I have this fucking modality that I'm obsessed with. It's completely changed my life. I want to change your life. Hey guys, I've healed this thing in myself. I want to help you. Hey guys, I found out this, whatever it is,
Speaker: Maybe it's like I lost 100 pounds and like now I'm going to, i want to tell you how you can also lose 100 pounds. Hey guys, I survived like the worst heartache of my life.
Speaker: This is exactly how I fucking survived it. Let me help you. It's like we take our pain and, but it's not just our pain. It's like our greatest gifts. It is our life experiences. And we now go give it to the collective. For me, my biggest my biggest shadow is inadequacy. Feeling like I don't know enough.
Speaker: Bitch, I have been studying human design in the jinkies for years. And for so long, I did not feel good enough. But guess what? I always had the courage to just like share where I was from, like where I was at Again, I'm a two four in human design. So the two is very much like the easy breezy genius. It doesn't really like know how I know all this shit. I was offering for readings for free to my friends and family. And then I was doing paid readings. And then I was increasing my prices. I look back on the readings that I did in 2021 and they are dog shit. They're so bad. But you know what?
Speaker: those people still got something from it okay those people have still got life-changing things from it I still get like people still tell me to this day how it's changed their life and now guess what after what is that like five years of like doing readings over and over and over again and harnessing my craft and learning more but not being a victim of learning I didn't just like wait and be like oh I can't I'm not good enough yet I'm not an expert yet like let me wait let me learn more Bitch, I've been teaching. I've i've been making the the shittiest freebies. Like I look back on a freaking freebie that I made that was so embarrassing. And I think this was like not even that long ago, maybe like 2023. It was shittiest crap.
Speaker: it was the shittiest crappiest freebie that I like put so much time and effort into that probably didn't help anyone. But now in 2026, I can have the most iconic freebie because I've been flexing the muscle for years of like putting my work out there, creating, trying. It's going to be shit. Your work is going to be shit at first.
Speaker: But my shadow of inadequacy, the gift is resourcefulness. And so it's knowing that there is a well of information, of experience, of knowledge. Like I have all the answers inside of me. I just have to trust and it will come out. I just have to tap in and trust and it will come out. And I have to do that through courage. So i help other spiritual entrepreneurs who feel inadequate.
Speaker: literally tap into the resourcefulness within them to realize that like no one can do it like them how do i do it through the jinkies through the akashic records through showing you your exact map to prosperity so again the key ingredient here in like you know being prosperous one of the key ingredients in my opinion and the most important one is courage do you have the courage to tell people hey i have something really cool hey i have something that will change your life hey like conviction, having the conviction of like, this will help you. This will help you. You're helping people a couple steps ahead of them.
Speaker: You're helping people a couple steps ahead. Absolutely. Your shit. It will work.
Speaker: If you want to pivot and you want to start speaking to a different type of person, maybe you're already really successful in your business, but you're so drained by the current offers that you're facilitating or the type of person that you're helping and attracting, but you're so scared to pivot.
Speaker: Can you have the courage? Can you have the courage to realize that if you actually did stop taking on the clients that completely drained you, you would have the capacity and the energy to serve the people who need your medicine for this next level of their...
Speaker: growth and by being in a container with them and you facilitating it and helping them and supporting them not only would they grow to like the next highest potential that like they could have never unlocked without you you will be so fulfilled you will feel again like you're not working but you're like living and like having fun and doing this for free Like our soul work will feel like we would do it for free. If it doesn't feel like you would do it for free because it's so fucking fun, you're either helping the wrong person, you're solving the wrong problem, or you're facilitating stuff in a way that doesn't align with your energy.
Speaker: And that is what I do. That is what I help you do. i help you realize like, what, what is it? How can we slightly tweak it How can we look at your blueprints and tweak it so that it does feel good?
Speaker: And then how can you just give into the experiment and just like fuck around and find out?
Speaker: That's what I do. And it really works. So again, prosperity comes... Prosperity is different from wealth. Prosperity is not stockpiling resources and trying to get more money. It's like, hey, I have like the coolest thing ever to offer. I'm so passionate about this. I'm so excited. I'm so in my zone of genius and being so obsessed with it.
Speaker: And people will be like, fuck yeah, please give it to me. Take my money. Like, please. But it also requires courage to be like different, to be weird, to not be like everyone else, to not do the same boring stuff that everyone else is doing.
Speaker: Because the coaching industry is boring. It's so boring and lame. And I know you guys know that. I know it gives you the ick too. And I see so many spiritual people that are so gifted, almost like keep staying on the sidelines.
Speaker: Or not shifting because they're so entrenched in like the coaching industry or they think things have to be a certain way or whatever. and it's like it absolutely doesn't like it really doesn't.
Speaker: And you can make way more money and be way more prosperous by being of true service and alignment to your soul. And the only way, in my opinion, that you can actually get there quicker, okay because you can absolutely just like experiment it out. But to get there quicker, it's like looking at your energy, looking at your human design, looking at your gene keys.
Speaker: It's like if you had the cheat codes to the universe, why the fuck wouldn't you access them? Like, I don't know. That's just crazy to me. That's like, like, I wish I had this way sooner. i mean, honestly, no, I think everything probably just works out how it's supposed to. But I do wonder sometimes if I knew this sooner, how would my life look or like, where would I be now?
Speaker: And also there is no, you know, There is no real, it's not like it's like a rat race where there's a finish line. There is no finish line. So how can we enjoy the journey?
Speaker: But to enjoy the journey, you have to like what you do. You have to feel like your work is being recognized, right? You have to feel like fulfilled by your work that people are actually experiencing it. So the main thing that I see of people who are not making the money that they want to make in their business is like they're just not being recognized for the work that they do.
Speaker: And it's because that is a, that is a, um, a per like, um, not projection in terms of like projecting onto someone, but projection in terms of like your voice, like it's a projection and communication problem of like, you're not clearly communicating what you do, who you help, how you help them.
Speaker: And it's, it's distorted. You're not speaking. And like the core truth that your soul came here to share because it's an antenna. It's like an antenna when it's turned on,
Speaker: to the appropriate, you know, radio station, then your people, your raving fans, your friends, your, the people who are dying to pay you, they're going to hear you. And they're like Oh my God, take my money. Whenever I buy something, you guys, I don't need to get on a call with someone, which sales calls aren't bad. They, they do work. And like, maybe some people do need them for certain things.
Speaker: But like when I invest in myself or if I like buy something, I'm just like, I just know I, I just want it and I just buy it. And like, that's how a lot of people are. I know there's a whole like buyer psychology and like, there's so many, you know, different types of buyers and they all need different things, whatever. Yeah. Like, I'm sure that's true, but also to be magnetic as fuck. It's just, your person just knows, like, I'm obsessed with you, bitch. Like take my money. I'm obsessed with you. I need you in my life. It's not even so much about like what you can give them, but it's just being in the frequency of being with them. They know it's going to uplevel their life and they just want to be around you.
Speaker: And how abundant is that? That it's not even like proving your work or over explaining yourself. It's just like, this is the energy that we're in. And we are energetic people and beings and people do right off of our energy.
Speaker: Like that is what it is. That's what they're signing up for. That's why someone with dead ass energy is is not going to sell shit. Who wants to work with someone with dead energy? oh my God. As a recruiter. And this doesn't mean you have to be the loudest person in the room. It doesn't mean you have to be doing TikTok dances and trends. No. I mean, energy. Can people feel you and the way that you're meant to express yourself? Also, this is your brand archetype. We also decode this. It's like, okay, as a recruiter, i know in, I know a negative, negative five seconds, if I'm hiring you or not, unless something really changes by like something that you say and whatever, I can read energy so quickly
Speaker: I don't care. and I work in the automotive industry. I don't care if you know about cars. I don't care if you've been a mechanic for 10 years and you know how to do brake changes and all of this shit. I don't give a fuck. Because guess what?
Speaker: You don't need to know anything about cars to work where we work. You know what we look for? We look for energy. We look for personality. We look for people who are... charismatic we look for people who can carry conversations we look for people people we we even say this this is why my my career is so aligned with me you guys my nine to five is because we're even though i'm in the automotive industry we say we're in the people industry we are people first we don't give a goddamn if you can change the oil because guess what we can change we can teach anyone how to change the oil
Speaker: Okay. But what we can teach someone is how to have a great attitude and how to really care about people and to want to genuinely like help our customers and give them the best experience and build trust and let them know that like, Hey, we got you. We know that your car is your second biggest investment next to your house. We know that you use your car to drive your children to school. We know that you drive your car to go to work to make money, to put money on your tables for your family. We know that your car is so freaking important. And guess what? We're going to take care of it. We value you. And we're also going to take care of your safety and our safety. And so we look for people who have great customer service, who will create the best client experience and make people feel safe and cared for safe.
Speaker: Like you really can't teach that. And a lot of people who want to be mechanics or who are mechanics, they don't like people and that's fine. They like cars. And guess what? They can go continue to be a mechanic at an auto body shop where customer service is doesn't matter. Right?
Speaker: But we value our people and especially being a full drive-through oil change facility. Like we're like performing on stage and you need to love people. And I can tell in negative five seconds if you love people or not by your energy. I can literally tell. I can tell by the way you carry yourself, by the way you introduce yourself, the way you say your name, the way that you like walk up, the way that you greet us, your eye contact, your gems, you know, gems like gestures, eye movement,
Speaker: smile, all of that. Right. So it's like, how are you carrying yourself? Same thing with our business. Oh my God. Have you ever thought about that? If we're, if prosperity, if prosperity is all about, is all about service and people and, you know, services has to do with people. So really if if money has to do with people, how, how is your energy?
Speaker: How are you showing up Are you in a good mood, girl? Are you stressed out? Are you mad at the world? Are you cynical? Are you stressed out and sad?
Speaker: Or are you fucking excited? Are you fucking passionate about what you have to offer? do you have dead energy? Are you like, oh, I have this thing like bubble bla blah, blah, blah. Or you're like, oh my God, guys, I have this thing. Again, it's not about being bubbly. You don't have to be bubbly. You don't have to be the most like energetic. You don't have to talk fast. You don't have to be the authority type energy, but you have to be your energy. And again, your brand archetype teaches you this.
Speaker: in your gene keys, which I also go over in the prosperity blueprint gene key. And like when you tap into this and you understand what yours is, you stop trying to be like everyone else and you just stay in your fucking lane. But if you don't know what that is, it's very hard because you're going to see, you're going to see your coach who, Maybe she is a line five. And so maybe she is like the solution giver. And so maybe she's like very blunt, right? And she's very direct. And she tells people exactly what they need, exactly how to solve their problems. She is not maybe as friendly. She's definitely not a line four. Line fours are the feelers and they sell through feelings and the heart. Line fours are going to be the very much more like caring, the connection builders are going to be like a little more heart led. Like you're going to feel the humanity in them. It feels like they're your friend. You can feel the love from them. A line five is a little bit more distant, right? It's a little bit more like stranger vibes. It's little bit more like they, and it's not to say that they're not nice and it's not to say that they can't also be your friend, but line fives are genuinely more like, you know, it's like, I'm going to end this with a period, period, right? Like they are,
Speaker: They give trust to people by telling them, girl, my work will solve your problems, period. They're confident. They are the most leader, innate leaders. And if you're a line five and you're not confident in yourself and you don't carry yourself as your line five because you've been conditioned to think that that's mean or that's rude or you need to like dumb yourself down or you need to be, you know, whatever, like the whatever you have convinced yourself you need to be based on society or whatever society has convinced you to be. And you're not actually standing up in that fucking leadership.
Speaker: That's also not going to sell. And so that's why, again, because we're selling ourselves, we're being of service. We're not really selling anything. We're giving ourselves away. Like knowing what yours is and your brand archetype is so freeing because then you can just be more of yourself instead of trying to guess or copy what other people are doing or how they're showing up or how they're speaking.
Speaker: And so, yeah, just like I can tell again, if we're going to hire someone in literally negative five seconds because of how they carry themselves and their energy, the same thing is true. Like your people want to know that you got them and like your people, your fractal line is meant to learn from you. And so like they incarnated into this lifetime to learn from you, but they can't really see you if you're not really fully being yourself. And everyone says, be yourself, just be yourself. Well, how the fuck do I be myself? Your jinkies tell you how to be yourself because it is you.
Speaker: It's literally a map of your hero's journey.
Speaker: This is also why energetic hygiene is so important because as spiritual heart-led beings, a lot of us are very open, right? A lot of us have very like open, a lot of open energy centers. We're very like, um yeah, we take on other people's energy. If you're watching the news, if you're constantly bombarded with how shit the world is, um if you're constantly bombarded with like um thinking that like,
Speaker: You know, I talk a lot about how like the coaching industry is kind of shit, but that's because I'm kind of like trying to not trying to, but I do feel like I am a little bit of like, um, like, uh, what's the word? There's an archetype where it's kind of like.
Speaker: Not revolutionary, but I do feel like i um ah my culture sphere is Jinky39, which is like dynamism, but I do feel like I'm here to like kind of show people, like provoke people a little bit and show you like...
Speaker: where like things could be better if that makes sense kind of like a change maker type shit so I do talk about it like that but if you're like a victim to believing that the coaching industry sucks and so like you don't want to charge for your gifts or you're afraid to like make sales because you think everyone is greedy that's being a victim to it and so your energetic hygiene absolutely matters like you have to love like the industry that you're in and know that you can help people and work on your energetic hygiene and like all of that again just comes back down to like resetting yourself and Um, I talk a lot about this as well.
Speaker: Um, the gene key, I think it's 52, the shadow of stress where it's like stress is a collective energy. And so if everyone's fucking stressed out in the coaching industry or in your industry or online, in your communities, in your societies, you're just naturally going to take that on. That's just how it works.
Speaker: So you have to rise above it. It takes fucking effort to rise above it. And it takes daily effort. Now, this could be something, it doesn't mean that you have to meditate, but it could be something fun, like listening to music that you love, like working out or like moving your body, moving the energy, having fun, laughing, hanging out with your friends, whatever it is to you, right? Meditating, whatever. But like you have to work on your energy.
Speaker: Otherwise, you're just going to stay a victim and then people feel that. And that's why your dead energy is not selling anything. and not even believing in yourself if you don't believe in yourself if you don't believe in your offers if you don't have the conviction the easiest way to get conviction is to see on paper your gifts and like what makes you so fucking iconic and having words to the experience that you always knew but couldn't really couldn't really articulate which we do in the Gene Keys reading.
Speaker: So I've said it like a million times, but um if you if you haven't yet got your Prosperity Blueprint Gene Keys reading, I would highly recommend booking in. Again, it's live now, so it'll be so much fun. And it's kind of that's kind of like the entry drug to my world. My...
Speaker: um really, really, really, really huge passion is working together more long-term inside the portal of you, which is open again. This is my private mentorship. I'm actually changing the word for mentorship to like a different word because it's not even a mentorship. It's like, I am decoding your entire life. Like we are decoding your entire gene keys so that you can really aligned to like who your soul came to you here to be so that you can create offers and like messaging and not even just that that just sounds like so basic compared to what it is but really understand like the gifts that you have in this world and like how to stand out and how to be different and just like be yourself it also touches on everything that i just said so like open your heart we go through the whole Venus sequence so you can open your heart the
Speaker: have those deep connections because again, prosperity is rooted in service, which is in people. So you have to have the people skills. And this not only helps you in your client relationships, but it also helps you romantically. And like, what's the whole point of having a business if we don't also have love?
Speaker: Right. So whether you're single or um in a current relationship, this will help with all of your relationships. And it's just so iconic. So I'm redoing the sales page right now because I have it set at like three months, but I just made the decision to extend it to six months because I feel like we just we need that time together. this is something that really unlocks over time. Like you can't rush this. This is like ancient wisdom. This is like esoteric knowledge. This is you.
Speaker: like decoding your soul. And so you can't rush the process. Um, and any like real long lasting mentorship that I've always loved having in my life and in my business with like my business mentors has always been like minimum six months minimum. And then I just like re resigned because you need someone in your corner. Like you need someone in your corner It just literally makes all the difference, which I know you already know. So anyways, if this was interesting, be sure to follow more. i can't wait to be back on the pod and drop more episodes. I hope you guys have the best day and I will talk to you later. Okay. Bye-bye.
