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Episode 26: The Financial Checklist Every Caregiver Needs
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As caregivers, we often focus on the emotional weight of the role—but the financial responsibilities can be just as demanding. In this episode, I’m sharing a comprehensive, practical checklist to help you get your parent’s finances in order before a crisis hits.
We’ll cover everything from legal documents and account access to budgeting for long-term care and protecting yourself from common financial pitfalls. Whether you're just starting this journey or already deep in it, this episode will help you move forward with greater clarity, security, and peace of mind.
I’ve also created a free downloadable checklist to guide you step-by-step—visit www.theagingparentcoach.com to get your copy.
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Transcript
Introduction to Financial Planning for Caregivers
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Welcome back to the Aging Parent Playbook. I'm Dr. Barbara Sparacino, and today we're talking about something that every caregiver needs, but rarely has, a financial checklist.
Why is Financial Planning Crucial for Caregivers?
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Caregiving is not just emotionally exhausting. It can be financially overwhelming. The last thing you want is to be caught off guard by unexpected expenses, legal complications, or missing paperwork.
Creating a Financial Checklist for Unexpected Situations
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Imagine rushing to the hospital and realizing you don't have a power of attorney, or trying to pay your parents' bills and having no idea where their accounts are. That's why today I'm giving you a step-by-step financial checklist to help you.
Organizing Finances and Protecting Parents from Scams
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First, get your parents' finances organized so you're not scrambling in an emergency. Then, protect them and yourself from financial risks because scams and disputes are real.
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Plan ahead so you're not making rush decisions over stress. This is one of the most important episodes you'll ever listen to, so grab a pen and let's get into it.
Essential Legal Documents for Caregiving
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So, what are the essential documents you need As a caregiver, one of the biggest mistakes caregivers make is not having the right documents in place.
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Without these, making medical or financial decisions for your parent can become a nightmare, leading to legal headaches, family disputes, and even financial hardship. Here's what you absolutely need, a power of attorney.
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This document allows you to legally manage finances if your parents become indecat. Without it, you might you may need a costly and time consuming court process to gain guardianship. Also need a will and estate plan.
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If your parent hasn't created a will, now is the time. Without one, The state decides how their assets are distributed, not the family.
Managing Financial Accounts and Insurance
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It's important to have banking and and investment information.
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Do you know where your parents' accounts are? Who has access? What bills need to be paid? Sit down and review their accounts before there's a crisis. What about insurance policies? Health, life, long-term care insurance.
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Do you know what's covered? This can save thousands, but only if you have the details before you need them.
Medical Directives and Living Wills
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Also, you need medical directives and healthcare care proxy. This includes their living will, which outlines their medical wishes and healthcare care power of attorney who makes decisions if they can't.
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Don't assume that siblings agree on medical decisions. Having this and in writing prevents conflict.
Handling Debts and Planning for End-of-Life
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Look, you also need a list of debts and expenses. What credit cards, loans, or monthly bills do they have?
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If they forget to pay a bill, do you know what needs to be covered? Do they have a safe deposit box? What are their passwords? Where are their important documents kept? Who has access to digital accounts?
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Do they have funeral and end of life plans? This is a tough one, but having this conversation early prevents financial stress later.
Importance of Legal and Tax Documents
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about legal and tax documents? If your parent receives social security, pensions or benefits, make sure you have access to these records.
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Housing and property documents. If they own property, do you know what's in their mortgage or lease agreements? Who will handle their home if they move? How about contact information for professionals? This includes their attorney, financial advisor, and doctors.
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I recommend a master list of all accounts and passwords. Store all of this in one secure place, whether it's a binder, ah password manager, or
Backup Plans and Parents’ Wishes
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a digital document. Also have a backup plan because what happens if something happens to you? Who will take over the caregiving? Also think about a letter of intent.
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This is an optional but incredibly valuable document that outlines your parents wishes in their own words, covering everything from daily routines to personal values
Medicaid and Financial Planning Power of Attorney
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and final wishes. Also consider Medicaid planning.
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If your parent may need long-term care, look into Medicaid eligibility early. before assets are depleted. A financial power of attorney separate from a healthcare power attorney. Some families think that one document covers both, but it doesn't.
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Make sure you have both legal designations in place. Talk to a financial planner or elder law attorney. A one-time consultation can prevent thousands of dollars in
Budgeting and Tax Benefits for Caregivers
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mistakes. And how about having an emergency fund for caregiving? Also, know their wishes for assisted living or nursing care. If the time comes, what's their preference?
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And don't forget self-care in your own fine... but own finances. Caregivers often neglect their financial well-being. Make sure you're not draining draining your own savings to cover care. Know your parents' tax benefits.
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Caregivers may be actually eligible for tax deductions claiming their parent as a dependent. So budgeting for caregiving costs. Caregiving costs add fast. Many caregivers spend thousands out of pocket without realizing how much it's impacting their own financial future.
Anticipating Future Costs and Benefits
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Let's talk about how to budget and plan a ahead. So first, I think it's important that you list all current expenses. Vacations, doctor visits and medical equipment, home care, housekeeping or meal services, transportation and gas for appointments, and anticipate future costs.
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Look at assisted living or memory care. Home modifications, will they need ramps, rafts, stair lifts? Professional caregiving help. Also, it's important to see what's covered. do Are they eligible for Medicaid or VA benefits?
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Don't assume they're ineligible. Also, you may have employer caregiving support programs. Some workplaces offer these benefits. If you don't have a financial plan for caregiving yet, now is the best time to create one.
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I wanna help you avoid financial pitfalls. Caregivers are often targets of financial scams or inheritance disputes.
Protecting Against Scams and Legal Disputes
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Here is how to protect yourself and your loved one. Avoid being the so of sole financial contributor.
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If siblings won't help, have a frank conversation about shared respect financial responsibility. Also, keep receipts and records. If you're handling finances, document everything to prevent future disputes. Watch out for financial scams.
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Seniors are prime targets for phone scams, fraudulent emails, and fake charities. Get professional advice. A financial planner or elder law attorney can help protect both you and your parent.
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Protect yourself legally. If you're co-signing anything, understand the risks. Caregiving comes with financial risks. but you don't have to navigate it blindly. To make this even easier, I've put together a free financial checklist for caregivers. Download it now at theagingparentcoach.com.
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