In this episode, I share the story of someone who was never meant to be my forever—but ended up being the exact preview I needed. A reminder of what connection is supposed to feel like, what being seen actually feels like, and why the relationships (or almost-relationships) that don’t work out often hold the biggest clarity.

After a painful betrayal, life sent me someone whose energy was the complete opposite: kind, grounded, attentive, and genuinely good. He wasn’t my person. But he was a powerful contrast—one that helped me reframe heartbreak into hope.

This episode is for anyone who’s healing, rebuilding, or wondering why something didn’t work out. Because sometimes the wrong one isn’t a mistake… they’re the preview of the right one.

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When They’re Not the One… Just the Preview: What They Came to Teach You 

In this super vulnerable episode, I open up about the moment I found out I’d been cheated on—and the deeper lessons that came with it. From betrayal and self-doubt to the realization that healing isn’t about fixing yourself, but remembering you were never broken—you just need to find your way back to seeing your worth.

When someone betrays you, it’s not about you. And if you’re honest, you likely felt the shift long before it happened. Those moments are an invitation to trust your intuition and reflect on the times you already knew it wasn’t meant for you.

This is an eye-opening episode for anyone staying in something that no longer feels right, just because it’s what you know.
And if you’ve ever questioned your worth after being hurt, this one’s for you.

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The Lessons Hidden in Betrayal

In a highly asked-for episode, I’m giving you a little backstory on my own wild mess, how growing up Mormon in Utah shaped my mindset, identity, and the way I’ve navigated who I am. From childhood testimonies to quiet questions about faith, I share how those early teachings influenced not just what I believed, but how I saw myself and others.

This isn’t a story about religion; it’s a story about reflecting on how your upbringing begins to mold you, and it will stay that way unless you feel the call to redesign it. It's about unlearning the need to be perfect, releasing judgment, and remembering you can be whoever you want to be. I talk about my parents’ deep faith, the guilt and pressure I had to let go of, and why I feel so called to share this journey now.

This episode is dedicated to my living parents, and to my dad above. Yes, I hear you humming “Families Can Be Together Forever Through Heavenly Father’s Plan” from the sky.

If you’ve ever questioned what you were taught or felt pulled to redefine what faith means to you, this one’s for you.

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Growing Up Mormon and How It Shaped My Wild Mess

This episode is here to remind you that the moment you feel the farthest from what you want is usually right before your breakthrough. Those moments when you start questioning everything, your path, your purpose, your timing—are often the proof that you’re so close to what you’ve been working toward.

In this episode, I’m sharing my heart on what it really means to keep going when life feels heavy or uncertain. We’ll talk about why setbacks don’t mean stop—they mean you’re refining, not failing. I’ll walk you through the mindset shifts that help me reframe challenges into signs of alignment, and the simple practices that keep me anchored when my faith feels shaky.

If you’ve been trying to build something from the ground up —your healing, your business, your confidence, your new life, self-love, or next chapter—this one’s for you. You’re not as far as you think. You’re right on time.

✨ Inside this episode:

 * The illusion of being “far away” from your dream
 * Building evidence for your subconscious through small wins
 * Reframing setbacks as signs you’re almost there
 * Why consistency and belief matter more than perfect timing

🎙️ “You’re not failing—you’re just finding 10,000 ways that didn’t work yet.”

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I’m so happy you’re here—it means you believe in what’s possible for your life. 

Wanna Give Up? Why You're Closer Than You Think 

In this episode of Wandering the Wild Mess, I get real about how often we let our own inner critic and subconscious mind hold us back. Too many times, we take old beliefs and treat them as truth—without even questioning if they’re ours. That keeps us from stepping into rooms we belong in, going after the dreams we really want, and believing it can happen for us.

I share why it’s so important to pause and examine those beliefs, and then replace the ones that don’t serve us with new, supportive ones. I also walk you through my six-step framework for reframing a belief so you can ground yourself, collect evidence for the life you want, and anchor into the truth that you are worthy of it all.

Remember: beliefs aren’t truths—they’re evidence collectors. And you get to decide what kind of evidence you start gathering.

✨ Key Takeaways

 * We’re our own worst critics. Subconscious beliefs often act as roadblocks, convincing us we can’t have what we want.
 * Examine your beliefs. Most of them didn’t even start with you—they were handed to you by parents, partners, or past versions of yourself.
 * The Six Steps to Reframing a Belief:
   Notice the limiting belief.
   Name where it came from.
   Normalize that it’s common but no longer true.
   Nerve – ground yourself and affirm it’s safe to change.
   New Evidence – collect proof that the opposite is possible.
   Next/Anchor – cement the new belief with music, affirmations, or rituals.
 * Beliefs are evidence collectors, not truths. Start collecting evidence that supports the life you’re creating.

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How to Stop Letting Your Inner Critic Run the Show

What if your dream never died, it just went quiet, waiting for you to grow into it? Waiting for you to become the version of yourself who could finally trust enough to go after what truly lights you up.

In this episode, I revisit the version of me who flew to L.A. chasing a songwriter’s dream, leaving with self-doubt and then, later, full circle, finding proof that our deepest callings don’t disappear.

This episode will remind you that dreams don’t expire; they evolve. Everything that lights you up is a seed already planted, and most of the growth happens underground before it ever reaches the sun. If you’ve been on the fence about what direction to go, the path that lights you up is the best place to start. It’s not too late — it’s the perfect time to begin.

Alexa play “Backup Plan" by Bailey Zimmerman & Luke Combs 

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Over Your Backup Plan? Why It’s Never Too Late to Follow Your Dreams

Because sometimes the pressure to ‘have it all together’ feels heavier than the hard thing itself…

In this episode of Wandering the Wild Mess, I open up about the pressure of “having it all together” while navigating moments of doubt, discomfort, and shame. Even after seasons of alignment and positivity, life has a way of throwing unexpected loops that remind me I’m still human, still learning, still growing.

I share personal reflections of facing the familiar pull of my nervous system back towards familiar patterns that deceitfully feel safe, even when it isn’t where you want to be. I explore the tension between human desire for comfort and your soul’s drive for expansion and growth, and how disruption often carries the very lessons we’ve been ignoring.

This episode is my invitation to you to:

 * Release the shame of not having it all figured out.
 * See mistakes as lessons instead of proof you’re “messing up.”
 * Embrace discomfort as a sign of growth and soul expansion.
 * Give yourself grace while stepping into a bigger life.

It’s a reminder for us all to trust in ourselves and allow grace for the messy in-between. We may not be perfect, but we are always enough.

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If Life Has Hit You Hard, This One’s for You

Dating doesn’t have to feel like interviewing for endless jobs you’re not even sure you want. In this episode, I share why treating love like a checklist of dates doesn’t work for everyone, especially when you know your energy is valuable. Instead, my approach is about dating yourself, enjoying your own company, and waiting for the right fit rather than swiping just to fill the time. 

I address how dating from lack only attracts more lack and how shifting into self-trust changes everything. You’ll hear stories about setting boundaries (like walking away from someone who couldn’t remember the simplest details) and why holding your standards isn’t “too much”… it’s magnetic.

This episode is for you if:
• You’re tired of dating like it’s a numbers game
• You’re craving a love that feels intentional, not filler
• You’re learning how to date yourself first and build from fullness
• You’re ready to stop attracting from lack and start calling in your true match

Because when you’re no longer afraid to be alone, you’re no longer available for anything less than what you truly deserve. And we ALL are deserving of love that feels right, not forced.

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When Dating Feels Like a Job You Don’t Want to Apply For

In this episode, I’m diving into something I’ve truly embodied lately: worry doesn’t solve anything, self-leadership does.

We talk about why constantly focusing on what might go wrong not only drains your energy but also distracts you from your own power. I share how I’ve learned to shift out of looping thoughts, why I stopped watching the news, and how choosing joy (even with dark chocolate breaks mid-inner work) is an act of self-trust.

This is for you if:

 * You’ve been spiraling in “what ifs”
 * You want a more peaceful mind without checking out of reality
 * You’re craving permission to protect your energy and focus on what you can actually do

I also walk you through a simple mindset practice I use to rewire my day—and how the belief that “everything always works out for me” isn’t delusion, it’s direction.

We’re not here to fix the world by stressing about it, we’re here to become the kind of person who makes it better by being grounded, clear, and fully present. That starts with self-leadership. That starts with you. You got this and this episode is here to remind you!

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Remember, life doesn’t have to make perfect sense to be perfectly yours.
Keep wandering, stay wild, and trust that it’s all working out for you.
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Why Worry Isn’t a Strategy — How to Lead Yourself Through Anything

Does your life feel like listening to someone else’s playlist instead of the one you actually want to hear?

This episode is all about reflecting on the difference between choosing something for you vs. saying yes just to keep the peace. We unpack how misalignment often hides behind “being nice,” and why constantly putting yourself last doesn’t actually serve anyone in the long run.

It’s a reminder that it’s okay to choose yourself—and that route, while not always easy, ends up being more rewarding for everyone involved. And if you’re constantly doing things you don’t want to do or staying in places you don’t want to be, wondering why you said yes (or why you're still there), this episode is for you.

Tune in for a gentle but honest look at how to start living more in alignment, even when it’s uncomfortable, and how to stop showing up out of obligation and start honoring what’s right for you.

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Choosing Alignment Over Approval

Welcome to Wandering the Wild Mess, the podcast for anyone starting over, navigating a new chapter, or rewriting their story. I’m Heather Morgan, and I’m here to help you see your life through a new lens… one that reminds you everything is unfolding exactly as it should, even when it looks like a mess.



After leaving the only home I’d ever known, moving across the country alone after my divorce, and stumbling through more plot twists than I care to admit, I found myself in a place I never expected: completely lost. Which, honestly, is the best time to be found.



This podcast is for the person in the in-between… when the old life doesn’t fit anymore, but the new one hasn’t fully arrived. It’s for anyone who’s had something they thought would last forever fall apart, and is learning to trust their path again. Because the journey is the destination — and the mess is part of the magic.



Here, you’ll find honest reflections, vulnerable moments, and mindset shifts to help you take the lessons in the mess, reframe what feels hard, and remember you’re not behind. You’re exactly where you need to be.



And if you’ve ever felt lost, this pod gets you — because I know first-hand that growth is messy. But it’s yours. And it always works out.

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Wandering the Wild Mess 

Join me on a journey of self-discovery, as I embrace life's uncertainties in a way I could have never imagined and remind you, you're enough.

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