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their own solving their own problems. So for instance, going back to that boy, he's up now, he's up on the rock, and there's a bunch of kids up there and there's a ladder, and there's probably too many children on this one boulder. But they were looking at each other, and what was interesting is one kid came forward like a leader and was like, there's too many kids up on this rock right now. So we need to figure out who's going to go down. And they're like he's she's like, raise your hand if you've been up here a long time. so the kids some of the kids confessed. And I couldn't hear what they what their resolution was. But they figured out a system where there was only a certain amount of kids on the rock at a time. And it was something that the teacher like, oh my gosh, they just figured that that out all by themselves. In the classroom, she's like, that doesn't happen. They're not solving their own problems. And she's like, so she was starting to like question, like, are we doing too much for the children? Like, what kind of environment are we creating? um So I thought that was really interesting because, and I told them, I said, well, at Timber Nook, think about what we're doing. we are We are asking you to not be too close to the play. Yeah. Because when you are too close, they are seeking constant adult reassurance. Like, is this okay? Can you do this for me? Or there's more tattling. But when we back up 10, 20 feet and reduce adult presence, we ah we notice that the kids turn to each other to solve their own problems. And and we set that expectation. So a lot of the times, the kids, <unk> when they come up to teacher,