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09. How Can Human Design + Gene Keys Support Me on My Spiritual and Purpose Journey?
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Welcome beauty! This week we are diving into what is Human Design, what are the Gene Keys and how can they support us living our purpose and on our spiritual path?
1:02- Weekly recap, my experience as a Sober Girl's Guide coach + going to the ASGG live podcasting event this weekend
13:31- What is Human Design?
17:50- What are the five Types (Manifestors, Generators, Manifesting Generators, Projectors, Reflectors) and what are each of their signatures, not self themes and strategies?
51:00- What are the Centers in Human Design? (The shapes on the body graph, colored=defined, white=undefined) What does each one represent and what are the differences between defined and undefined centers? What are real life examples explaining how these show up in people's lives?
17:30-What are the Gene Keys? What is the Golden Path?
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Listen to my sobriety story episode on A Sober Girl's Guide podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7BPcibr8FCQzEhN7NdjyJ0?si=08d9fb13c9774c1e
Look up your Gene Keys: www.genekeys.com
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xx, Ellisa
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Transcript
Welcome and Introduction
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Hello, my friend. Welcome back to another episode of the It's Happening For Me podcast. I am your host, Alyssa. If this is your first episode, welcome, welcome. And if you have been listening since the beginning, welcome back. So today I'm excited because I'm going to be talking about
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how can human design and genetes actually assist you in the spiritual journey and the sole purpose journey in discovering what you're here to do with your life, in creating confidence, in creating self-acceptance and self-understanding and self-awareness and all of the good things that come from these two very special modalities that I freaking love.
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And then I'm going to talk about at the end, the offerings that I have right now. If you want to go deeper, I'm going to explain and break down each reading that I offer and really explain like kind of the differences, which I think is gonna make a lot of sense.
Gene Keys Insights and Personal Journey
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But yeah, oh my gosh, hello, hello. I am so happy to be with you again. It has been a amazing week. It's actually been a really incredible week. So on Friday, I'm just gonna give you guys like a little recap.
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of what I've been up to. So on Friday, I had a gene keys reading. So I am working with a client and I'm doing her full gene keys reading. So we are starting, we started with the genius sequence, which I always recommend. And so, which I'll talk about in a little bit about like, what the heck does that even mean? But we did her reading on Friday. It was so powerful.
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She had so many cool insights during the reading itself. And so I felt super activated because this is something I'm really excited about and I love sharing. And to be in a reading and have the other person just taking it in and receiving and being super activated by the information too is really fun.
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And then on Saturday or Sunday, she was voice noting me some really cool takeaways that she got from the reading. And so that was really, really cool to see that she's already had three major breakthroughs where she's been able to pause and notice where is she operating in a shadow frequency. For example, she
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wanted to give her husband some feedback. And instead of relying on a pattern, which could either be repressive or reactive, so either not saying anything at all, holding it in and just feeling resentment and bitterness for not expressing how she feels, or a reactive side of maybe lashing out or yelling or being rude. I'm not saying this is what her patterns are, but as a reactive.
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as a reactive way of responding to somebody. But instead, in the moment, she was able to like really do some pausing, do some internal dialogue, and then had a took the middle path and had a conversation with him later from a loving place about something that was really on her heart. And he was able to receive it like so much better than if she would have either repressed it or have been reactive. And so that's like the real beauty of the gene key system is because it gives us these actual
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this actual roadmap of like how our personal shadows are going to show up in our personal lives, in our relationships and in our professional lives. And how can we navigate it to rely more on the gift frequency than the shadow. So yeah, so that was really cool. And if that seems like really vague, I will do a little more explaining, of course, when I talk about the systems themselves, but I just thought that was really cool.
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And then I had such an awesome time on Sunday. I, me and my mom went to LA to a sober girls guide live podcasting event.
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And that was really freaking cool because I felt like it was honestly like a full circle moment for me because I used to listen to a sober girls guide podcast since it first came out in 2018. And at that point I was probably about a year and a half alcohol free. And I didn't really do any introspective work around like why I like had an issue with drinking or
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like what alcohol did for me. I didn't really do any like personal growth and development work around alcohol in general. But this podcast was like one of the first podcasts I started listening to along with Sahara Rose's highest self podcast. But the sober girls guide podcast was so like life changing because Jessica will interview really cool, like successful entrepreneurs and business owners that are
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walking the sobriety path. And in each episode, they first start out by talking about their before story. So what their life was like before they started drinking. And then I just resonated so deeply with the really crazy stories of blacking out all the time and just being super embarrassed and having a lot of guilt and shame around their story.
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I mean, they don't hold guilt and shame anymore, but they held so
Understanding Human Design Types
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much guilt and shame around their actions and behaviors when they were drinking too much. And I just related to that so deeply. And so it was a podcast that really helped me heal and see that, oh my gosh, I'm not alone or I'm not crazy or nothing's wrong with me. It's just that I don't have a healthy relationship with alcohol.
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I am on the right track for quitting, drinking, and there's so much on the other side, so much to look forward to, so much happiness, joy, success, peace, incredible relationships, fun, you know? Because when you're first starting on the alcohol-free journey, I know for me especially it felt like a death sentence. I was like, this is going to be the most boring, like,
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square just like shit the rest of my life if I'm not able to enjoy drinking because it was something that was so social for me. And it was ingrained in every part of my life, friends, family, work, peers, coworkers, like everything, everything that I did, it was centered around drinking. And it was just so normalized, especially in our culture. And
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So there was a lot of isolation, confusion, and just feeling like basically like my life was over when I stopped drinking and I didn't really have anyone to like relate to or talk about those feelings with because none of my friends like really had the same issues with me as alcohol. And I had at this point I had moved to Bakersfield and so actually like left all my previous friends back in San Diego. So actually like didn't have any friends at all to talk about all this with. I just had George who like never drank in his life really. So
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Anyways, it was a really special podcast that really helped me through that time of my life. And then in 2021, I believe, I ended up taking Jessica, who's the head sober girl. I took her sober girls guide coaching certification.
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and I became a certified sober girls guide coach. And then I think it was like six months to a year later, she hired me as part of her team to be a head coach for her sober girls guide membership, which was so awesome where I led weekly. I think it eventually became biweekly circles where I helped other women through the sobriety process. So that was really cool.
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It was like a really, um, a really full circle moment to like go to this event and like, you know, support her and see her who's someone that's like my mentor and now like a friend.
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And in 2018, I would have never envisioned this ever coming to pass. I would have never envisioned meeting her or having been mentored by her, working with her, being a coach for her whole program and company. It was really cool. So I did that and the traffic, oh my God, you guys, the traffic was horrendous. We left at like,
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It was only supposed to take two hours and 45 minutes. So we were going to get there early. I was planning on putting my nails, my fake nails on in the car, in the parking lot before, and maybe even getting a lunch before. But no, it took us four mother effing hours to get there. And we went the back way through Temecula and then the 15, and then we went through Corona. We should have just taken the five, but that's what
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was suggested to us through the GPS system and it betrayed us. It let us down. So we were actually like an hour late to the event. I felt so bad because I was like, Oh my God, I don't want to like walk in while they're recording this like podcast, like
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Q&A panel type of situation. I was like, oh my god, it's embarrassing and I don't want to interrupt them. But we did and it was okay. And then afterwards it was so cool just to meet everyone and get some cool little swag bags. So that was really cool. And then we just came back pretty much right away because we wanted to beat the traffic.
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And then when I got back, I had to bring back like all of my laundry that I had washed at my mom's house while I was dog sitting for her that week. So I brought that back to the apartment with peanut. And then I recorded a whole podcast episode. And when I went to, it took me an hour. It came out to like an hour and seven minutes. And then when I went to edit it, the sound was not connected somehow. And so I totally lost the sound and lost the episode. And I was like,
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Okay it's like eleven thirty there's no way that i'm going to do this again right now i'm completely drained from driving six and a half hours today for being like overstimulated socially like no no so.
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I decided to just go to sleep and then record the podcast tonight, which is Monday. There are parts of me that are really a perfectionist. I have a Virgo rising. I have a Stellium and Capricorn. My son's in Capricorn. I want to do well. I want to be the best at what I'm doing. I want to be consistent.
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like provide what I say I'm going to do. And so there is a part of me that was really a small part of me and it went away pretty fast. I was like worried of like, Oh my God, if I don't get a podcast episode of tonight, like in last, last week it was late too. People are going to start thinking that I'm not consistent and they're going to like not trust me anymore. And then immediately I was like, immediately no girl. Like if we're following our human design, you know, we're following my sacral
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charging authority. I'm responding to this podcast not working. I'm not redoing this again right now. So I was like, I'm just going to go to sleep. And I'm glad that I did. And now I can, you know, I had a good night's sleep. I had a good day at work. And now here we are recording. Also, I did drink a cup of coffee at like 3pm, which is really, really late for me in the day to drink coffee. I really never do that, except I knew I was going to record this.
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So if I'm speaking unusually fast, that is why. And also George is going live right now on Whatnot, which is like an auction kind of like platform where he sells all of his anime figures and like anime art.
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And he's in the room next door. And he has to keep the door open because it's so hot in there. Our AC doesn't go into that room. And so we have this weird fan AC that connects to the window. But it's still so hot in there. So he has to leave the door open. And so I can hear him talking really loud, which is not his fault. But it's really hard for me to concentrate.
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I hope this episode comes out well, but if it is, if I'm distracted, that's why because I hear him talking like from the background noise and it feels distracting. But hey, we got to do what we got to do. You know what I'm saying? One day we'll live in a house and we'll have our own like office rooms and stuff and that will be so cool. But until then we live in a one bedroom and apartment and we're making it work.
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Okay, so let's get into today's episode. So I want to talk about human design. I want to talk about gene keys. I want to talk about how these systems can really support us. How we can use them to have spiritual growth, to understand ourselves, to
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really grow on our sole purpose journey and how we can use these to also help ourselves in relationships, which is like, this is why we do the spiritual work. Like this is why I feel like why we want to work on ourselves is because it starts with us. It starts with us doing the inner work on ourselves, and then we're able to show up in relationships
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differently. We're able to show up and worry about our own triggers and worry about having emotional intelligence and having the ability to communicate with people in a kind and understanding way. We're able to have compassion for other people and the more that we really understand ourselves and understand our own wounds and our own
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you know, deep pains that we've had throughout our life and we're unable to forgive ourselves and we're able to accept ourselves, all parts of ourselves, we're able to have so much compassion for other people. And we're able to give people the benefit of the doubt and like more leeway and understanding anytime
Exploring Energy Centers in Human Design
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that we're in disagreements.
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or just in life in general and knowing about yourself will improve your relationships 100%. So what the heck is human design? And a lot of you listening may already know what human design is. So I'm just going to give like a brief like description of what it is, but I want to talk more about how it can help us. So human design is really the science of differentiation. Okay. So it takes,
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ancient spiritual modalities coupled with modern science. And it creates this system, which is the system of being able to understand ourselves and understand how our energy works. So it is based off of ancient systems like Western astrology, the Kabbalah, the
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Chinese Yiching, the shocker system, and it also combines modern sciences like quantum mechanics and quantum physics.
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You can think of this as like, have you ever taken a personality test like Myers Briggs or like the Enneagram or a strength finder, and you're basically taking this quiz, you're answering questions, and then at the end, it gives you a description of like what your personality is like. Okay, well, that's like what human design is, except you don't need to take a quiz. There are no self-selected answers. Instead, it is based off of your birth information. So the time and place of your birth
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And that gives us this in human design, what is called a body graph. And so it's essentially this blueprint of your soul. And it tells us so many cool things about you, like how your energy works, how you're really here to operate and function with other people.
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It teaches us how you are meant to make aligned decisions so that there is an actual way that you are here to make aligned decisions and tap into your intuition so that you can trust yourself and no longer seek outside influence from other people. It also teaches us your strategy, which is a strategy in how to take aligned action in this world so that we're not just like doing things
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out of alignment, which we'll get into when we talk about the five types briefly. And so you get this body graph and it tells you a lot about yourself. It tells you what your type is. And there are five types in human design. So we have manifestors, generators, manifesting generators, projectors, and reflectors. So you're going to be one of the five types.
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And each type has a strategy. So again, that is like a way that they're really here to operate in the world. And so if we look at it, manifestors are here to initiate. So they're here to follow the urges that they get, which is they get a direct urge from the universe, from source that gives you these little pinks. It's like this like little electric ping in their body. And it's like this inspiration of
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an urge to act, an urge to create something. And so they're here to just fricking initiate and follow that urge. So they don't need to ask for permission. They're not here to ask for advice. They're not here to ask what their audience wants from them. They're not here to try to see what everyone else is doing and then respond to that. They are really the rebels. They are the trailblazers. They are the revolutionaries. They are here to create
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massive change in the world, and there's only 9% of them of the population. So, manifestors are really these change makers. They're not here to follow the rules. They are going to feel very confined from a standard nine to five job because they really seek freedom. So, each type also has what we call self and not self. I'm sorry, signature.
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and not self-themed. So the signature for a manifestor is peace. So they know they're in alignment and they know that they're doing things that their soul wants to do when they feel peaceful. And when they're out of alignment, their not self-themed is called anger. And so anytime that a manifestor is angry,
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It's a good chance that they should maybe look at their boundaries, look at where are they having expectations on others to accept them, you know, because they're not really here to be accepted. Where are they maybe people pleasing or
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Yeah, like just trying to gain the acceptance and validations of others and then being let down because they're not meant to do that. And that can be very difficult. That is not something that's easy to just initiate and make things happen. And they're often very conditioned to hold back. They're very conditioned to
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Be quiet, follow the rules, stay in line, stop being so rebellious, and so it can be very hard for them to be initiators, but that's really what they're here to do. And then we have the generators, which is me. I'm a generator, and generators make up about 30% of the population, maybe 36%.
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And generators are these sacral beings. So generators, and I'll talk about manifesting generators kind of at the same time because they both have the same aura type. And so, oh, and sorry, just to go back real quick. For manifestors, their aura, which is like this energy field around our body that can fill up like a whole room, the aura of a manifestor is repelling and
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A lot of manifestors don't necessarily, um, love to hear that because that can feel kind of like icky or like, wait, why do I have like, why would you say I have like a closed and repelling aura? But the reason why their aura is more closed and repelling is because they are not here to mingle and like allow everyone in their energy and like allow everyone's opinions inside of theirs. Like, no.
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Since they are supposed to be here to initiate and be rule breakers and revolutionary, imagine how bogged down they would be if they were always constantly allowing everyone to be in their energy and to be like,
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like allowing everyone access to them. It's really a protective mechanism that is here to protect their energy so that only the correct people will be drawn to them. And the correct people will be drawn to them, the correct people will like them, but their aura really does feel repelling. It's kind of like you're bumping up against them and that is on purpose to really protect their energy. And then
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And then a generators, so then going back to a generator. So a generator and manifestors, manifesting generators are sacral beings. So these are the only types that have the sacral authority defined, which gives them consistent access to their life force energy. And like the consistent access to have this beautiful energy, a sustainable energy to just
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go go go when they're lit up by something that they love. And that is the key. It has to be work that they love to do. So their auras are going to be open and enveloping. And so if you've ever been around a generator or a manifesting generator, it kind of feels like a warm, beautiful hug because their auras are just going to open and take you in. It's very warm. It's very, it feels very good.
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And these people, you might also feel this energized, excited, freaking passionate feeling from them when they're lit up because they are here to
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really get things done to do work that they love. So let's focus on generators first. So generators are here to really find passion and pleasure in everything
Introduction to Gene Keys and Its Sequences
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they do. So they're here to eat foods that they freaking love. They're here to
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have friendships and have conversations about things that light them up. They're here to do work and to make money from doing something that they freaking love to do. So they're really here to follow their joys and excitements. And generators, they're
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strategy is wait to respond. So a generator is not like a manifesto. It is not like I am not supposed to go out and make things happen and initiate and like take what's mine and create change. No, no, no. And I've, I've made the mistake of doing that so many times in my life and in my business. And it always ends up backfiring because what I'm supposed to do is I'm supposed to wait to respond and allow my sacral to be excited by something to see if it is a yes or a no for me.
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So for example, if I have like an external stimulation, like someone asking me a question, or I see a billboard, or I see an Instagram post, or I see something on a menu, and my state goal is responding to it, it's like this feeling inside my gut that's a
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Yes. Like, it's like these sacral guttural sounds. Or if it's a no and a yes, it feels very expansive. It feels very exciting. It feels like a yes. Like, oh my gosh. Like, and it's not coming from the mind. My mind is not rationalizing anything. It's just my body is saying like, yes. Oh my God. I want that. Like let's fucking go. It's energized. It's a yes. It's a, I want this. This is mine.
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A no is going to feel like a mm, mm, mm. It's going to feel like a drop. It's going to feel, um, condensed. I'm going to feel like shrinking. I'm going to feel like I'm sinking inwards, like I'm bending over. It's like a, oh, like a mm, mm, or like a, oh, it's going to feel like dreadful, boring. It's going to feel hard. It's going to feel like a fricking drag. And that's when I know that.
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an opportunity is a no for me. It's just like a, ah, like, no. And then if I have kind of like a confused, like neutral feeling, like a, I don't know, then that just means it's a no for right now because we really are, as generators, supposed to follow those guttural yeses. And that's how we know we're on track.
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As a generator, my signature theme, okay, so I know I'm really in alignment, is when I feel satisfaction. So it's like, oh my God, I feel so satisfied after that work I just did, or I feel so satisfied after that workout, or that meal just satisfied the shit out of me. I feel so good now. Or like, oh my God, I just had such a satisfying coaching call with that client.
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just seeing the aha moments that she got and like me being able to like teach her gene keys and human design is just so freaking satisfying. Like I can just go to sleep feeling so good. Or like even me like helping George pack his truck for the Sunset Market on Thursdays. Like for Anime World, I help him go to the storage unit every Wednesday and we pack his truck full.
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with all the boxes and everything and all the merchandise for the sunset market. And there's a certain way that we put the tables, the chairs, the boxes, the bins. There's a certain way that we do it and it's the same every single time.
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because it fits. It fits like a glove. And if you put it in any other order or any other way, nothing will fit. And so I get so much goddamn satisfaction from packing his car. You don't even know. And the satisfaction of being strong and lifting the boxes and putting all the bins in there and going really fast because I have that
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undefined root energy pressure that I just like to get shit done in a hurry like it's like I feel this like pressure to like hurry up and it's so satisfying to my generator self to pack that truck as fast as I can perfectly with everything in the exact right spot with no extra room to to budge it's like it feels so good and so that is that's an example of satisfaction okay
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Now my not self theme of being a generator is going to be frustration. So when I feel frustrated about something, that's when I can tell that I'm out of alignment. Okay. So if I'm feeling frustrated with someone or something or how something's going, I can ask myself, Alyssa, was this opportunity or is this thing that I'm working on actually aligned? Does my gut feeling, my say, girl,
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actually want to work on this right now or speak to this person? Or am I doing this because I feel like I need to? Because I feel like I should? Because I'm trying to get ahead in some weird alternative motive way? Or does my soul actually want to do this? And if I'm feeling frustrated, it's going to be because it's one of those other reasons. It's not because I actually want to do it right now. And so just honoring that and being like, okay, cool. How can I
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move things around now so that I can find more satisfaction again. That's it. And it's totally normal. The goal of life is not to never feel our not-self themes, but it's just a great road, little bookmark or I guess mark to tell us when are we out of alignment and what can we do to just shift back into alignment? Because I hate feeling frustrated and I feel frustrated often.
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Like I think probably one of the last times that, let me think of an example of feeling frustrated. Say if like,
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I'm trying to create content for my Instagram, like around human design or gene keys. And I'm just sitting there and I'm like, okay, I'm going to sit down for an hour and just like create content because I feel like I just need to batch some content to have things ready for the week. But I'm not really following anything that's inspiring me. Like nothing is lighting up my sacral. I'm just completely coming from the mind and forcing myself to do something.
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I'm not going to feel creative and I'm going to feel frustrated as hell and it's going to be like pulling teeth. It's going to feel like, oh my God, like so dreadful. Like I can't think of
Offerings and Contact Information
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anything. I have writer's block. I'm not creative. And so I can either stay in that, in that space or I can be like, okay, I'm just going to come back to this another time when I feel inspired because that's when I'm really going to create something juicy is like when I'm lit up by something and my state girl is responding to something.
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So that's just a great example of feeling frustrated. And then for the manifesting generator. So the manifesting generator's signature self is going to be a combination. Sorry, I was like, what is it going to be? It's going to be a combination of the manifester and the generator. So it's kind of like a really cool
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combination or what would the word be like a mixture of the two, I guess. And so when they are in alignment, they're going to feel satisfied and they're going to feel peaceful. Okay, so they're going to feel satisfied and peaceful. When they are out of alignment, they are going to feel frustrated and angry. And that's how manifesting generator can know that like they're out of alignment as they feel those those feelings. Now,
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the difference between a generator and manifesting generator. So a generator is really here to kind of like learn and take life by a step by step approach.
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So me, I learn best by a step-by-step process. The way that I'm here to discover my purpose is a step-by-step process. Things just unfold for me. If I was to try to plan super ahead or create this really long-term detailed vision for myself, I am going to feel frustrated and I'm going to be blocked as hell because I'm really here to just follow each
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Excitement each next excitement each next passion what lights me up now okay now what and that is how things really unfold for me it's a very. Organic process of like a step by step process and that's really.
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if I lean into that, which can be very hard to do, especially in a society that teaches us to have this like 10 year vision or this like 10 year goal planned out. Like every time I've tried to do that, it is so frustrating because I cannot, my soul is just like, I don't know. Cause I don't know what I'm going to like in a year from now. It's just, I just need to follow my
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next pleasure you passion that is lit up for my sake girl. Now a manifesting generator is someone who is so cool because they are freaking multi passionate. So like they're here to hold many, many different projects, talents, businesses, ideas at a time. But the key is that they're lit up by. So if they were holding multiple things at once, but
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it was things that were draining their energy or just were boring to them or they were feeling like they were really over it, they were resenting it, it wasn't feeling good anymore. That is going to drain their energy extremely fast. But they are really incredible freaking geniuses that are here to do so many different things at once and be multi-passionate in areas that they really love.
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And they're also here to try so many new things and then let go of things when it's no longer serving them. Okay, so something with manifesting generators is that they can sometimes hold onto things too long because they're not allowing themselves to accept that it no longer lights them up. And so they kind of sometimes can have a fear of being flaky or a fear of
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of other people not taking them seriously because they're trying so many different jobs or they're trying so many different passions until they find like what they like and like, you know, they can really pour their time into that. But it's important for them to don't worry about other people and just know that you are here to try so many different things and just let the things go when they don't feel good anymore because that's just going to open up your aura and your space to have this freedom to like take on new things. So that's really like a manifesting generator.
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They're super powerful. They, they love to learn from like skipping steps. So they're really here to like, they have like the combination of like the manifesto and the generator to where like, they're here to
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Oh, sorry. Also, just to backtrack, the Manifesting Generator, their strategy is also to wait to respond. So they are here to wait to respond to their sacral urge and then move forward.
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and inform other people of what they're doing. Because when you inform others of, and same with manifestors, they're supposed to inform as well. I think I forgot that. But when you're informing others, it's not asking for permission. It's not asking like, is this okay if I do this? No. Informing others is telling them,
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Hey, by the way, this is what I'm doing. Because manifesting generators, you move so freaking fast. You're always looking for shortcuts. You are always here to find new and exciting ways to do things. You're here to change things up and not follow the old boring step-by-step process.
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If you can make something happen faster, better, more efficient, you are the one to create that and to make it happen. So allow yourself to skip steps, allow yourself to create these new inventive ways and then
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Oftentimes you may find yourself like going back a few steps because now you're like, oh shit, like that didn't work. And now I have to like backtrack and like fix this like, okay, cool. Do that. And don't have any guilt or shame around it or feel bad or like not let yourself skip steps in the future because you're afraid of like having to go back a little bit. It's just part of your process. So the sooner you can like allow that to be okay, the better.
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but you are a freaking cool ass person. Okay, the next one. So we've talked about manifestors. We've talked about generators. We've talked about manifesting generators. The next type is the projectors. I freaking love projectors. And for some reason, I like always call in so many projectors into my life. And I love it because they like help me see things that I don't see. So
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projectors. Projectors are these really beautiful visionary types. They can see a bird's eye view of what is going on and their aura is a penetrating aura. So they can actually penetrate other auras and see inside other people and have these deep realizations and these deep understandings of the other.
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So that is why they also have this like this knowing of like what is best and they do know what is best a lot of times and they can just see like what needs to be done and they make really great guides and like coaches or managers because they really can see this bigger picture and allow others to like go in and do the work. So they don't have their state girl defined
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They have their non-sacral beings. And so they have a different energy than generators and manifesting generators. So they projectors need more rest time. They're really here to only do a small amount of work a day. Like they're not here to work a typical nine to five. They're definitely not here to work like 12, 15 hour work days.
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Not to say that they can't because you can do anything that you want. You can create any life that you want. Don't hold yourself back. Don't let human design limit you. But I think this is going to give a lot of permission slips to projectors to understand that nothing's wrong with you when you find yourself tired.
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Nothing's wrong with you when you find yourself not being able to compete and keep up with your peers and other people who just seem to like have this crazy energy and like go, go, go, go, because you are so special and you need to preserve your energy. And so allowing yourself to like take breaks, take rest, lay down, lay down vertically, or is it horizontally? Lay down on your back. I don't know which direction that is. I'm going to say it's horizontally.
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lay down throughout the day if you can for like even just 20 minutes in between like projects, in between calls, allow yourself that time to just rest and that is going to rejuvenate you. If you are feeling burnt out as a projector, you're probably working too many hours. You're probably overextending yourself. You're probably not having really strong boundaries. And so those are all things that you can look at to just help you get back into alignment.
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So the projector energy is also something that your strategy that I want to talk about is you, your energy needs to be invited. And so your strategy is to wait for the invitation. So at first that can feel disempowering to be like, wait, what do you mean? And to like, wait for someone to invite me to like take action or to, or to like create some opportunity or to do something. So the reason why your energy needs to be invited is because
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Because you can see what needs to be done or what needs to happen,
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having the invitation from someone asking you like your opinion, your advice, or like asking you for help is opening the door for you to give them like the honest answer and for them to be in a place to receive it. Because if you were to just go around and start telling everyone all of these insights that you have, it can come across as either like bossy or like a know-it-all type of energy. And that's not even like the bad thing, like, okay, who cares, right? But the thing is,
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when other people don't appreciate your genius and the beautiful insights that you have to give them.
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it is going to leave you feeling bitter and resentful, which is your non-self theme. And so when you are in alignment, when you are waiting for the invitation and everything is flowing in your life, your signature feeling that you can look out for is going to be success. You are designed to feel success. You're designed to feel successful. That's how you know you're in alignment. That's how you know that things are going great.
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When you are just giving people your unsolicited advice, even though, hey, it might be really great advice, maybe they really need to hear it, but they didn't ask for it. Again, that is going to leave them not appreciating your genius.
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not seeing you. And that over time, if you do that enough to enough people is going to start to make you doubt yourself, doubt your abilities. You're going to start to feel like what you have to say doesn't matter. No one appreciates you. You're going to feel very unseen, unappreciated. And that's when you're going to stay in that frequency of like bitterness and resentfulness is really how it is. And so it is actually such an honor for you to
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show up, shine your light. This doesn't mean you have to wait for an invitation to create your own business or create content on social media if you are a healer, coach, or someone who wants to create a spiritual business.
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Your platform, anyone's Instagram is your own thing. You can create content and shine your light and then people will invite you into their world by reaching out to you, by liking your stuff, by engaging with you. That is an invitation. And so don't feel like you have to wait for an invitation to do everything in your life, but it's really more when it comes to dealing with other people and giving advice to other people or creating opportunities that have to do with other people.
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It is better to wait for the invitation. And then you're going to start to see that when you do wait for the invitation and then you give them that amazing ass download or like advice that they were seeking. Oh my gosh, you're going to feel so appreciated, grateful because they're going to be so thankful because you gave them exactly what they needed because it just comes natural to you. So that is the projector.
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Again, I already talked about how your aura is penetrating. You have a beautiful energy projector out there. Love you guys. The last type is going to be our reflectors.
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reflectors are really here to take in the energy of the environment around them and reflect back what is going on. They really reflect back the health of the community and everything, the health, the mindset, the emotions of the people around them. It's not to say that they're only here to reflect back the other, but they're really here to create a life that they love and be able to really
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create an environment and a life for themselves that they really love. And that means finding really aligned friendships and finding work that you freaking love to do and creating a home that you love to be in and living in a town that reflects your interests and passions and really honoring yourself to trust yourself and to tune into yourself.
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know when it's time to move or to make changes because the environment or the people that you're around don't feel good. Okay? So the strategy for... Oh, sorry. So let's talk about the aura.
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What makes a reflector a reflector is that all of their centers are undefined, okay? So they don't have definition in any of their centers. So they don't produce their own energy in any of the centers. Instead, they take in and amplify the energy of everyone around them in all of their centers, which is like a really cool freaking gift. And so the strategy, I'm sorry, the aura is a sampling aura. So they essentially in their environment sample
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the auras of everyone around them and they kind of see like what feels good and what doesn't and they go from there. And their strategy is to wait a lunar cycle. So for any big life decisions, obviously this can't be like, what do I eat for dinner or like minor decisions, but big life decisions like should I move to a new city or should I quit my job and start my coaching program or like, you know, bigger decisions.
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The reflector is really here to wait a full lunar cycle. And so that is a full month. And the reason for this is because just like the lunar, the different cycles of the lunar phases, when you wait that long, you are allowing the different energies to
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you're allowing the moon to go through all the different energies of the cycle. And you're allowing yourself to speak to so many different people in your life to really wait and get new information and allow yourself the time to make the correct decision from having all of this new information and going through all the different phases and cycles and energies of the moon and speaking to different people and like really allowing yourself to come to a correct decision.
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So it's really all just like about time and allowing yourself to go through and see all the different angles of the issue or of the problem or the question at hand. So you have a big picture of exactly how to tackle that. And that's going to help you make the correct decision. When you are in alignment, your signature feeling is going to be a surprise and delight. So you're really here to be like surprised and delighted by
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life and to be excited by like, what can the universe bring me? Like what is in store for me today? What do I have to look forward to? Which is such a beautiful energy to be in. Now you can tell when you're out of alignment, this is when you are in your not self theme and that is going to be disappointment. So anytime that you're experiencing disappointment from the people in your life, the opportunities in your work, health, whatever,
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That's when you can tell that you are out of alignment. And that's going to help you to reevaluate your expectations, your boundaries, and make moves. Like if you need to move, you know, and literally like physically move environments, like you will know that. And then that's how you can get back into this like surprise and delighted by life. So again, that has a lot to do with like expectations as well as like other people because
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if you have super high unrealistic expectations of other people, which we know that we can't expect anyone to do anything for us. But if we did, that could lead to a lot of disappointment. Or if we're expecting life to go a certain way, or if we're expecting to have answers that can lead us to disappointment, instead if we're able to live in the present moment and be really excited and surprised and delighted by whatever comes our way,
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That is going to help us stay in alignment and feel healthy and alive and thriving.
00:48:06
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That's a quick overview of the five types. Human design is so cool because once you understand your type strategy and authority, again, you can really understand how your energy works with other people and then how you can make decisions and take aligned action that will help your soul just evolve and not have to keep wasting time. Not that we're wasting time because
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There is no waste of time because every single choice that you make, since we live in this universe where there are infinity, we live in this universe where there are infinity options, there are infinity routes, there are infinity timelines that we can live on.
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And so we're never really behind where exactly where we're supposed to be. But if you want to stop experiencing the lower level, not self themes, then following your charging authority can help you start to make these aligned decisions where life just starts to get a little bit easier. You start to resonate and call in like your people, like your friends and like
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the people that you want to be around, you're able to call in opportunities and experiences that are aligning with your soul and like your vibe and you're following your passions, your excitements, and you're actually like loving life. Like you do not have to live in drama and disease and chaos and uncertainty. If you're experiencing any of that in your relationships, those are red flags and those are signs that you're living out of alignment. And then you can just start to really evaluate like, okay, well,
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Is it the people I'm hanging out with? Is it my relationship? What am I doing? Where am I not clearly communicating my boundaries and my wants and my needs? Where am I not expressing myself? Where am I not using my voice? And so what can I do to change my circumstances to start living in more alignment, abundance, peace, prosperity, and joy? So that's what I really like to look at.
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for the fundamentals of human design. And I offer my human design reading foundations is all about that. So it's about 90 minutes and we go over your type charging authority as well as your centers. And in human design, in our body graph, we each have nine centers which are corresponding to the chakras. And in the Hindu chakra system, there are seven chakras, but
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centers in human design, there are two that split off to create nine. And so we basically will go over what each center means and you will be able to see where do you produce your own energy? Where do you take in and amplify the energy of others? And so this can really impact your experience of life and allow you to start accepting yourself for who you are and to stop
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And to stop beating yourself up or having guilt and shame around the parts of you that are highly conditioned. So what do I mean by this? Well, we have nine centers, right? So starting from the top to the bottom, we have the head center, which is responsible for our inspiration and thoughts.
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Okay, so for example, starting from the top going down, we have our head center, which is responsible for how we generate inspiration, ideas and downloads. Okay, so you either have this defined, so you create your own energy here, or you have it undefined, where you take in the energy and amplify the energy of others. Okay, so going down, we have our Ajna center, which is like the third eye. And this is where we process and store information. And this will be helpful to know like,
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when working with clients, if you are aspiring healer or coach, this is also just important to know anyone that is on this personal growth and development journey. Because if you have this defined, your mind is like a steel trap, you're able to recall
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Facts. You're probably a great person at taking tests in high school or college. You probably can memorize quotes out of a book. You remember author's names. You remember song lyrics. You just remember shit. This is if you have this defined. If you have this undefined like me, information goes in one ear and out the other. We are not storing this information and I have been conditioned to feel extremely stupid
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dumb, airheaded, forgetful, not opinionated enough, too open minded, too lukewarm because I'm not like super
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one-sided on my opinions. But the wisdom of this, of having this undefined is that we're just like really open-minded. So we're not dumb, we're not stupid, we're not spacey, we're not airheaded. We just literally are processing, our brain does not process information the same as other people that have this defined. And we're here to just really like let certain information, ideas come in.
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and then out and we're able to recall it when needed. Okay, so that one's like, I know a lot of people that really struggle with that one. And I know I did too. And so that one's really important. And then we have your throat center. So your throat center is really how you're here to use your voice and share your message. Okay, so this is how you're going to communicate with your clients. This is how you're going to communicate with
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whatever work that you do in the world, whatever message you wanna bring into the world, whatever your purpose is, this is how you're gonna communicate it. This is also like what type of communicator you are. This is also your speaking style. This is also how you manifest. So if someone has this defined and they have their own consistent energy in their throat, they're gonna have a consistent speaking style, okay? So no matter who they're talking to, they're gonna have this access to this energy. And another fun fact is like,
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wherever their throat is connected to, like if there's a channel connecting it to another center, that is what they're here to really speak about. So say if it was connected to your emotional solar plexus, like you're here to speak about your feelings, like that is a huge gift for you. Okay, now if you have this undefined like me, you do not have a consistent speaking style. So the way that you speak is going to be different depending on who you are with and how their energy is
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is intertwining and like lighting up your energy because if you think about it we're all kind of like these like finger like think about your hand with fingers and then think about somebody else holding out their hand with fingers and then thinking about it like interlacing like our energies are always interlacing and like coming together to create these new like connections and like channels and so sometimes we're activated by certain people through their energy sometimes we're not but with this undefined
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throat center, we're really like cool ass chameleons because our style of speaking is going to change no matter who we're talking to. So it's going to be different talking to our best friend. We're going to speak differently talking to our boss. We're going to speak differently talking to our clients. We're going to speak differently talking to our mom. And it just kind of like comes out and it really is like a really cool gift when you learn to just accept it
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Um, one thing about the undefined throats is we do have a pressure to speak and there's like this like pent up pressure to just like share, but we don't always feel comfortable to share. And so sometimes when we get linked up with someone who has this defined center in their throat, we can just become chatter boxes and like.
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and then date them with information and talk too much. We can also interject, interrupt, speak over people, which is, if you think about it, a huge sign of ADD, ADHD. Maybe you just have an undefined throat center.
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I'm guilty of this, of interjecting, of being super excited and speaking over people, certain people. And so that's just something I have to be conscious of. But yeah, it is this undefined, this varying way of speaking. And sometimes it can feel like, I don't know what the heck I'm saying. I felt stupid a lot of years of my life. I felt like I didn't know how to speak. I felt like I sounded dumb. I felt like none of the words would come out right, that I jumble it up.
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And that is all just the not-self theme of the throat. So that is just conditioning. Going on down, we are going to go to the G Center. So the G Center is all about your identity, your direction in life. If you have this defined, you are someone that has a pretty stable direction in life.
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Overall, you pretty much know where you're going. You have a solid identity and you know who you are. Whereas if you have this undefined, you do not produce your own energy here, so it's variable. You don't have a set direction in life. You don't have a set identity. You're here to allow yourself to evolve and to change and to keep growing. As you go through new experiences and new lessons, you're here to really allow this beautiful evolvement of your identity.
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But if you are stuck in the not-self of feeling like I need to figure out my identity, I need to have one purpose, like one direction in life, you can really drive yourself crazy trying to get that to that point because it's never going to come, because it's not a set identity. It is a fluid, ever-changing way of being.
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So you can see how that's very important for people to understand about themselves. Okay, moving on to the heart center or the ego center. This is all about self-worth and willpower. So if you have this defined, you produce your own energy here and you really do have the willpower to really carry shit out. It's a very small percentage of people have this defined, but you really do have the ability to get things done and to use your willpower to power through things.
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However, you can be prone to burnout, so you need to just be very cautious of that. If you don't have this defined, like me, I have it undefined. I don't have my energy consistent here.
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then this means that girl, we don't have willpower. We legit do not have willpower in our design. And so if you felt bad for not being able to keep up with like consistency at the gym or like push through certain things, whatever, by using willpower, just know like nothing's wrong with you. You just literally don't have it. And that is a huge as permission slip to be like, Oh my God, I don't have willpower. Nothing's wrong with me. I'm not lazy.
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And to turn to other things other than this quote unquote willpower, which like no one should really use. It's just like, just like how they say like, don't use motivation to attain your goals like in the gym or like in business and life because motivation runs out very quickly. So instead find other ways to hold yourself accountable, like have accountability.
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have goal tracking measures, just have different things in place and don't focus solely on willpower because if you have an undefined, you don't have it, girl. This also has a lot to do with worth as well. So if you have this undefined, you might feel like you need to prove yourself. You might feel like you need to do things and do the extra mile and accept the extra projects and do all the things around the house just to prove your worth to your partner.
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but it's not coming from a place of like you want to do these things for them or for you guys and for the partnership in the house. You're doing them because you feel like if you don't, you will be unworthy and therefore like abandon and your partner will leave you. And so see how there's like a very different energy from like, Oh, I'm super excited to like cook dinner and meal prep for me and my partner.
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I'm super excited to do this. I love cooking. It's like a mindfulness activity. I'm doing this with love. I'm going to watch my YouTube video and meal prep for the next week. That is a really beautiful energy. An energy of like, oh my God, I feel like I have to meal prep. I don't want to do this, but I feel like if I don't, then I'm useless. I'll just be lazy sitting around on another Sunday, not being productive. I have to do this to prove that
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I am worthy of being a good partner and I am worthy of eating because I have to do this to stay on top of my goals. Do you see how it's a very different energy and a very desperate energy of I'm doing this because I need to prove myself?
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If that was your energy, don't meal prep because you're not going to want to do it. It's not going to feel good. No. But if you're excited to do it, then do that. Really looking at your motivations behind the things that you do, especially if you have this undefined, because anytime that you're doing something to prove yourself, prove your worth is not an aligned thing for you.
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Okay, and then moving on to the emotional solar plexus. So emotional solar plexus is all about our emotions. So if you have this defined, you have what is called an emotional wave. So you are someone who experiences
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your emotions, you experience a wave of emotions, there's going to be a high, there's going to be a low. And you're really here, if you have this defined, then this is automatically your authority, which is like the way that you're designed to make decisions. So if you have, if you're an emotional being,
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The way that you make decisions is in this calm clarity. You are someone who is just always going to experience highs and lows of life. There is no reason behind it. You don't have to make up a story. You don't have to figure out why are you feeling so low now? What is the reason for feeling so high? No, the faster and quicker that you can just allow yourself to just know that these are just an experience you're going to be moving through.
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it'll make the lows last a shorter amount of time than if you try to analyze it and beat yourself up for feeling low and
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Oh my God, I was just feeling so good. I just had so much energy. Like, um, I was showing up in my business. I was thriving in my relationship. I was on my fitness journey and now I'm just in a fricking low and I have no energy and I'm so sad. And like, I don't want to be around anybody and I just couldn't be bothered, but I don't know why. Like what the fuck is wrong with me? And like going down that rabbit hole, trying to figure out like what's wrong with you. Um, what happened. You don't understand that.
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energy is going to make the low last longer. But where you can release that and just know that, Oh, like this is just literally a part of it. Like, Oh, here we go again. And then just have practices that can help you soothe yourself while you're in the low and just like have self acceptance and understanding of like, Oh, it's just a low. I am an undefined emotional solar plexus. So I'm not an emotional being. So I can't really speak on how exactly it feels.
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But I do know that for you guys as if you have this defined, you might not have this defined. But for those of you that have this defined, the way that you make decisions is not in a very high or a very low feeling, but it's where you can come to a collective calmness.
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So you're supposed to really give yourself time to make big decisions. So always like sleep on it, give yourself a day, give yourself a couple days and come to this like grounded calm confidence place where you're not super excited about it anymore, but you're also not like not excited and like dreading it. It's like you're like, I think I want to do this. And it's like this like calm confidence. That's how you know it's the right decision.
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Any decision or anyone or any opportunity that tries to force you into making a decision in the moment is not in alignment. Any decision that is in alignment for you will wait for you. It will not pressure you. What is for you can never leave you. And so honoring your emotional authority and giving yourself time to think about it and let the waves pass and come to a collected place of like, do I want to do this or not?
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that is the correct opportunity for you. So don't ever let anyone pressure you into like signing up for this today, saying yesterday or it's off the table. If it is, then they can fuck off and let it be off the table because you are meant to take your time and don't let anyone ever rush you. So that's my little thing on that. If you have an undefined emotional solar plexus like me, if we were on a stranded island like myself and I wasn't around anybody, my
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emotional stability would be pretty even. I wouldn't have these extreme highs or these extreme lows. I would just be pretty even. Hey, pretty calm and collected.
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Since I take in and amplify the energy of others, I'm constantly feeling very strong feelings from emotional beings around me. Even so strong that sometimes I can feel the emotions stronger to them because anywhere that we are undefined, we take in and amplify the energy. So I'm amplifying the feelings. I'm feeling anger and rage when somebody is just upset. I'm feeling
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heartbreak and distraught sadness when somebody's feeling sad especially for me around animals like if oh my god anytime that i watch like videos around like animal like people's animals like um having to like be put down or like passing away or anything around animals like really freaking upset me but i am
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As a non emotional, the thing that can help us the most is I learned this from my teacher Katie who learned this from her teacher, Karen, Karen Curry Parker, but think of ourselves like a sponge. And anytime that we're taking in like these emotions around us, instead of being like a sponge and like soaking up the water of these emotions and like holding on to it and becoming heavy, allowing ourselves to be more like screens and allowing these emotions to come through and pass through us.
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and just leave. It's like, we feel the emotions, we know they're there, but we're not holding on to them. We're not trying to rationalize it. We're just feeling it and letting it go. That is easier said than done, but I have noticed to know, okay, if I'm in public or if I'm at work and someone is in a mood or I start feeling a certain way, I'm like, I know this is not mine. How can I shake this off? What energetic practices can I do to
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remove this to take some time, remove myself from the people from their auras and allow myself to just have some time to like let it go. Okay? Super important. Then if we move on to the sacral center. So the sacral center is all about life force energy. It's all about pleasure. And it's all about this ability to have this like
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It's also like sexual energy, but it's like this energy of this beautiful life force energy. So I am a defined say girl, and so me and manifesting generators will have this defined. And so we have this beautiful, consistent energy that's like an energizer bunny whenever we're lit up by something. We can go, go, go, go.
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Um, I typically know when I've had enough and like I will stop. I will rest. I'll be like, I'm fucking over this. I'm done. Someone with an undefined sacral.
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center. They don't produce their own energy here. And so they can actually burn out because they can't tell. They have a harder time of understanding when the energies run out or like when they're burning out, if that makes sense. They have a harder time of knowing when to stop. They can push themselves through to a place of burnouts. So if you're undefined, you might, you are going to, when you're in the energy of a sacral being, you might find yourself like super lit up, super excited. You have this energy to like
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Focus on whatever you want to work on. And then when you go alone again, you might feel like, oh, where did this energy go? I don't have it anymore. Because now you're just in your own energy, and you don't have that sacral power.
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which is totally fine. Both of them are super beautiful. If you don't have the sacral energy, that doesn't mean that you can't create, that you can't work, that you can't do things. No, that has nothing to do with it. If anyone ever made you feel like that before, just disregard. You do not need the sacral to be productive, to work, to get things done. That is just like, no.
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Moving on then to the spleen. We have the spleenic center and the spleenic center is all about intuition, survival, instincts. If you're someone like me, I have it defined. I produce my own energy here. I am someone who is very in tune with my intuition, very in tune with my survival, my instincts.
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I always have this sense of what's going on around me. I can sense danger when I'm driving. I always sense when cars are around me that for me, I think this might just be specifically to me because I think I have a lot of trauma around car accidents, like genetic, generational trauma around car accidents as well as this lifetime. I've been in many car accidents that I've seen happen before they happened.
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So I can sense when someone's coming. I can sense when something's going to happen. I'm very tuned into my survival instincts and health, wellness. I know pretty much what's good for me. And then if you have this undefined, this means you don't produce your own energy here. And so you really take in and amplify those
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feelings of others. People with this undefined are actually capable of being medical mediums because you can feel illnesses and sicknesses and injuries in other people. If you're really tuned into those senses, you have those abilities. You can sense when someone is unhealthy, you can sense when something's off with them or in the environment.
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Yeah, it's really a beautiful energy to have this undefined because like I said, you really can sense things in other people. And then you also may have a weaker immune system if you have this undefined. And so just really making sure that you take care of yourself and take care of your taking supplements and taking care of your health and rest because you can have a little more of a compromised immune system if you have this undefined.
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And then moving on to the last one, the root center. So the root center is all about like stress, adrenaline, pressure, it is a pressure center. And so if you have this defined, you have this like
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consistent pressure. The root does, though, also operate in pulses. So this is something kind of interesting. So if you have this defined, you might realize that you sometimes have like really consistent pressure, energy to get things done. But then sometimes it might be turned off because it does work in pulses. And if it's turned off, you might feel like you want to do nothing. Like you might be like, you couldn't fucking bother me to do shit right now. Like I don't want to do anything.
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You are someone with this to find that can handle pressure really well though. You do work well under pressure. You can work well in crisis situations and you just are good with this, like adrenaline.
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energy. If you're someone like me who has this undefined, I don't have consistent energy here. So I always feel like I'm in a pressure to hurry up. I feel the pressure of other people projecting their pressure onto me. And I feel like there's always a deadline. I feel like I need to answer to other people's timelines. I feel like I need to have a zero inbox. I respond to emails right away and I send back right away. I feel like I need to have answers from my boss right away. I feel like I'm always in this pressure to
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do things fast. Like I said, when I was loading the car for our market on Thursdays,
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I don't know why. There's no one timing me, but I feel like I need to hurry the hell up and get it done. So I'll load the car so fast. I'll be my fastest. When I do my workouts, I work out so fast because I feel like I just need to get it done. When I'm walking up the stairs from work, I'll walk super fast because I feel like I just need to get home already. It's like this pressure that I always need to hurry the heck up and get things done. And it's very important for us with this undefined to realize that we're the only ones putting this freaking pressure on us.
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we're taking in and amplifying the pressure of other people, but they're not even consciously pressuring us. Like we can learn how to have boundaries and how to take our time, how to do like distressing practices to not allow the pressure to rule us that much or to like make us feel discombobulated because it can be very discombobulating. And another really cool thing with the undefined root center is
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Oh, is that a lot of times I will wait until pressure builds up to do something. So this can lead to procrastination, which I do all the time. Not necessarily healthy. I mean, it does work sometimes, but when it doesn't work, it doesn't work. So yeah, so those are the centers. So what I really love to do in my
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My second style of human design reading, which is all about the gates and channels, is we go through every single center that I just talked about, and we look at the gates. So the gates are the numbers that you see inside those colored and white shapes. Those are called gates. And the gates are really this beautiful filter of energy. So for example, if we're looking at the root center, I have gate 54.
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So I have the little number 54 in my, in my root center, which is the gate of drive the gate of ambition. And so what we would do in my, in my reading, my second reading of gates, gifts, gates and gifts.
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is we're going to go through all of your gates and all of your planetary placements. And I'm going to explain to you your gifts in all those areas, which is really going to help you if you're someone who is on the purpose journey and you really want to understand like what are your unique special gifts. So let me give you the example. So my conscious sun, which makes up 70% of my personality because the sun is like the biggest planet in the solar system.
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It is what influences the most. In your astrology, your sun sign, everyone knows what their sign is. Like when they ask, what's your Zodiac sign? Usually like normal people are referring to like, what is your sun sign? But as you know, you actually have multiple signs, not just your sun sign, but anyways. So I'm a Capricorn. Gate 54 is a Capricorn energy. This is the gate of drive. I'm here to spiritually ascend. I'm here to ascend on the material plane, on the business plane. I am someone who loves
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climbing the ladder. I love just like bettering myself. I love mastery. I love growing. I love transformation. And this is a huge part of my personality. And this is something I'm always doing. I'm always doing this without even knowing it. Just like how my example of
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when I started at Valvoline. I started as a technician, an automotive technician, knowing nothing about cars. I quickly ascended. I became a service center manager and surpassed a lot of people that had been there for longer than me, that had been car enthusiasts their whole life, and I just ascended to the top. Everything that I do, I just
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want to do the best. And I just grow and I just keep growing and ascending. So we'll look at each of those energies in your chart. And this is really going to help you even if you are even if you already know what your purpose is, maybe you're a spiritual life coach or
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Maybe you are a healer or someone who is a spiritual entrepreneur. Looking at your gates is going to give you a really cool way to hone in on your gifts to just give you more confidence in the offerings that you're offering. It can also help you look and set yourself apart if you want to look at Mercury.
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If you look at your Mercury gate, that's going to be really like the essence of how you're here to communicate your messaging to your people, how you're here to speak, like what you're here to speak about. So we go through all the planets and gates like that, and it's a really fun reading. And then moving on to gene keys. So gene keys are, is this super cool spiritual contemplative system.
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that was derived from a man named Richard Rudd. He took the human design modality, combined it more with the etching, and he created this pathway called the Golden Path.
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And the golden path is this really cool, like spiritual contemplative path that we can go on that has three different parts. It has first, which is like individual growth. And so that's really learning what our four prime gifts are and what our, so we look at what our life's work is. So what are we here to do? Okay. And then we go and we look at what is our,
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evolution, which is the first big challenge that our soul is going to keep bumping up against in every new up level that we have. This is a challenge that's going to be very known to us and we're going to look at how can we move through that shadow and move into the gift frequency. Then we go over to radiance and we look at how are we here to really shine our light on the inside? How are we here to
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to be healthy and radiant and what is that shadow aspect that is undermining our health and is keeping us in disease stuck and keeping us like in drama and like
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It's undermining our physical, emotional, and spiritual health. What is that? And then we move down to our purpose. And our purpose is really the essence or the flavor of how we are here to live our life's work. And all of these spheres, they're called spheres, like the four spheres I just talked about, those are derived from the gates in human design. So your incarnation cross in human design, which is your conscious sun and earth and unconscious sun and earth,
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are plotted onto this pathway in the gene keys, and this would be called the genus sequence. And those are what the spheres are made of. And then we look at the shadow gift and city frequency band of each of those spheres, if that makes sense. So it's just like a really cool, deeper way to like contemplate
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your energy. And what's really cool is that we're able to see what are the shadows that are going to consistently show up for us? What are the themes of challenges and breakthroughs that our soul is here to have in this lifetime? And how can we move through these shadow frequencies that we're all here to experience? But then how can we move into the gift of it and eventually move in and out of this enlightened state?
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which is going to really call in more prosperity, abundance, peace, success, and joy in our lives. So my Jean Keyes reading, which is called the
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which is all about purpose, is called the genius sequence. And so that's where we would go through those four spheres. And that's really so cool for anyone who is on the purpose journey who wants to figure out your four prime gifts, your purpose, your life's work. And also really cool for if you're already living your purpose and you just want more clarity and like validation and confirmation that you're on the right path and you want some guidance on to really know like what are those shadow frequencies and how can you move through them.
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And then moving on to the next part of the golden path and the jean keys is what is called the Venus sequence. And so the Venus sequence is all about love and relationships. And so it's like once we have gone through the genius sequence and really understood our four prime gifts, we are like mastering this like self, we're mastering the self in our spiritual growth evolution. Now we need to look at how do we interact in relationships?
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because relationships are really one of our biggest teachers on the spiritual journey. So we now go through this whole pathway that is all about love and relationships. And essentially we, and so we look at what our purpose is. So again, we're looking at like our purpose and then we go through the pathway of Dharma and we look at what is our attraction sphere? So who,
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And in what way are we attracting people in our life and in our relationships? And what is the shadow side of us that we're attracting people? And then we go through the pathway of karma and we look at our IQ, which is our intellectual intelligence. And we look at our mind and how it's developed and what the shadow frequency of that is. And then we go through
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And we look at our emotional intelligence and then we go through the pathway of love and we look at our SQ, which is really like our spiritual intelligence.
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And then we move on through the pathway of realization and we get to our core, which is like our core wound. And then we look at like what our core wound is. And this is like the biggest wound that we have in our whole life. And then we see how can we transcend this core wound. And then once we've mastered that and we've mastered relationships, we can take our core wound and turn it into our biggest gift. And then we go through the pearl sequence and the pearl sequence is all about how do we
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now take our biggest wound that we've overcome, we've turned into our biggest gift, and how do we create financial abundance from sharing our gifts with the world? So then we go through that whole sphere, which has different spheres in itself, and we look at our vocation, which is like, what are we here to share with the world? And then we move through to the pathway of initiation, and then we look at our culture. And our culture is like, okay, well, now what is this big block?
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how am I blocking my people from finding me? What is this shadow that is keeping me from attracting abundance and prosperity from my people? How can I transcend that? Then we go through the pathway of growth and then we look at our branding. Our branding tells us what is our branding voice? How should we be speaking to attract our clients? Where are we in the shadow frequency that is blocking our clients from working with us?
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And how can we transcend that to like speak to them and attract them. And then we look at the pearl and the pearl is all about like, okay, well now once we have this like financial abundance, how are we here to really enjoy money? Like what is our
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what is our big purpose for using money in this lifetime? Because not everyone is here to create these massive non-for-profit organizations and contribute to charity. Some people like me, I'm just here for simplicity. I have a line one here, and so I'm really here just to make enough money. And this can still be a hell of a lot of money. But I'm here to make enough money to just live a life and love my life and love my family and do things that I love.
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support my growth and all the things that I want to learn about and travel and do the things that really support me and how I want to contribute to the world and how I want to share my gifts and offer my gifts to the world. But it's here to be more of a simple path. It is not this extravagant,
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or huge organization changing the world kind of thing. It's really like changing the world in a simple way through really through myself. And so yeah, and so that's the pathway of the pearl sequence. And so that is super awesome for anyone, but especially if you are on the on the purpose path and you want to see like, Oh, like, what is my gift? Like, what is my core wound that turns into my gift? And
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How can I see what is blocking my people from finding me? And especially if you are someone who is already a spiritual entrepreneur or a healer and a coach, and you're like, oh my God, I'm in my business, but I still don't have the abundance I want. I don't know what's blocking me. I've done all the work, but I still can't figure it out.
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this sequence you'll freaking love because we will see exactly what is blocking you and how to transcend that. And so again, just for everyone, the jinkies are this really beautiful spiritual contemplation path that is meant to be this individual
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this beautiful individual journey that you go on. The thing is, it is extremely confusing and hard to understand. So you can go to the Jean Keys website right now and look up your
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You can absolutely go to the GeneQs website right now, look up your chart and look, it's called your Hologenetic Profile. You can already start to see what your GeneQs are, get the key words and start to try to understand it, decipher it. Look at all the free resources online, learn that way.
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If you are overwhelmed or confused and you want an expert to guide you through this, if you want someone who has been studying this and embodying this and is like really excited to teach this information to guide you through it and help you have those like massive breakthroughs without you trying to understand a very complex system, which is like a whole other language, then that is where I would sign up for a reading. And so that is where I offer my three Jean Keys readings. So I have the sequence, the activation sequence, which is all about purpose,
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Again, getting your four prime gifts. And then we move on to the Venus sequence. So that is if you're looking to look into your love and relationships and see how to really, you know, what challenges are showing up and patterns you keep having in your relationships and how you can move through those shadows.
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So that would be the Venus sequence. And then the third offering that I have is the Pearl sequence, which again is all about financial prosperity through sharing your gifts with the world. Um, and so those are the three that I offer and those, and I just previously before that told you about my two human design offerings that I have, which is foundations, which is great for any newbies to human design or just anyone who actually wants a real reading, uh, not a real reading, but like an expert reading from someone instead of just like kind of looking at free information or listening to podcasts. It is very,
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structured towards like your goals and like where you're trying to go in your life and your purpose and your business. And then I also have the gates and gifts and channels human design reading. If you want all of those, I also offer a three month coaching package where we go through all five of those readings over the three months together. And we do Voxer coaching in between calls. And so you have Voxer access to me, which is like a voice noting app where we can
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you can ask me any questions that you have throughout the day, any insights that come up, we can like chat about it. And then I also have just like different practices and different meditations, different activations and like tapping that I have that I also do in my longer term coaching package. So if that's something you're interested in, just send me a
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message on Instagram at I am Alyssa May. And we can talk all about that and consider all the information. Otherwise, I will put the link in the show notes for you to look at my calendar link so you can just book into any of the readings that you want.
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You're out there and you're appreciating this. I had so much fun with you. Today was really, really fun. That was just kind of like an off-the-cuff explanation of human design in Shinkis. So I hope it was helpful. Hopefully I didn't speak too fast. This became very, very long. But anyways, I hope you have a beautiful night. I'm going to edit this. Hopefully it's just like minimal editing and then I will be going to sleep. So I hope you have a beautiful week and I will see you guys next time.