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Vera James, Pete Zigler, and the Possible Panty Thief Boyfriend??
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Welcome back to another episode of Sex, Drugs, and Whatever- Podcast! I'm Vera James and with me today is my bestie co-host Pete Zigler. We are deep-diving into Reddit and finding our favorite confessions and drama. Today, we talk about a girlfriend who found a full drawer full of panties at her boyfriend's house as they were moving in together. What do you think she should do??
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Introduction and Episode Overview
00:00:15
Speaker
What's up, everyone? Welcome to another episode of Sex, Drugs, and Whatever. I'm Vera James. This is Pete Ziegler. We're gonna bring you some real cool shit tonight. Straight from the very, very dark places of Reddit, corners of Reddit. All right. Aw, Pete, I didn't even ask you how you were doing. Sorry, I was just trying to get right to the smut. Are you having a good week? I am. Thanks. Thanks. Pretty good. One of those weird days at work. But how are you? Good. I feel so fucking refreshed.
Cruise Experience and Relaxation
00:00:51
Speaker
Oh, my cruise, dude. Oh, my God. Oh, yeah. That's how you went on my cruise.
00:00:56
Speaker
Yeah, so we got back like late Monday, Tuesday. I can't even know what fucking day it is, but yeah, I've just felt good. I've not really done shit. It was great. I didn't even get off the boat. It's just like 15 levels of, have you ever been on a cruise? That was my first one. No. Oh my God. We, we got off. at the Bahamas for like less than an hour and we're like hmm let's fucking go back to the boat where we can sit and look at the same beautiful views and people will bring us food and drinks for free so like fuck walk around in the heat so but it was wonderful i fucking oh i loved it me and you and
00:01:43
Speaker
our boys, um, gotta go on a cruise. I'm telling you. It's so fucking nice, man. Maybe somewhere in Europe. I'd even like Alaska.
Discovery of Boyfriend's Secret
00:01:53
Speaker
I think Alaska would be amazing. They also have cruises to Antarctica. Yes. I would totally be down to do that. Yes. Let's fucking do it. I'm telling you. That's like, Oh my God. I thought I would also get like seasick. No homie. You cannot, you can't feel that shit. You don't care. So yeah, it's really fucking great. And I just drank like most time I wasn't even drinking alcohol. I was just drinking like the fancy, um, like sparkling water. Yeah. Perfect. That's how I roll with a lemon. I know. Yes, boy. I would tell him to bring me a fucking lemon and they would. And it was so wonderful. Good. Beautiful.
00:02:41
Speaker
I know, I loved it. Alright, so this little crazy story is called, I found my boyfriend's trophies and I don't know what to do. I 28 female have been dating my boyfriend 28 male for almost six years with one year long breakup after an issue with infidelity on his end. I gave him another chance and things have been going great. We had decided to take things slow when we got back together a little over a year ago.
00:03:13
Speaker
So we didn't move in together right away and a couple months before my lease was up we started looking for a place. I was slowly starting to move some of my stuff into his place as my lease will be up in a couple weeks before his and we won't be able to move into our new place until that time. With summer basically already here, I was getting my winter stuff into the little bit of storage I could in his apartment and stumbled across a drawer with two pairs of my panties that had long gone missing. For context, the drawer is one of those long and deep
00:03:52
Speaker
under the bad drawers. The panties were directly in front. You could see the red faler fabric clearly by only opening the drawer a couple of inches. I asked him about it and he seemed embarrassed and said I had left him in his place when we broke up and that he would use them when he missed me or was thinking about me during his personal time. I might be an absolute weirdo for this, but I thought that was kind of sweet. So I told him to keep them. He said he's never done anything like that before and he was too embarrassed to tell me. Fast forward to moving day. He had to work that morning.
00:04:30
Speaker
but he had almost everything packed and ready to go. So I was supposed to stay with the movers and unlock necessary doors, etc.
Confrontation or Move Out?
00:04:42
Speaker
He said that when he got done with work, he would deal with the bed frame since it was so bulky and required power tools. Everything got moved much quicker quicker than anticipated. So I thought I'd start the process of moving the bed frame. When I pulled out the drawers, I found in the very back 10 pairs of women's panties, not including the two of mine in front, and a uniquely patterned pair of bikini bottoms. I quickly put the drawers back and reverted to the original plan and waited for him to get done with work.
00:05:22
Speaker
I have not brought up finding the full contents of the drawer but did sort of revert to my old 2 a.m. mental instability spiral routine of online stalking the girl he cheated on me with a few years ago and find a picture of her wearing those bikini bottoms. This was bad enough, but she was wearing them on a vacation that took place a weekend he was out of town for what he told me was work. And she has since then not warned them in two other bathing suit posts.
00:06:04
Speaker
I have fully convinced myself that he's cheated again despite only having a drawer of clothing items and an Instagram post that could very well have been posted long after the picture was taken. No pennies have been added to the collection and I still haven't said anything to him about it despite him asking multiple times if something is bothering me. So how long does she do? Keep reading. ah I guess I'm asking for advice on what I should do now. So here's an edit for both context and sort of an update. Her Instagram post was captioned over a year of being sunburnt and was a kind of photo dump of multiple trips with the timeframe of our breakup. It's a very real possibility that they were together while we weren't. And she is just now posting them, although it would have
00:07:01
Speaker
had to be literal days before we reconciled officially. We live in a small town and my best friend is dating her, the girl my boyfriend cheated with, his brother. Okay, so I've enlisted her to dig for some info. I've also taken photos and screenshots, which I intend to print out and write up a sort of script type thing or notes to confront him.
Relationship Assumptions and Communication
00:07:30
Speaker
It's not lost on me that this is at best incredibly creepy and dishonest and at worst dangerous and perverted. I have already started looking into alternative living arrangements, which is why I initially reached out to my best friend and will be staying with her. Okay. That's another update. Do you want me to read the other update or do we want to talk about that first? We can talk about this first, I think.
00:08:00
Speaker
okay it's i that's like so she's just assuming so much i mean i know because i was like what i felt like i was missing things but yeah i think she was just i think she's just assuming stuff and ah the fact that she said it was like dangerous and perverted i think it's really extreme you know almost borderline king shaming like yeah this guy just likes panties yeah well there is an update so let's like so far all we know is he likes pants right yeah you know the thing the the when she said she was going to like print out the pictures and like that's ridiculous what she needs to do is sit down with him and talk to him about it before you start printing out pictures this how they think how old were they like mid 20s
00:08:51
Speaker
28 28 both of them 28 so like a little conversation with them a lot of the The comments were like remember the serial killers do that like dude Not I know plenty of people that buy I know it's Annie's That probably have I have bought multiple pairs of my panties so I can't imagine how many panties they have, like... Yeah, that's like, and I mean... They do this legally?
00:09:29
Speaker
you know Yeah, there's so many different things. like It could be like an underwear fetish. Maybe he likes to wear panties. He could have bought those those other, other than the bikini bottoms, he could have bought those panties. Like maybe he just likes to wear panties or maybe he just likes to jerk off and I'm like, yeah you know what I mean? That's like, and he's probably too embarrassed because, you know, if you read all the comments, people are like, oh, you know, some of them were like, oh, he's a cross dresser, blah, blah, blah. I don't think wearing panties is cross-dressing but even if he is wearing them you don't even know because you haven't had the conversation with him yet. Yeah I know but it is to be fair if all those underwear I was a little confused about the timeline it all seemed like it just happened within a few weeks you know her finding it and like yeah all that but like
00:10:24
Speaker
steal he one thing that I will say like in her defense is she found her two pairs of panties and like then like what a week or two later she goes back so like call me yeah like you didn't You didn't come clean either. yeah you didn't come complain um unless and Unless he was collected, you know, that would be more fucked up. if But you know they had to be under there if she found two of hers. Probably. You know, but it you know that's the thing is I think that he was definitely like embarrassed by it. However,
00:11:05
Speaker
I feel like if I, I don't know, me and you are different people because, I mean, me and you are different than her because we're more open about our sexualities. Yeah. if I would want to know if my, if I, I want to know my boyfriend's kinks. Yeah. So we can have a better sex life. You know, like saying like, if but you know, even if it's like embarrassing, like, you know, it took me for a while to tell my boyfriend about my kinks, but like, so glad I did. And like, if I think if he had have found something and confronted me about it, like in a negative way, especially if like printed out pictures and was like, what is this? And like, excuse me, cheating. I would have been like, definitely not wanted to talk about it openly. You know what I mean? Yes. Yeah. And I ask, I just asked my husband, it was either yesterday or the day before.
00:11:56
Speaker
um because i realized like i'm stupid good at like improv dirty talk but in the bedroom i don't do you like dirty talk to your man do you we dirty talk each other i mean not like a lot but like yeah yeah we do like Well, I do. He's, you know, how fucking quiet and precious he's just not much of a talker, but it's so much different. I like non stop with the nasty dirty talk into a camera. And I even asked him the other day, like,
00:12:39
Speaker
boo-boo, like would you tell me if you wanted me to like dirty talk that much or like role play because I would and he's like nah like it's fine but still like yeah we're checking with
Circumcision and Body Autonomy Discussion
00:12:50
Speaker
shit like that all the time yeah yeah be open about it yeah ah yeah I think it not him like a crazy bitch if I did I mean like to be fair me and my man have been married like years. So so it would be, you know, I would, if I found somebody else's underwear underneath our bed, like 10 pairs, like, yeah, I'm not going to be fucking sitting down with him nicely. I mean, I'm not going to like yeah attack him.
00:13:20
Speaker
I'm not, I'm also not going to print out a script, but it's not, it's not going to be a chill conversation, but I'm also not going to like hide my fucking feelings for like two weeks so that he has to like pass. However long. Yeah. And yeah they haven they haven't been married for years. ah You know, they were like together and then they broke up and then they got back together. That's a whole different yeah situation and you know, exactly it doesn't sound It was a couple of people that commented before you go to the update that said that we're just like once a cheater always a cheater I don't believe that fuck and I've told you before like shut the fuck up like yeah you had this conversation That's such bullshit yeah ah such a small-minded Yeah
00:14:14
Speaker
mine's like that's ridiculous okay update i didn't expect this post to get as much attention as it has and i do appreciate the different perspectives i did text him saying that i think we need some time apart and i'm currently sitting on my friend's couch i messaged the girl asking if she and i could talk but have not gotten a response yet previously when he cheated she was under the impression that he and i had broken up and i have never been rude or angry towards her as she lied as she was lied to in that situation as well. I didn't ah don't see this relationship working out because either way he has lied to me. Whether he has a penny fetish, is cross-dressing, or whatever else has been discussed in the comments, when confronted initially, he said he had never done that before.
00:15:07
Speaker
Either he was honest then and has since acquired the panties with or without physically cheating again or he lied then and that wasn't his first time. I'm not really sure what my next steps will be because we have 11 months on this lease but I will be talking with the property manager. I'm currently trying to figure out the best course of action as far as breaking up. whether to have a conversation and laying it all out there leaving him to figure out why leaving him to figure out why I'm leaving on his own or what what in the fuck I will say already I will say already did take mine back and tossed them in the dumpster she's tossed her if I find out
00:16:03
Speaker
when she messages me back that he stole the bottoms from the other girl i feel safe i feel it's safe to assume he took them all without permission and i will be discarding them what the fuck that was the stupidest update wasn't even talk to him i know and also it's never safe to assume anything i know so don't feel safe about assuming things second of all why would you like why would I don't know. Why would you want to not tell someone? Why would you just want to leave somebody high and dry like that? Just like break up with them and have them figure it out on their own? How is he going to figure that out? I know, girl. I've read, you know, I've sent it to you because I read it and I don't think I even understood when I read it because I don't remember her like being such a little like
00:17:01
Speaker
idiot that's fucking weird yeah like girl you don't fucking even know you never even asked him Once you never even fucking asked it. She said she asked it's not very clear It says when she first he can put it in front of initially. He said he had never done that before I guess he's she's talking about cross-dressing or when she yeah, but that was when She first she first found two of her panties. Yeah, and then she found ten more pairs of panties. Yeah, I
00:17:36
Speaker
He's probably embarrassed. I mean, I, I don't, I'm, I, I think this girl is an idiot and it's not very good at relationships. I don't know. I think so too. So I think they're both i mean better off. Yeah. just and Yeah. I mean, in her defense, he should have been, or he could have been more open about it, but especially like where he got the panties and stuff. I don't know. And I also, I'm not trying to like take the liar's side, but I would just be such a better fucking liar. Like, that's when you fucking get rid of the panties. Yeah. Especially when you know you're gonna like, sorry, like what? I don't know. Yeah. Just good fucking riddance. I mean, I guess you didn't need to fucking be with him, but that fucking stressed me out.
Communication on Sexual Preferences
00:18:35
Speaker
Um, she, yeah, I don't know. I just, why, I just don't, it it seems like the fact that she like didn't explain anything to him and is now like wants to move out and staying with their friends. And she even admitted that she's not talking to him about it. And it's just being quiet, even though he's asking her what's wrong. Why would, and why how are you, how can you be like be mad if you're like not opening up to him either? for giving him I mean, how can he explain himself if you're like not asking him anything to explain? Yeah. That was really weird. ah The one about being circumcised, um it was deleted. Oh, damn it. Well, I can't paraphrase it. It's basically, this girl... Let's see if I can remember it. I can't remember who wrote it. And it was the guy who wrote it. His girlfriend yeah wanted
00:19:34
Speaker
him to get circumcised and she was like really grossed out by his uncircumcised penis to the point where she would point out like they were watching a movie that had like a full frontal and she talked about like how cute how nice that guy's dick was and she would talk about she would even be like like make like gagging sounds like oh like thinking about his uncircumcised penis which is like he needs girl and he was like kind of considering it fuck that and like I'm circumcised but like I just, I fuck, like fuck her, like break up with her. You know what I'm saying? If it was like, I hate to do like the role reversal thing, but like, yeah, people would, and people were on his side pretty much and were like, what the fuck? But like, people would be absolutely outraged if it was a man doing that. like
00:20:31
Speaker
to a woman. Yeah. You know, and like, yeah, I mean, either way, you don't need a boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband that's gonna honest change your body. Yeah. Yeah. I love a fucking uncircumcised. The circumcised, that doesn't shit sexy too. I don't know. But yeah, I kind of fucking love it. I just a just can't imagine like, having like that surgery on my penis for aesthetic, for cosmetic reasons. Yeah. For someone else. My, my high school boyfriend right when him and I met, he, it was not, first of all, it wasn't, he had an uncircumcised penis. It bothered him so bad though that
00:21:29
Speaker
We waited like months to um have sex. We were like 14 and 15 when we met. And we might even waited like a year. But he went, not that i would it I would have never even known. I did not even touch his penis. He went and was circumcised at the age of like 16. Wow. just because of how like he felt about it, yeah.
00:22:02
Speaker
bless and i mean not that i i was like so fucking innocent and i didn't fucking know what that shit was and like never saw it before but that's crazy i didn't know that it's also totally different if it's your own decision yeah like yeah you know i had no say so and i would not have cared i mean he and he was actually even too embarrassed to tell me, but his insecurity still, the reason he did tell me is because he thought I would notice his huge scar. And like, I would not have even known if he would not have yeah told me. And I was like madly in love with that fucking idiot too. So I wouldn't have cared if, you know, he had three penises that were unsupervised, like,
00:22:57
Speaker
oh yeah But yeah, it's really shitty if that... Yeah, the uncircumcised penises can be... They look different. Some of them have like a long skin, foreskin, and some of them you can't... My boyfriend has an uncircumcised penis and I didn't even know for the longest time. And we had been like having sex and stuff because because he he he didn't have a lot of foreskin. So it looked... I didn't really notice until I was like... jerking him off and you can like when you're jerking off an uncircumcised penis it's naturally you know you don't need blue you know yeah but um ah because every one time he said he was like oh yeah I'm uncircumcised and I was like no you're not and he was like yes I am liar i mean I'm a fucking idiot because he didn't have a lot of foreskin so yeah no yeah like
00:23:52
Speaker
Yeah, some of them you really can't. One of those ones, the uncircumcised penises that, I mean, you've seen some of them. Like, it can be like a fucking like, yes. You know what I've, yeah. To me. come To me. Some people love them. Yes. And I have had men, two men actually approach me over the years and for sexting sessions where they wanted to see how many gummy bears they could get into their foreskin. isn Oh my god. How great is that? I love that it's gummy bears. It was so many too, so fucking many. How many was it? Do you remember? Like 10? No, it was like 22 gummy bears.
00:24:48
Speaker
22 gummy bears was like the most how fucking crazy is that like me and my husband still you know since he's Uncircumcised like and please like I'm not Making fun of that person. It's just a very very unique kink and So like sometimes I'll be like, maybe you want me to put some gummy bears? oh man be a Nice little treat And one time he did, he did um come into the room and have like a gummy bear in his foreskin and showed me. I love that little motherfucker. yeah yeah that's great I mean, it's crazy. Yeah. That one one, there was one of them. It's just so funny that I had two and one of them would come back like a couple of times and
00:25:44
Speaker
I think both of them were into a humiliation. I know that one was. And like, one of me to humiliate him for it. I was like, okay, motherfucker. Make fun of him for having so many gummy bears. Yeah. Yeah. Like, and make fun of him while he was putting a nip in there. God, I fucking love my job. I love my job. Um, that is funny. The humiliation thing, there's so many guys that are into having their peanuts, like being humiliated for having small peanuts. Um, it's like And some people, because I'm also subbing into like humiliation, assume that I want to be made fun of for my small penis, but it doesn't, I don't care at all. like That's not part of my kink at all. You make fun of my small penis if you want to, but it's not that small. There's also, I've seen like pictures of guys or like you know guys who want their small penis to be made fun of, but they don't have a small penis.
00:26:41
Speaker
It's like a big dick. They still want to be made fun of. I think that's always funny. I've never seen that, to be fair. Every single one that wants. Unless... It's usually small. Yeah. But sometimes, to be fair, they don't want to show me. So maybe... Maybe that's why. They do know what they make. But I've seen some little baby ones. There are some little ones out there. yeah Oh my gosh, guess
First-time Anal Experience Discussion
00:27:10
Speaker
what? I waited just to tell you this on the podcast. Guess what I tried in the bedroom for my very first time last week.
00:27:23
Speaker
Yes. How did you know? Damn it. That wasn't very, don't know i'm really surprised I don't I mean, I, I think I guess because you were like telling me and I've obviously had a lot of anal sex. I didn't know you had never tried anal sex. I haven't. I think I know. I didn't. what is you Um, I was, I think I'm going to maybe have to give it a couple more times to be fair. I thought it was going to be painful or like that the pain was going to last or like I was going to be sore after. Oh yes. And I wasn't at all. Um, did you, did you use like a dildo or anything before to like prepare yourself? Nope. But we were a little, we had a had a few drinks.
00:28:18
Speaker
and had a lot of lube and no um it was the weekend before the cruise and we went out with a couple that we had met you know so like i never fucking drink and i can just i really don't i know it sounds like this week that i do but um so yeah just like a few drinks feeling fucking good and it just randomly like we were we had probably been having sex for like 10 or 15 minutes with like not even counting foreplay and um he randomly just asked me but I think we had been like talking about it it's kind of always a joke because like
00:29:07
Speaker
There's no reason that I've not tried it. The only time, but the only experience I have with it is like two times that someone um just accidentally slipped it in and oh my god that fucking hurt so fucking bad yeah and you're not retroation yeah and it was accidents i think well my husband accidentally did it one time it hurt like fuck like we were fucking hard and that shit just went like full
00:29:48
Speaker
power into my butt but also it's really this is not well like not funny haha but like funny odd that um i i have some kind of trauma around my butt and I don't think it's necessarily like anything sexual um but I've I've my okay my family used to like pick at me because they had never heard me fart like what kind of person am I but in the last couple years when I've like started to really work on all my fucking trauma and stuff and um
00:30:33
Speaker
Yeah, so now I finally fart. Like, that's fucking weird. Did you actually not fart, or did you just keep it a secret? I actually, like, really pretty much didn't fart. And even now, I do not have loud farts, and I can't control that, you know? Like, I think I must have... ah something. Who the fuck knows why I was like that? but it was It might just be your body, I mean... Maybe. I think I also... I think it was something that was really embarrassing so I must have like... I think I trained my body to do that. Maybe. You know what I'm saying? yeah And now I think I'm like loosening back up.
00:31:26
Speaker
And then sometimes I'm farting and they're like little toots. I have so, so much gas naturally. Everybody in my family does all my siblings. It's like, like my boyfriend makes fun of me because I like fart all. the time because I can't help it I fart like twice as much as the average person yeah I think I was just like the opposite but like yeah I mean my family I don't think they mention it anymore but like for my mother father brother and sister to have never heard me fart ever to me because me and my family have fart constantly well mine do too it's the thing it's like they don't give a fuck
00:32:10
Speaker
kind of weird. Who am I? But yeah, so that really doesn't have much to do with if you just don't fart and don't fart that maybe not. But one time I was getting a craniosacral massage. Do you know what that is? We're like, where they work on like the fluids in your brain, but it also is like all throughout your body in really weird spots like right here. I don't know. It's pretty fucking cool. But this lady, um she could she told me she was like when it also helps like releasing trauma from your body somehow with like nothing more but the pressure of i think they say like a quarter
00:33:00
Speaker
if it like a quarter was laying on your body. Anyway, so she was like, okay, I just want to tell you this weird thing that like, when I'm working on your body, when I'm moving something, you'll hear um a stomach rumble. I was like, okay. And she was like, and every once in a while I just get these random weird like visions or like things I feel like I need to tell you. I was like, okay. fine um whatever so like she was working on me her stomach started grumbling she was like she's like I don't really know if I should tell you this but like this is what keeps coming up she was like I just feel like I need to tell you that one time when I was a baby
00:33:51
Speaker
And I was in diapers that like her brother or cousin, an older cousin or sibling, like was sitting there while her mom had turned her back on her with her diaper off. And that other kid had stuck a
00:34:16
Speaker
hanger like a close hanger up her butt like as a baby and then that had like traumatized her you know and like she was like i don't know why i'm supposed to tell you this but i Am and like I was like, oh my god, and I've always known I to be fair like that's another thing too. I've always felt like Holy fuck. I've got some weird thing going on with like my butt And like no anal sex No tutoring like I've always known you know, I and like that motherfucker told me that and like i just was like what the fuck and like started like crying a little bit actually so like who who knows i think things like that
00:35:09
Speaker
happen, you know, I don't know. That was fucking like, I wish I would have had a better message than that. Yeah. Um, that's horrible. and i and i you said Yeah, you got to work on your, your butt. Well, maybe the anal sex is good then. I know. I mean, give you know, a couple more times, but yeah, you know, if you don't like it, you don't like it. If you want to, obviously. yeah i don't you know what is funny i know a lot more about anal sex if like with the prostate so i don't really know like i don't know is it supposed to feel good with women i need to ask people yeah
00:35:56
Speaker
ah some dance i'm sure I mean, obviously some women like it. Yeah, true. Actually, I had a really good friend that used to be able to come from anal. um So yeah, it must. But yeah, so I just wanted to tell you that. Tell the whole world. Yeah. Who knows? I'll definitely try it, you know, a time or two. But yeah, it might just not be for me. It's not for everybody. I don't like sucking dick. I just don't like it. Yeah, it hurts. I have a really fucking little mouth. Me too. Yeah, I feel like it's like boring to me. Yeah. I'll do it like for fun to like help my boy, you know, cause I guess my boyfriend like, honestly, he knows I don't like to do it. So he doesn't really. Yeah. Yeah. I actually, you know what else?
Exploring Sexual Preferences
00:36:51
Speaker
I don't, I'm getting,
00:36:54
Speaker
more and more like into like sucking dick and stuff but um yeah i was just i think even before sex work i was just so shy about some things around sex and yeah i'm just now starting to like open up more and more about it and it's fucking fun but yeah like if i don't like it then
00:37:26
Speaker
move on but yeah yeah yeah it definitely helps to be open about something if the if the guy with the panties is listening like just be open about it man but I mean I mean I guess it can you know be embarrassing but so many people have really weird way stranger fetishes and kinks yeah you know i come to that because i was always embarrassed by mine because i like cause i like to wear panties not like i don't like to like steal different people or anything but like i told my boyfriend it's like and then i think that i'm like none of my there doesn't care my friends don't give a shit they're not gonna like judge me because i like to wear panties if anything they're gonna support me be like great
00:38:12
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you know, wear panties all you want, you know what I mean? Like, yeah and and by, and just because it's, because any sort of like kink or anything really that you're, I feel like you're ashamed about in my experience, even if it's not like a sexual kink, if you keep it, all you're going to do is just like dote on it and not dote on it, but like just, you know, think about it and yeah yeah and obsess over it. Then when you like open up about it, in my experience, and I've opened up about stuff like that, it's like, It's like a weight is lifted off my shoulders. I'm like, I'm not, I'm not hiding anything. Yeah. You know, anymore. Yeah. Especially when it's like your partner and you're talking about sexuality and like what gets you off and stuff. Yeah. Yeah. But people really, really are really scared. It's really hard to be vulnerable though. I think we've talked about that a whole lot, but it is.
00:39:11
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it takes practice but yeah i would definitely like to hear that guy's side of the story i'm definitely gonna keep that one saved the one about the panties i would love to hear an update god i think it's really fucking great when sometimes the person that it's about will find it and will come that would be great because i don't know i'm just not 100 believe in, you know, that the girl's side of the story. I think there's a little bit more to it. I've got one more for y'all today.
Perceptions on Sex Duration and Listener Experiences
00:39:59
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His feed stopped working. so
00:40:05
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he had a son off for tonight, but I've got one more for you. This was in No a Stupid Questions, and it is called, How Long Do Man Last in Bed Really? Everywhere on the internet says the average is around five minutes, or three to seven, five to ten. You get the idea. Based on my limited experience, only been with three grand guys, it's usually well over half an hour. And it's taken an hour twice with the guy I'm currently with. So three to five minutes seems insane to me.
00:40:47
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10 to 15 seems way more ideal, but what the hell? Am I doing something wrong? LOL. Edit to clarify, I'm talking about only PIV, which is penis in vagina, for both what the articles I'm finding say and what my experience has been. Holy fuck.
00:41:16
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i I don't know. What do y'all think? I think I get really fucking tired of it sometimes if it's over 30 minutes. Just actual penetration now. If we're having a damn good day, a sex day, like I like to call it, then hell yeah, with the floor play and everything else, give me a good hour long. But yeah, I definitely do not know a lot of people that can go for 30 minutes to an hour. And I would.
00:42:01
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say that three to ten minutes is average. What do you all think out there? Hmm? I want to hear in the comments or over on my twitter. What the fuck y'all think? Or what do you think is the perfect length of time? The amount of time? Hmm? or you can comment on any of the other stories we have talked about today, or you can congratulate me.
00:42:35
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Oh, I'm losing my annual virginity. And pump me up. If y'all want to see some annual contents, wouldn't that be hot, huh? Thanks so much, y'all, for listening. You know I fucking appreciate it. Don't forget to just subscribe, follow, meet and peep, and I'll see you next time, fuckers. Bye!
00:43:04
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so